ADJUSTING TO LIFE WITH 3 TODDLERS AND A NEWBORN | DAY IN THE LIFE WITH A NEWBORN
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
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Todays video is my first vlog with all three boys!
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Wow, watching these videos, your effort, devotion, multi-tasking, growing patient, really puts things in perspective. Women are so strong.
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How you do that ? O my goodness you are so strong
Awww I just found your channel and I love it as my kiddos were all four born in 3.5 years. They were 3 1/2, 2 and then I had newborn twins so four under four! I did it mostly all alone and it was so hard but soooo worth it and now at 9, 8 and 6 and 6 they’re still BEST friends and so close in age and besties!! God’s grace carried me through and continues to. I miss these tiny years so much. Keep up the great work!!! It’s gone soooo fast. I get sentimental how I don’t ever get these years back but I know I was there for every single moment of it and didn’t miss any of theirs firsts. Being a stay home mom is the BEST job promotion ever!!! God bless you!!! ❤️🙏
Love how realistic your videos are. You have no idea how much comfort this brings me and so many others. Thank you for being brave and thank you for being wonderful xx
Wow, thank you!
You sure make beautiful babies! Even though you think some days are a struggle, you make it look effortless! Give yourself a pat on the back because being a Mommy, especially to four littles, is one of the hardest jobs! You’re doing so well! Oh, and kudos for bringing light to your anxiety struggles. Bless you and your little babes. ❤️
I am a brand new viewer to your channel. I've started watching since you had Lincoln. I love how real you are. I know you feel overwhelmed and like you don't have enough patience for your boys. But when I look at this video I see so much love, empathy and nurturing. I think you're beautiful with your boys.Thank you so much for opening up about your anxiety. It's so easy for us to forget that others feel that way too. The feeling will pass and we will overcome it.
You are a beautiful mommy! Anxiety isn’t easy but you are rocking it! I struggle with it too.
I’m so glad you mentioned about anxiety! I was LITERALLY just talking to my boyfriend today about trying CBD because my anxiety has gotten worse since my period started about a month ago since having my baby girl. God bless you and keep your family. Being a mommy is hard and I only have ONE! I want more but definitely May wait 2ish years. Love your channel!
Hi @kristina Dalia, coming from
A mom of 4 as well I started taking CBD about 5 months ago and it has made a turn for my postpartum depression! It has changed my life with depression and anxiety! Being a mom of 4 definitely changes everything even being a Mom of just one! I totally recommend it
thank you! I highly recommend it! I never wanted to be prescribed medication for my anxiety but started to feel like I was drowning in it. I struggled the most with my anxiety when I just had one kid at the time! it was a HUGE transition for me and it rocked me lol
Hi what is the cbd called?
@Arlene Cardenas Nuvita!
Your kids are so adorable and love how you're so patient with them. Mom of 2 girls here 💖
I love your videos so much! I’m pregnant with my 3rd. Thanks for sharing your life with us!
thank you sm! & Congratulations!
This is so realistic, loved it. You did not do anything for the sake of the camera, this helps others to know that they're not alone
I really enjoy your strength and grace under pressure, you do make it look easy and I know how hard it is. Well done on being a fantastic mother and creating such lovely content. You're doing great :)
I have my moments but I know my kids are going through a lot of changes right now so i'm trying my best! 💕
@@MadelieneVanMarter You are going through a lot of changes right now, too :) Be gentle to yourself. You're doing amazing. And your kids are sooooo cute.
Hey girl!
I'm a new mommy of a 3 month old and I know the gassy phase can be so tough on babies and the parents. I've had friends who LOVE frida baby (helps them fart). I also give my baby probiotics and gripe water every single day whether she has gas or not. I push her legs to her tummy like she's riding a bike; that also helps her pass gas. These all save me from her fussing from gas too often. Hope it helps. You're doing an AMAZING job! Your kids are lucky to have you as a momma.
Oh my gosh I love the windis! Thank you for mentioning them, I completely forgot about those! & thanks girl!💕
Mom of 3 boys here, 2mo.,2 yes, 3.5 yrs, it is indeed a challenge with them! You are admirable and doing great! Each new baby is unique and mine also was gassy, still now, and it's so frustrating when not knowing the exact reason but as they grow their bodies handle it better..I mean we adults are gsy too it just that our bodies are so used with it. With patience , affection and little actions mentioned in other comments, these first months' issues can be managed...
