There is something ironic about a woman complaining about maternal *narcissism* saying that she can't hold any friendships with other women because she is too smart.
It's like when you're a kid "they're just jealous of you". Nah, they just don't like you. Sometimes being blunt is the best policy. Feelings over honesty is a weird social landscape to navigate esp on the internet. It often ends up with confusion. Confusion is not fun for most people. Now it's always narrative v narrative v truth. But I guess if it makes her feel better than- sure. (I'm just taking your word for it because this comment caught my eye.) Someone so obsessed with defining their own traits- I'm 10% compassionate, I am a disagreeable woman- hmmm, I think I may see the problem.
You clearly have no wxposyre to a LARGE percentage of young women today….. it’s mind-numbing victim Olympics and STDs and zero accountability left and right and center
Is it bad to have self awareness? She is intelligent. Compared to the other hundreds and hundreds of women who go on these podcasts and can’t string two sentences together. And can only talk about sex and only fans. Yes it seems reasonable why wouldn’t have too many female friends
@@edwincollins5847 she isn’t emotionally intelligent (she can’t even maintain female friendships) and we have no measurements of her academic or financial intelligence.
I’m a stay at home dad but that wasn’t always the case. I spent 10 years in the military and it completely recked my mental health. Holding down a job was impossible for me because the structure I was used to just doesn’t exist in the real world. My wife, being the amazing woman that she is, recognized how hard of a time I was having and decided to take that stress off my shoulders. She works full time and is the happiest I’ve seen her in a long time and I work part time doing a job that I love and has no stress. Because I work at night I take care of our child and cook and clean throughout the day. She doesn’t view me as less of a man, if anything our relationship is better than ever because I have a better handle on my mental health today than I have for the past 10 years.
@Curtis Hancock we talking redpill here in the video. Loads of men in the space calling themselves alpha and would look down on a man making less than a woman.
She’s a walking contradiction this entire video. “Feminists always say it’s sexy for a man to do the dishes - it’s weird when they say that” literally 2 minutes later “it is so sexy for men to keep their places clean” like what? Lol
She left her husband and then married her boss. She is Pearls good friend. She promotes age gap relationship because her hubby is about 20 years older. She is not mean BUT “Pretty face bad character” “Single moms are disgusting” And of course she called you because she wants attention for her account. She is stay at home woman but is making career on UA-cam. Traveling all around the world for Podcasts. And she does not like modern women because they work and are not family oriented.
@Brooklynn Mcloud she also said its not nice when men cry, wouldn't suprise me if she looked at her man and laughed when he was emotional as she left him
@@bb-3653 She not only said, not nice. She said unattractive and repulsive. I feel awful for any man who clammed up after that or any woman degraded them for having a normal human emotion.
@Brooklynn Mcloud word I'm glad you saw it, there was absolutely no reason for that disgusting video. I will say I think all this misuse of " research" she probably does, this "justification" she does, is an excuse for some level of issues she's had deep down, and wants to live in a way where she doesent ever get called out. " oh you critisise me?, well you are low IQ"
Woman gets married with a 50 something guy with his own shit at 25 and tells people to get married when they have nothing and live with their in-laws. For someone who claims they are "smart", how come she didn't follow her advice and find out what a horrible idea this is.
Because she is smart enough to not follow along her own advice, but not smart enough to untie that web of contradictions and put it in a new and more coherent order.
Sometimes the mask slips out that shows other people who they really are. She’s very intelligent, I give her that. But definitely the “Holier-Than-Art-Thou” “I’m definitely better than most of my kind” “only my way is better because it was best for me” type of human.
My husband had to stop my sister's 16 year boyfriend from beating her up that's how we found out about the red pill now that kid is in deep therapy because he started dating a new girl and the young lady deleted herself after 2 months of his abusive I don't mind andrew tate but this red pill propaganda scares me
The number of times that destiny presented the polar opposite argument from what she stated and then she just turned around and agreed with him demonstrates she hasn't no idea what she stand for I've been to just like to blame women
@@younggod5230because she just disagrees for clout. I know ally.. she’s not even this smart conservative woman who saved herself till marriage. She literally went to Kevin samuels for advice and that’s where she decided to start her redpill journey. Because she was a mess. She wanted to trap a man by getting pregnant w him. But luckily she never went through with it.
Most people can't defend their positions if they get challenged on them, when you argue with someone this is the proper way to "win", it doesn't feel like a debate, just a discussion, most people watching will walk away with destiny's correct takes, and she will probably reconsider some of her frameworks, if destiny had pushed her on admitting that she was wrong or showing that he was right, then it would have been a much less productive discussion
@@younggod5230 She's in front of a microphone with loads of people watching her. Most folks have sense enough to portray themselves a certain way when there's lots of eyes on them to make them not look like complete assholes or idiots. There's a good chance she's a much different person when the camera isn't rolling. Also, given her ideology she likes to look up to men who she thinks are 'better' than her, and she's trying to move in some intellectually focused sphere, already admitted Destiny is smarter than her, so she could be agreeing with him just because she's compelled to. It sounds weird, but it's entirely possible.
She met him via her ex husband, it was his former boss. She left her husband for an old rich dude who was his boss to make things worse, her beliefs don't align with her lifestyle, choices, but she hates feminist. She should thank them no way she could get away with that fiasco had there been no femiinist.
"Why can't I hold female friendships" "maybe there's something culturally wrong with women" is one of the saddest and most narcissistic things I've ever heard. If you can't hold friendships, you need to look inward, it's not that EVERYONE else is wrong.
She's just lying about abortion and how casually women do it. The ONLY women I have ever heard speak lightly about abortion are liberal women who haven't had one, and conservative women who have never had one. And here's the sick part....if she has women in her life who've had an abortion, and she thinks it's not a big deal to them, it's probably because they don't feel safe talking to her about it because she's so deeply judgemental and unlikeable
As someone who has thought a lot about it I certainly don’t think it’s even vaguely a person in those first few weeks. I think if I ever got confronted with the choice myself it would be much bigger deal but for instance I don’t care about IVF discarded embryos. Not at all. I’m going to need to see a worse outcome than they don’t get to live when the opposite is also they don’t get to live. Like I think your mum sacrifices herself for you, to force it seems so grim to me.
@@nikkovalidor4890 That's them period. Women be mean to other women for no reason at all behind their backs. That "I love you girl, yeah, we'll hang out tomorrow" then that person leaves and they be like "I can't stand that bitch, I don't want her in my house!" Like they didn't just invite them over and WILL hangout the next day.
The Susan B. Anthony (who I hardly think is perfect- and was never asked to worship her by anyone) comment reminds me of the idealist approach. It's like far leftists wanting x now, and spitting all over the politicians who pave the way to x, in small steps until society finally accepts the grand finale. There's something to be said for timing. Sometimes we have to be realistic instead of idealistic. Especially when viewing things so far back in history with a 2023 lens.
look on Janice Flamingo form ottawa University and her series about history of feminism all with proper historical evidence. As clearly educated as rich woman in XV century, long before feminism movement.... Pre industrialization main thing about education was money, big pile of money exactly. Don't you wanna tell me Cleopatra was uneducated stupid women?
She divorced her 1st husband because she can and did. Then married 23yrs older. I just wanna know will she give up being a UA-camr once she has the baby or be a hypocrite and continue working like a modern woman?!🤔
That wouldn’t make her a hypocrite in the least. In fact, working a side job at home is on par with a traditional marriage. Even working a part time job out of the house while the kids are at school is on par as well.
Lol wait wait wait.... U think redpillers (or anyone for that matter) equate a UA-cam channel/podcast or home business/self employment to be the same as a corporate 40+ hrs a week job ? Do you even "employment", bro? The whole point of these new age "work from home" venues are mostly so you can stay home and take care of your family or whatever else that's important which puts you first. So nah, if u believe she would be a hypocrite for simply not slaving away to an infant for 24 hrs a day/7 days and isn't allowed to set aside some time for herself, then it's not the red pill movement u need to worry about ...it's yourself.
@@nealcassady1189 Lol if these women were that common clubs wouldn't be fighting for them by letting them in for free. It's a small subset of the population. It isn't logistically possible for this to be true.
@@TheGIGACapitalist If your point was actually true artist like Nicki Minaj, Megan the Stallion, etc etc would not have a spot at the top of the charts. All they talk about is partying and getting screwed.
@@joelw2012 Yes and all of the people who listen to gangster rap have prison records, gold chains and aren't just accountants and college students. It's a fantasy dude. Go to the grocery store and look around. Those are the people that make songs top charts not the tiny sliver of the population that are clubbers.
@@TheGIGACapitalist The people that listen to gangster rap are definitely more likely to be the type of people who party. Nobody said they are all criminals with gold chains.
Remarried by age 25 to a 50 year old guy that watches redpill videos, can't maintain friendships with other women, has no children... But she's going to explain to everybody how to build a lasting relationship and successfully raise children. Hmmmm.....
Oh anddd she was on Kevin samuels.. because she wanted advice on her plan to get pregnant to make a guy marry her 😂 Crazy how it’s these people who get the podcasts but the true traditional people do not!
@@andreashofmann4556 She deadass said 51% of Americans shouldn't be able to vote and it just got left on the table as if she wasn't playing up her race/oppression nonsense about white people in her education field. She wants a tickle down society based on white conservative values
@@jasonwhite6463 I think the most frustrating thing about most of the Red piller mouth pieces is that for the most part they are all bad debaters yet open up debate on their platforms then they just get the easiest most ignorant anti-red piller who can't articulate why it's bad and then *wreck them with facts and logic* the only person they actually ever debate that has a brain is Destiny.
What exactly are any of you saying? You haven't said anything; which leads me to believe you listen and follow. You don't listen and comprehend and think of a choice that is yours.
reminded me too much of pearly when she insisted she was smarter than most women and hated having discussions with women cause "gosh im so just too darn smart".
Tbf, pretty much everyone, especially with a platform does this. Hell Destiny brings it up about himself almost every time in an interview and twitter is full of obnoxious liberals and conservatives exactly like this.
Nah this is a different type of "I am smarter than others". There's a difference between someone who is arrogantly thinking they're smarter than others, hence better than others, and someone who simply acknowledges they are smarter. I understand it sounds arrogant, condensending and ironic either way, but it doesn't necessarily have to be. In this case, I don't think it is.
@@ironmaiden93ofangmar have you been intelligent in a poor, dumb community? She's not being pretentious, necessarily - it's literally what it is. You either dumb yourself down to fit in or suffer fools. Can be a frustrating, isolating experience.
I saw her on notsoerudite. She's friendly and discursive in that way where she seems like she's making concessions but isn't actually shifting or reflecting on her assumptions at all and snaps back to them immediately after the topic ends. But hey, you can discover a lot about this point of view from someone like that.
