My name is Altaïr... I think I am Trans, FTM... Because: 1. Hate my body at all! 2. Two words: gender dysphoria. 3. I want to pass as a guy. 4. I hate with all my soul when they reffer at me with feminine pronumes... 5. I want a cool short haircut. 6. I feel extremely uncomfortable at the beach... 7. I have daydreaming about being a boy so bad! 8. In all my fantasies I am male! 9. I have a really bad chest dysphoria... 10. I increased my body muscles to look more manly. And I really hate the word " feminine"...I am pretty masculine and I am 150% sure I am not a tomboy... Do you think I am Trans?
Assassin's Creed Real life pranks I think you're reaching, but the only things you need to be trans is gender dysphoria (physical and/or social), a need or want to transition and after transition a feeling of euphoria and/or a clearer mind. My advice though, if you're confused or scared, take transition slowly. Don't rush into it. Cause you might regret it (I'm not saying you might want to detransition, you just might not be ready for such a quick change). Don't go get hormones if you feel like you don't really need it, don't get a double mastectomy if your body is incapable of handling such a major surgery, but if your dysphoria is crippling, do it. Just take it slow and know for sure transition is what you really want.
@@assassinscreedreallifepran1080 You're not trans because there is no such thing. A great many women suffer from gender dysphoria when we are young and mostly we grow out of it especially when we realise there is more than one way to be a woman! It is understandable that young women who don't fit the regressive stereotype of womanhood that is thrust on us from every angle should reject it and feel unhappy with what we are but that doesn't make us men. There is a high desistance rates among young women who start taking cross-sex hormones in their teens - this means they change their minds and decide they are women after all but sometimes it's too late for them to get their female voices back and hairless faces back. Transgender ideology is misogynistic and homophobic, it erases women and lesbians. It is a physical solution to a psychological problem. Stand up for women and for the right to express ourselves however we like. For thousands of articles - including some from trans people themselves - check out this site. www.peaktrans.org
@@Skuffy777 sure, that'd be great...if I didn't cry every time I saw my naked body and feel like I'm trapped inside a flesh suit...not to argue, but you kinda sound like a TERF
Questions to ask yourself if you think you’re trans (for FTM) 1: Do you find more comfort in male pronouns? 2: Do you prefer masculine names? If you answer yes and you strongly agree then you may have social dysphoria (dysphoria over how you’re seen socially) 1: Do you dislike/hate your chest, or genitals? 2: Do you prefer masculine clothing heavily over feminine clothing? 3: If Someone discussing your female changes or pointing out your chest/thighs/hips cause stress and insecurity? 4: Do you feel trapped in your body? When you look in the mirror do you see yourself of somebody else? 5: Have you had sudden and compulsive urges to flatten your chest or cover any sign of femininity? If you strongly agree or answer yes on all of these then you’re most likely trans, if you answer yes on most but some no then you might be trans, but it’s best you see a gender specialist
Yes to all of those except I have no problem with my genitals. It’s nice that they’re not obviously present. The only thing that sucks about it is having a cycle.
Bullshit. You are grooming children for your cult. Transitioning is an adult choice. The vast majority of gnc kids ARE NOT ‘transgender’, and, if supported, will mature into adult who do not have dysphoria. You are not qualified to tell people whether they are or are not ‘transgender’.
As a 15 year old I've only come across this problem recently. I don't know if I'm trans because I've always just thought of myself as neither male or female, just myself without some label. I would probably feel more comfortable if I transitioned but I am anxious my parents and friends wouldn't accept it or I would regret it in the long run. (I mentioned my age because I want to be taken seriously because there's alot of 10 year olds on here lmao)
Nobelium Uranium a 10 year olds feelings on this matter matter just as much as those of a 15 year old and also just as much as a 25 year old. We all come to learn truths about ourselves at different times and as a result of the different stimuli we all face in our lives. Only you know how you feel, and you only know how you feel at this moment. When you're trying to ask if your feelings are legitimate then you should be asking if they feel true to you and the opinions of others should not be considered. You are living your own life and you are the only one who is. No one can tell you who you are, nor should their opinions about you affect your truth. Whatever that is. Just keep an open mind and allow yourself the opportunity to change and develop as you continue to grow. You know who you are on the inside better than anyone trying to tell you who you are. All trans people experience life uniquely and not all trans people have the same experiences. You could be gender neutral and that's valid too.
I don’t think you should spend too much time worrying about labels. Tell me this, if you transitioned, would you be doing it for yourself, or for others? In other words, if nobody knew you had transitioned, would that still solve the problem or not? We should all love ourselves for who we are, regardless of our gender.
@@kagamispills please dont promote the Transtrender nonsence ! Almost all Non-binaries dont have disphoria, they're just faking being trans to be cool or something ! Non-binaries are absolutely Embarrassing for all Real Transgender people ! And the last thing I want is to feel embarrassed because some dude is trying to be cool !
I'm 41 and have had moderate to strong feelings about wishing I was the opposite gender. Roughly my entire adult life. Where I grew up there were zero resources for transitioning. So I just assumed the problem was just me, and bottled it up for decades. Was only in the past 10 years that I realized there were countless others with similar feelings, which gave me comfort. I hope to start my transitioning journey soon!
Hi I'm 14 years old and I have gender dysphoria and I strongly hate being referred to as a girl but what if this is all a phase and I regret everything?
@@Matthayden1965 Gender dysphoria however, is NOT normal in the slightest, and should be helped and not to be dismissed with a handwave and a "Oh when I was your age, I had all sorts of uncomfortable feelings"
I thought I didn't have any recognition of Transgender feelings as a young child. But then today I remembered being dressed up in clothing like my father. Suitcoat, necktie, a hat like all men used to wear. I remember wanting to be like my dad but at the same time feeling like I was acting.rather than being my genuine self. It felt like I was a lump of clay trying to find my true form.
Hi, I am a 14 year old and I've had gender dysphoria since I was little, but I am confused because the dysphoria kind of went away for a few years, but it came back, and now I get very uncomfortable in most womans clothes, and when I'm referred to as a girl by strangers. I really want to transition, but I'm terrifyed that this is just a phase and I will grow out of it, or that I'll be uncomfortable in my body no matter what I do. ( sorry if this is late or anything, I just started questioning my self seriously for the first time in years)
im a 12 year old girl I feel trapped in my body. I hate my boobs and I wish I had a penis but a sometimes I dont. I dont have a strong relationship with my parents and im scared to talk to them. I really need help but I dont know who to talk to.
