I fell asleep on my dining room floor after work once and my girlfriend took my boots off my feet. It blew my frigg'n mind. Her untying my boots woke me up and I didn't even understand what was happening. I thought she needed me to do something or wanted me to go somewhere. Never crossed my mind she might just be doing it because she wanted to be nurturing towards me. My standards might be low in relationships since this act of kindness and care didnt take any money, time, enerergy, planning, etc., but I was more in love with her right then than I had ever been before. (Not honeymoon-phase love. The real kind, that lasts)
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Totally agree! If I went on a date with Matthew, I'd think that he's carefully watching all my gestures, words and attitudes. So, all of a sudden, he'd say: "no, dear... that's not how you win a guy's heart". It'd be very weird.
Because he's on the air, he probably doesn't want to mention the sexual things you can surprise him with. If you have been in a relationship for a while and feel comfortable, you can dress up, (maid's outfit) or be nude ironing/cooking when he gets home, just something that is out of the ordinary. I had so many tricks up my sleeve when I was married that kept our relationship going. And before you all start bashing me, my husband was a fighter pilot and never asked me to work...ever. So, in exchange for being grateful, and being able to raise my son without daycare, I showed him my gratitude in different ways that didn't cost anything. A surprise nude massage with candles in the room is great too. Let me know if you all need any other things to do!! What a great subject Matthew Hussey!!
Cowgirl Ok ladies.she probably know all the sex tricks we all do. But there is more to.a.relatiinship then sex. I should know better than you. I am older and was.married.for over 40.yrs and kept.him happy.
As a guy...this is 100% true. There are evolutionary reasons behind this but I won’t go into them (as they are often misinterpreted), but trust me, this will work. As long as it’s not done 365 (I don’t know why I’m telling you not to do it everyday as I really should be), but yeah, definitely change it up, something that builds upon fantasies, or is unexpectedly sexy and feminine (like the cooking or ironing examples). Men are EXTREMELY visual, and although sex isn’t everything, it’s the basis of attraction. Trust me, this stuff works.
I've learnt that men absolutely LOVE it when I say "I'm proud of you"! Much more than just saying "I like this about you" or "you're funny" or things that women would like to hear.
The 5 love languages! This book was such a huge eye opener for me. My husband and I were only 20 ish years when we read it and I remember feeling like I was given the secret codes! It's not too long of a book, it simplifies different personality types into 5 categories of how people feel and express love in their natural language. My husband and I have VERY different love languages and I know our relationship wouldn't be as amazing as it is without this knowledge. Not only did I learn how to show him love in his language and vise versa, but I recognised the things he did for me in his own language for me from then on. I know it's a popular book and people have often at least heard of it. But Go Read It! Please! They even have different versions written for different audience viewpoints. ~Nita*
I read that book for one of my college courses last Spring (2018). I originally wanted the copy for singles, but I read the one that's (mainly) for couples, and I *still* loved it *far* more than I thought I would. Whenever I do enter into a serious relationship someday, I would really love it if he read that book. At the very least, I'd want him to take the quiz to find out what his Love Language is and we could read about that (and my primary Love Language) together. I think that that would make it more fun, too! ^.^
yeah, sadly most of our modern women are self-entitled, spoiled brats that only care about spending money and being dominant. Note, I didn't say all, I said most. The other women are the ones with the happy relationships ;)
One thing I do every now and then when my husband comes home is take off his shoes for him. I know it sounds strange but he is tired from work he usually will sit down for a few minutes and talk about his day so i sit there and listen then maybe come around to the back of him hug his neck and give him a kiss then as he talks i take his shoes off. He seems to love it! This isn't an everyday thing i am not his maid but once every couple months he enjoys it. Plus, I don't like shoes to be worn in the house so i am really killing two birds with one stone!
Inquisitive Mama Aww! That's so sweet! Just reading this makes me happy😊 Definitely going to try that if I ever get a partner XDD Best wishes to you all!
