اللہ تعالٰی نے مرد اور عورت کو برابری میں نہیں بنایا۔ مرد حاکم ھے عورت پر۔ عورت تابع۔ Al-Quran❤ ≫ Surah An Nisa Ayat 34 ❤ ❤ اَلرِّجَالُ قَوّٰمُوْنَ عَلَى النِّسَآءِ بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللّٰهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلٰى بَعْضٍ وَّ بِمَاۤ اَنْفَقُوْا مِنْ اَمْوَالِهِمْؕ-فَالصّٰلِحٰتُ قٰنِتٰتٌ حٰفِظٰتٌ لِّلْغَیْبِ بِمَا حَفِظَ اللّٰهُؕ-وَ الّٰتِیْ تَخَافُوْنَ نُشُوْزَهُنَّ فَعِظُوْهُنَّ وَ اهْجُرُوْهُنَّ فِی الْمَضَاجِـعِ وَ اضْرِبُوْهُنَّۚ-فَاِنْ اَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلَا تَبْغُوْا عَلَیْهِنَّ سَبِیْلًاؕ-اِنَّ اللّٰهَ كَانَ عَلِیًّا كَبِیْرًا(34) ترجمہ: کنزالایمان مرد افسر ہیں عورتوں پر اس لیے کہ اللہ نے ان میں ایک کو دوسرے پر فضیلت دی اور اس لیے کہ مردوں نے ان پر اپنے مال خرچ کیے تو نیک بخت عورتیں ادب والیاں ہیں خاوند کے پیچھے حفاظت رکھتی ہیں جس طرح اللہ نے حفاظت کا حکم دیا اور جن عورتوں کی نافرمانی کا تمہیں اندیشہ ہو تو انہیں سمجھاؤ اور ان سے الگ سوؤ اور اُنہیں مارو پھر اگر وہ تمہارے حکم میں آجائیں تو اُن پر زیادتی کی کوئی راہ نہ چاہو بے شک اللہ بلند بڑا ہے تفسیر: صراط الجنان {اَلرِّجَالُ قَوّٰمُوْنَ عَلَى النِّسَآءِ:مرد عورتوں پرنگہبان ہیں۔}عورت کی ضروریات، اس کی حفاظت، اسے ادب سکھانے اور دیگر کئی امور میں مرد کو عورت پر تَسَلُّط حاصل ہے گویا کہ عورت رعایا اور مرد بادشاہ، ا س لئے عورت پر مرد کی اطاعت لازم ہے ،اس سے ایک بات یہ واضح ہوئی کہ میاں بیوی کے حقوق ایک جیسے نہیں بلکہ مرد کے حقوق عورت سے زیادہ ہیں اور ایسا ہونا عورت کے ساتھ نا انصافی یا ظلم نہیں بلکہ عین انصاف اور حکمت کے تقاضے کے مطابق ہے
@@RehanJutt-v7b I think you missed the point. Alizey questioned her father in law that everyone wants to make sure their sons and daughters are secure if something were to happen to them, but no one thinks about the bahu, who gives up so much when marrying into a family. And the point of bringing this up in the drama is to bring awareness that this is a topic that needs to be discussed more. So to your point, yes people don’t generally do that- but that doesn’t mean that our thinking can’t be changed.
botot si maon ko aysa kartey bhi dekha hey.....bachon ko maa or baap dono ki zururat hoti hey....jo mayen bachey le ke baap ko kick lagati hey.....unka zulm bhi yaad rakhen.....
A huge lesson for men who take women for granted. If women don’t say anything it doesn’t mean they are weak. A huge lesson for women who think they should stop thinking for themselves just because they told to do that. Beautiful message for everyone. For some this is just a drama but for me it’s reality. Every single actor both male and female did an amazing job.❤
Larki k weleducated ho ne ka koi faida hi nhi hua k wo larky ko sahi krti balkay nakaam dikhaya ek ghr toota hua dikhaya or brabari JB Allah pak ne hi nhi di TU kaha ki brabri baykaar end tha or society ko sahi krti phr Rai han apni motivational speaking se hubby ko nhi kr pai or dobara ghr Jakr fitna phaylaya MRI frnd ki same story hai phly us ne unhy tariky se treat Kiya or aj usk 2 bachy han wo bayintaha Khush reh Rai hai bs Islam k khilaaf kiye jao tm log ortoo ko media k zariye😢
I have no words for this drama .i m still in awe. This drama makes you think,makes you ponder. This drama is for-all daughter-in-laws everywhere. Who speaks for our right ??? Are we (the bahus) not taken for granted. ?? We talk about our daughter s security but what about the Security of the daughter in laws. The team of this amazing serial has raised the topic so well. The mental torture,the humiliation,the manipulation,....so well shown. U don’t have to physically fight to show ur hurt. Words r very powerful !! Indeed !! Alize’s character is so well written....a ted speaker had become a meow.😢after marriage. U need Alize’s family like support to go back n move on with life. Kudos to her father. Life does not end after one failed marriage. It’s a precious gift of God . Move on girls n make a new life 😊.life is beautiful n it’s one life. Enjoyyy. Thanks to the team for giving us this drama . It’s an eye opener.i loved it.
In our so called Muslim society take them as granted,whenever in Islam entirely different concept,we want to pickup favourites which suits us,actually we have a lot of influence of Hinduism,after nikkah girls r not partner they r property so better to think in right direction,naan nufka means girl can use husband luxury as she feel pleasure,kindly think she is pain pillar for creating goodness for new generation her confidence is necessary for building new generation conflicts weeks is if u don't want girls design of mind don't go for her think and take steps later.Afeeling for this irony.
Lots of appreciation for Alize's family who stood up for her and made sure that she took the right decision and moved on.Hope this is a good lesson for those families whose daughters are going through a similar situation.
Superb acting by Mikal Zulfikar.Nobody else could have pulled off such a complex role. I liked the fact that Natasha's husband divorced her and found a simple and loving woman. Natasha always treated him horribly anyway.
I wish there was more about how Sherry suffered and how their child grew up. The focus on women's rights in this drama is praisable.👏 It is a reality in many cultures that women are treated inferior or even nothing but a servant in some rural areas.
In urban areas as well. Narcissistic is a personality disorder which nowadays has become very normal, I'm happy with this drama ending at least now I'm totally satisfied for my decision of leaving narcissistic and you are right there would be more about sherry childhood trauma so people can become more aware the exact root cause... Btw thank you writer..
Best leader - Muhammad (S. A. W) Best lyrics - Azan Best guide - Quraan Best request - Dua Best tour - Haj❤ Best success - Namaz Best daughter - Fatima Bibi (R. A)❤
Yar ap pagal Tou Nahi ho ? Ap Ka har dramay ki video Kay nichay ak Nahi do Nahi balkay 4-5 comments hotay hain ap logoin ko kon Samgaya kay ya drama ki video ha koi quran Ki Nahi Jo ap Allah ko lay kar ati ho pagal ho ap atna hi Allah say payar ha Tou dramay dakhanay kay bajayay namaz Paro
What a beautiful end to a story often left untold. Narcissists, be it male or female, sweep you off your feet and give you the highest highs, but just when you’re enjoying the highs, they pull the rug from underneath you and suddenly you find yourself at your lowest. This vicious cycle is what traps people in staying in toxic relationships. Sadly this is very prevalent in desi culture. This drama does a fantastic job depicting what narcissistic behavior looks like and illustrates how even an educated and strong individual can fall prey to such types of people. Im sure this drama was triggering for those who have dealt with narcissistic behavior. Everyone’s acting has been exceptional, especially Mikaals’. Hats off to the writer and entire team for bringing such an important topic to the limelight.
I can assure you that narcissists exist in all cultures - too many of them sadly. I am German and my half-sister's father (also German) was a full blown narcissist. And then I ended up marrying a Pakistani narcissist. But alhamdulillah I am happy with my Kashmiri (Indian) husband now who was previously married to a Bengali narcissist😂 My best friend's narcissistic ex is Nigerian. These types of people are all over the place.
