Imma answer exactly the way i would have answered if it were a man. Don't try to justify your cheating. What a poor excuse. If u wanna cheat bc your marriage lacks love, respect, and affection then divirce first. I don't commend your actions just bc you're a woman. And anyone who condemns your actions are just as sick as u are. A cheater is a cheater. No excuse.
I don't believe in cheating, but when a person has had enough and has taken that step, it's time to let go and close all the doors on the past. What gets me is that she listed all the reasons for her decision but she didn't have enough confidence to take that last step to plunge into a new dawn and a new beginning but instead went backward and accepted the trash of her misery. Yes, some folks learned from their mistakes. I just hope that she doesn't live to regret it.
What's wrong with some Hmong women?! Why do you need to "dumb" yourself down for your husband?! And what's wrong with some Hmong men that they can only feel more of a man if their wife "dumbs" herself down?! A marriage based on TRUE love should be a union where you help each other to become your BEST self so that your marriage can be the best marriage you create together! Do some of these Hmong couples even know what REAL love is?! Real love is about respect, truthfulness, faithfulness, caring and kindness, and so many more positive acts you do for the one you love! When one or both stop caring about the feelings of the other, then there's no more love there and it's time to evaluate what you really want out of life. Never stay in a marriage for others, stay because it's worth staying!
Vim tus txiv twb mus pab tus sab nraub thiab zoo rau tus sab nraub cia tus poj niam nyob ib leeg tus siab nrho thiab mob siab rau tus txiv x b .tus txiv twb tsis paub tias nws ua rau tus poj niam mob npaum cas li thiab hlub tus poj niam sab nraum tsis yog cais lawm . Tus poj niam nws ua pab rau nws xb yeej yog kawg 😊kom tus txiv paub tias nws ua rau nws tus poj niam mob npaum cas xwb 😊
Txhob rawm zoo siab tias koj tus txiv hloov os. Hnub twg bkag qab nyom mam li xam vim txiv neej hmoob siab phem2 li. Lawv tos thaum koj laus tsus phim lawv mam ia pauj nawb
The amount of women who agreed to what this woman did is sickening and is exactly why these kind of things continue. If u are as old as u are and still don't know what's right from wrong then u can't be helped. This goes to both men and women who are like this and who praises people like this. No wonder marriages now a days are so messed up. Two wrongs don't make a right.
Just be kind and faithful. We all been through man acting more conceited. Most of us who are dumb just know how to play the cards right and we don’t get exhausted. I say be aware of your life and improve on that.
I wouldn’t even cheat or talk to anyone!! I let him do it until he’s bored or leave me forever because it’s problems after problems & you don’t know if your husband can kill you .. not the drama I want in my life!! No way … 😢❤😊😅😮🎉 This only works when a man really love you, when he don’t love you; it’s easier for him to leave you!!
This story is stupid! You bring in an income, but it's your role to do all household chores. You pretend to be dumb so that your husband will appear smart to the outside world. You tolerated your husband's inappropriate behaviors toward single women. You considered yourself being bad if you look out for yourself and find outside friendships. What are your ages?
Hlub yus tus kheej ua ntej. Lwm tus sab nraud tsuas hlub yus npaum li yus tso cai rau luag hlub yus xwb. Thaum yus tsis hlub yus es luag yuav ua cas hlub yus ma?😊
Don't celebrate too early. Your husband is a txiv dev from the beginning. That is his character. Koj niag txiv ces kho his cousin lub sink xwb hos.😂 Now, he is afraid of losing you and wants to hold you back only. You will regret keeping this trash and not empty. Sooner or later, he will turn to his old self and use your emotional cheating as his excuse.
Txiv neej lub tswv yim ntxias poj niam tseem muaj txiv los yog tsis muaj lawm tsa ceg ces txiv neej tos thaum poj niam lub lwg dej tshuav pluam nkaus xwb mas lawv thiaj mloog tej lub ntxias ntawv zoo. Case no mas yog koj xav deev hluas heev los pauj koj tus txiv kom txhob tsuas koj lub hau kev nrhiav txiv yuav, koj yuav tsum muab koj tus txiv nrauj ua ntej koj mus ntsib ib tug txiv neej twg tso.