Apparently she’s close with JustPearlyThings and I’ve noticed a similar debate style here. Vaguely conceded if you’re wrong but never admit you lost a huge chunk of your argument. Throughout Destiny’s debate with Pearl he corrected a bunch of times and she never acknowledged it and changed the topic
"The only reason women would choose to abort is because they havent thought about it in the correct way like I have" this person made it to the high school "Im the only thinking person among a herd of sheep" stage of mental development and dug out a trench there.
Dude, would you be able to kill 6-9 month old baby/fetus. We can definitely save 5-6 month old fetus. it's just too expensive to keep them in the incubators. Simply, too much work. So you literally have to break their necks. But the first 3 month, it's all pills/chemical abortion. After 6-7 month fetus can definitely survive. I have friends who came out prematurely at 7-7.5 month & were totally fine without any medical intervention. * "according to this 2016 analysisTrusted Source of more than 8,300 deliveries in the United States, babies born at 24 weeks had a 68 percent chance of survival." (without medical intervention) .... "Fortunately, advances in medicine means even the tiniest babies can likely get bigger and stronger in neonatal intensive care units (NICU).".
@@bestdjaf7499 If you want to talk about the ethics of abortion thats a discussion we can have but what Im criticizing her for is entirely outside of the argument about abortion itself. She handwaves any kind of rationale behind terminating a pregnancy because clearly those people just dont understand it like she does. As if she is the lone arbiter of logical thinking, its extremely arrogant and dismissive.
As for your questions about being able to kill a fetus that depends on the circumstances. If that child will be born into a horrible situation with little to no chance of living a happy, fulfilling life, then yea I think I could. Look at it this way, would you rather kill a child in the womb or force them to be born only for that child to endure unimaginable pain and suffering before dying young? Is that really a moral decision?
@@Swarm561 I was talking about the late term abortions. We can deliver a baby without killing it. And how I understand, people have a hard time adopting babies in America. People have to fly around the world to adopt a baby. And It's an extremely expensive process. My aunt worked for a US embassy overseas, & as a pediatrician, she was helping Americans to find a suitable baby (capable of surviving). Those countries are not giving away healthy babies. A lot of those babies have major health issues. & those people are spending huge money just to adopt + all the future healthcare. They are basically adopting the disabled kids overseas. So my question, why are we killing healthy babies, & adopting disabled kids from other countries?!
@@bestdjaf7499 I would agree with you if the healthcare for the mother and the infrastructure for the care of the child were more robust. As the system is now going through birth, aside from being harrowing for the mother, can be expensive, and theres no guarantee that the adoption agencies will have the resources to properly care for the child. Thats not even getting into the issues with the foster care system in the US
I was fooled for a little while at the start. She seemed really smart but it really just seems like she’s just well spoken. Watching her work her way through her thought processes always confused me and not in the “I don’t understand this” kind of way and more like the “what how did she get from A to B” sort of way
Opposite happened to me. I thought she was meh at first and gradually came to see her as intelligent, but I heavily disagree with 80% of what she’s saying. At least she’s honest about her biases, though.
You must be the only one then. Destiny was so speechless with the stupid shit she was saying he had to grab a drink and force himself to try to have a mature conversation with her.
Married wit a child on the way is the worst possible outcome??? What about only fan models /p*rn stars & sex workers ? I'm 100% you'd rather have Aly as a daughter than a only fans model -_-
Wow I'm a woman... I really appreciate this convo. It made me realize how negative I am towards "feminine traits" Even knowing that feminine traits are beautiful, for some reason, I was throwing in the super negative traits that literally everyone has like pettiness and nagging. I considered myself NOT brainwashed by this shit, but here I am. Thanks for this!!
LOL Everyone is completely fine saying men have certain negative traits more than women, but if anyone suggests that there are certain negative traits that women might have more than men, that is unbearable misogyny that must be "unlearned" immediately.
I’ve realized this for years and it’s always pissed me off bc I can’t tell if people purposefully ignore the truth or are actually brainwashed to the point of no return.
I used to be like this too ... I thought lesser of women who acted feminine. I now know that this belief was stupid. People should act how they want. There is nothing wrong with acting feminine, masculine, or a mix of the two. I myself later found out that I'm non-binary. I think that maybe my lack of femininity contributed to my own misogyny.
Aly, I am white and grew up lower working class . My father wanted us to get educated and get a job to sustain ourselves. It had nothing to do with feminism . It was a privilege to go to college . Extra bonus got Engaged and married in graduate school . It’s not all about “ radical feminism “ and “ blue hair “ 😂💙
...even if you want to approach things from a trad standpoint the fact is most middle/ upper class men marry within their social class ...which means women either need to be middle class or enter the middle class to meet these men (so they still kind of need education + a career ). Advising women to just mary young is such silly advice because it the young marriage ages and low education that keeps poor families poor.
@@lydiawilder5996 Don't act coy. Private or Public, the institution doesn't matter if the student body doesnt care to put their phone down or close Minecraft during lectures. Also most compulsory college courses are "textbook" self teaching classes. Built by professor's design due to the example I just laid out in those introductory courses.
That is always something I've noticed. Many women on the right will hate on feminism yet are the kind of examples you would think of when you hear of a feminist--strong, independent, successful women that have careers and are not defined by a man.
I think the difference is the attitudes and how they express their strength/independence. A traditional woman was strong but feminine. Now Hollywood makes every “strong female lead” basically just a man. There is no strength found in femininity according to modern feminist.
Because they want to attribute their success to themselves and not give credit to some imaginary sisterhood that did nothing for them (unless you wanna claim the feminists of old are the same as those of today, but to me that's silly, that'd be like being grateful to a Veteran who served in Iraq for winning WW2). A lot of so called feminists do the opposite and just as cringe thing of thinking their own success must mean they've paved the road for other women, when in actuality they just got ahead cuz of adopting the ruthless competitive capitalist mentality that always got men ahead in their workplace.
A lot of the time feminism pushes us out first. Lol ever dare to mention that maybe women need separate female only spaces free from patriarchal violence, and suddenly you're an evil nazi transphobe genocider. And then the other side welcomes you and is delighted by your willingness to think for yourself and advocate for your beliefs, and ACTUALLY wants to protect you the way feminism claimed to. That's how it went for me anyways lol.
Her willingness to let Destiny “lead” the convo clearly bothered him. She didn’t know how to even be assertive with her arguments. This was cringe in so many ways.
Not being able to maintain friendships is a red flag. I notice a lot of people with red pill ideologies have struggled with relationships of varying kinds throughout their lives and so they’re vulnerable to finding refuge in the ideologies of people who preach that it’s mostly everyone else’s fault because of “modern culture”
Not at all, women her age are whores and shes wifed up about to start a family. Of course women her age couldnt stand to be around her, shes better than them.
I think not being able to maintain firenship leeds to a higher use of internet, and thus looking into all different topics the internet has to offer, from politics, to redpill.
This young woman is the dream of every manosphere guy. But when you hear her say all that stuff, it makes you realize how brainwashed she is. Her 20 years older man even gives his estimation of her intelligence "my boyfriend thinks I'm 115". He just guesses that and she takes it serious, yes this woman in under a spell and I would not want that to happen to my daughter...
Brainwashed= "doesn't have my set of beliefs"??? Get a grip, the woman found happiness and comfort in traditional roles and she is far from unreasonable about the problems in the dating space.
@@missinterpretation4984 let’s put it this she’s married and starting a family. now are you married? I highly doubt that but I bet u got a body count more than 10 😏
53:02 You know you live in a sheltered circlejerk when "what if the people you took voting rights away from didn't like that" is thought provoking like it hasn't occurred to you before.
Yeah like it's phrased as "I might just have to be a jerk. Like net paying tax payer babbiiee". When we get to "Let's make it illegal for the majority of americans to vote" we're a little *beyond* "might be jerkish".
@@rocketrelm1125 People with wealth already have a greater level of political influence through donations. The idea that the proles who prop up your society shouldn't even have a vote is asinine.
They say dumb people often try to prove themselves smart constantly, while as a smart person doesn't have to prove they're smart it just shows. No offense, but this chick reminds me of a extremist liberal except she's advocating redpill views lol
That made me laugh so much. 115 is on the high end of average so it is smart but she acts like she’s so smart that it inhibits her ability interact with people who aren’t as high IQ, and she’s nowhere near being that smart lmfao. She’s AP class smart, just like lots of other people are. Lmao
@@TheGIGACapitalist bro she straight up said she feels sad when she talks to lower IQ women. All she was missing was a fedora and a neckbeard. This was awesome
And not to further put her down, as I enjoyed their conversation overalll - she's also married to a much older guy who's old enough to be her father. So she criticises women and often brings up the fact that her mom didn't do a great job as a single parent while being happily submissive towards her older husband. I think she just found something that works for her and wants to push her ideas on other people without considering all of the above
TBH she's way better than most redpill women out there. At least she made an effort to back up her views, and even if you disagree you understand where she's coming from. Pearl is like "women are just lazy af".
She was making way more sense than them. Or, at the very least, it seemed like she actually believed and had at least somewhat thought through what she was saying. Obviously some of those ideas were shallow but that's why talks like these exist.
She's a freaking soldier. What genuinely feminine woman joins the army to be a cadet? This is the irony of these people, a real feminine woman would not spend her life running around attacking women for their choices, name calling, shaming, and judging. Like what she does for a living and her pov is the antithesis of femininity. She should be about kindness and understanding not regurgitating misogynistic redpill/manosphere rhetoric....
To be fair there is a prejudice about women gossiping behind backs and being mean so women can stereotypically be mean and judge they just do it behind the backs of the person they are talking about
@@curtishancock432 being a soldier is not very effeminate at all. But the point is just pointing out the hypocrisy. This person doesn’t care if she’s masculine or feminine or a soldier or not a soldier. Just pointing out the hypocrisy.
This captures one of my biggest issues with their own view. Men build and lead society and women can’t do anything without them but all current societal conditions are women’s fault. Because apparently women are helpless but also all powerful. sHe’S nOt lEtTiNg mE lEaD!
Her: Feminism is about female supremacy and women wanting to dominate menand society 48:19 Her: I want to take voting power away from 50% of the population
@@JohnDoe-gy4jn what percent of the population are net tax payers? 2. I love democracy, thats why i want as many people to vote and either way you cut it, shes advocating for taking voting rights away
"I hope you are following me...I am like Camille Paglia. I have a very quick thinking mind." When someone tells you, constantly, how smart they are...they're usually not. Smart people tend not to proclaim they are smart all the time, let alone smarter than most other people.
No offense to her, I'm glad she is living a fulfilling life. But it does kinda feel like she has been indoctrinated with her husband's beliefs and justified it afterward.
