Emotional moments as girl who rejected the man that sponsored her in school returns to do this 2 him

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  • @fabiodasilva5103
    @fabiodasilva5103 3 місяці тому +49

    This guy should just let go this girl go, she will definitely live to regret this time to come.
    Karma will surely hit her so much hard soon nature is watching bro.... She's just after the material things let's watch and see where this will lead her to.
    Moses please find a way to heal your self, life doesn't end here bro.
    God will surely see you through bro.

  • @caramelkisses8396
    @caramelkisses8396 3 місяці тому +90

    This man has the right to be upset after being used for all of his money, and then the people are not grateful at all.

    • @ellamhanho9941
      @ellamhanho9941 3 місяці тому

      He said it himself that he did it for LOVE, Zso what's his problem 😮 the lady no want do again. The girl's mother is WRONG WRONG WRONG to force the girl to marry the boy she doesn't love anymore mama is afraid to pay back all the money he's spent on them. Lafwell, a beg, wash your mouth, why should you force the girl to marry the man just to make that man feel good and happy 😮😮😮😮😮Rubbish. Let the mother and the girl move out and give him his property. She WILL marry the man and you go kpai as you've prophesiesd against yourself with your own mouth. Crazy man

    • @alukoyetunde5636
      @alukoyetunde5636 3 місяці тому +11

      For 4 years😢😢😢😢. Sponsored her.
      Paid her house rent
      Buying drugs for her Mom every month. He has d right to be upset 😡

    • @NoncebaDaka-l1g
      @NoncebaDaka-l1g 3 місяці тому +7

      The guy is angry justified so

    • @ellamhanho9941
      @ellamhanho9941 3 місяці тому +2

      @@alukoyetunde5636 we shouldn't be doing good deeds to get something back and it appears that this young man had ulterior motives in doing that. He wanted to marry the daughter but you can't use help and assistance as collateral. 😢 😿 😭 and if I'm not mistaken, it was mentioned in a previous episode this was at his own family's expense, he never helped his own. What kind of love be dat except that it's control of the worst kind. 😳 😳 😳

    • @caramelkisses8396
      @caramelkisses8396 3 місяці тому +2

      ​​@@ellamhanho9941Young lady from the video is this you?

  • @taiwodavies1020
    @taiwodavies1020 3 місяці тому +58

    Why can't this man allow this girl go, she and her mum will live to regret it. Karma is real. Its a matter of time.

  • @jessintafrancis8318
    @jessintafrancis8318 3 місяці тому +92

    She used him as a stepping stone,wicked young lady.

    • @yemisioladapo2011
      @yemisioladapo2011 3 місяці тому +2

      And do you think that's right, it's not she should expect karma

    • @PeterDickson-fy3wu
      @PeterDickson-fy3wu 3 місяці тому

      All the same it was not at gun point. It was voluntary (the help). It was out of blind love. So d help can't be collateral.

  • @caramelkisses8396
    @caramelkisses8396 3 місяці тому +41

    Why do they get upset every time he says what he has done? Why can't the new guy do these things for them?

  • @evangelisti.bherbert5576
    @evangelisti.bherbert5576 3 місяці тому +34

    If this girl agreed to come back to you, will you accept her at all this? God is helping you now and you are hearing it.

    • @marcelnfotabong2377
      @marcelnfotabong2377 3 місяці тому

      It's a well prepared plan fabricated by the daughter and her mother

  • @ambroseutin2729
    @ambroseutin2729 3 місяці тому +64

    Lafwell you must leave once your client leaved!!

  • @NgoziFavour-vr3cl
    @NgoziFavour-vr3cl 3 місяці тому +86

    Lafwel please advise the young man to move on with his life the girl's mind is off guy

  • @OGBUANUKWUtv
    @OGBUANUKWUtv 3 місяці тому +34

    Old boy, please move on. When love begins to wane, you usually find something to blame. Move on please else if you eventually marry her, it will not last.

  • @sundayezikpe2156
    @sundayezikpe2156 3 місяці тому +28

    Please moses can you leave this girl and move on

  • @delishabeaut3366
    @delishabeaut3366 3 місяці тому +14

    My brother please leave this girl God will bless you to marry is by choice not by force 😢i feel your pain

  • @badanile1781
    @badanile1781 3 місяці тому +18

    Stress your self free guy leave that girl karma will reach.her.you are handsome God will meet you with a good wife.