Omg why are ya bashing the woman in this story.. it’s the man’s fault, he started it.. at least she was truthful about it.. plus she didn’t even cheatbb, it’s more like therapy!!!!!
Wow, you act dumb but want your husband to respect you. Dr. Phil says you teach people how to treat you. Demand respect, set boundaries about him cheating. Tell him you'll divorce him if you have evidence and carry it thru. And stop running around with a guy until you divorce your husband. You're setting yourself up for a beating only. Geez. Why do women do this to themselves?
Beating? lol no one should be beating another this isn’t 1975. Two grown adults can do whatever they want as long as it’s within the law. She wasn’t even cheating in the first place.
Tus niam tsev no ua yog kawg vim tus txiv mus pab tus poj niam sab nraub tseg nws tus niam tsev nyob ib leeg cia tus niam tsev tus siab nrho nyob twb ywm 😢 tus niam tsev nws ua pab kom nws txhob ua neeg vwm xwb nws yeej ua yog lawm 😊
So when a woman does it, it's a good story for men to learn from. But when a man does it, oh he's a cheater and should be crucified? Double standards much.
Laj nrhiav tau ib tug txij nkawm hais lus sib haum sib fwm kawg li os
Zoo heev😀😀🤗
Zoo kawg uas koj pauj tau kev ntsim siab kev lwj siab os
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Imma answer exactly the way i would have answered if it were a man. Don't try to justify your cheating. What a poor excuse. If u wanna cheat bc your marriage lacks love, respect, and affection then divirce first. I don't commend your actions just bc you're a woman. And anyone who condemns your actions are just as sick as u are. A cheater is a cheater. No excuse.
I don't believe in cheating, but when a person has had enough and has taken that step, it's time to let go and close all the doors on the past. What gets me is that she listed all the reasons for her decision but she didn't have enough confidence to take that last step to plunge into a new dawn and a new beginning but instead went backward and accepted the trash of her misery. Yes, some folks learned from their mistakes. I just hope that she doesn't live to regret it.
@@myprecious6751hai yog tshaj li. Kuv xav ib yam li koj hai thiab ntag os.
What's wrong with some Hmong women?! Why do you need to "dumb" yourself down for your husband?! And what's wrong with some Hmong men that they can only feel more of a man if their wife "dumbs" herself down?! A marriage based on TRUE love should be a union where you help each other to become your BEST self so that your marriage can be the best marriage you create together! Do some of these Hmong couples even know what REAL love is?! Real love is about respect, truthfulness, faithfulness, caring and kindness, and so many more positive acts you do for the one you love! When one or both stop caring about the feelings of the other, then there's no more love there and it's time to evaluate what you really want out of life. Never stay in a marriage for others, stay because it's worth staying!
Vim tus txiv twb mus pab tus sab nraub thiab zoo rau tus sab nraub cia tus poj niam nyob ib leeg tus siab nrho thiab mob siab rau tus txiv x b .tus txiv twb tsis paub tias nws ua rau tus poj niam mob npaum cas li thiab hlub tus poj niam sab nraum tsis yog cais lawm . Tus poj niam nws ua pab rau nws xb yeej yog kawg 😊kom tus txiv paub tias nws ua rau nws tus poj niam mob npaum cas xwb 😊
Yog kawg. Yuav tau phem thiab luag thiaj saib tau yus.
Txhob rawm zoo siab tias koj tus txiv hloov os. Hnub twg bkag qab nyom mam li xam vim txiv neej hmoob siab phem2 li. Lawv tos thaum koj laus tsus phim lawv mam ia pauj nawb
muam npaws zoo li sister tab sis ho niaj hnub niaj hmo mus puag mus khawm
The amount of women who agreed to what this woman did is sickening and is exactly why these kind of things continue. If u are as old as u are and still don't know what's right from wrong then u can't be helped. This goes to both men and women who are like this and who praises people like this. No wonder marriages now a days are so messed up. Two wrongs don't make a right.