Grace_is Weird same a few years ago I tried on girl boots cuse one of my friends was a girl and it wasn't to bad I really what this question to be answered but it's the hard for me to try and understand
Iam gonna tell you this..iam literally walking like a female even tho iam a boy..and I feel strange every day..for some reason my legs are getting weird these days...and I don't breath normal..instead I breath fast...and my heart beats fast..plus for I get dizzy all of suddens..if it means my gender is changing..than let it happen jeez..I don't really mind what gender I could be..also forgot to say when I trying to sit down my back gets heavy..aswell as some of my part body's getting hurt..plus I can't sit down like a usual boy's gender so that means iam a transgender cause of all of this no joke
Hi I am a 12 year old girl my mom says but I never liked going into girls bathrooms or changing rooms I feel uncomfortable talking with other girls and I don't know what to do I've always hated girls clothes my typical clothes are sweatshirt and jeans and I've had a feeling for girls a few times help and I trans?
leonawolf vlogs you could be. do you experience discomfort with your body? would it feel right if people addressed you as male? those are important factors
Luca Schmidt Music I don't like my breast at all I wish I didn't have them they make me feel uncomfortable and I don't think I should have them and I've always wear boy clothes sort of and I hate how my mom calls me a girl
leonawolf vlogs it sounds like you could have gender dysphoria. Do you think there are any reasons you might dislike your body outside of gender? Sometimes these feelings can come from a different place than simply gender. Like if someone were to make fun of you for your body, or you experienced some form of trauma. You've expressed that you don't like being a girl, but do you feel like you are male? If I were to call you a boy and use male pronouns, would that feel good to you? Would living in the world as a boy make your discomfort go away?
Luca Schmidt Music I feel I would feel more comfortable and no over never been teased about my body at all and I just don't like the fact that I'm called female it bugs me a lot and once my friend told me I looked like a boy and it pretty much made me happy
leonawolf vlogs only you can know if you transgender persononaly I am but I am not out yet but I am out to myself I know that I am and no one can change that
im 30 and i just recently read about gender dysphoria after googling why i feel like i do. Reading about it and reading about transgender, my life began making sense. It simply explained that this is why you have been feeling like crap ever since childhood. Why i felt like i did when puberty hit, why living as a woman always felt like living a lie. I am now planning on leaving my homophobic husband(he showed me that side after a few years married..fucking asshole), move back to my supporting family and get my ass into therapy to get this confirmed so i can begin living like i should have done ages ago.
I'm a 14 year old girl and I have a problem.I did play barbie dolls but. I loved guns and sowrds that boys would play with.At the age of 12 I had a thought" am I transgender" but I never thought about it because i feel it wasent right.At the age of 13 I started to like short boy cuts and hats and cool boy outfits.I remeber one time I was shopping with my grandma and she said" do you like dresses skrits look nice on you". I said to keep it casually and we bought a skit with flowers on it with short cupres. I told her thank you, but I wanted a boy outfit a nice botton up with a tie. I try telling people but it's so hard.I were sweatshirts so they can hide my stupid girly clothes.But theres one thing , I dont see my self with a girl or a boy because i dont feel computable with just any gender. I need help, thank you for this video it helps alot.
I’m a 13 yr old and I think I am trans I have never accepted myself as female ever since I was 4 I hate everything about being female and hate female pronouns and words used when people talk to me it just doesn’t feel right.all my friends are boys,but everyone just calls me the Tomboy but I don’t think I’m just a tomboy.I also love when people mistake me for a boy because it makes e feel good and not hate myself I’m not sure if I’m trans if I am my family won’t accept me.#AmITrans? To all those others wondering too
I'm 15 and I'm male. I've recently came across this problem. I've been thinking that I'm too feminine to grow up as a male and I don't know if I'm transgender or when to transition if I am trans
My name is Peter I really think I am MTF trans because: 1. I hate everything about my body in everyway 2. I want to be able to pass and have fun as a girl 3. I hate the use of the masculine pronouns 4. I always feel uncomfortable when I am unclothed 5. I have more female friend then guy friends 6. I have been daydreaming and dreaming about having big breasts 7. Whenever I am play some roleplaying game or video game, I always choose the female character if I can 8. I absolutely hate having hair on my body 9. I can't stand being convinced I am a guy 10. I have gender really awful gender dysphoria 11. When I was a child, I had to wear some girl underwear and loved the feeling since 12. I tried to know what it feels to be called by a different name and it was the first time I actually felt normal. And I hate the things I have to do as a guy
Okay so i think that being a girl is great but i often sees boys having fun a way girls cannot do as well, like yelling, telling cool things and express themselves how they want to. Everytime i try having fun saying those words or acting like that, i always get :"You're a girl! You can't do that!". Or whenever i try expressing myself, ppl think that i'm crazy or something. Im not, i just wanna have fun! Also having period is so hard, you always think people are looking at you like you're a mess. Also just having body hair make me uncomftable, boys just dont mind it, but girl always gotta shave or they are going to get insults about it. I hope i am not alone thinking those type of thing and that you guys know what is happening to me and how i can help/change it. Thx
Hi I’m just gonna say I don’t like my body and I always tend to strive for femininity when I dress when I talk and just the way I act I’m general Sometimes I feel envious when I see other girls But also at the same time I’ve never felt like extreme dysphoria where I felt like I just can’t stand to be ever except for like depression episodes and stuff
I'm 13 old biological female and you can call me a kid and that i only want attention, but that is not the truth. With that said let's get to the case. When i was little i did play with dolls and cars, i actually kinda liked playing with barbies, but i prefered playing with my brother's toys often. I know that's normal. But after i hit puberty i started having these feelings like something is wrong with me, i shook it off. Sometime later i realised i was bi because of having my first girl crush ( i did have boys crushes as well) and thought that was the case. When i was 12 i found out what trans really mean, my family would always say that it's men dressing as women and acting like them when they're not females. When i found out ehat trans means i didn't think that i might be trans, i just thought that i kinda am similliar to all those FtM, but not anything more. Just when i think back of when people would call me boy, he, i would feel so good, when i get to wear boys clothes it feels right, when everyone in my friend group treats me like boy it feels awesome. I don't know how to describe it, it's just the feeling... I don't know who i am and i'd be more than happy if someone would be able to help me.
