Now that's a worthwhile ambition. No joke gut health has a massive impact on everything. I swear by a brand of probiotics called BioKult, because it has 17 different strains, modified to survive stomach acids so they actually make it to the colon. Good stuff.
The worst thing about being short is that you are basically forced to clownmaxx all the time in order to not seem insecure. Like even Charlie who is famous and good looking has to basically roast himself to seem cool.
@@lilnigga-qh7kdEhh, not really something you should be stressing about in your free time. Caring about it is one thing but stressing is mad at that age.
@@lilnigga-qh7kd I’m still a kid so I guess I don’t really care man. Stress ain’t good for your hormones anyway. Which certainly won’t help your skin. I’m not saying you should neglect skincare, just don’t stress too much.
Imagine wearing that stretcher thing, getting into a car accident, and having to explain why the f you would do this to yourself to the doctors and paramedics
@@cloud656 You're acting like looks are literally everything. All you gotta do to get sex is to just get a prostitute. If you don't want sex just for sex, then looks definitely don't matter. If people are attracted to blisters, then someone is attracted to you
@@pharisaeus6493 you’re stupid thinking that it only applies to women because of “society” I can already tell what type of person you are by your statement lol.
i'm a semi professional athlete, in great shape with proper hygeine, though I don't look very good and I'm not tall. I've never dated anyone, so tell me what am I doing wrong?
One problem I have atm with lookmaxing is the stigma it brings to men who just want to have good hygiene and look nice. Mewing and jelquing are stupid but moisturizing, working out, and taking vitamins while also trying to improve your wardrobe should be advocated for. Like I have gotten way more success with women just by growing out my hair and wearing nice clothes that fit me well.
Mewing is just tongue posture. It won't change the size of a recessed mandible, but it will help with repositioning the mandible to make it appear less like that of a mouth breather. It also helps strengthen the hyoid bone, which makes the jaw look smaller if the bone is too low. It has helped me look a bit better, so I think it's worth learning, especially since it's not dangerous.
well when guys get roasted and told by the whole world that they need to do better what exactly did you expect lol. Highly doubt any of you have reached out to men to try to help them and instead of offering solutions people prefer to once again mock men so good luck or whatever
@@MBab-r8eThe overwhelming majority of this comes from comments from other guys, not even talking about those creepy looksmaxxing echo chambers which are entirely guys. Just in general, I see way more men insulting other men for their looks/physique than women, let’s not delude ourselves and deflect the blame for pity points here
@@MBab-r8e This mindset of "you don't really believe something if you're not doing something about it" is goofy asf. Like, I'm against murder but I don't patrol the streets at night looking for murderers to stop. In the same way I'm against body shaming but don't scour every comments section for it because I have other stuff to do. Not everyone can be a sign-wielding street-marching activist. The best I can do is refuse to partake in it myself and call it out when I see it, but I don't have the time or patience to go looking for it.
Nothing like people making the younger generation think everything is wrong with them. This is absolutely insane. Edit: let me get this straight, there is nothing wrong with the newer generations, it's the people who are manipulating them for fun/money. What's important is that we expose everything wrong with this trend not children themselves.
Charlie is so right about how confusing it must be to grow up with the type of social media influences that are everywhere now. I realized this when my 9 year old son started talking about _"how tough it is at school when you're a single guy like he is."_ And proceeded to tell me his gameplan to change his relationship status as quickly as possible. 😳 These next few years are gonna be very long years, I'm afraid 🤦♀️😂
I'm kind of scared that even If I control the time and content my child looks on the internet other kids will fill his mind with this kind of bullshit. Is there a solution?
Yeah, that’s horrible. Also casually reinforces a highly damaging view of heteronormativity where “all guys want x” is repeated infinitely with no space at all for possibly wanting anything else.
Scams based on insecurities like this have to be some of the hardest to stop. It’s a lot harder to convince someone they’re being scammed when they have no self esteem. I’m sure some of these guys have tried everything there is to try like the commenter you highlighted said. A lot of these channels are probably many of their viewers’ last resorts.
@@moodlethenoodle misogynists have been making jokes about women's body issues and eating disorders for generations, and now some of these misogynists are developing those same issues and rather than listen to a single piece of advice from women they're out here stretching out their dick so they can gloat to their equally misogynistic friends (cuz we know it's not helping them get laid). I honestly do have sympathy for people struggling with body image issues but these looksmaxxing communities go well beyond innocent insecurity into deeply spiteful and hateful mindsets that end up hurting themselves and others. Yeah the joke isn't in the best of taste but I don't feel bad about it
Well mewing is really just proper tongue posture and has actually does help with proper breathing but I can see how bonesmashing would be actually harmful
All because of women’s dating preferences and standards. Most men are gonna die alone because women’s standards are absolutely ridiculous. If everyone is an incel then nobody is.
I want to know who the fahck came up with the term "mewing"... like that's a noise you make when you're either trying to sound like a cat, or you're making fun of someone by making an annoying noise, at least that's what it's always been for me, so it doesn't make sense to have that be a thing
@@TheRaven-WingGamingIt’s named after the guy who invented it. It’s proper tongue posture that’s good for face shape and breathing it’s a legitimately good thing that everyone should be doing
I used to be in the r/self-improvement Reddit sub. Because so so SOOO MANY men complain that they don’t have a girlfriend even though they earn money, looks good, is tall, good career etc etc. They don’t realize that even if they do have a girlfriend. It doesn’t solve all their problems.
I agree with you but I can’t blame them because everyone wants a partner no one likes being alone and tbf they prob feel like they did everything right and are sad that they don’t get the karma from all that hard work.
People overestimate their own qualities. So if a guy is saying he's attractive that may not be true. If you really are attractive you'd get attention or receive matches on a dating app, results speak for themselves
Those things also aren't the most important. Like someone could have all those attributes, but that's doesn't mean you'll make any sort of meaningful connection with them.
@@gooodmorning4526 They're important for the initial spark, you're also not making that connection if someone doesn't find you attractive in the first place
I’ve found that the best lengthening method (for me) is tying a string between my upper-mid shaft and a doorknob and slamming the door with all the strength I can muster.
I have 4 sons and while I talk to them about these things I just want to say thanks for adding a second voice as I know they all watch your channel and it's good for them to hear how crazy some of these people are from someone besides their dad.
It's honestly really good to hear that you talk about this kind of stuff with ur kids - I think there's so much anxiety and so many misconceptions which could be fixed by some honesty and transparency. It's something I hope to be open about in the future if I have any kids too
I'd hate to get super personal, but I really appreciate your coverage on this topic, and it's comforting to hear someone speak about it as a person who has been affected by this type of content. I am 17 currently, and still struggle with my self image/confidence and have frequent episodes of body dysmorphia because of the content that I had been exposed to at a young age, and the constant negativity being spread on the internet about my body. I remember being only 11 or 12 years old, and coming across these videos and posts on UA-cam and across various other social media platforms that would say things like "You have to have an above average penis to find love" and "you have to be incredibly fit in order to be found attractive, you have to be 6 feet tall, if you do not do so-and-so to make you look a certain way then you'll be lonely" etc. Everywhere I would go, I would just see this constant misinformation, and others seeing it made them believe that it was fact too. I remember being in 7th grade and hearing students around me too, and all of that really affected me and made me hate my body and convinced me that unless my body was a certain way, then nobody would take interest in me. And being socially awkward and having difficulty making friends really added to the whole thing. I would never hear anything positive. It really pisses me off looking back on it just how much this stuff is blatantly targeted towards the younger generations and just how easily accessible it is. Nobody should have to have to ever experience what I, as well as many others, have felt about ourselves because of the messages being spread in the content you see online. Although I have since gotten a little better, I still have periodic doubts about myself, but seeing you speak out against it really comforts me. Thank you, Charlie. (Hope I said everything right and didn't overshare too much.) (Also, thank you all for the supportive comments! I really appreciate it.)
This is what I don’t understand all these dudes obbsesing over height in year 7 like bro I didn’t know my height till 9th grade nor did I ever think about it
Best thing for confidence about my appearance I ever did was start lifting weights... Very quickly I stopped caring about what other people thought and cared more about improving myself for myself. Noticing heavy objects becoming easy to carry is actually really fulfilling and if someone compliments you then that's just a nice bonus
@@ewrwrasggre4151 saying "loser with muscle strat" is part of the insecurity problem right there. The only person who can label you a loser is yourself.
That's what I'm hoping for! I'm not a dude but I've been craving a gym membership for so long. I avoided it for the longest time due to anxiety and feeling bad about my looks/afraid of being perceived. I've only been there for 2 days (started yesterday/finished today's training a while ago) and I feel so much better already!! Everyone's just minding their own business anyway. My body just hurts a lot, but I do feel a lot more human.
Oh boy, is he in for a run. And btw, now ik how much he exaggerates in his vids bc he said here he is now a veteran in looksmaxxing iceberg when he is still on the surface lvl of it
@@KillerSkullX the part where people are race obsessed wanting to either look more white or ethnic and think race effects everything, or effects what type of personality you're allowed to get away with. The part where they order research chems to force their facial bones to grow in combination with repetitive low force impacts to incduce microfractures for repair and growth,and where they memorized the names of every male model and can explain in excruciating details everything about their facial symmetries. And then the incel rants and raves such as having nightmares of their high school crushes crawling out from a lake of seeemaan looking like the girl from the ring, pulling them in, and that lake of seeemaan is all from their high school bullies who were good looking unlike themselves..... I wish I was making up the last part but I've seen a post like that on the OG forum they used before Elliot Rogers shot up a sorority house in 2013. I hope that spelling some stuff strangely keeps this from disappearing.
I get that my perspective is basically the exact other end of toxicity, but: they ain't worth it. No woman or man is so amazing that I should dedicate a significant portion of my life to looking better or being bigger just to be "good enough" for them.
@@Blakoss That is not the secret lol. The world is a cold world. Most girls already think most guys look like sleeze doritto smelling gamers. Being yourself is not it. You always have to looksmaxx, it's that it's been overly used. But the concept is a time old ordeal. It's why 40% genetically procreated but 99% of women in history procreated. It's because the 40% improved themselves, whether with land, reputation or looks. Same ordeal is seen today, but more men are becoming less attractive to most women as studies are almost making this a meta-analysis level agreement.... So yeah, don't be yourself. Be the best version of yourself [which is what looksmaxx is...]
@@dakidokino the best version of yourself is the one that can accept yourself as you are, flaws and all things you can’t change, obviously take showers). You do that and you’ll have a gf, they aren’t in short supply, there’s billions of them and a lot of them feel as neglected as these men do
@@dakidokinohahahaha. Oh man, no. A relationship that is worth having has nothing to do with appearance, or attributes. That's insanely superficial. Your whole opening paragraph is nonsense based on nothing. There are no reliable peer-reviewed studies that show any of that. Learn how to listen, learn how to reflect, learn how to understand. That's what builds a long term relationship. If you find women aren't responding to you it's because you're too busy thinking about how inferior you are, or too busy thinking you have to be some kind of dominant "prime" bullshit.
@@dakidokinoI think being the best version of yourself is a given and should be for personal fulfillment not to get laid lol The “ugly out of shape dude bags girl way out of his league” trope real asf and it’s solely because that guy actually has a personality and doesn’t really give a fuck Seriously guys would have a much easier time getting laid/gf by not thinking about it so much and just treating them like regular peoplw
Simply a reflection of the times we live in. Most people meet through online dating and more young men are single than ever so it should be expected that more young men begin to think this way.
@@ponternal Exactly. @OP men will become more desperate. And what ever seems to be attainable that is attractive to women men gonna clamor to that thing.
@@ponternal Agreed. That's pretty much why the whole looksmaxxing thing is blowing up now. A lot of dudes feel like it's over for them unless they somehow reach this insane standard of masculinity and male beauty. Of course that sounds ridiculous, but they only think that way because they have so much trouble finding someone by just being themselves. It's really sad honestly, but it's true.