She made defending her own life choices and experience the basis for her political stances- Mother was narcissistic= abortion often happens cuz women are narcissistic Chose to marry older wealthier guy = women liberation means marrying to higher SES men The list goes on and on... Still, kind of appreciate the thoughts cuz I do think society infantalizes and at the same time idealizes women while at the same time trashing men (women are precious and need to be protected, from who? from men, who are all powerful and the source of all evil in the world - but if women were equal to men as the claim goes, they wouldn't need this special protection, no?)
yeah that pretty much sums up my thoughts as well, she had some decent points but ignored counters because of her own personal experience. Being intelligent and holding ego-centric views aren't mutually exclusive. The whole abortion thing was strange to me though, I can't wrap my head around that. It seems like she has little to no tolerance for cognitive dissonance but that's just my theory.
I see so much of myself in Aly. As someone who has also been emotionally neglected and abused by their mother, it was also challenging for me to develop quality relationships with women. There was a point in my life though where I realized it was me, and my lack of skills in holding relationships and not women as a whole. That being said, this was something I believed for a long time, and I allowed my bitterness and resentment to shape my ideology. It's easy to fall into this trap because blaming the external world is desirable, but taking responsibility for yourself is the only way to get real, long lasting results. I still fall into this trap every so often, as life is not so linear as we'd like it to be. So I hope she can find peace and acceptance with her relationship with her mother, continues to enjoy her marriage and being mother, and also finds women, maybe even other mothers, who she can really connect with.
Animal metaphors always, ALWAYS break apart. Humans are much cooler and more complex. But the fact she associates peacocking with femininity just shows how manufactured and artificially restrictive this 1950s conservative version of masculinity is. As a man, you can wear a suit, or look like a lumberjack, anything else is beta feminine, because wanting to present cool outfits, or creativity is peacocking, which is feminine, apparently...
I can relate to Destiny's anecdotes about women he's been with being impressed that he can use household appliances, I once had a few female friends over for tea and when I went to wash the dishes they started catcalling me lol
"Allowing divorce is bad because some women live to regret their choice" therefore we should remove the ability to divorce? Is she just saying the things her audience likes to hear? Destiny pushed back and she immediateley said she probably agrees and wanted to move on.
Her: Submission can't be faked Also her: Submission is a choice Her: Let a man lead Also her: Women who let men decide everything for them are lazy and co-dependent Her: Only masculine men can lead ALSO HER: Sometimes you need to find that 51% She said all of this within 5 minutes...
I work at a child abuse clinic. The number of mothers assaulting in some way or neglecting their child is about the same rate as the dads that do it. Just on her empathy point and just from my anecdotal experience
Women do abuse children & elders more often. It's a well known fact. Even Feminists know that. The excuse is that women are the primary caregivers. Well, as Jordan Peterson pointed out, there is not much difference between Female & Male aggression. But Women cant physically dominate anyone except kids & elders. And emotional abuse is a more common tactic women use. Unfortunately emotional abuse is harder to identify & to prove. You might not even know what is happening. A woman can destroy/kill you without moving a finger.
Think that's her point, bad mothers are not vilified enough, whereas bad fathers are. Mediocre mothers, and even bad mothers, get weird amounts of praise or a lack of earned criticism.
@@H41030v3rki110ny0u While true, on the opposite end tho, men who try even just a tiny bit are often praised for being upstanding fathers (cuz of betraying the expectation that the man is basically useless in the house), whereas women are expected to be good mothers by default.
@@H41030v3rki110ny0u I feel like I had a difference experience growing up. My at times violent dad was praised for being in my life and providing while my mom was heavily criticized by family/friends/teachers. She was also far from perfect but really got the brunt of the “shame” because she was more involved in my life
@@FirsToStrike I agree, fathers who put in the bare minimum are often applauded in some realms, whereas mothers who put in the day-to-day work to keep things together are left in the shadows and forgotten. I think much of that is derivative from the expectation of women naturally being more nurturing.
I like how destinies chat hate when people talk about their lived experiences yet love it when destiny talks about how easy it is to get girls based on his experience on tinder 5 years ago.
Oh, were you trying to find a coherent understanding of the world from what she said? I don't think she has that, she seems to be nothing more than a collection of vague right wing and red pill talking points that she doesn't really understand but likes the sound of and is desperate for the approval of someone who subscribes to those beliefs.
1:18:27 I'm so happy someone like Destiny is finally asking her in the debate "what does feminine and masculine mean to you". cause a lot of times i here from these red pills that "men are more feminized & women are masculinised" when in reality these are just characteristics that anyone can have, not saying men should demonise there masculinity but masculinity are traits of being brave, assertive, integrity etc & femininity are traits of being caring, nurturing, creative etc. You could have a masculine father who's caring of his kids or feminine woman who has courage. people sometimes do have both sides of being feminine and masculine.
everyone has masculine and feminine energies. the thing is that women, through being repetitively brought back to the corporeal body with periods are more of a funnel for the feminine and men for the masculine. some females have more masculine energies than men, and same the other way. that being said, because of the drive for equality, in the 70s we tried to masculinize women to enter the work force, this failed. that is why the push in the 2000s onwards has been to emasculate and feminize men from a social and schooling level (just look into how they say to deal with more masculine/violent traits post 2000 in lower schooling) We should be trying to maximize the masculine and feminine and work on integrating one's anima or animus; but this will only make sex differences bigger on the extremes, yet it will also allow for those with heterodox energies for their sex to explore without needing to feel the drive to mutalate themselves as it would be more spiritual rather than physical
@@Femmeaesthetic @user-zh3bc1vs1l actually wrote most of it out, it's all tying back to achieving joy in productivity. Did she say she just recently started doing the online debate stuff to be charitable to her? Being able to explain something so others can understand it is a whole other skill than understanding for yourself.
@@MC_heart4 People simply need more outlets and less judgment. Basically balance is needed, the problem is insecure people whom already made their choice wants their choice to be valid yet they ironically invalidate themselves by reinforcing their own ideas unto others. Making it so they have to express more to remain valid and the loop keeps spinning.
Listening to her say the men grew up with an overbearing mother that did everything for him, and then in the same breath say that the woman should be doing all the things in the home while he works is hilarious. What would be the point of them learning to take care of the home at a young age
If you watch her content, she’s actually somewhat self aware. She always said she wishes she was a traditional woman but admits she’s a modern woman. tattoos, pre marital sex, indoctrinated feminist mindset early on, etc.
@@eddy3080 "I'm smarter than most women" "I have an IQ of 115" followed by "yeah I think only 50% of America should vote". And it gets WORSE, her reasoning is that poor people would help themselves, BITCH RICH PEOPLE DO THAT ALREADY. It's so painfully obvious that it's just backed by her feelings and literally nothing else. You gotta be on crack to hear her make that statement and still listen to her
He was def taken back (in a good way) by the “you sound like a real man” compliment at the start of the stream. Think it lead to some charitable responses on his party
That's not a crazy statement tbh. To use slavery as an example. The United States conquered slavery and put it to an end quicker than most civilizations in the world. It was through a bloody war that helped put an end to it. We are very grateful for what happened but it's not an insane take to say that slavery was going to eventually overcome one way or another; because in other civilizations around the world it took longer to end slavery without the need for a war on soil. Just because we had the war doesn't mean we needed it. But I'm grateful it came sooner.
Allie said she has a low level of empathy so does she think most women are cold? She’s confusing sometimes. I hear a lot of projection in her arguments
Ally isn’t a trad woman. She’s just trying to be by what she sees in movies or something. Almost as if she’s trying to obtain what she didn’t get in her childhood. It’s sad to see but that’s why she comes off as confusing. When you hear a woman who’s actually traditional due to growing up in a trad nuclear family then it’s more clear.
Stupidity is being able to see the truth but ignoring it anyway for whatever reason. Most times the reason is that the truth contradicts what they want to believe or do. And that's malice: intentionally ignore the correct thing so you can do what you want. Stupidity almost always comes with malice. "Stupidity" should not be used like "dumb" or "ignorant". It wouldn't make sense, for example, call an animal "stupid" because it can't reason like a human. It is just unconscious, not stupid.
To be honest I think she's married to a much older guy ( his hair is white 🤍) because SHE CANNOT KEEP SOMEONE HER AGE. She is promoting settling for something less because she could never get a cute / younger dude BECAUSE she is too masculine. Lmao this is the irony about this woman and it drives me crazy lmao
This is SOOOO true. The red pill people pretend older rich guys are preferred by young women. It’s histerical. A hot young dude, say, in med school is much preferred to an old dude simply because he’s younger. Duh! It’s so funny to pretend a senior citizen man is just sooo desirable to 20 something women.
the whole "the goodness of men" would eventually prevail and would have grated them rights is a bit of a bruh moment to me. Yeah not all people are bad ofc but I really wouldn't look at human history and go "yep if we just do nothing, eventually good people will just do the right thing" thats super naïve to me
I actually feel kind of bad for this girl. She doesn’t seem like a bad person just really misguided. If I had to guess, it sounds like her mother mistreated her really badly. Even though she didn’t have a father figure around at least her view of men wasn’t as tainted as her view of women. She’s giving me like Lana Del Rey, soft girl vibes. They like feeling very dainty and feminine and they tend to go for the traditionally masculine older men. Like she literally fits the tumblr soft girl stereotype perfectly and there isn’t anything really wrong with that, I just wish she didn’t go down the red pill route. I feel like if she would have had like at least one or two really good women in her life growing up she would have just took the tumblr route instead of the red pill route. I also think her being a person of color contributed to going for the red pill only because red pill ideology is so popular in these minority communities.
She 100% sounds like every hispanic daughter who lived in a household where the mothers son was the little prince while the girl was casted aside emotionally growing up. Every justificiation and point she brings up leads right back to this
@@Doil-9938 Someway... somehow... you managed to conjure up a way to negatively place boys/men in a situation that has very little to do with them. Not every emotionally damaged woman came from a home where their brother is treated as royalty and while they are delegated to rot in the dungeon that is emotional neglect.
Talking shit about ppl being cautious about marriage in uncertain times when she literally married a man twice her age who's obviously financially stable???
It sucks that her miscarriage is a shield from being asked how she'd feel about needing to go through a government investigation before she could abort a miscarriage that didn't pass on its own.
@@mharris4264 It can't though... An abortion ends the life of a living organism. If you have a miscarriage, than the organism in question is already dead and therefore removing it cannot be considered an abortion. Using that kind of language to serves only to blur the lines and obfuscate in discussions about abortion.
Talks about how it's a good idea to get married when you've young and financially unstable but married a dude 20 years older than her who has his shit together. Someone plz explain this shit to me.
She seemed to really gloss over the fact that most women terminating a pregnancy already have 1 or more children, it's important to remember that many of them may already be struggling to afford food and care for the child/children they already have.
@@inrisalvatore9520 But is it? I mean sure, murder is wrong. But is putting children in a position to be amongst the most physiologically disadvantaged individuals in the world better? Sure you have your success stories of children who were put up for adoption that when on to do quite well in life. Unfortunately, however, most of those children who grew up in the system never quite recover well enough to live productively because of the devastating experiences they were subjected to while coming up under those circumstances.
