Guys marrying in community of property is not a measure of love. There are benefits of being married without accrual. In the case where your spouse dies, you are not liable for the debts he left behind. Also if he decides to cheat on you and make another woman pregnant, that child won't be your responsibility, whereas you could be dragged into it in an accrual agreement. There's also the option of entering an agreement whereby the accrual clause kicks in only after the marriage, so you only split what you attained together as a married couple. All in all, the agreements that people get into are not a measure of love or loyalty, there are many benefits and cons in entering both these agreements. But Out of community of property protects you from the msunery of marriage.
That is why I think people have opinions without knowledge. Even the interpretation of her not working and moving to Durban is wrong... She was Miss SA and also won a Million and marrying out of community of property doesn't mean Khaya is the only one who decided what if She is the one who decided they should have that contract. And Ntando is a professional speaker who has been getting gigs the whole year. Who said she was busy cleaning and only cooking. This lady is talking assumptions and this video has revealed her limited beliefs. So sad that she comments on something she has no clue on.
Owamie your thoughts on Out of community is so wrong. It protects both partners. It might be debts. If you are married in community any mistake your partner makes falls on family. Your thinking is so wrong. In community destroyed so many lives
If your partner is an entrepreneur or an artist it is highly recommended that you get married out of community of property to protect the other partner against debts and liquidations that come with entrepreneurship and risky business deals. There’s two types of OCOP and one of them ensures that u can share the assets that you accumulated together, making sure that none of the partners are disadvantaged. My people don’t be discouraged, marrying out of community of property is not a bad thing at all and we should look at exploring this marriage regime more as the black community.
If anything, I'd say people MUST marry out of cop. I've seen a lady go from a mansion to a 4 room ko Kasi, all because her husband was in the middle of a construction project when he passed on.
No, Owamie when you marry a pastor you do not automatically become a pastor. You are a pastor's wife until you are ordained to beco e a pastor. Its like saying when you are married to a lawyer or teacher you automatically become a lawyer or a teacher
Guys don't take Owamies advice on legalities of marriage. Do your own research especially if you have your own money, profession, policies. In community of property was intended for unemployed women with no career or income whatsoever! Please research ladies! ❤️
I completely disagree with the whole marriage contract story. It’s so much bigger than “not trusting someone” its about protecting your family from the potential of losing everything should you find yourself in any financial problems. Black people are perishing because of lack of knowledge and silly stereotypes. I believe in living like you’re married in community of property BUT legally protect yourselves and your family by having an antenuptial.
Out of community of property is the only way to marry if you love your partner enough and want to protect them. Has nothing to do with lack of commitment, trust nor love.
Thandile Bhungane let’s wait a year ... and then have this conversation again, she is also a university graduate. Holla at me if you see her going broke or struggling
Tooleigh Cele I don’t disputed any of her qualifications, nor am I saying she will be broke and struggle. I’m just saying sponsors are not guaranteed just because she was Miss SA. It depends if brands want to work with her. Which I hope they do so she can move in with her life.
My sentiment as well Milan Inalim. Was there a need to inform is about their marital contract? I believe what people are interested in is what she didn't say, what led to this decision.
Marrying in community of property doesn't guarantee you a long lasting marriage. I know alot of people who are divorced still crying and regretting for marrying in community of property!
It's not even about the money. Actually Khaya did a live the other day and he was saying he's broke and that he wish people would understand how it's like being a musician and getting to release projects. So obviously he was protecting her from those challenges that musicians face. But all in all I'm sad about it 😔 even the timing. Oyi is probably not even walking yet and his parents are already divorced. Or maybe Ntando felt it was too much of a transition for her. From a model, previous Miss SA to quiting your job, moving into another city and adapting to marriage lifestyle.. having to be wife of an international worshiper whose always traveling for ministry, being a stay at home mom + adapting to being a pastors wife. That's a lot to take in. It's a huge transition honestly. Maybe she couldn't handle it. But obviously we don't know
Owamie ur a public figure, do research and read before you come here and give wrong information. Marriage contracts has got nothing to do with love aai
I agree Owamie, she quit her job to take care of the household...what “respective assets “ is she gonna walk away with. It’s a shame but all the best to them, just pray it’s all peaceful.