Most important, as women often we do know how to offer, but we don't know how to accept (scared of being seen as a pretentious or gold digger etc). And it's as precious to know how to gracefully take a compliment, a gesture a gift, that it is to offer one. So don't offer in a transactional manner, he bought me this so i'll buy him that, cause often it comes from a fear of not wanting to owe anything to the other. Which is a trust issue. Make sure you know how to receive unconditionally, so your relationship don't look like a transaction. Xx
1. Bring him his coffee in bed 2, Make a scavenger hunt for him, leaving the first note on the front door for when he gets home from work and then hide little treats throughout the house for him to find.... with you as the last treat! 3. Leave his favorite CD on his steering wheel with a sweet little note. 4. Leave a post it note on the bathroom mirror telling him how incredibly sexy he is. 5. Take him out on a surprise date someplace silly.... like mini golfing, or bowling. 6. Buy a bottle of wine and some snacks, and leave a note on the front door telling him what park to meet you at. 7. Send a goofy card to him at his work (if that's possible), if not, leave it on his car for him to find after he's done. 8. Surprise him with a movie night... rent the movie you've both been wanting to see, make fun snacks, and cuddle on the couch. 9. Leave a home made coupon for a foot massage in his sock drawer. 10. Give him a back rub while you're watching TV together. There a ton of ways to show how much you care.
all that is a crap. it is silly women's thing for a women or sissy. a man need not any card, note, coupon, coffee and all that. a man can make coffee by himself and notes is just a sugary romantic bullshits. a man need from a woman something what he uncappable have alone and something simle from heart, warm of woman's soul, her kindness, hug, sex, interesting personality to talk about, open sincere heart, normal deep warm-heartened relationships of two mature human being. But all that coffe in bed or note and card that all is just for teens or small girls.
Love this! Have been doing this for the various men in my life for years (romantic and family members). The ones who appreciate it, in my opinion, are the ones that have stuck around. FYI- Just made it to 10 yrs with my guy. Matt, you have done a phenomenal job helping keep the romance alive! 🌟
I truly live Angela questions, and the way she care how to express her caring nature in the way opposite sex could understand as well. I truly admire Matt's answers and love how energetic he is the way he putting out advices to help two counterparts to come together in more harmonious relationship. I didn't listen to these types of advices very much in the past, due feeling not ready for relationship, but recently I have come to my senses that's never gone to waste for being curious and learn about strategies and techniques to help one another understand eachother better. Thank you Angela for asking this question. Thanks Matt the team for this wonderful work.
It's from the book, The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. You can find out which one your guy responds best to, as well as what you respond to as well. They include *words of affirmation *quality time *receiving gifts *acts of service & *physical touch.
Show your guy that he has power over you ! nothing is more intoxicating than that. He know you can take that power back. But show he he has power. And he will become addicted to you
I’ve seen this video so many times, I keep coming back and I always learn something new or simply pay attention to a detail I hadn’t noticed before. So good! 🙏🏻👏🏻
What is the result of your LDR ? You can send had written letters , dried up flowers from the walk you took when you were talking to him , take him “shopping for food and clothing, ask him what he would rather eat or want me to wear for the dinner , make your dinner and eat it together on the video, take him for a drive in the country side, it somewhere interesting. I even took him to my school. Sent him small gifts , dried up leaf garland for Christmas.
Wow, that's what I'm looking for for so long. I always wonder how to show him I care without being his mother. That answer is great! Thank you! And you seem to have a lovely love life right now huh, Matt? ;)
If you've been with someone long term bake him a surprise cake with the words, "you're my hero" on. Make sure you have thought about why he's your hero so if he asks you are able to tell him. ☺
thank you , this is what i know , i used to tell a guy i was with that when he went away , that i was hopeing he,d be ok , that i,d die if anything happened to him.
