Thank you Michelle for the wise advice to our young girls. One thing I know is that at 18/19 we were so eager to break our virginity. But when you clock 25+ you begin to wish you had kept yourself for the special guy i.e. your hubby. Nonetheless, we live and learn so that we can share stories with those who will come after us. Ladies, do not live in regret. Jesus offers forgiveness for whatever sinful past lifestyle you had, then choose to be pure and wait until marriage! And for those who got babies, they are not mistakes, love them and take care of yourself as Michelle said, spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically. It will always be okay in the end when you choose to intentionally raise them well and be a better version of yourself. May God guide all who will read this 💖
I love how you speak aki....I am like 35weeks pregnant and I don't even know what I am doing....buh lucky enough I just graduated from KU in Dec....I still don't even have clothes for baby😂😂😂😂and it's so overwhelming
I do really feel you in this conversation😒 sometimes is even worse when you get pregnant and the one responsible decides to turn you off😭😭 and also being cut off by family or people close tou you😪 it so devastating😫 thank you mitch for sharing i know it has enlightened and encouraged somebody😊 c ubarikiwe sana mummy♥️🙏
Thank you Michelle,your advice was on point full of experience and wisdom not forgetting keeping God in the middle of everything, you are amazing ❤️👍🙏🏼
I agree with you 100% because I went through almost a similar experience and though for me I had just graduated, it was still hard for me because I was the hope of the family and even before I had secured a good job, boom! Our young girls need to hear more of this.
Had this conversation with my mathe the other day on how that generation failed in parenting ( dealing with girlchild) 🤦🏿♀️😃 all they did was tell us " i don't want to see you with boys" and they didn't give us the reasons and the consequences upto to date she still can't do that imagine ...but i try to understand her cz she was also raised by her siblings her parents died when she was too young . I have a niece who is in her adolescent stage now,she is really feeling herself and very stubborn am trying to understand her but when i look at how her late mum was , she needs someone to talk to tell her like it is before it's too late...my mathe was like " i cannot tell her bluntly will look for someone to do that 😆😆" but luckily, am planning to go back to 254 soon i must have that conversation with her i can do it...these young girls need to be talked too i can relate with everything you said i got pregnant too at an early stage and forced to grow so fast it's been a journey and still is but God has been faithful ☺️.
Hey gurl Hey, I love these teachable moments, you are such a special person to be as vulnerable as you are being and so transparent is incredible of you keep up the good work you are a blessing☺💕💕🦋
My story and yours are straightly a ryme ,I got pregnant at 19 ,going to my sec Yr, I totally understand the struggle and trauma. It was alot to deal with ,listening to you today has greatly energised me, it has completely changed my mindset and aweken some lively spirit. # thanks mishi...that talk does alot of goodies
Im watching this and i can imagine the fear you had telling your dad since we grew up together pale koma and your dad was firrrrre,,im now turning 21 and i won't take this for granted,,thank you
the same happened with me,was so hard but God is faithful,my baby is turning two years this month.i did my final exams last year dec and am now working,,you've encouraged me mitchel
Michelle Ngoje, ones again you have been a great inspiration to me. Especially in this video. This was the first video that I watched in your channel and for sure I feel blessed and encourage. Am 24yrs old and in campus. I actually can relate your story to mine as I also got pregnant at 19. The guy decided to run off, I decided to just gain the courage and raise my kid. I has been a tough journey. At some point I fell in love again and I started dating. I trusted someone again I loved the guy, I really wanted a father figure for my baby gal but I was all wrong. I got pregnant and the guy changed. he started cheating, you know treating me vibaya and so on. I had a rough time making the decision of keeping the kid. But I did, and now I have a baby boy 7months old, very cute, still in campus, hustling, studying. It has not been easy, but God has been faithful. I have had to deal with being ill mouthed, being pointed out as a bad influence and being sidelined. But God has given me the strength to overcome all these. I am looking forward to graduate this yr and enrolling my baby gal to school next yr as she is turning three on July. I really love my kids, and they have really positive impacted my life. I have never and will never see them as a mistake, rather a great blessing. I can say that I have become more responsible, I have matured and being both mum and dad has not been easy but God has given me the strength and knowledge that I need. I trust in Him. I guess I rushed but since I cannot turn back time am doing my best to live in the moment, and be a great parent to my kids. I have faith that I will make it. #I REFUSE TO GIVE UP. I LOVE YOU MICHELLE AND ONES AGAIN YOU ARE A GREAT INSPIRATION TO ME.