Dirvoce is a painful thing to go through marriage is a holy communion and Gods plan for godly families however it has just turned to be a contract that is only on paper my heart goes out to those who are still hoping to be married ..
There has to be something about unmet expectations , remember few months back we were all wondering n hoping Khama was ok when he posted a cryptic message about the expectations if one is perceived a celebrity and you covered that story Owamie in your previous videos. It’s a pity wedding is an event but marriage a long term commitment designed for the select emotionally intelligent people
ICP and OCP is an estate planning issue. It's got nothing to with trust or love. Please investigate the legal view rather. With the utmost kindness and respect I think view is focused on self perspective... It's not responsible advice.
Out of community of property...is the best option because should there be any debt or assets that are repossessed that won't affect everyone and including kids.
Marrying someone Out of community of property doesn’t mean you don’t trust them , it’s actually a very wise decision, my parents married in community of property and my mom sank deep into dads debts and there’s a lot of other things I wouldn’t mention, but marring in community of property is not the best decision, we know people go into marriage with good intentions but a lot could change in the future and could affect your relationship because you have everything binded , one person makes financial mistakes and they fall into other person as well
That's very sad news, and their baby is soo young. Barely a year, I remember she gave birth probably a month or two after me. Though it dos sound a lot like Ntando gave up quite a lot to be with him. Moved province and gave up her job!!! I am always afraid of the idea of being a kept wife, depending on another persona entirely for money is not a nice thing particularly for a woman. Its just always good to have your own income. I agree with you Owami, there's a lot she said in that message.
😲😲😖 Before we get into the next decade (2020); what was never ment to be. Maybe it's best to end IT ! But PLEASE let's start taking marriages seriously again.
Owamie for the 1st time I agree with you. Why shouldn't she be compensated for sweat equity; having his child, giving up her career and maintaining the home this is a job You protect your personal assets from other liabilities by having registered business and trust. If I were in this situation he definitely would be paying child maintenance, medical and school fees.
I love Owamie but, getting married in Cop doesn't guarantee love or that money will be shared, Lawyers give the best advice and for me out of community is the way
Marriage is not child,s play it needs committment, trust and dedication it's not easy taking someone and making that person your own ,be sure first don't jump into marriage because your mates are getting married ,those who are in it they want to come out and those who out they want in,In marriage you must be emotionally , physical, financial prepared and be with the person whom you think your personalities match don't go in for love sometimes love is not enough coz luyaphela
Getting married out of community is the best thing that you can do to protect your assets. It's not a measure of love, but one needs to think logically. If a dude racks debt and dies, I can't be responsible for it. Like no. We need to educate ourselves about this because it's clear that people still misunderstand what getting married out of community means
I want to marry out of community myself... As a future CA it's risky for me to marry in comm. There's so many things that come with marrying in community and it could've easily been her decision and I personally find out way better than in... And sadly a lot of people still lack knowledge on the whole in and out of community thing..
Oh wow! This I did not know! I remember looking at them and saying she seems like she’s tolerating him. This was after watching a video of theirs. She was treating him like he doesn’t live up to her expectations (or something. She just seemed extremely dissatisfied). I immediately told myself I was reading way too much into it as they had recently tied the knot and I don’t know them personally. These are shocking news still. Really really sad. It couldn’t have been an easy decision to make.
