All scripture on this issue should be taken into account, so one does not end in error. Keeping in mind that marriage is not slavery; and what occurred between the Israelites and Yahweh (due to the Israelites) prior to the Gentiles being grafted in. Blessings~
Amen!! There are no biblical grounds for divorce. Adultry was under the Messianic Law, and it was applied to uncleanness of the woman - meaning that she was not a virgin. This was mentioned in Matthew bc he was speaking to the Jewish people. He was speaking according to their law. It was the betrothal period before the marriage. We are no longer under Messianic Law. Christ set us free. As far as the unsaved spouse, yes, they can leave. That speaks of separation, not divorce. Any person who is divorced and marries another person is an adulterer and causes the new spouse to be an adulterer. If you have sex outside your marriage, you are an adulterer. God does not recognize divorce. Marrige is a covenant, not a contract. Once one spouse dies, the covenant is broken, and they are free to remarry.
@Beautybartrend. Yes, and once again, Jesus was speaking to the Jewish people. The women were not regarded highly - in fact, the custom was the brides parents would keep the part of the sheet with the blood to prove she was a virgin. If a man learns she had been unfaithful during the betrothal, he would divorce her. Just as Joseph, learning about Mary becoming pregnant, thought to divorce her quietly. This was before their actual marriage.
You know what the Bible says. This speaker is lying to you. If a man divorces his wife except for the cause of adultery and marry another, he causes her to commit adultery. This goes for any persons that divorce without it being for the cause of adultery. This is hard to handle, but it is true. Matthew 19 chapter verses 3-12. Marriage was from the beginning with Adam and Eve. God put the rules in place, and NOT man.
PLEASE do NOT stay in an abusive marriage just because you are Catholic! I have my annulment. My story(ies) is in the Catholic comments. You are risking the health of your children as well as your health and sanity!
@@lukamartha3229He is remarried! There wasn't a marriage! At the alter he didn't tell the truth! He HAD reservations! He'd told his brother (when told that he didn't have to go through it) "mom and dad need grandchildren". The honeymoon was a nightmare. Do you really think that I didn't try everything?! Oh...I didn't pray enough! Again it's (the woman's) my fault! I was choked, mocked, yelled at daily and called foul names.. on n on. You try that for almost two decades.
@@tereseczimbal8099 you are catholic, then its the church who has the authority to decide on your divorce and any remarriage. There a lot of people here misapplying the Lords words playing devils advocate. Under what authority given in Bible by Jesus Christ does any partner have to violently abuse wife or husband and or children in any form or commit the act of fornication or forbid a person from practicing their faith as a catholic? Do you think God answers such a persons prayers? Is that person even considered a proper spouse or christian or even civil human being? Any church or person taking the name of christ and justifying abuse for the sake of marriage is not a christian or shepherd of God they are most likely from a cult. Or speaking without church authority. In catholicism and christianity we have a practice called social justice. Its what got Jesus in a lot of trouble with evil.doers. Keep close to God and keep strong, soon those accusing you will have to get a life and focus on their own sins. God bless you
@@lukamartha3229 Your comment is religious and legalistic. G-d's living word; all that He said on this matter, is what Christians live by. We don't live by man-made religions and man's words/opinions. It takes reading all the scriptures on this topic, so a person does not end in error. G-d did not make marriage to be used as a form of slavery.
I have a friend divorcing after 35yrs of marriage. Husband is a narcissist and my friend stayed until the kids were grown and because she didn't believe in divorce and she didn't want to be like her parents. they went to counseling together and individually well she went by herself thinking maybe it was her and she needed to change her outlook. Nothing worked. She is 57 and sadly is making the painful but necessary decision to leave. The husband for his part said that it was her alone and the issues were never him. He doesn't see where he needs to compromise or change. He would make excuses for his broken promises and mind games he played making her feel insecure and crazy. I asked her if she is hoping to find love and maybe marriage again. She responded "no going forward I am living for me. I dont want to deal with another man's drama and baggage. I dont have the energy for that anymore."
my husband went through our bank accounts and caused our home to be foreclosed. I left him and my father said because I didn't divorce based on adultery if I remarried I committed adultery. I said how is that possible when he neglected our finances and was a liar.
He NO pastor just an idiot on his opinion and not scripture leave him he wil have a wake up call one day dwcwiving thousands. Leading his flock astray.
Many of you are giving responses according to religion but what all does the living word of G-d "actually"say on the topic of marriage and remarriage. What did Jesus say to the women at the well and what happened between the Israelites and G-d?
2 Timothy 4:3-4 “For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; and they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.”
@@stevenjones-dl9mg I would imagine him like I would imagine Zeus, Poseidon, Brahma, Vishnu, etc. However none of these gods including the Christian god have any concrete evidence backing it up. It’s all fantasy and fairytales my friend.