This is bs. I used to iron shirts for my ex and despite that he kind of appreciated it, he broke up. On a contrary, a friend who never showed any nice gestures to her bf would get proposed by him. Never make a guy too comfortable until he is your husband. In love and relationships 100% of the time theres no recipe or logic. Things just happen
I always buy red apples for my guy because they are his favourites. I offer myself happily to give him a massage after he has run a very long distance. I tell him everyday how cute he is. He tells me that other women tell him he is cute too. And I say, "as long as they are respectful I am fine with it. Because you actually are cute" I don't think that much on how to show him my love. It comes naturally.
Wouldn't cooking for him make him think he got a free chef and become too comfy with the deal? Maybe not once or twice.. But if it becomes recurrent? How often should you do it? Is there a secret number of times?
Really love this . Yes guys need to been shown affection too. Btw for me tickets from see guardians of the galaxy won't just be a treat for him ;) . I'm the type of girl tht wud give up seeing a chick flick for an a really good action movie any day !
What if the guy your dating or in my case your together with is suffering from depression? What can I do? Please Matthew Hussey help me. I really care about him.
Ask him to do something low stress like go for a walk together (for as far as possible). Exercise helps beat the blues and getting outdoors is best. If you can borrow a dog so much the better. Or go somewhere there is a pond with birds and feed and watch them. If you live anywhere near the sea go for a barefoot paddle, so good for the soul. If he won't go out open all the curtains and windows (weather dependent!), put on some upbeat 80s pop music and try to cajole him to do silly-assed dancing with you. If he won't but is laughing at your hot moves, keep dancing, sing too! If he runs away then stop! If all else fails make your best chicken noodle soup and settle down with a funny movie. Also explore together the cause, finding a good counsellor and natural antidepressants such as 5-HTP and St John's Wort. I've endured periods of depression and had my then other half said hey, look at this, I'd have been more likely to try it than the Spawn of Satan SSRIs that the docs usually dish out. Best wishes to all who are troubled by depression, it's a real bitch but with the right support you can come through it.
That woman sounds like she needs a manual to get through her relationship! She used Matt's book to get the guy, now she needs a recipe for how to keep him? Am I the only one who thinks everything Matt said is common sense? You would do similar actions to show your friends or family how much they mean to you, it isn't brain surgery.
Sometimes it feels like following Mathew's advice in every inch of the relationship,you are kinda not showing your true self to your man actually Mathew's advice is dating your man for you. But not to judge,take some of Mathew's advice but once in a while trust your gut and be you,you'd be surprised that's exactly what he was looking for.
true. this really is common sense. i mean HOW LONG YOU ARE ALLOWED TO GO WITHOUT GIFTS - really. omg it all about your feelings. but at the same time she also cares about him a lot to actually consider taking advise.
Matthew, it's funny that you mentioned, watching something he likes or something he really wants you to see. There is a very special friend that had been going on about TWD, I finally sat down and watched more then one episode, I think I'm on season 5.... I think 😏. I gave it a chance and I changed my mind about it. It's pretty suspenseful, which I can do suspense. I'm really liking it. I just don't like horror movies. He was right about it! It's a little-lotta-bit late😝. I wish I could tell him I'm finally watching it, and he was right, it's a good show😆 hehe. There was another movie I finally watched, I wanted to watch it with him, but someone ruined that for me. It was Pulp Fiction, I ended up liking that one too. Then again too little to late 😜. You know when you wanna talk about stuff, at the same time, you only wanna talk to a certain person, about said stuff. So frustrating 😲
What to do if i asked his opinion n show interest but he never ask what i did n when i bring this topic again n I want to tell him what happened 7 times of 10 he show no interest n if i insist he'd easily say I don't care I hated that so i stopped to tell him anything But finally i told him something is wrong here u r not listening to me PS: i listen to him for hours talking about everything N he'd wake me up to talk to me about his internet friends n tell me what happened with he n them I'm being bad right??
I've been with my guy for a month now and he lives with me. He has not done a single thing for me. Not single date or even go out to eat. He don't even help with rent or any bills. He brags about how much he paid at his last place. My work went out of business and my last two pay checks were no good. He has not offered anything. what the hell do I do. I can't support myself now , I sure can't take care of him
+nobody nobody I'm so sad to hear that. I think you need to tell him this and see what he says. He should be supporting you especially as you're not working now.
