People need to realize that, as an older person, we love other kids, especially if we see that they're poor, we think that we will love them with our hearts and look towards the future for a happiness, when we're old,,some children will love us back,and some are just troubled, so sometimes it's not even worth it to take no one in,because you don't know the future..
Txhob tu siab os tus viv ncaus. Koj khaws tau cov xiab tsis zoo los tu. Tabsis koj twb ua zoo ces ntuj yeej yuav cia koj tau qhov zoo. Nkawv ces ua phem ntuj yeej yuav lem. Kav tsij hlub koj tus kheej.
I have my own kids and took my husband's brother's two boys when he and his wife divorced when the boys were in their early teens. The boys were older than my kids, but I would always ask my son to do chores first before asking them. They lived with us all through high school, and when their father decided to come for them, they left like thieves in the night, not saying one word to either my husband or I. Well, a year later, they asked to come back and live with us because their father had abandoned them again. Guess what? I said no. Telling them they were of age and would help them, but my house was too small for them to move in. Now those 2 boys are in their late 30's to early 40 and we don't see them at all. They came around for us to pay and do their father's funeral, and we haven't heard from them since. Just fyi, we planned and paid for the entire funeral. The sons claiming they have no money, didn't contribute one red cent toward their father's funeral. Lesson learn, take care of yourself because no one will take care of you. And if you want to help, contribute to your local charities!
I believe this auntie! I hope she finds peace in old age. As for her adopted son and daughter, they will one day have to answer to what they did to her.
Niam laus awd, ntuj nyob qe qe li lawm os. Tsis tas koj foom li os ob niag tsuag rog ntawd yeej yuav npam li os. Tsis ntev no ces nkawd cov yeej yuav ua ib yam nkaus li nkawd ua rau koj os. Nkawd cov mas twb yog nkawd yug kiag mas nkawd haj yam yuav tu siab los kua muag tshaj koj os mog.❤
Phauj aw txhob tu siab os mog. Txawm tias yog yus yug kiag los tej cov menyuam ces yeej phem tsis hlub niam thiab txiv. Yus hlub yus tus kheej zoo tshaj plaws qhov ntshaw tej niam menyuam ntawv. Ib nub lawv cov ua rau lawv ces lawv mam paub.
Should’ve left them orphaned. They need some hard life lessons. You rescued them too soon. You did your best. We all have to answer to Karma and they are no exception. Make peace and enjoy your life now on. You dnt need those ungrateful children, accept what God gave you.
Tus me viv ncaus koj txhob tu cia lub ntuj mam ntsia nkawd ob tug nus muaj xwb koj yeej yuav pom nkawd txojkev txhaum uas nkawd saib g taus koj yog tus ua kab ua noog cawm nkawd thiaj li tsheej neeg tabtsi rov taw tuam lub ntuj ces nkawd kawg yuav tau qhov phem los 6 nkawd ris xwb koj yeej g tau tuag yuav pom kev npam los raug thaum kawg nkawd yuav los txhos caug pe thov koj zwb thiaj li nawv lub ntuj yee pom koj txojkev hlub ces yuav npam nkawd xwb nawv
Yog nyob teb chaw Meskas ces tsis muaj los tsis txhob tu siab ua ib siab cia li. Yog nyob nplog teb no ces ua lub siab loj cia tus txiv yuav niam yau es nrog niam yau hlub niam yau cov, thaum yus nkees los yus nyob tsuav thaum laus yus muaj lub chaw nyob chaw tuag xwb.
npam kawg mas.yuav npam rau koj nria nroov lub ntuj tsw cia dim dawb.2niag nruag rog noob tub sab. noob haug yeeb.koj niam muab neb lub siab phem. rov taw tuam ntuj tuaj tham. yog nov log hlub neb niam mov.yog nwg tsw coj neb log tu neb TUAG lawm ntxov. tsw pom lub ntiaj teb zoo2 nkauj. neb tsw tau log muaj neej ua pheeg ua yig li kom.phem tiag2 tsw tau nov tej tug menyuam mem2 li kom. ua miv faug quav li kom.2niag nruag nrog kom phem nruab thiab log lawm😢😢😢😢
Tus coj lub siab phem ces yeej tsis tau neej zoo ua os niam tais aws. Lawv nyuam qhuav pib lawv lub neej xwb lawv yeej yuav khiav tsis dim yam lawv tau tsim li os.