omg you literally described my life then,. I don't know what to say but I really hope you figure it out someday and be comfortable with who you are. don't let other people put u down or any shit like that. :)
Im a 15 year old boy, but i always felt like a Girl. I ABSOLUTELY HATE being called a boy and being expected to act like one, its real TORTURE ! Sometimes I daydream about being a Girl, or im just being jealous about what the other girls are wearing, which causes HUGE disphoria and make my chest start hurting ! But I really have nobody to talk to and im to afraid of telling my parents. I am very Depressed and feel suicidal, but I really dont know what to do !!! 😓😓😓 I need help, life is Horrible !!! 😢 (I was LITTERALLY crying while writing this)
The thing is, not "feeling" female, even though you are, is completely normal, the way most people feel, and has only been portrayed as indicating you need to change your body since about 2015. In the misogynistic society we live in, where girls are perved over by adult men the minute they hit puberty, is it any wonder we would all rather be male?! It's society that needs to change - not you.
Clearly you don't understand how trans people feel at all, I can guarantee, as an FTM, none of what you described there relates to my experience. I couldn't care less if men perved over me, or chatted me up, it was all about how I felt about myself, the dysphoria I felt, & my natural ease with being amoung men doing mens things. The only issue men fancying me had on me was it was a bit de-masculizing, but that was the least of my worries. Having alien parts like breats, periods, curves, a higher voice, all that was what freaked me out, not other men.
Also, I want to know, I've told my mum that I'm trans but who should I talk to to start getting hormonal therapy and also should I get top and bottom or hormonal therapy first?🤔
Hi I’m Matthew and I’m 17 year old,I come a cross this question of weather I am a boy or a girl about two years,and it’s been horrible I still can’t figure it out,I don’t know I used to be fitting in with the boy group back at my old school back at home but I’m always the soft one and I was still too naive to know,now I’m in a new high school and I realize I am ridiculously different from every other boys,so this got me think about this question.I don’t hate to be a boy I just wish I was born as a girl I don’t know I am very confused .can someone answer me please😢
I know this is about a year late, but I'm going through something kind of similar. I don't hate being a dude, but I also kind of wish I was a girl. It's tough, and I'm not sure if you're still struggling, but I wish the best for you. Good luck, and have a good day.
Ohhh boy... here we go Hi, my name doesn't really matter right now. So I'm 13, going on 14 in about 4 months, and I hate the way I am 1) I hate my "pancakes" and wear a sports bra to make myself flatter 2) I dress as a male and wear baggy clothes 3) I hate being called "she" but feel a great happiness when called a male 4) I can't look in the mirror to see the female self on the outside 5) If I am trans (which I think I am cuz I have gender dysphoria) My parents would think it's just a phase or that I got it from my trans friend. I'm scared on my parents response and don't know the right way to tell them. It's made me extremely depressed and stressed.
I’m a little conflicted. I’m a 12 year old girl who doesn’t like being called a girl nor do I like to be referred to as one(she/her). I’m fine with my body shape but at the same time I’m not. I don’t care as much about my lower body part but I don’t like it. I hate my chest though. I don’t know to be honest because I’ll feel like I didn’t grow up trans. I liked skirts and I like wearing my hair up. I’ve labeled myself as trans before but I still feel like I’m actually faking it deep down. I want help. Am I actually trans or do I just think I am but in reality I’m just playing follow the leader with it. I hope you get what I mean and understand what I’m saying. Did I say to much?
Everyone's journey is unique and individual. There's only one person who can determine who you are and how you identify and that's you. It's a journey of exploration that you will embark on yourself, and there can be support along the way in those around you or resources in your local area. We would recommend speaking to people you trust or any local organisations to you that can help out.
My main problem is my chest, and my voice. I also want facial hair. I don't think bottom dysphoria is really present but if I think about it more I wish I has a penis
Hello I’m 15. I have been extremely uncomfortable with my breasts since puberty (eleven). I am comfortable with my thighs, hips, and genitals. I don’t particularly care about pronouns but when it comes down to discussing gender I feel like I’ve done something wrong saying I’m a girl. I’ve been trying to just stop feeling this way and be normal but it’s exhausting. I’ve heard of non-binary and can relate to some of these people. I haven’t found any evidence that it’s real though. I just wanna be happy.
Hi. I'm pretty young still and I'm thinking if I want to be trans. But im scared, confused and worried. I'm worried that people will see me as a completely different person because I've changed. I'm also scared that people will make fun of me and it will get to my head. I've had bad experiences with being bullied and made fun of. I'm a girl right now but I want to be a boy. I'm worried ill regret everything ill do like cutting my hair, changing my voice, my appearance everything. I'm also confused and really really scared. Please can someone give me advice?
uh hey. I'm under 13(not saying it because I dont fee comfortable) but I think I might be trans or genderfluid. I'm AFAB.(assigned female at birth) and I love my body aside from the thick thighs and front bottom, and I dont want a boy front bottom cuz it makes me uncomfortable. But I want a deeper masculine voice, and ifi had the choice, would take testosterone even if I wasnt trans. Which idk if thats offensive to say. But still. I feel like a boy, wanna be a boy(not my entire life even if I had the choice)and want to go by he/him/his or they/them/theirs. Anyways enough of me yapping but I took tests online if I was trans and they all said maybe, might or yes. All genderfluid tests I took said yes. I feel like I'm genderfluid. I change my pronouns time to time, she/her, he/him, they/them, and also idk if this is related, but I'm also a lesbian girl. So if I was a trans male does that mean I'd be straight or a lesbian trans male? But anyways I think I'm gender fluid or trans and I really like girls.. So anyways- but I do have social, body and I think gender dysphoria. But anyways- do u guys think I'm trans..?
