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Berita on healing from her marriage, exploring genres, and dealing with her ex-husband Nota Baloyi

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  • Berita on healing from her marriage, exploring genres, and dealing with her ex-husband Nota Baloyi - 959 Breakfast with Dineo Ranaka and Sol Phenduka
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    Video by: Cherryl Mojapelo

КОМЕНТАРІ • 577

  • @nizasikazwe862
    @nizasikazwe862 Рік тому +51

    DAMN...This woman oozes natural beauty, femininity & peace... I`m gonna marry someone like her...

  • @mupza04
    @mupza04 Рік тому +113

    Berita & Msaki r both beautiful souls....always would love an album frm both of them on it.....#soulful💯🔥

  • @Nozie33
    @Nozie33 Рік тому +22

    Shout out to me for pulling myself out of a toxic relationship… thanks Berita for the inspiration ❤❤

  • @urbanskhotheni4173
    @urbanskhotheni4173 Рік тому +63

    I'm sure Nota will be reading these comments...I pray that you find peace within yourself my brother...and to Berita..I'm happy that your are finding your happiness my sister. Remember..there was a time when you two didn't know each other..so therefore both yall can move on and be content with that..coz you don't revolve around each other.

    • @Bheki_Sibeko
      @Bheki_Sibeko Рік тому

      You already know, he will be sipping though every word

    • @zainabinti5170
      @zainabinti5170 Рік тому

      😅🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

  • @asandakhathi
    @asandakhathi Рік тому +25

    Berita is soooooo gorgeous and out of Notas league. That's why he is so mad at her for leaving. He knows that her finding a better man is inevitable and he can't stand it because it only confirms how he views himself

  • @mziwandilendlovu3895
    @mziwandilendlovu3895 Рік тому +49

    So happy she's bouncing back. Can't believe she was married to such a Sicefe. And the new song is fire

  • @saphomjiwu8828
    @saphomjiwu8828 Рік тому +38

    She’s one of the most beautiful, humble, peaceful, respectful, warm women you’ll ever find

  • @khishermarais8091
    @khishermarais8091 Рік тому +27

    She's so soft and yet so firm , I love that she trust herself in where she is and going

  • @zenzomasuku723
    @zenzomasuku723 Рік тому +10

    My beautiful sister from my beautiful country Zimbabwe.Africans we are 1 especially Southern African people.

  • @bonganirsibanda4347
    @bonganirsibanda4347 Рік тому +16

    I know her personally, humble, beautiful, peaceful, manners... Been like that ever since she was very young...

  • @lucricia_mokgolo
    @lucricia_mokgolo Рік тому +70

    Nota had lost a gem indeed! Such a beautiful wife. Such a humble soul.😊

    • @jobesithole5590
      @jobesithole5590 Рік тому +5

      A humble soul who was no " match " for her ex husband. Oh well, but then again she has conceded in this interview naivety played a key role when she jumped into marriage. Women ( and men alike ) must learn from such an experience. Don't jump into marriage without knowing someone.

    • @mprstmprst9288
      @mprstmprst9288 Рік тому +12

      Lol. Nota still refers to her as MY WIFE

    • @thatotlhowe
      @thatotlhowe Рік тому +1

      @@mprstmprst9288 His delusional that one lol

    • @valentineisraelshabangu4069
      @valentineisraelshabangu4069 Рік тому +2

      ​@review za how can you tell us ?

    • @thabomolautsi
      @thabomolautsi Рік тому

      ​@@mprstmprst9288lol

  • @nimrodshilaluke9848
    @nimrodshilaluke9848 Рік тому +39

    Big up to her for gaining strength to leave an abusive relationship... it's tricky for most ladies to finally make up their minds to leave their abusive marriages

  • @Tshegomlp
    @Tshegomlp Рік тому +7

    Berita's got that pure soul, you cannot kill her joy, or put out her spark.

  • @rosecroco2787
    @rosecroco2787 Рік тому +5

    My Zimbabwean sister 🙂 may God guide you and protect you and your family.luv from canada 👌

  • @tidodlamini
    @tidodlamini Рік тому +24

    Ugh Man. Thank You For Doing This For Her. That Man Has Dented Her Image, But In Just 5 Minutes We All Get To Hear and Empathize With Her Side of The Story. I Wish Her Well In Bouncing Back!