You are so brave and wise well amongst your years. I had a child at a young age, and you are right it takes a strong minded woman, young or old, but especially young, with no means to rear another human being to mature and take on that responsibility. I love your story and the encouragement you shared with others. And I think the most important part of your advice is to have God in your life. He will lead and guide you to all blessings. God bless you my wise and young sistah!🥰😇❤
I echo what you saying...at 26a single parent because the relationship couldn't work is tough...one you don't know if you can even rely on that person. Two I got suicidal after fighting depression, never had a support system; no parents...no job Recently realized I have bleeding from my childhood traumas so am also doing the intentional conscious parenting. It's hard had to resume my chores and hustles 6weeks post cs, we're now at 4months and it's tough because my firstborn is barely 2.6yrs.. there are days I crave for a breather but I can't cause am doing it all alone. I tell people that parenting is more of emotional and psychological than what we grew up thinking: financial My intention is to also raise a generation that won't have to recover from their childhood as adults. That means me healing me and connecting with my higher self... Please if you're in your early 20's do better than us... it's draining that I tell you
Hugs dear.wish I could hug you honestly I got pregnant at 21 am now 29 and am scared of more kids been doing it all alone too it gets better GOD intervenes.at times I wish I listened to my Mom aki she warned me .
I feel really motivated when strong women raise to speak😍😍 Personally, i gave birth in First Year UON, battled with mental and emotional torture,,,I had lots of encouraging friends but I still felt lonely inside.. Gave birth faced it all, here I am Proudly loving what am becoming. I thank God😍😍
This discussion is very valuable. Many girls will benefit from your talk. I have twin sisters and they are gorgeous. I love your topic it needs to be discussed. Good content love from Philadephia Pennsylvania.
So nice encouraging young girls was in a similar situation same time as you btw was in KU too. The journey is not easy but the Lord is there for us to pick us up and also for support from family.
Wow this was deep. I am also a mum and I get you. I wish young gals can learn from us because sex will always be there, you just need patience, bold and intentional in your decisions.
I feel you kabisa I remember my dad stopped talking to me a whole year and we lived under the same roof so I get you parents also take time to heal but my mom may God bless her she was there for me and my son …looking back I was so traumatized and depressed and felt so disappointed at myself until my self esteem went down but 8 years down the line God has been faithful indeed its a journey that only God can take us through ,plus having a support system is very important ….thanks for sharing with us mitch be blessed 😊 and to every young girl out here please don’t do the mistakes we did be careful with yourself being a mom at a young age is so traumatizing that I can tell you for free
Hey gurl Hey, I like that you speak to younger women, about your life experiences, and words of encouragement you are a Class Act woman, you are beautiful as well and by the way you need your own TV show, I can just see your inner spirit it's wonderful and bright🤗🤗🎉🎉💕💕
I guess this has happened to so many of us. We have the same story. Sometimes we wish someone told us but it just happened that way. Thanks for the talk
I got pregnant at 17 my Dad just told me to pack and go to where I didn't even know coz I didn't even understand what pregnancy was😭. If gals could hear this. Thank you Mama twins
I always say everything happens with a reason it wasn't a mistake,God knew y some people are to have even that one kid.everything gets better as you say Mich🥰
Thanks alot Mitchelle for this at times i do feel like running away from my kids not that i hate them i love them sooo much i cant trade them for anything. Its the work involved around them.Gods Grace is, always sufficient!
I'm a teenage mom i was in denial even after my son was born, i thank God my parents were there for us, they did everything for us and even took me back to school, we may look ok but being a parent is not easy, i can't remember my life without a kid,
You look unreal with that makeup, in a good way of course. The hair, perfect denture everything. You look like the cutest animal from the cat family. Something in the lines of a cute fierce tiger. Dang I'm obsessed.