Yes!!!! I saw a video last week and I had the same cringe feeling about something Khaya said, but I thought nothing of it. Now, looking back it makes sense why that interview made me feel that awkward. Yikes
Owami there is really nothing wrong with marrying ocop it has nothing to do with trust. And she could also claim spousal maintenance from kgaya since she's unemployed. It doesn't matter if the marriaged is ocop or cop one can still claim spousal maintenance
People divorcing doesn’t actually mean that they don’t love each other, people who put their happiness and acknowledge the fact that they are not compatible for each and they don’t want to force matters says a lot about them, You should do research hun and don’t just make a video because something is trending at that moment and show us your ignorance 🙄💔
Owami I think you you've to educate yourself sisi. What I am getting from you is that, when a woman get married to a man you've to be compensated Just for being married. " You get divorced and left without anything" what were there for actually 🤔
The minute u marry someone like myself(an entrepreneur) in community of property u are more likely to get out of marriage with a huge amount of debt so it comes along with risk cause entrepreneurs nows how to hide their belongings,no one would want to lose 50% because of marriage contracts In fact is stupid to attach property in marriage we are in love not Business
Shaking my head. This lady needs to understand that marrying out of community of property has benefits too. Khaya's wife might have put it out there so that it's clear she wasn't in for money. The public cannot accuse her of having gone in, gotten pregnant then divorce just to score a portion of his wealth.
But guys that " we're divorcing, I've taken my son and moved back home, he's damn right going to support this child he don't need no court to force him. Again we're divorced I've went back to my maiden name and oh yeah...HE AND i will still be FRIENDS after the divorce" 😰😰whaaaaaat 😂😂😂 friends and divorce!!!? People are painfully leaving marriages with broken hearts cause it really failed and she says they are still going to be friends after this...how sis??? KANJANI?? 😲😵
Wena owamie you are misleading people. Please stick to celebrity gossip and not marriage counseling. You are not trained to give such life changing advice. This is your opinion. Out of community is the best. To avoid debt and other stuff after the bliss of marriage fades
In the era that we live in, most people seek to venture out into business....with all their great ideas and wanting to build an inheritance for the next generation. With business comes many risks, one can get blacklisted etc. If you’re married in community of property, that definitely affects both spouses. Mind you, it’s not only limited to risky business ventures, there’s also unexpected court cases that one spouse may face and bad credit scores. I don’t believe it’s only trust that is involved in making the marital agreement. It’s more wisdom. One spouse can bail the other out should anything happen. Ofcourse all this should be discussed prior to the marriage (if one wishes to be an entrepreneur). I agree that most celebs sometimes do get married for the wrong reasons, and so the wrong picture has been painted around this type of contract. So this view is very much one sided sis Owamie, based on the few occurrences regarding celeb divorces and their choice of marital contract. Just my thoughts 🤷🏽♀️
“I don’t understand the marriage out of community of property” is where your opinion on it falls apart. Research it first and then make carefully considered opinions where you weigh all possibilities of why people would marry out of community of property, instead of assuming that it’s a trust thing. This is very undercooked commentary, at least in this regard, especially because you admit that you don’t understand 🙂.
Young People are too busy with life to work on any problems in marriage. People these days would rather just throw away a cracked/broken vase than to fix it.... Its really say nje
Out of Community without accrual, means what is your is yours and what's mine is mine. However, Out of Community with accrual it means what you acquired before marriage is yours but everything you acquire together will be shared.
She can get spousal support if she wants it and also there's an amount of money where hubby has to pay cos they have a kid together (not maintenence)... Someone schooled me on that
This is so sad..I wish they could fix things nd be happy together..I actually agree with you Mutho wanga I also experienced the Same situation where by the guy from venda wanted us not to get marriade in community of property so I told him I don't see a future with him if he think by marrying he thinks am there for his money..
Why get married if it's OCOP? Remain boyfriend and girlfriend then if you want to protect yourself against your partners debt or your your precious assets post divorce.