  • @khrisnjokwana
    @khrisnjokwana Рік тому +19

    She’s got such a soulful, peaceful, loving spirit ✨

  • @sithabilekhomo5364
    @sithabilekhomo5364 Рік тому +16

    I am happy this beautiful peaceful soul does not share a child with Notha..God is amazing.

  • @buildingphase9712
    @buildingphase9712 Рік тому +34

    We love you Berita!!! Dineo is an amazing presentor, Sol is great too!!

  • @bigthangz5489
    @bigthangz5489 Рік тому +13

    EXACTLY..... There was Berita before Nota.....
    im glad she spoke & laid things in her words

  • @dockiesiwela9769
    @dockiesiwela9769 Рік тому +26

    Love you Berita❤️
    Dineo and Sol you handled Berita like the Queen she is
    Thank you guys
    That was an awesome decoding
    If l was in SA would def be attending on Sunday👌👌👌

  • @WadaMaripe
    @WadaMaripe Рік тому +10

    I love love Berita🥰🥰🥰❤️
    Her music is spiritual,healing and soothing🥺🥺🥺God sent✨

  • @Drawingboredi
    @Drawingboredi Рік тому +15

    What a calm and well articulated interview. There's so much accountability. Love it.

  • @champobwalya3514
    @champobwalya3514 Рік тому +15

    An absolute gem,she’s so beautiful,i like how calm she is,no doubt she came from a functional home,am so proud of her for choosing HER,go guuuurrrrrlllll,❤️🇿🇲

  • @ruvimbochatira2748
    @ruvimbochatira2748 Рік тому +9

    It's good to have this sweet soft soulful beautiful queen back

  • @Missave2
    @Missave2 Рік тому +31

    Nota is busy watching this over and over punching the air 😂

    • @aneledraai3910
      @aneledraai3910 Рік тому

      😂😂

    • @chronikhavok3407
      @chronikhavok3407 Рік тому

      True and he reads all comments he's heading for disaster

    • @ShuvaiAprilzw
      @ShuvaiAprilzw Рік тому +1

      This is spot on, funny as hell but spot on. 😂😂😂😂😂. Haibo ! Nota is too much even now his recent interviews , he’s not doing well mentally.

  • @ziyandaduka8798
    @ziyandaduka8798 Рік тому +14

    Ooh Gugu I'm so happy that you've got your FREEDOM again. Thanks for sharing your story my love. I'm glad you're BACK...I love you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @QueenofAfrica__786
    @QueenofAfrica__786 Рік тому +8

    Thank you to bring my Berita in your studio....she's so beautiful 💗 may God keep you safe and be happy my gal

  • @UpJumpsDaParty
    @UpJumpsDaParty Рік тому +12

    True that your voice can change depending on the season of your life that you are going through. The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill was produced during a time when she was pregnant. That vocal performance from that period in her life remains golden.

  • @anitatumeka1466
    @anitatumeka1466 Рік тому +24

    I respect Berita and I understand what she went through ♥️

  • @kamogelontsewa58
    @kamogelontsewa58 Рік тому +15

    Berita is so beautiful and soft spoken

  • @mthokozisimagagula
    @mthokozisimagagula Рік тому +7

    She sounds good, very self aware... wishing her the best in life...

  • @urbanskhotheni4173
    @urbanskhotheni4173 Рік тому +25

    To apologize genuinely is a strength..but more so..to introspect; realise your mistakes and work to become a better version of yourself with each day that comes. Walk this earth knowing that being alive is a blessing..that you are no better than the next person..be humble...walk tall by not standing on other peoples shoulders but on good values that make others value you for the good that you are. That's my two cents to Nota.

  • @nondumisodlamini8939
    @nondumisodlamini8939 Рік тому +31

    Her and Nota are definitely oil and water she’s too level headed and exudes this calm peaceful energy 🫶🏾whereas Nota is a hot head ready to go 😮 wonder how he swindled her heart 😭😂

    • @mthunzimhlongo660
      @mthunzimhlongo660 Рік тому +2

      You don't know how they were whilst they were together

  • @mwelase991
    @mwelase991 Рік тому +5

    When she proudly said she's MaKhumalo, that was it for me..