Mark 10:2-12 KJV [2] And the Pharisees came to him, and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? tempting him. [3] And he answered and said unto them, What did Moses command you? [4] And they said, Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away. [5] And Jesus answered and said unto them, For the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept. [6] But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. [7] For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; [8] and they twain shall be ONE FLESH: so then they are no more twain, but ONE FLESH. [9] What therefore God hath joined together, let NOT man put asunder. [10] And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. [11] And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. [12] And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery. Romans 7:1-3 KJV [1] Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he LIVETH? [2] For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he LIVETH; but if the husband be DEAD, she is loosed from the law of her husband. [3] So then if, while her husband LIVETH, she be married to another man, she shall be called an ADULTERESS: but if her husband be DEAD, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man. 1 Corinthians 7:1-2 KJV [1] Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. [2] Nevertheless, to AVOID FORNICATION, let every man have his OWN wife, and let every woman have her OWN husband. [10] And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: [11] but and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let NOT the husband put away his wife. [39] The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband LIVETH; but if her husband be DEAD, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord. Malachi 2:13-16 KJV [13] And this have ye done again, covering the altar of the LORD with tears, with weeping, and with crying out, insomuch that he regardeth not the offering any more, or receiveth it with good will at your hand. [14] Yet ye say, Wherefore? Because the LORD hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy companion, and the wife of thy COVENANT. [15] And did not he make ONE? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore ONE? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth. [16] For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he HATETH putting away (divorce): for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously. Luke 16:14-18 KJV [14] And the Pharisees also, who were covetous, heard all these things: and they derided him. [15] And he said unto them, Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God. [16] The law and the prophets were until John: since that time the kingdom of God is preached, and every man presseth into it. [17] And it is easier for heaven and earth to pass, than one tittle of the law to fail. [18] Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth ADULTERY: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth ADULTERY. Genesis 2:24 KJV [24] Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be ONE FLESH. Hebrews 13:4 AMPC [4] Let marriage be held in honor (esteemed worthy, precious, of great price, and especially dear) in all things. And thus let the marriage bed be undefiled (kept undishonored); for God will judge and punish the unchaste [all guilty of sexual vice] and adulterous. Hebrews 13:4 ASV [4] Let marriage be had in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: for fornicators and adulterers God will judge. Ephesians 5:22-33 KJV [22] Wives, submit yourselves unto your OWN husbands, as unto the Lord. [23] For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. [24] Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. [25] Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; [26] that he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, [27] that he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be HOLY and without blemish. [28] So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. [29] For no man ever yet hated his OWN FLESH; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: [30] for we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. [31] For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be ONE FLESH. [32] This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. [33] Nevertheless, let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
People, STOP trying to find a loophole in the Word of God, which does not change, to justify the sin in your life. Good ess, 🤷🤦 and we wonder why the world is in the state its in now. The Word is the Word, there's no variation
No, he doesn't recognize it. God still sees the covenant of his 1st marriage until his spouse dies. So yes, you both need to repent (turn from your sin) and ask Gods forgiveness. This is a hard and Holy truth. I would rather love you in truth than seek to satisfy your flesh. Get in prayer with your husband and study this for yourselves. Adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of heaven.
To the three of you in this thread...what did Jesus say to the woman at the well? And, also what does G-d say about the Israelites and himself? All scripture is given, one must take all into account, so one does not end in error.
The Law hasn't gone anywhere. That's what sin is. Transgression against The Law. The difference is that we're under Grace. Marriage is a covenant (A vow to God) breaking that vow is sin. Sin equals death. Death equals lake of fire. Which is the second death. Study & pray for yourself. Our eternity is on the line. This is not a game. Jesus said, "Let no man deceive you."
Yes you are correct but remember the annulment process is a man made process. It’s not God’s. God is neither man or woman and I put God’s opinion over all others. Amen. I won’t bore you with the facts of the abuse scandal of the Catholic Church either (I too was raised Catholic). But ask yourself, are you going to take the words of men who will never be married by the way, over what your SOUL tells you what is the best way forward? The same men and institution that covered up molestation, rape, and abuse?
@@Jennifer-ij4ie We are ALL sinners, and we are all human no matter our positions in life. God knows how he made us. But there are restrictive boundaries or else there would be no limits, it would be an easy free for all.
Jesus told Peter that he was to take charge of his teachings and what was loose on earth, was loose in heaven. And what was strict on earth was strict in heaven. I have an annulment as there was no marriage as in he basically divorced me without telling me and filing through the courts. I was abused and ignored. He'd yell and shame our baby daughter about her dirty diaper.. I told him he tramatized her but he'd said that he wasn't yelling at her but frustrated. A little baby thinks that she isn t loved and did something wrong! He was/is a selfish NARCISSISTS! ALL ABOUT ME! I stayed in that nightmare keeping my daughter away from his rants! It wasn't worth it as the "for better or worse" didn't phase him!!!!! Everything fell apart after our son was born. There are canon laws and after I'd told everything and other's back me with documentation, I received my annulment over a decade later! No, I have not remarried or fornicated!