  • @benjaminmavin326
    @benjaminmavin326 3 місяці тому +25

    Oga this girl don't love you anymore you can not force love let her go and move on with your life

    • @gracedara5307
      @gracedara5307 3 місяці тому +6

      Is it easy to move on we are talking about yrs paying rent buying medications for the the mother weekly paying school fees giving pocket money who does that, is lady stop using men like this he’s someone son too my Gosh 😢

    • @PeterDickson-fy3wu
      @PeterDickson-fy3wu 3 місяці тому

      It was not tied to marriage pls

    • @laminandul4040
      @laminandul4040 3 місяці тому

      It's not easy to just opt and go. for someone to go to the extent of doing everything for her and extending it to the mother and they are collecting it willingly and am sure even making demands from him from time to time. It is covertly said and accepted that at some point they willmarry that is if they haven'tdiscussedit. The worst is that the girl is throwing it on his face, using the new guy to brag and rubbing salt to his fresh injury. I mean who does that? They are ordering him out of the house he's been paying for. If he didn't take good care of her, will the abroad guy be interested? Where was he when this guy was taking care? If he knew he was still interested, why was he not helping out? How much is 5m compared to years of spending, taking care, developing her, showering her with love, stabilizing her life etc. Lafwell allow this guy to vent his frustration anyway, anyhow. That's where he's healing starts from. What he's been offered is far more that what he's invested e.g time, love, emotions and resources. When he thought he's almost at the finishing line, she has taken him back to the starting point.

    • @lorainejoseph8653
      @lorainejoseph8653 3 місяці тому

      Why do all that for someone and you are not even married to them? Yes you intended to get married to her but people change. Shit happens. Ive done good for people whether its husband or bf at the time or even friends and i got stabbee in the back. But its a life lesson that we shudnt trust no one. If ure doing good for someone , do it to an extend not go beyond. I feel your pain my dear but if they cant give u what u want wud u kill them for it? Move on and try to be more successful. Life is lesson for us to learn everyday. Try to not to take it the bad way but learn from it so it wont happen to you again.

    • @Empayadeblaqbwoy11
      @Empayadeblaqbwoy11 3 місяці тому

      @@PeterDickson-fy3wu Do you reason guy

  • @RokieMelville
    @RokieMelville 3 місяці тому +18

    Moses please live this girl ok this girl is not for you she see another man sit down and let God fight for u

  • @ElizabethEgbuonu
    @ElizabethEgbuonu 3 місяці тому +18

    Men should learn, many are still making the same mistake

    • @Gbazgbo
      @Gbazgbo 3 місяці тому

      It is not a mistake, it is a contract everybody supposed to respect it

    • @Lisa30981
      @Lisa30981 3 місяці тому

      ​@@Gbazgboancient contract in Uganda,Educate a woman wen shez your wife.

  • @MercyAiyevbekpen-mj2qo
    @MercyAiyevbekpen-mj2qo 3 місяці тому +7

    Laffwell please talk to this guy God doesn't sleep , is a God of justice.

  • @JessicaChiwendu-hm8em
    @JessicaChiwendu-hm8em 3 місяці тому +13

    Once a person said he or she doesn't want you again please leave that marriage, because definitely you wouldn't enjo y that marriage.... either she/he will be cheating on you! And makes you unhappy!

    • @mondaybenson5500
      @mondaybenson5500 3 місяці тому

      It's not that easy based on what he has done for her and her mother over the years. They are evil.

  • @nicholasjarju7729
    @nicholasjarju7729 3 місяці тому +4

    Mr Moses please don't think about the past think about the future,, please move on Moses better days are on the way,,a brother from the Gambia

    • @alukoyetunde5636
      @alukoyetunde5636 3 місяці тому +1

      Better days are Ahead of you Moses.
      Your future is bright.
      You will not die but live in Jesus name Aaamen....Almighty God will grant you all d desires of your heart and give you a beautiful and God fearing lady.
      Laffwell kindly arrange a blind date for him. 😢

  • @godisgreat2391
    @godisgreat2391 3 місяці тому +3

    Karma dey baby girl the world is watching you ok😂😮😂😮

  • @PriscillaobiageliChukwu
    @PriscillaobiageliChukwu 3 місяці тому +2

    This Woman is talking very well, and you spoiled everything.