  • @thatomagodi7013
    @thatomagodi7013 Рік тому +9

    Dineo is beautiful in and out, I don’t care what you guys say❤

  • @ceciliangobeni1475
    @ceciliangobeni1475 Рік тому +17

    What a beautiful talented lady😍 I like her calm demeanor. I'm not advocating for Nota in any way but those who know him personally will attest to his great attributes of what a kind, thoughtful,helpful, giving , smart, visionary... he is. But there's something wrong with him, I think it's spiritual. The anger and verbal diarrhea spoils everything. Have you ever come across a genius who's brilliancy works against them? A person who has archieved a lot in life and blessed in so many ways but they are their own enemy? That's Nota for you. Swa Nota I swilo swa vanhu. U thlarihe ngopfu mara una swilo🙆🏽‍♀️

    • @goodnessmosehla8362
      @goodnessmosehla8362 Рік тому +3

      Shame man, aninwutivi naku nwutiva Nota, but how you said this, my dear i dated someone whome i can say he is like Nota, so blessed very intelligent but yey nwana mhan you wouldn't want to be with him

  • @diatlehokolisang84
    @diatlehokolisang84 Рік тому +2

    Berita is such a beautiful person ❤️. Truly wish her all the best in her future endeavors.

  • @orefilemalebo4173
    @orefilemalebo4173 Рік тому +4

    I think as Africans we do not talk about narcissism enough. I could tell that Nota is a narcissist from the time I could hear him talk. These people are dangerous I left my narcissistic ex and till this day he still harasses me through co-parenting. Berita is right about it. I love her and always will love her.

  • @pazowpazow9932
    @pazowpazow9932 Рік тому +8

    She's soo sweet and calm🥺

  • @khulisomashau578
    @khulisomashau578 Рік тому +27

    Berita is such a beautiful soul. So happy you found the courage to get up and leave. ❤❤

    • @nomahope3182
      @nomahope3182 Рік тому +2

      But Nota was acting as if they are together on the Penuel Show.

    • @fjhkerwoiero00
      @fjhkerwoiero00 Рік тому

      @@nomahope3182 Nota is a psychotic sociopath! 🤔🥳

    • @kamogelontsewa58
      @kamogelontsewa58 Рік тому +1

      @@nomahope3182 I was so shocked when I was watching this interview because I was watching his interview with Penuel a few days ago and he was acting as though they’re still together 😳

    • @nomahope3182
      @nomahope3182 Рік тому

      @@kamogelontsewa58 Exactly. Nota is paranoid.

    • @khulisomashau578
      @khulisomashau578 Рік тому

      He’s delusional 😂😂

  • @nomasontomthimkhulu5875
    @nomasontomthimkhulu5875 Рік тому +27

    Felt like Berita was talking about my Ex..Geez the world is so cruel to the Soft and Vulnerable

  • @sport_is_culture9864
    @sport_is_culture9864 Рік тому +5

    Thanks to the channel for introducing me and my gwinya to such an amazing talented singer

  • @fjhkerwoiero00
    @fjhkerwoiero00 Рік тому +6

    What a beautiful survivor & how much we love her! That mean abuser couldn't destroy her! Abusers are cowards by nature! 🤔🥳

  • @wespeakthetruthhere7413
    @wespeakthetruthhere7413 Рік тому +2

    She is so, so beautiful. Can’t believe Nota had all this and blew it.

  • @ignetiusrapelwana2208
    @ignetiusrapelwana2208 Рік тому +19

    Sol is such a dope human being.

  • @movhapenalramovha3218
    @movhapenalramovha3218 Рік тому +10

    Berita is so calm, i wonder how she survived her Marriage 😣

    • @sibongilemakganye6830
      @sibongilemakganye6830 Рік тому

      I wish I knew how to explain it but it starts with giving your partner 2nd chances and many more second chances until you learn to live with this monster. Also because the abuse is not on a daily basis and because women just love man, it's a lot but for a woman to leave, they tried it all

  • @sinencebamxhego1267
    @sinencebamxhego1267 Рік тому +2

    The difficult part about narcissism is that, u will never understand if u hv never been to a narcissist relationship, it takes away a lot from u, ur confidence ur self esteem, the shame and anxiety, u were lucky to get out very early