(Long rant about looksmaxxing) Mewing is just the right position of the tongue. If you try to swallow with your mouth closed, you're automatically mewing. The problem with the whole mewing community is that people are selling the idea that it will give you this super aesthetic gigachad jawline, when in fact it is just preventing the risks that come with mouth breathing (unless you are a baby, mewing will not develop your jaw in any way). It is a good practice, but people exaggerate the benefits. Online scum influencers will of course capitalise on this insecurity, selling their crappy "Mogwarts" courses that supposedly share the secret Greek archives of ancient looksmaxxing techniques, now only locked behind a paywall in their jurisdiction. In general, these people who seek to achieve perfect facial features (what and who even defines what is perfect??) are just unhappy and clearly have a lack of self/community. I think it is especially due to a lack of interpersonal relationships, that they think looks are the problem, or that they are just looking for an excuse to continue being antisocial instead of actually going out and meeting people/women in particular. If I told any of these people that different women have different preferences in what they like, they'd resort to "it's over", "I'm not Sean o pry gigachad" or some verbal diarrhoea like that. I can't deny that looks play a part, but you have no choice but to play the hand you're dealt. Attraction isn’t something completely one dimensional based on only looks. It's much more than that in current civilisation. They just refuse to give themselves a chance and succumb to this delusional endless self-grooming. I could go on, but my honest best advice is to just live life as it is. Count your blessings and use them to your advantage. Seek out connections and try to improve yourself in different ways, not only lookism.
Because it is very much so real in some aspects. Most youtuvers like charlie only take the piss oit of the most ridiculous claims and practices, he woukd not dare tackle some of the more real issues. Like looks are the end all be all for how easily or if its even possible for you to get friendships, romantic relationships, jobs and sometimes even daily interactions. Like Im sure a good looking dude doesnt get laughed at or photos taken of him for the express reason of making fun of how he looks while he's just sitting on the bus stop going to work.
@@DestroAzureDx your problem and sadly there are many like you is that for some weird reason you care about what x and y think about you. That is your problem and it is extremely sad. I was always liked by girls for my looks, but the only girl I ve actualy had an actual long term relationship with was the one that liked me for who I was and didn t realy care for my looks untill wayyy later in our relationship. You should search for people with soul and substance , not jackasses or bimbos that like you for money or looks or superficial garbage like that.
@@DestroAzureDx Get off your phone and go outside and talk to real life people. I love how you ignore the millions of conventionally unattractive people that have friends, good jobs, and get married
In my english class we had a project to do a slide show about what we had planed for the future and a kid had a whole slide about looksmaxing and what it was 😭
Im a young man, at least half of the content I’m recommended on every social media app are posts telling me everything wrong with me. I’ve been suicidal because of it, doing better now but I struggle constantly with body dysmorphia. Sometimes all it takes is one look in a mirror and I’m in tears or throwing up. Edit: I’ve made a lot of positive changes in my life lately and am feeling much better now. thank you for the advice and nice comments, they helped a lot
thank you man, im 19 and i was never invested in any of this shit but since the internet is inescapable almost, it started destroying my mind since 2 years ago, its people like you and kurtis finally talking bout stuff that i actually think is right and it feels good to hear it from someone else, just thanks man
I'm 19 and never got into this shit. Social media just makes shit blow tf up when people that go outside don't really give a damn, im not undermining what you went threw whatsoever hope that you got out of it. Stay of the social media or just avoided those things in general and keep the mental always in check
I love Kurtis! My self esteem was destroyed by instagram. The best thing you can do is delete social media, either permanently or for a month or two. Deleting that shit genuinely improved my mood. Also, no one cares about how you look as much as you do. Don’t beat yourself up over things you have no control over, just be a good person and that shines through.
@@ronel7836no you’re absolutely correct, just go outside, hang out with older people or those who aren’t internet brain raddled idiots and you’ll see how dope life can be lmfaoo.
Dog, please get on a program to help with your grammar, shits not cute to be 19 typing like that. And I mean this in the nicest way possible. If that’s how you write on paper shits gonna be rough for you, and seeing as most paperwork’s done digitally even typing is important. School failed you, don’t fail yourself
The truth is, so long as you maintain at least decent hygiene, and try to be a half-decent person, you'll be just fine. Don't sweat the small stuff, as it's unlikely that your partner will even care, and if for some reason they were to care about something minor or that makes you feel uncomfortable, then they aren't for you. Just be yourself, whatever that looks like, and you'll attract someone who is down with that.
This serves as an important reminder to all of us that happiness cannot be achieved through physical perfection. Self-acceptance and personal development should be the priority.
I absolutely agree. Charlie said, "You need to play with the cards your dealt." That's good advice imo. Learning how to deal with your insecurities and except who you are instead of trying to change yourself sounds really healthy. I wish a lot of other communities (who may or may not be receiving special treatment in our society rn) would listen to it. It makes me wonder if Charlie would be logically consistent with that advice for everyone.
@@StephenP93 that's true. But it's because they're not constantly thinking so negatively about their bodies, that they can focus more on doing things that make them happy, not necessarily because the nice body = happiness.
I told my brother to keep on mewing so he will shut the f*ck up. Love how he's so oblivious to the fact that mewing has no scientific backing for it, as your jaw genetics can't be changed without surgery.
It is not. Unfortunately Looksmaxx reached the normies and now everyone knows about it. It is taken seriously by a lot of people, I have literally hit my face with a hammer, used fluoride to whiten my teeth and took the most dangerous pills in order to look better.
In a world where guys nowadays are growing up with social media and online dating it is not surprising many come away with the idea that looks are everything.
as someone who is unfortunately growing up with this stuff, i wish we could have a more anonymous internet again, instead of focusing on people and looks.
They came up with that idea because that’s what they are seeing and experiencing. It’s not like it’s not what’s actually happening and they made it up out of thin air
Don't need social media to tell you looks are everything. Go outside and and notice the different people and how they get treated. Watch how a good looking tall dude goes to buy something and notice the smile and attitude from the worker at the register. Go to the clubs and notice how every woman eyes lay on the good looking dude. Look at the good looking people with criminal records and the time they serve compared to ugly people. Looks really do determine your life... they've been getting compliments since they were a kid, high school and as an adult, and generally loved by everyone. These people just cruise by life on easy mode because they get the opportunities to much easier. There is no coping about dressing nicely, having a nice car, smelling really good or even putting on this superficial act of "personality" or "confidence". They already gained the natural confidence and personality from how they've been treated and have natural charisma too. It's all they have to get a girlfriend and even that is not needed.
I was deeply insecure as a kid especially in my teens. I had glasses, braces, and terrible acne. I would have 100% hurt myself with this type of shit. I feel so bad for people that are viewing this pile of shit instead of doing actually healthy things.
Looksmaxxing did help me overcome a couple hurdles , 2 years ago (18 y/o) I was overweight , not the best dressed(even though I can put clothes together i never gave it actual effort before , I would be outside in like a blue shirt and green pants) hygiene wasn't on the top of my list - even though I always tried to make sure i do it everyday I didn't have a set routine I would do and stick to. Fast forward 2 years , i'm in the best shape i ever been in my life , my skin is clear - I discovered i have a really good jawline and I feel great. I think the early adaptations of looksmaxxing is helpful and the basic habits they show would improve your life if you implement them in your routine. I think all these 'sub categories' in looksmaxing 2024 is what is doing harm and not really all that good. If you just use the very basics they say it's very hard for it to be a negative in your life.
@shikoroken9881 I mean if it takes a trend to get healthy then props but all the basic stuff is very basic things to be healthy and called "looksmaxing" and that barely scratches the surface. The subreddit is full of girls insecure about their looks asking what they can do to not be a 4/10. The community is 90% toxic and that's too much.
@@shikoroken9881 you decided to take care of yourself and that's great man! Seriously, as someone who is also trying to lose weight. But, I think this trend is doing more harm than good by encouraging people to micro-manage their bodies and sending them straight down to body dysmorphia town. Self-care is important but a lot of looksmaxxing is stupid, wrong or plain dangerous.
@@SuperLycan13 True , I guess it kinda depends on who you are before you first started looking into looksmaxxing. I, myself have never talked to anyone about looks maxing before online or in person i'm not a part of any communities.The closest I am to a looksmaxxing community is when im at the gym. I haven't even came across any 'looksmaxxing' content in over a year. But looks maxing isn't just about getting in shape - I think it's about doing other things in synchronicity while getting healthier. But "looksmaxxing" isn't a real term, so anyone from the internet can butt in and say "no it actually means this" and add on some BS that is a stretch or maybe something that isn't really all that necessary like the "d*ck pulling" theory . But i think if you're a person that's prone to going down rabbit holes you probably shouldn't look at this stuff maybe , same way with gambling or drugs. You should look at this and be able to find a balance in your life
@@SuperLycan13 I wrote a decent sized reply, unfortunately youtube bugged and didn't send it. I don't feel like re writing my response but thanks for getting back to me .
I completely stopped using all social media platforms last year and try really hard to avoid UA-cam shorts. I feel blessed I only see this stuff through videos covering the topic instead of it being shoved down my throat when I scroll apps all day. No social media does leaps and bounds for your mental health and more people need to jump ship
@@jessbellis9510 i agree youtube search is completely utterly broken to the point where when i look at analytics in my videos the search queries are completely unrelated alongside when trying to look stuff up for troubleshooting
I'm glad other people feel this way, I left my remaining social media in 2022 and my life has been infinitely better. I use revanced UA-cam to turn off shorts. I don't constantly compare myself to others anymore, it's great. I also only find out about this shit through videos like this and it's like getting punched through 3 pillows instead of taking the gut punch directly.
Imagine there are people walking around in punling, near us, constantly streaching their shlorp back and forth. Their thought processes have to be different
You weren't born with genetic defects like we were- ugly and small dick makes you want to die..and I've been looking for any solution, but they don't exist- everyday is a fight not to kill myself.
Is the appropriate response to remain insecure or to change. Not in the size aspect but other areas such as your face which is the main focus of looksmaxxing
its crazy because when a few years ago when ig models were a huge discussion i remember all the adults around me always said the things on the internet arent real and only show the best aspects of people, and here we are with looksmaxxing now just destroying the minds of young people. its so sad because it really did come full circle with people now accepting the things on internet as the guide to become the best version of themselves when in reality its not something anyone really cares about or notices.
@@hamad4121 not sure how the halo effect applies there. what u quoted was me referring to the people that a victim of looksmaxxing is trying to impress by following the elite regimen. im sure that effect comes into play heavy between the victims and the creators putting out that content tho
@@cyrusthe0ther795 i mean sure, but the hyperfixation on looks in the modern era is out of control. most people who do this "looksmaxxing" stuff don't even need it in the first place and are falling victim to con artists. everyone has their own unique characteristics that appeal to others and looks certainly aren't everything either way
@@hamad4121he's probably experiencing the halo effect which is why he is so ignorant lol. People who don't have problems with looks are just blissfully unaware of how the world treats you when you don't fit in the accepted range of good looking
It sucks, a lot, but at the same time, its so interesting to me how, originally, it was maunly young women being sewn with self soubt and self hatred by unreasonable standards set online, and now its mainly young men. Not saying its not affecting/ happening to young women anymore, just that its interesting how its shifted to primarily being a young men thing instead of young women thing now.
@@livebackwards I don’t have it. Haven’t since high school. I’m much happier that way. I don’t need others to validate anything, and I don’t want anyone knowing what I’m doing except the people I let know. Privacy is peace
People going this far to change a part of their body, and the worst part is that its glorified as some trendy thing that people could join, like being part of some club.
As a woman its insane to me that the people partaking in this are going this far just to change a part of their body that you cant change with ANY equipment. I feel like at that rate they should just go and get an enlargement surgery if they care that much because all this will just ruin them. When i started waist training (i only wore it for 8 hours combined the whole time ive had it, ive never had it on more than 2 hours) it ruined the way my stomach looked, it pushed my organs more towards the center. Its the same for when young kids start using skincare products other than certain cleansers and sunscreen, they ruin their skin when they didnt need all that back then and regret it when they are no longer brainwashed into the consumerist beauty industry. Moral of the this comment, if you do things like this you may ruin your body when you were better before.
