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  • Insight on how the narcissist reacts to being rejected and why. It’s all bad for them.
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  • @clusterbfreekarynsmith2190
    @clusterbfreekarynsmith2190 4 місяці тому +19

    Rejection causes that fear of abandonment. They can't believe it when they no longer have power over a person. 💜

  • @AmandaLove-uo2du
    @AmandaLove-uo2du 4 місяці тому +32

    I left my narc without a word of warning. I just quietly distanced myself because I just got tired of his crap. I finally reached my limit and haven't looked back..that was 5 months ago.

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust 4 місяці тому +17

    I am done there is no way im taking that narc back ever again in my life.

  • @browneyes9507
    @browneyes9507 4 місяці тому +19

    Hell yes they will try to come back

  • @montaejaimez3441
    @montaejaimez3441 4 місяці тому +65

    Just saying “No” to a narc without ill intent behind it is seen as rejection. You can’t win at all with these weirdos because they make the simplest things complicated for no reason. Get out and stay out!!!

    • @tatanishagatewood2426
      @tatanishagatewood2426 4 місяці тому +3

      ...

    • @wefb3608
      @wefb3608 23 дні тому

      Omg exactly this.. they love drama and chaos… it’s so draining especially when you have children with them

  • @weireffie29
    @weireffie29 4 місяці тому +5

    He continue with a low life supply and not satisfied

  • @maryanngray4519
    @maryanngray4519 4 місяці тому +4

    My. X gave me evil 😈 stares l just ignored him.

  • @MsFlameglow
    @MsFlameglow 4 місяці тому +4

    They do a temporary come back then back to the stuff agsin

  • @lagoldie9783
    @lagoldie9783 4 місяці тому +1

    Hello Ms. Telsha. Good day to you! The one narcissist i liked the best never came back 😂 But i know its for my good! Any how, Im glad you posted today, its always a blessing.❤❤❤

  • @aprilcobianchi2815
    @aprilcobianchi2815 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for educating me

  • @erickonassis6310
    @erickonassis6310 4 місяці тому

    You, Hario, and narcissist be gone should do a round table video, it would be good.

  • @lorraineamaker9416
    @lorraineamaker9416 4 місяці тому

    He called my sister saying all these years n she doesn’t wanna be friends. Boy bye!! Cheated lied smeared my name. 9 yrs of nothing smh I’m good I believe it’s the 3rd one the whole family hiding as they should

  • @stevenkovler5133
    @stevenkovler5133 4 місяці тому +1

    I wish I never left my wife . She begged me to move home. Then we linked back up and I almost cancelled the divorce. We went through with it and she still wanted me to move home. Now two months later her business is taking off, she has befriended a famous family . She went from wanting to get remarried to telling me that at 48 she has been married 3 times. She is done. She just wants to have a fun , enjoyable life with no strings attached. She says she can’t forgive me for leaving in the middle of the night. Especially, knowing her dad did that. I left because she was abusing me. But you know we could have worked things out . We were having relations until the end of March on occasion. The one thing I know is she does not sleep around. Will not do one nighters with strangers. We did not sleep together until we were engaged . The fact that twice in the last three weeks we slept in the same bed. There has been nothing . She has been going to Miami a lot for her business and this reggae family lives in Miami , is making me think she may be with someone new. It is killing me. Yes , she was a narcissist, but I love her so much !

  • @ionlycompetewiththewomaniw5429
    @ionlycompetewiththewomaniw5429 4 місяці тому

    You have SUCH GORGEOUS skin…and eyes…just Beautiful all over, and as far as the video…many times I’ve seen that you just saying hello to them, and I guess not going crazy over them is interpreted as rejection cause the smear campaign is a tantrum of Biblical proportions…I’m just like can you even hear yourself???

  • @jeyjones2887
    @jeyjones2887 4 місяці тому

    Look’n Beautiful girl⭐️✨🦾

  • @charityskygrace
    @charityskygrace 4 місяці тому +17

    RESIST THE DEVIL AND HE WILL FLEE....🎯

  • @SaraX2024
    @SaraX2024 4 місяці тому +39

    If you're just done and have a "quiet" (sort of civilized) breakup, they may act like they accept your decision and wish you well, because any blowup or showing signs of how pathetic they are begging you to stay may just push you further away. Their quiet acceptance may happen whether they have new supply lined up or not. But deep down, they'll still be obsessed and think the door is open. They'll come back around eventually. Narcissists are very patient that way.