Tsis yog koj yug los koj twb tu thaum me2 los lm es ho sb phem npaum li ntawv rau koj yeej kawg npam xb2 li txhob tu sb lsm nyob raws txoj hmoo xb os mog pab hlub koj os
txhob tu cov tub ntsuag no zoo tshaj vim kuv txiv tu ib tug nws txiv ntxawm twb tsis kam yuav kom mus dai tuag.. kuv txiv coj los tu loj muab nyab rau thaum kawg twb tsis hlub kuv txiv… tseem mus yuav ib luv truck loj rau tus txiv ntxawm kom nws mus tuag?!?! thaum kawg thiaj npam nws ntag ?!? hmoob yog ib haiv neeg ruam twb muaj nyuj muaj twm muaj tshis na ra tsis muab tej mis no los pub rau me nyuam noj ?!?! hmoob ruam mus muaj pawg lug tabsi twb tsis paub my as b tej mis no rau me nyuam noj
Muab xav tiag tiam no kj them ob niag tub tsaig ntawv li nuj qhi rau lawv tas lawm xwb yog lwm tiam muaj tiag tom kom kj yug tau me tub me nyuam puv vaj puv tsev os
Ua cas tsis yuav ib tug xwb ma es yuav coj ob niag los naw tej zaum koj hlub dhau lawm thiaj ua phem ua luaj yuav tau xuas plawm zaum puav qhia kev cai rau thiab hos!
Nrog koj khuv xim koj lub zog kawg li o tus niam tais, lub ntuj muaj qhov muag kawg yeej yuav npam ob niag ntsuag no xwb mas. cov me nyuam ntsuag nyob lub teb chaw nplog ko mas feem coob yog koj tsis yog lawv niam thiab txiv cas thawm kawg lawv yeej tsis hlub thiab yeej tsis ris txiaj txim li ko mas😢 😢😢😢
Koj phem dhau lawm xwb… kuv xav ma koj tsim lawv heev es lawv thaib li tsis nco tsis hlub koj. Tsis muaj ib tu neeg yuav ua tau li ko yeej yog koj phem dhau lawm pog laus.
I think since I only hear your side of the story, I don't believe you. If you really love the two kid like you said, I'm sure they will love you back, at least the girl. But I believe you don't love them, that's why they don't love you in return. You are not a good fit, mother for them. You should never buy them in the first place. That way, you won't feel like they owe you for raising them up.
I believe she loved them too much and should have discipline them when they didn’t behave. My daughter who is two turning three chucks tantrums when she doesn’t get her way and that’s when I do time out with her and it works. I really do believe some kids are just horrible but with both parents putting efforts into teaching their kids can change things around especially when they are still young.
We should know that there are so many kind people in the world. This is posibility. We don't know every single thing in this world. So just don't bleme anyone within our experience.
I am strongly disagree with this lady bc she only want them to see if he could have some of her own like the old saying. In her heart she never wants or like kids. If you truly love them from the starts and how the way you said and do then they will know who love them and care for them from the starts. And yes it all depends on how the way you are too. So it not cov me nyuam ntsuag fault and stop blaming on that old saying bc back then no one can ever loves those me nyuam ntsuag and if they wanna keep them then it only for slavery... but people don't see that part and only see the part that those me nyuam ntsuag part only. So it all depends on you not them.