  • @siphiwemalaza2460
    @siphiwemalaza2460 Рік тому +16

    Just on the other interview Nota made it sounds like they got back together🤡.... Fly high my sister your are such a talent💐

    • @thamsanqazulu3753
      @thamsanqazulu3753 Рік тому +6

      I remember that interview and I was so disappointed then I realized that Nota is a lier 🤣🤣

    • @siphiwemalaza2460
      @siphiwemalaza2460 Рік тому +3

      I'm defeated ngo Nota 🙄 weMageba. And l don't nkow if you saw the episode of the hustlers corner where he says he was cleared from a psychiatric hospital, he deceived them good ngeke phela😳

    • @sibahlezembe9196
      @sibahlezembe9196 Рік тому +1

      He needs some help🤡

    • @kha2slamza670
      @kha2slamza670 Рік тому +3

      You guys still take that lunatic Nota serious? Lol.
      I have stopped watching anything that has NOTA cause dude is crazy and social media has consumed him, I don't see him coming back from that one.

  • @polotsiphahladira1166
    @polotsiphahladira1166 Рік тому +9

    Berita is such a beautiful soul ❤

  • @baNico23
    @baNico23 Рік тому +22

    she is a strong woman to produce more good music whilst dealing with that Narcissistic psycho of a wannabe music mogul

    • @fjhkerwoiero00
      @fjhkerwoiero00 Рік тому +3

      What he said about AKA after his was killed during his rants left me dumbfounded! " They killed my biggest employee"!! Surely Kiernan & his parents they were NOT aware of such! 🙀

  • @KimmyR12
    @KimmyR12 Рік тому +3

    Her vocals are on another level, so pure and so lovable

  • @zoejeza2804
    @zoejeza2804 Рік тому +7

    I love Berita. Ngathi singabazitshomi...ndithanda umoya wakhe mann. ❤️💕

  • @tamara40
    @tamara40 Рік тому +5

    She is glowing looking good l am happy for her we here for Berita

  • @IngiiMaggs
    @IngiiMaggs Рік тому +6

    Berita is such a beautiful soul ,inside out!

  • @khulekaninyuswa721
    @khulekaninyuswa721 Рік тому +19

    Lol "Sim Dope got that scar climbing a tree with me"😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @prisca2blessedxoli662
    @prisca2blessedxoli662 Рік тому +20

    She seems like such a beautiful soul

  • @officialsphelelewandile
    @officialsphelelewandile Рік тому +8

    That "The real Authority" comment by Sol was just 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @keletsomokone2663
    @keletsomokone2663 Рік тому +50

    Nota is going to go on an abusive rant for the whole weekend🤦‍♀️..... Lord take his phone🙏

  • @bathandwadaniels2464
    @bathandwadaniels2464 Рік тому +1

    Hey Berita, I last saw you in 2019 at Miss Eastern Cape event in EL. You're such a beautiful soul. Packing and leaving an abusive marriage, takes courage. You did well, I also did the same...

  • @zimasancoliwe
    @zimasancoliwe Рік тому +12

    I am so proud of her❤
    We love you❤

  • @nomafasinetile3857
    @nomafasinetile3857 Рік тому +3

    I'm so happy that Dineo did this interview not Sammy T. Berita is looking so fine, glowing and happy. I like this for you sis. We will definitely see you in Gqeberha soon. 🥰

  • @gotdamnimin
    @gotdamnimin Рік тому +6

    Nota: I bought her that guitar and it comes from overseas, if you look inside it has both of our names engraved.

  • @happyseroke2478
    @happyseroke2478 Рік тому +2

    The way she looked at both sol and dineo when that Fatima song plays ....it’s so worrying ...it’s like she’s looking for something through their reaction👀👀👀

  • @bonolomfikwe8810
    @bonolomfikwe8810 Рік тому +11

    I have a new crush now 😍😍Berita is amazing..i love her soul

  • @brandycollie4313
    @brandycollie4313 Рік тому +1

    It's refreshing hearing you, your voice, your side, your true expressio n...Kudala sibona ukuthi uyahlanya lomunto loya

  • @elibethzen7518
    @elibethzen7518 Рік тому +6

    Wow please take this to Podcast and Chill with MacG. This was too short.