Hi, not going to tell you my age cuz that's creepy, I think I'm a trans woman because: I hate my body, my shoulders are too broad And my body's to masculine I hate being called male pronouns (except when my mom calls me hear baby boy cause it's cute and I love my mom but I would definitely prefer if she would call me baby girl) Whenever I see a girl wearing a cute outfit I'm envious I have been having these thoughts since I was like 10 And I'm older now (Again not revealing my age) I've always wanted smoother skin, smaller hands and feet and again I hate my body. I much prefer more feminine clothes to masculine clothes I hate my voice GENDER DYSPHORIA that I just learned about and it all makes sense now One thing that I don't really care about is my genitals, but i would prefer to have female genitals That's all probably gonna come out to my mom this summer bye bye.
I feel masculine but however that's all.the time and also this sort of matches on how I feel about myself and yes I do wish I didn't have a female's virgiana and breasts and the fact I do wish I could get surgery to remove my breasts and possibly down below. However I funny enough hate when my parents or others say young women and always go on about how I an a young beautiful women I'm growing up to be and honestly it all flattering but inside I'm like "But...I don't feel that and I prefer if you say young lad or man and call me Jay Jay instead of my female name my birth name" but Im still confused of what gender I am
Ok um so... i'm 13 and I think I'm transgender but I like wearing Girly clothes cuz I find it funny. Besides that, I've never been into "girl stuff" like playing with dolls, wearing collars and painting my nails. I have Disphoria, specially with my hips. since a few months I started dreaming about having a Boy body, I became obssesed with It and started to cover my chest and my hips. Right now I'm way too confused because I don't feel 100% Boy but neither feel like a girl. My friends tell me that it's probably Bigender (50\50) but I swear I don't feel like a Girl!! I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME.
Im A Girl And Im 13 I Hate That I Look Like A Girl,I Want To Look More Like A Guy But Im Scared To Tell People,Its Been 1 Year And Ive Been Trying Out Calling Myself A Guy Online I Like Being Called A Guy I Think It Fits Me But When I Tried To Tell My Friend He Kept Saying It Was A Phase And That I Cant Be A Boy,Im Scared To Tell People Cause What If They Say That Also, Im not Good At Talking To My Parents About My Feelings Cause Im Scared Of What they Will Say And Think Cause My Mom Wont Let Me Wear Boy Clothes Or Anything That Is A Guys 《Sorry For Talking So Long》
Im a boy, i had sex with girl and i enjoy it, but one time i was drunk and my erection went down, and now im scared of having sex beacuse of this toughts.. im depressed, i dont like same sex.. i think i overcame hocd but this feeling is killing me, i think i have depersonalization/dereality disorder - could i be trans or those are just my sick toughts??!
It's fine, just because your erection went away while drunk does not mean you like the same sex. Some men have difficulties getting erect while drunk. Why do you think you have Denationalization derealization disorder?
Thanks! Well beacuse, i dont feel like myself anymore.. i dont know.. i got anxieous and less extreme as i used to be and i have this ''DREAM'' feeling.. like im dreaming and nothing feels real.. sometimes i think about just end my life, but im not doing that.. just nothing seems to interest me
hi my name is kassidy I like to where guy clothes I like to cut my hair and I like girls more then guys and I want to be a guy but I don't how to tell my parents that I'm transgender can you please help me
hi im novela on my dads account and im 11 and i really think im trans all the things you said about hating make up and all girl stuff thats me and thanks for telling me if im trans gender
I am 77 and MTF, 70 years ago I dissociated into a female. I have been underground all my life. I have lived through 49 years of marriage and a career in iron work, army and nursing. I do not hate my body, yet I know that I am a woman. A psychiatrist would say I had a fixed delusion. It is so strong that I would say, No doctor you are mistaken! please do not call me a false belief, you are talking to a real woman.
Heya I am katie Lambie but I get called Kyle by my friend. I am 15 year old and I have Learning disabilities but that doesn’t stop me.right I am feel like I don’t fit in has being a girl. I feel more comfortable in boys stuff looking like a boy and people call me he and Kyle . I don’t like walking In to girls toilet or changing rooms and I don’t like my body .My school know about it but my mam and Dad don’t know how I feel about it I don’t know how to tell them. It’s distracting me in school becoues I am thinking of it .i just need help
Yooooo I’m Ali (not my birth name) and I’m crazy confused. Bc right now I identify as a lesbian and gender fluid so I use they them pronouns. But I’ve been feeling for sometimes that I would be more comfortable in a guys body rather than a girls. I think to my self that I am indeed trans but at the same time I feel like I’m hiding from the fact. Help anyone. Plz reply. Much love ❤️ I’m out 👋🏽
So you don’t feel like society say you should feel. That is because society is a construct. That does not mean that you are anything other than your body. I just can’t get my head around it. What’s wrong about being a man that likes the thing society says are for women?
This is disturbing. Not liking stereotypically male or female things does not mean you are trans - just gender non-conforming, which is great. If you feel discomfort with your body, you may benefit from counselling to explore the reasons, but again, it absolutely does not mean you are trans. Going down the route of medication & surgery is damaging to your mental & physical health.
My name is Altaïr...
I think I am Trans, FTM...
Because:
1. Hate my body at all!
2. Two words: gender dysphoria.
3. I want to pass as a guy.
4. I hate with all my soul when they reffer at me with feminine pronumes...
5. I want a cool short haircut.
6. I feel extremely uncomfortable at the beach...
7. I have daydreaming about being a boy so bad!
8. In all my fantasies I am male!
9. I have a really bad chest dysphoria...
10. I increased my body muscles to look more manly.
And I really hate the word " feminine"...I am pretty masculine and I am 150% sure I am not a tomboy...
Do you think I am Trans?
Assassin's Creed Real life pranks I think you're reaching, but the only things you need to be trans is gender dysphoria (physical and/or social), a need or want to transition and after transition a feeling of euphoria and/or a clearer mind. My advice though, if you're confused or scared, take transition slowly. Don't rush into it. Cause you might regret it (I'm not saying you might want to detransition, you just might not be ready for such a quick change). Don't go get hormones if you feel like you don't really need it, don't get a double mastectomy if your body is incapable of handling such a major surgery, but if your dysphoria is crippling, do it. Just take it slow and know for sure transition is what you really want.