Your son and daughter they both too toxic and negative. Someone like them yeej tsis muaj hnub Hlub koj thiab txhis koj txiaj txig li os..ua ib siab txhob tos nkawv txoj kev hlub. Lub ntuj yeej yuav npam nkawv
No offense but it looks like u spoiled these 2 brags that's why they r not afraid of u n don't respect u as a mother. Kids like these, u have to b firm n set boundaries n expectations. Only reward them for good behaviors. Thov txim os tus me niam tais siab zoo, pab koj khuv xim koj lub zog uas koj hlub hlub thiab tu tu koj ob tug me nyuam ntsuag. Tabsis, kuv xav hais tias koj hlub ob tug niag ntsuag plab hlob ko dhau lawm nev. Yuav tsum qhiav kev cai rau cov me nyuam tawv ncauj no thaum me mas lawv thiaj li paub ntshai yus thiaj fwm yus. Yog muaj li koj hais tiag ces cia lub ntuj mas li qhia kev cai rau nkawv ob nus muag dev no. Tsis txho tu siab thiab nyuaj siab kiag li nawb. Muaj tseeb, tu qaib ntsuag tau ncej puab, tu me nyuam ntsuag ces thaum kawg lawv tsis hlub yus ces zoo li no los mas. Tos Hmoob tsis xav hlub cov me nyuam ntsuag los vim li no.
Blood is thicker than water though. Most blood can forgive it each other no matter how big the feud is. But kids that isn't yours biologically- even if the punishment/discipline is mild, the resentment and unforgiveness is deeper and last longer.
People need to realize that, as an older person, we love other kids, especially if we see that they're poor, we think that we will love them with our hearts and look towards the future for a happiness, when we're old,,some children will love us back,and some are just troubled, so sometimes it's not even worth it to take no one in,because you don't know the future..
Brother Tou, I love listening to your stories. I just can’t get enough of it. You’re the best storyteller on UA-cam.
Txhob tu siab os tus viv ncaus. Koj khaws tau cov xiab tsis zoo los tu. Tabsis koj twb ua zoo ces ntuj yeej yuav cia koj tau qhov zoo. Nkawv ces ua phem ntuj yeej yuav lem. Kav tsij hlub koj tus kheej.
I have my own kids and took my husband's brother's two boys when he and his wife divorced when the boys were in their early teens. The boys were older than my kids, but I would always ask my son to do chores first before asking them. They lived with us all through high school, and when their father decided to come for them, they left like thieves in the night, not saying one word to either my husband or I. Well, a year later, they asked to come back and live with us because their father had abandoned them again. Guess what? I said no. Telling them they were of age and would help them, but my house was too small for them to move in. Now those 2 boys are in their late 30's to early 40 and we don't see them at all. They came around for us to pay and do their father's funeral, and we haven't heard from them since. Just fyi, we planned and paid for the entire funeral. The sons claiming they have no money, didn't contribute one red cent toward their father's funeral. Lesson learn, take care of yourself because no one will take care of you. And if you want to help, contribute to your local charities!
I believe this auntie! I hope she finds peace in old age. As for her adopted son and daughter, they will one day have to answer to what they did to her.
Cov menyuam ntsuag mos2 nyob Nplog Teb ces txhob coj lo tu nawb. Feem coob ces yog tu yeeb ncuab xwb. Koj yuav tsum mus tu cov twb loj2 uas luag yeej raug tsim txom pov2 khawv lawm es koj coj los tu nws thiaj ris siab thiab hlub koj.
Niam laus awd, ntuj nyob qe qe li lawm os. Tsis tas koj foom li os ob niag tsuag rog ntawd yeej yuav npam li os. Tsis ntev no ces nkawd cov yeej yuav ua ib yam nkaus li nkawd ua rau koj os. Nkawd cov mas twb yog nkawd yug kiag mas nkawd haj yam yuav tu siab los kua muag tshaj koj os mog.❤
Yeej muaj tiag2 li os ❤❤❤
Not all kids are bad but some are truly evil!!
Phauj aw txhob tu siab os mog. Txawm tias yog yus yug kiag los tej cov menyuam ces yeej phem tsis hlub niam thiab txiv. Yus hlub yus tus kheej zoo tshaj plaws qhov ntshaw tej niam menyuam ntawv. Ib nub lawv cov ua rau lawv ces lawv mam paub.
Ntuj tsim los ua neeg ntuj yeej pom kawg muag ib hnub yuav paub xwb o viv ncaus Aw
Txhob tusiab thiab txhob hlub ntxiv lawm 2 nyuag tsiaj ntawd ntxiv lawm. Nkawd tseem yuav ntsib nkawd txoj kev npam tom ntej.