4 kids now… I don’t see how you do it!
I am 26 weeks and getting hit with more exhaustion than the first trimester. I am actually needing naps during the day, which I’ve never needed before. I am just so happy my husband and I aren’t hooked on coffee from Starbucks or dunken since it’s just full of sugar! We make everything here at home and I have even cut it completely out and have been doing better with my energy levels.
I have a bad sweet tooth so im addicted to the coffee🤣
You remind me of a young me I had four daughters age six to you born I know the hard work that goes into them. I am also a fellow red head can I just say your doing amazing and your boys are so lovely. Be kind to yourself and rest up when you can. My girls are all grown up now and I have six beautiful Grandchildren. Enjoy your babies they grow up so fast. Love and hugs from across the Irish Sea. ☘️💕☘️💕
Awe that’s so special thank you for sharing 🥹🫶🏻 💗💗
Your so amazing Madeline and i appreciate the realness of your videos, im pregnant with baby#3...so next May I will have 3 under 3 so we in this together babes!! I'm 11 weeks today yay👶🏽...so ready for the morning sickness to be over lol Godbless All women and mothers out there!🙏🏼🥰
Congratulations!! 3 under 3 was a good time for me!! I hope you have the same experience 😊
same ! except it’ll be next august for me when i have 3 under 3. i’m so nervous .
The baby is adorable all the boys are cute and your a beautiful Moma. They adore their mom. ❤
Thank you!!💗💗
I love the honestly of your videos. You are an awesome mamma and your consistency on youtube is really inspiring ❤
Thank you so much!!
I don't know how you do it. I had 3 and it was not easy trying to keep up with the kids and everything else that comes with it. You are such a wonderful Mom and it shows. God Bless You All and keep up the great job your amazing and beautiful. You have a beautiful family and cherish every moment mine are all grown up with kids of their own so I'm kinda miss those days. 💕🙏 Hope you all have a wonderful Holiday Season
I can't even imagine how you are so calm all these times... I'm with 6 year old boy n 2 mnth old baby without patients... Hats off
I have my moments just like we do! i'd be lying If I said I was clam 24/7! I try my best to go with the flow of things💕
@@MadelieneVanMarter 😄uff... I always feel I'm a bad mom... After watching every momy vlogs i really felt bad for my eldest boy. Everyone is so calm n patient with so much of toodlers... 😆 thank you
dont forget its just on recording nobody is gonna post themselves screaming at their kids
@@DarlingKaya no literally hahaha.
@@SharisDays oh believe me i've lost my lid before with my boys. Every parent has. But I would never post that online
Your doing a great job mama ❤I’m so happy I found your channel! How cool to watch a UA-camr in the same area I love in!
You make it look so easy, although I know it’s not. I’m not a mother yet, but I aspire to be a good one. You give me inspo… I’m new to your channel and glad I stumbled upon, I’ve been binge watching all of your videos. Keep up what you’re doing ✨✨✨
I get very overwhelmed and burnt out by the end of the day, every day🥱😅 but I’m pushing through! I’m so happy you found my channel, I hope it continues to inspire🫶🏻💗
You’re incredible seriously. This is very hard work
Omg, I can't believe how you manage it. I am so nervous having my 3rd baby in 3 months even though my older ones are 5 and 12.
You are a superwoman to me
Love your videos! You’re such a good mom I have so much respect for you 🥹 also the boys and Lincoln are getting so big!!
Thank you!💗💗 & ugh I know 😭
You are sooo organised ..you make it look soooo easy ! Good job mum x
I have only just started following you , you are the sweetest person I have seen on UA-cam. Ans thank you for sharing your life with us, I am currently 7 months pregnant with my second bub, I have a 21 month old daughter and I feel so overwhelmed with the thought of having another bub so it's really helpful to see you and your beautiful family going so well, it gives me hope I can do it haha 😄
You can totally do it!! It’s always scary until you’re actually in it. There always at least one time during each of my pregnancies where I panic for a moment on how I’m going to handle another baby and then I just do😅 it’s instinct 💗
I just watched your most recent video and omg you’re so i don’t even know how to describe you. I have 1, one year old baby girl and I feel like I can’t sometimes I imagine you. And I’m so scared to have another one but you give me inspiration and hope that it won’t be that bad 😂 hugs! Hope y’all get better soon ❤
I'm from South Africa. You are so inspiring to watch, down to earth and Lincoln is so adorable
My new hobby now is watching your videos. its so inspiring. Mom of 5 here ❤️❤️!!!