This story changed me a lot.hats off to the writer and all the people who created this masterpiece. We should learn a lot from this story. Some people never change we have to change accordingly in that situation. Don't loose your self esteem and self respect behind anything not also for love. Great massage for the society.✌️
@@nadiatahir2270 the word "khuda" only belongs to Allah, it's the toxic patriarchal culture that added that word to a man/human.... Think again... I hate.... Deeply hate the term mizaji khuda
Yes, many don’t realize mental and emotional abuse is just as bad. Takes a long time to heal from the belittling and emotional abusive treatment from someone you thought had your best interest.
True..Alizey in this drama, was fortunate enough that her life's years were not wasted bearing the mental torture...only 1 year..So she bounced back very quickly But there so many ladies out there..who are stuck with such mental torturers...and they have still wasted their life time dealing with mental torture...they should also take a step for themselves.
I think the ending was good. The wife doesn't always have to forgive the toxic husband. Such people don't change. Alizey was capable enough to take care of herself and her child. That's why girls need to be educated and financially independent. They don't always need a man to survive.
What about Natasha being a toxic wife? Instead you could have used a toxic spouse. Women don't have to play the victim game all the time. Natasha was also well educated and much more established than Alijay. A husband never does this kind of toxicity in real life. In fact this can be the other way around.
@@FunAlltime247 NEVER? WOW. Lmao what a joke. Majority husbands do this toxicity and even worse in reality. It had proven again and again that toxic men are way more than toxic women. Natasha was extremely toxic and deserves the same treatment as sherry and nothing about her is justified . But that doesn't mean anyone can try to lie about facts when in reality women do suffer way more than men. Every other man you meet will have one or another toxic or controlling attribute. The problem, you don't think its wrong because Its normalised. Just say for once when a woman got an actual just ending and happy ending FOR HERSELF, its bothers you. Did you see Natasha getting a happy ending? No. but somehow , you had to make this comment to make men look perfect
سبق آموز سیریل تھا خاص کر عورتوں کے لئیے، یہ ہماری سوسائٹی کا بہت بڑا ایشو ہے! لکھنے والے نے بھی کیا عمدہ لکھا ہے! اور سب کرداروں نے نے بھی کیا خوب نبھایا ہے اپنے اپنے کردار کو ! عمدہ احتتام!!!♥️♥️♥️
Fantastic ending 👏🏻 but Alhumdulilah mere hubby boht ache hai.. na wo change huwe na muje kiya change sath sath chal rhe MashAllah 7 years of marriage & 11years of togetherness ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I will miss this drama. The cast was too strong and the story was realistic. Everyone acted sooooo well. I cant even name each as everyone was so up to mark. But special shout out to Mikaal Zulfiqar for his outstanding performance. He acted brilliantly. I really enjoyed all his scenes. Also, much love to Dur e Fishan. No one could have done it better than you. The end was pretty abrupt but the previous episodes made up for that feeling too. Thank you, writer. Well done to u
Narcissist apnay ap ko theak kar skta hay. Laikin musibit yeh hay keh narcissist rarely apni galti accept karta hay or aksar to sirf mazeed manipulate karnay kay liay karta hay.
My father is a narcissist. I have seen my mother going through a mess in my entire life. Occasionally she used to beat my mother, abused her, and when I grew up, one day I stood against him and told him not to abuse my mother anymore. Guess what since now he knows that he cannot use force anymore so now he uses manipulative techniques. Fitrat kam hi badalti hay.
I love the way Natasha loves Sherry N the bonding b/w them is just WOW Every single character in this drama just nailed their character I'm young N being a girl I've learnt a lot from this topic abuse... I had never thought abuse could be of that type... I've seen many cases like this already but I never took it seriously..I gonna watch it again N again.. love the team JAISAY APKI MARZI❤
No dragging , No repeated scene ...Story writing dirextion acting everything was good ...I actually liked Natasha's negative role.She got great personality and did justice to the character.
Yar ap pehlay apni dp change Karo phir is Kay bad baat Karna nabi ki Pehlay Nabi Kay hukam ko tou Mano Nabi nay ya kha Ka Kay drama dakho Hain aur sir par dubata na Karo aur pic Bana Kay dp laga do Nabi Ka name Lana zarori hota ha Mat liya Karo Nabi aur Islamic cheezoin Kay name plz kyu Kay ya AK dramay ki video ha koi quran Ki Nahi ok understand aur Hain ap nay massage Nabi Kay baray main kar kay end main ya emoji kyu lagai ha ? (😇) What is this?
Unrealistic ending. The heroine going overboard with making the house a hostel. Whereas Javed sheikh left the house to his grandchild. Too many loop holes. She said she ll let the father meet the baby but that doesn’t culminate. Ted talk lines failed to impress considering it was the last episode. Natasha s husband is made to look like an angel whereas he having an extramarital affair. Does the writer think she is demeaning Natasha by showing that her husband had an affair. That’s strange. Overall, unimpressive last episode, left a lot to be desired.
Exactly. I thought the same way. It's positive ending cud have a greater impact. The script fails to present Sherry as evil/abuser. Although they cud show him and his sister understand their mistake and correct their behavior. All they had was a behavioral/psychological issue of being dominant and marrying someone to keep them inferior. This cud have been shown how they correct themselves and become a better person. But no, these writers, directory, producers are just promoting divorce instead of correcting oneself. Sad 😢
Narcissists don't change, nor do they feel the guilt for tormenting their victim's. Narcissists make themselves look like the abused victim , and their victims are the predators in their mind . It takes years and years for the real abused victim to heal themselves from the trauma of narcissistic abuse. Narcissists move on very quickly and repeat the same pattern in their next relationship. Hence, the ending was very unrealistic!
M also not happy with the ending. Cuz narcs dont feel sad or positive about their victim. They take a day or more to grow out of it and again blame their victim for even this riddance and they wont leave their child. They would destroy their victim for going out of their relationship using the weakness of a child. With child narc would play with their victim more emotionally destroying them. And alizay despite strong woman still cant live normally in her capacity. She cant be shown normal. Because such victims neither get property or anything nor their own intact personality. Anyhow, its just what victims can understand for people its just a drama. Kuch narcs probably zada ghaya or intimidating hotay hain.sherry ka character phr b behtar narc tha.
Very well said. I agree. In their heads, narc are the ultimate victims. They never forgive those who've got away with it and broken off relationship with them. Some narcs even go on to murder their children becausr they can't tolerate their former spouses living happily with their kids.
@@sairakhalid4411 True my ex is always trying to blackmail me regarding kids but now after watching this show I am bitter and confident about not giving him any chance😜
There’s lots of ordinary people living life normally but suffer from Narcissistic personality disorder or other disorders. This drama is prob one of the first ones to show this topic. Well done to the team.
Brother sister duo was nice. Villian hi sahi lekin dono ne ek dusre ka sath khoob nibhaya. Natasha was very Good in acting. I want to see her in More dramas Now. Storyline was the "Best". 👏👏👏
Wo dono viilen nahi hai apne bich me kisi ko bardast nahi aisi bahen bahut mushkil se milti hai apna ghar bhi nahi basati bahen ki mohabbat sab nahi samjh sakte bahut alag topic hai
This was simply a MASTERPIECE! 👏 Hats of to the entire team! It was a commendable story narrated in the best possible way based on reality, leaving a great message to the youth who surrender their self-respect, self-esteem, and value just for the sake of "chaar log kya kahein gey" which eventually make the perpetrators more powerful and entitled. A Complete depiction of a narcissictic family and what a victim faces due to them.
@@arjunshahani1360i agree. I am also a pakistani drama fan. But this serial was horrible. Worst acting by Alizey, she looked like a plastic doll and her husband looked like a robot, every episode same expressions, predictable dialogues, half of the time there was no dialogue but only background music. So irritating. I had to skip forward so many times to hear a dialogue 😂😂. Also why Alizey was flaunting her accent? Not natural at all. At least did not go well with her character in the drama. Uff tauba !!