Imagine trusting someone with your money ! 😂😂😂 out of community for me please... my assets need to be protected . My businesses..my investments... mine
@@kitsontuli2713 can u imagine the pain babe. I married very early with excitement and did not even bother to research about diff marriage contracts. But i would've chose ocop to save my own peanuts and soul. I'm always traumatized by the woman in cop. And pray everyday i don't become one of those. Because life can happen to anyone❤️
Why is it an issue that they were married out of community of property...🤔 This is life/love Gal and u can't afford to love with close eyes...,just saying🛌💕
Hey denialist this marriage thing should be scrapped totally.. if there is true love marriage doesn't have to be the sealant...true love with thrive without anyone signing their soul away to another stranger that will wake up the next with different needs
I actually share the same belief with you OH on the whole out of community of property,people may say it's ignorance and blablablaa and whatever,people have diminished the marriage institution to being a contract more than a covenant and it has become so casual...their bodies should also be out of community of property then LOL let me shut up now 😃😃
Guys marrying in community of property is not a measure of love. There are benefits of being married without accrual. In the case where your spouse dies, you are not liable for the debts he left behind. Also if he decides to cheat on you and make another woman pregnant, that child won't be your responsibility, whereas you could be dragged into it in an accrual agreement. There's also the option of entering an agreement whereby the accrual clause kicks in only after the marriage, so you only split what you attained together as a married couple. All in all, the agreements that people get into are not a measure of love or loyalty, there are many benefits and cons in entering both these agreements. But Out of community of property protects you from the msunery of marriage.
Preach Sister
That is why I think people have opinions without knowledge. Even the interpretation of her not working and moving to Durban is wrong... She was Miss SA and also won a Million and marrying out of community of property doesn't mean Khaya is the only one who decided what if She is the one who decided they should have that contract.
And Ntando is a professional speaker who has been getting gigs the whole year.
Who said she was busy cleaning and only cooking.
This lady is talking assumptions and this video has revealed her limited beliefs. So sad that she comments on something she has no clue on.
Well said...love is not enough, it's never JUST about Love... get to know the law that binds you together first💁
Thank you for the enlightenment
Marrying out of community of property has nothing to do with trust
Owamie your thoughts on Out of community is so wrong. It protects both partners. It might be debts. If you are married in community any mistake your partner makes falls on family. Your thinking is so wrong. In community destroyed so many lives
Khensani Maswanganyi precisely !
Extremely wrong. Dissapointing
If your partner is an entrepreneur or an artist it is highly recommended that you get married out of community of property to protect the other partner against debts and liquidations that come with entrepreneurship and risky business deals. There’s two types of OCOP and one of them ensures that u can share the assets that you accumulated together, making sure that none of the partners are disadvantaged.
My people don’t be discouraged, marrying out of community of property is not a bad thing at all and we should look at exploring this marriage regime more as the black community.
Mrs S Exactly!
I agree one hundred percent !
Hayi ca marrying is so old fashioned... hence the divorce is such an in thing now
If anything, I'd say people MUST marry out of cop. I've seen a lady go from a mansion to a 4 room ko Kasi, all because her husband was in the middle of a construction project when he passed on.
Bona my beloved I concur with the above bold statement. I'm definitely going marry out of community of property without accrual
Owamie my people perish bcos of lack of knowledge, familiarize urself with different contracts of marriage, it's important cos ur a public figure.
People should stop getting married with their crushes it so sad how young people are getting divorced lately! This is such sad news.
"THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE IS NOT THERE ONE WHOSE GOING TO GIVE YOU BUTTERFLIES IN YOUR STOMACH."
Exactly! Injalo Nje!
WORD!!!!!!!!!!!!
No, Owamie when you marry a pastor you do not automatically become a pastor. You are a pastor's wife until you are ordained to beco e a pastor. Its like saying when you are married to a lawyer or teacher you automatically become a lawyer or a teacher
Guys don't take Owamies advice on legalities of marriage. Do your own research especially if you have your own money, profession, policies. In community of property was intended for unemployed women with no career or income whatsoever! Please research ladies! ❤️
It's sad. but they don't fights. Its a new beginning guys. Life goes on.
What if she was the one who made the decision to marry out of community Owamie?
Yvonne Chima she did win a good million on miss SA and has a modeling business so it sounds like she could have
Yvonne Chima I think she was
I completely disagree with the whole marriage contract story. It’s so much bigger than “not trusting someone” its about protecting your family from the potential of losing everything should you find yourself in any financial problems. Black people are perishing because of lack of knowledge and silly stereotypes. I believe in living like you’re married in community of property BUT legally protect yourselves and your family by having an antenuptial.
I totally agree with you. People need to join Nthabiseng Monareng's group for more education about marriage contracts
@@ModernMom102 On what social media platform do I find Nthabiseng Monareng?