Thats awesome!
Your children are so adorable!
Madeliene- You're my favorite person on UA-cam... Your videos are wonderful
I love you are so patient with them, I’m happy I came across your channel. All your boys are so adorable 💙
Thank you!😊😊
You’re such an amazing mum🙌🏾 I salute you👏🏾👏🏾I’m first time mum and can barely handle one kid and here you’re with 4 😰😰you make me feel like I’m lazy 🤦🏾♀️
oh I have my lazy days trust me! 💕
I wouldn’t take them as being lazy but just catching your breath 🙌🏾 what you do is remarkable 🤞🏾💯 you’re such an inspiration!
Your baby so adorable ❤❤ I’m going to be a mother of 4 to. I admire your patients ❤
The ultimate challenge and you rocked it. So proud of you
I don’t think I’ve noticed how big your other boys are getting! Especially hudson! Maybe the newborn juxtaposition puts it into perspective ❤
I know he’s giant!!🤣
HUGS 🤍 you are a SUPERSTAR.
I’ve said this once I’ll say it again, you INSPIRE me so much, you have a full plate and are still filming and editing and being a mommy a mommy to 4 boys at that…. You are in my prayer book right now. 🤍
wow thank you so much you're so kind!🥺💗
Not sure how this ended up in my feed but I know my mom did it with 5 of us working at the post office until retirement. All very close in age. It's certainly uncommon to see mothers with more than 2 children these days.
I had to stop all dairy with my first son. It really helped him. Hang in there! All of your boys are so precious!💙💙💙💙
I really think it’s the dairy! Thank you for sharing 💗
@@MadelieneVanMarter I hope you get your girl soon, your boys are adorable
A mom of boys you are such a great mom
What are the age gaps of your kids? I wonder how do you balance your time and attention? Asking tips. Thank you
I have a 4 year old and 10 months baby. And another due baby this december. Just thinkinh about how to balance everything makes me anxious. I am a fan of yours now! Your Such a great mom and an inspiration to us!
Try taking calcium and vitamin D if you don’t pregnancy and nursing takes a lot of calcium from you which milk replaces he may struggle to digest dairy Hope his tummy starts to figure itself out soon your babies are cute
this gas colic problem automatically cure after 3 mnth....same happen with me,..dont worry dear
My baby had colic and stopping caffeine and dairy helped ALOT.
Finally someone who mentions cbd oil for postpartum 🙌 that’s what helped me so much and wish someone would have told me sooner!
I wish I used it sooner! It’s changed my life 🫶🏻
I love watching your videos so much. You're such an inspiration, this must take you FOREVER to do 😅❤️ good on you for keeping with it. Love you and your beautiful family!
Thank you so much!! I love filming and editing! its a huge creative outlook for me so I look forward to doing it but yes it takes awhile to edit 😅
You look so happy! I’m so afraid of after the baby gets here 😢5,4 and soon newborn
don't worry you got this!
You're so strong and patient I hope to be like you when my baby comes because I struggled with postpartum depression with my first baby
I struggled with that as well in the past. I know how hard it can be. I wish you all the best this time around💗
@@MadelieneVanMarter it does get tough thank you so much
Madeline, sei una super super- mamma. Complimenti!!
I’m definitely thinking it’s the milk 🥛 hun ! New sub. Love the channel.