  • @dineosheilathenga4688
    @dineosheilathenga4688 Рік тому +3

    Nota tried to keep this Gem away from the world, beautiful soul ❤

  • @zuzilezungu5899
    @zuzilezungu5899 Рік тому +4

    Finally, I got to understand and grasp the foreign strange street reception : "King Shaka airport" vibes 🙌 👌 I have been receiving them after I declared self-love journey 😀 😄 😅

  • @zee484
    @zee484 Рік тому +10

    She’s so adorable 🥰 yathandeka maan. ❤

  • @coolbeanz9830
    @coolbeanz9830 Рік тому +27

    No wonder Nota is going crazy, Berita is a catch. Beautiful, graceful, talented n well spoken- I would be mad too if she left me

  • @phillipdube2016
    @phillipdube2016 Рік тому +2

    She's beautiful and seems to be humble, her ex has lost

  • @baNico23
    @baNico23 Рік тому +9

    N Baloyi:- i composed all her songs even mixing, mastering and publishing

  • @thabisilekhondlo1336
    @thabisilekhondlo1336 Рік тому

    When Berita says...I am focusing on myself...that line is a game changer. Well done nkosazane

  • @trustingnobody628
    @trustingnobody628 Рік тому +1

    In 2029 she was in East London. That's the reason she speaks Xhosa well. Mntanase khaya; mntase. Ndi.... But she's Ndebele. Utata'm. That's Xhosa. She did not mention other words. I'm using them to find her language.

  • @arnoldlawrence3465
    @arnoldlawrence3465 Рік тому +35

    Sol didnt speak much he definitely knew Nota was gonna respond to whatever that he may have said 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @thabomolautsi
      @thabomolautsi Рік тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣akere.

    • @ihashielingapendiwe6765
      @ihashielingapendiwe6765 Рік тому +1

      True😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @fjhkerwoiero00
      @fjhkerwoiero00 Рік тому

      @@thabomolautsi igwala labantu shem u Sol! 😭😹

    • @baNico23
      @baNico23 Рік тому

      U wouldn't want to speak ill things about our goat

    • @tamara40
      @tamara40 Рік тому +2

      That's was a strategy for him l don't blame him

  • @ihashielingapendiwe6765
    @ihashielingapendiwe6765 Рік тому +4

    Love you Gugu🔥🔥 please continue giving us beautiful music…I pray one day I get to do a song with you

  • @siviwekulu6996
    @siviwekulu6996 Рік тому +6

    Yhoo! She's beautiful ngaphandle nangaphakathi.

  • @zusipejobe-fw6qk
    @zusipejobe-fw6qk Рік тому +1

    Such a sweet heart yhooo, Goodluck my sister. U r speaking from better place you really are being healed

  • @zuzuh5755
    @zuzuh5755 Рік тому +8

    Much love for Berita, she has been thru the most shame!

  • @Mr300millz
    @Mr300millz Рік тому +4

    She's such a beautiful soul

  • @thamsanqazulu3753
    @thamsanqazulu3753 Рік тому +4

    Am watching this interview with a smile S/o to maKhumalo

  • @munangiwaC
    @munangiwaC Рік тому +19

    Nota about to have a field day after he watch this interview 😂😂😂

  • @pamelakamupingene891
    @pamelakamupingene891 Рік тому +9

    If indeed it is narcissistic abuse like she mentioned she should be prepared for the backlash, because come it will come. First it will be harassing (hoovering) because maybe he feels there is still hope he might get you back, but once he sees that you are determined he will try to destroy you, beginning with your reputation.

    • @robbylebotha
      @robbylebotha Рік тому

      You're late, he's been doing that throughout 2022

    • @pathiswapiyose4518
      @pathiswapiyose4518 Рік тому

      Yhooo abusers are good in tainting your reputation if you flee

  • @zamandlovu8515
    @zamandlovu8515 Рік тому +5

    She's such a beautiful human. It flows from inside!