Correct elsee7800 and if one spouse is catholic and the marriage was conducted without a priest the marriage is also annulled. Biblical grounds for divorce are chronic abuse in any form, adultery joining sexually with another person not your spouse whilst you are still married, abandonement of the family. It is very clear Jesus standards for marriage and also his teachings on divorce. The catholic church follows them all. This has been my experience as well.
@@Jennifer-ij4ieyou are right the abuse scandals were completely unacceptable and much has been done to correct it by instituting child protections. The majority of child abuse cases in our country was from jehovah witnesses. Jesus warned through Apostle Paul grievous wolves would come into the church so as the leaders and lay people were to remain vigilant and do as God says, take upon the protection of the widows(parents or people who lose their spouse) and orphans ( children without parents and fathers). So the whole institution cannot be blamed for a few bad apples who if not repent if paedophile be in hell after meeting Jesus Christ in judgement.
I don’t understand why people stay trapped suffering in misery and torment because of their of their religion. Particularly the catholic religion which has been exposed as heinously corrupt and malicious. Their purpose is control, just like the narc. Cover ups by the most powerful. It doesn’t matter who your god is he/she forgives. One’s purpose on earth is to be joyous and happy in order to spread joy and happiness and to serve. Serve others with your joy so they can do so too. You are already forgiven so forgive yourself and get out💗
God gave the authority to his apostles to forgive sins through Christ, as he says what is bound is bound what is loosed is loosed on heaven and earth. All authority was given by God to Jesus Christ. Then transferred to his Apostles and then by apostolic succession to the bishops and the Holy Catholic Church. Open your eyes and ask God to show you if Im right or wrong. Look at for example the reverance towards Jesus Christ, the Bible during a Catholic mass and also orthodox which is the byzantine catholic faith. Then look at modern protestant church services in particular the pentecostals and internet preachers, and look at the chaos and showy display where the preacher puts himself as showman or you enter a rock concert. Christ says before he returns he cleanses his bride of all defects, all sins. His bride is his body the church and the literal church is stationed at Vatican.
Yes, She is ! Just because your ex remarried. Doesn’t set you free to remarry… You’re either following your faith or your not …. No one said , That Christanity is easy !!!
Then why was John the Baptist beheaded and why does the Bible refer to Herodias as “… his (Herod) brother Philip’s wife…” even though Herod and Herodias were married? Mark 6:17-18?
Doesn’t God still forgive, isn’t his grace and mercy still sufficient… smh I personally would go to God and ask him and ask him to forgive me if I was in wrong. How is it when it comes to marriage when being in a toxic unhealthy relationship people question if they should stay verses when you curse, lie, being mean to people that’s an automatic forgiveness. People please wake up and seek God. Yes he deals with us all differently and that’s why we should be seeking God. His words say if you draw near to him, he will draw near to you.
How do you live being in PERPETUAL sin? If you steal from somebody...sin..forgiven if you repent.. if you steal every single day you aren't repenting.. PERPETUAL... just like if you STAY in an adulterous fake 2nd marriage and die in that state.., PERPETUAL
Pat Robertson said "Jesus got a little legalistic in Matthew 19:9" kjv. That's when I i KNEW that guy is a heretic. The real eye opener was people still listened to him. .
Divorce and being married again after divorce are two different things. Adulterers do not inherit the kingdom of heaven. Read the Bible. Do your own research.
There are no biblical grounds for divorce. Adultry was under the Messianic Law, and it was applied to uncleanness of the woman - meaning that she was not a virgin. This was mentioned in Matthew bc he was speaking to the Jewish people. He was speaking according to their law. It was the betrothal period before the marriage. We are no longer under Messianic Law. Christ set us free. As far as the unsaved spouse, yes, they can leave. That speaks of separation, not divorce. Any person who is divorced and marries another person is an adulterer and causes the new spouse to be an adulterer. If you have sex outside your marriage, you are an adulterer. God does not recognize divorce. Marrige is a covenant, not a contract. Once one spouse dies, the covenant is broken, and they are free to remarry.
IF you were divorced due to adultery from the other spouse.. you can get remarried. Or abuse. Other than that.. it's a no no... but not wants to yeah that part in Corinthians...
I don't get this stuff I love God but so many rules that don't really seem to matter, I think only evil things are actual sins and even then I still feel like soldiers don't go to hell
They dont the roman centurion was prime example of faith as Jesus said greatest faith in Israel. Those who are war criminals and who exit the war rules to kill rape and torture civilians and other soldiers are not examples of proper combatants and are judged in this life and next. We have examples of Gods soldiers in Bible. Christians are in spiritual battle with spiritual wickedness, micheal archangel is the greatest warrior angel who commands angels. Mother Mary defeats the dragon. The examples of david and goliath many more. Apostle Paul said we need to fight the good fight. Surrender our will to God and let the Lord grant us to be overcomers in this life as was He.