@@foxyboi3267 I have social and psychical dysphoria
@@assassinscreedreallifepran1080 You're not trans because there is no such thing. A great many women suffer from gender dysphoria when we are young and mostly we grow out of it especially when we realise there is more than one way to be a woman! It is understandable that young women who don't fit the regressive stereotype of womanhood that is thrust on us from every angle should reject it and feel unhappy with what we are but that doesn't make us men.
There is a high desistance rates among young women who start taking cross-sex hormones in their teens - this means they change their minds and decide they are women after all but sometimes it's too late for them to get their female voices back and hairless faces back. Transgender ideology is misogynistic and homophobic, it erases women and lesbians. It is a physical solution to a psychological problem.
Stand up for women and for the right to express ourselves however we like. For thousands of articles - including some from trans people themselves - check out this site. www.peaktrans.org
@@Skuffy777 No thanks.
I know I sound dumb, but is too late.
Plus I don't like to be like that, oh, wait, surprise, PSYCHICAL DISTRESS.
@@Skuffy777 sure, that'd be great...if I didn't cry every time I saw my naked body and feel like I'm trapped inside a flesh suit...not to argue, but you kinda sound like a TERF
Questions to ask yourself if you think you’re trans (for FTM)
1: Do you find more comfort in male pronouns?
2: Do you prefer masculine names?
If you answer yes and you strongly agree then you may have social dysphoria (dysphoria over how you’re seen socially)
1: Do you dislike/hate your chest, or genitals?
2: Do you prefer masculine clothing heavily over feminine clothing?
3: If Someone discussing your female changes or pointing out your chest/thighs/hips cause stress and insecurity?
4: Do you feel trapped in your body? When you look in the mirror do you see yourself of somebody else?
5: Have you had sudden and compulsive urges to flatten your chest or cover any sign of femininity?
If you strongly agree or answer yes on all of these then you’re most likely trans, if you answer yes on most but some no then you might be trans, but it’s best you see a gender specialist
finally some questions to help me
Yes to all of those except I have no problem with my genitals. It’s nice that they’re not obviously present. The only thing that sucks about it is having a cycle.
Bullshit.
You are grooming children for your cult.
Transitioning is an adult choice.
The vast majority of gnc kids ARE NOT ‘transgender’, and, if supported, will mature into adult who do not have dysphoria.
You are not qualified to tell people whether they are or are not ‘transgender’.
I answered yes on everything and even cried. The questions were helpful.
Bro you hit a spot in my heart with these questions but yes I answered all yes and a tear slipped out of my right eye.
As a 15 year old I've only come across this problem recently. I don't know if I'm trans because I've always just thought of myself as neither male or female, just myself without some label. I would probably feel more comfortable if I transitioned but I am anxious my parents and friends wouldn't accept it or I would regret it in the long run. (I mentioned my age because I want to be taken seriously because there's alot of 10 year olds on here lmao)
Just a commoner well, you are the only one who knows the truth. But not conforming to gender stereotypes doesn't mean to be transgender.
Nobelium Uranium a 10 year olds feelings on this matter matter just as much as those of a 15 year old and also just as much as a 25 year old. We all come to learn truths about ourselves at different times and as a result of the different stimuli we all face in our lives. Only you know how you feel, and you only know how you feel at this moment. When you're trying to ask if your feelings are legitimate then you should be asking if they feel true to you and the opinions of others should not be considered. You are living your own life and you are the only one who is. No one can tell you who you are, nor should their opinions about you affect your truth. Whatever that is. Just keep an open mind and allow yourself the opportunity to change and develop as you continue to grow. You know who you are on the inside better than anyone trying to tell you who you are. All trans people experience life uniquely and not all trans people have the same experiences. You could be gender neutral and that's valid too.
I don’t think you should spend too much time worrying about labels. Tell me this, if you transitioned, would you be doing it for yourself, or for others? In other words, if nobody knew you had transitioned, would that still solve the problem or not? We should all love ourselves for who we are, regardless of our gender.
If you're not feeling any boy or girl or any gender, you may be non-binary
@@kagamispills please dont promote the Transtrender nonsence !
Almost all Non-binaries dont have disphoria, they're just faking being trans to be cool or something !
Non-binaries are absolutely Embarrassing for all Real Transgender people !
And the last thing I want is to feel embarrassed because some dude is trying to be cool !
I'm 41 and have had moderate to strong feelings about wishing I was the opposite gender. Roughly my entire adult life. Where I grew up there were zero resources for transitioning. So I just assumed the problem was just me, and bottled it up for decades. Was only in the past 10 years that I realized there were countless others with similar feelings, which gave me comfort. I hope to start my transitioning journey soon!
Hi I'm 14 years old and I have gender dysphoria and I strongly hate being referred to as a girl but what if this is all a phase and I regret everything?
Ema Bernard you're the only one to know. Where do you think this discomfort comes from?
@@Matthayden1965 Gender dysphoria however, is NOT normal in the slightest, and should be helped and not to be dismissed with a handwave and a "Oh when I was your age, I had all sorts of uncomfortable feelings"
I thought I didn't have any recognition of Transgender feelings as a young child. But then today I remembered being dressed up in clothing like my father. Suitcoat, necktie, a hat like all men used to wear. I remember wanting to be like my dad but at the same time feeling like I was acting.rather than being my genuine self. It felt like I was a lump of clay trying to find my true form.
Hi, I am a 14 year old and I've had gender dysphoria since I was little, but I am confused because the dysphoria kind of went away for a few years, but it came back, and now I get very uncomfortable in most womans clothes, and when I'm referred to as a girl by strangers. I really want to transition, but I'm terrifyed that this is just a phase and I will grow out of it, or that I'll be uncomfortable in my body no matter what I do. ( sorry if this is late or anything, I just started questioning my self seriously for the first time in years)
im a 12 year old girl I feel trapped in my body. I hate my boobs and I wish I had a penis but a sometimes I dont. I dont have a strong relationship with my parents and im scared to talk to them. I really need help but I dont know who to talk to.