@@saltanatjj i agree with you this is the second pakistani drama I have not liked and left seeing it anyway hope we get better one to see in the future from where are you
I too join the team. I usually am a good fan of Pakistani dramas but this one left a bad taste. Didn't like it at all Story was good , different from the usual ones but the way it was portrayed left much to he desired.. I was left confused . Worst Darama
یا اللہ ہم تیری گنہگار مخلوق ہے یا اللہ ہم سب کے حال پر رحم فرم یا اللہ ہم سب کی مشکلوں کو پریشانیوں کو دور فرما اپنے پیارے حبیب کے طفیل تاکے زندگی بھی شان سے گزرے اور جب ہم اس دنیا سے جائیں تو ہمارا خاتمہ بھی ایمان پے ہو امین ثم امین
Fabulous job to all the artists in this drama👏🏻A narcissist remains a narcissist. This toxic brother sister duo deserve each other's company. It's interesting that this drama dealt with both male & female narcissicm. Also the fact that an educated person can also be manipulated, is well depicted here. It's so typical of desi parents ( Alizay's mother in this case) who just get influenced by the son in law's antics. At least the father stood his ground & the sister was a sensible support. What to do when you don't have supportive parents 🤔or any family support 🤔
If your parents are not supportive you are already facing narcissistic behavior of your parents.😢 May Allah protect us from any narcissistic relationsip it could be parents, husband,wife, brother,sister etc.
A brilliant masterpiece by ARY after a very long time! Loved the narrative and the way Alizey's Father Character was jotted down just took my heart! Thank God that ARY finally showed something much needed, other than Danish's toxic patriarchal scripts. Totally agree with the last dialogue, "APNAY SAATH ZIYAATI KRKE, HUM ZAMANAY KI PARWAH KRKE SIRF MUASHREY KI BUNIYAAD KO KHOKLA KRTAY HEN". I am absolutely in love with the writer who just penned down everything so amazingly, with a flow and contemplation. AND I MUST SAY THE LEADS WERE AMAZING IN Portraying their characters.
Excellent, educative message for today's so called cultured,elite, educated society where woman is still a slave to masculine chauvinism but Alizeh is an example to follow..Mubarak ho
A lot of credit goes to the writer. Very deep understanding of characters without showing too much emotional outbursts in scenes. And of course acting of Sherry and everybody else was very good. Likes this very much. Very close to reality.
Agreed!! But most realistic ending!! Alizey n meerub moved on , even alizey ke sasur nai usko joh property di woh bhi koi nahi deta apni bahu ko.. so fair enough
A thought provoking story ❤. Such serials should be made in pak drama industry. Dure fishan is such a talented, Unique and educated girl. She nailed thi character 💫🔥👍. A message for the men like sherry ke sab kuch khony sa better hai apni arrogance or so called mandani hi kum ker deni chahiye.
Pakistani dramas are very realistic and full of emotions,no extra makeup , no extra jewellery and no overacting .... it based on now a days situation and Every drama gives a moral, lots of love from India
Very nice ending It’s really a good lesson for the new generation and especially young male and female to choose a life partner who has good character and has respect for other people weather they are rich or poor But who has respect for others.
One of the best Pakistani dramas I have seen. Extremely close to my reality, as my husband and sister in law have the exact same narcissistic personality. Some of the scenes shown on the show, I have lived through. I’m glad to see the ending, where the woman is shown to take a stand for herself, because Emotional Abuse IS ABUSE. It is high time our society recognises this and calls it out, instead of waiting for the ‘physical abuse’ to happen or the woman completely losing her mental health, which would still be questioned since its so extremely normalised for men to have ‘anger’ issues. Hopefully more dramas like this will be made, shedding light on this topic.
Jo kuch bhi ho jai ek pregnant worat ko ghar se nikal dena iss duniya mai sabse bariya gunah hai.. Or bachcha hone ki bad "mujhe mere bachcha se milna hai" ye koi bat hai?? Such an example of inhumanity😢😢
The ending was good.. but the narcissists in real life never admit their mistakes they're never sorry. Anyhow the drama had to end that's why it ended up happily.. but the real narcs never change in real life.. they tortures you more if u have a kid together or if u want seperation. They defame you and ruin your character and plays the victim..there's never ending mental and emotional torture.
Well executed story line that hits viewers with the truth of what society is for a woman in Pak culture. Alizaye kept making sacrifices & passing exams whilst the abuse from Shere continued. When she stood her ground he finally became demolished. A sinner to a forgiven saint. Sometimes we have to stand up for a nation of people suffering!
I feel its very good that the show kept the focus on alizeh, and they kept it realistic in terms of sufferings of sherry and natasha, as the problem is that narcissists are even unable to suffer because they cant actually properly channelize emotions, so for them its hard to even feel sad, if that happens than they wont be narcs anymore. So the whole thing in the serial kept very realisitic and brought its focus to the victim. Loved the serial, and loved the cast its something to remember always!
Amaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaazing drama showing realities of societies instead of imagination and fake love stories ...... I have never seen suuuuuccchhh a masterpiece in my growing age.
پیارا ڈرامہ.. بہت عرصے کے بعد کوئی اچھا ڈرامہ دیکھنے کو ملا... اسے ہم ایک اچھی کوشش کہ سکتے ہیں کہ خواتین کو ان کے حقوق ملیں لیکن درحقیقت ہمیں ابھی 100 سال لگیں گے اپنے معاشرے کو سمجھانے میں
Thanks to the writer for such a wonderful story that no one talks about...thanks for giving us all a lesson that one must never be so weak that they don't stand against any abuse. I wish every girl gets such a father and sis who supported her. Be careful not don't let anyone control you or take your decision whether he is your boyfriend or husband.... be independent and strong enough to keep people in limit ❤️ A Woman is never weak its just that she needs to understand she can deal with whole world all alone if she decides to ❤️ BE STRONG BE HAPPY BE INDEPENDENT BE SELF DEPENDENT
Aisy lagta ha jesy ye story mery upr e likhi gai ho aik aik seen alizay or sheri ka dekh k pta chalta ha jesy samny khud ko e dakh rhi the lakin end pa chalo sheri ko ahsas hua to sai lakin jis pagl k sath mera pala pra tha usy to koi ahsas b nai hua na shaid ho ga kabi bs ap sab say appeal ha plz mery liye dua kr diya krain ma is mentally torchar say nikl aou or agy Allah talah mery liye asaniyan peda farmain
Really praise dure fishan's work in this drama ..and the story is quite relatable to mine ..this drama is a source of strength and motivation to a lot of women like me and alizeh .I wonder how beautifully a man control a woman on the name of love..and how she compromises all of her dreams for the sake of child breathing in her womb..
Humanity comes first and woman is the creator of humanity. Being the best person has nothing to do with gender. Understanding the equality of men and women requires more training than education. Training is not related to any money whether it is poor or rich. The same problems are seen in the story of the play in the class of rich people. I am a Pakistani living in China and here this drama is very popular in my whole International hostel even I have suggested this drama to my foreign ie Uzbekistani friends and they watch it with subtitles. ❤ Beautiful Content and best performance of Natasha and Sherry (Mikail Zulfaqar). Wish you all the best to all the team. Thank you very much to Writer for raising these topic.
Its true story which is totally realted to my real life ...i think such psycho people and their family destory many life and can't image what they do ? .....last lines said by Alizey are totally 100% true ..."kisi ek lambe n meri akhoo se parda hta or phir wakqt aaya faisla lene ka or maine failsa le liya . "..👍
Oh my god. This drama was an addiction to me.. I've learnt a lot from this serial. The main thing that has been highlighted in the drama is all about mental and emotional health and self-respect. And btw, natasha was my favourite character in this drama. ❤😅🎉
Alizay...gonna miss this drama...each and every character of this drama played awesome 😎 role... very heart touching and ended with an excellent lesson 😍
hey Aleejay --- here you are not the heroin of the whole drama , but it is your parents , your baba who is the back bone of your character----- most of the girls have the courage to break the cage but they don't have that small support that you got throughout ------ yet at least in such dramas we became happy seeing such concluded end ..qudoes to the writer and all team, and love from india
This drama has fantastically highlighted the the cheap acts of in laws which brutally destroy the life of women. Appreciable character of Alizay how she come back to her life. Its a big lesson for ladies that never give up. Be independent, be strong.