Though i know what the Bible says about that, the question has been whom it is directed to. Eg. If a man moves on to marry another woman after a divorce, should the woman continue to stay miserable and single for the rest of her life. Will she masterbation not make it a sin, nor lasting over a man's body not make it a sin too? She fantasizing about sex also makes it a sin, therefore will it not be better for her to remarry to commit that beautiful sin? I didn't see Jesus rebuking the woman at the well, he was compassionate and empathetic
I grew up understanding that in response to what she asked the woman the ex wife is living in adultery because the man had not remarried first so no the new wife is not but the ex is or was
I'm sorry, but blood is on your hands. People study YOUR BIBLE. Can 2 homosexuals CONTINUE to live together because God is loving and forgiving? Come on!
If you knew the culture of the time you would understand that women were property and you were not free from it legally till the laws had made it so. Also, women not given a divorce was then forced to remarry illegally due to the fact women could not make a living and her children were then considered illegitimate from the second marriage because she had not legally been made free from her husband who did not divorce her properly. Putting a woman away in this days meant you said I divorce you 3 times, tore the ketubah in front of the council of judge's and settled your settlement that was written in your ketubah. Under the law of Moses this was a permitted process. Just cause some people who were writing a book not even the Torah 50+ years after Jesus died and his deciples and Paul who has been proven now to be a bit of a shady character when it comes to Hebrew laws and changing them, seriously means nothing about sin or not and permitted or not. The law was put in place because of people's hard hearts and people still have hard hearts. So called biblical reasons or not is actually meaningless especially if one spouse has violated the marriage with narcissistic abuse for years. I do not believe god's grace then departs a person from being happy and loved by another. What utter nonsense the church preaches. Using half their book and throwing away what was always originally written.
There are absolutes. No shades of grey with this. This speaker is incorrect. Read it for yourselves ppl!! Matthew 5:32. And take heed of 1 Cor 6:8…the time to repent is now
There are no biblical grounds for divorce. Adultry was under the Messianic Law, and it was applied to uncleanness of the woman - meaning that she was not a virgin. This was mentioned in Matthew bc he was speaking to the Jewish people. He was speaking according to their law. It was the betrothal period before the marriage. We are no longer under Messianic Law. Christ set us free. As far as the unsaved spouse, yes, they can leave. That speaks of separation, not divorce. Any person who is divorced and marries another person is an adulterer and causes the new spouse to be an adulterer. If you have sex outside your marriage, you are an adulterer. God does not recognize divorce. Marrige is a covenant, not a contract. Once one spouse dies, the covenant is broken, and they are free to remarry.
I've heard repenting seems to do the job for life. It's like a subscription you get for a lifetime. My friend who apparently was a sinner (in his eyes, not mine, to me he was just a dum-ass) says he'll keep sinning now that he has repent so all is forgiven. Ain't that right. You can fool God, you can't fool your true nature though.
Yes, you are living in adultery. He is adding to scripture.
Yes sis she is living in adultery.
All scripture on this issue should be taken into account, so one does not end in error. Keeping in mind that marriage is not slavery; and what occurred between the Israelites and Yahweh (due to the Israelites) prior to the Gentiles being grafted in. Blessings~
He is deceived and leading his flock to hell. Ticling their ears what they wana hear.
St. Luke 16:18 "Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
Right?! I was wondering what scripture he was going to use to prove his point.
Amen!!
There are no biblical grounds for divorce. Adultry was under the Messianic Law, and it was applied to uncleanness of the woman - meaning that she was not a virgin. This was mentioned in Matthew bc he was speaking to the Jewish people. He was speaking according to their law. It was the betrothal period before the marriage.
We are no longer under Messianic Law. Christ set us free.
As far as the unsaved spouse, yes, they can leave. That speaks of separation, not divorce.
Any person who is divorced and marries another person is an adulterer and causes the new spouse to be an adulterer. If you have sex outside your marriage, you are an adulterer.
God does not recognize divorce.
Marrige is a covenant, not a contract. Once one spouse dies, the covenant is broken, and they are free to remarry.
Ok but read Matthew 19:9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”
@Beautybartrend. Yes, and once again, Jesus was speaking to the Jewish people. The women were not regarded highly - in fact, the custom was the brides parents would keep the part of the sheet with the blood to prove she was a virgin. If a man learns she had been unfaithful during the betrothal, he would divorce her.
Just as Joseph, learning about Mary becoming pregnant, thought to divorce her quietly. This was before their actual marriage.
@@dianadavis6512, thank you. Because this man is speaking lies!!!!
You know what the Bible says. This speaker is lying to you. If a man divorces his wife except for the cause of adultery and marry another, he causes her to commit adultery. This goes for any persons that divorce without it being for the cause of adultery. This is hard to handle, but it is true. Matthew 19 chapter verses 3-12. Marriage was from the beginning with Adam and Eve. God put the rules in place, and NOT man.
Read what Jesus had to say about it. Matthew 19:3-12. It is clear. Repentance is to turn from sin and not stay in it and hope you are forgiven.