You've never been on a single date but moved him in with you after a month and he pays nothing???? WTH? Possibly the stupidest situation I've ever heard of. You aren't in a relationship, you're just living with a moocher.
I don't wanna sound rude but kick him out first, and next time, go get yourself a man that respects you. A quality woman has a man waiting at least 1 year to start living together. The best option is always marrying, because there's no real love without marriage and there's no real love without patience and knowledge of the other. If he doesn't respect you is because you let him enter your life so quickly without stating the conditions to be respected. You're like his mother and he's your teenager son. There isn't much you can do with this guy. Just stay single until you have read "Why men love bitches" by Sherry Argov and have watched all Mr Hussey's videos. They really shed light in how love works. Finally, my parents helped a lot I always talk a lot with my mother but my father gave me the best 2 tips ever: 1-Please stop talking so much, a woman has to be mysterious. 2-You always talk a lot about how many guys you attract but you stay with none, you'll never marry acting like that. Now I've got the best boyfriend in the world, and the most shy too! Anything is possible xD Bon courage!
+Anna Naveira Thank you so much for your comments. I recently met up with a friend who laughed at me because I told her I wouldn't move in or even sleep with a guy (until I'm married) and now reading your post I'm convinced a friend wouldn't behave in such a way. Thank you and have a great day. PS. I'm not surprised you have a wonderful boyfriend, like attracts like x
i have a friend who thinks that no body cares about him f.y.i he doesn't have a gf and as a good friend i try to show some care by saying good things about him and how good looking he is flattering him just to make him feel better but every time I'm doing this it goes up in his head thinking that i have "hidden desire" for him which is very annoying!!.. his doing this to all girls!.. i care about him but I'm just simply annoyed on how he react in that situation.. ggrrr!!!...
If she is more of a workaholic than he is, taking time off work, or arranging a day to do something he would want to do might be good. Arrange a day of paint ball. Find something he likes and do that.
Matt and dating well my guess is he will behave like a gentleman, friendly and fun with a ++ potential to be warm to hot if interested in a woman, this being said must choose wisely for his love life public could affect his carrier for the best I will keep it private only for family and close friends to know, he has that Mr Right kind of doing that is attractive, good presence and fun personality I wish man could open their eyes and become more aware of what do they offer and what do they need. Good luck in finding true love! And Matt wear "no sexy" t-shirts for now we ladies can think at only 1thing at the time and you would like that to be the topic right?😉
I do ALL of these things and yet he still questions alot if I care and love him. These sadly don't work for me :'( Any other things i could do to show him that i do love and care for him? I REALLY need some help! : (
+Laarni Lim While I agree with you I think it's nice to show you care and doing maybe one of the things he suggests will allow the man to see how much you love him.
People who work in the animation industry are some of the most career driven people I know. Maybe this dude just does it as a hobby/on the side... But ya. This comment is offensive as F.
Animation is a huge career these days. To get to work on the biggest ones like the Simpsons and family guy you have to be career driven. It’s not just creative driven. So your wrong.
@@christopherlai364 There are careers in almost everything these days. 1 crazy example is playing computer games. The dedication and skill to make it a career is externally hard. But there is millions to be made and can offer further career opportunities.
The best thing you can do for your man is let him be in his own home alone. Make him his favorite meal, order whatever he’s been wanting to watch, game, movie, fight, whatever. Take the kids and gtfo. Men need their alone time just like women need time to connect. When you come back DO NOT comment on the mess. When you come home have dinner picked up from is favorite place, with his favorite beverage. Give him a big kiss, put the kids to bed, and slip into something sexy. That’s what men want.