Warm compresses would help with the gas pain
when my son have trouble passing out gas, we put some oil in his tummy and under his feet, we massage it gently then later on he's finally able to fart. i don't know if that oil is available there but the oil is called aceite de manzanilla (im from ph btw 🇵🇭) what makes my son gassy when he was a newborn were the cold drinks i take. take a rest momma, don't worry about the channel that much, we'll be viewing whenever you have an upload, mr. lincoln is worth the wait. 🥰 ps. hudson is really bubbly! ♡
You’re so kind thank you 🥹💗
Girl. Are you running a daycare 🤣
You’re doing so good btw ❤❤❤❤
Girl it feels like it🤣
All my family worries and stresses me out how we will manage life with a newborn and 2 dogs... and there you are, managing the house with 4 little boys and a doggo! ❤ It makes me feel everything's possible! Have a great day and thank you for vlogging despite being so tired and busy ❤
4 Kids, a dog, a house plus UA-camr wow. Superwoman 😍
Chocolade, cocoa contains a lot of iron what could explain your cravings
Your doing so well with 4 babies! They all look so happy 😊 with Lincoln could be the dairy? Both my children was allergic to the lactose in milk and there bellies were hard and fussy xxx
Thank you so much 💗 I think it might be the dairy too 😕
Hello Sweet Friend. Hudson is growing so fast. Or maybe he just seems to be bigger since Lincoln is a Newborn. I want to try that Coffee from Dunkin. I love peanut butter so I think I'd enjoy that coffee. I love Lincoln's little outfit, it's adorable. Watching you with all your children reminds me of myself when mine were all so close in age..it's so fun having them grow up together. I think that your doing a fantastic job Sweetie. Being a Momma to so many little ones is a very tiring but rewarding as well. Looks like you're killing it. I've always suffered from anxiety and depression. I've tried CDB oils before but it didn't help me.. Maybe I should give your kind a try, I hope that you can figure out what is causing baby Boy gas.. it's sad knowing that they're in pain. I had to cut dairy out completely with my 5 Baby, Because she was keeping tummy aches and severe gas. I don't know if that's what could be causing it or not. I hope you can Get some sleep momma.. Thank you so very much for sharing this video.. I know how extremely exhausting it is with a new baby and toddlers. So I appreciate the video. Take Care and I hope to see you guys soon. Much Love From Indiana.
Thank you!💗 it’s definitely been a struggle but it’ll get easier! Hudsons getting soo big 🥲 he’ll be two in just a. Couple weeks! I’m loving the CBD I’m taking and I’ve tried others in the past as well but this one has the most effect for me. I hope it works for you if you end up trying it🫶🏻
@@MadelieneVanMarter thanks sweetie. Yes I think that I'm going to give it a try. Aww your kids are so adorable. Hudson is a cutie pie. They all are. Hope you have a wonderful weekend.
Please please please upload daily videos with your newborn.. love from India ❤️
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Thank you for sharing. I know it’s hard work juggling babies and toddlers, And on top of everything else!! You’re doing great mom.
I also had my little babe not too long ago and PP cravings must be real then! I also crave a particular thing and I just don’t understand it lol 😂
Isn’t that so weird?! I wonder if p.p. Cravings are a thing?? & thank you 🥰
The peanut butter iced coffee😅So I’m going to try it tomorrow (Saturday) morning. I will give you an update on my final thought. Lol
Okay I’ll be waiting for your message! 🤣
I'm fairly new to your channel I started watching when you gave birth to Lincoln. You have an amazing family I love watching your videos and your doing an amazing job keep up the great work and hope you're having a wonderful day
Thank you! And to you also!💗
I'm so happy I found your channel a few days ago 💕
Welcome!!💗
You are doing a fantastic job :) I don't know how you do it!
Some days are easier than others! Today was a good day😊
I'm a huuuuge Dunkin fan lol. I got hooked on the cocoa mocha signature lattes. I'm a little too addicted. 😅 The PB cup is good, but lately my fav has been their mocha cappuccinos. Btw your sunglasses are so cool 😎
oooo im going to try that!! 💕 I got them on amazon for like $15 I think!
@@MadelieneVanMarter Amazon has the best!! Man though my toddler broke all my sunglasses 😵💫 He so confidently looked me in the eyes and snapped them in half 😅🤣 I swear I'm going to invent toddler proof ones!!
@@meganmbaker ill buy a pair for sure! hahah they snap mine all the time lol
i am getting ready for my firs baby soon and i was so scared,watching you have 4 beautiful babys and doing everything so good🙏🥰i have hooe that i am gonna be okey too,i am gonna be all alone and thats what i am scared off
You’ve got this! In my personal experience I didn’t need my husbands help all that much during the newborn stage. It’s the toddlers that run you wild😵💫😅
I don't know how you do it and you look amazing. Beautiful family. Xx
😊 thank you! a few tears might be shed in the process but that's ok 😅
I don’t know if i missed a part in the recent videos??? but did you move? scenery is different!
Yes! I keep forgetting to mention it because I’ve been all over the place 😵💫😅
I took CBD with my last baby and it was the best for both of us!