Muhabbat agr sherry jese insan se hojae to usko ghlti smjh k sudhar Lena chaiye or zindgi m aage brhen in logon k ly Jo ap se waqe m pyar krte hen na k sherry jese insan k ly khud ko brbad kr den or sherry jese insan ko to mohabbat ho hi n skti
@@SweraShah-y3y jisse me pyar krti hu wo mujhe pyar to krta h pr kbhi gusse me mujhe Manta nhi ab to bolta h roti rh 3 4 din to me kia kru or really I love him so much ❤️🥺
Alizeh and meerab should have married in their own circle like meerab did at the end. There is a complete difference of brought up between sherry, Natasha and alizeh, meerab. As a result different mindsets. It’s not always about men that women are not treated well. It’s also about parenting. Parents especially mothers need to brought up sons as good, responsible human beings who know the rights of other human beings and their responsibilities. And to give love , respect and confidence to their own daughters that they would be able not to allow someone to mistreat them. They should know how to take stand and handle situations. Yet if there is no compatibility, respect and kindness between husband and wife,there is a way out. Men and women are not at war with each other rather good men and good women are supporters of each other.
Not only Narcissism but sociopaths and psychopaths are also very active in our society. This drama no doubt is a Master piece on the emotional abuse but more content should be on air to highlight the patterns "why people attracted to them at first place? Why ramza didn't but Her mother and Alizey attracted?" Because they also suffering from some kind of disorder either empath disorder, codependent or borderline personality disorder. As per current stats, 7% population among men and 4% among women are suffering from complete narcissistic personality disorder and almost 80% share some kind of narcissistic traits which are less than 5 out of 9 according to DSM.
Narcissists are extremely hard to detect in the beginning of a relationship, as they mask their true personality very well. Alizey was love bombed - a common way the narcissists attracts his predator. The mother was also love bombed, but she was also carrying the generational norms and traumas from our society, where anger is normalized. I have lived through this situation, the older women have seen other women, according to them ‘suffer a lot more’, hence the comparison is if he hasn’t hit you, he’s not cheating on you etc. you should be fine! We have set the bar extremely low in our society, and emotional abuse is generally not recognised.
Shehna and Alizeh both went through mental and emotional abusr but the difference was Shehna couldn't cope up coz she was all alone but Alizeh had her all family to support her so she came back stronger... I wish everyone girl gets support of her family because "ITS BETTER TO HAVE A DIVORCED DAUGHTER THAN DEAD" ❤️
Pakistani dramas ki khasiyat hai ki bikhri hui story ko last 2 episodes me pura samet lete hai. Alezey k parents pr jo attack hua tha muje lagta tha wo sherry ne kraya hoga aur alezey aur sherry ki separation isi baat ko lekr hogi jb alezey k o ye pta chaleg
Alhamdullilah I also took a step.. And now I am happy.. We should move out of such kind of worst marriages.. Where people consider us nothing.. We should bear a little pain of memories rather than a life time pain..
Thanks Humayun Saeed Sir for teaching me fool's paradise life span from this great tragical Saga You helped me out to find my real royal identity form this tragical Saga Thanks a lot Humayun Saeed Sir for great helping Hand Show
Iam an Indian but I love Pakistani dramas no nude videos no so long..... stories and their dresses everything is too good ❤ and especially in this drama shery and Natasha role is super ❤
Sherry jese Narcissistic husband ko jtni jldi chor den utna hi acha he q k ap ase logon ko badal ni skte, ahasas kren k Allah ne apko insan peda Kiya he or narcissist log insaniyat ki insult hi kr skte hen izzt ni Parents ko chaiye k betiyon ko support kren k wo be ja zulm na brdasht kren blkl wese jese alizey k father n Kiya
It's such a master piece we learn very much of thise story۔self dependent girls ki story ko kitni khubsurati se bataya gaya hai ۔aisi kitni ladhkiya hai jo apni self respect kho deti hai۔pr his new beginning is very motive aur hamare pass game changer banne ka option bhi hota hai sach me ۔true
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Nice ❤
Itni byzati batasha ke😮
Btasha ke itni byzati 😮😢😂😅
Very fast ending
After a long time pakistani dramas are highlighting the real issues of society instead of showinh fake love stories❤❤
What nonsense is this? No one give their house to anyone or baap ne apne bachon ko chor k babu k naam kr dia ghar haahahah 😅
اللہ تعالٰی نے مرد اور عورت کو برابری میں نہیں بنایا۔ مرد حاکم ھے عورت پر۔ عورت تابع۔
Al-Quran❤
≫ Surah An Nisa Ayat 34 ❤
❤ اَلرِّجَالُ قَوّٰمُوْنَ عَلَى النِّسَآءِ بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللّٰهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلٰى بَعْضٍ وَّ بِمَاۤ اَنْفَقُوْا مِنْ اَمْوَالِهِمْؕ-فَالصّٰلِحٰتُ قٰنِتٰتٌ حٰفِظٰتٌ لِّلْغَیْبِ بِمَا حَفِظَ اللّٰهُؕ-وَ الّٰتِیْ تَخَافُوْنَ نُشُوْزَهُنَّ فَعِظُوْهُنَّ وَ اهْجُرُوْهُنَّ فِی الْمَضَاجِـعِ وَ اضْرِبُوْهُنَّۚ-فَاِنْ اَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلَا تَبْغُوْا عَلَیْهِنَّ سَبِیْلًاؕ-اِنَّ اللّٰهَ كَانَ عَلِیًّا كَبِیْرًا(34)
ترجمہ: کنزالایمان
مرد افسر ہیں عورتوں پر اس لیے کہ اللہ نے ان میں ایک کو دوسرے پر فضیلت دی اور اس لیے کہ مردوں نے ان پر اپنے مال خرچ کیے تو نیک بخت عورتیں ادب والیاں ہیں خاوند کے پیچھے حفاظت رکھتی ہیں جس طرح اللہ نے حفاظت کا حکم دیا اور جن عورتوں کی نافرمانی کا تمہیں اندیشہ ہو تو انہیں سمجھاؤ اور ان سے الگ سوؤ اور اُنہیں مارو پھر اگر وہ تمہارے حکم میں آجائیں تو اُن پر زیادتی کی کوئی راہ نہ چاہو بے شک اللہ بلند بڑا ہے
تفسیر: صراط الجنان
{اَلرِّجَالُ قَوّٰمُوْنَ عَلَى النِّسَآءِ:مرد عورتوں پرنگہبان ہیں۔}عورت کی ضروریات، اس کی حفاظت، اسے ادب سکھانے اور دیگر کئی امور میں مرد کو عورت پر تَسَلُّط حاصل ہے گویا کہ عورت رعایا اور مرد بادشاہ، ا س لئے عورت پر مرد کی اطاعت لازم ہے ،اس سے ایک بات یہ واضح ہوئی کہ میاں بیوی کے حقوق ایک جیسے نہیں بلکہ مرد کے حقوق عورت سے زیادہ ہیں اور ایسا ہونا عورت کے ساتھ نا انصافی یا ظلم نہیں بلکہ عین انصاف اور حکمت کے تقاضے کے مطابق ہے
@@RehanJutt-v7b I think you missed the point. Alizey questioned her father in law that everyone wants to make sure their sons and daughters are secure if something were to happen to them, but no one thinks about the bahu, who gives up so much when marrying into a family. And the point of bringing this up in the drama is to bring awareness that this is a topic that needs to be discussed more. So to your point, yes people don’t generally do that- but that doesn’t mean that our thinking can’t be changed.
@Idimploo … mehar is the security for daughter in law. It already exist. There is nothing new in it.
Shery n natasha esi qabil thy k onhay choir Kar ghar aliza k name kardia
Dosro Ki betiyo Ki zindagi KO tamasha banay walo ka anjam Bura hona chahiya
"Tum tu dus shadian ker k dus bachay dunia mein la saktay ho. Maa aisa nahi ker sakti". What a dialogue. Excellent. 18:50
botot si maon ko aysa kartey bhi dekha hey.....bachon ko maa or baap dono ki zururat hoti hey....jo mayen bachey le ke baap ko kick lagati hey.....unka zulm bhi yaad rakhen.....
@@SuchKiAwaaz-kb1bqper majority ab bhi mard hi hain
A huge lesson for men who take women for granted. If women don’t say anything it doesn’t mean they are weak. A huge lesson for women who think they should stop thinking for themselves just because they told to do that. Beautiful message for everyone. For some this is just a drama but for me it’s reality. Every single actor both male and female did an amazing job.❤
True, Many men are narcissists but the female narcissism is also increasing way higher. Out of 10 there are 6.5 men and 3.5 are women.