Hello Grace, so sorry you are struggling. Here are two good places to start: www.mermaidsuk.org.uk childline.org.uk
Grace_is Weird same a few years ago I tried on girl boots cuse one of my friends was a girl and it wasn't to bad I really what this question to be answered but it's the hard for me to try and understand
Same here
Iam gonna tell you this..iam literally walking like a female even tho iam a boy..and I feel strange every day..for some reason my legs are getting weird these days...and I don't breath normal..instead I breath fast...and my heart beats fast..plus for I get dizzy all of suddens..if it means my gender is changing..than let it happen jeez..I don't really mind what gender I could be..also forgot to say when I trying to sit down my back gets heavy..aswell as some of my part body's getting hurt..plus I can't sit down like a usual boy's gender so that means iam a transgender cause of all of this no joke
Hi I am a 12 year old girl my mom says but I never liked going into girls bathrooms or changing rooms I feel uncomfortable talking with other girls and I don't know what to do I've always hated girls clothes my typical clothes are sweatshirt and jeans and I've had a feeling for girls a few times help and I trans?
leonawolf vlogs you could be. do you experience discomfort with your body? would it feel right if people addressed you as male? those are important factors
Luca Schmidt Music I don't like my breast at all I wish I didn't have them they make me feel uncomfortable and I don't think I should have them and I've always wear boy clothes sort of and I hate how my mom calls me a girl
leonawolf vlogs it sounds like you could have gender dysphoria. Do you think there are any reasons you might dislike your body outside of gender? Sometimes these feelings can come from a different place than simply gender. Like if someone were to make fun of you for your body, or you experienced some form of trauma. You've expressed that you don't like being a girl, but do you feel like you are male? If I were to call you a boy and use male pronouns, would that feel good to you? Would living in the world as a boy make your discomfort go away?
Luca Schmidt Music I feel I would feel more comfortable and no over never been teased about my body at all and I just don't like the fact that I'm called female it bugs me a lot and once my friend told me I looked like a boy and it pretty much made me happy
leonawolf vlogs only you can know if you transgender persononaly I am but I am not out yet but I am out to myself I know that I am and no one can change that
im 30 and i just recently read about gender dysphoria after googling why i feel like i do. Reading about it and reading about transgender, my life began making sense. It simply explained that this is why you have been feeling like crap ever since childhood. Why i felt like i did when puberty hit, why living as a woman always felt like living a lie.
I am now planning on leaving my homophobic husband(he showed me that side after a few years married..fucking asshole), move back to my supporting family and get my ass into therapy to get this confirmed so i can begin living like i should have done ages ago.
I'm a 14 year old girl and I have a problem.I did play barbie dolls but. I loved guns and sowrds that boys would play with.At the age of 12 I had a thought" am I transgender" but I never thought about it because i feel it wasent right.At the age of 13 I started to like short boy cuts and hats and cool boy outfits.I remeber one time I was shopping with my grandma and she said" do you like dresses skrits look nice on you". I said to keep it casually and we bought a skit with flowers on it with short cupres. I told her thank you, but I wanted a boy outfit a nice botton up with a tie. I try telling people but it's so hard.I were sweatshirts so they can hide my stupid girly clothes.But theres one thing , I dont see my self with a girl or a boy because i dont feel computable with just any gender. I need help, thank you for this video it helps alot.
I’m a 13 yr old and I think I am trans I have never accepted myself as female ever since I was 4 I hate everything about being female and hate female pronouns and words used when people talk to me it just doesn’t feel right.all my friends are boys,but everyone just calls me the Tomboy but I don’t think I’m just a tomboy.I also love when people mistake me for a boy because it makes e feel good and not hate myself I’m not sure if I’m trans if I am my family won’t accept me.#AmITrans? To all those others wondering too
You defenitely sound like you might be trans. Can you go to gender therapy to get it all figured out?
I'm 15 and I'm male. I've recently came across this problem. I've been thinking that I'm too feminine to grow up as a male and I don't know if I'm transgender or when to transition if I am trans
My name is Peter
I really think I am MTF trans because:
1. I hate everything about my body in everyway
2. I want to be able to pass and have fun as a girl
3. I hate the use of the masculine pronouns
4. I always feel uncomfortable when I am unclothed
5. I have more female friend then guy friends
6. I have been daydreaming and dreaming about having big breasts
7. Whenever I am play some roleplaying game or video game, I always choose the female character if I can
8. I absolutely hate having hair on my body
9. I can't stand being convinced I am a guy
10. I have gender really awful gender dysphoria
11. When I was a child, I had to wear some girl underwear and loved the feeling since
12. I tried to know what it feels to be called by a different name and it was the first time I actually felt normal.
And I hate the things I have to do as a guy
Okay so i think that being a girl is great but i often sees boys having fun a way girls cannot do as well, like yelling, telling cool things and express themselves how they want to. Everytime i try having fun saying those words or acting like that, i always get :"You're a girl! You can't do that!". Or whenever i try expressing myself, ppl think that i'm crazy or something. Im not, i just wanna have fun! Also having period is so hard, you always think people are looking at you like you're a mess. Also just having body hair make me uncomftable, boys just dont mind it, but girl always gotta shave or they are going to get insults about it. I hope i am not alone thinking those type of thing and that you guys know what is happening to me and how i can help/change it. Thx
Hi I’m just gonna say
I don’t like my body and I always tend to strive for femininity when I dress when I talk and just the way I act I’m general
Sometimes I feel envious when I see other girls
But also at the same time I’ve never felt like extreme dysphoria where I felt like I just can’t stand to be ever except for like depression episodes and stuff
This is exactly what I needed.
Hopefully you talk to people from the United States.
I'm 13 old biological female and you can call me a kid and that i only want attention, but that is not the truth. With that said let's get to the case. When i was little i did play with dolls and cars, i actually kinda liked playing with barbies, but i prefered playing with my brother's toys often. I know that's normal. But after i hit puberty i started having these feelings like something is wrong with me, i shook it off. Sometime later i realised i was bi because of having my first girl crush ( i did have boys crushes as well) and thought that was the case. When i was 12 i found out what trans really mean, my family would always say that it's men dressing as women and acting like them when they're not females. When i found out ehat trans means i didn't think that i might be trans, i just thought that i kinda am similliar to all those FtM, but not anything more. Just when i think back of when people would call me boy, he, i would feel so good, when i get to wear boys clothes it feels right, when everyone in my friend group treats me like boy it feels awesome. I don't know how to describe it, it's just the feeling... I don't know who i am and i'd be more than happy if someone would be able to help me.
omg you literally described my life then,. I don't know what to say but I really hope you figure it out someday and be comfortable with who you are. don't let other people put u down or any shit like that. :)
I am so glad this video came up.