+Cybraxas lmao, yeah i struggle hard with sarcasm in the writing form i thought the heart at the end was enought overkill to show but nvm. i still say hes single because of business cuz just like all the boyband members and all the girlband members the moment they have a bf/gf and people realize they are fucken someone who is not you they tend to not only lose interest but some of these freaks are going on an INSANE! hatred trip with killing and acids and shit, or hes single cuz he a mgtow you know what they say right dont try to understand woman, woman understand woman and they hate each other. i dont know this dude and i dont watched his vids since around the 30.01 what have been almost half a year now, my pursuit of knowledge led me here and i think he is pretty cool guy but he is smart and smart people do smart things like ripping of chicks who deserve it
Am seeing a guy right now but it hurts to understand that he really don't care much about me, he can't take me for a dinner, not even a movie, not even for a drink, he can't order even an uber for me to take me home, and he expects me to go home in the night alone without escorting me, if we happen to meet in the evening at his place, the place is untidy, no food to eat and he can't even ask me if I have eaten or not, he'll just offer me wine and then he's all over me kissing 🙄🙄 that turns me off, if he's going to work in the morning I need to wake up too and we leave together without even breakfast, he don't cook he eat out like everyday, there's no place to cook in his apartment......... Etc Am planning to tell him we ain't matching at all, he's the opposite of a guy that I would like to date!!
I fell asleep on my dining room floor after work once and my girlfriend took my boots off my feet. It blew my frigg'n mind. Her untying my boots woke me up and I didn't even understand what was happening. I thought she needed me to do something or wanted me to go somewhere. Never crossed my mind she might just be doing it because she wanted to be nurturing towards me. My standards might be low in relationships since this act of kindness and care didnt take any money, time, enerergy, planning, etc., but I was more in love with her right then than I had ever been before. (Not honeymoon-phase love. The real kind, that lasts)
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Everyone is wondering about his love life , but I think it would be intimidating to date someone like matt actually ...!!
Totally agree! If I went on a date with Matthew, I'd think that he's carefully watching all my gestures, words and attitudes. So, all of a sudden, he'd say: "no, dear... that's not how you win a guy's heart".
It'd be very weird.
Camila Moroli Haha I think so too !
not really lol
I don´t feel intimidated by Matthew, actually i dont like him. I think is a great man but i dont will date with him.
shittt id date him, hes confident and understands things on a deeper level. Thats hot
Because he's on the air, he probably doesn't want to mention the sexual things you can surprise him with. If you have been in a relationship for a while and feel comfortable, you can dress up, (maid's outfit) or be nude ironing/cooking when he gets home, just something that is out of the ordinary. I had so many tricks up my sleeve when I was married that kept our relationship going. And before you all start bashing me, my husband was a fighter pilot and never asked me to work...ever. So, in exchange for being grateful, and being able to raise my son without daycare, I showed him my gratitude in different ways that didn't cost anything. A surprise nude massage with candles in the room is great too. Let me know if you all need any other things to do!! What a great subject Matthew Hussey!!
Tell us more I'd love to know :)
Cowgirl Ok ladies.she probably know all the sex tricks we all do. But there is more to.a.relatiinship then sex. I should know better than you. I am older and was.married.for over 40.yrs and kept.him happy.
Cowgirl, You are so smart.
Preeeeeeeeeeach!
As a guy...this is 100% true. There are evolutionary reasons behind this but I won’t go into them (as they are often misinterpreted), but trust me, this will work. As long as it’s not done 365 (I don’t know why I’m telling you not to do it everyday as I really should be), but yeah, definitely change it up, something that builds upon fantasies, or is unexpectedly sexy and feminine (like the cooking or ironing examples). Men are EXTREMELY visual, and although sex isn’t everything, it’s the basis of attraction. Trust me, this stuff works.
I've learnt that men absolutely LOVE it when I say "I'm proud of you"! Much more than just saying "I like this about you" or "you're funny" or things that women would like to hear.
I'm a guy and this is so accurate, just when you said, "i am proud of you" i started to get emotional
The 5 love languages!