Mitch. For you it was a child getting children ..... On being lazy with the chores.....my mum used to tell me utaamshwa na zako.... The reality steps in when you get children....
Thanks alot Mitchell for the information. Wish our girls would hear this. Some impregnate you when School then they abandon both you and the child and more so call you names ......that you are not if their class, you are not well educated, forgetting that they are the ones responsible for your ..........
Me when i got pregnant my mum wanted nothing to do with me right now siwezi enda home like i haven't been okey since cause i go through alot and have no one to talk to
Being pregnant as a teenager is so mentally draining I got pregnant at 16 and it took me 6 Years to find out that I became depressed due to the pregnancy I held so much anger in me and it affected my child because of how I was treated because I got pregnant.Now I know better and working on myself to be a better mother to my kids 😔
Thank you Michelle for the wise advice to our young girls. One thing I know is that at 18/19 we were so eager to break our virginity. But when you clock 25+ you begin to wish you had kept yourself for the special guy i.e. your hubby. Nonetheless, we live and learn so that we can share stories with those who will come after us. Ladies, do not live in regret. Jesus offers forgiveness for whatever sinful past lifestyle you had, then choose to be pure and wait until marriage! And for those who got babies, they are not mistakes, love them and take care of yourself as Michelle said, spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically. It will always be okay in the end when you choose to intentionally raise them well and be a better version of yourself. May God guide all who will read this 💖
That true
Thank you Sharon
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@@khamisaisha739 welcome. God bless you
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I love how you speak aki....I am like 35weeks pregnant and I don't even know what I am doing....buh lucky enough I just graduated from KU in Dec....I still don't even have clothes for baby😂😂😂😂and it's so overwhelming
So profound mama Reign ,intentional parenting starts with dealing with childhood traumas thts where personal choice comes in,bless you mitch 🙏🙏
I do really feel you in this conversation😒 sometimes is even worse when you get pregnant and the one responsible decides to turn you off😭😭 and also being cut off by family or people close tou you😪 it so devastating😫 thank you mitch for sharing i know it has enlightened and encouraged somebody😊 c ubarikiwe sana mummy♥️🙏
This talk is everything. I wish many girls would hear this and decide to wait. Thanks for sharing Michelle.
This is sooo special talk. We need many of these in the era we are Mitchell 😘😘😘😘😘😘
Thank you Michelle,your advice was on point full of experience and wisdom not forgetting keeping God in the middle of everything, you are amazing ❤️👍🙏🏼
I agree with you 100% because I went through almost a similar experience and though for me I had just graduated, it was still hard for me because I was the hope of the family and even before I had secured a good job, boom! Our young girls need to hear more of this.
This is so powerful! I am so glad I got to watch this.
Had this conversation with my mathe the other day on how that generation failed in parenting ( dealing with girlchild) 🤦🏿♀️😃 all they did was tell us " i don't want to see you with boys" and they didn't give us the reasons and the consequences upto to date she still can't do that imagine ...but i try to understand her cz she was also raised by her siblings her parents died when she was too young . I have a niece who is in her adolescent stage now,she is really feeling herself and very stubborn am trying to understand her but when i look at how her late mum was , she needs someone to talk to tell her like it is before it's too late...my mathe was like " i cannot tell her bluntly will look for someone to do that 😆😆" but luckily, am planning to go back to 254 soon i must have that conversation with her i can do it...these young girls need to be talked too i can relate with everything you said i got pregnant too at an early stage and forced to grow so fast it's been a journey and still is but God has been faithful ☺️.