🎉🎉🎉🎉come on!! Amen
His ex wife had already remarried she committed adultery so no she is not lying
Not even adultery is an excuse till death u can only remarry if the covenant partner passes away
The Bible is a big book. It says a number of things about divorce. Read all of them in context.
If the covenant partner is still alive it is adultery
What you wrote is not all the G-d says or gives regarding this matter and all scripture on this matter has been given to us.
PLEASE do NOT stay in an abusive marriage just because you are Catholic! I have my annulment. My story(ies) is in the Catholic comments. You are risking the health of your children as well as your health and sanity!
Thank you for this. I stayed 20 years too long just to “ keep the faith”. Everything you say is spot on, see you in the next life, for sure. 😇
There nothing like abusive marriage when u have the holysprirt, God is the one with that we pray to for marriage restoration.
@@lukamartha3229He is remarried! There wasn't a marriage! At the alter he didn't tell the truth! He HAD reservations! He'd told his brother (when told that he didn't have to go through it) "mom and dad need grandchildren". The honeymoon was a nightmare. Do you really think that I didn't try everything?! Oh...I didn't pray enough! Again it's (the woman's) my fault! I was choked, mocked, yelled at daily and called foul names.. on n on. You try that for almost two decades.
@@tereseczimbal8099 you are catholic, then its the church who has the authority to decide on your divorce and any remarriage. There a lot of people here misapplying the Lords words playing devils advocate.
Under what authority given in Bible by Jesus Christ does any partner have to violently abuse wife or husband and or children in any form or commit the act of fornication or forbid a person from practicing their faith as a catholic? Do you think God answers such a persons prayers? Is that person even considered a proper spouse or christian or even civil human being? Any church or person taking the name of christ and justifying abuse for the sake of marriage is not a christian or shepherd of God they are most likely from a cult. Or speaking without church authority. In catholicism and christianity we have a practice called social justice. Its what got Jesus in a lot of trouble with evil.doers. Keep close to God and keep strong, soon those accusing you will have to get a life and focus on their own sins. God bless you
@@lukamartha3229
Your comment is religious and legalistic.
G-d's living word; all that He said on this matter, is what Christians live by. We don't live by man-made religions and man's words/opinions. It takes reading all the scriptures on this topic, so a person does not end in error. G-d did not make marriage to be used as a form of slavery.
I'm on my 2nd marriage ending after 33 years .God forgives all thru christ
What's to forgive?
@@petergriffiinbirdisthewordexactly
I have a friend divorcing after 35yrs of marriage. Husband is a narcissist and my friend stayed until the kids were grown and because she didn't believe in divorce and she didn't want to be like her parents.
they went to counseling together and individually well she went by herself thinking maybe it was her and she needed to change her outlook. Nothing worked. She is 57 and sadly is making the painful but necessary decision to leave. The husband for his part said that it was her alone and the issues were never him. He doesn't see where he needs to compromise or change. He would make excuses for his broken promises and mind games he played making her feel insecure and crazy.
I asked her if she is hoping to find love and maybe marriage again. She responded "no going forward I am living for me. I dont want to deal with another man's drama and baggage. I dont have the energy for that anymore."
Now just remain single untill your first wife dies.
If your covenant is still alive it's adultery
Oh no. Why was the recording cut off.
my husband went through our bank accounts and caused our home to be foreclosed. I left him and my father said because I didn't divorce based on adultery if I remarried I committed adultery. I said how is that possible when he neglected our finances and was a liar.
My narc cheated often within the marriage which means I have automatic approval to remarry!
You are living in adultery. Romans 7:3. You are an adulteress as long as YOUR COVENANT Husband lives.
Pastor you are teaching against Jesus Christ
He NO pastor just an idiot on his opinion and not scripture leave him he wil have a wake up call one day dwcwiving thousands. Leading his flock astray.
Many of you are giving responses according to religion but what all does the living word of G-d "actually"say on the topic of marriage and remarriage.
What did Jesus say to the women at the well and what happened between the Israelites and G-d?
Excatly This man is abrupt and has No vlue about Scripture. I Bet you he is ramarried. Leave him he will face the truth.
2 Timothy 4:3-4 “For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; and they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.”
I think the best person to direct this question to is God. What do you think GOD would say?❤
God wouldn’t answer, because he is imaginary
@@orion9977 how would you imagine him?
Luke 16 VA 18
@@stevenjones-dl9mg I would imagine him like I would imagine Zeus, Poseidon, Brahma, Vishnu, etc.
However none of these gods including the Christian god have any concrete evidence backing it up. It’s all fantasy and fairytales my friend.
Mark 10:2-12 KJV
[2] And the Pharisees came to him, and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? tempting him. [3] And he answered and said unto them, What did Moses command you? [4] And they said, Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away. [5] And Jesus answered and said unto them, For the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept. [6] But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. [7] For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; [8] and they twain shall be ONE FLESH: so then they are no more twain, but ONE FLESH. [9] What therefore God hath joined together, let NOT man put asunder.