You're a good mom! Your children are inconsiderate! Don't worry. What goes around comes around!
Should’ve left them orphaned. They need some hard life lessons. You rescued them too soon. You did your best. We all have to answer to Karma and they are no exception. Make peace and enjoy your life now on. You dnt need those ungrateful children, accept what God gave you.
Koj tus txiv hias yog lawm
Naig noob tsis zoo
Dont adopt them & let them be. No hard feelings..
Av tsij foom yeej yuav khaum xwb siab phem dhau lawm av tsij foom kom khaum ntsag
Kv ces siab tsis ntev phem li kib dwb kv kawg mag kaum tsiav qhia kev caiv rau lau
😅😅😅😅😅😅
Koj txhob tu siab nkawd siab phem Tsis hlub koj ces thaum kawg ntuj yuav txias txim yuav npam xwb thiaj tag os mog
Peb ua neeg nyob kev sib tsoob muaj me nyuam xwb yooj yim dhau. tus muab txoj kev hlub tus yus loj hlob thiaj yog tus muaj txiaj ntsig.
Cia ntuj mam txiav txim os.
Some kids/people are just born pure evil, its hard to believe unless you see it for yourself. They have it in their blood.
I believe they have pure evil blood. Caj ces phem, noob phem lim hiam ces yog li no tiag.
Thaum kawg yeej kawg npam 100%
Tsis paub li nawb
Niam tais aw txhob tus siab ib hnub twg ob niag ntawv yeej yuav npam tsi tau ib lub zoo neej ua os
Yeej muaj ib co niag me nyuam lim lim hiam li ntawv! Yog kuv ce xa rov qab lawm os tsi yuav!
Tus me viv ncaus koj txhob tu cia lub ntuj mam ntsia nkawd ob tug nus muaj xwb koj yeej yuav pom nkawd txojkev txhaum uas nkawd saib g taus koj yog tus ua kab ua noog cawm nkawd thiaj li tsheej neeg tabtsi rov taw tuam lub ntuj ces nkawd kawg yuav tau qhov phem los 6 nkawd ris xwb koj yeej g tau tuag yuav pom kev npam los raug thaum kawg nkawd yuav los txhos caug pe thov koj zwb thiaj li nawv lub ntuj yee pom koj txojkev hlub ces yuav npam nkawd xwb nawv
kuv xum nyb tsi muaj kev nyuajmsiab yog yu yug tsi muaj
Yog nyob teb chaw Meskas ces tsis muaj los tsis txhob tu siab ua ib siab cia li. Yog nyob nplog teb no ces ua lub siab loj cia tus txiv yuav niam yau es nrog niam yau hlub niam yau cov, thaum yus nkees los yus nyob tsuav thaum laus yus muaj lub chaw nyob chaw tuag xwb.
Niam tais koj twb tu nyuaj npaum ntawd lawm ces foom kiag ib lo rau xb mas
Cas Txawj phem tas npau li rau koj li os phauj txhob tu siab os phauj pab hlub koj koj heev os lov
Yog koj lam hlub txiv cov xwb ntshe koj twb tau zoo lawm lau
Rau tshuaj rau noj kom ua qab kev luag xb ma
Pab hlub koj kawg li. Sad story 😢
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npam kawg mas.yuav npam rau koj nria nroov lub ntuj tsw cia dim dawb.2niag nruag rog noob tub sab. noob haug yeeb.koj niam muab neb lub siab phem. rov taw tuam ntuj tuaj tham. yog nov log hlub neb niam mov.yog nwg tsw coj neb log tu neb TUAG lawm ntxov. tsw pom lub ntiaj teb zoo2 nkauj. neb tsw tau log muaj neej ua pheeg ua yig li kom.phem tiag2 tsw tau nov tej tug menyuam mem2 li kom. ua miv faug quav li kom.2niag nruag nrog kom phem nruab thiab log lawm😢😢😢😢
Tus coj lub siab phem ces yeej tsis tau neej zoo ua os niam tais aws. Lawv nyuam qhuav pib lawv lub neej xwb lawv yeej yuav khiav tsis dim yam lawv tau tsim li os.