@@tatianadaniel3569 ok... So why don't you go to the orphanage and kill those childreen? After all, according to yourself, dying is better than wait to be adopted.
"I was wondering why I couldn't hold female friendships, and then I realized that there's something culturally wrong with women." I mean... that's one way to take it lol.
"My man doing dishes is foreplay." is trying to say it's so rare that a man is willing/able to do house chores that it's physically stimulating in the rare occasion it's witnessed. It's not about wanting them to do everything all the time. I think this woman was wrong about just about everything that was talked about on one level or another.
"I tend to favor the woman staying home and making the house, taking care of the kids..." "But doesn't that mean that the (male) kids don't learn how to clean the house themselves" "Sounds like an overbearing mother" So what is it then??!?
Her: Susan B. Anthony wasn’t looking out for women of color like me. Also her: Black and brown women from low SES neighborhoods have abortions because they aren’t intelligent enough to see the consequences and if they are then it’s because they’re narcissists without morals because our grandparents were farmers and share croppers who lacked emotional intelligence. And abortion hurts these women more than it helps them because reasons and they don’t really care about abortion because they’ll have more kids later with some other guy therefore only bad women of color from these low SES neighborhoods have abortions. Tf??
Sometimes all you have around you are idiots, and even if they are all men, you wouldn't agree with them. So, no you are just fine not having friendships in many cases
@@anonsoldier8907 In some cases yeah I agree you won’t get along with the people around you. But to say generally that throughout your life you can’t sustain friendships with your gender that’s not normal. She’s like 30 years old at some point you gotta keep it real with yourself.
@Swaggattack71 It is rare, but it can happen. The truth is that most people don't get along with many of the people they know despite saying how sociable they are. But is polite or you want to save face. Deep , deep down we all know this.
@@anonsoldier8907 She probably lives in an area with atleast hundreds of thousands of people. She should be able to find women she could reasonably get on with if she wanted to.
the worst part about debating someone like this is that even if you win she's just gonna walk away from it thinking "yep I was right, men ARE smarter than women!!"
it's amazing how learning the tiniest bit about someone's childhood allows you to understand why they hold every viewpoint they hold. surrounded by narcissists who happened to be women + feel trouble connecting with other women because of dissimilarities + idolizing people who happen to be men and attributing that to them being men = female redpiller in adulthood
As a Latina she's not talking for all of us or the majority. Her view is just that..HERS. her reality is not everyones. This woman is in her own lil world
▼RealFemSapien (Aly Drummond)▼
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Pppp
All feminine females make destiny look feminine, so of course he calls them masculine. Destiny is more feminine than the most feminine female.
Why are you promoting her junk lol 😆😂
@@TruePathLiving She has the right attitude, and she is honest. It doesn't matter if she is conservative. Positive people deserve a plug ...
It's his platform
'I think they're out of touch with women like us.' Finally a debate opponent who acknowledges that Destiny is in fact a girl's name.
Omg he got him there lol.
Amazin!'
Who hasn't 🤣
But he gave that name as a kid and it stuck...Either you can take it as that or acknowledge it's a man forming his own DESTINY.😎
Got me again!
Get over it. Shirley, Jody, Sammy, Tyler , these are names that goes BOTH ways even some may say that is a specific to women and men. Next
There is something ironic about a woman complaining about maternal *narcissism* saying that she can't hold any friendships with other women because she is too smart.
That's how a lot of people are, they notice the worst aspects of themselves in other people, subconsciously or not
Women are narcissistic Lmaoooo so I understand why
It's like when you're a kid "they're just jealous of you". Nah, they just don't like you. Sometimes being blunt is the best policy. Feelings over honesty is a weird social landscape to navigate esp on the internet. It often ends up with confusion. Confusion is not fun for most people. Now it's always narrative v narrative v truth. But I guess if it makes her feel better than- sure. (I'm just taking your word for it because this comment caught my eye.) Someone so obsessed with defining their own traits- I'm 10% compassionate, I am a disagreeable woman- hmmm, I think I may see the problem.
It proves her point.
*It's like Raaaaaaaaaaain.*
So she can't hold female friendships because she's too smart? And who's the real narcissist 😭
Let's be honest... average women are very stupid
You clearly have no wxposyre to a LARGE percentage of young women today….. it’s mind-numbing victim Olympics and STDs and zero accountability left and right and center
Calm the tits mate, no need for tears.
Where did the say that & what’s the context?
Is it bad to have self awareness? She is intelligent. Compared to the other hundreds and hundreds of women who go on these podcasts and can’t string two sentences together. And can only talk about sex and only fans. Yes it seems reasonable why wouldn’t have too many female friends
@@edwincollins5847 she isn’t emotionally intelligent (she can’t even maintain female friendships) and we have no measurements of her academic or financial intelligence.
blue haired liberal rizz 🔥
💯💯💯
Liberals wait for blk culture to give them new lingo
still waiting for destiny red haired redpill arc
Npc comment
@@itook75benadryls npc comment-🤓
I’m a stay at home dad but that wasn’t always the case. I spent 10 years in the military and it completely recked my mental health. Holding down a job was impossible for me because the structure I was used to just doesn’t exist in the real world. My wife, being the amazing woman that she is, recognized how hard of a time I was having and decided to take that stress off my shoulders. She works full time and is the happiest I’ve seen her in a long time and I work part time doing a job that I love and has no stress. Because I work at night I take care of our child and cook and clean throughout the day. She doesn’t view me as less of a man, if anything our relationship is better than ever because I have a better handle on my mental health today than I have for the past 10 years.
Nice 👍
You have more happiness in your life than all "alpha" males put together
@Curtis Hancock we talking redpill here in the video. Loads of men in the space calling themselves alpha and would look down on a man making less than a woman.
@@skullingtonfx4441 I’ve never heard a single red pill guy call themselves alpha
@@SilkyySilk have you only tepidly indulged in this kind of content, that's a big part of the selling point.
She’s a walking contradiction this entire video. “Feminists always say it’s sexy for a man to do the dishes - it’s weird when they say that” literally 2 minutes later “it is so sexy for men to keep their places clean” like what? Lol
My brain hurts.
I want to comment every 5 minutes because she’s just got such verbal diarrhea
@@SmileyAdventures i would lose my mind if i talk to her
You need better listening skills
She left her husband and then married her boss.
She is Pearls good friend.
She promotes age gap relationship because her hubby is about 20 years older.
She is not mean
BUT
“Pretty face bad character”
“Single moms are disgusting”
And of course she called you because she wants attention for her account. She is stay at home woman but is making career on UA-cam. Traveling all around the world for Podcasts.
And she does not like modern women because they work and are not family oriented.
Jesus
Yeah she’s a cheating hypergamous woman. So we’ll all cheat lol
@Brooklynn Mcloud she also said its not nice when men cry, wouldn't suprise me if she looked at her man and laughed when he was emotional as she left him
@@bb-3653 She not only said, not nice. She said unattractive and repulsive. I feel awful for any man who clammed up after that or any woman degraded them for having a normal human emotion.
@Brooklynn Mcloud word I'm glad you saw it, there was absolutely no reason for that disgusting video. I will say I think all this misuse of " research" she probably does, this "justification" she does, is an excuse for some level of issues she's had deep down, and wants to live in a way where she doesent ever get called out.
" oh you critisise me?, well you are low IQ"
"Best argument against democracy is listening to a politically active person on a UA-cam stream" - Winston Churchill
You're getting dangerously close to posting cringe in main last warning
@@enyajungle Man don't care about all that - William Shakespeare
@@enyajungle 5 months...
You keeping posting this on multiple videos
@@enyajungle you have the Destiny handle thingy at the end of your name and you’re talking about “posting cringe” you worship cringe.
Woman gets married with a 50 something guy with his own shit at 25 and tells people to get married when they have nothing and live with their in-laws.
For someone who claims they are "smart", how come she didn't follow her advice and find out what a horrible idea this is.
Because she is smart enough to not follow along her own advice, but not smart enough to untie that web of contradictions and put it in a new and more coherent order.
on top of that, sperm quality decreases after 35+ so that baby will have all kinds of issues
Her husband is gay as hell. He mentioned that she had to chase him and that what ever partner works for you, works for you lmao
She was married once before with her own advice. And it went up in flames
This! My husband is also 25 years older than me and I'd NEVER wish her advice on anyone!
"Is your wife very bright?" no wonder, women don't want to be friends with her.
Sometimes the mask slips out that shows other people who they really are.
She’s very intelligent, I give her that. But definitely the “Holier-Than-Art-Thou” “I’m definitely better than most of my kind” “only my way is better because it was best for me” type of human.
@Fdsafdsa Freds she female sneako. Average intelligence but acts better than everyone because they are somewhat knowledgeable about many things
@@fdsafdsafreds5420 She would get along great with Abby shaprio, or they’ll kill each other.
@@skullingtonfx4441 meanwhile, this entire comments section...
I don't find her very intelligent at all but she likes to call herself 'smart' lol
I was confused about where she's coming from until she said that her husband introduced her to Red Pill and then it all clicked lol
Lol
Her old man 50+ grandpa husband ew
My husband had to stop my sister's 16 year boyfriend from beating her up that's how we found out about the red pill now that kid is in deep therapy because he started dating a new girl and the young lady deleted herself after 2 months of his abusive I don't mind andrew tate but this red pill propaganda scares me
lol she admitted to be a susceptible woman to grooming but claims she isn’t groomed xD 35:23
The number of times that destiny presented the polar opposite argument from what she stated and then she just turned around and agreed with him demonstrates she hasn't no idea what she stand for I've been to just like to blame women
She said she's disagreeable, but like, where? She came across as extremely demure and agreeable
@@younggod5230because she just disagrees for clout. I know ally.. she’s not even this smart conservative woman who saved herself till marriage.
She literally went to Kevin samuels for advice and that’s where she decided to start her redpill journey. Because she was a mess. She wanted to trap a man by getting pregnant w him. But luckily she never went through with it.
Most people can't defend their positions if they get challenged on them, when you argue with someone this is the proper way to "win", it doesn't feel like a debate, just a discussion, most people watching will walk away with destiny's correct takes, and she will probably reconsider some of her frameworks, if destiny had pushed her on admitting that she was wrong or showing that he was right, then it would have been a much less productive discussion
@@younggod5230 She's in front of a microphone with loads of people watching her. Most folks have sense enough to portray themselves a certain way when there's lots of eyes on them to make them not look like complete assholes or idiots.
There's a good chance she's a much different person when the camera isn't rolling. Also, given her ideology she likes to look up to men who she thinks are 'better' than her, and she's trying to move in some intellectually focused sphere, already admitted Destiny is smarter than her, so she could be agreeing with him just because she's compelled to.
It sounds weird, but it's entirely possible.
@@Ultramagnetic808 You make good points.