Imagine explaining to someone from the 17th century that in the future there will be guys speaking with stars in their eyes about some other man who is "the GOAT of the old 'money-shot'".
imagine explaining to them that people will spend hundreds of dollars (which will be even more dramatic because of inflation) for devices that stretch their ween thinking it will attract more women while they neglect everything else about themselves and their behavior
Imagine explaining to them that there’s a surgery that breaks your bones, keeps them broken, inserts a rod, and stretches the leg over a long period of time just to achieve a couple of inches.
@@iMogggYouuuwell I know when I go from skinny to muscular I can see that I can lift, push/pull, am faster, etc. Also doesn’t give the impression that you can easily push someone around because they look weak, a lot more people don’t try to mess with you to gain whatever they please from you.
Well, I'm sure it must be horrifically difficult for these types of people to live with themselves as they are. I mean, if they were successful and happy, they wouldn't be doing this stuff. When it comes to having "inferior genetics" that you can't change, finding reasons to live probably isn't easy.
A lot of dating is eugenics. Don't fit certain beauty standards? You're not gonna really get anyone. Also people's reactions to snakes, spiders, and sharks are all extreme examples of the beauty standards and ugly bias. How many people kill spiders because they look creepy? Cows kill more people than sharks every year but most people are way more scared of sharks.
This is ridiculous as a woman I've never walked away from someone for any of the things these bozos are so worried about.. honestly like Charlie said good hygiene goes a long way none of these other things should be taken to this extreme 🤡
It just goes to show how much porn has negatively affected people. For women, they feel that they need to have unrealistic body proportions to be deemed attractive and for men they feel that they need to have a monster penis to pleasure a woman. In fact, porn has made the impression that a big penis is destined to make a woman orgasm - but as a matter of fact, most women don't even finish from penetration, so when a guy can't make a woman orgasm from penetration and unrealistically writhe in pleasure they get insecure and end up thinking their size is inadequate when that's just not always the case. People are experiencing things through a screen and taking it for granted which is sad to watch.
Cult is the perfect way to put it, especially if you've ever tried talking to someone down this rabbithole. The idea that a normal person can find love is alien in that version of reality. Glad you talked on this, more pushback is needed.
I know that normal people can find love, but that doesn't mean they necessarily will. It is undeniably harder to date nowadays as a man than ever before, especially if you're average or below average. I agree that having a good personality and being neurotypical still matter a lot, but looks are definitely the driving force for many relationships nowadays, sadly.
It's not any better for women in the age of insta thots and only fans. men might lose money on dates but according to men women's human "value" goes down permanently by associating with men so who has the worse deal@@AM-cm2kj
Your thoughts are so true. This looksmaxxing stuff can be super harmful. Especially with the rest of the philosophy of hopelessness that comes along with much of it. I really believed it all so much at one point
Its not hopelessness its simply knowing when to give up. You see it as hopelessness because you're too emotional.sometimes you will never be desired by another human being sexually and because of your looks some social interactions will be forbidden to you or unattainable no matter how hard you work. Even in body building competitions it is determined soley by genetics, same with sports and other areas of life.
@@DestroAzureDxI somewhat agree. I think it promotes hopelessness in general rather than with giving up on prospects with a particular person. Giving up in such a general way is not good. Yes genetics matter but I think its overemphasized in this sphere. Why give up when there is still a chance?
@@uraninite8151 because trying hurts more than giving up. Its like a life or death surgery. If anything these videos promote the fact that how your life ends up the lack of interest from people due to genetics, that it isnt your fault. Once you've looksmaxxed thats it you've done all you can. Women make exceptions and break thier own rules for men they find attractive if none to maybe 2% of the women you encounter find you attractive physically then we need to stop telling people "oh work on your shit personality" "work on your hygiene" "hit the gym". We have people work so hard thinking theyre the problem just for them to get dumped, left, cheated on, or replaced. Sometimes how your life pans out isnt your fucking fault.
@@DestroAzureDx society creates inequality and beauty standards, nature doesn't. And we should stop this but here we are embracing it far more than ever
Pls talk about the youtuber ACID. He is a Belgian youtuber that exposed a rich group of rapist and murderers. The victims never got any justice. Now the group sued the UA-camr ACID for defamation and he got a fine of 20. 000 euro and some time in jail. Pls talk about this injustice!
Technically that is what it is but like... Don't bother, it just makes you feel insecure about yourself and that you are never enough Best you can do without looking like a complete idiot is get fit and get a better haircut or something
It is, Charlie is Normiecel pretending he is not. I will come back when he sees this comment and then really go through the looksmaxxing rabbit hole and make a video about it
Your commentary is so down to earth. I'm not surprised this fixation exists, honestly. P*rnography has really reprogrammed a lot of people's minds and what they think is desirable. Insecurities abound.
Absolutely. As a women, I honestly tell you p*n with huge wangs hitting it harder than a Jack hammer is actually pretty gross/boring/looks painful. I hardly watch that kind of content. It’s not what we want to see because it doesn’t look slightly pleasurable. Imagine if porn consisted of a woman slapping a man’s meat really hard with her fist shaped v-jj while he screamed with tears in his eyes that it feels great! That’s what majority of p*n is to us 😂
You can tell what is desirable by seeing what is successful and popular. The issue is much more fundamental than just recent societal changes. It's not porn, it's literally human nature. The human condition dictates that we judge each other and select for attractive traits. Nobody is above that, no matter how hard they try.
Porn is cope. What's actually happening is nature following its natural course. Women naturally become pickier and pickier as life is easier for them. Even female mice follow the same patterns in experiments. Most men aren't going to reproduce.
For sure bro, it is sad---I hope to expose the pom industry sometime this year as well as show everyone how pom kills love within the individual, within relationships, and within society. The great awakening is upon us.
@TheRealestTiller The great awakening, if you think the great awakening is coming now you will probably have a heart attack in your sleep in the early 1900s
The best piece of advice I have ever heard similar to this is something along the lines of "none of those 3rd member growers or extenders work, because if they did they would be everywhere and literally everyone would be using them" A kinda similar thing happened with diet pills, most people knew they were a scam and wouldn't take them, but once Ozempic came around literally everyone was using it because it actually worked (you shouldnt actually take it to lose weight, but its a good example of this case) If the same thing existed for growing your 3rd member the same thing would happen, but it never has, ie meaning none of them actual work lmao
There’s actual testimonials including myself, however the ROI is extremelllly bad, I wore it for 4 months 30 hours a week during Covid and actually did gain 1 cm, with tons of before and after so it’s not just angles. You have to socially cripple yourself, but since it was Covid I took advantage of
I’ve been doing penis enlargement for 10 years now, 7 days a week, 12 hours a day, even while sleeping. I have a 3 hour manual routine, in combo with stretching, upward power jelqing, table kegel stretches X 3 rounds. Then I wear the penis stretcher as long as possible, until my tip feels numb, my penis head has blisters and it hurts. So to help it heal I wear a tight elastic tube to compress the penis tissue with a cock ring, keeps it extended and full of blood, and forces outward pressure. 7 days a week, I’ve gained 2.25 inches in length, permanently, and 1.5 inches in girth. I have a massive hog now, but I won’t quit until I hit 13 inches by 9 around. Then I can die happy
I'm glad videos like this exist. The internet is really a lot about making people feel worthless and miserable these days.. Just so they become easy victims of the consumer trap of buying worthless products
Hearing a fellow short king say that my mediocre wiener is, in fact, valid and acceptable is exactly what I needed to hear. Thx brother ✊ this is true body positivity
Having a big one isn't all that great, gets in the way random boners from walking & rubbing against the thigh...joggers are hard to wear really jeans are the only thing I can wear without them knowing I'm hogging
Idk if you're into ladies, but if you are I can assure you that, as a woman, the vast majority of us are not fixated on penis size and shape despite many people online seeming to think we are
6:20 It really is crazy just how much stuff there is online about taking advantage of people's underlying insecurities or personal biases or human psychology.
@@t-bonetyrone I guess, but if you are genuinely good at making online content, you probably don't have to do those things very much, if ever. A bit of clickbait or promoting your product is one thing, but you probably aren't very skilled at making content if this is what you rely on to do well. Look at Charlie (Penguinz0), he doesn't really take advantage of underlying insecurities or personal biases or human psychology. Also, it can come back to bite you when people figure out that you took advantage of them.
Why wouldn't the internet be a valid place to ask? Are you and I not real human beings communicating right now? You have the ability to reach are much larger audience online than you ever could in person. People online are more likely to give you more honest feedback due to anonymity. Your grandmother is obviously going to call you handsome to spare your feelings.
@adamg6711 yeah go to ask anonymous people online that are just gonna tell you to ropesmax. Ive seen more people get mobbed on r/looksmaxxing than receive helpful feedback
@@wrathofthelamb318Nah, people on the internet are sincere. Stop coping, you were called ugly on the internet bc you are, not because “people are mean”
Anyone who is into looksmaxxing is deeply insecure and craves attention and validation from other people simply for their looks which will be their downfall because living life thinking looks are the most important thing will stop you from achieving anything.
It wont. If you were better looking you'd get attention from women, make friends easier, have people want to actually be seen with you in public at settings like clubs, bars etc. You would inherently have more confidence if you were born with the right looks.
@@DestroAzureDx So? Are you gonna cry about it? Life is unfair boo hoo womp womp. You know what, because looks matter so much, if you aren't a perfect 10/10 model just give up, waste your life away and accept that you'll never amount to anything, make sure to also go on forums and cry and seethe all day about how looks matter to other random people online and to those who don't care just say they are coping, that'll surely get them.
@@DestroAzureDx I'm not lying, I'm telling you that with my life experience I've noticed that the most social people I've seen and those who have accomplished the most are not model looking, they just have charisma which is something you don't get with looks alone. And btw no, tiktoks, tinder experiments, articles on things like halo effect and people's comments online you've seen don't count as real life experience. Who tf are you to say you can't get things in life with enough effort? You are neither wise enough nor figured out life to be making such assumptions for other people with entirely different lives and circumstances you know nothing about, nobody is. You can't succeed and accomplish your goals without effort, it's a fact. The more effort, the higher the chances. You haven't failed as long as you haven't given up trying.
@@DestroAzureDx I see you replying to other comments in favour of this 'Looksmaxxing'. And either you are sincerely depressed as a grown-up, or just not hit your twenties yet. If you really think that everything is based on looks, you have absolutely fallen into a deep black hole, and will probably never get anything done based on 'effort', since you should 'just give up', because you didn't meet the quota of looking like Brad Pitt. What a waste of years and time thinking about stuff like this. You also state that having 'confidence' is equal to your looks, which is just untrue. People who only cares about their looks (good looking or not), will always end up drawing parallels between their self-worth and their looks. Which at the end of the day only comes from validation from other people, wether you look good or not.
I looked at mewing like 5-6 years ago and found a Reddit post talking about getting body dysmorphia from the whole thing. I thought to myself how could this be possible and that it could never happen to me. Never joined forums or anything like that. I just read Reddit posts and saw some videos about it for a couple of months. 6 years later I have severe body dysmorphia. I can’t go outside or near people without trying to get a better angle of how people view my face and other stupid things like this. I know people don’t know I do this but it’s fucking me everyday of my life now and I can’t stop it.
@dirkorwhat im so sorry you're going through that. mewing almost did that to me. Ik it can be difficult but really try a therapist. They could help you. Otherwise, maybe some exposure type therapies.
Seeking perfection is a manifestation of insecurity. Surface level of advice is good like taking care of your body but going deeper in this abyss is just sad. I am average at best overall but that doesn’t stop me from living life and getting happiness in other ways. The sooner you accept that you can’t have everything you want, the faster you seek things that benefit you.