  • @dariakoudemon3030
    @dariakoudemon3030 3 місяці тому +24

    Lafwell is painful don't blame the guy

  • @julietroberts7781
    @julietroberts7781 3 місяці тому +3

    This woman is deceitful, she called the guy to make him a fool. This girl is ungrateful

  • @Capitalbase
    @Capitalbase 3 місяці тому +54

    Gold diggers everywhere

    • @sileussejour5474
      @sileussejour5474 3 місяці тому

      Let her come back begging for forgiveness ungrateful girl with a big mouth. karma will deal with that ingrate girl. Let the guy you love pay him back with at least,200 millions naira simple. From USA

  • @feliciaagbaegbu7813
    @feliciaagbaegbu7813 3 місяці тому +1

    Truly Truly, this woman is a very good mother.

  • @getrudechapuisat6630
    @getrudechapuisat6630 3 місяці тому +1

    The GUY has every right,if he curse you it wlll IMMEDIATELY n AUTOMATICALLY ACTIVATED,Lafwel leave once your client leave YOU HEAR

  • @especialTVrolls
    @especialTVrolls 3 місяці тому +2

    Red flags everywhere. There's no respect, no appreciation , no understanding.Don't marry o. Let it go.

  • @lucianthomas3343
    @lucianthomas3343 3 місяці тому +28

    This girl has no remorse.

  • @lucasignatius492
    @lucasignatius492 3 місяці тому +3

    This marriage can never never work unless u are embarking on suicide mission. They should know that the guy is angry but he is over reacting. The girl has done her worst by rejecting him after all these years full of expensive spending. Some ladies are truly wicked. But please tell them a reasonable amount they can be able to pay so u can move on with ur fulture. The lady is not urs and karma is real. The mother should not be acting as if she is in support of her daughter's action, she should know that the guy is angry and bitter by the action of her daughter and whatever he voice out of his mouth is as a result of that.

  • @SadaraNamubiru-qd6mp
    @SadaraNamubiru-qd6mp 3 місяці тому +17

    Let them pay what he wants please

  • @mosesmike8298
    @mosesmike8298 3 місяці тому +38

    Moses you are taking this matter too much, why I said so is because there's no how this girl we love you again, please get the money for yourself

  • @mummyk9153
    @mummyk9153 3 місяці тому +1

    This guy should let go of her

  • @lanrebenson6976
    @lanrebenson6976 3 місяці тому +5

    You're right there's no how' the girl will ever love him again

  • @YaaN-cl7cv
    @YaaN-cl7cv 3 місяці тому +1

    Moses, I will never advise that you marry this girl.

  • @nkechionyeario7682
    @nkechionyeario7682 3 місяці тому +7

    Young man,please thank God for what happened,God will give you a better girl

  • @isabellanartey7424
    @isabellanartey7424 3 місяці тому +1

    Don't force that girl to marry you. You don't know what God is saving you from. Move on, and you will be fine

  • @summanelson5523
    @summanelson5523 3 місяці тому +14

    This young man is so hurt and he cannot take it!!!

    • @berthyanochima2205
      @berthyanochima2205 3 місяці тому

      It's very painful, after all that he has done for her so ungrateful thing

  • @leahdabeng7435
    @leahdabeng7435 3 місяці тому +22

    Very wicked mother and daughter they are only after the money and material things

  • @zebuluniliya6735
    @zebuluniliya6735 3 місяці тому

    Oga sebi you say you no go hear word,if you dare marry this girl dem go dey nack am for inside your house. Don't try it o heart break will finish you,allow this childish girl go o.

  • @mekwunyeanthony8955
    @mekwunyeanthony8955 3 місяці тому +1

    Please take your money and leave this girl, if not you will regret it Man.

  • @chichiosuji6905
    @chichiosuji6905 3 місяці тому +1

    This young man is controlling. Is not by force you marry anyone. Stop it, y'all 🛑. Enough!!! Everyone count your losses and move on.

    • @Ebuka_of_Accra
      @Ebuka_of_Accra 3 місяці тому

      This is definitely something you can do from the way you are sounding. Witch!

  • @lhenry3324
    @lhenry3324 3 місяці тому +2

    Young man leave both her and mother and run like you hear news. Something is wrong with her.