Debate her 40 something year old husband instead 🤣
He must be in his 50’s by now
I think he's probably just glad she has a hobby.
She met him via her ex husband, it was his former boss. She left her husband for an old rich dude who was his boss to make things worse, her beliefs don't align with her lifestyle, choices, but she hates feminist. She should thank them no way she could get away with that fiasco had there been no femiinist.
Based on the numbers she gave he’s definitely over 50
Yeah, right? Destiny clearly lost this debate.
"Why can't I hold female friendships" "maybe there's something culturally wrong with women" is one of the saddest and most narcissistic things I've ever heard. If you can't hold friendships, you need to look inward, it's not that EVERYONE else is wrong.
@neal cassady I’m a young man with young college aged girl friends and I date quite a bit. Most women I know don’t go around racking up 100 bodies
@@nealcassady1189 there’s clearly a lot wrong with this woman.
@neal cassady ? his point still stands. There are so many people out there if you want to have friends you can have like minded friends
Just looking to balance the question simply looking at one side doesn't balance the question does it?
I dont get along with women either (i am a woman). I sure as fuck can't work with women. Most are intimated/threatened by me, unironically
She's just lying about abortion and how casually women do it. The ONLY women I have ever heard speak lightly about abortion are liberal women who haven't had one, and conservative women who have never had one. And here's the sick part....if she has women in her life who've had an abortion, and she thinks it's not a big deal to them, it's probably because they don't feel safe talking to her about it because she's so deeply judgemental and unlikeable
She also had an abortion
As someone who has thought a lot about it I certainly don’t think it’s even vaguely a person in those first few weeks. I think if I ever got confronted with the choice myself it would be much bigger deal but for instance I don’t care about IVF discarded embryos. Not at all. I’m going to need to see a worse outcome than they don’t get to live when the opposite is also they don’t get to live. Like I think your mum sacrifices herself for you, to force it seems so grim to me.
That makes so much sense
I had a friend that had 11 yikes
She radiates "I'm not like the other girls" vibes but from the church group
She's the one left out of the group messages. "Don't tell her we're having lunch. She is such a drag."
pretty much sums up the women doing the redpill grift
Danm imagine being sexist
She’s worse. Because she actually didn’t live a church girl life.
@@nikkovalidor4890 That's them period. Women be mean to other women for no reason at all behind their backs. That "I love you girl, yeah, we'll hang out tomorrow" then that person leaves and they be like "I can't stand that bitch, I don't want her in my house!" Like they didn't just invite them over and WILL hangout the next day.
"feminism was ALL bad"
- clearly educated woman with some kind of platform
The Susan B. Anthony (who I hardly think is perfect- and was never asked to worship her by anyone) comment reminds me of the idealist approach. It's like far leftists wanting x now, and spitting all over the politicians who pave the way to x, in small steps until society finally accepts the grand finale. There's something to be said for timing. Sometimes we have to be realistic instead of idealistic. Especially when viewing things so far back in history with a 2023 lens.
Feminism: women should be able to have an opinion
Npc: excepts when I don't like it
look on Janice Flamingo form ottawa University and her series about history of feminism all with proper historical evidence.
As clearly educated as rich woman in XV century, long before feminism movement.... Pre industrialization main thing about education was money, big pile of money exactly. Don't you wanna tell me Cleopatra was uneducated stupid women?
@@SacredCASHcow 😂😂😂😂 how?
She's so high IQ but can't figure out that she married her father.
She divorced her 1st husband because she can and did. Then married 23yrs older. I just wanna know will she give up being a UA-camr once she has the baby or be a hypocrite and continue working like a modern woman?!🤔
That wouldn’t make her a hypocrite in the least. In fact, working a side job at home is on par with a traditional marriage. Even working a part time job out of the house while the kids are at school is on par as well.
Actually she has a kid
@@EugeakaEugeneshe has a kid? Wow
Lol wait wait wait.... U think redpillers (or anyone for that matter) equate a UA-cam channel/podcast or home business/self employment to be the same as a corporate 40+ hrs a week job ? Do you even "employment", bro?
The whole point of these new age "work from home" venues are mostly so you can stay home and take care of your family or whatever else that's important which puts you first.
So nah, if u believe she would be a hypocrite for simply not slaving away to an infant for 24 hrs a day/7 days and isn't allowed to set aside some time for herself, then it's not the red pill movement u need to worry about ...it's yourself.
Traditional Women work as well😒
Also, youtube is a remote working model and wouldn't make sense if she quit.
"I think in smarter than alot of women"
Her inability to have or maintain female friends is due to her intelligence, totally not narcissistic.
@@nealcassady1189 Lol if these women were that common clubs wouldn't be fighting for them by letting them in for free. It's a small subset of the population. It isn't logistically possible for this to be true.
It's probably both
@@TheGIGACapitalist If your point was actually true artist like Nicki Minaj, Megan the Stallion, etc etc would not have a spot at the top of the charts. All they talk about is partying and getting screwed.
@@joelw2012 Yes and all of the people who listen to gangster rap have prison records, gold chains and aren't just accountants and college students.
It's a fantasy dude. Go to the grocery store and look around. Those are the people that make songs top charts not the tiny sliver of the population that are clubbers.
@@TheGIGACapitalist The people that listen to gangster rap are definitely more likely to be the type of people who party. Nobody said they are all criminals with gold chains.
Remarried by age 25 to a 50 year old guy that watches redpill videos, can't maintain friendships with other women, has no children... But she's going to explain to everybody how to build a lasting relationship and successfully raise children.
Hmmmm.....
Exactly
I think all those things don't matter. What matters is that she is married for like 2 years? My relationship is longer then her marriage lmao
@@Aliyaaaa It just all shows that she has a tendency to make questionable decisions for somebody with those goals in mind.
Oh anddd she was on Kevin samuels.. because she wanted advice on her plan to get pregnant to make a guy marry her 😂
Crazy how it’s these people who get the podcasts but the true traditional people do not!
@@Msow32 seriously, that's horrible. Trapping men into marriage.
This lady is impressively good at saying a lot of words while saying absolutely nothing at all.
Hey give her some credit, she's advocating for authoritarianism pretty clearly.
Red pillers are very good at that. The sad thing is that their audience actually hears their message loud and clear.
@@andreashofmann4556 She deadass said 51% of Americans shouldn't be able to vote and it just got left on the table as if she wasn't playing up her race/oppression nonsense about white people in her education field.
She wants a tickle down society based on white conservative values
@@jasonwhite6463 I think the most frustrating thing about most of the Red piller mouth pieces is that for the most part they are all bad debaters yet open up debate on their platforms then they just get the easiest most ignorant anti-red piller who can't articulate why it's bad and then *wreck them with facts and logic* the only person they actually ever debate that has a brain is Destiny.
What exactly are any of you saying? You haven't said anything; which leads me to believe you listen and follow. You don't listen and comprehend and think of a choice that is yours.
reminded me too much of pearly when she insisted she was smarter than most women and hated having discussions with women cause "gosh im so just too darn smart".
Tbf, pretty much everyone, especially with a platform does this. Hell Destiny brings it up about himself almost every time in an interview and twitter is full of obnoxious liberals and conservatives exactly like this.
Destiny does the same thing 😂 all these podcasters do it
Nah this is a different type of "I am smarter than others". There's a difference between someone who is arrogantly thinking they're smarter than others, hence better than others, and someone who simply acknowledges they are smarter. I understand it sounds arrogant, condensending and ironic either way, but it doesn't necessarily have to be. In this case, I don't think it is.
@@ironmaiden93ofangmar blablabla most brilliant people are indeed men
@@ironmaiden93ofangmar have you been intelligent in a poor, dumb community? She's not being pretentious, necessarily - it's literally what it is.
You either dumb yourself down to fit in or suffer fools. Can be a frustrating, isolating experience.
I saw her on notsoerudite. She's friendly and discursive in that way where she seems like she's making concessions but isn't actually shifting or reflecting on her assumptions at all and snaps back to them immediately after the topic ends.
But hey, you can discover a lot about this point of view from someone like that.
I couldn’t have articulated my thoughts on her any better.
So a female sneako/nick basically
Apparently she’s close with JustPearlyThings and I’ve noticed a similar debate style here. Vaguely conceded if you’re wrong but never admit you lost a huge chunk of your argument. Throughout Destiny’s debate with Pearl he corrected a bunch of times and she never acknowledged it and changed the topic
While I agree, I think Pearl makes this woman look like friggin’ Einstein.
@@angryretailbanker5103 yeah because femsapien doesn't call all women whale shaped whores
The problem is, she likes to think she’s a feminine conservative woman and now someone has told her exactly how modern and masculine she is 😂
"The only reason women would choose to abort is because they havent thought about it in the correct way like I have" this person made it to the high school "Im the only thinking person among a herd of sheep" stage of mental development and dug out a trench there.
Dude, would you be able to kill 6-9 month old baby/fetus.
We can definitely save 5-6 month old fetus. it's just too expensive to keep them in the incubators. Simply, too much work.
So you literally have to break their necks.
But the first 3 month, it's all pills/chemical abortion.
After 6-7 month fetus can definitely survive.
I have friends who came out prematurely at 7-7.5 month & were totally fine without any medical intervention.
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"according to this 2016 analysisTrusted Source of more than 8,300 deliveries in the United States, babies born at 24 weeks had a 68 percent chance of survival."
(without medical intervention)
....
"Fortunately, advances in medicine means even the tiniest babies can likely get bigger and stronger in neonatal intensive care units (NICU).".
@@bestdjaf7499 If you want to talk about the ethics of abortion thats a discussion we can have but what Im criticizing her for is entirely outside of the argument about abortion itself. She handwaves any kind of rationale behind terminating a pregnancy because clearly those people just dont understand it like she does. As if she is the lone arbiter of logical thinking, its extremely arrogant and dismissive.
As for your questions about being able to kill a fetus that depends on the circumstances. If that child will be born into a horrible situation with little to no chance of living a happy, fulfilling life, then yea I think I could. Look at it this way, would you rather kill a child in the womb or force them to be born only for that child to endure unimaginable pain and suffering before dying young? Is that really a moral decision?
@@Swarm561
I was talking about the late term abortions. We can deliver a baby without killing it.
And how I understand, people have a hard time adopting babies in America.
People have to fly around the world to adopt a baby. And It's an extremely expensive process.
My aunt worked for a US embassy overseas, & as a pediatrician, she was helping Americans to find a suitable baby (capable of surviving).
Those countries are not giving away healthy babies. A lot of those babies have major health issues.
& those people are spending huge money just to adopt + all the future healthcare. They are basically adopting the disabled kids overseas.
So my question, why are we killing healthy babies, & adopting disabled kids from other countries?!