Is gooning as bad as this? I mean his main problem with this is that these people are preying on the average joe's insecurities, but gooning is just advanced porn addiction, isnt it?
What i mean by "as bad as this" is not that porn addiction is fine or whatever, i mean that there isnt one influencer or corporation trying to bait you into it, as opposed to that youtuber for example
@@Flexy59it’s a self aware pr0n addiction mixed with 5x the brainrot. they have hypnosis vids, goon caves, subreddits, weird sensory videos, and etc. i’m NOT into this sht, im warning you into exactly what ur getting into. it’s so disgusting and sad for the most part, i hate it. i wish it didn’t exist and i hope gooners get the help they need 😢
If I'm not "enough" for someone then that someone is not the right person for me. I'm fine with people wanting to get overall better but there are limits to it
Exactly. My ex husband told me "you'll never be the person I want you to be". And he was right, I never wanted to be the person he tried to make me become. So win win!
I wish this comment were higher or pinned or something. A lot of men, especially young men, think the "right woman" is any woman they can convince to have them. That never works. We should all be striving every day to be the best version of ourselves. But if you have to change everything about yourself in order for someone to want you, then they are just not the right person for you and THAT'S OK.
A lot of my classmates in high-school. (Freshmen) are always casually dropping look maxing terminology. I only learned about it from them. It started happening a lot a few weeks ago. It's concerning to say the least.
Looksmaxxing, outside of being sold to people so they'll buy a ton of products to look better, also has other aspects of it that involves giving yourself a eating disorder and purposely staying dehydrated for days at a time to appear leaner, which, love or hate it, isn't very healthy long term and usually isn't even for people who are overweight/obese, it's usually just normal people with average BMIs, starving themselves to be skinnier fast and not drinking water because of water weight and how water makes your muscles look.
@@FreakiestNote77Yes, but it’s pretty common in the bodybuilding community to eat a ton of carbs & sodium to draw in as much water as possible into the muscles. Combine this with drinking next to no water, and all the water from your skin will go into the muscles, not only making them look better, but basically shrink-wrapping your skin across your body, making you appear bigger & leaner. Ofc this is only done for a few days max prior to a show & is also done by people VERY low in body fat
I'm depressed enough having to deal with maintaining my tiny yet cavernous apartment without looking into the mirror everyday and not liking what I see. This is almost enough to send me over the edge.
Well Fix your ugly perspective on yourself because it spills and reflects how you look and judge others. Value different things, humble yourself to enjoy appearance as an added bonus, because that's all it is. You're valuable because of who you are and what you do, you are not valued because of your reflected light to random peoples eyes expelling your appearance unless you are some model showcasing clothes, in which case, your appearance has a function. Remember all your answers rely in actions and functions to get out of depression. Have a good day.
My grandma tells me I'm heightmaxxing every time I see her.
Lmfao
Based.
tell her shes agemaxxing
@@z3v..💀💀💀💀💀
We are all agemaxxing, comrade
I’ve been peemaxxing and poomaxxing since 2020 and it’s changed my life for the better. No more little dribbles or pellets. I’m a changed man.
Did you fail No Defecation December?
tell me your secrets
Now that's a worthwhile ambition. No joke gut health has a massive impact on everything. I swear by a brand of probiotics called BioKult, because it has 17 different strains, modified to survive stomach acids so they actually make it to the colon. Good stuff.
Teach us Master how to shit bricks and piss streams of river!
Grant us your knowledge, O' Chosen One!!
Can you even call yourself a man, if you don't shit ten courics every day?
"Something i did when i was young, stupid, and desperate". bro, the pain i can feel in his voice is real
You can hear the disappointment in his voice
The worst thing about being short is that you are basically forced to clownmaxx all the time in order to not seem insecure. Like even Charlie who is famous and good looking has to basically roast himself to seem cool.
@@ponternali dont think he has to do it. you can accept your height while roasting it at the same time, does not mean thats the only solution though.
@@johnsm7thnah the guy has a point. When ever something happens that involves a guy, height shaming is the first thing to happen. 😅
@@ponternalchronically online
When I was 12 my biggest worry was getting diamond camo on Black Ops 2, now 12 year olds are stressing about their skin care routine.
That’s great tbh. Way better than spending time gaming.
@@lilnigga-qh7kdEhh, not really something you should be stressing about in your free time. Caring about it is one thing but stressing is mad at that age.
@@broskibrobro1278 they will look better than you do at your age, lil bro
@@lilnigga-qh7kd I’m still a kid so I guess I don’t really care man. Stress ain’t good for your hormones anyway. Which certainly won’t help your skin. I’m not saying you should neglect skincare, just don’t stress too much.
@@broskibrobro1278 Stop yapping. Start mewing.
Capitalizing on people's insecurities has always been the staple of evil cults
Or just human history
🤫🧏♂️
@@nynvib276 but more specific. Cult
But are they really that evil? Especially in this case, these people are doing it to themselves.
Why did that one guy look like the perverted PUA scammer version of Coffeezilla
Imagine wearing that stretcher thing, getting into a car accident, and having to explain why the f you would do this to yourself to the doctors and paramedics
Unironically this is a good way to know if you should do something. View what it is you're saying/doing, and think would I do this to another person
@@hi-ld4gg yes
Tbh if you got into a car accident, you got bigger things to worry about, pun intended
Especially considering it doesnt work.
@@totallynotmodsan7627where’s the pun?
Invent a problem, then sell the solution.
The idea that looks are extremely important to getting sex or having a relationship is not a made up problem.
@@cloud656
You're acting like looks are literally everything. All you gotta do to get sex is to just get a prostitute. If you don't want sex just for sex, then looks definitely don't matter. If people are attracted to blisters, then someone is attracted to you
honestly not a bad way to make money if the problem is real
This wasn't a scam until it was popularized
This wasn't a scam until it was popularized
Why don’t we call it what it is: Body Dysmorphia
Because only women can have that according to our soceity
@@pharisaeus6493 you’re stupid thinking that it only applies to women because of “society” I can already tell what type of person you are by your statement lol.
Exactly
not me tho I am objectively ugly
It's based dysmorphia
Sleep, exercise, eat healthier, have good hygiene and dress properly. If you can get this down, that’s all you need, it’s not that complicated
Here before some incel tells us about how terrible it is being 5”11 and ugly
@OfficerVuuduu No
and genetics. there is no way to stop my genetic acne, but i got good hair geneticly.
i'm a semi professional athlete, in great shape with proper hygeine, though I don't look very good and I'm not tall. I've never dated anyone, so tell me what am I doing wrong?
@OfficerVuuduu🎉🎉
One problem I have atm with lookmaxing is the stigma it brings to men who just want to have good hygiene and look nice. Mewing and jelquing are stupid but moisturizing, working out, and taking vitamins while also trying to improve your wardrobe should be advocated for. Like I have gotten way more success with women just by growing out my hair and wearing nice clothes that fit me well.
Mewing is just tongue posture. It won't change the size of a recessed mandible, but it will help with repositioning the mandible to make it appear less like that of a mouth breather. It also helps strengthen the hyoid bone, which makes the jaw look smaller if the bone is too low. It has helped me look a bit better, so I think it's worth learning, especially since it's not dangerous.
My orthodontist told me propor tongue posture is very important actually
Mewing wont do anything more after 15 yearsvthan after 3 seconds, good for pics sure
@@ladrovilLOL
For the mewing, people said to just lose weight....
Charlie looksmaxxed into the abyss and it looksmaxxed back
Criminally underrated
Good ass comment
This comment is peak fiction
Hilarious
bros rantmaxxing
for real, how can he be bothered by so many things? seems pathetic
@@PowerfulKundalinihe’s not pathetic, don’t insult Charlie
@@PouLimitedCharlie is doing juuuuust fine. Sitting on millions and surrounded by good people. Can’t ask for much more.
@@PowerfulKundalinicry about it
some truth
Body dysmorphia is running wild
well when guys get roasted and told by the whole world that they need to do better what exactly did you expect lol. Highly doubt any of you have reached out to men to try to help them and instead of offering solutions people prefer to once again mock men so good luck or whatever
Especially in that one way that if you point it out, people will kick you in the balls
@@MBab-r8eThe overwhelming majority of this comes from comments from other guys, not even talking about those creepy looksmaxxing echo chambers which are entirely guys. Just in general, I see way more men insulting other men for their looks/physique than women, let’s not delude ourselves and deflect the blame for pity points here
@@MBab-r8e This mindset of "you don't really believe something if you're not doing something about it" is goofy asf. Like, I'm against murder but I don't patrol the streets at night looking for murderers to stop. In the same way I'm against body shaming but don't scour every comments section for it because I have other stuff to do. Not everyone can be a sign-wielding street-marching activist. The best I can do is refuse to partake in it myself and call it out when I see it, but I don't have the time or patience to go looking for it.
I don't think that's new, though
Nothing like people making the younger generation think everything is wrong with them. This is absolutely insane.
Edit: let me get this straight, there is nothing wrong with the newer generations, it's the people who are manipulating them for fun/money. What's important is that we expose everything wrong with this trend not children themselves.
my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
Charlie is so right about how confusing it must be to grow up with the type of social media influences that are everywhere now. I realized this when my 9 year old son started talking about _"how tough it is at school when you're a single guy like he is."_ And proceeded to tell me his gameplan to change his relationship status as quickly as possible. 😳
These next few years are gonna be very long years, I'm afraid 🤦♀️😂
I'm kind of scared that even If I control the time and content my child looks on the internet other kids will fill his mind with this kind of bullshit. Is there a solution?
@@deilancelamid like to know too
Move to a cabin in the woods and become self sufficient
The funny thing about this is that women have been growing up that way since the Inception of media and Charlie somehow thinks this is a new thing
Yeah, that’s horrible. Also casually reinforces a highly damaging view of heteronormativity where “all guys want x” is repeated infinitely with no space at all for possibly wanting anything else.
The fact that nobody talks about the book Ultimate Looksmax Optimization Blueprint speaks volumes about how people are stuck in their life
2.3K and no comment WTF????
Scams based on insecurities like this have to be some of the hardest to stop. It’s a lot harder to convince someone they’re being scammed when they have no self esteem. I’m sure some of these guys have tried everything there is to try like the commenter you highlighted said. A lot of these channels are probably many of their viewers’ last resorts.
It’s also makes them particularly egregious, because if someone genuinely believes this then they’re already very deep into it.
🤫🤔
this
thish😅
Not to mention the pipeline it provides into the Manosphere rabbit hole
L take, no hunter eyes, negative cantil tilt, jelkless, hiding jawline (i miss my dad)
no wonder you miss your dad, he’s gone because you weren’t looks maxing hard enough 🤫🧏
@OfficerVuuduu Ok I won't
@OfficerVuuduudon’t worry, i won’t.
I miss your dad too
@OfficerVuuduudon’t translate
अणकार करचो न्हय
happinessmaxxing rn
me too haha
real!!
yeah that the most important
@Mew2Win true unfaltering happinessmaxxing, lovemaxxinng, understandingmaxxing, positivitymaxxing.
@@theboi1427reminds me of healthygamer gg.
Or should I say, “unhealthy gasIighter gg”
A quote you should $£@%#
This is the result of a generation who was exposed to pornographic content before they experience their first crush.
Real:(
It’s just gonna get worse
That’s rough
the result of women, on average, declining 80% of men just for their looks
Charlie’s closet is like that one SpongeBob episode where it’s just filled with hundreds of duplicate versions of the same outfit
my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
Honestly it's nice dressing the same every day, makes deciding a lot easier
"looksmaxxing" aka making body dysmorphia your whole personality
Don't hate on the victims, most of the time it's not their fault
@@moodlethenoodle misogynists have been making jokes about women's body issues and eating disorders for generations, and now some of these misogynists are developing those same issues and rather than listen to a single piece of advice from women they're out here stretching out their dick so they can gloat to their equally misogynistic friends (cuz we know it's not helping them get laid). I honestly do have sympathy for people struggling with body image issues but these looksmaxxing communities go well beyond innocent insecurity into deeply spiteful and hateful mindsets that end up hurting themselves and others. Yeah the joke isn't in the best of taste but I don't feel bad about it
No, some people are just using the term wrong
@@moodlethenoodleif they're adults, they should at least try to think about it with a level head 💀
Never looked at it like this, you are 100% correct tho
“Dumping DNA by the gallon” wasn’t on my bingo sheet this week.