[10] And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. [11] And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. [12] And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
Romans 7:1-3 KJV
[1] Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he LIVETH? [2] For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he LIVETH; but if the husband be DEAD, she is loosed from the law of her husband. [3] So then if, while her husband LIVETH, she be married to another man, she shall be called an ADULTERESS: but if her husband be DEAD, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
1 Corinthians 7:1-2 KJV
[1] Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. [2] Nevertheless, to AVOID FORNICATION, let every man have his OWN wife, and let every woman have her OWN husband.
[10] And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: [11] but and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let NOT the husband put away his wife.
[39] The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband LIVETH; but if her husband be DEAD, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
Malachi 2:13-16 KJV
[13] And this have ye done again, covering the altar of the LORD with tears, with weeping, and with crying out, insomuch that he regardeth not the offering any more, or receiveth it with good will at your hand. [14] Yet ye say, Wherefore? Because the LORD hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy companion, and the wife of thy COVENANT. [15] And did not he make ONE? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore ONE? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth. [16] For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he HATETH putting away (divorce): for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.
Luke 16:14-18 KJV
[14] And the Pharisees also, who were covetous, heard all these things: and they derided him. [15] And he said unto them, Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God. [16] The law and the prophets were until John: since that time the kingdom of God is preached, and every man presseth into it. [17] And it is easier for heaven and earth to pass, than one tittle of the law to fail. [18] Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth ADULTERY: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth ADULTERY.
Genesis 2:24 KJV
[24] Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be ONE FLESH.
Hebrews 13:4 AMPC
[4] Let marriage be held in honor (esteemed worthy, precious, of great price, and especially dear) in all things. And thus let the marriage bed be undefiled (kept undishonored); for God will judge and punish the unchaste [all guilty of sexual vice] and adulterous.
Hebrews 13:4 ASV
[4] Let marriage be had in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: for fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
Ephesians 5:22-33 KJV
[22] Wives, submit yourselves unto your OWN husbands, as unto the Lord. [23] For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. [24] Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. [25] Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; [26] that he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, [27] that he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be HOLY and without blemish. [28] So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. [29] For no man ever yet hated his OWN FLESH; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: [30] for we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.
[31] For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be ONE FLESH. [32] This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. [33] Nevertheless, let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
People, STOP trying to find a loophole in the Word
of God, which does not change, to justify the sin in your life. Good ess, 🤷🤦 and we wonder why the world is in the state its in now. The Word is the Word, there's no variation
THANK YOU ❤!!!!
Exactly!! This guy is way outta line
@@jillianbennett380 excatly he feeds his flock what they want ro hear. Leave him he will be held accountable for misleading his flock of sheep
No, he doesn't recognize it. God still sees the covenant of his 1st marriage until his spouse dies.
So yes, you both need to repent (turn from your sin) and ask Gods forgiveness. This is a hard and Holy truth. I would rather love you in truth than seek to satisfy your flesh. Get in prayer with your husband and study this for yourselves. Adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of heaven.
ExcTly this man is deceiving Thousands with his UNbiblical opinions only death ends a covenent to remarry
You nailed this ! Glory to God
To the three of you in this thread...what did Jesus say to the woman at the well? And, also what does G-d say about the Israelites and himself? All scripture is given, one must take all into account, so one does not end in error.
The Law hasn't gone anywhere. That's what sin is. Transgression against The Law. The difference is that we're under Grace. Marriage is a covenant (A vow to God) breaking that vow is sin. Sin equals death. Death equals lake of fire. Which is the second death. Study & pray for yourself. Our eternity is on the line. This is not a game. Jesus said, "Let no man deceive you."
God is merciful
God is happy for you !!!🎉🎉
It's black and white,not multiple choice.
In the Catholic faith you must be annulled from the marriage on certain restrictive grounds.
Yes you are correct but remember the annulment process is a man made process. It’s not God’s. God is neither man or woman and I put God’s opinion over all others. Amen.
I won’t bore you with the facts of the abuse scandal of the Catholic Church either (I too was raised Catholic). But ask yourself, are you going to take the words of men who will never be married by the way, over what your SOUL tells you what is the best way forward? The same men and institution that covered up molestation, rape, and abuse?
@@Jennifer-ij4ie We are ALL sinners, and we are all human no matter our positions in life. God knows how he made us. But there are restrictive boundaries or else there would be no limits, it would be an easy free for all.
Jesus told Peter that he was to take charge of his teachings and what was loose on earth, was loose in heaven. And what was strict on earth was strict in heaven. I have an annulment as there was no marriage as in he basically divorced me without telling me and filing through the courts. I was abused and ignored.
He'd yell and shame our baby daughter about her dirty diaper.. I told him he tramatized her but he'd said that he wasn't yelling at her but frustrated. A little baby thinks that she isn t loved and did something wrong! He was/is a selfish NARCISSISTS! ALL ABOUT ME! I stayed in that nightmare keeping my daughter away from his rants! It wasn't worth it as the "for better or worse" didn't phase him!!!!! Everything fell apart after our son was born.