Its me its my story but in reality we can't leave such relationship
reality of my life
Larki k weleducated ho ne ka koi faida hi nhi hua k wo larky ko sahi krti balkay nakaam dikhaya ek ghr toota hua dikhaya or brabari JB Allah pak ne hi nhi di TU kaha ki brabri baykaar end tha or society ko sahi krti phr Rai han apni motivational speaking se hubby ko nhi kr pai or dobara ghr Jakr fitna phaylaya MRI frnd ki same story hai phly us ne unhy tariky se treat Kiya or aj usk 2 bachy han wo bayintaha Khush reh Rai hai bs Islam k khilaaf kiye jao tm log ortoo ko media k zariye😢
True
I have no words for this drama .i m still in awe. This drama makes you think,makes you ponder. This drama is for-all daughter-in-laws everywhere. Who speaks for our right ??? Are we (the bahus) not taken for granted. ?? We talk about our daughter s security but what about the Security of the daughter in laws. The team of this amazing serial has raised the topic so well. The mental torture,the humiliation,the manipulation,....so well shown. U don’t have to physically fight to show ur hurt. Words r very powerful !! Indeed !!
Alize’s character is so well written....a ted speaker had become a meow.😢after marriage. U need Alize’s family like support to go back n move on with life. Kudos to her father. Life does not end after one failed marriage. It’s a precious gift of God . Move on girls n make a new life 😊.life is beautiful n it’s one life. Enjoyyy. Thanks to the team for giving us this drama . It’s an eye opener.i loved it.
In our so called Muslim society take them as granted,whenever in Islam entirely different concept,we want to pickup favourites which suits us,actually we have a lot of influence of Hinduism,after nikkah girls r not partner they r property so better to think in right direction,naan nufka means girl can use husband luxury as she feel pleasure,kindly think she is pain pillar for creating goodness for new generation her confidence is necessary for building new generation conflicts weeks is if u don't want girls design of mind don't go for her think and take steps later.Afeeling for this irony.
Lots of appreciation for Alize's family who stood up for her and made sure that she took the right decision and moved on.Hope this is a good lesson for those families whose daughters are going through a similar situation.
Aisay tou har larki KY parents ko support kr apni beti ko ghr wapus Bula kaina chahiay
Ziada tr betiyan is lie sb seh ri hotin k unhe support krne wala koi ni hota. parents ko alezay k parents jesa hona chahie
Sahi h paiso k support s zyada, himmat Dene Wale parents hona zruri h
Nhi to sb brdasht krtewe rehna hi pdta h
@@noreengeorge6298then aap ka wasta aise nafsiyati shohar se nhi para jin ke saath insan roz marta hai
Superb acting by Mikal Zulfikar.Nobody else could have pulled off such a complex role.
I liked the fact that Natasha's husband divorced her and found a simple and loving woman.
Natasha always treated him horribly anyway.
I wish there was more about how Sherry suffered and how their child grew up. The focus on women's rights in this drama is praisable.👏
It is a reality in many cultures that women are treated inferior or even nothing but a servant in some rural areas.
In urban areas as well. Narcissistic is a personality disorder which nowadays has become very normal, I'm happy with this drama ending at least now I'm totally satisfied for my decision of leaving narcissistic and you are right there would be more about sherry childhood trauma so people can become more aware the exact root cause... Btw thank you writer..
Dear you r right but not only in rural areas.also in civilized well known citys also.n also with so much educated person also.for eg with a dr 😓
Then it would be a dayli soap but yeah i feel ya
not in rural and arban even abroad ,men from our culture treat women like shitt
Betaaaa.... ye rishta kia kehlata hai nahi hai😂
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Kya app muslim ho.......
ya fir likes ka masla hai🤣😂🤣🤣🤣
dont use u tube . kafiron ki eejad hey.
@@syedabdulrazzakkhadri2993totally likes ke liya isne yeh likha hai. Yeh muslim nahi hai.
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Yar ap pagal Tou Nahi ho ?
Ap Ka har dramay ki video Kay nichay ak Nahi do Nahi balkay 4-5 comments hotay hain ap logoin ko kon Samgaya kay ya drama ki video ha koi quran Ki Nahi Jo ap Allah ko lay kar ati ho pagal ho ap atna hi Allah say payar ha Tou dramay dakhanay kay bajayay namaz Paro
What a beautiful end to a story often left untold. Narcissists, be it male or female, sweep you off your feet and give you the highest highs, but just when you’re enjoying the highs, they pull the rug from underneath you and suddenly you find yourself at your lowest. This vicious cycle is what traps people in staying in toxic relationships. Sadly this is very prevalent in desi culture.
This drama does a fantastic job depicting what narcissistic behavior looks like and illustrates how even an educated and strong individual can fall prey to such types of people. Im sure this drama was triggering for those who have dealt with narcissistic behavior.
Everyone’s acting has been exceptional,
especially Mikaals’. Hats off to the writer and entire team for bringing such an important topic to the limelight.
How do you know that ????????????? Wao Your words were in my practical life.
I can assure you that narcissists exist in all cultures - too many of them sadly. I am German and my half-sister's father (also German) was a full blown narcissist. And then I ended up marrying a Pakistani narcissist. But alhamdulillah I am happy with my Kashmiri (Indian) husband now who was previously married to a Bengali narcissist😂 My best friend's narcissistic ex is Nigerian. These types of people are all over the place.
This story changed me a lot.hats off to the writer and all the people who created this masterpiece. We should learn a lot from this story. Some people never change we have to change accordingly in that situation. Don't loose your self esteem and self respect behind anything not also for love. Great massage for the society.✌️
Nature cannot be changed 🤧
This drama is a true example 😂🖤
Exactly
But mere trhan ki female to sare zindge khtm ker deti hn yahe soch k shoher hn mazaji Khuda hn logg Kia kehn gy shoher ko mery reaction SE tklf ho ge
Kash rishte ye smjh paye ki sabki izzat hai..har insan important hai
Human works according to psychology not your and our kaaash 😅 Ye kaash waala myth b ajeeb hai. @@mamora554
@@nadiatahir2270 the word "khuda" only belongs to Allah, it's the toxic patriarchal culture that added that word to a man/human.... Think again... I hate.... Deeply hate the term mizaji khuda
Realistic ending ....Its amazing .It is so important to highlight how mental torture effects person's life , not only physical abuse.
Yes, many don’t realize mental and emotional abuse is just as bad. Takes a long time to heal from the belittling and emotional abusive treatment from someone you thought had your best interest.
True..Alizey in this drama, was fortunate enough that her life's years were not wasted bearing the mental torture...only 1 year..So she bounced back very quickly
But there so many ladies out there..who are stuck with such mental torturers...and they have still wasted their life time dealing with mental torture...they should also take a step for themselves.
I think the ending was good. The wife doesn't always have to forgive the toxic husband. Such people don't change. Alizey was capable enough to take care of herself and her child. That's why girls need to be educated and financially independent. They don't always need a man to survive.
You are absolutely right
What about Natasha being a toxic wife? Instead you could have used a toxic spouse. Women don't have to play the victim game all the time. Natasha was also well educated and much more established than Alijay. A husband never does this kind of toxicity in real life. In fact this can be the other way around.
@@FunAlltime247 NEVER? WOW. Lmao what a joke. Majority husbands do this toxicity and even worse in reality. It had proven again and again that toxic men are way more than toxic women. Natasha was extremely toxic and deserves the same treatment as sherry and nothing about her is justified . But that doesn't mean anyone can try to lie about facts when in reality women do suffer way more than men. Every other man you meet will have one or another toxic or controlling attribute. The problem, you don't think its wrong because Its normalised. Just say for once when a woman got an actual just ending and happy ending FOR HERSELF, its bothers you. Did you see Natasha getting a happy ending? No. but somehow , you had to make this comment to make men look perfect
Couldn’t agree with you more!!!!
And all parents and siblings need to be supportive like Alizay’s parents!
@@FunAlltime247 Already replied about that in a comment, and yes such toxic men and women both exist in real life.
سبق آموز سیریل تھا خاص کر عورتوں کے لئیے، یہ ہماری سوسائٹی کا بہت بڑا ایشو ہے!