I love your energy 🎉🎉❤
Fair life has a lactose free chocolate milk and try oat milk in your coffee. After I finally cut dairy milk out of my diet, my acne went away and my stomach problems reduced significantly. I imagine the lactose he is getting is possibly giving him tummy problems. I remember reading that humans aren’t even supposed to be really consuming cow milk but the industry keeps pushing milk for $$$. Makes sense lol. Also I totally understand when you said you have been more sensitive to the noise and more snappy. I got to a point that I went on anti anxiety meds because I was not liking the person my anxiety was making me be. Eventually I weened off and now I’m not on them but I’m looking for alternatives and I might take the cbd recc into consideration. I feel find but I’m noticing now I’m becoming more overwhelmed by messes and it’s causing me to focus more on that and less on one on one time with my son.
Milk has so many added hormones and it’s inflammatory so it makes sense that that’s what’s causing it 😵💫 the CBD I’m using is called Nutiva! I really love it and won’t be going back! I wish I had it years ago
Your so strong! 💗
You are super mom for sure 🫶🏽
hi new subscriber, this brings back do many memories my children are now 26 and 23 lol u never forget.
little one you think may be colicky? maybe some colic drops help release the gas ? my first had very bad colic poor little love your children are all so cute keep going mummy you are doing great ❤️
Thanks for subscribing!🫶🏻 I don’t think it’s colic because he doesn’t really cry I just think he’s gassy😅 but I should get some gas relief drops! Thank you so much ☺️💗
Girl I am praying for you, you have a lot on your plate God bless you and allow the Lord to help you with your anxiety, I’ve dealt with it a lot Jesus has helped me so much ❤😇
I'm feeling much better now that were settled in and Lincolns almost 7 months!
Love your makeup❤️❤️❤️❤️
How do u get up early???😭😭😭
Whats your opinion on cbd and breastfeeding?I used to take cbd,but was told not to breastfeeding and I'm dying without it 😅
i googled it + saw it advised against it but now i want to message my lactation consultant for her advice 😆
They’ll always advise against it but let you take ssri medication while breastfeeding.. it doesn’t sit right with me lol. I personally use CBD while breastfeeding.
Try the book A More Excellent Way😀
I’ll look into it!
@@MadelieneVanMarter My husband and I can send you a book for free. Hang in there! You're doing good!
what car type is this i need one with a hallway like that :)
I just started watching your vlogs. Love them but I’m alittle confused. Title on one vlog says 4 boys but isn’t one alittle girl? Beautiful family! ❤️❤️😘
Hahah nope all boys! Hudson (my third) has long hair 🤪
@@MadelieneVanMarter I sure hope I didn’t offend. I apologize if I did.
@@patsmalley375 not at all!
What brand is that baby bouncer/carrier/seat do you have in the living room? Do you like it? I'm trying to gather info( soon to be mom here)!! 🌻
congrats! 💗 the swing is by munchkin and I really like it! and my baby carrier is from Solly Baby :)
@@MadelieneVanMarter thank you!!
That couch 😍
U had the babyyyyyyy❤
yes! 💗
U have the cutest stuff
My baby loves the Biogaia probiotics. You might know, you’re a veteran mother, but hope it helps
I’ll look into it, thank you!
Cute blanket
Are you breastfeeding only your newborn or also with bottle?
can u take cbd oil with breastfeeding? what brand was this did u say
It’s the brand Nuvita! I’ve been breastfeeding and taking the cbd for about 4 months now. I personally think it’s safer than taking ssri medication while bf. I have a 10% off discount code - Maddsv 😊
so cute
Love your videos ☺️ i like the day in my life Videos the most 😁 i'm planning to get pregnant as well.
Bless you and greetings from Germany 🙋🏻♀️❤️
Hoping to have one up tomorrow!!💗
Hello 👋. Baby so cute 🥰
If he's gassy put a piece of pepermint stick in some warm water and let it dissolve. Let him drink some and then burp him. It worked for my daughter.
Hang in there! Hope his fussiness gets over soon.
Thank you, me too!
We like u video. So cute baby.godbless
New born❤
Your family is lovely.. but I don’t know why people put themselves through this 😂
Hi Dear. I am mom of 4 too. Have a nice day
Is this your new house?
Yes!
Bir yenidoğan ve bir üç yaş annesi olarak izledim. Ne kadar çok o kadar kolay diye yorumladım😂