  • @CarlaMcmillion
    @CarlaMcmillion 4 місяці тому +21

    Straight Facts‼️ Let them sit in that shame😂✌🏾

  • @yinaortiz2305
    @yinaortiz2305 4 місяці тому +14

    My husband rejected me 3 years into the marriage. I tried and tired to make it work. I finally packed up and left due to how badly I was treated and all the 3rd party interference. After leaving it got worse. You would they would move on after they have devalued you.. no. My husband is actively stalking me, BEGGING, manipulating me & Avoiding service of an order of protection. It’s insane. It gets worse when you move on. It’s a turn off.

  • @cherrieguitar
    @cherrieguitar 4 місяці тому +10

    He's been in hiding since end of September.....

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust 4 місяці тому +11

    Hello everyone Thursday livestream was lit 🔥 always a blessing to be part of it since finding Ms Tea channel she has blessed me with knowledge about NPD thank you Jesus im moving and once i get to my address im finalizing my divorce papers i cant stay married to a ungodly ungrateful demonic creature soon ill be free 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @brotherhype-maninchristjes2766
      @brotherhype-maninchristjes2766 4 місяці тому +3

      Praise the LORD praise God, praise God Thursday livestream was 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥praying for your freedom in Jesus' name. God bless. Agape love♥

  • @WomanofGod-jc4cj
    @WomanofGod-jc4cj 4 місяці тому +9

    THAT JUST HAPPENED YESTERDAY QUEEN. I'M STILL GOT MAIL GOING THERE FOR SOME REASON. I WENT THERE TO GET MY MAIL. HE STARTED TALKING ABOUT US. I SAID, THER ISN'T NO USE ANYMORE. FROM WHAT I CAN SEE, THERE NEVER HAVE BEEN A US. GOOD BYE. LATER LAST NIGHT, HE SENT A WHOLE PARAGRAPH GOING OFF LIKE A TODDLER HAVING A FIT. I CSNT WAIT FOR THE CHANGE OF ADDRESS TO COMPLETELY CHANGE AND NOT COME TO THAT HOUSE SO I CAN GO BACK TO NO CONTACT. I REALLY APPRECIATE YOU SO MUCH❤❤❤

  • @annettet7941
    @annettet7941 4 місяці тому +7

    Great information sis. ❤

  • @saluuud
    @saluuud 4 місяці тому +6

    You look so lovely. Everything ❤.

  • @tokkie4449
    @tokkie4449 4 місяці тому +7

    Am i 1st? Seeing Ms T always brings joy to my soul.

  • @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd
    @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd 4 місяці тому +28

    Rejection torments them. They would rather gnaw their own arms off than be rejected by anyone. That's why I take GREAT PLEASURE in being the one who rejected him, discarded him, and escaped him. I am absolutely THRILLED that I will forever be engraved in his twisted mind as "The One Who Got Away." His hate for me is eating him alive inside. 😅😂😅😂

    • @ionlycompetewiththewomaniw5429
      @ionlycompetewiththewomaniw5429 4 місяці тому +2

      🫡

    • @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd
      @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd 4 місяці тому

      ​@@ionlycompetewiththewomaniw5429I'm not sure what you are trying to say....

    • @T_Nice
      @T_Nice 4 місяці тому +1

      L. M. B. O. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
      I concur!😊

    • @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd
      @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd 4 місяці тому

      ​@@T_Nice😂

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 4 місяці тому +3

      @@WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pdI know exactly what she is saying 💯 just be the one who got away with it

  • @patriciawilliams5172
    @patriciawilliams5172 3 місяці тому +2

    Yes they come back so they can do a reverse discard. And they can come back to get revenge or even hurt you

  • @theressataylor889
    @theressataylor889 4 місяці тому +8

    My ex was discarded but he already knew you better not cut up over here. He has been in total hiding because I got him right where it hurt. Four years now. You can do it.

    • @Bob-zh6dw
      @Bob-zh6dw 4 місяці тому

      4-1/2 years out and No Contact for me as well. Thank you Lord.😊

    • @QueenBee-fg1iz
      @QueenBee-fg1iz 4 місяці тому +2

      Almost 2 years now for me no contact. He tried to Hoover me back, but I told him I was happier and living my best life without him. He’s been hiding since and moving from supply to supply. I’m at peace and happy.