There are canon laws and after I'd told everything and other's back me with documentation, I received my annulment over a decade later! No, I have not remarried or fornicated!
Correct elsee7800 and if one spouse is catholic and the marriage was conducted without a priest the marriage is also annulled. Biblical grounds for divorce are chronic abuse in any form, adultery joining sexually with another person not your spouse whilst you are still married, abandonement of the family. It is very clear Jesus standards for marriage and also his teachings on divorce. The catholic church follows them all. This has been my experience as well.
@@Jennifer-ij4ieyou are right the abuse scandals were completely unacceptable and much has been done to correct it by instituting child protections. The majority of child abuse cases in our country was from jehovah witnesses. Jesus warned through Apostle Paul grievous wolves would come into the church so as the leaders and lay people were to remain vigilant and do as God says, take upon the protection of the widows(parents or people who lose their spouse) and orphans ( children without parents and fathers).
So the whole institution cannot be blamed for a few bad apples who if not repent if paedophile be in hell after meeting Jesus Christ in judgement.
NO HE DOES NOT!!! IT IS ALREADY WRITTEN
I don’t understand why people stay trapped suffering in misery and torment because of their of their religion. Particularly the catholic religion which has been exposed as heinously corrupt and malicious. Their purpose is control, just like the narc. Cover ups by the most powerful. It doesn’t matter who your god is he/she forgives. One’s purpose on earth is to be joyous and happy in order to spread joy and happiness and to serve. Serve others with your joy so they can do so too. You are already forgiven so forgive yourself and get out💗
God gave the authority to his apostles to forgive sins through Christ, as he says what is bound is bound what is loosed is loosed on heaven and earth.
All authority was given by God to Jesus Christ. Then transferred to his Apostles and then by apostolic succession to the bishops and the Holy Catholic Church.
Open your eyes and ask God to show you if Im right or wrong.
Look at for example the reverance towards Jesus Christ, the Bible during a Catholic mass and also orthodox which is the byzantine catholic faith.
Then look at modern protestant church services in particular the pentecostals and internet preachers, and look at the chaos and showy display where the preacher puts himself as showman or you enter a rock concert.
Christ says before he returns he cleanses his bride of all defects, all sins.
His bride is his body the church and the literal church is stationed at Vatican.
Yes, She is !
Just because your ex remarried.
Doesn’t set you free to remarry…
You’re either following your faith or your not …. No one said , That Christanity is easy !!!
Then why was John the Baptist beheaded and why does the Bible refer to Herodias as “… his (Herod) brother Philip’s wife…” even though Herod and Herodias were married? Mark 6:17-18?
It is forbidden to divorce and remarry if we have had Christian marriage.
🤦🏽♂️ St. Luke 16:18
Doesn’t God still forgive, isn’t his grace and mercy still sufficient… smh I personally would go to God and ask him and ask him to forgive me if I was in wrong. How is it when it comes to marriage when being in a toxic unhealthy relationship people question if they should stay verses when you curse, lie, being mean to people that’s an automatic forgiveness. People please wake up and seek God. Yes he deals with us all differently and that’s why we should be seeking God. His words say if you draw near to him, he will draw near to you.
How do you live being in PERPETUAL sin? If you steal from somebody...sin..forgiven if you repent.. if you steal every single day you aren't repenting.. PERPETUAL... just like if you STAY in an adulterous fake 2nd marriage and die in that state.., PERPETUAL
Pat Robertson said "Jesus got a little legalistic in Matthew 19:9" kjv.
That's when I i KNEW that guy is a heretic.
The real eye opener was people still listened to him. .
Divorce and being married again after divorce are two different things. Adulterers do not inherit the kingdom of heaven. Read the Bible. Do your own research.
We are under the new covenant Jesus Christ has died for our sins
One cannot remain in a remarriage unless their first spouse has died.
There are no biblical grounds for divorce. Adultry was under the Messianic Law, and it was applied to uncleanness of the woman - meaning that she was not a virgin. This was mentioned in Matthew bc he was speaking to the Jewish people. He was speaking according to their law. It was the betrothal period before the marriage.
We are no longer under Messianic Law. Christ set us free.
As far as the unsaved spouse, yes, they can leave. That speaks of separation, not divorce.
Any person who is divorced and marries another person is an adulterer and causes the new spouse to be an adulterer. If you have sex outside your marriage, you are an adulterer.
God does not recognize divorce.
Marrige is a covenant, not a contract. Once one spouse dies, the covenant is broken, and they are free to remarry.
After repentance your not suppose to keep committing the same sin
IF you were divorced due to adultery from the other spouse.. you can get remarried. Or abuse. Other than that.. it's a no no... but not wants to yeah that part in Corinthians...
What does the Bible... Say. ????????????