@@bestdjaf7499 I would agree with you if the healthcare for the mother and the infrastructure for the care of the child were more robust. As the system is now going through birth, aside from being harrowing for the mother, can be expensive, and theres no guarantee that the adoption agencies will have the resources to properly care for the child. Thats not even getting into the issues with the foster care system in the US
I was fooled for a little while at the start. She seemed really smart but it really just seems like she’s just well spoken. Watching her work her way through her thought processes always confused me and not in the “I don’t understand this” kind of way and more like the “what how did she get from A to B” sort of way
I think the dumb women she was talking about but didn't want to name -- one of them was ylraeP.
Opposite happened to me. I thought she was meh at first and gradually came to see her as intelligent, but I heavily disagree with 80% of what she’s saying. At least she’s honest about her biases, though.
@@TheKomentor 🤣🤣🤣
@David Jones or she just doesn’t know how to properly apply all that information at once
You must be the only one then. Destiny was so speechless with the stupid shit she was saying he had to grab a drink and force himself to try to have a mature conversation with her.
If I ever have a daughter, this is the worst possible outcome.
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Nah she could be with blueface and wind up like that one girl
Married wit a child on the way is the worst possible outcome??? What about only fan models /p*rn stars & sex workers ? I'm 100% you'd rather have Aly as a daughter than a only fans model -_-
That’s pretty misogynistic
I’m trying to be in my feminine bag💰 I want to be protected and provided for by a high value woman 💯
🤣
We all want a sugar mommy 🥵🤤
Feminine bag??? I think the saying is Feminine Energy
Yea I think she will have many bodies over yours if you plan on sitting on the ps5 LOL
And ye shall be neutered
Wow I'm a woman... I really appreciate this convo. It made me realize how negative I am towards "feminine traits" Even knowing that feminine traits are beautiful, for some reason, I was throwing in the super negative traits that literally everyone has like pettiness and nagging. I considered myself NOT brainwashed by this shit, but here I am. Thanks for this!!
LOL Everyone is completely fine saying men have certain negative traits more than women, but if anyone suggests that there are certain negative traits that women might have more than men, that is unbearable misogyny that must be "unlearned" immediately.
I’ve realized this for years and it’s always pissed me off bc I can’t tell if people purposefully ignore the truth or are actually brainwashed to the point of no return.
@@marketables It is brainwashing to believe men and women have "nagging" at the same rates lmao.
@@Tigo625 Whoever is dissatisfied and has negative vocal tendencies “nag”. Any skewed logic you come up with for otherwise is your own bias.
I used to be like this too ... I thought lesser of women who acted feminine. I now know that this belief was stupid. People should act how they want. There is nothing wrong with acting feminine, masculine, or a mix of the two.
I myself later found out that I'm non-binary. I think that maybe my lack of femininity contributed to my own misogyny.
Aly, I am white and grew up lower working class . My father wanted us to get educated and get a job to sustain ourselves. It had nothing to do with feminism . It was a privilege to go to college . Extra bonus got
Engaged and married in graduate school
. It’s not all about “ radical feminism “ and “ blue hair “ 😂💙
She's just an over grown pick me who finally got together with an older redpill dude
...even if you want to approach things from a trad standpoint the fact is most middle/ upper class men marry within their social class ...which means women either need to be middle class or enter the middle class to meet these men (so they still kind of need education + a career ). Advising women to just mary young is such silly advice because it the young marriage ages and low education that keeps poor families poor.
They were good people wow
This woman’s reasoning ability is a good argument for going to college.
If only college would actually teach people how to reason rather than just point to their textbooks, you'd be right
@@FirsToStrike What college did you go to?
@@lydiawilder5996
Don't act coy.
Private or Public, the institution doesn't matter if the student body doesnt care to put their phone down or close Minecraft during lectures.
Also most compulsory college courses are "textbook" self teaching classes. Built by professor's design due to the example I just laid out in those introductory courses.
@@BirthdayFreak67 the current college I'm going to aren't like that. Tho I'm going to community so that might be the difference
@@tochichiagoro3483 Community and Technician colleges are just High school 2.0
A lot of hand holding is built within the structure.
That is always something I've noticed. Many women on the right will hate on feminism yet are the kind of examples you would think of when you hear of a feminist--strong, independent, successful women that have careers and are not defined by a man.
basically all the smart women agree feminism is BS
I think the difference is the attitudes and how they express their strength/independence.
A traditional woman was strong but feminine. Now Hollywood makes every “strong female lead” basically just a man. There is no strength found in femininity according to modern feminist.
feminists create their own strawmen
Because they want to attribute their success to themselves and not give credit to some imaginary sisterhood that did nothing for them (unless you wanna claim the feminists of old are the same as those of today, but to me that's silly, that'd be like being grateful to a Veteran who served in Iraq for winning WW2).
A lot of so called feminists do the opposite and just as cringe thing of thinking their own success must mean they've paved the road for other women, when in actuality they just got ahead cuz of adopting the ruthless competitive capitalist mentality that always got men ahead in their workplace.
A lot of the time feminism pushes us out first. Lol ever dare to mention that maybe women need separate female only spaces free from patriarchal violence, and suddenly you're an evil nazi transphobe genocider. And then the other side welcomes you and is delighted by your willingness to think for yourself and advocate for your beliefs, and ACTUALLY wants to protect you the way feminism claimed to. That's how it went for me anyways lol.
Her willingness to let Destiny “lead” the convo clearly bothered him. She didn’t know how to even be assertive with her arguments. This was cringe in so many ways.
My read was passive manipulation, she low key believes he subconsciously digs her contrived submissive nature 😂
Not being able to maintain friendships is a red flag. I notice a lot of people with red pill ideologies have struggled with relationships of varying kinds throughout their lives and so they’re vulnerable to finding refuge in the ideologies of people who preach that it’s mostly everyone else’s fault because of “modern culture”
Great insight , red pill ideology always seems to attract people who struggle to connect with real world logic.
Everybody has problems with relationships, right? Isn't that part of being human?
That’s such an ignorant and blanketed statement LMAO
Not at all, women her age are whores and shes wifed up about to start a family. Of course women her age couldnt stand to be around her, shes better than them.
I think not being able to maintain firenship leeds to a higher use of internet, and thus looking into all different topics the internet has to offer, from politics, to redpill.
She's saying it softly and with a smile, but she's advocating for authoritarianism.
People who base their beliefs on religion tend to lean towards authoritarianism since theistic religions demand it.
Let's be real. Most people on the right and the left advocate for some form of authoritarianism.
What is authoritarianism?
@@jabadashudau2422 You confused the comment section for the google search bar
Do you say this about every conservative? What a moronic comment.
This young woman is the dream of every manosphere guy. But when you hear her say all that stuff, it makes you realize how brainwashed she is. Her 20 years older man even gives his estimation of her intelligence "my boyfriend thinks I'm 115". He just guesses that and she takes it serious, yes this woman in under a spell and I would not want that to happen to my daughter...
This 💯
Brainwashed= "doesn't have my set of beliefs"??? Get a grip, the woman found happiness and comfort in traditional roles and she is far from unreasonable about the problems in the dating space.
& who r u a dream of? dylan mulvaney?
@@brunolopes2205 being a UA-cam debater is a traditional role for a woman? Good to know.
@@missinterpretation4984 let’s put it this she’s married and starting a family. now are you married? I highly doubt that but I bet u got a body count more than 10 😏
So much “Yeah maybe” after conceding a point then immediately returns to the point like she never conceded it. Holy moly.
53:02 You know you live in a sheltered circlejerk when "what if the people you took voting rights away from didn't like that" is thought provoking like it hasn't occurred to you before.
Yeah like it's phrased as "I might just have to be a jerk. Like net paying tax payer babbiiee". When we get to "Let's make it illegal for the majority of americans to vote" we're a little *beyond* "might be jerkish".
@@rocketrelm1125 People with wealth already have a greater level of political influence through donations. The idea that the proles who prop up your society shouldn't even have a vote is asinine.
Is anyone else low key creeped out by how much she feels she needs to prop up his masculinity? Like why.
Because she married a older man and lowkey isn’t attracted and so her suppressed thirst makes her slip
Yeah I’ve been married a long time and never felt the need to sell him. It’s weird.
I don't think the fact that she is smarter than most people got mentioned enough
They say dumb people often try to prove themselves smart constantly, while as a smart person doesn't have to prove they're smart it just shows. No offense, but this chick reminds me of a extremist liberal except she's advocating redpill views lol
That made me laugh so much. 115 is on the high end of average so it is smart but she acts like she’s so smart that it inhibits her ability interact with people who aren’t as high IQ, and she’s nowhere near being that smart lmfao. She’s AP class smart, just like lots of other people are. Lmao
The irony with how fucking stupid her arguments were
Is she?
@@pugsley201 115 is an entire standard deviation above average.
This girl just straight up came on to broadcast her clear mommy issues to everyone.
My thoughts too lol
All women are narcissists unless they have the same worldview as me. SIGMA FEMALE
@@TheGIGACapitalist bro she straight up said she feels sad when she talks to lower IQ women. All she was missing was a fedora and a neckbeard. This was awesome
A destiny viewer dismissing a womans point of view because of daddy iss.. i mean mommy issues? Based and redpilled.
And not to further put her down, as I enjoyed their conversation overalll - she's also married to a much older guy who's old enough to be her father. So she criticises women and often brings up the fact that her mom didn't do a great job as a single parent while being happily submissive towards her older husband. I think she just found something that works for her and wants to push her ideas on other people without considering all of the above
"I can't get along with women so therefore the issue must be a cultural issue of all women that are not me"
And I have a higher IQ than them all.
It’s because her IQ is too high 😂
‘The last two people you spoke to on this didn’t make very good arguments’
Proceeds to make absolutely batshit points for the next hour*
Seems to be a running line with women on platforms for redpillers
Seems like Destiny agreed with her most of the time.
TBH she's way better than most redpill women out there. At least she made an effort to back up her views, and even if you disagree you understand where she's coming from. Pearl is like "women are just lazy af".
She was making way more sense than them. Or, at the very least, it seemed like she actually believed and had at least somewhat thought through what she was saying. Obviously some of those ideas were shallow but that's why talks like these exist.
😂😂😂 so true
She's a freaking soldier. What genuinely feminine woman joins the army to be a cadet? This is the irony of these people, a real feminine woman would not spend her life running around attacking women for their choices, name calling, shaming, and judging. Like what she does for a living and her pov is the antithesis of femininity. She should be about kindness and understanding not regurgitating misogynistic redpill/manosphere rhetoric....
She needs validation
To be fair there is a prejudice about women gossiping behind backs and being mean so women can stereotypically be mean and judge they just do it behind the backs of the person they are talking about
For real. It seems very condescending to be attacking woman, because they don't fit your idea of what a woman should be to you. Its disrespectful.
Fight fire with fire 🔥
@@curtishancock432 being a soldier is not very effeminate at all. But the point is just pointing out the hypocrisy. This person doesn’t care if she’s masculine or feminine or a soldier or not a soldier. Just pointing out the hypocrisy.