Im a 15 year old boy, but i always felt like a Girl. I ABSOLUTELY HATE being called a boy and being expected to act like one, its real TORTURE !
Sometimes I daydream about being a Girl, or im just being jealous about what the other girls are wearing, which causes HUGE disphoria and make my chest start hurting !
But I really have nobody to talk to and im to afraid of telling my parents. I am very Depressed and feel suicidal, but I really dont know what to do !!! 😓😓😓
I need help, life is Horrible !!! 😢
(I was LITTERALLY crying while writing this)
The thing is, not "feeling" female, even though you are, is completely normal, the way most people feel, and has only been portrayed as indicating you need to change your body since about 2015. In the misogynistic society we live in, where girls are perved over by adult men the minute they hit puberty, is it any wonder we would all rather be male?! It's society that needs to change - not you.
Clearly you don't understand how trans people feel at all, I can guarantee, as an FTM, none of what you described there relates to my experience. I couldn't care less if men perved over me, or chatted me up, it was all about how I felt about myself, the dysphoria I felt, & my natural ease with being amoung men doing mens things. The only issue men fancying me had on me was it was a bit de-masculizing, but that was the least of my worries. Having alien parts like breats, periods, curves, a higher voice, all that was what freaked me out, not other men.
Also, I want to know, I've told my mum that I'm trans but who should I talk to to start getting hormonal therapy and also should I get top and bottom or hormonal therapy first?🤔
You should have counselling first!
Hi I’m Matthew and I’m 17 year old,I come a cross this question of weather I am a boy or a girl about two years,and it’s been horrible I still can’t figure it out,I don’t know I used to be fitting in with the boy group back at my old school back at home but I’m always the soft one and I was still too naive to know,now I’m in a new high school and I realize I am ridiculously different from every other boys,so this got me think about this question.I don’t hate to be a boy I just wish I was born as a girl I don’t know I am very confused .can someone answer me please😢
I know this is about a year late, but I'm going through something kind of similar. I don't hate being a dude, but I also kind of wish I was a girl. It's tough, and I'm not sure if you're still struggling, but I wish the best for you. Good luck, and have a good day.
How long does it take for one of your new patients who is just starting transitioning to on HRT, who never have contact with a gender clinic before?
Ohhh boy... here we go
Hi, my name doesn't really matter right now. So I'm 13, going on 14 in about 4 months, and I hate the way I am
1) I hate my "pancakes" and wear a sports bra to make myself flatter
2) I dress as a male and wear baggy clothes
3) I hate being called "she" but feel a great happiness when called a male
4) I can't look in the mirror to see the female self on the outside
5) If I am trans (which I think I am cuz I have gender dysphoria) My parents would think it's just a phase or that I got it from my trans friend. I'm scared on my parents response and don't know the right way to tell them. It's made me extremely depressed and stressed.
I’m a little conflicted. I’m a 12 year old girl who doesn’t like being called a girl nor do I like to be referred to as one(she/her). I’m fine with my body shape but at the same time I’m not. I don’t care as much about my lower body part but I don’t like it. I hate my chest though. I don’t know to be honest because I’ll feel like I didn’t grow up trans. I liked skirts and I like wearing my hair up. I’ve labeled myself as trans before but I still feel like I’m actually faking it deep down. I want help. Am I actually trans or do I just think I am but in reality I’m just playing follow the leader with it. I hope you get what I mean and understand what I’m saying. Did I say to much?
Everyone's journey is unique and individual. There's only one person who can determine who you are and how you identify and that's you. It's a journey of exploration that you will embark on yourself, and there can be support along the way in those around you or resources in your local area. We would recommend speaking to people you trust or any local organisations to you that can help out.
@@gendergp2784 thank you
My main problem is my chest, and my voice. I also want facial hair. I don't think bottom dysphoria is really present but if I think about it more I wish I has a penis
Hello I’m 15. I have been extremely uncomfortable with my breasts since puberty (eleven). I am comfortable with my thighs, hips, and genitals. I don’t particularly care about pronouns but when it comes down to discussing gender I feel like I’ve done something wrong saying I’m a girl. I’ve been trying to just stop feeling this way and be normal but it’s exhausting. I’ve heard of non-binary and can relate to some of these people. I haven’t found any evidence that it’s real though. I just wanna be happy.
I would like to get help from your gender clinic. How can I do that I saw your website online but my English is not really good for writing
What if i like being a girl but want to look like a guy? But im not sure 😕
Masc girl maybe :) hope this helps
Androgynous maybe?
I feel like a woman, I don’t really hate my down area
Hi. I'm pretty young still and I'm thinking if I want to be trans. But im scared, confused and worried. I'm worried that people will see me as a completely different person because I've changed. I'm also scared that people will make fun of me and it will get to my head. I've had bad experiences with being bullied and made fun of. I'm a girl right now but I want to be a boy. I'm worried ill regret everything ill do like cutting my hair, changing my voice, my appearance everything. I'm also confused and really really scared. Please can someone give me advice?
uh hey. I'm under 13(not saying it because I dont fee comfortable) but I think I might be trans or genderfluid. I'm AFAB.(assigned female at birth) and I love my body aside from the thick thighs and front bottom, and I dont want a boy front bottom cuz it makes me uncomfortable. But I want a deeper masculine voice, and ifi had the choice, would take testosterone even if I wasnt trans. Which idk if thats offensive to say. But still. I feel like a boy, wanna be a boy(not my entire life even if I had the choice)and want to go by he/him/his or they/them/theirs. Anyways enough of me yapping but I took tests online if I was trans and they all said maybe, might or yes. All genderfluid tests I took said yes. I feel like I'm genderfluid. I change my pronouns time to time, she/her, he/him, they/them, and also idk if this is related, but I'm also a lesbian girl. So if I was a trans male does that mean I'd be straight or a lesbian trans male? But anyways I think I'm gender fluid or trans and I really like girls.. So anyways- but I do have social, body and I think gender dysphoria. But anyways- do u guys think I'm trans..?