Just be kind and faithful. We all been through man acting more conceited. Most of us who are dumb just know how to play the cards right and we don’t get exhausted. I say be aware of your life and improve on that.
Lady, leave your husband if you have to play pretend and can not be yourself!!!
I don’t understand why most of our Hmong sisters tolerate such an abusive relationships.
I wouldn’t even cheat or talk to anyone!! I let him do it until he’s bored or leave me forever because it’s problems after problems & you don’t know if your husband can kill you .. not the drama I want in my life!! No way … 😢❤😊😅😮🎉
This only works when a man really love you, when he don’t love you; it’s easier for him to leave you!!
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This lady is very proud of herself😅
This story is stupid! You bring in an income, but it's your role to do all household chores. You pretend to be dumb so that your husband will appear smart to the outside world. You tolerated your husband's inappropriate behaviors toward single women. You considered yourself being bad if you look out for yourself and find outside friendships. What are your ages?
That's what they say. Women's challenge is when they are financially challenge. Men's challenge when they become rich. Most men fail this...
Hlub yus tus kheej ua ntej. Lwm tus sab nraud tsuas hlub yus npaum li yus tso cai rau luag hlub yus xwb. Thaum yus tsis hlub yus es luag yuav ua cas hlub yus ma?😊
Don't celebrate too early. Your husband is a txiv dev from the beginning. That is his character. Koj niag txiv ces kho his cousin lub sink xwb hos.😂 Now, he is afraid of losing you and wants to hold you back only. You will regret keeping this trash and not empty. Sooner or later, he will turn to his old self and use your emotional cheating as his excuse.
ua neej nyob ces ham tsis nyiam kho muam ncaws lub qab sink xwb les es qhov ntawv twb yog qhov tseem ceeb ne
Niag maum dev koj ma Liam thiag. Kwv koj lub niag pim muaj tsoob qaus qu!!!
Txiv neej lub tswv yim ntxias poj niam tseem muaj txiv los yog tsis muaj lawm tsa ceg ces txiv neej tos thaum poj niam lub lwg dej tshuav pluam nkaus xwb mas lawv thiaj mloog tej lub ntxias ntawv zoo. Case no mas yog koj xav deev hluas heev los pauj koj tus txiv kom txhob tsuas koj lub hau kev nrhiav txiv yuav, koj yuav tsum muab koj tus txiv nrauj ua ntej koj mus ntsib ib tug txiv neej twg tso.
Kev khaum kev npam nyob ze ze peb os tus vivncaus aw!
Omg why are ya bashing the woman in this story.. it’s the man’s fault, he started it.. at least she was truthful about it.. plus she didn’t even cheatbb, it’s more like therapy!!!!!
Oh I’m proud of you. People don’t realize their own behavior until you do the same to them.
Can u be proud of a man if he does the same thing as this lady did?
😅😅😅
Wow, you act dumb but want your husband to respect you. Dr. Phil says you teach people how to treat you. Demand respect, set boundaries about him cheating. Tell him you'll divorce him if you have evidence and carry it thru. And stop running around with a guy until you divorce your husband. You're setting yourself up for a beating only. Geez. Why do women do this to themselves?
Beating? lol no one should be beating another this isn’t 1975. Two grown adults can do whatever they want as long as it’s within the law. She wasn’t even cheating in the first place.
Tus niam tsev no ua yog kawg vim tus txiv mus pab tus poj niam sab nraub tseg nws tus niam tsev nyob ib leeg cia tus niam tsev tus siab nrho nyob twb ywm 😢 tus niam tsev nws ua pab kom nws txhob ua neeg vwm xwb nws yeej ua yog lawm 😊
Good story for men to learn from....
So when a woman does it, it's a good story for men to learn from. But when a man does it, oh he's a cheater and should be crucified? Double standards much.
5555555.....tu muam npaws hais yog tshaj plaws vim nws lub qab sikn lo lo dej es thiaj li need koj tu txiv mus ntsaws kom dej tu ntag lau
Your husband is having an affair with her.