  • @hassanakinebrew7373
    @hassanakinebrew7373 3 місяці тому +2

    I advise young guys to learn their lesson because after they train and take care of the girls when they go to the camp and see another guy thy forget about who train them is a shame

  • @BeatoMagnus-nh2uj
    @BeatoMagnus-nh2uj 3 місяці тому +1

    Lafwell,this family is wicked and ungrateful,I don't believe how heartless, Bella karma is waiting for you.Bye for now.

  • @oguchejeremiahenemali5683
    @oguchejeremiahenemali5683 3 місяці тому

    This girl has been hypnotized. Get a Pastor to pray for her to regain her consciousness.

  • @Ezenwaa
    @Ezenwaa 3 місяці тому

    Oga, apply this issue spiritual
    Look for a stronger native doctor make her mad or make so thar she won't have a baby when she's married

  • @yemisiakerele3634
    @yemisiakerele3634 3 місяці тому

    Lafwell no matter what always stick and stay with your clients. Don’t always say they’re wrong in the face of provocation. You can call them outside the show to reprimand them not taking sides with the culprits.

  • @vebongw
    @vebongw 3 місяці тому +1

    Weaked family.
    Lafwell, you are not competent enough to handle this matters.

  • @DorisMwalugaja
    @DorisMwalugaja 3 місяці тому +1

    Am from Tanzania please my son leave this girl for your good life

  • @venajoseph1819
    @venajoseph1819 3 місяці тому +1

    Lafwell you are wrong

  • @judithgumbo3494
    @judithgumbo3494 3 місяці тому +1

    Moses, leave that girl, shes ungrateful

  • @philipankamah6392
    @philipankamah6392 3 місяці тому

    This Bella is very wise and respectful...always calm...God bless her n her mum... anyway,marriage is not by force though

  • @venajoseph1819
    @venajoseph1819 3 місяці тому +1

    Lafwell you are encouraging this! This is wrong! This boy has nothing to do with him! Why the police are not involved

  • @kena.e.6399
    @kena.e.6399 3 місяці тому

    Wow what a great and a good mother I must say...

  • @lanrebenson6976
    @lanrebenson6976 3 місяці тому +11

    The Guy should have applied wisdom instead of trying to mock the mother..

    • @PatienceUrhobo
      @PatienceUrhobo 3 місяці тому

      Moses do you know that God almighty will fight for you live her and how mother alone

    • @roseofroses4453
      @roseofroses4453 3 місяці тому +2

      He is saying the truth not mocking. Was her 5million not an insult and mockering to the guy? What did you people say?

    • @antoniopaulo4367
      @antoniopaulo4367 3 місяці тому +1

      May what they did to him happen to you.

    • @Rebeccaclassic-u9y
      @Rebeccaclassic-u9y 3 місяці тому

      You don't know how it feels to love someone.ungrateful humans everywhere

    • @Rebeccaclassic-u9y
      @Rebeccaclassic-u9y 3 місяці тому

      You don't know how it feels to love someone.ungrateful humans everywhere

  • @IkediIgwe-ob3jx
    @IkediIgwe-ob3jx 3 місяці тому

    And also pray for a better day if u get married to her u can't gain that love again, u might even start maltreating her, even though u have never done such thing pls my dear brother be patience, even our father said any disappointment has it own blessing, pls let it be your own blessing... Thank u

  • @veendakauapirura8725
    @veendakauapirura8725 3 місяці тому

    Lafwel please take 🙏care of his mental health 🙏 Tell him must that God for better beautiful God fearing wifey ❤️ I want him to be his mother if want to take a break 🙏 come to Namibia 🇳🇦 ❤️ 🙏

  • @bernedettekuteyi3843
    @bernedettekuteyi3843 3 місяці тому

    This is a big lesson for both men and women, STOP paying School Fees for love interest and their family

  • @amaadjei6716
    @amaadjei6716 3 місяці тому +3

    If a lady says she loves you even that one is a problem ho much more she says she doesn't love please move on.

  • @victoriaadedapo4088
    @victoriaadedapo4088 3 місяці тому

    Mama bella you are good woman,moses fe .