This book was such a huge eye opener for me. My husband and I were only 20 ish years when we read it and I remember feeling like I was given the secret codes! It's not too long of a book, it simplifies different personality types into 5 categories of how people feel and express love in their natural language. My husband and I have VERY different love languages and I know our relationship wouldn't be as amazing as it is without this knowledge. Not only did I learn how to show him love in his language and vise versa, but I recognised the things he did for me in his own language for me from then on. I know it's a popular book and people have often at least heard of it. But Go Read It! Please! They even have different versions written for different audience viewpoints.
~Nita*
I read that book for one of my college courses last Spring (2018). I originally wanted the copy for singles, but I read the one that's (mainly) for couples, and I *still* loved it *far* more than I thought I would. Whenever I do enter into a serious relationship someday, I would really love it if he read that book. At the very least, I'd want him to take the quiz to find out what his Love Language is and we could read about that (and my primary Love Language) together. I think that that would make it more fun, too! ^.^
Thanks for the recomendation!!
How to get this book? Is it available on Amazon?
Why every girl that calls sounds exactly the same person?
christ_87 exactly!
christ_87 just like to them how every Indian sounds the same
Omg yes ! I thought I was going crazy haha
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Its not only for single women but for married also. We can make our husbands feel loved, happy and cared for. Thank u!
yeah, sadly most of our modern women are self-entitled, spoiled brats that only care about spending money and being dominant. Note, I didn't say all, I said most. The other women are the ones with the happy relationships ;)
When i make him a lunch, i write a note on his sandwich bag's... sometimes silly, sometimes loving, sometimes XOXO
Tammy, I LOVE putting hand written labels on my sweetheart's lunches..most are x-rated and he loves it!
One thing I do every now and then when my husband comes home is take off his shoes for him. I know it sounds strange but he is tired from work he usually will sit down for a few minutes and talk about his day so i sit there and listen then maybe come around to the back of him hug his neck and give him a kiss then as he talks i take his shoes off. He seems to love it! This isn't an everyday thing i am not his maid but once every couple months he enjoys it. Plus, I don't like shoes to be worn in the house so i am really killing two birds with one stone!
be real married about 46 yes yr
Inquisitive Mama ilove this! You know exactly what matthew said s talking about!
Inquisitive Mama
Aww! That's so sweet! Just reading this makes me happy😊
Definitely going to try that if I ever get a partner XDD
Best wishes to you all!
Inquisitive Mama I used to give my guy a foot massage cause.he was on his.feet all day.
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Most important, as women often we do know how to offer, but we don't know how to accept (scared of being seen as a pretentious or gold digger etc). And it's as precious to know how to gracefully take a compliment, a gesture a gift, that it is to offer one. So don't offer in a transactional manner, he bought me this so i'll buy him that, cause often it comes from a fear of not wanting to owe anything to the other. Which is a trust issue. Make sure you know how to receive unconditionally, so your relationship don't look like a transaction. Xx
1. Bring him his coffee in bed
2, Make a scavenger hunt for him, leaving the first note on the front door for when he gets home from work and then hide little treats throughout the house for him to find.... with you as the last treat!
3. Leave his favorite CD on his steering wheel with a sweet little note.
4. Leave a post it note on the bathroom mirror telling him how incredibly sexy he is.
5. Take him out on a surprise date someplace silly.... like mini golfing, or bowling.
6. Buy a bottle of wine and some snacks, and leave a note on the front door telling him what park to meet you at.
7. Send a goofy card to him at his work (if that's possible), if not, leave it on his car for him to find after he's done.
8. Surprise him with a movie night... rent the movie you've both been wanting to see, make fun snacks, and cuddle on the couch.
9. Leave a home made coupon for a foot massage in his sock drawer.
10. Give him a back rub while you're watching TV together.
There a ton of ways to show how much you care.
+Cid K I love these ideas!