Yes please on which platform is she?
Out of community of property is the only way to marry if you love your partner enough and want to protect them. Has nothing to do with lack of commitment, trust nor love.
She has businesses ... she won’t be broke . She’s a former miss SA. Sponsorships will flood in
being a former Miss SA doesn't mean she will get sponsorships, especially after her reign which ended a long time ago.
Thandile Bhungane let’s wait a year ... and then have this conversation again, she is also a university graduate. Holla at me if you see her going broke or struggling
Tooleigh Cele I don’t disputed any of her qualifications, nor am I saying she will be broke and struggle. I’m just saying sponsors are not guaranteed just because she was Miss SA.
It depends if brands want to work with her. Which I hope they do so she can move in with her life.
And she hasn't been doing any promo/ influencial work. So we can't say she's been making money. Being former Miss SA isn't a guarantee.
Owamie you need to educate yourself so you have informed opinions on why it’s important for people to get married out of Community of Property!
She doesn't get it shame😑
Thank you!
200%
I love Owamie but she needs to do research
Most of the stuff in that statement was so unnecessary to share, she said a whole lot of everything but nothing at the same time!
Milani Inalim I disagree... I feel like she wanted to cover as many bases as possible without having people hound her with questions
My sentiment as well Milan Inalim. Was there a need to inform is about their marital contract? I believe what people are interested in is what she didn't say, what led to this decision.
How I felt
Babe can i educate you on the reasons of not getting married COP. It has nothing to do with love or trust.
She's soooo ignorant hle 👎
Remember Khaya paid lobola for Nomzamo then cheated with Jessica Nkosi mmmmmmmm he probably kept cheating and wifey got tired
GG Manzi I thot so too 🤞
Really?
Marrying in community of property doesn't guarantee you a long lasting marriage. I know alot of people who are divorced still crying and regretting for marrying in community of property!
It's not even about the money. Actually Khaya did a live the other day and he was saying he's broke and that he wish people would understand how it's like being a musician and getting to release projects. So obviously he was protecting her from those challenges that musicians face.
But all in all I'm sad about it 😔 even the timing. Oyi is probably not even walking yet and his parents are already divorced.
Or maybe Ntando felt it was too much of a transition for her. From a model, previous Miss SA to quiting your job, moving into another city and adapting to marriage lifestyle.. having to be wife of an international worshiper whose always traveling for ministry, being a stay at home mom + adapting to being a pastors wife. That's a lot to take in. It's a huge transition honestly. Maybe she couldn't handle it. But obviously we don't know
She sacrificed too much
I feel like this is an “April’s fool day” kinda of joke. I don’t believe they are getting a divorce. It feels unreal.
angel rambau me too 😢 but I’m starting to believe it
Owamie ur a public figure, do research and read before you come here and give wrong information. Marriage contracts has got nothing to do with love aai
Girl you are right. Owami needs to do more research
She couldn't be bothered to read and fact check because her content is still in demand
Above all else, lets pray for them and wish them well.
Best thing to do for them now
The best comment I've read thus far.
I am sure Owamie will have a different commentary after her divorce is finalized.
I agree Owamie, she quit her job to take care of the household...what “respective assets “ is she gonna walk away with. It’s a shame but all the best to them, just pray it’s all peaceful.
Dirvoce is a painful thing to go through marriage is a holy communion and Gods plan for godly families however it has just turned to be a contract that is only on paper my heart goes out to those who are still hoping to be married ..
Fact is my needs now will be different in the next ten years. So should I say when I have evolved?
There has to be something about unmet expectations , remember few months back we were all wondering n hoping Khama was ok when he posted a cryptic message about the expectations if one is perceived a celebrity and you covered that story Owamie in your previous videos. It’s a pity wedding is an event but marriage a long term commitment designed for the select emotionally intelligent people
ICP and OCP is an estate planning issue. It's got nothing to with trust or love. Please investigate the legal view rather. With the utmost kindness and respect I think view is focused on self perspective... It's not responsible advice.
Out of community of property...is the best option because should there be any debt or assets that are repossessed that won't affect everyone and including kids.