Hey gurl Hey, I love these teachable moments, you are such a special person to be as vulnerable as you are being and so transparent is incredible of you keep up the good work you are a blessing☺💕💕🦋
My story and yours are straightly a ryme ,I got pregnant at 19 ,going to my sec Yr, I totally understand the struggle and trauma. It was alot to deal with ,listening to you today has greatly energised me, it has completely changed my mindset and aweken some lively spirit. # thanks mishi...that talk does alot of goodies
Im watching this and i can imagine the fear you had telling your dad since we grew up together pale koma and your dad was firrrrre,,im now turning 21 and i won't take this for granted,,thank you
the same happened with me,was so hard but God is faithful,my baby is turning two years this month.i did my final exams last year dec and am now working,,you've encouraged me mitchel
Michelle Ngoje, ones again you have been a great inspiration to me. Especially in this video. This was the first video that I watched in your channel and for sure I feel blessed and encourage. Am 24yrs old and in campus. I actually can relate your story to mine as I also got pregnant at 19. The guy decided to run off, I decided to just gain the courage and raise my kid. I has been a tough journey. At some point I fell in love again and I started dating. I trusted someone again I loved the guy, I really wanted a father figure for my baby gal but I was all wrong. I got pregnant and the guy changed. he started cheating, you know treating me vibaya and so on. I had a rough time making the decision of keeping the kid. But I did, and now I have a baby boy 7months old, very cute, still in campus, hustling, studying. It has not been easy, but God has been faithful. I have had to deal with being ill mouthed, being pointed out as a bad influence and being sidelined. But God has given me the strength to overcome all these. I am looking forward to graduate this yr and enrolling my baby gal to school next yr as she is turning three on July. I really love my kids, and they have really positive impacted my life. I have never and will never see them as a mistake, rather a great blessing. I can say that I have become more responsible, I have matured and being both mum and dad has not been easy but God has given me the strength and knowledge that I need. I trust in Him. I guess I rushed but since I cannot turn back time am doing my best to live in the moment, and be a great parent to my kids. I have faith that I will make it. #I REFUSE TO GIVE UP. I LOVE YOU MICHELLE AND ONES AGAIN YOU ARE A GREAT INSPIRATION TO ME.
19 and thank you for your pep talk.. really thoughtful of you
You are so brave and wise well amongst your years. I had a child at a young age, and you are right it takes a strong minded woman, young or old, but especially young, with no means to rear another human being to mature and take on that responsibility. I love your story and the encouragement you shared with others. And I think the most important part of your advice is to have God in your life. He will lead and guide you to all blessings. God bless you my wise and young sistah!🥰😇❤
I echo what you saying...at 26a single parent because the relationship couldn't work is tough...one you don't know if you can even rely on that person. Two I got suicidal after fighting depression, never had a support system; no parents...no job
Recently realized I have bleeding from my childhood traumas so am also doing the intentional conscious parenting. It's hard had to resume my chores and hustles 6weeks post cs, we're now at 4months and it's tough because my firstborn is barely 2.6yrs.. there are days I crave for a breather but I can't cause am doing it all alone.
I tell people that parenting is more of emotional and psychological than what we grew up thinking: financial
My intention is to also raise a generation that won't have to recover from their childhood as adults. That means me healing me and connecting with my higher self...
Please if you're in your early 20's do better than us... it's draining that I tell you
Hugs dear.wish I could hug you honestly I got pregnant at 21 am now 29 and am scared of more kids been doing it all alone too it gets better GOD intervenes.at times I wish I listened to my Mom aki she warned me .
I feel really motivated when strong women raise to speak😍😍
Personally, i gave birth in First Year UON, battled with mental and emotional torture,,,I had lots of encouraging friends but I still felt lonely inside..
Gave birth faced it all, here I am
Proudly loving what am becoming. I thank God😍😍
Aki I love you miiii...nimescroll tu ig kwa ur page I saw you have a video nikakimbia...am happy for you boo...uko na wisdom mbaya God bless
First off you're stunning girl. Two, the talk is everything. I can relate
Beib thanks for the advice,, hiyo make up imeweza, love you mamaa
This discussion is very valuable. Many girls will benefit from your talk. I have twin sisters and they are gorgeous. I love your topic it needs to be discussed. Good content love from Philadephia Pennsylvania.
So nice encouraging young girls was in a similar situation same time as you btw was in KU too. The journey is not easy but the Lord is there for us to pick us up and also for support from family.