Great ideas, as a guy I would love almost any of them (I don't drink coffee :D)
all that is a crap. it is silly women's thing for a women or sissy. a man need not any card, note, coupon, coffee and all that. a man can make coffee by himself and notes is just a sugary romantic bullshits. a man need from a woman something what he uncappable have alone and something simle from heart, warm of woman's soul, her kindness, hug, sex, interesting personality to talk about, open sincere heart, normal deep warm-heartened relationships of two mature human being. But all that coffe in bed or note and card that all is just for teens or small girls.
Mmm..
wish i could someone to care and be cared.
the scavenger hunt one just reminded me of what happened in Gone Girl lol
I bought my boyfriend a engraved bottle open ...with the words ..you make me smile.. he was over the knot with it...
Love this! Have been doing this for the various men in my life for years (romantic and family members). The ones who appreciate it, in my opinion, are the ones that have stuck around. FYI- Just made it to 10 yrs with my guy. Matt, you have done a phenomenal job helping keep the romance alive! 🌟
love this guy, he gives the best ideas, I have to smile when I hear some of the stuff he gives out.
I truly live Angela questions, and the way she care how to express her caring nature in the way opposite sex could understand as well. I truly admire Matt's answers and love how energetic he is the way he putting out advices to help two counterparts to come together in more harmonious relationship.
I didn't listen to these types of advices very much in the past, due feeling not ready for relationship, but recently I have come to my senses that's never gone to waste for being curious and learn about strategies and techniques to help one another understand eachother better.
Thank you Angela for asking this question.
Thanks Matt the team for this wonderful work.
Learn your guy's love language! It will help a LOT. :)
What do you mean exactly by his love language?
It's from the book, The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. You can find out which one your guy responds best to, as well as what you respond to as well. They include *words of affirmation *quality time *receiving gifts *acts of service & *physical touch.
The collar things that woman did for Matthew was a genius idea!
How to express love n respect show appreciation n take responsibility for him n make his life better live life on a higher level
Show your guy that he has power over you ! nothing is more intoxicating than that. He know you can take that power back. But show he he has power. And he will become addicted to you
I’ve seen this video so many times, I keep coming back and I always learn something new or simply pay attention to a detail I hadn’t noticed before. So good! 🙏🏻👏🏻
what if the person is long distance away... i feel its so tricky for LDR couples...
Same..
@@UnknownUnknown-wm2tz surprise letters or gifts
What is the result of your LDR ?
You can send had written letters , dried up flowers from the walk you took when you were talking to him , take him “shopping for food and clothing, ask him what he would rather eat or want me to wear for the dinner , make your dinner and eat it together on the video, take him for a drive in the country side, it somewhere interesting. I even took him to my school. Sent him small gifts , dried up leaf garland for Christmas.
JUst take care of us with no expectations. We will reward you back TEN fold.
Oh Matthew, you give me hope.. Thxs so much.. You make me realize how little things can make life so wonderful.. :)
just give him treats like cookies and compliments and lots of hugs
I always wonder if he is in a relationship and ifso what she did to land him.
Especially the ask for his advice. If she would do that I would trusted ♥️ this is all so good.
Glad i found this now. I was clueless over something i need to do in less than two weeks. Thanks!
Wow, that's what I'm looking for for so long. I always wonder how to show him I care without being his mother. That answer is great! Thank you! And you seem to have a lovely love life right now huh, Matt? ;)
I love how the blond blond girl in the video is nodding along to what he's saying
If you were my guy you'd never have to question what I'd do for you ;)
+ThePoet Who Wrote It..... Tell me about it. I'd do everything he suggests without him even asking lol
Sage Well thats nice but this lady is asking.a guy something that she may not have thought.about. You must think you're.so hot big ego.
I would've never thought that inquiring about a guy's opinion would be flattering to them....interesting.
If you've been with someone long term bake him a surprise cake with the words, "you're my hero" on. Make sure you have thought about why he's your hero so if he asks you are able to tell him. ☺
Smart advice and smart questions
Why this guy was born for this!