Marrying someone Out of community of property doesn’t mean you don’t trust them , it’s actually a very wise decision, my parents married in community of property and my mom sank deep into dads debts and there’s a lot of other things I wouldn’t mention, but marring in community of property is not the best decision, we know people go into marriage with good intentions but a lot could change in the future and could affect your relationship because you have everything binded , one person makes financial mistakes and they fall into other person as well
I'll never quit my job
That's very sad news, and their baby is soo young. Barely a year, I remember she gave birth probably a month or two after me. Though it dos sound a lot like Ntando gave up quite a lot to be with him. Moved province and gave up her job!!! I am always afraid of the idea of being a kept wife, depending on another persona entirely for money is not a nice thing particularly for a woman. Its just always good to have your own income. I agree with you Owami, there's a lot she said in that message.
😲😲😖
Before we get into the next decade (2020); what was never ment to be. Maybe it's best to end IT !
But PLEASE let's start taking marriages seriously again.
I also wish they told us after Christmas 🤶.. Not that it would change anything 💔💔💔😭
Owamie for the 1st time I agree with you. Why shouldn't she be compensated for sweat equity; having his child, giving up her career and maintaining the home this is a job You protect your personal assets from other liabilities by having registered business and trust. If I were in this situation he definitely would be paying child maintenance, medical and school fees.
I love Owamie but, getting married in Cop doesn't guarantee love or that money will be shared, Lawyers give the best advice and for me out of community is the way
Hahaha your comments on in and out of community didn't age well. Hehehe
Marriage is not child,s play it needs committment, trust and dedication it's not easy taking someone and making that person your own ,be sure first don't jump into marriage because your mates are getting married ,those who are in it they want to come out and those who out they want in,In marriage you must be emotionally , physical, financial prepared and be with the person whom you think your personalities match don't go in for love sometimes love is not enough coz luyaphela
Getting married out of community is the best thing that you can do to protect your assets. It's not a measure of love, but one needs to think logically. If a dude racks debt and dies, I can't be responsible for it. Like no. We need to educate ourselves about this because it's clear that people still misunderstand what getting married out of community means
I want to marry out of community myself... As a future CA it's risky for me to marry in comm. There's so many things that come with marrying in community and it could've easily been her decision and I personally find out way better than in... And sadly a lot of people still lack knowledge on the whole in and out of community thing..
Marrying out of community of property has its advantages though. Its best when you familiarize it with it .
Oh wow! This I did not know! I remember looking at them and saying she seems like she’s tolerating him. This was after watching a video of theirs. She was treating him like he doesn’t live up to her expectations (or something. She just seemed extremely dissatisfied). I immediately told myself I was reading way too much into it as they had recently tied the knot and I don’t know them personally.
These are shocking news still. Really really sad. It couldn’t have been an easy decision to make.
Yes!!!! I saw a video last week and I had the same cringe feeling about something Khaya said, but I thought nothing of it. Now, looking back it makes sense why that interview made me feel that awkward. Yikes
@Sun flower from which video. I wann go watch it
Which video?
Owami there is really nothing wrong with marrying ocop it has nothing to do with trust. And she could also claim spousal maintenance from kgaya since she's unemployed. It doesn't matter if the marriaged is ocop or cop one can still claim spousal maintenance
People divorcing doesn’t actually mean that they don’t love each other, people who put their happiness and acknowledge the fact that they are not compatible for each and they don’t want to force matters says a lot about them, You should do research hun and don’t just make a video because something is trending at that moment and show us your ignorance 🙄💔
Owami I think you you've to educate yourself sisi. What I am getting from you is that, when a woman get married to a man you've to be compensated Just for being married. " You get divorced and left without anything" what were there for actually 🤔
I’m shocked at the split but I hope them both the best.
The minute u marry someone like myself(an entrepreneur) in community of property u are more likely to get out of marriage with a huge amount of debt so it comes along with risk cause entrepreneurs nows how to hide their belongings,no one would want to lose 50% because of marriage contracts
In fact is stupid to attach property in marriage we are in love not Business
Shaking my head. This lady needs to understand that marrying out of community of property has benefits too. Khaya's wife might have put it out there so that it's clear she wasn't in for money. The public cannot accuse her of having gone in, gotten pregnant then divorce just to score a portion of his wealth.