I don't get this stuff I love God but so many rules that don't really seem to matter, I think only evil things are actual sins and even then I still feel like soldiers don't go to hell
They dont the roman centurion was prime example of faith as Jesus said greatest faith in Israel. Those who are war criminals and who exit the war rules to kill rape and torture civilians and other soldiers are not examples of proper combatants and are judged in this life and next. We have examples of Gods soldiers in Bible. Christians are in spiritual battle with spiritual wickedness, micheal archangel is the greatest warrior angel who commands angels. Mother Mary defeats the dragon. The examples of david and goliath many more. Apostle Paul said we need to fight the good fight. Surrender our will to God and let the Lord grant us to be overcomers in this life as was He.
Though i know what the Bible says about that, the question has been whom it is directed to. Eg. If a man moves on to marry another woman after a divorce, should the woman continue to stay miserable and single for the rest of her life. Will she masterbation not make it a sin, nor lasting over a man's body not make it a sin too? She fantasizing about sex also makes it a sin, therefore will it not be better for her to remarry to commit that beautiful sin? I didn't see Jesus rebuking the woman at the well, he was compassionate and empathetic
What's the full video this clip is from?
Where are the verses to back up your ideas David?
Man of God. Please help me with my questions.
I grew up understanding that in response to what she asked the woman the ex wife is living in adultery because the man had not remarried first so no the new wife is not but the ex is or was
My mom told me this.
I'm sorry, but blood is on your hands. People study YOUR BIBLE.
Can 2 homosexuals CONTINUE to live together because God is loving and forgiving? Come on!
Excatly justblike adultery it is continous sin. Every sexual actbis continue of it. This man is deceiving many he will be held accountable.
If you knew the culture of the time you would understand that women were property and you were not free from it legally till the laws had made it so. Also, women not given a divorce was then forced to remarry illegally due to the fact women could not make a living and her children were then considered illegitimate from the second marriage because she had not legally been made free from her husband who did not divorce her properly. Putting a woman away in this days meant you said I divorce you 3 times, tore the ketubah in front of the council of judge's and settled your settlement that was written in your ketubah. Under the law of Moses this was a permitted process. Just cause some people who were writing a book not even the Torah 50+ years after Jesus died and his deciples and Paul who has been proven now to be a bit of a shady character when it comes to Hebrew laws and changing them, seriously means nothing about sin or not and permitted or not. The law was put in place because of people's hard hearts and people still have hard hearts.
So called biblical reasons or not is actually meaningless especially if one spouse has violated the marriage with narcissistic abuse for years. I do not believe god's grace then departs a person from being happy and loved by another. What utter nonsense the church preaches. Using half their book and throwing away what was always originally written.
The answer is yes
Annulment
I am sorry you dont answer it propperly😢
There are absolutes. No shades of grey with this. This speaker is incorrect. Read it for yourselves ppl!! Matthew 5:32. And take heed of 1 Cor 6:8…the time to repent is now
God's word is true. no one should say what is not in the bible.. Remarriage is a sin, if you spouse still lives. God word is a standard
Candice Fransman
If u get a divorce n they cheat or widowed ur fine ...but other than yes it is a sin but I think he forgives u when u repent
U cant remarry till they die
There are no biblical grounds for divorce. Adultry was under the Messianic Law, and it was applied to uncleanness of the woman - meaning that she was not a virgin. This was mentioned in Matthew bc he was speaking to the Jewish people. He was speaking according to their law. It was the betrothal period before the marriage.
We are no longer under Messianic Law. Christ set us free.
As far as the unsaved spouse, yes, they can leave. That speaks of separation, not divorce.
Any person who is divorced and marries another person is an adulterer and causes the new spouse to be an adulterer. If you have sex outside your marriage, you are an adulterer.
God does not recognize divorce.
Marrige is a covenant, not a contract. Once one spouse dies, the covenant is broken, and they are free to remarry.
Drama!
This is false teaching
Christians
This man is giving false
Teachings!!!!!
Excatly
Lier
first.are the two.of you CHRITAINS?
Adultery is more fun ❤
Repent u know not what u say
😂😂😂please tell her yes she is living in sun. The son is she is too lazy to get a concordance or google the answer
Judgemental and hateful comment. Not very Christian.
tell her the truth. it's in the Bible
Truth is not judgemental or hateful..
The Truth Hurts ..
People what to hear, what they want to hear.
So they can feel better about themselves..
I've heard repenting seems to do the job for life. It's like a subscription you get for a lifetime.
My friend who apparently was a sinner (in his eyes, not mine, to me he was just a dum-ass) says he'll keep sinning now that he has repent so all is forgiven.
Ain't that right. You can fool God, you can't fool your true nature though.
repentance comes with forsaking
@@lukamartha3229 tell him that
Repent and forsake adultery, not live in it. Remarriage for any reason apart from death is adultery.
@@lukamartha3229they don't want to hear that.
@@letstalkbiblewithshun.s At all that's the lies they stick to until judgement comes, then they look for the ex - spouse to seek forgiveness