Lmao yea me too
B INGOOOOOOO!!! wheres my scratch card?
You should also talk about mewing, bonesmashing and the obsession with perfect facial features; will basically looksmaxing core in general
Well mewing is really just proper tongue posture and has actually does help with proper breathing but I can see how bonesmashing would be actually harmful
All because of women’s dating preferences and standards. Most men are gonna die alone because women’s standards are absolutely ridiculous. If everyone is an incel then nobody is.
I want to know who the fahck came up with the term "mewing"... like that's a noise you make when you're either trying to sound like a cat, or you're making fun of someone by making an annoying noise, at least that's what it's always been for me, so it doesn't make sense to have that be a thing
@@TheRaven-WingGamingIt’s named after the guy who invented it. It’s proper tongue posture that’s good for face shape and breathing it’s a legitimately good thing that everyone should be doing
@@TheRaven-WingGamingwhen ppl discover that words can have different meanings and evolve over time 🤯🤯🤯
Mewed to this entire video and so did my infant son. His forward canthal tilt is improving.
BYE BYE 👋
@OfficerVuuduuif my heart doesn't stop beating I'm sueing you for false advertising.
lol
I used to be in the r/self-improvement Reddit sub.
Because so so SOOO MANY men complain that they don’t have a girlfriend even though they earn money, looks good, is tall, good career etc etc.
They don’t realize that even if they do have a girlfriend. It doesn’t solve all their problems.
I agree with you but I can’t blame them because everyone wants a partner no one likes being alone and tbf they prob feel like they did everything right and are sad that they don’t get the karma from all that hard work.
People overestimate their own qualities. So if a guy is saying he's attractive that may not be true.
If you really are attractive you'd get attention or receive matches on a dating app, results speak for themselves
Those things also aren't the most important. Like someone could have all those attributes, but that's doesn't mean you'll make any sort of meaningful connection with them.
@@gooodmorning4526 They're important for the initial spark, you're also not making that connection if someone doesn't find you attractive in the first place
@@uwotm8634 I get matches, money and opportunity is the problem. Toronto has robbed rob of all wealth. Wait wtf type of video is this lmao
I’ve found that the best lengthening method (for me) is tying a string between my upper-mid shaft and a doorknob and slamming the door with all the strength I can muster.
i just cringed so hard that i think i might’ve pulled something
The ol' Dentist's trick.
ROFL
Yeah, that'll do something all right!
(Dear Reader, please don't door-yank your dong off)
Congratulations, you just made every male in this comment sections balls tingle
@@samm4158He’s clearly joking
I thought looksmaxxing was just people working out and having a good skincare routine but damn didn't realize there was more to this
Lowkey I only do skincare everything else is just fucked
The rest of this is just jokes, people who take the weird part seriously are iust dumb
working out aint fucked@@Fukskullemoji
@@Fukskullemojihow is lifting weights fucked
I only do good skin care and workout part of looksmaxxing
I have 4 sons and while I talk to them about these things I just want to say thanks for adding a second voice as I know they all watch your channel and it's good for them to hear how crazy some of these people are from someone besides their dad.
Charlie has a healthy view on a lot of subjects, he’s a great UA-camr!
based
Marb is a fucking legend
Marb is the dad every man should aspire to be
It's honestly really good to hear that you talk about this kind of stuff with ur kids - I think there's so much anxiety and so many misconceptions which could be fixed by some honesty and transparency. It's something I hope to be open about in the future if I have any kids too
I'd hate to get super personal, but I really appreciate your coverage on this topic, and it's comforting to hear someone speak about it as a person who has been affected by this type of content.
I am 17 currently, and still struggle with my self image/confidence and have frequent episodes of body dysmorphia because of the content that I had been exposed to at a young age, and the constant negativity being spread on the internet about my body.
I remember being only 11 or 12 years old, and coming across these videos and posts on UA-cam and across various other social media platforms that would say things like "You have to have an above average penis to find love" and "you have to be incredibly fit in order to be found attractive, you have to be 6 feet tall, if you do not do so-and-so to make you look a certain way then you'll be lonely" etc.
Everywhere I would go, I would just see this constant misinformation, and others seeing it made them believe that it was fact too. I remember being in 7th grade and hearing students around me too, and all of that really affected me and made me hate my body and convinced me that unless my body was a certain way, then nobody would take interest in me. And being socially awkward and having difficulty making friends really added to the whole thing.
I would never hear anything positive.
It really pisses me off looking back on it just how much this stuff is blatantly targeted towards the younger generations and just how easily accessible it is. Nobody should have to have to ever experience what I, as well as many others, have felt about ourselves because of the messages being spread in the content you see online.
Although I have since gotten a little better, I still have periodic doubts about myself, but seeing you speak out against it really comforts me.
Thank you, Charlie.
(Hope I said everything right and didn't overshare too much.)
(Also, thank you all for the supportive comments! I really appreciate it.)
I ain’t reading all that💀
The blackpill will collect, always boyo.
This is what I don’t understand all these dudes obbsesing over height in year 7 like bro I didn’t know my height till 9th grade nor did I ever think about it
@@devaxionrl8189 cringe incel
you don't gotta say that every time you see a post that contains more than 4 lines of text mf you illiterate @@BiasIcewing
Best thing for confidence about my appearance I ever did was start lifting weights... Very quickly I stopped caring about what other people thought and cared more about improving myself for myself.
Noticing heavy objects becoming easy to carry is actually really fulfilling and if someone compliments you then that's just a nice bonus
Absolutely this. If you seek to change yourself, do it for yourself. Basing your happiness on how other people percieve you is a fraught proposition.
the loser with muscle strat. yee it work in some ways if you don't go to extreme
Healthy attitude right there
@@ewrwrasggre4151 saying "loser with muscle strat" is part of the insecurity problem right there. The only person who can label you a loser is yourself.
That's what I'm hoping for! I'm not a dude but I've been craving a gym membership for so long. I avoided it for the longest time due to anxiety and feeling bad about my looks/afraid of being perceived.
I've only been there for 2 days (started yesterday/finished today's training a while ago) and I feel so much better already!! Everyone's just minding their own business anyway. My body just hurts a lot, but I do feel a lot more human.
He hasn't actually found the dark corners of looksmaxing yet
Oh boy, is he in for a run.
And btw, now ik how much he exaggerates in his vids bc he said here he is now a veteran in looksmaxxing iceberg when he is still on the surface lvl of it
@@iMogggYouuubetter for him that He dont find the weard biggest incels loser
Elaborate?
@@KillerSkullX the part where people are race obsessed wanting to either look more white or ethnic and think race effects everything, or effects what type of personality you're allowed to get away with. The part where they order research chems to force their facial bones to grow in combination with repetitive low force impacts to incduce microfractures for repair and growth,and where they memorized the names of every male model and can explain in excruciating details everything about their facial symmetries. And then the incel rants and raves such as having nightmares of their high school crushes crawling out from a lake of seeemaan looking like the girl from the ring, pulling them in, and that lake of seeemaan is all from their high school bullies who were good looking unlike themselves..... I wish I was making up the last part but I've seen a post like that on the OG forum they used before Elliot Rogers shot up a sorority house in 2013.
I hope that spelling some stuff strangely keeps this from disappearing.
@jcdenton7914 do you know about the DIY beauty community? I'm sad that both genders are experiencing this
I get that my perspective is basically the exact other end of toxicity, but: they ain't worth it. No woman or man is so amazing that I should dedicate a significant portion of my life to looking better or being bigger just to be "good enough" for them.
True, the secret is knowing that you’re already good enough as you are
@@Blakoss That is not the secret lol. The world is a cold world. Most girls already think most guys look like sleeze doritto smelling gamers. Being yourself is not it. You always have to looksmaxx, it's that it's been overly used. But the concept is a time old ordeal. It's why 40% genetically procreated but 99% of women in history procreated. It's because the 40% improved themselves, whether with land, reputation or looks. Same ordeal is seen today, but more men are becoming less attractive to most women as studies are almost making this a meta-analysis level agreement....
So yeah, don't be yourself. Be the best version of yourself [which is what looksmaxx is...]
@@dakidokino the best version of yourself is the one that can accept yourself as you are, flaws and all things you can’t change, obviously take showers). You do that and you’ll have a gf, they aren’t in short supply, there’s billions of them and a lot of them feel as neglected as these men do
@@dakidokinohahahaha. Oh man, no. A relationship that is worth having has nothing to do with appearance, or attributes. That's insanely superficial. Your whole opening paragraph is nonsense based on nothing. There are no reliable peer-reviewed studies that show any of that.
Learn how to listen, learn how to reflect, learn how to understand. That's what builds a long term relationship. If you find women aren't responding to you it's because you're too busy thinking about how inferior you are, or too busy thinking you have to be some kind of dominant "prime" bullshit.
@@dakidokinoI think being the best version of yourself is a given and should be for personal fulfillment not to get laid lol The “ugly out of shape dude bags girl way out of his league” trope real asf and it’s solely because that guy actually has a personality and doesn’t really give a fuck
Seriously guys would have a much easier time getting laid/gf by not thinking about it so much and just treating them like regular peoplw
No way the looxmaxing lore is crazy
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what do u bots get out of this
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People should strive to always be their best selves. I used to think looks maxxing was kinda positive but these communities raise hell with it
Simply a reflection of the times we live in. Most people meet through online dating and more young men are single than ever so it should be expected that more young men begin to think this way.
@@ponternal Exactly. @OP men will become more desperate. And what ever seems to be attainable that is attractive to women men gonna clamor to that thing.
@@ponternal Agreed. That's pretty much why the whole looksmaxxing thing is blowing up now. A lot of dudes feel like it's over for them unless they somehow reach this insane standard of masculinity and male beauty. Of course that sounds ridiculous, but they only think that way because they have so much trouble finding someone by just being themselves. It's really sad honestly, but it's true.
Fr, I liked it when it was just fix your hair, fix your posture. This has been taken way too far.
(Long rant about looksmaxxing)
Mewing is just the right position of the tongue. If you try to swallow with your mouth closed, you're automatically mewing.
The problem with the whole mewing community is that people are selling the idea that it will give you this super aesthetic gigachad jawline, when in fact it is just preventing the risks that come with mouth breathing (unless you are a baby, mewing will not develop your jaw in any way). It is a good practice, but people exaggerate the benefits.
Online scum influencers will of course capitalise on this insecurity, selling their crappy "Mogwarts" courses that supposedly share the secret Greek archives of ancient looksmaxxing techniques, now only locked behind a paywall in their jurisdiction.
In general, these people who seek to achieve perfect facial features (what and who even defines what is perfect??) are just unhappy and clearly have a lack of self/community.
I think it is especially due to a lack of interpersonal relationships, that they think looks are the problem, or that they are just looking for an excuse to continue being antisocial instead of actually going out and meeting people/women in particular.
If I told any of these people that different women have different preferences in what they like, they'd resort to "it's over", "I'm not Sean o pry gigachad" or some verbal diarrhoea like that.
I can't deny that looks play a part, but you have no choice but to play the hand you're dealt. Attraction isn’t something completely one dimensional based on only looks. It's much more than that in current civilisation. They just refuse to give themselves a chance and succumb to this delusional endless self-grooming.
I could go on, but my honest best advice is to just live life as it is. Count your blessings and use them to your advantage.
Seek out connections and try to improve yourself in different ways, not only lookism.
Looksmaxxing went from 4chan broscience bait to being taken serious
Yeah it used to be so funny.