Hi, not going to tell you my age cuz that's creepy,
I think I'm a trans woman because:
I hate my body, my shoulders are too broad
And my body's to masculine
I hate being called male pronouns
(except when my mom calls me hear baby boy cause it's cute and I love my mom but I would definitely prefer if she would call me baby girl)
Whenever I see a girl wearing a cute outfit I'm envious
I have been having these thoughts since I was like 10
And I'm older now
(Again not revealing my age)
I've always wanted smoother skin, smaller hands and feet and again I hate my body.
I much prefer more feminine clothes to masculine clothes
I hate my voice
GENDER DYSPHORIA that I just learned about and it all makes sense now
One thing that I don't really care about is my genitals, but i would prefer to have female genitals
That's all probably gonna come out to my mom this summer bye bye.
I feel masculine but however that's all.the time and also this sort of matches on how I feel about myself and yes I do wish I didn't have a female's virgiana and breasts and the fact I do wish I could get surgery to remove my breasts and possibly down below. However I funny enough hate when my parents or others say young women and always go on about how I an a young beautiful women I'm growing up to be and honestly it all flattering but inside I'm like "But...I don't feel that and I prefer if you say young lad or man and call me Jay Jay instead of my female name my birth name" but Im still confused of what gender I am
Ok um so... i'm 13 and I think I'm transgender but I like wearing Girly clothes cuz I find it funny. Besides that, I've never been into "girl stuff" like playing with dolls, wearing collars and painting my nails. I have Disphoria, specially with my hips. since a few months I started dreaming about having a Boy body, I became obssesed with It and started to cover my chest and my hips. Right now I'm way too confused because I don't feel 100% Boy but neither feel like a girl. My friends tell me that it's probably Bigender (50\50) but I swear I don't feel like a Girl!! I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME.
Hello can i book an appointment?
Im A Girl And Im 13 I Hate That I Look Like A Girl,I Want To Look More Like A Guy But Im Scared To Tell People,Its Been 1 Year And Ive Been Trying Out Calling Myself A Guy Online I Like Being Called A Guy I Think It Fits Me But When I Tried To Tell My Friend He Kept Saying It Was A Phase And That I Cant Be A Boy,Im Scared To Tell People Cause What If They Say That Also, Im not Good At Talking To My Parents About My Feelings Cause Im Scared Of What they Will Say And Think Cause My Mom Wont Let Me Wear Boy Clothes Or Anything That Is A Guys 《Sorry For Talking So Long》
Im a boy, i had sex with girl and i enjoy it, but one time i was drunk and my erection went down, and now im scared of having sex beacuse of this toughts.. im depressed, i dont like same sex.. i think i overcame hocd but this feeling is killing me, i think i have depersonalization/dereality disorder - could i be trans or those are just my sick toughts??!
It's fine, just because your erection went away while drunk does not mean you like the same sex. Some men have difficulties getting erect while drunk. Why do you think you have Denationalization derealization disorder?
Thanks!
Well beacuse, i dont feel like myself anymore.. i dont know.. i got anxieous and less extreme as i used to be and i have this ''DREAM'' feeling.. like im dreaming and nothing feels real.. sometimes i think about just end my life, but im not doing that.. just nothing seems to interest me
im in the stage now where im making myself more feminine to deny to myself that i wanna be a boy
Im trans..
Cuphead ._. Good for you🤗
hi my name is kassidy I like to where guy clothes I like to cut my hair and I like girls more then guys and I want to be a guy but I don't how to tell my parents that I'm transgender can you please help me
cody Sperry maybe you're just a butch lesbian? What makes you think you're a man?
thank you.
hi im novela on my dads account and im 11 and i really think im trans all the things you said about hating make up and all girl stuff thats me and thanks for telling me if im trans gender
Thank you for this(:
I am 77 and MTF, 70 years ago I dissociated into a female. I have been underground all my life. I have lived through 49 years of marriage and a career in iron work, army and nursing. I do not hate my body, yet I know that I am a woman. A psychiatrist would say I had a fixed delusion. It is so strong that I would say, No doctor you are mistaken! please do not call me a false belief, you are talking to a real woman.
What is that makes you so convinced you're a woman?
It is a long story, but in a nut shell, I have become a female erotic response in relationship to my own male body.@@Skuffy777
You're a man with a femininity fetish. Don't buy into this snake oil.
Idk what I am!!! Im just confused
Heya I am katie Lambie but I get called Kyle by my friend. I am 15 year old and I have Learning disabilities but that doesn’t stop me.right I am feel like I don’t fit in has being a girl. I feel more comfortable in boys stuff looking like a boy and people call me he and Kyle . I don’t like walking In to girls toilet or changing rooms and I don’t like my body .My school know about it but my mam and Dad don’t know how I feel about it I don’t know how to tell them. It’s distracting me in school becoues I am thinking of it .i just need help
Yooooo I’m Ali (not my birth name) and I’m crazy confused. Bc right now I identify as a lesbian and gender fluid so I use they them pronouns. But I’ve been feeling for sometimes that I would be more comfortable in a guys body rather than a girls. I think to my self that I am indeed trans but at the same time I feel like I’m hiding from the fact. Help anyone. Plz reply. Much love ❤️ I’m out 👋🏽
Helpful :3
There is no such thing as a bit and a lot trans. A trans person is still completely trans no matter what
By she means binary trans people. By she means non-binary, I guess.
So you don’t feel like society say you should feel. That is because society is a construct. That does not mean that you are anything other than your body. I just can’t get my head around it. What’s wrong about being a man that likes the thing society says are for women?
Hi
Transgender haven't got to do with genitals
Lyn Riesin and with was has it to do?
This is disturbing. Not liking stereotypically male or female things does not mean you are trans - just gender non-conforming, which is great. If you feel discomfort with your body, you may benefit from counselling to explore the reasons, but again, it absolutely does not mean you are trans. Going down the route of medication & surgery is damaging to your mental & physical health.