Wow this was deep. I am also a mum and I get you. I wish young gals can learn from us because sex will always be there, you just need patience, bold and intentional in your decisions.
Michelle❤️I remember the blue hair lol😁. Thanks for sharing your story🤗.
May God use you for His glory to reach out to many young girls.
This is my story too... Thanks for sharing... One doesn't have to learn from their own mistake
ive never seen such amazing makeup,its worldclass.
5:00 AM in the morning??? You a real go getter.
This conversation is very educative Michelle. May God bless you.
I feel you kabisa I remember my dad stopped talking to me a whole year and we lived under the same roof so I get you parents also take time to heal but my mom may God bless her she was there for me and my son …looking back I was so traumatized and depressed and felt so disappointed at myself until my self esteem went down but 8 years down the line God has been faithful indeed its a journey that only God can take us through ,plus having a support system is very important ….thanks for sharing with us mitch be blessed 😊 and to every young girl out here please don’t do the mistakes we did be careful with yourself being a mom at a young age is so traumatizing that I can tell you for free
Amazing advice mami. Thank you for that 😍 and I'm so happy you're in a better place ❤
Hey gurl Hey, I like that you speak to younger women, about your life experiences, and words of encouragement you are a Class Act woman, you are beautiful as well and by the way you need your own TV show, I can just see your inner spirit it's wonderful and bright🤗🤗🎉🎉💕💕
Yooooooh this gal looks amazing make up check,the voice check, your story is amazing lots of love swee
You are amazing Mitch,,,following for story for another day
I guess this has happened to so many of us. We have the same story. Sometimes we wish someone told us but it just happened that way. Thanks for the talk
Thnx alot for the advice...N yu really look great🥰...The make up and hair is on point 👌🏼
"you don't have to get pregnant to learn a lesson.. you can choose to learn from us" i wish someone told me this 8yrs ago..
I love the way you calls us your girls...And you look stunning...
Thankyou mitchelle ama happy for the advice...be blessed
This is amazing
It touched me ...I got pregnant at 17 and I run out of home coz of fear ...
My parents were so bitter
At 17 you were young and still innocent I hope they got over it eventually.
So sorry dear hugs...take heart and remain strong.
Thanks so much Mitch for the advice lot's of love
It's the whoop my blaaaack ass🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is great boo🥺❤
Mitch this was thoughtful of you, Our young girls needed to here this story.❤❤
THAT WAS A VERY INSPIRING AND ENCOURAGING VIDEO 💯💯💯💯THANKS FOR ALWAYS SHARING WITH US🙏❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Mitchell you've helped and encourage so many of us through this video
FIRST OF ALL...MAKEUP ...THE BLENDING,THE CONTACTS ....EVERYTHING...this is soo wholesome ...thank you and congratulations to the life you have now
Na venye Leo Niko KU wueh!😂😂😂
I got pregnant at 17 my Dad just told me to pack and go to where I didn't even know coz I didn't even understand what pregnancy was😭. If gals could hear this. Thank you Mama twins
Same case too I got pregnant at 17 bt my grandmother stood with me though ni Ile shingo upande bt I thank God we are Fyn and hustling hard for my girl
Ulalalaaahhh it's the makeup for me 😍😍😍 Also the helpful talk wow you're blessed and smart mama..and thank you...💖💖💖
The makeup is on point.you are such a perfect makeup artist
Inspiring as always,, thanks Mitch💕
You just so adorable Deimos ♥️
Mitchell this is wow..you're a living testimony 🥰
I always say everything happens with a reason it wasn't a mistake,God knew y some people are to have even that one kid.everything gets better as you say Mich🥰
Are struggling "
Thank you mitch 4 sharing ur experience with us 🥰🥰🥰🥰keep inspiring us gal
This realy touched me, , , Thankyou i learnes things from you that disnt know 🙏
Wooow, look legit make up iko rada mbaya💕💕🌹
Wooow thanks for a powerful message michelle, , 😍😍😍
I can relate 😓😭
Thanks for the talk.
Wow thats my mentor mwaaah
Wow you look good...nice topic...