Because it is very much so real in some aspects. Most youtuvers like charlie only take the piss oit of the most ridiculous claims and practices, he woukd not dare tackle some of the more real issues. Like looks are the end all be all for how easily or if its even possible for you to get friendships, romantic relationships, jobs and sometimes even daily interactions. Like Im sure a good looking dude doesnt get laughed at or photos taken of him for the express reason of making fun of how he looks while he's just sitting on the bus stop going to work.
Nahlike its cuz it worked for some goofys
Also u forgot bout lookism thats broscience thats an actual that existed
@@DestroAzureDx your problem and sadly there are many like you is that for some weird reason you care about what x and y think about you. That is your problem and it is extremely sad. I was always liked by girls for my looks, but the only girl I ve actualy had an actual long term relationship with was the one that liked me for who I was and didn t realy care for my looks untill wayyy later in our relationship. You should search for people with soul and substance , not jackasses or bimbos that like you for money or looks or superficial garbage like that.
@@DestroAzureDx Get off your phone and go outside and talk to real life people. I love how you ignore the millions of conventionally unattractive people that have friends, good jobs, and get married
"They don't know I'm stretchmaxing" is one of the most sinister jokes Charlie's made. Powerful line right there.
Huh
@@davebob9796ya don’t wanna know
not rly. charlie doing nothing but complaining over nothing,. gaslighting nothingnes
I thought the same
@@scoper7897 found the cockmaxxer
In my english class we had a project to do a slide show about what we had planed for the future and a kid had a whole slide about looksmaxing and what it was 😭
that's actually really sad, damn
No wae💀
RIP glad I'm done with English
Bro is an actual hermit, tell him to go outside
@@seashellgarden2227A girl did that in my class except it was more satirical and not serious
Imagine you slip and fall with the meat stretching device and end up in a scorpion position
god imagining that was horrible
I grimaced reading this
@OfficerVuuduufart in my face
Im a young man, at least half of the content I’m recommended on every social media app are posts telling me everything wrong with me. I’ve been suicidal because of it, doing better now but I struggle constantly with body dysmorphia. Sometimes all it takes is one look in a mirror and I’m in tears or throwing up.
Edit: I’ve made a lot of positive changes in my life lately and am feeling much better now. thank you for the advice and nice comments, they helped a lot
better get used to it, we are hardwired to judge people based on looks whether we virtue signal and lie
Imagine being so weak that you can’t handle social media telling you should be better. Be better or live in mediocrity
@@lilnigga-qh7kdthank you lilnigga for sharing
Don't listen to these losers in the replies
@@datboi5805 🫡
thank you man, im 19 and i was never invested in any of this shit but since the internet is inescapable almost, it started destroying my mind since 2 years ago, its people like you and kurtis finally talking bout stuff that i actually think is right and it feels good to hear it from someone else, just thanks man
I'm 19 and never got into this shit. Social media just makes shit blow tf up when people that go outside don't really give a damn, im not undermining what you went threw whatsoever hope that you got out of it. Stay of the social media or just avoided those things in general and keep the mental always in check
I love Kurtis! My self esteem was destroyed by instagram. The best thing you can do is delete social media, either permanently or for a month or two. Deleting that shit genuinely improved my mood. Also, no one cares about how you look as much as you do. Don’t beat yourself up over things you have no control over, just be a good person and that shines through.
@@ronel7836no you’re absolutely correct, just go outside, hang out with older people or those who aren’t internet brain raddled idiots and you’ll see how dope life can be lmfaoo.
Dog, please get on a program to help with your grammar, shits not cute to be 19 typing like that. And I mean this in the nicest way possible. If that’s how you write on paper shits gonna be rough for you, and seeing as most paperwork’s done digitally even typing is important. School failed you, don’t fail yourself
The truth is, so long as you maintain at least decent hygiene, and try to be a half-decent person, you'll be just fine. Don't sweat the small stuff, as it's unlikely that your partner will even care, and if for some reason they were to care about something minor or that makes you feel uncomfortable, then they aren't for you. Just be yourself, whatever that looks like, and you'll attract someone who is down with that.
This serves as an important reminder to all of us that happiness cannot be achieved through physical perfection. Self-acceptance and personal development should be the priority.
Cope comment for small pp???
I absolutely agree. Charlie said, "You need to play with the cards your dealt." That's good advice imo. Learning how to deal with your insecurities and except who you are instead of trying to change yourself sounds really healthy. I wish a lot of other communities (who may or may not be receiving special treatment in our society rn) would listen to it. It makes me wonder if Charlie would be logically consistent with that advice for everyone.
I'd argue people who are closer to physical Perfection than others have a much easier time with self acceptance, but your sentiment is fair.
@@StephenP93 that's true. But it's because they're not constantly thinking so negatively about their bodies, that they can focus more on doing things that make them happy, not necessarily because the nice body = happiness.
You speak theoretically. But I somewhat respect your heart in the matter. It's very soft and sweet haha
Mewing is the power of silence , it keeps people quiet more often
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I told my brother to keep on mewing so he will shut the f*ck up. Love how he's so oblivious to the fact that mewing has no scientific backing for it, as your jaw genetics can't be changed without surgery.
Based comment
Mewing is actually legit ive been doing it for over a year and my face shape has changed for the better
@@thugger3794Fr
You're not beating it like it owes you money, you're straight torturing it for national security information
“Dumpin DNA by the gallon” is so absurdly cursed
@OfficerVuuduu why sanskrit?
@OfficerVuuduucome get me bro I dare you
@@fenixfyrehart3191 Yeah man atleast make it Hindi...
Sperm banks want to know his location
I thought looksmaxing was just a meme and i thought everyone was on the same page about that
It is not. Unfortunately Looksmaxx reached the normies and now everyone knows about it. It is taken seriously by a lot of people, I have literally hit my face with a hammer, used fluoride to whiten my teeth and took the most dangerous pills in order to look better.
looks matter.
It's a meme to an extent but memes aside, it's just self improvement
@@jarvisjackson4833🤯omgggg!!!
i think the incel culture aspects of it are a meme, but many people would be happy to look “better.”
Imagine if your in a situation where a cop says “get on your knees!” While wearing that rod extender..
Oh my lord, that’s some SAW trap shit 😭
All this talk about wangmaxxing makes me wonder if any ladies out there are also "vagmaxxing" 😂
@@mollusckscramp4124”i must be able to consume watermelons with it”
In a world where guys nowadays are growing up with social media and online dating it is not surprising many come away with the idea that looks are everything.
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as someone who is unfortunately growing up with this stuff, i wish we could have a more anonymous internet again, instead of focusing on people and looks.
They came up with that idea because that’s what they are seeing and experiencing. It’s not like it’s not what’s actually happening and they made it up out of thin air
@@SirAuron777 yeah.
Don't need social media to tell you looks are everything. Go outside and and notice the different people and how they get treated. Watch how a good looking tall dude goes to buy something and notice the smile and attitude from the worker at the register. Go to the clubs and notice how every woman eyes lay on the good looking dude. Look at the good looking people with criminal records and the time they serve compared to ugly people. Looks really do determine your life... they've been getting compliments since they were a kid, high school and as an adult, and generally loved by everyone. These people just cruise by life on easy mode because they get the opportunities to much easier. There is no coping about dressing nicely, having a nice car, smelling really good or even putting on this superficial act of "personality" or "confidence". They already gained the natural confidence and personality from how they've been treated and have natural charisma too. It's all they have to get a girlfriend and even that is not needed.
I was deeply insecure as a kid especially in my teens. I had glasses, braces, and terrible acne. I would have 100% hurt myself with this type of shit. I feel so bad for people that are viewing this pile of shit instead of doing actually healthy things.
Looksmaxxing did help me overcome a couple hurdles , 2 years ago (18 y/o) I was overweight , not the best dressed(even though I can put clothes together i never gave it actual effort before , I would be outside in like a blue shirt and green pants) hygiene wasn't on the top of my list - even though I always tried to make sure i do it everyday I didn't have a set routine I would do and stick to. Fast forward 2 years , i'm in the best shape i ever been in my life , my skin is clear - I discovered i have a really good jawline and I feel great. I think the early adaptations of looksmaxxing is helpful and the basic habits they show would improve your life if you implement them in your routine. I think all these 'sub categories' in looksmaxing 2024 is what is doing harm and not really all that good. If you just use the very basics they say it's very hard for it to be a negative in your life.
@shikoroken9881 I mean if it takes a trend to get healthy then props but all the basic stuff is very basic things to be healthy and called "looksmaxing" and that barely scratches the surface. The subreddit is full of girls insecure about their looks asking what they can do to not be a 4/10. The community is 90% toxic and that's too much.
@@shikoroken9881 you decided to take care of yourself and that's great man! Seriously, as someone who is also trying to lose weight. But, I think this trend is doing more harm than good by encouraging people to micro-manage their bodies and sending them straight down to body dysmorphia town. Self-care is important but a lot of looksmaxxing is stupid, wrong or plain dangerous.
@@SuperLycan13 True , I guess it kinda depends on who you are before you first started looking into looksmaxxing. I, myself have never talked to anyone about looks maxing before online or in person i'm not a part of any communities.The closest I am to a looksmaxxing community is when im at the gym. I haven't even came across any 'looksmaxxing' content in over a year. But looks maxing isn't just about getting in shape - I think it's about doing other things in synchronicity while getting healthier. But "looksmaxxing" isn't a real term, so anyone from the internet can butt in and say "no it actually means this" and add on some BS that is a stretch or maybe something that isn't really all that necessary like the "d*ck pulling" theory . But i think if you're a person that's prone to going down rabbit holes you probably shouldn't look at this stuff maybe , same way with gambling or drugs. You should look at this and be able to find a balance in your life
@@SuperLycan13 I wrote a decent sized reply, unfortunately youtube bugged and didn't send it. I don't feel like re writing my response but thanks for getting back to me .
Beware of Jelqing sounds like a good title for a creepypasta.
Ong sounds like a swedish cryptid
The Jelqer.
@@jon2478you wanna know how i got these scars
Sounds like a medieval sport
@@4nd4s ☠️☠️☠️
I completely stopped using all social media platforms last year and try really hard to avoid UA-cam shorts. I feel blessed I only see this stuff through videos covering the topic instead of it being shoved down my throat when I scroll apps all day. No social media does leaps and bounds for your mental health and more people need to jump ship
God I hate that there isn't an option to turn off UA-cam shorts completely. UA-cam's search function is completely useless and broken now too.
@@jessbellis9510 i agree youtube search is completely utterly broken to the point where when i look at analytics in my videos the search queries are completely unrelated alongside when trying to look stuff up for troubleshooting
I stopped using social media when I got tired of seeing grifts and scams absolutely everywhere
I'm glad other people feel this way, I left my remaining social media in 2022 and my life has been infinitely better. I use revanced UA-cam to turn off shorts. I don't constantly compare myself to others anymore, it's great. I also only find out about this shit through videos like this and it's like getting punched through 3 pillows instead of taking the gut punch directly.
@@jessbellis9510 there are extensions that you can use for viewing UA-cam on the web browser but not for the app sadly
Imagine there are people walking around in punling, near us, constantly streaching their shlorp back and forth. Their thought processes have to be different
You weren't born with genetic defects like we were- ugly and small dick makes you want to die..and I've been looking for any solution, but they don't exist- everyday is a fight not to kill myself.
Remember boys it's not about the size of the worm but how you wiggle it
This. Im gay and have never turned someone down for thier size. Its just a penis bro yknow?
That's what they say but when you've got 9" buried and they are screaming in pleasure you know it all bullshit.
If can so, style with it.