But guys that " we're divorcing, I've taken my son and moved back home, he's damn right going to support this child he don't need no court to force him. Again we're divorced I've went back to my maiden name and oh yeah...HE AND i will still be FRIENDS after the divorce" 😰😰whaaaaaat 😂😂😂 friends and divorce!!!? People are painfully leaving marriages with broken hearts cause it really failed and she says they are still going to be friends after this...how sis??? KANJANI?? 😲😵
Baffles me too. There's most definitely more than meets the eye in the story. The divorce is said to be a "mutual" agreement.
Wena owamie you are misleading people. Please stick to celebrity gossip and not marriage counseling. You are not trained to give such life changing advice. This is your opinion. Out of community is the best. To avoid debt and other stuff after the bliss of marriage fades
I'm really not surprised, I saw it coming.
THULI MSIMANGA 😳
Patience Mnande I'm really not the only one Sis. There was something off about this union from the on set.
They were dating for a few months before they got married
Oh my gosh divorces cheathings 2019 wow ladies let's stay single and happy
In the era that we live in, most people seek to venture out into business....with all their great ideas and wanting to build an inheritance for the next generation. With business comes many risks, one can get blacklisted etc. If you’re married in community of property, that definitely affects both spouses. Mind you, it’s not only limited to risky business ventures, there’s also unexpected court cases that one spouse may face and bad credit scores.
I don’t believe it’s only trust that is involved in making the marital agreement. It’s more wisdom. One spouse can bail the other out should anything happen. Ofcourse all this should be discussed prior to the marriage (if one wishes to be an entrepreneur).
I agree that most celebs sometimes do get married for the wrong reasons, and so the wrong picture has been painted around this type of contract. So this view is very much one sided sis Owamie, based on the few occurrences regarding celeb divorces and their choice of marital contract.
Just my thoughts 🤷🏽♀️
Khaya just needs to come out of the closet. Getting married won't make him str8, was expecting this cos he is living a lie.....
Yhuuu😥
He also dribbled Nomzamo Mbatha and Jessica Nkosi
Let me get to it ... I’m first on the comment section 🤣🤣🧚♀️
Really not surprised. I wish them both all the best though.
“I don’t understand the marriage out of community of property” is where your opinion on it falls apart. Research it first and then make carefully considered opinions where you weigh all possibilities of why people would marry out of community of property, instead of assuming that it’s a trust thing. This is very undercooked commentary, at least in this regard, especially because you admit that you don’t understand 🙂.
Yoh this is so painful. Young ppl's marriages are falling apart 😭😭😭
I keep checking their pages, hoping they will say the account was hacked. This is really sad
Young People are too busy with life to work on any problems in marriage. People these days would rather just throw away a cracked/broken vase than to fix it.... Its really say nje
Honey! I love you hlee. I picked up that points too while you were reading. I was like....🤔🤔
I feel like there's more to the story ,I've always thought and seen Khaya as gay but hey that my opinion.
Tshidi Mohale....😱👀🙌🏾
Me too hei
😂😂😂
He is so gay,and these U try to cover up,they are horrible at their wives of girlfriends
Me too...
😂😂😂.....Research Sisi 😅😅😅
Khaya is gay am telling you
I said it!!!
I also thought about that, u try every thing possibly to cover up, but the truth shall come up,
I have said this before,and m saying it again,Khaya is gayer than Somizi
@@nwacuma6702 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Now we are waiting for Dumi Mkokstad to come out🤣🤣🤣
Been waiting for this video
Take time to know each other, no rush that's what dating are for guys.
Maybe she comes from a rich background
After watching Khaya's video regarding his divorce. 😔Sad. Ntando had no other reason than to go back home.
What does getting married out of community mean explain for us in the U.K.?
What's yours is yours and what's mine is mine. When we separate.