Am loving all this may God be with us and help us its not easy but am a testimony God is able in all cuzo
I just love Mitchell,iam a victim raising a kid nikiwa shule but I know I'll conquer it all in Jesus name
Aaawww❤️❤️ atleast now I have learnt something thanks mishy🥰🥰
Wow! This is powerful 🙏
This is a very informative and so encouraging... Parenting for sure is a journey
Thanks alot Mitchelle for this at times i do feel like running away from my kids not that i hate them i love them sooo much i cant trade them for anything. Its the work involved around them.Gods Grace is, always sufficient!
It is 💯
Tell them teen pregnancy is crazy I was traumatized when I lost my baby at 19 I have never healed
makeup sooo on point...its gorgeous😍
This can make one get emotional...good work Michelle
This is beautiful. Saying it as is.
Kindly do more videos of you talking on a topic, I looooved listening to you, you are so amazing
Woow I love the make up and video..which camera are you using?
It is the make up for me...you are talented n beautiful
I'm a teenage mom i was in denial even after my son was born, i thank God my parents were there for us, they did everything for us and even took me back to school, we may look ok but being a parent is not easy, i can't remember my life without a kid,
Aaaawn don't worry sweetie it only gets better...then soon it gets so awesome you will forget that you were ever in denial. Wish you Happy days ahead.
@@iamsamora thanks dear 😘
Educating talk dear keep going ♥️
The message soo educative thanks Mitch. And the make up OMG.. i found myself admiring it all the way kindly also share a video on the make up.
Thankyou 🥰 I didn't film because I thought it wouldn't be so interesting 😅 I'll do one next time
love the Greek goddess make up gurl..... wea can I get tht hair colour thingi u apply on ur hair kindly tell me Michelle
You look unreal with that makeup, in a good way of course. The hair, perfect denture everything. You look like the cutest animal from the cat family. Something in the lines of a cute fierce tiger. Dang I'm obsessed.
Denture?????😲😲😲 is she wearing dentures????🤔🤔🤔
Oooh I love her too...and those are her real teeth. She looks cute...I am learning alot from her make up tutorials and ill soon do a video about it.
Really,,,,this is a real description.
Hey gurrl ...your make up is on point ❤️
Mitch. For you it was a child getting children .....
On being lazy with the chores.....my mum used to tell me utaamshwa na zako....
The reality steps in when you get children....
Eiisshh make up imekubali,❤️❤️❤️
i feel you dia i got pregnant in form 4 n it was the getto.One day i wil share when am ready .
May God bless you gal, i have learned something
Very good content.thanks for the advice 💖
Very encouraging,your make up is on point
Your makeup is fireeeeee🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
talk about the addiction part your content is really inspiring .
I'm listening to this and I'm like how on earth have I never subscribed to your channel? Go go Mitchell
So Educative!
Thanks alot Mitchell for the information. Wish our girls would hear this. Some impregnate you when School then they abandon both you and the child and more so call you names ......that you are not if their class, you are not well educated, forgetting that they are the ones responsible for your ..........
Exactly. And that's the sad reality. 😔 I pray more of our young girls get to hear this
Relatable 💯
Me when i got pregnant my mum wanted nothing to do with me right now siwezi enda home like i haven't been okey since cause i go through alot and have no one to talk to
Hugs bbg♥️God is there for you
Sissy am here talk to me
I also got pregnant at 16 I can relate my mom kicked me out of the house I felt depressed and the guy who got me pregnant also left me
nice one mitchell...God bless you girl.
Watched this over and over again...girl, this is the kind of content we want. Looking forward for more good content this yr. Kaudos
Being pregnant as a teenager is so mentally draining I got pregnant at 16 and it took me 6 Years to find out that I became depressed due to the pregnancy I held so much anger in me and it affected my child because of how I was treated because I got
pregnant.Now I know better and working on myself to be a better mother to my kids 😔
Woooow!!U r just an amazing gal...Love u
Your make up,your smile. You are too gorgeous Mitch
please tell us more on how to realize talents....because you really are
Your makeup is on point babes