لکھنے والے نے بھی کیا عمدہ لکھا ہے!
اور سب کرداروں نے نے بھی کیا خوب نبھایا ہے اپنے اپنے کردار کو !
عمدہ احتتام!!!♥️♥️♥️
Fantastic ending 👏🏻 but Alhumdulilah mere hubby boht ache hai.. na wo change huwe na muje kiya change sath sath chal rhe MashAllah 7 years of marriage & 11years of togetherness ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I will miss this drama. The cast was too strong and the story was realistic. Everyone acted sooooo well. I cant even name each as everyone was so up to mark. But special shout out to Mikaal Zulfiqar for his outstanding performance. He acted brilliantly. I really enjoyed all his scenes. Also, much love to Dur e Fishan. No one could have done it better than you. The end was pretty abrupt but the previous episodes made up for that feeling too. Thank you, writer. Well done to u
A very beautiful ending. I am glad the writer didn’t take it to the typical, “girl forgiving and compromising” concept. Beautiful!!!!!
Now after she will marry another men or will live alone.😮
Exactly
Breakup from a narcissist is the real happyending.FITRAT NAHI BADALTI.
Agreed
Narcissist apnay ap ko theak kar skta hay. Laikin musibit yeh hay keh narcissist rarely apni galti accept karta hay or aksar to sirf mazeed manipulate karnay kay liay karta hay.
Agree@@Eagleon2021
My father is a narcissist. I have seen my mother going through a mess in my entire life. Occasionally she used to beat my mother, abused her, and when I grew up, one day I stood against him and told him not to abuse my mother anymore. Guess what since now he knows that he cannot use force anymore so now he uses manipulative techniques. Fitrat kam hi badalti hay.
@@Eagleon2021you’re absolutely right!
I love the way Natasha loves Sherry N the bonding b/w them is just WOW
Every single character in this drama just nailed their character
I'm young N being a girl I've learnt a lot from this topic abuse... I had never thought abuse could be of that type... I've seen many cases like this already but I never took it seriously..I gonna watch it again N again.. love the team JAISAY APKI MARZI❤
No dragging , No repeated scene ...Story writing dirextion acting everything was good ...I actually liked Natasha's negative role.She got great personality and did justice to the character.
kis kis ko nabi ka ummati hona pasand hai💖💖💖😇
Nabi Ka pura name to batao
Zaruri h darame k nichy comment krk btao k apko Pyar h
Aleeze bkwas ort dkhai h or fzool drama
Yar ap pehlay apni dp change Karo phir is Kay bad baat Karna nabi ki
Pehlay Nabi Kay hukam ko tou Mano
Nabi nay ya kha Ka Kay drama dakho Hain aur sir par dubata na Karo aur pic Bana Kay dp laga do
Nabi Ka name Lana zarori hota ha
Mat liya Karo Nabi aur Islamic cheezoin Kay name plz kyu Kay ya AK dramay ki video ha koi quran Ki Nahi ok understand aur Hain ap nay massage Nabi Kay baray main kar kay end main ya emoji kyu lagai ha ? (😇)
What is this?
@@Qasimmalik-0909 sahi kaha ..mental ...hote hain aise log
Unrealistic ending. The heroine going overboard with making the house a hostel. Whereas Javed sheikh left the house to his grandchild. Too many loop holes. She said she ll let the father meet the baby but that doesn’t culminate.
Ted talk lines failed to impress considering it was the last episode.
Natasha s husband is made to look like an angel whereas he having an extramarital affair. Does the writer think she is demeaning Natasha by showing that her husband had an affair. That’s strange. Overall, unimpressive last episode, left a lot to be desired.
Exactly. I thought the same way. It's positive ending cud have a greater impact. The script fails to present Sherry as evil/abuser. Although they cud show him and his sister understand their mistake and correct their behavior. All they had was a behavioral/psychological issue of being dominant and marrying someone to keep them inferior. This cud have been shown how they correct themselves and become a better person. But no, these writers, directory, producers are just promoting divorce instead of correcting oneself. Sad 😢
Yes...the last episode should have been powerful ...also too many loopholes in the writing
@@the_philosopherr_ladyynarcissists do not change so divorce is the only option. Divorce is not being promoted here.
Indeed ❤
In reality, these people very very rarely change or become ashamed@@the_philosopherr_ladyy
Narcissists don't change, nor do they feel the guilt for tormenting their victim's. Narcissists make themselves look like the abused victim , and their victims are the predators in their mind . It takes years and years for the real abused victim to heal themselves from the trauma of narcissistic abuse. Narcissists move on very quickly and repeat the same pattern in their next relationship. Hence, the ending was very unrealistic!
Thats true. 💯 agreed. Im also not that much satisfied with the ending shown.
M also not happy with the ending. Cuz narcs dont feel sad or positive about their victim. They take a day or more to grow out of it and again blame their victim for even this riddance and they wont leave their child. They would destroy their victim for going out of their relationship using the weakness of a child. With child narc would play with their victim more emotionally destroying them. And alizay despite strong woman still cant live normally in her capacity. She cant be shown normal. Because such victims neither get property or anything nor their own intact personality. Anyhow, its just what victims can understand for people its just a drama. Kuch narcs probably zada ghaya or intimidating hotay hain.sherry ka character phr b behtar narc tha.
Very well said. I agree. In their heads, narc are the ultimate victims. They never forgive those who've got away with it and broken off relationship with them. Some narcs even go on to murder their children becausr they can't tolerate their former spouses living happily with their kids.
@@sairakhalid4411 True my ex is always trying to blackmail me regarding kids but now after watching this show I am bitter and confident about not giving him any chance😜
@@sobiNadeem-t9g gud 👍🏻
There’s lots of ordinary people living life normally but suffer from Narcissistic personality disorder or other disorders. This drama is prob one of the first ones to show this topic. Well done to the team.
Brother sister duo was nice. Villian hi sahi lekin dono ne ek dusre ka sath khoob nibhaya. Natasha was very Good in acting. I want to see her in More dramas Now.
Storyline was the "Best". 👏👏👏
Wo dono viilen nahi hai apne bich me kisi ko bardast nahi aisi bahen bahut mushkil se milti hai apna ghar bhi nahi basati bahen ki mohabbat sab nahi samjh sakte bahut alag topic hai
This was simply a MASTERPIECE! 👏
Hats of to the entire team! It was a commendable story narrated in the best possible way based on reality, leaving a great message to the youth who surrender their self-respect, self-esteem, and value just for the sake of "chaar log kya kahein gey" which eventually make the perpetrators more powerful and entitled.
A Complete depiction of a narcissictic family and what a victim faces due to them.
I am very happy that this drama has ended as it was the worst drama i have ever seen on pakistani dramas industry love from Mumbai India
@@arjunshahani1360i agree. I am also a pakistani drama fan. But this serial was horrible. Worst acting by Alizey, she looked like a plastic doll and her husband looked like a robot, every episode same expressions, predictable dialogues, half of the time there was no dialogue but only background music. So irritating. I had to skip forward so many times to hear a dialogue 😂😂. Also why Alizey was flaunting her accent? Not natural at all. At least did not go well with her character in the drama. Uff tauba !!
@@saltanatjj i agree with you this is the second pakistani drama I have not liked and left seeing it anyway hope we get better one to see in the future from where are you
I too join the team. I usually am a good fan of Pakistani dramas but this one left a bad taste.
Didn't like it at all Story was good , different from the usual ones but the way it was portrayed left much to he desired..
I was left confused .
Worst Darama
Very well said
یا اللہ ہم تیری گنہگار مخلوق ہے یا اللہ ہم سب کے حال پر رحم فرم یا اللہ ہم سب کی مشکلوں کو پریشانیوں کو دور فرما اپنے پیارے حبیب کے طفیل تاکے زندگی بھی شان سے گزرے اور جب ہم اس دنیا سے جائیں تو ہمارا خاتمہ بھی ایمان پے ہو امین ثم امین
Aameen ya rabbul aalmin
،Aameen. Summ Aameen
Fabulous job to all the artists in this drama👏🏻A narcissist remains a narcissist. This toxic brother sister duo deserve each other's company. It's interesting that this drama dealt with both male & female narcissicm. Also the fact that an educated person can also be manipulated, is well depicted here. It's so typical of desi parents ( Alizay's mother in this case) who just get influenced by the son in law's antics. At least the father stood his ground & the sister was a sensible support. What to do when you don't have supportive parents 🤔or any family support 🤔
If your parents are not supportive you are already facing narcissistic behavior of your parents.😢 May Allah protect us from any narcissistic relationsip it could be parents, husband,wife, brother,sister etc.