  • @factchinembiri1878
    @factchinembiri1878 3 місяці тому +1

    Very wicked so sad

  • @allicecillia3153
    @allicecillia3153 3 місяці тому +1

    I don't know why you this people can forget and move on your life and give God chance to judge between two of you

  • @AnabelEmmanuel-no1zf
    @AnabelEmmanuel-no1zf 3 місяці тому

    Mother and daughter have a plains here," pretending to be advising her daughter for good, bros leave her and move on

  • @anyanwokelucy6798
    @anyanwokelucy6798 3 місяці тому +1

    Lafwel, try to calm the situation ,you aways like to prolong matters.

  • @maureenm568
    @maureenm568 3 місяці тому

    Wow, things is getting out of hand. Take it easy Moses 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @PriscillaobiageliChukwu
    @PriscillaobiageliChukwu 3 місяці тому +1

    You made a mistake by using her predicament to mock her.

  • @feliciteruzunga4652
    @feliciteruzunga4652 3 місяці тому +1

    Mother your daughter will face hell in all relationships, you will not go unpunished, you will not have love again

  • @JoanaJane-tc5ov
    @JoanaJane-tc5ov 3 місяці тому +3

    This gal is mouthy mouthy she can't even listen to here mother,she won't even respect you, young man move on with your life 🇰🇪

  • @RuthWangs
    @RuthWangs 3 місяці тому +2

    This girl never loved you man!,she was only enjoying what you were providing

  • @ebohprince3666
    @ebohprince3666 3 місяці тому

    That man you are planning to marry, when the guy money will finish you and your mother will look for another man again

  • @pedrolake6907
    @pedrolake6907 3 місяці тому

    Lafwell walk away from this guy bro,THIS GIRL IS RIGHT BRO.

  • @YaaN-cl7cv
    @YaaN-cl7cv 3 місяці тому

    Mama and her daughter have planted a seed. They will harvest the fruits in due season.

  • @alimamykamara3529
    @alimamykamara3529 3 місяці тому

    You have a long way to go my friend. I know it's painful. Pls allow the Almighty God to fight for you. That girl doesn't love you. She is very ungrateful. Carry on with your life as that is not the end of the world. You are handsome and there are so many serous women out there looking out for serious men.

  • @hellenmorgan274
    @hellenmorgan274 3 місяці тому

    Like mother like daughter Karma will surely visit this girl

  • @juliusakinola4453
    @juliusakinola4453 3 місяці тому +1

    Please tell this man God have a better plan for him he should avoid giving that woman blood pressure or heart-attack ooo what is wrong with him. I know the young is stupid and silly but that’s woman.

  • @nownottomorrowshow2516
    @nownottomorrowshow2516 3 місяці тому +1

    And this moses is not only handsome but also caring.Bella's mother is a scammer

  • @vebongw
    @vebongw 3 місяці тому

    Bro, you are right and correct!!!!

  • @roseofroses4453
    @roseofroses4453 3 місяці тому

    Lafwel live that young man to pour out his anger ok? It won't change anything because that woman and daughter are gold digger. Her mom was just pretending to clear her dead conscience but they both know what they are doing.

  • @EstherAshuTambe
    @EstherAshuTambe 3 місяці тому

    Please young man leave the young lady alone. She does not love you. Love and marriage is not by force. I do not know why you must sponsor a woman before you marry her. What are her parents doing? It is not your duty to do that. Men should learn from such ungrateful ladies. God is helping you by removing this girl from your life. You will meet a better girl who will love, cherish and respect you. Move forward.

  • @fredahkimanani8214
    @fredahkimanani8214 3 місяці тому

    Dis girl s not worthy fighting for bcos of her BOLDNESS she s even RANTING. NFRONT OF HER MOTHER

  • @isaacudeh3727
    @isaacudeh3727 3 місяці тому

    Oga rest abeg, u can't force her to marry you. You re not the first person who trained a lady through school. must you reduce this woman because you bought her drugs or rent ? Guy u can't do anything.

  • @person9095
    @person9095 3 місяці тому +1

    This girl's are something else...... very unfortunate.

  • @chichiosuji6905
    @chichiosuji6905 3 місяці тому

    At this point, everyone should go their separate ways. She can't be forced to marry him. Young man move on. This is toxic already.