Girth as well! Length is irrelevant 😊
Its about the motion in the ocean
You're totally right! An industry fueled by insecurity
Is the appropriate response to remain insecure or to change. Not in the size aspect but other areas such as your face which is the main focus of looksmaxxing
Says the person in the p*rn industry 🤡🤡🤡
As if that wasn't obvious? This statement solves nothing
i think the biggest problem is thinking of dating and body image as an "industry"
@@StephenP93 like every comment in every comment section
its crazy because when a few years ago when ig models were a huge discussion i remember all the adults around me always said the things on the internet arent real and only show the best aspects of people, and here we are with looksmaxxing now just destroying the minds of young people. its so sad because it really did come full circle with people now accepting the things on internet as the guide to become the best version of themselves when in reality its not something anyone really cares about or notices.
people certainly care about looks
"when in reality its not something anyone really cares about or notices" lol wait till this guy hears about the halo effect
@@hamad4121 not sure how the halo effect applies there. what u quoted was me referring to the people that a victim of looksmaxxing is trying to impress by following the elite regimen. im sure that effect comes into play heavy between the victims and the creators putting out that content tho
@@cyrusthe0ther795 i mean sure, but the hyperfixation on looks in the modern era is out of control. most people who do this "looksmaxxing" stuff don't even need it in the first place and are falling victim to con artists. everyone has their own unique characteristics that appeal to others and looks certainly aren't everything either way
@@hamad4121he's probably experiencing the halo effect which is why he is so ignorant lol. People who don't have problems with looks are just blissfully unaware of how the world treats you when you don't fit in the accepted range of good looking
It's all genetics. All of it.
Nah
Id say 40% genetics
looooooooooooooool@@vfgoditachyyy8446
copemax
@@lilxdank8 This isn’t me coping lil dank 🧏♂️
Social media ensures self doubt healthily thrives
It sucks, a lot, but at the same time, its so interesting to me how, originally, it was maunly young women being sewn with self soubt and self hatred by unreasonable standards set online, and now its mainly young men. Not saying its not affecting/ happening to young women anymore, just that its interesting how its shifted to primarily being a young men thing instead of young women thing now.
That and porn.
Stop watching porn if you want to feel better about yourself.
I mean you can definitely fill your social media with intelligent and supportive people. No one is stopping you.
@@livebackwards I don’t have it. Haven’t since high school. I’m much happier that way. I don’t need others to validate anything, and I don’t want anyone knowing what I’m doing except the people I let know. Privacy is peace
Social media is actually good for the youth contrary to popular belief
People going this far to change a part of their body, and the worst part is that its glorified as some trendy thing that people could join, like being part of some club.
FOMO is a drug
@@lesshuman00like they should be
@@bluecoconut9543 k weirdo
@@lesshuman00 wake up to reality
As a woman its insane to me that the people partaking in this are going this far just to change a part of their body that you cant change with ANY equipment. I feel like at that rate they should just go and get an enlargement surgery if they care that much because all this will just ruin them.
When i started waist training (i only wore it for 8 hours combined the whole time ive had it, ive never had it on more than 2 hours) it ruined the way my stomach looked, it pushed my organs more towards the center. Its the same for when young kids start using skincare products other than certain cleansers and sunscreen, they ruin their skin when they didnt need all that back then and regret it when they are no longer brainwashed into the consumerist beauty industry.
Moral of the this comment, if you do things like this you may ruin your body when you were better before.
Imagine explaining to someone from the 17th century that in the future there will be guys speaking with stars in their eyes about some other man who is "the GOAT of the old 'money-shot'".
imagine explaining to them that people will spend hundreds of dollars (which will be even more dramatic because of inflation) for devices that stretch their ween thinking it will attract more women while they neglect everything else about themselves and their behavior
@@Killbayne Imagine men throughout history wearing codpieces and phallic symbols to appear more masculine and attractive.
Imagine explaining to them that there’s a surgery that breaks your bones, keeps them broken, inserts a rod, and stretches the leg over a long period of time just to achieve a couple of inches.
Peter North VHS porn king.
@@princessdollgf those couple of inches are still more than ya little flute lad
Nothing wrong with trying to look your best, you look good, you feel good, you perform good.
Why do people aII of the sudden become more confident when they Iook better🤔
@@iMogggYouuuwell I know when I go from skinny to muscular I can see that I can lift, push/pull, am faster, etc. Also doesn’t give the impression that you can easily push someone around because they look weak, a lot more people don’t try to mess with you to gain whatever they please from you.
@@jonnyrocket7570 if mo muscles = mo vvomen, then who’d you put your hard earned $ on, timothee chalamet or body builder competition winner?
@@iMogggYouuu bro just hammer max.
All this stuff about categorizing and ranking people’s natural features feels very eugenics adjacent
Exactly
Yep, but we have to consider that modern dating is very eugenics adjacent too. It's just a symptom of the cause.
Well, I'm sure it must be horrifically difficult for these types of people to live with themselves as they are. I mean, if they were successful and happy, they wouldn't be doing this stuff. When it comes to having "inferior genetics" that you can't change, finding reasons to live probably isn't easy.
Blah blah shut up and start mewing
A lot of dating is eugenics. Don't fit certain beauty standards? You're not gonna really get anyone. Also people's reactions to snakes, spiders, and sharks are all extreme examples of the beauty standards and ugly bias. How many people kill spiders because they look creepy? Cows kill more people than sharks every year but most people are way more scared of sharks.
The most important thing about this is that the people are willing to listen
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my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
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Bro these bots💀
@@_Bog_Dweller_ FR they tell you that "x channel is better than charlie" and have like no vids like what is the point
I can believe this is real life
"Is this the real life or is this just fantasy?"
@@Pwrge_Time least braindead bot comment section reply
@@Pwrge_Time I physically don't understand how someone can be so braindead
@@cyclonus_is_a_nerd I think it's a bot lool
what are u yapping about
"dumping dna by the gallon" is a crazy sequence of words
We need Charlie to make a looksmaxxing book
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my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
This is ridiculous as a woman I've never walked away from someone for any of the things these bozos are so worried about.. honestly like Charlie said good hygiene goes a long way none of these other things should be taken to this extreme 🤡
A lot of them are not bozos they are just impressionable teenage boys
as a woman, we been "looksmaxxing" for centuries
It just goes to show how much porn has negatively affected people. For women, they feel that they need to have unrealistic body proportions to be deemed attractive and for men they feel that they need to have a monster penis to pleasure a woman.
In fact, porn has made the impression that a big penis is destined to make a woman orgasm - but as a matter of fact, most women don't even finish from penetration, so when a guy can't make a woman orgasm from penetration and unrealistically writhe in pleasure they get insecure and end up thinking their size is inadequate when that's just not always the case.
People are experiencing things through a screen and taking it for granted which is sad to watch.
Thank you for your response, it was well intention.
@@Frank0848Yes but any men encouraging it are bozos, like the youtuber he mentions
Cult is the perfect way to put it, especially if you've ever tried talking to someone down this rabbithole. The idea that a normal person can find love is alien in that version of reality. Glad you talked on this, more pushback is needed.
I know that normal people can find love, but that doesn't mean they necessarily will. It is undeniably harder to date nowadays as a man than ever before, especially if you're average or below average. I agree that having a good personality and being neurotypical still matter a lot, but looks are definitely the driving force for many relationships nowadays, sadly.
🤫🧏♂️(y’all gotta stop taking this so seriously, it’s just a meme)
It's not any better for women in the age of insta thots and only fans. men might lose money on dates but according to men women's human "value" goes down permanently by associating with men so who has the worse deal@@AM-cm2kj
Majority of average people wont end up with a really good looking person
@@AtlanteanVrilChadso
Your thoughts are so true. This looksmaxxing stuff can be super harmful. Especially with the rest of the philosophy of hopelessness that comes along with much of it. I really believed it all so much at one point
Its not hopelessness its simply knowing when to give up. You see it as hopelessness because you're too emotional.sometimes you will never be desired by another human being sexually and because of your looks some social interactions will be forbidden to you or unattainable no matter how hard you work. Even in body building competitions it is determined soley by genetics, same with sports and other areas of life.
@@DestroAzureDxI somewhat agree. I think it promotes hopelessness in general rather than with giving up on prospects with a particular person. Giving up in such a general way is not good. Yes genetics matter but I think its overemphasized in this sphere. Why give up when there is still a chance?
@@uraninite8151 because trying hurts more than giving up. Its like a life or death surgery.
If anything these videos promote the fact that how your life ends up the lack of interest from people due to genetics, that it isnt your fault. Once you've looksmaxxed thats it you've done all you can. Women make exceptions and break thier own rules for men they find attractive if none to maybe 2% of the women you encounter find you attractive physically then we need to stop telling people "oh work on your shit personality" "work on your hygiene" "hit the gym". We have people work so hard thinking theyre the problem just for them to get dumped, left, cheated on, or replaced. Sometimes how your life pans out isnt your fucking fault.
@@DestroAzureDx society creates inequality and beauty standards, nature doesn't. And we should stop this but here we are embracing it far more than ever
@@DestroAzureDx you spoke facts 💯💯
Pls talk about the youtuber ACID. He is a Belgian youtuber that exposed a rich group of rapist and murderers. The victims never got any justice. Now the group sued the UA-camr ACID for defamation and he got a fine of 20. 000 euro and some time in jail. Pls talk about this injustice!
From what i saw his jail time (thankfully) is like postponed (don't know the exact English word) but i agree it's absolutely fucked up.
I thought looksmaxxing was literally just doing things to make yourself more physically attractive...
Technically that is what it is but like...
Don't bother, it just makes you feel insecure about yourself and that you are never enough
Best you can do without looking like a complete idiot is get fit and get a better haircut or something
It is, Charlie is Normiecel pretending he is not. I will come back when he sees this comment and then really go through the looksmaxxing rabbit hole and make a video about it
@@mr.nothappy301No gym for ur face, no hairstyle for your frame, no personality your height.
@@lilnigga-qh7kd what is bro yappin about
@@mr.nothappy301 yea
Your commentary is so down to earth. I'm not surprised this fixation exists, honestly. P*rnography has really reprogrammed a lot of people's minds and what they think is desirable. Insecurities abound.
Somehow social media breeds more insecurity. I gurantee you that watching a cheating confession on insta is worse than any cuckhold video online
Absolutely. As a women, I honestly tell you p*n with huge wangs hitting it harder than a Jack hammer is actually pretty gross/boring/looks painful. I hardly watch that kind of content. It’s not what we want to see because it doesn’t look slightly pleasurable. Imagine if porn consisted of a woman slapping a man’s meat really hard with her fist shaped v-jj while he screamed with tears in his eyes that it feels great! That’s what majority of p*n is to us 😂
You can tell what is desirable by seeing what is successful and popular.
The issue is much more fundamental than just recent societal changes. It's not porn, it's literally human nature.
The human condition dictates that we judge each other and select for attractive traits. Nobody is above that, no matter how hard they try.
@@carlpanzram7081What's considered attractive os based on trends and social conditioning. It has very little to do with biology.
you dont actually know how deep looksmaxxing really goes
Pom is definitely a factor. It poisoned youths mind and self esteem. This is actually sad.
Now people are more insecure and depressed than ever.
Porn is cope. What's actually happening is nature following its natural course. Women naturally become pickier and pickier as life is easier for them.
Even female mice follow the same patterns in experiments. Most men aren't going to reproduce.
For sure bro, it is sad---I hope to expose the pom industry sometime this year as well as show everyone how pom kills love within the individual, within relationships, and within society. The great awakening is upon us.
@TheRealestTiller The great awakening, if you think the great awakening is coming now you will probably have a heart attack in your sleep in the early 1900s
@@TheRealestTiller That's hilarious. Terribly inaccurate. But hilarious.
Don't look up who owns the industry. It's just a coincidence.
4:46: Just looking at this contraption makes me instinctively protect my own manhood 💀
"the design is very human"
@@kaden-sd6vb This is it, the human comment in a sea of bots that made me nose laugh as if I was holding back a sneeze. Good stuff
@OfficerVuuduu You dont scare me.