Lawv ua rau koj yeej muaj neeg ua rau nws nrog koj tu siab thiab os
Cov niag menyuam uas niam&txiv quav yeeb tshuaj ces roj ntsha yeej liam ntau. Neeg siab phem ces neej yeej tsis kav ntev. Koj muab xav tias koj tu nkawd loj muaj neej tag ces koj haujlwm tiav. Nkawd mom neb txheej rov taw tuam ntuj ces kav tsis ntev.
Tsis yog koj yug los koj twb tu thaum me2 los lm es ho sb phem npaum li ntawv rau koj yeej kawg npam xb2 li txhob tu sb lsm nyob raws txoj hmoo xb os mog pab hlub koj os
txhob tu cov tub ntsuag no zoo tshaj vim kuv txiv tu ib tug nws txiv ntxawm twb tsis kam yuav kom mus dai tuag.. kuv txiv coj los tu loj muab nyab rau thaum kawg twb tsis hlub kuv txiv… tseem mus yuav ib luv truck loj rau tus txiv ntxawm kom nws mus tuag?!?! thaum kawg thiaj npam nws ntag ?!? hmoob yog ib haiv neeg ruam twb muaj nyuj muaj twm muaj tshis na ra tsis muab tej mis no los pub rau me nyuam noj ?!?! hmoob ruam mus muaj pawg lug tabsi twb tsis paub my as b tej mis no rau me nyuam noj
Nkawv ces kawg npam xwb os lwm hnub ces nkawv ob nus muag cov me nyuam yeej g hlub nkawv ib yam nkaus li g hlub koj thiab xwb os
peb ua neeg nyob yog yus yug g muaj ces g txhob mus yuav luaj tej ntshav lo tu os g yog yus yug ces nkim sij hawm tu xwb os
Koom koj nawb❤❤❤❤❤
Paub hlub koj kawg li os niam tais aw
Koj puas zoo tiag ma
Tu sab heev. 😢
Tsis muaj los txhob tu tu siab thiab ib txhia menyuam yus yug kiag los twb tsis hlub yus thiab os
Muab xav tiag tiam no kj them ob niag tub tsaig ntawv li nuj qhi rau lawv tas lawm xwb
yog lwm tiam muaj tiag tom kom kj yug tau me tub me nyuam puv vaj puv tsev os
You should have return them
Txhob tu siab
Ua cas tsis yuav ib tug xwb ma es yuav coj ob niag los naw tej zaum koj hlub dhau lawm thiaj ua phem ua luaj yuav tau xuas plawm zaum puav qhia kev cai rau thiab hos!
poj hmoob aw :! tsis yog tim dab tsi li os , yog koj txoj hmoo yeej coj koj yug los ua neeg
zoo li no na ??
Nrog koj khuv xim koj lub zog kawg li o tus niam tais, lub ntuj muaj qhov muag kawg yeej yuav npam ob niag ntsuag no xwb mas. cov me nyuam ntsuag nyob lub teb chaw nplog ko mas feem coob yog koj tsis yog lawv niam thiab txiv cas thawm kawg lawv yeej tsis hlub thiab yeej tsis ris txiaj txim li ko mas😢 😢😢😢
When are you gonna learn your lessons? Those two good for nothing kid's never love in the first place!!!!
Koj mus yuav tau cov noob tsis zoo noob xyob txhiaj lawm ne noob tub sab quav yeeb ces koj thiaj li tu tub ntsuag tau yeeb ncuab ntag lau
Niag ntxhais poj dab siab dev maum nkais.
Koj phem dhau lawm xwb… kuv xav ma koj tsim lawv heev es lawv thaib li tsis nco tsis hlub koj. Tsis muaj ib tu neeg yuav ua tau li ko yeej yog koj phem dhau lawm pog laus.