If a woman is “letting you lead”, who is really leading?
This captures one of my biggest issues with their own view. Men build and lead society and women can’t do anything without them but all current societal conditions are women’s fault. Because apparently women are helpless but also all powerful. sHe’S nOt lEtTiNg mE lEaD!
She just comes off as, "My family is left so I'm gonna be right."
she's fem sneako, kinda.
Is she wrong tho
@@lazytown8549 Yes.
@@rustedsabre4699 no
Her: Feminism is about female supremacy and women wanting to dominate menand society
48:19 Her: I want to take voting power away from 50% of the population
Stop taking her out of context.
She said you should have to be a net tax payer to vote.
@@JohnDoe-gy4jn what percent of the population are net tax payers?
2. I love democracy, thats why i want as many people to vote and either way you cut it, shes advocating for taking voting rights away
"I hope you are following me...I am like Camille Paglia. I have a very quick thinking mind."
When someone tells you, constantly, how smart they are...they're usually not. Smart people tend not to proclaim they are smart all the time, let alone smarter than most other people.
Quick thinking mind means adhd to me, not smart
No offense to her, I'm glad she is living a fulfilling life. But it does kinda feel like she has been indoctrinated with her husband's beliefs and justified it afterward.
Doesn’t sound like a bad thing
How you know the difference between indoctrination and free will(her choice), because then you can said everyone is indoctrinated.
@@mmor7380 on point
@@natediaz1863LOLOL Women’s nature is to be indoctrinated by the person their with 😂 lol
Married people tend to start acting alike over time. Both men and women do this. Wouldn't necessarily label that as indoctrination.
She made defending her own life choices and experience the basis for her political stances-
Mother was narcissistic= abortion often happens cuz women are narcissistic
Chose to marry older wealthier guy = women liberation means marrying to higher SES men
The list goes on and on...
Still, kind of appreciate the thoughts cuz I do think society infantalizes and at the same time idealizes women while at the same time trashing men (women are precious and need to be protected, from who? from men, who are all powerful and the source of all evil in the world - but if women were equal to men as the claim goes, they wouldn't need this special protection, no?)
Personal anecdotes seems to drive a lot of redpill/conservative thought.
She's a narcissist. You can tell how she sounds like the world revolves around her and she's so smart lol
It's funny she got divorced to marry the old ATM, her current husband was the boss of her ex husband. That's so traditional, and feminist are evil 🤣
All I'm saying is that every world war has been started by a man.
yeah that pretty much sums up my thoughts as well, she had some decent points but ignored counters because of her own personal experience. Being intelligent and holding ego-centric views aren't mutually exclusive. The whole abortion thing was strange to me though, I can't wrap my head around that. It seems like she has little to no tolerance for cognitive dissonance but that's just my theory.
I see so much of myself in Aly. As someone who has also been emotionally neglected and abused by their mother, it was also challenging for me to develop quality relationships with women. There was a point in my life though where I realized it was me, and my lack of skills in holding relationships and not women as a whole. That being said, this was something I believed for a long time, and I allowed my bitterness and resentment to shape my ideology. It's easy to fall into this trap because blaming the external world is desirable, but taking responsibility for yourself is the only way to get real, long lasting results. I still fall into this trap every so often, as life is not so linear as we'd like it to be. So I hope she can find peace and acceptance with her relationship with her mother, continues to enjoy her marriage and being mother, and also finds women, maybe even other mothers, who she can really connect with.
This is the comment.
same. fortunately i never humiliated myself online
Her talking about men peacocking was so funny. Its the male peacock who presents in a flashy way to get a mate.
True
Animal metaphors always, ALWAYS break apart. Humans are much cooler and more complex. But the fact she associates peacocking with femininity just shows how manufactured and artificially restrictive this 1950s conservative version of masculinity is. As a man, you can wear a suit, or look like a lumberjack, anything else is beta feminine, because wanting to present cool outfits, or creativity is peacocking, which is feminine, apparently...
Because the females are supposed to choose.
I can relate to Destiny's anecdotes about women he's been with being impressed that he can use household appliances, I once had a few female friends over for tea and when I went to wash the dishes they started catcalling me lol
Using household appliances is the only thing he is good at. What a weirdo this guy is…
He sees through her pandering and it's second hand embarrassment
"Allowing divorce is bad because some women live to regret their choice"
therefore we should remove the ability to divorce? Is she just saying the things her audience likes to hear?
Destiny pushed back and she immediateley said she probably agrees and wanted to move on.
Then after that she goes to say 1:05:10.. the jokes write themselves at this point .. she is a clown 😂
Her: Submission can't be faked
Also her: Submission is a choice
Her: Let a man lead
Also her: Women who let men decide everything for them are lazy and co-dependent
Her: Only masculine men can lead
ALSO HER: Sometimes you need to find that 51%
She said all of this within 5 minutes...
The poor woman has been groomed and brainwashed by her husband
@@Goldenac they met when she was in her mid-20s so I think it’s got more to do with her past trauma affecting how she pursues relationships
Let me add, men who do housework isn't sexy... Men who cleanup after themselves are sexy
@@RoseEyed she also seems to hate her mother a lot and is projecting onto every woman
I work at a child abuse clinic. The number of mothers assaulting in some way or neglecting their child is about the same rate as the dads that do it. Just on her empathy point and just from my anecdotal experience
Women do abuse children & elders more often.
It's a well known fact.
Even Feminists know that.
The excuse is that women are the primary caregivers.
Well, as Jordan Peterson pointed out, there is not much difference between Female & Male aggression.
But Women cant physically dominate anyone except kids & elders.
And emotional abuse is a more common tactic women use.
Unfortunately emotional abuse is harder to identify & to prove. You might not even know what is happening.
A woman can destroy/kill you without moving a finger.
Think that's her point, bad mothers are not vilified enough, whereas bad fathers are. Mediocre mothers, and even bad mothers, get weird amounts of praise or a lack of earned criticism.
@@H41030v3rki110ny0u While true, on the opposite end tho, men who try even just a tiny bit are often praised for being upstanding fathers (cuz of betraying the expectation that the man is basically useless in the house), whereas women are expected to be good mothers by default.
@@H41030v3rki110ny0u I feel like I had a difference experience growing up. My at times violent dad was praised for being in my life and providing while my mom was heavily criticized by family/friends/teachers. She was also far from perfect but really got the brunt of the “shame” because she was more involved in my life
@@FirsToStrike I agree, fathers who put in the bare minimum are often applauded in some realms, whereas mothers who put in the day-to-day work to keep things together are left in the shadows and forgotten. I think much of that is derivative from the expectation of women naturally being more nurturing.
I never thought I'd see the day where someone says that giving your woman an orgasm is feminine or beta... Amazin!'
Now I’m thinking, did my past give friends have fem/beta orgasm’s?
"Why cant I have friendships with other women? Oh there must be something culturally wrong with women." Lol
When speaking about her own intelligence she dropped the line "My husband thinks I'm 115". HOLY FUCK there is so much to unpack in that.
Lol right.
Tell me about it. I was like 😳. This woman is lost.
@@Observette she may be lost but she’s happy and loved.
Ignorance is bliss.
@@IL_Bgentyl You don’t have to be ignorant to be happy and loved lol
@@casebased8391 I prefer the scenario you mentioned 😂
Destiny let her get away with waaay too much in this discussion.
Totally agree. His pushback was pathetic.
@@trollnerd she needs a therapist and not a platform
I think his lack of pushback was intentional.
I like how destinies chat hate when people talk about their lived experiences yet love it when destiny talks about how easy it is to get girls based on his experience on tinder 5 years ago.
@@user-gc1wj8tt2p I mean tbf isn't Destiny in an open marriage? It's not like he still ain't out here suckin n fuckin
This is closer to a therapy session than to a debate.
16:55 "I think most women wouldn't even want to terminate their pregnancy"
20:25 "I think that we overestimate womens' empathy"
Alright
Oh, were you trying to find a coherent understanding of the world from what she said? I don't think she has that, she seems to be nothing more than a collection of vague right wing and red pill talking points that she doesn't really understand but likes the sound of and is desperate for the approval of someone who subscribes to those beliefs.
She is so smart 😂😂😂
@@vyvianalcott1681 That's all she sounded like. Absolutely nothing new of real substance. Shame
@@vyvianalcott1681 Seems like you're quite right
Woman aren’t empathetic at all. Saving your offspring isn’t empathetic
1:18:27 I'm so happy someone like Destiny is finally asking her in the debate "what does feminine and masculine mean to you". cause a lot of times i here from these red pills that "men are more feminized & women are masculinised" when in reality these are just characteristics that anyone can have, not saying men should demonise there masculinity but masculinity are traits of being brave, assertive, integrity etc & femininity are traits of being caring, nurturing, creative etc. You could have a masculine father who's caring of his kids or feminine woman who has courage. people sometimes do have both sides of being feminine and masculine.
Well she switched between the Biblical version to the red pill version to whatever the fuckboi discourse was randomly so it was a bit confusing.
everyone has masculine and feminine energies. the thing is that women, through being repetitively brought back to the corporeal body with periods are more of a funnel for the feminine and men for the masculine. some females have more masculine energies than men, and same the other way.
that being said, because of the drive for equality, in the 70s we tried to masculinize women to enter the work force, this failed. that is why the push in the 2000s onwards has been to emasculate and feminize men from a social and schooling level (just look into how they say to deal with more masculine/violent traits post 2000 in lower schooling)
We should be trying to maximize the masculine and feminine and work on integrating one's anima or animus; but this will only make sex differences bigger on the extremes, yet it will also allow for those with heterodox energies for their sex to explore without needing to feel the drive to mutalate themselves as it would be more spiritual rather than physical
@@xbabu142x yeah she was saying a lot of words while bringing no meaning into one sentence.
@@Femmeaesthetic
@user-zh3bc1vs1l actually wrote most of it out, it's all tying back to achieving joy in productivity. Did she say she just recently started doing the online debate stuff to be charitable to her? Being able to explain something so others can understand it is a whole other skill than understanding for yourself.
@@MC_heart4 People simply need more outlets and less judgment. Basically balance is needed, the problem is insecure people whom already made their choice wants their choice to be valid yet they ironically invalidate themselves by reinforcing their own ideas unto others. Making it so they have to express more to remain valid and the loop keeps spinning.
Listening to her say the men grew up with an overbearing mother that did everything for him, and then in the same breath say that the woman should be doing all the things in the home while he works is hilarious. What would be the point of them learning to take care of the home at a young age
For Ally, women are at fault for everything. Everything.
Man kill’s someone. Bad parenting. But only mothers of course.
😂
It amazes me that none of these red pill women are self-aware in the slightest. It's literally all just personal experience= my position
doesnt destiny literally talk about everybodys dating life based on his 5 years ago experience on tinder?