    • @JaneenHunter
      @JaneenHunter 4 місяці тому

      Absolutely 3/years for me now Thank you God

  • @WomanofGod-jc4cj
    @WomanofGod-jc4cj 4 місяці тому +5

    I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU QUEEN. I WORK NIGHTS. I GONNA TRY TO GET INTO THE LIVE CHAT. YOU ARE A GOD SENT TO PEOPLE DEALING WITH THESE BIRDS. THRY ALWAYS TELLING ME THAT IM MENTALLY ILL. BUT DOESN'T KNOW THAT BIRD HE'S DEALING IS CLASSIFIED MENTALLY ILL. HAS BEEN IN AND OUT OF THE MENTAL INSTITUTIONS . INSTITUTIONS ALL OF HER LIFE.

  • @Mar.....O
    @Mar.....O 4 місяці тому +5

    Poor Sue and her love-sick, married, Detective/FBI agent.

  • @sylviaamodeo7090
    @sylviaamodeo7090 4 місяці тому +2

    Need to keep Smart people around them,,,,,,,,,,,,,,so funny, because True!

  • @Yapah.S.Da.K.O.S
    @Yapah.S.Da.K.O.S 4 місяці тому +3

    #️⃣2️⃣0️⃣0️⃣👍🏾🆙ova here sis!! And thumbs up all the way down the column!

  • @angielaprade3649
    @angielaprade3649 4 місяці тому +2

    This backwards walking giraffe said he wanted to go to the movies with me. Wanted me to use my movie credits and pay for all the food and snacks. He asked me if I wanted to wait until he had spending money for food and snacks. When I replied if he wanted to he got mad. He lives with another woman and I know she is going through it with him. I just went on a date with a gentleman. This man said if you got tickets I'll pay for the snacks and food and it's a date. This man has his own place, good job and car. Not afraid to pay. My ex expects me to pay for everything. So over his crazy and cookoo for coco puffs behind. I deserve better and my ex can stay right where he is and she can cry and plead for him to stay when he threatens to leave her. She better let him go if she knows what I know now. Thank you Ms. T for your videos on these birds. I've learned so much from you. I'm finally going to be free of this bird and all his demons.

  • @marvinasimswewinqueendom2543
    @marvinasimswewinqueendom2543 4 місяці тому +2

    This is great to know. Cause it’s been pretty silent and I’m lovin it!😅

  • @user-vb8kq4xt8t
    @user-vb8kq4xt8t 4 місяці тому +1

    Hello Telsha, I like watching all your videos again and again❤

  • @_YohAsakura_
    @_YohAsakura_ 4 місяці тому +2

    Not good

  • @jenty2713
    @jenty2713 4 місяці тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @dawnmann4878
    @dawnmann4878 4 місяці тому +14

    I did a surprise door slam, I told him NO and I had MY new supply there with me. He took off in a rage driving way. No contact 53 years. I believe God told them demons not to come back. The Lord super blessed me in every way. I married my new supply and been happily married for 50 years to the best Christian man ever. I don’t believe the x demon will return. 🙌. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @patriciat229
    @patriciat229 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much you hit home in this video I greatly appreciate you words of wisdom.

  • @bvad7884
    @bvad7884 4 місяці тому

    Ms. Telsha I have ring camera footage from me discarding the narc and hes outside my door beating on it telling me to open the door, BEGGING to speak to me but he wanted to "look me in my eyes " . Id love to send you the video

  • @JdEllis-ec6yy
    @JdEllis-ec6yy 2 місяці тому

    DON'T UNDERSTAND, WHAT SHAME?????

  • @fosterjanine5112
    @fosterjanine5112 Місяць тому

    ACCESS DENIED FOREVER!

  • @deezsugah
    @deezsugah 4 місяці тому

    These people are something else. They will ghost, block or keep quiet when offended - oh well - KARMA

  • @jAm00217
    @jAm00217 4 місяці тому

    and sometimes the will do all the things😳😲

  • @bigo2772
    @bigo2772 4 місяці тому

    HEY 👋🏾 BEAUTIFUL 🤭

  • @AlfonsoBooker-d4t
    @AlfonsoBooker-d4t 4 місяці тому

    Shalom

  • @RonicaTravis-ok9cf
    @RonicaTravis-ok9cf 4 місяці тому

    Every WORD 💯

  • @tornettatayourie5166
    @tornettatayourie5166 4 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @AlfonsoBooker-d4t
    @AlfonsoBooker-d4t 4 місяці тому

    I hear you good

  • @aprilcobianchi2815
    @aprilcobianchi2815 4 місяці тому

    Yes this is true 🙏💯