Out of Community without accrual, means what is your is yours and what's mine is mine. However, Out of Community with accrual it means what you acquired before marriage is yours but everything you acquire together will be shared.
Mbali M she shouldn’t have quit her job then smh
@@atlehangnkwana5420 out of community means prenup
@@De23Rosa true hey. It makes no sense to give it all up whilst going for OCP. I get Owamie, when she says, it's always unfair for the woman.
She can get spousal support if she wants it and also there's an amount of money where hubby has to pay cos they have a kid together (not maintenence)... Someone schooled me on that
This is so sad..I wish they could fix things nd be happy together..I actually agree with you Mutho wanga I also experienced the Same situation where by the guy from venda wanted us not to get marriade in community of property so I told him I don't see a future with him if he think by marrying he thinks am there for his money..
Hebana your misconception on OCOP though ...stop mohgel
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Hi there Owamie, a mini welcome back to you. I hope both partners and their families find healing. God bless and much love💗💝🇳🇦💗💝.
Kunzima kwa Department of marriage 😏😕😕
Ndlovukazi Ndloe kunzima
Dude angiyazi lento mina 🙇🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️
@@noxolochonco1024 umncane uzoyazi kanjani?
Kodwa uKhaya naye ayi cha he is a serial cheat
Kwa Kwa Dept of Relationship Mntase, Kwa Dept Of Love Nje Yho!!
Why get married if it's OCOP? Remain boyfriend and girlfriend then if you want to protect yourself against your partners debt or your your precious assets post divorce.
Ninja this now days life is scary man death and divorce is trending there will be time were people prefer vat'n sit
I think it's infidelity
divorceville i Shaya amapiano... all those that went and now making a U-turn I wanna know if you thought we are stupid?
Collin Motlhabi 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This has been long coming. See how she refers to her in-laws as Apostle and call them by names. Kuyozwakala
Modimo nagana u married out of community jiki jiki after 5yrs yo patner wins 70 million so u r not getting a cent 😣😥😥😓😢😭after they divorce u lord 😢😢😁😁
Imagine trusting someone with your money ! 😂😂😂 out of community for me please... my assets need to be protected . My businesses..my investments... mine
Who still marry in community of property in this day and age though🤦🏾♀️🙄
Please like Nthabiseng monareng page on Facebook Owami. You will be able to understand why marrying out of community is soo important. Thanks
Women paying support for their husband's side babies.
@@kitsontuli2713 can u imagine the pain babe. I married very early with excitement and did not even bother to research about diff marriage contracts. But i would've chose ocop to save my own peanuts and soul. I'm always traumatized by the woman in cop. And pray everyday i don't become one of those. Because life can happen to anyone❤️
@@pinkymakoshe9101 I hope such is not the case for you babes.
Why is it an issue that they were married out of community of property...🤔
This is life/love Gal and u can't afford to love with close eyes...,just saying🛌💕
Number 1 🙋🏾♀️
You are fast maan...
Loving the hairrr😍😍
aibo they are divorcing? aibo
DIY Yolande ngyakutshela bo
Aibo oe, angikholwa
Mrs Fear Fokol is definitely back with the ☕️
It is possible to change from being gay?
No its not
No is not, that's who u are Am gay so I know what am saying,
Tshiamo lyrics I’ve seen ppl change, they had falls but fought for the change they wanted or felt was right for them. 🙏🏾
i can hear you talking but nothing you say has meaning,,, just blah blah blah no new content
Yes girl the intro. 😘
Hey denialist this marriage thing should be scrapped totally.. if there is true love marriage doesn't have to be the sealant...true love with thrive without anyone signing their soul away to another stranger that will wake up the next with different needs
2019,Haibo Wenja😲😲!!
Was just marking register, was missing Mrs fear fokol yoh
Hmk
Owamie I agree with you on this one 😥
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I actually share the same belief with you OH on the whole out of community of property,people may say it's ignorance and blablablaa and whatever,people have diminished the marriage institution to being a contract more than a covenant and it has become so casual...their bodies should also be out of community of property then LOL let me shut up now 😃😃
Unbelievable
Wats happening 2de world....🤔🤔🤔