Loved the way u hv highlighted the drama...
Reality based drama sensible ending the mental torture was explained in exellent manner❤❤
Very well put
Thank God alizey had the support of her dad and her sister
A brilliant masterpiece by ARY after a very long time! Loved the narrative and the way Alizey's Father Character was jotted down just took my heart! Thank God that ARY finally showed something much needed, other than Danish's toxic patriarchal scripts. Totally agree with the last dialogue, "APNAY SAATH ZIYAATI KRKE, HUM ZAMANAY KI PARWAH KRKE SIRF MUASHREY KI BUNIYAAD KO KHOKLA KRTAY HEN". I am absolutely in love with the writer who just penned down everything so amazingly, with a flow and contemplation. AND I MUST SAY THE LEADS WERE AMAZING IN Portraying their characters.
Excellent, educative message for today's so called cultured,elite, educated society where woman is still a slave to masculine chauvinism but Alizeh is an example to follow..Mubarak ho
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A lot of credit goes to the writer. Very deep understanding of characters without showing too much emotional outbursts in scenes. And of course acting of Sherry and everybody else was very good. Likes this very much. Very close to reality.
I'm not satisfied with this incomplete ending it should b harsh for Natasha and sheri they should b punished badly but it ended easily,,,,💔
Agreed!! But most realistic ending!! Alizey n meerub moved on , even alizey ke sasur nai usko joh property di woh bhi koi nahi deta apni bahu ko.. so fair enough
Agree
Totally agree
Yes agree
Their lonely life is a punishment for them.
A thought provoking story ❤. Such serials should be made in pak drama industry. Dure fishan is such a talented, Unique and educated girl. She nailed thi character 💫🔥👍. A message for the men like sherry ke sab kuch khony sa better hai apni arrogance or so called mandani hi kum ker deni chahiye.
What a Lovely Dialogue Security sirf Betiyoh ko nahi Bahu ko bhi Milne chahiye
Pakistani dramas are very realistic and full of emotions,no extra makeup , no extra jewellery and no overacting .... it based on now a days situation and Every drama gives a moral, lots of love from India
Oh help tum thakty nai daily yehi ik same comment kr kr kr
Thnku sister
for real you are right im pakistani or i am agree with you that pakistani dramas are not full of overacting like indians dramas huhhhhhhhh
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Aj Kal break up har drama ka end hone Laga he.sherry theek ho sakta that.
Very nice ending
It’s really a good lesson for the new generation and especially young male and female to choose a life partner who has good character and has respect for other people weather they are rich or poor
But who has respect for others.
Who loves Muhammad sallalawalehi wasallam ❤❤❤❤❤
One of the best Pakistani dramas I have seen. Extremely close to my reality, as my husband and sister in law have the exact same narcissistic personality. Some of the scenes shown on the show, I have lived through. I’m glad to see the ending, where the woman is shown to take a stand for herself, because Emotional Abuse IS ABUSE. It is high time our society recognises this and calls it out, instead of waiting for the ‘physical abuse’ to happen or the woman completely losing her mental health, which would still be questioned since its so extremely normalised for men to have ‘anger’ issues.
Hopefully more dramas like this will be made, shedding light on this topic.
After a long time Pakistani dramas are highlighting the real issues of society instead of showing fake love storyies ❤❤
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Jo kuch bhi ho jai ek pregnant worat ko ghar se nikal dena iss duniya mai sabse bariya gunah hai.. Or bachcha hone ki bad "mujhe mere bachcha se milna hai" ye koi bat hai?? Such an example of inhumanity😢😢
Out of all the Pakistani dramas aired in the present time, the best ending has happened in this drama. Such men should remember their times.
The ending was good.. but the narcissists in real life never admit their mistakes they're never sorry. Anyhow the drama had to end that's why it ended up happily.. but the real narcs never change in real life.. they tortures you more if u have a kid together or if u want seperation. They defame you and ruin your character and plays the victim..there's never ending mental and emotional torture.
💯 agreed
Agreed
Correct.
Agreeed
Agar is drama ki happy ending Hoti to bht Galat message jata audience ko but yes amazing ending ❤
Well executed story line that hits viewers with the truth of what society is for a woman in Pak culture. Alizaye kept making sacrifices & passing exams whilst the abuse from Shere continued. When she stood her ground he finally became demolished. A sinner to a forgiven saint. Sometimes we have to stand up for a nation of people suffering!
Anti nay buhat Acha answer kiya Natasha ko 👍 good Natasha khud ko bari cheeze samajh rahi thi😊
Wholeheartedly thanks to the entire team for creating the masterpiece. ❤
I feel its very good that the show kept the focus on alizeh, and they kept it realistic in terms of sufferings of sherry and natasha, as the problem is that narcissists are even unable to suffer because they cant actually properly channelize emotions, so for them its hard to even feel sad, if that happens than they wont be narcs anymore. So the whole thing in the serial kept very realisitic and brought its focus to the victim. Loved the serial, and loved the cast its something to remember always!
Amaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaazing drama showing realities of societies instead of imagination and fake love stories ...... I have never seen suuuuuccchhh a masterpiece in my growing age.
Apna haq chordne se hum zalim ke hath or lambe kar rahe h ✅what a dialogue heart touching😢👍
پیارا ڈرامہ.. بہت عرصے کے بعد کوئی اچھا ڈرامہ دیکھنے کو ملا... اسے ہم ایک اچھی کوشش کہ سکتے ہیں کہ خواتین کو ان کے حقوق ملیں لیکن درحقیقت ہمیں ابھی 100 سال لگیں گے اپنے معاشرے کو سمجھانے میں
Kon kon Israel ka product Boycott kar rahe ho 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️
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Hum toh Islam ke end ka wait kar rahe hai. Hamas done 👍✅
Next is Pakistan
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A Masterpiece ! Awesome drama regarding women' rights ! The whole team played very well ! Congratulations & Respect to the writer of this drama !
Thanks a lot my dear …stay blessed
Thanks to the writer for such a wonderful story that no one talks about...thanks for giving us all a lesson that one must never be so weak that they don't stand against any abuse. I wish every girl gets such a father and sis who supported her. Be careful not don't let anyone control you or take your decision whether he is your boyfriend or husband.... be independent and strong enough to keep people in limit ❤️ A Woman is never weak its just that she needs to understand she can deal with whole world all alone if she decides to ❤️ BE STRONG BE HAPPY BE INDEPENDENT BE SELF DEPENDENT
Aisy lagta ha jesy ye story mery upr e likhi gai ho aik aik seen alizay or sheri ka dekh k pta chalta ha jesy samny khud ko e dakh rhi the lakin end pa chalo sheri ko ahsas hua to sai lakin jis pagl k sath mera pala pra tha usy to koi ahsas b nai hua na shaid ho ga kabi bs ap sab say appeal ha plz mery liye dua kr diya krain ma is mentally torchar say nikl aou or agy Allah talah mery liye asaniyan peda farmain
I was stuck in this too.I know how it feels. Allah Tallah aap ke liye asaanian farmaye. Ameen.
Really praise dure fishan's work in this drama ..and the story is quite relatable to mine ..this drama is a source of strength and motivation to a lot of women like me and alizeh .I wonder how beautifully a man control a woman on the name of love..and how she compromises all of her dreams for the sake of child breathing in her womb..
MORAL: Writer teaches parents who didnt respect buhus. Buhat aalaa drama.
Also father's like alizey father deserve a part on their shoulders as they support their daughters
buhus ?
Sherry's acting in whole drama is awesome ❤
Humanity comes first and woman is the creator of humanity. Being the best person has nothing to do with gender. Understanding the equality of men and women requires more training than education. Training is not related to any money whether it is poor or rich. The same problems are seen in the story of the play in the class of rich people.