Zaj no tsis tshua txaus ntseeg
I think since I only hear your side of the story, I don't believe you. If you really love the two kid like you said, I'm sure they will love you back, at least the girl. But I believe you don't love them, that's why they don't love you in return. You are not a good fit, mother for them. You should never buy them in the first place. That way, you won't feel like they owe you for raising them up.
I don't blame her. Some kids are terrible attitudes.
@kaciewanh1986 is true, but it also depends on the parents.
I believe she loved them too much and should have discipline them when they didn’t behave. My daughter who is two turning three chucks tantrums when she doesn’t get her way and that’s when I do time out with her and it works. I really do believe some kids are just horrible but with both parents putting efforts into teaching their kids can change things around especially when they are still young.
We should know that there are so many kind people in the world. This is posibility. We don't know every single thing in this world. So just don't bleme anyone within our experience.
You may be right but you’re also wrong.. there’s evil kids in this world..
I am strongly disagree with this lady bc she only want them to see if he could have some of her own like the old saying. In her heart she never wants or like kids. If you truly love them from the starts and how the way you said and do then they will know who love them and care for them from the starts. And yes it all depends on how the way you are too. So it not cov me nyuam ntsuag fault and stop blaming on that old saying bc back then no one can ever loves those me nyuam ntsuag and if they wanna keep them then it only for slavery... but people don't see that part and only see the part that those me nyuam ntsuag part only. So it all depends on you not them.
Kav liam os yeej muaj ib hnub txog nkawv txoj kev npam 😂😂😂
Yog nej yog tus phauj no ob tug me nyuam tu tiag no nej sib piam nej sab tuaj se..yog nej tseem muaj txoj siav nyob....
Tej zaum koj tshuav ob niag menyuam kod nqe pob. Los ntawm tsev neeg noob tsi zoo ces yeej yuav yoog noob os
Ntshe koj tshuav nkawv nqi pob thiab koj yeej tsis hlub nws tiag pob. Tsis npam li os lawv twb tuaj them nyiaj rau koj tag lawm ne. Koj zoo koj siab mus coj lawv los nrog koj nyob as.
Your son and daughter they both too toxic and negative. Someone like them yeej tsis muaj hnub Hlub koj thiab txhis koj txiaj txig li os..ua ib siab txhob tos nkawv txoj kev hlub. Lub ntuj yeej yuav npam nkawv
Koj 2 tug mi nyuam ko ma phem tiag2 kawg npam xwb xwb
Poglaus ruam aws cas koj ruam ua luaj na? Yog tseeb npaum koj hais cas ho tsis muab xa rovqab xwb na? Ruam tiag
Cov niag noob phem ces yeej phem
Koj tus ntxhais ko yog niag mi nyuam dab xwb.
Karma will get them
No offense but it looks like u spoiled these 2 brags that's why they r not afraid of u n don't respect u as a mother. Kids like these, u have to b firm n set boundaries n expectations. Only reward them for good behaviors.
Thov txim os tus me niam tais siab zoo, pab koj khuv xim koj lub zog uas koj hlub hlub thiab tu tu koj ob tug me nyuam ntsuag. Tabsis, kuv xav hais tias koj hlub ob tug niag ntsuag plab hlob ko dhau lawm nev. Yuav tsum qhiav kev cai rau cov me nyuam tawv ncauj no thaum me mas lawv thiaj li paub ntshai yus thiaj fwm yus. Yog muaj li koj hais tiag ces cia lub ntuj mas li qhia kev cai rau nkawv ob nus muag dev no. Tsis txho tu siab thiab nyuaj siab kiag li nawb. Muaj tseeb, tu qaib ntsuag tau ncej puab, tu me nyuam ntsuag ces thaum kawg lawv tsis hlub yus ces zoo li no los mas. Tos Hmoob tsis xav hlub cov me nyuam ntsuag los vim li no.
Blood is thicker than water though. Most blood can forgive it each other no matter how big the feud is. But kids that isn't yours biologically- even if the punishment/discipline is mild, the resentment and unforgiveness is deeper and last longer.
Tsuas nros yus ruam os lam ua siab hlub niam loj cov kom tau chaw tuag
Yog koj foom ces kawg npam