  • @sindisodhlamini463
    @sindisodhlamini463 Рік тому +4

    Such a beautiful soul, wish l could protect her from that punk , what is he anyway, keep your head up maKhums

  • @thamsanqazulu3753
    @thamsanqazulu3753 Рік тому +2

    She's not beautiful out side only she's beautiful inside & her beautiful voice I love Gugulethu so much 🥰

  • @ntombamayirhamemke5833
    @ntombamayirhamemke5833 Рік тому +5

    Bless Berita's Soul

  • @thobilen
    @thobilen Рік тому +13

    I notice the producers are struggling with minimising the disconnect between the 2 excellent presenters. My opion would be to put 1 presenter in charge per interview and they can alternate with their given responsibilities at the time, meaning one would head the interview the other to support, and vice versa when the other handles a different interview. Please try it and see the spark that would come out from Sol Phenduka, a great presenter but under utlisided here. Cheers.

    • @fjhkerwoiero00
      @fjhkerwoiero00 Рік тому +2

      At the moment is more like a Head Mistress & Pupil situation! It's quite cringy! 😭😹

    • @KhumaloWorldwide
      @KhumaloWorldwide Рік тому +4

      Sol is like a dead fish here it's so embarrassing.

    • @MissMotshabi
      @MissMotshabi Рік тому +1

      Dineo acts like it's her show alone

    • @siphakamisebetela1464
      @siphakamisebetela1464 Рік тому

      This makes more sense

  • @boitumelogumede
    @boitumelogumede Рік тому

    I’m so grateful that she is courageous to share her story with so much grace and truth. ♥️♥️♥️

  • @nk1332
    @nk1332 Рік тому +1

    Awesome that you are expanding. We love you maps and we love you Berita

  • @pathiswapiyose4518
    @pathiswapiyose4518 Рік тому +4

    Love you Gugu you are a beautiful soul, and some of us relate to your story, athough we are not celebrities, we were once the talk of the town when marriage ended. An ex blacklisting, humiliating, and destroying your reputation as an individual is such a shock, and it hurts ,drains and left you feeling naked . The cruelty needs you to pick up the pieces , held your head high which is not easy but needs your will power. Remembering that this person did not make you, you were once Berita without him, and you are still Berita. All the best sisi, I like you xa uthetha iSiXhosa, there are Xhosas in Zimbabwe kaloku. Love you big time Dali, you don't owe anyone any explanation. The best medicine is to forgive yourself knowing that you are not perfect and learn to love yourself after disappointment . Umhle sisi from inside preach that to yourself

  • @siba92
    @siba92 Рік тому +12

    It doesn't take much to realize that nota is toxic.. I don't understand why these podcasts still invite him... It's crazy how they enabling him and giving him platform to speak. Dj Sbu and them, please do better!

  • @loyisothathu8954
    @loyisothathu8954 Рік тому +3

    NOTA BALOYI HAS NEVER BEATEN A WOMAN and still his being called an ABUSER naaa i dont see nota being that type of guy to be honest she is embarrased of his social media rants this girl is not telling the whole truth

    • @SthandwaM
      @SthandwaM Рік тому

      *sigh* Please go and educate yourself about the different forms in which abuse comes. Your comment is ignorant and, frankly, embarrassing.

  • @zaka3956
    @zaka3956 Рік тому +2

    This girl is beautiful and very humble

  • @UpJumpsDaParty
    @UpJumpsDaParty Рік тому +3

    The song Mwana wa Amai remains a classic, a favourite and a blessing. Not many (if any) artist were fortunate enaought to feature Oliver Mtukudzi and Hugh Masekela simultaneously on one song. As fate would have it, they were to later leave this world one year apart.

  • @civilsocietymediasa988
    @civilsocietymediasa988 4 місяці тому

    Don't shame African men. We all have our own challenges. Nota is straight forward. He speaks truth as is.❤❤

  • @thembalihleradebe6242
    @thembalihleradebe6242 Рік тому +11

    Bafethu Nota lost a lady of high calibre,ihlanya leliya

  • @zuzuh5755
    @zuzuh5755 Рік тому +4

    Berita is so beautiful 😍, Yooh Nouta is a luza

  • @michellemoreana1938
    @michellemoreana1938 Рік тому +5

    She is so beautiful 😍😍😍

  • @murraymoyo6771
    @murraymoyo6771 Рік тому +5

    Such level of humility ur amazing Berita