I am a Pakistani living in China and here this drama is very popular in my whole International hostel even I have suggested this drama to my foreign ie Uzbekistani friends and they watch it with subtitles. ❤ Beautiful Content and best performance of Natasha and Sherry (Mikail Zulfaqar).
Wish you all the best to all the team. Thank you very much to Writer for raising these topic.
Its true story which is totally realted to my real life ...i think such psycho people and their family destory many life and can't image what they do ? .....last lines said by Alizey are totally 100% true ..."kisi ek lambe n meri akhoo se parda hta or phir wakqt aaya faisla lene ka or maine failsa le liya . "..👍
Sudhr jao
Only "Jaisay Apki Marzi" Lovers Can Feel The Pain Of Ending This Drama 💔 😢
Bilkul b nhi shukr h khatm hova boriyt se bhara va drama
Kuch TOH tha dkny ky Liye .
Shukr khtm hua😅😅
Accha hua k khtm jo gya
Lover hu gy to feel ho ga na shukr jn chuti😅
Oh my god. This drama was an addiction to me.. I've learnt a lot from this serial. The main thing that has been highlighted in the drama is all about mental and emotional health and self-respect. And btw, natasha was my favourite character in this drama. ❤😅🎉
Subhanallah...ami ko btana k apky liye natasha jesi larki dekhen😅
Alizay...gonna miss this drama...each and every character of this drama played awesome 😎 role... very heart touching and ended with an excellent lesson 😍
hey Aleejay --- here you are not the heroin of the whole drama , but it is your parents , your baba who is the back bone of your character----- most of the girls have the courage to break the cage but they don't have that small support that you got throughout ------ yet at least in such dramas we became happy seeing such concluded end ..qudoes to the writer and all team, and love from india
This drama has fantastically highlighted the the cheap acts of in laws which brutally destroy the life of women. Appreciable character of Alizay how she come back to her life. Its a big lesson for ladies that never give up. Be independent, be strong.
How many Indians here ❤❤❤
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Who is waiting for Ramzan Mubarak
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Please or bhi episode upload dijiye
zabardast drama......totally an inspiration...har ladki ko khudmuktar hona zaroori hai
Muhabbat hr kisi se nhi hoti jisse hoti h uske baad koi us saksh ki jgh nhi le skta❤❤❤
Muhabbat agr sherry jese insan se hojae to usko ghlti smjh k sudhar Lena chaiye or zindgi m aage brhen in logon k ly Jo ap se waqe m pyar krte hen na k sherry jese insan k ly khud ko brbad kr den or sherry jese insan ko to mohabbat ho hi n skti
Waqee sai kha
@@SweraShah-y3y jisse me pyar krti hu wo mujhe pyar to krta h pr kbhi gusse me mujhe Manta nhi ab to bolta h roti rh 3 4 din to me kia kru or really I love him so much ❤️🥺
Shakhs*
I like sherry sister. She is really smart and a good actress l.
Natalia's mum was straight forward. well done.
Alizeh and meerab should have married in their own circle like meerab did at the end. There is a complete difference of brought up between sherry, Natasha and alizeh, meerab. As a result different mindsets.
It’s not always about men that women are not treated well. It’s also about parenting. Parents especially mothers need to brought up sons as good, responsible human beings who know the rights of other human beings and their responsibilities. And to give love , respect and confidence to their own daughters that they would be able not to allow someone to mistreat them. They should know how to take stand and handle situations.
Yet if there is no compatibility, respect and kindness between husband and wife,there is a way out. Men and women are not at war with each other rather good men and good women are supporters of each other.
Not only Narcissism but sociopaths and psychopaths are also very active in our society. This drama no doubt is a Master piece on the emotional abuse but more content should be on air to highlight the patterns "why people attracted to them at first place? Why ramza didn't but Her mother and Alizey attracted?" Because they also suffering from some kind of disorder either empath disorder, codependent or borderline personality disorder.
As per current stats, 7% population among men and 4% among women are suffering from complete narcissistic personality disorder and almost 80% share some kind of narcissistic traits which are less than 5 out of 9 according to DSM.
Alizay' mother money disorder
Narcissists are extremely hard to detect in the beginning of a relationship, as they mask their true personality very well. Alizey was love bombed - a common way the narcissists attracts his predator.
The mother was also love bombed, but she was also carrying the generational norms and traumas from our society, where anger is normalized.
I have lived through this situation, the older women have seen other women, according to them ‘suffer a lot more’, hence the comparison is if he hasn’t hit you, he’s not cheating on you etc. you should be fine! We have set the bar extremely low in our society, and emotional abuse is generally not recognised.
Best dram.we like the best thing is,"sirf Betiyon k liye nhin bahoo k like bhi sochna chahiye" specially for their secure future .
Itna bada ghar shooting ke liye de do...waise bhi har dusre serial me yahi ghar dikhta hai...
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Positive ending…no question to be in the toxic relationship… narcissist people always remain same…
Shehna and Alizeh both went through mental and emotional abusr but the difference was Shehna couldn't cope up coz she was all alone but Alizeh had her all family to support her so she came back stronger... I wish everyone girl gets support of her family because "ITS BETTER TO HAVE A DIVORCED DAUGHTER THAN DEAD" ❤️
Very very true this drama so good even every character has done so hard work and make this drama so good. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Bhale hi sherry aur uski bahan achche insan nahi the lekin siblings bonding ki ek missal ki tarah rahe last tak
Only jaisay Apki Marzi drama lovers can feel the pain of ending this drama 😢
Yes bhat ziyada
Right
Yes I want more episodes 😢
Zara sa chuha ke itne himmat 😁 😂 Natasha is awesome 👌 she acted so well
Pakistani dramas ki khasiyat hai ki bikhri hui story ko last 2 episodes me pura samet lete hai. Alezey k parents pr jo attack hua tha muje lagta tha wo sherry ne kraya hoga aur alezey aur sherry ki separation isi baat ko lekr hogi jb alezey k o ye pta chaleg
Alhamdullilah I also took a step.. And now I am happy.. We should move out of such kind of worst marriages.. Where people consider us nothing.. We should bear a little pain of memories rather than a life time pain..
Thanks Humayun Saeed Sir for teaching me fool's paradise life span from this great
tragical Saga
You helped me out to find my real royal identity form this tragical Saga
Thanks a lot Humayun Saeed Sir for great helping
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Only jaisay Apki marzi drama lovers can feel the pain of ending this drama 😢
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Pakistani Drama Best ❤️🥀🖤
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Iam an Indian but I love Pakistani dramas no nude videos no so long..... stories and their dresses everything is too good ❤ and especially in this drama shery and Natasha role is super ❤
Sherry jese Narcissistic husband ko jtni jldi chor den utna hi acha he q k ap ase logon ko badal ni skte, ahasas kren k Allah ne apko insan peda Kiya he or narcissist log insaniyat ki insult hi kr skte hen izzt ni
Parents ko chaiye k betiyon ko support kren k wo be ja zulm na brdasht kren blkl wese jese alizey k father n Kiya
It's such a master piece we learn very much of thise story۔self dependent girls ki story ko kitni khubsurati se bataya gaya hai ۔aisi kitni ladhkiya hai jo apni self respect kho deti hai۔pr his new beginning is very motive aur hamare pass game changer banne ka option bhi hota hai sach me ۔true
When natasha said ik zara sa chuha😂😂it was too funny 🤣
This is called a perfect ending Sherry and his sister should have been deserves it. 💯
it was a good drama, will remember this drama all my life. Really empowering for women and I will remember the OST as well
Right..
Drama to boht acha tha but sorry to say ost to bilkul nursery rhyme ki trha laga
Ap ki married life ka end keasa tha ?
This is called perfect ending sherry and his sister deserve it.
Whoaaa, during this whole drama Natasha has been aced 🎉🎉🎉🎉perfect and brilliant performance by actress who acted the role of Natasha truly brilliant
Respect is very necessary in every relationship
Such a well written drama which is trully reflective of our society and cultural issues. Well done to whole team. 👏
Narcissist ka end yehi hona chahie hats off to writer
M from india ❤ i must say pakistanis best drama ever 🙏🙏
Ye series tho award winning hai..
Is series k sabhi acters award deserve karthe hain.
Specially alizays father n mother sherrys father..