  • @HappyBakedBuns-mo4jb
    @HappyBakedBuns-mo4jb 3 місяці тому +4

    am ready to marry him and I change his life

    • @Nims643
      @Nims643 3 місяці тому

      Ready made food

    • @adesanyaoluwatoyin5287
      @adesanyaoluwatoyin5287 3 місяці тому +1

      I will be the happiest person if you propose to him and change Moses life

    • @HappyBakedBuns-mo4jb
      @HappyBakedBuns-mo4jb 3 місяці тому

      @@adesanyaoluwatoyin5287 just know am waiting for him to inbox me

  • @comradeayigagallery8945
    @comradeayigagallery8945 Місяць тому

    This lady has no manners. She will definitely regret this

  • @suzettethompson7443
    @suzettethompson7443 3 місяці тому

    Young man what you did was out of the goodness of your heart. At least so it seems. Although the young woman didn’t exit with gratitude and respect. That is Not the way for you to GAIN Victory. Move on let go and let GOD🕯️🙏🏾🙏🏾🕯️

  • @AnthonyOkafor-jh9tv
    @AnthonyOkafor-jh9tv 3 місяці тому

    Good Mother , God Almighty bless you Ma What's happening in this part of the world calabar region precisely, boys train girls and the girl turn back on her later after school though it happens everywhere but it's more common in Calabar region , please guys be careful

  • @anyanwokelucy6798
    @anyanwokelucy6798 3 місяці тому +1

    Lafwel do have a pastor that you attach yourself with.

  • @divinefavour-u4f
    @divinefavour-u4f 3 місяці тому

    Pls this guy should leave this girl alone she's wicked and heartless

  • @adamaturay6272
    @adamaturay6272 3 місяці тому

    Young man you are handsome and very young please leave this girl and move on, karma will surely come and locate her sooner or later. She used you but God will fight for you. And do not even demand anything from them, leave the house for them and the money. God will fight your battle, you cannot force someone to love you.

  • @philipodewole5333
    @philipodewole5333 3 місяці тому

    Moses,there is power in silence. Just suspend the actions u planned carrying out.
    I understand your pain,that girl is not worth dieing for ,or going to prison for. That house is on timebomb, anything happens to that mama considering her health u will be held responsible,just let go and hand over to God.
    No let this girl make u run mad

  • @fatonaadedoyinololade1210
    @fatonaadedoyinololade1210 3 місяці тому

    Moses you leave everything to God. The Law of Kama is real. I am speaking from experience.

  • @ugwulagerman6036
    @ugwulagerman6036 3 місяці тому +1

    Guy take the 5m and live the lady alone, marriage is not by force,

  • @david0g0nuidu14
    @david0g0nuidu14 3 місяці тому

    Moses I feel ur pain .the mum and her daughter are not gud pple . Dat lady will cry and cry in dat marriage.Moses take it easy and move on

  • @jamesenemali8445
    @jamesenemali8445 3 місяці тому

    Lafwel, thanks for the update, please don't left behind once ur client leaves.
    Let the guy go ahead and do whatever he likes, Coz to my own view, what the woman was saying seems not to be real bro. Nonsense

  • @UyiBridget
    @UyiBridget 3 місяці тому

    Moses stop, na this reason de mk u de loose d girl so be nice and calm to her u fit still win her

  • @esthersarpong7642
    @esthersarpong7642 3 місяці тому

    For Bella, whenever one opens his mouth, is a shout

  • @claudetteharriott3365
    @claudetteharriott3365 3 місяці тому

    She cannot even help her mother and this so called man let him show himself,something just is not right.

  • @ChileAgwu
    @ChileAgwu 3 місяці тому

    Make Una Dey MUMU Dey Train Girl & Sponsor Girl Family While Neglecting Ur Own Family Members, Since Una No Wan Learn.

  • @beefuakeekyir8631
    @beefuakeekyir8631 3 місяці тому

    The mother is very aware of the daughter's behaviour. She supports the daughter. Pls lafwell don't side with them
    They are very wicked

  • @adekoyaoluwafemi5088
    @adekoyaoluwafemi5088 3 місяці тому +1

    Yeah the lady betrayed him, i accept " but the guy makes things worse again" the guy talking too much which very bad statement of him
    You don't settle things like this you need to be calm down, for example if things settle with 😢each other the real love will not be there anymore " remember she have right to choose what she wants you cannot force her to marry you by force, so calm yourself down