The best piece of advice I have ever heard similar to this is something along the lines of "none of those 3rd member growers or extenders work, because if they did they would be everywhere and literally everyone would be using them"
A kinda similar thing happened with diet pills, most people knew they were a scam and wouldn't take them, but once Ozempic came around literally everyone was using it because it actually worked (you shouldnt actually take it to lose weight, but its a good example of this case)
If the same thing existed for growing your 3rd member the same thing would happen, but it never has, ie meaning none of them actual work lmao
There’s actual testimonials including myself, however the ROI is extremelllly bad, I wore it for 4 months 30 hours a week during Covid and actually did gain 1 cm, with tons of before and after so it’s not just angles. You have to socially cripple yourself, but since it was Covid I took advantage of
I’ve been doing penis enlargement for 10 years now, 7 days a week, 12 hours a day, even while sleeping.
I have a 3 hour manual routine, in combo with stretching, upward power jelqing, table kegel stretches X 3 rounds. Then I wear the penis stretcher as long as possible, until my tip feels numb, my penis head has blisters and it hurts. So to help it heal I wear a tight elastic tube to compress the penis tissue with a cock ring, keeps it extended and full of blood, and forces outward pressure.
7 days a week, I’ve gained 2.25 inches in length, permanently, and 1.5 inches in girth. I have a massive hog now, but I won’t quit until I hit 13 inches by 9 around. Then I can die happy
I'm glad videos like this exist. The internet is really a lot about making people feel worthless and miserable these days.. Just so they become easy victims of the consumer trap of buying worthless products
Hearing a fellow short king say that my mediocre wiener is, in fact, valid and acceptable is exactly what I needed to hear. Thx brother ✊ this is true body positivity
If your Weiner is at least 6in your fine
@@kirk5649And even if it's below, it's fine.
Having a big one isn't all that great, gets in the way random boners from walking & rubbing against the thigh...joggers are hard to wear really jeans are the only thing I can wear without them knowing I'm hogging
its better to be the avarage winner, than the avarage loser
Idk if you're into ladies, but if you are I can assure you that, as a woman, the vast majority of us are not fixated on penis size and shape despite many people online seeming to think we are
6:20 It really is crazy just how much stuff there is online about taking advantage of people's underlying insecurities or personal biases or human psychology.
Well if you want to achieve sucess, you gotta do what you gotta do. It ain't ethical but it is very effective.
@@t-bonetyrone I guess, but if you are genuinely good at making online content, you probably don't have to do those things very much, if ever.
A bit of clickbait or promoting your product is one thing,
but you probably aren't very skilled at making content if this is what you rely on to do well.
Look at Charlie (Penguinz0), he doesn't really take advantage of underlying insecurities or personal biases or human psychology.
Also, it can come back to bite you when people figure out that you took advantage of them.
What baffles me is that people go to the internet of all places to ask people if they're ugly.
Fr those ppl jus stupid n don’t look at things ina bigger picture or perceptives
Why wouldn't the internet be a valid place to ask? Are you and I not real human beings communicating right now? You have the ability to reach are much larger audience online than you ever could in person. People online are more likely to give you more honest feedback due to anonymity. Your grandmother is obviously going to call you handsome to spare your feelings.
@adamg6711 yeah go to ask anonymous people online that are just gonna tell you to ropesmax. Ive seen more people get mobbed on r/looksmaxxing than receive helpful feedback
@adamg6711 Most people on the internet lie and project their hate and insecurities onto others. So no. The internet is the worst place to go.
@@wrathofthelamb318Nah, people on the internet are sincere. Stop coping, you were called ugly on the internet bc you are, not because “people are mean”
Anyone who is into looksmaxxing is deeply insecure and craves attention and validation from other people simply for their looks which will be their downfall because living life thinking looks are the most important thing will stop you from achieving anything.
It wont. If you were better looking you'd get attention from women, make friends easier, have people want to actually be seen with you in public at settings like clubs, bars etc. You would inherently have more confidence if you were born with the right looks.
@@DestroAzureDx So? Are you gonna cry about it? Life is unfair boo hoo womp womp. You know what, because looks matter so much, if you aren't a perfect 10/10 model just give up, waste your life away and accept that you'll never amount to anything, make sure to also go on forums and cry and seethe all day about how looks matter to other random people online and to those who don't care just say they are coping, that'll surely get them.
@@viktorchochkov7507 no i'd rather people like you stop lying and acting that everything you get out of life is based on effort
@@DestroAzureDx I'm not lying, I'm telling you that with my life experience I've noticed that the most social people I've seen and those who have accomplished the most are not model looking, they just have charisma which is something you don't get with looks alone.
And btw no, tiktoks, tinder experiments, articles on things like halo effect and people's comments online you've seen don't count as real life experience.
Who tf are you to say you can't get things in life with enough effort? You are neither wise enough nor figured out life to be making such assumptions for other people with entirely different lives and circumstances you know nothing about, nobody is.
You can't succeed and accomplish your goals without effort, it's a fact. The more effort, the higher the chances. You haven't failed as long as you haven't given up trying.
@@DestroAzureDx I see you replying to other comments in favour of this 'Looksmaxxing'. And either you are sincerely depressed as a grown-up, or just not hit your twenties yet. If you really think that everything is based on looks, you have absolutely fallen into a deep black hole, and will probably never get anything done based on 'effort', since you should 'just give up', because you didn't meet the quota of looking like Brad Pitt. What a waste of years and time thinking about stuff like this. You also state that having 'confidence' is equal to your looks, which is just untrue. People who only cares about their looks (good looking or not), will always end up drawing parallels between their self-worth and their looks. Which at the end of the day only comes from validation from other people, wether you look good or not.
Body dysmorphia in men is on the rise sadly
All thanks to women’s dating standards and preferences. Islam is right about women
I looked at mewing like 5-6 years ago and found a Reddit post talking about getting body dysmorphia from the whole thing. I thought to myself how could this be possible and that it could never happen to me. Never joined forums or anything like that. I just read Reddit posts and saw some videos about it for a couple of months.
6 years later I have severe body dysmorphia. I can’t go outside or near people without trying to get a better angle of how people view my face and other stupid things like this. I know people don’t know I do this but it’s fucking me everyday of my life now and I can’t stop it.
@dirkorwhat im so sorry you're going through that. mewing almost did that to me. Ik it can be difficult but really try a therapist. They could help you. Otherwise, maybe some exposure type therapies.
Only watched the first 2 seconds and I already feel this man. The hand over the eyes, the long pause, he sounds beyond tired.
You can feel the sheer regret in Charlie's voice and eyes when he admits to jelqing.
I was really expecting this to just be about mewing 😭
JAJAJ ONG i was NOT expecting this
bro keep on the positive side the negative one was never intended just that easy
5:08 “trying to claw a couple millimeters away from destiny” is a hilariously epic line.
Almost makes the idea sounds cool
How do you even learn to talk like this
I’m from ‘97 and i really fear for the new generation
my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
my videos are better than charlie because i am taller + THE ⭐TYRANNY⭐ OWNS THIS CHANNEL AND ALL ITS FANS 🔥🔥
I'm from '89 and I simply couldn't care less q8
Seeking perfection is a manifestation of insecurity. Surface level of advice is good like taking care of your body but going deeper in this abyss is just sad. I am average at best overall but that doesn’t stop me from living life and getting happiness in other ways. The sooner you accept that you can’t have everything you want, the faster you seek things that benefit you.
Just wait until he learns about gooning
Is gooning as bad as this? I mean his main problem with this is that these people are preying on the average joe's insecurities, but gooning is just advanced porn addiction, isnt it?
What i mean by "as bad as this" is not that porn addiction is fine or whatever, i mean that there isnt one influencer or corporation trying to bait you into it, as opposed to that youtuber for example
gooning is just porn addiction
@@Flexy59it’s a self aware pr0n addiction mixed with 5x the brainrot. they have hypnosis vids, goon caves, subreddits, weird sensory videos, and etc. i’m NOT into this sht, im warning you into exactly what ur getting into. it’s so disgusting and sad for the most part, i hate it. i wish it didn’t exist and i hope gooners get the help they need 😢
@@Flexy59well. You defended your point.
If I'm not "enough" for someone then that someone is not the right person for me. I'm fine with people wanting to get overall better but there are limits to it
Exactly. My ex husband told me "you'll never be the person I want you to be". And he was right, I never wanted to be the person he tried to make me become. So win win!
@PizzaPatroll I guess in the end he was right lol. (Which is a good thing)
I wish this comment were higher or pinned or something. A lot of men, especially young men, think the "right woman" is any woman they can convince to have them. That never works. We should all be striving every day to be the best version of ourselves. But if you have to change everything about yourself in order for someone to want you, then they are just not the right person for you and THAT'S OK.
Healthy.
I don't think I'm enough for anybody
preying on insecurities is CRAZY
These people are preymaxxing on insecuritymaxxers. Might as well be crazymaxxers.
It's not preying. Looksmaxxing makes far less money than something like the redpill
90+% of politicians literally make a career out of that lol
Pretty much 90% of influencers who sell courses do this
There's kind of been a movement to help young girls with body image issues but boys have been largely left behind
Stretching tissue will not make it grow it will deform it, it will make it longer but the spongy build of the tissue will definitely get damaged
Its over, now we got famous youtubers talking about looksmaxxing.
When Charlie dives into a topic, there's no telling how deep he will go to completion ngl. That's dedication
1:13 the way you can see him having flashbacks just talking about it😂😂
can tell it didn’t work by that sad embarrassed look
I’m over here mogging out of my mind
took my ass to mogwarts, he did
real.
I am edging.
nah id jelq
Wtf are all these funny words man
I wasn't sure what I was about to watch but I'm glad I pressed play. Very insightful commentary. Thank you for 🤜🏾🤛🏻💯
A lot of my classmates in high-school. (Freshmen) are always casually dropping look maxing terminology. I only learned about it from them. It started happening a lot a few weeks ago. It's concerning to say the least.
that’s so sad. Ignore all of it no matter how hard it is. Paying attention to that stuff will destroy your soul.
Freshman are the absolute fucking worst, and this is coming from a senior in hs
@@Us3r739 this comment felt like it was talking to me specifically
@@Us3r739cuz your a nerd
Negative canthal tilt and weak jawline. It’s over for you lil bro
Looksmaxxing, outside of being sold to people so they'll buy a ton of products to look better, also has other aspects of it that involves giving yourself a eating disorder and purposely staying dehydrated for days at a time to appear leaner, which, love or hate it, isn't very healthy long term and usually isn't even for people who are overweight/obese, it's usually just normal people with average BMIs, starving themselves to be skinnier fast and not drinking water because of water weight and how water makes your muscles look.
Water makes your muscles look fuller muscles are mainly water
@@FreakiestNote77Yes, but it’s pretty common in the bodybuilding community to eat a ton of carbs & sodium to draw in as much water as possible into the muscles. Combine this with drinking next to no water, and all the water from your skin will go into the muscles, not only making them look better, but basically shrink-wrapping your skin across your body, making you appear bigger & leaner. Ofc this is only done for a few days max prior to a show & is also done by people VERY low in body fat
Isn't lookmaxxing just breathing through ur nose to shape the jawline? (A completely natural thing) How did it become connected to eating disorders?
@@anonisnoone6125holy shit normie that’s like water.
@@Unofficial_Suno_Musicsaving this comment so I know how to leanmaxx once the bulk is over.
I'm depressed enough having to deal with maintaining my tiny yet cavernous apartment without looking into the mirror everyday and not liking what I see. This is almost enough to send me over the edge.
Im sorry man
relatable as fuck
Maybe your life shouldn’t revolve around your desirability
Well Fix your ugly perspective on yourself because it spills and reflects how you look and judge others. Value different things, humble yourself to enjoy appearance as an added bonus, because that's all it is. You're valuable because of who you are and what you do, you are not valued because of your reflected light to random peoples eyes expelling your appearance unless you are some model showcasing clothes, in which case, your appearance has a function. Remember all your answers rely in actions and functions to get out of depression. Have a good day.
@@blairperryHumans are social creatures. Being undesirable makes life worse.
You know what's funny? People find stuff like this as a faith and believing that beauty is everything, honestly it makes me sick.