If you watch her content, she’s actually somewhat self aware. She always said she wishes she was a traditional woman but admits she’s a modern woman. tattoos, pre marital sex, indoctrinated feminist mindset early on, etc.
@@eddy3080 "I'm smarter than most women" "I have an IQ of 115" followed by "yeah I think only 50% of America should vote". And it gets WORSE, her reasoning is that poor people would help themselves, BITCH RICH PEOPLE DO THAT ALREADY. It's so painfully obvious that it's just backed by her feelings and literally nothing else. You gotta be on crack to hear her make that statement and still listen to her
Destiny's patience n calmness during this is amazing HAHA. I would go nuts after 5 mins of talking to her
He was def taken back (in a good way) by the “you sound like a real man” compliment at the start of the stream. Think it lead to some charitable responses on his party
Which is something makes Destiny so good at bridge building. Maybe not this one, but over time I think he actually changes peoples minds.
Exactly...she's totally confused about what she believes
I lost brain cells watching this mess. I love destiny though
It doesn’t surprise me that this girl can’t maintain a friendship
It's easy to say that it "would have happened eventually anyway" when you live after it has happened.
yeah, as happen right to vote for 80% of men which didn't had it before 1 world war when rich woman could vote.....
@@Xfghstryhfghfg rich women couldn’t vote, stop coping. Learn some history dude.
That's not a crazy statement tbh. To use slavery as an example. The United States conquered slavery and put it to an end quicker than most civilizations in the world. It was through a bloody war that helped put an end to it. We are very grateful for what happened but it's not an insane take to say that slavery was going to eventually overcome one way or another; because in other civilizations around the world it took longer to end slavery without the need for a war on soil. Just because we had the war doesn't mean we needed it. But I'm grateful it came sooner.
@@matsab7930 sorry, forgot that americans don't know any history except last 200 of USA and even that sketchy
Allie said she has a low level of empathy so does she think most women are cold? She’s confusing sometimes. I hear a lot of projection in her arguments
Ally isn’t a trad woman. She’s just trying to be by what she sees in movies or something. Almost as if she’s trying to obtain what she didn’t get in her childhood. It’s sad to see but that’s why she comes off as confusing.
When you hear a woman who’s actually traditional due to growing up in a trad nuclear family then it’s more clear.
For a conservative she sure loves to play the “I’m a brown women” card
Right! I thought conservatives were against the race card
How did she use it for her advantage tho??? She was using it in the context to tell her personal anecdotes…
Most latin people are conservative buddy, it's not uncommon if you pay attention.
@@mavzer0 The only liberal Hispanic people I have met have been either US born or from Spain.
@@xbabu142x weird how they come from countries with some of kinda wealth hmm almost like most poor countries are conservative
the pick me energy is so strong.
“Never explain with malice what could be explained with stupidity”
that’s a good one
Hanlon's razor
Stupidity is being able to see the truth but ignoring it anyway for whatever reason.
Most times the reason is that the truth contradicts what they want to believe or do.
And that's malice: intentionally ignore the correct thing so you can do what you want.
Stupidity almost always comes with malice.
"Stupidity" should not be used like "dumb" or "ignorant". It wouldn't make sense, for example, call an animal "stupid" because it can't reason like a human. It is just unconscious, not stupid.
To be honest I think she's married to a much older guy ( his hair is white 🤍) because SHE CANNOT KEEP SOMEONE HER AGE. She is promoting settling for something less because she could never get a cute / younger dude BECAUSE she is too masculine. Lmao this is the irony about this woman and it drives me crazy lmao
This is SOOOO true. The red pill people pretend older rich guys are preferred by young women. It’s histerical. A hot young dude, say, in med school is much preferred to an old dude simply because he’s younger. Duh! It’s so funny to pretend a senior citizen man is just sooo desirable to 20 something women.
you right and a lot of people gonna be mad cuz it’s true
You are 100% right! Most young women feel naturally attracted towards young men not old farts!
She is definitely married to an older man. I've seen her talk about it and I agree 💯
Someone saying they have trouble/don't like making friends of the same sex is all the red flag I need to steer clear
the whole "the goodness of men" would eventually prevail and would have grated them rights is a bit of a bruh moment to me. Yeah not all people are bad ofc but I really wouldn't look at human history and go "yep if we just do nothing, eventually good people will just do the right thing" thats super naïve to me
She def believes trickle down economics
@@skullingtonfx4441 She believe only tax payers should vote so.
I actually feel kind of bad for this girl. She doesn’t seem like a bad person just really misguided. If I had to guess, it sounds like her mother mistreated her really badly. Even though she didn’t have a father figure around at least her view of men wasn’t as tainted as her view of women. She’s giving me like Lana Del Rey, soft girl vibes. They like feeling very dainty and feminine and they tend to go for the traditionally masculine older men. Like she literally fits the tumblr soft girl stereotype perfectly and there isn’t anything really wrong with that, I just wish she didn’t go down the red pill route. I feel like if she would have had like at least one or two really good women in her life growing up she would have just took the tumblr route instead of the red pill route. I also think her being a person of color contributed to going for the red pill only because red pill ideology is so popular in these minority communities.
She 100% sounds like every hispanic daughter who lived in a household where the mothers son was the little prince while the girl was casted aside emotionally growing up. Every justificiation and point she brings up leads right back to this
@@Doil-9938 Someway... somehow... you managed to conjure up a way to negatively place boys/men in a situation that has very little to do with them. Not every emotionally damaged woman came from a home where their brother is treated as royalty and while they are delegated to rot in the dungeon that is emotional neglect.
Talking shit about ppl being cautious about marriage in uncertain times when she literally married a man twice her age who's obviously financially stable???
Stable my arse lol he could get a heart attack any day now
That’s her high IQ kicking in 😂
Who didn’t come from TikTok raise their hands.✋
Who ends up on destiny’s channel through tik toc?
This is text book older man manipulating younger woman with daddy issues and she is trying to have his views to get his approval. Sad really
It sucks that her miscarriage is a shield from being asked how she'd feel about needing to go through a government investigation before she could abort a miscarriage that didn't pass on its own.
She's clearly wealthy enough to not have to worry about that.
Good point cause not many know that miscarriage can be an abortion.
@@mharris4264 It can't though... An abortion ends the life of a living organism. If you have a miscarriage, than the organism in question is already dead and therefore removing it cannot be considered an abortion. Using that kind of language to serves only to blur the lines and obfuscate in discussions about abortion.
I think she needs to be at peace right now and get of the internet so she can stay stress free during her pregnancy
@@mharris4264 Miscarriages are spontaneous abortions, they are not the procedure of an abortion. Very different and not interchangeable.
Talks about how it's a good idea to get married when you've young and financially unstable but married a dude 20 years older than her who has his shit together. Someone plz explain this shit to me.
''How do you hold frame with a kid?'' This is rock bottom red pill brainrot right there
This is almost sad. I hope she has a son because she seems to hate women
She seemed to really gloss over the fact that most women terminating a pregnancy already have 1 or more children, it's important to remember that many of them may already be struggling to afford food and care for the child/children they already have.
Adoption...
@@inrisalvatore9520 Are children being adopted as quickly as their being put up for adoption?
@@tatianadaniel3569 nope, but being available to adoption is better than being murdered.
@@inrisalvatore9520 But is it? I mean sure, murder is wrong.
But is putting children in a position to be amongst the most physiologically disadvantaged individuals in the world better?
Sure you have your success stories of children who were put up for adoption that when on to do quite well in life. Unfortunately, however, most of those children who grew up in the system never quite recover well enough to live productively because of the devastating experiences they were subjected to while coming up under those circumstances.
@@tatianadaniel3569 ok... So why don't you go to the orphanage and kill those childreen? After all, according to yourself, dying is better than wait to be adopted.
Well it is amusing that she mentions her GenX parents as lost based on being GenX but then she's married to a GenXer. LOL.
"I was wondering why I couldn't hold female friendships, and then I realized that there's something culturally wrong with women." I mean... that's one way to take it lol.
"My man doing dishes is foreplay." is trying to say it's so rare that a man is willing/able to do house chores that it's physically stimulating in the rare occasion it's witnessed. It's not about wanting them to do everything all the time. I think this woman was wrong about just about everything that was talked about on one level or another.
I really hated all of her opinions, thank-you!
"Only net taxpayers should be able to vote" = I have complete and utter disregard for disabled people
"I tend to favor the woman staying home and making the house, taking care of the kids..."
"But doesn't that mean that the (male) kids don't learn how to clean the house themselves"
"Sounds like an overbearing mother"
So what is it then??!?
She stated a bunch of alternative facts her man told her.
Lol
Her: Susan B. Anthony wasn’t looking out for women of color like me.
Also her: Black and brown women from low SES neighborhoods have abortions because they aren’t intelligent enough to see the consequences and if they are then it’s because they’re narcissists without morals because our grandparents were farmers and share croppers who lacked emotional intelligence. And abortion hurts these women more than it helps them because reasons and they don’t really care about abortion because they’ll have more kids later with some other guy therefore only bad women of color from these low SES neighborhoods have abortions.
Tf??
Whenever you can’t keep friendships with your gender that is a problem. Doesn’t matter how well you reason it away that’s a problem fr
Sometimes all you have around you are idiots, and even if they are all men, you wouldn't agree with them. So, no you are just fine not having friendships in many cases
@@anonsoldier8907 In some cases yeah I agree you won’t get along with the people around you. But to say generally that throughout your life you can’t sustain friendships with your gender that’s not normal. She’s like 30 years old at some point you gotta keep it real with yourself.
@Swaggattack71 It is rare, but it can happen. The truth is that most people don't get along with many of the people they know despite saying how sociable they are. But is polite or you want to save face. Deep , deep down we all know this.
@@anonsoldier8907 She probably lives in an area with atleast hundreds of thousands of people. She should be able to find women she could reasonably get on with if she wanted to.
It’s unreal how she talks about how people need to be more intelligent when she makes some of the stupidest anti-democracy arguments
But muh democracy 😂
Most people shouldn’t vote
This woman is the definition of the "I'm ready to settle".
More like ''I'm ready to settle, so every woman should''
the worst part about debating someone like this is that even if you win she's just gonna walk away from it thinking "yep I was right, men ARE smarter than women!!"
“My husband thinks I’m 115”
Lol guy just wanted to help her self esteem for sex probably
That shit almost made me click off the video
@@marketables 🤣
LMAO
it's amazing how learning the tiniest bit about someone's childhood allows you to understand why they hold every viewpoint they hold.
surrounded by narcissists who happened to be women + feel trouble connecting with other women because of dissimilarities + idolizing people who happen to be men and attributing that to them being men = female redpiller in adulthood
As a Latina she's not talking for all of us or the majority. Her view is just that..HERS. her reality is not everyones. This woman is in her own lil world
I have a problem with childless women talking about child rearing.