Watching your videos makes me always wonder whether you also make advice videos or something comparable for guys (other than seminars)..
thank you , this is what i know , i used to tell a guy i was with that when he went away , that i was hopeing he,d be ok , that i,d die if anything happened to him.
matt did i say i love you 😂
Aawhh that is so cute! I love sweet things like this
seems like the same person keeps calling him
This is bs. I used to iron shirts for my ex and despite that he kind of appreciated it, he broke up. On a contrary, a friend who never showed any nice gestures to her bf would get proposed by him. Never make a guy too comfortable until he is your husband. In love and relationships 100% of the time theres no recipe or logic. Things just happen
yea i have cooked , cleaned and dug a garden before
Omg Matt once again u are a genius, thank you
Cook something. Simple.
My go to love guru
You are so intelligent. I love hearing you talk! (: Hopefully I can meet you in person to simply say hi. 😸 #crushing
Very precise!
Thanks mathew this is really good
You help me so much !!! Thank you!
I always buy red apples for my guy because they are his favourites. I offer myself happily to give him a massage after he has run a very long distance. I tell him everyday how cute he is. He tells me that other women tell him he is cute too. And I say, "as long as they are respectful I am fine with it. Because you actually are cute" I don't think that much on how to show him my love. It comes naturally.
Wouldn't cooking for him make him think he got a free chef and become too comfy with the deal? Maybe not once or twice.. But if it becomes recurrent? How often should you do it? Is there a secret number of times?
Really love this . Yes guys need to been shown affection too. Btw for me tickets from see guardians of the galaxy won't just be a treat for him ;) . I'm the type of girl tht wud give up seeing a chick flick for an a really good action movie any day !
Love this!!
What if the guy your dating or in my case your together with is suffering from depression? What can I do? Please Matthew Hussey help me. I really care about him.
Ask him to do something low stress like go for a walk together (for as far as possible). Exercise helps beat the blues and getting outdoors is best. If you can borrow a dog so much the better. Or go somewhere there is a pond with birds and feed and watch them. If you live anywhere near the sea go for a barefoot paddle, so good for the soul. If he won't go out open all the curtains and windows (weather dependent!), put on some upbeat 80s pop music and try to cajole him to do silly-assed dancing with you. If he won't but is laughing at your hot moves, keep dancing, sing too! If he runs away then stop! If all else fails make your best chicken noodle soup and settle down with a funny movie. Also explore together the cause, finding a good counsellor and natural antidepressants such as 5-HTP and St John's Wort. I've endured periods of depression and had my then other half said hey, look at this, I'd have been more likely to try it than the Spawn of Satan SSRIs that the docs usually dish out. Best wishes to all who are troubled by depression, it's a real bitch but with the right support you can come through it.
Just loving your videos
good one!
If I draw a sketch for him is it oky our not??? How it will make him feel at that moment?? Plzzz tell me
Love this!!!!!!!
Thanks Matthew this advice is beautiful xx
lovely absolutely
we want the impact program to be released already Mat! :(
Thank you!
I love a guy ,I have feelings for him ,but I am confused, how can I tell him about my feelings for him?
Thank you Matthew :)
That woman sounds like she needs a manual to get through her relationship! She used Matt's book to get the guy, now she needs a recipe for how to keep him? Am I the only one who thinks everything Matt said is common sense? You would do similar actions to show your friends or family how much they mean to you, it isn't brain surgery.
Sometimes it feels like following Mathew's advice in every inch of the relationship,you are kinda not showing your true self to your man actually Mathew's advice is dating your man for you.
But not to judge,take some of Mathew's advice but once in a while trust your gut and be you,you'd be surprised that's exactly what he was looking for.
true. this really is common sense. i mean HOW LONG YOU ARE ALLOWED TO GO WITHOUT GIFTS - really. omg it all about your feelings. but at the same time she also cares about him a lot to actually consider taking advise.
Emily Lager maybe she just wants a second opinion
good advice
Matthew, it's funny that you mentioned, watching something he likes or something he really wants you to see. There is a very special friend that had been going on about TWD, I finally sat down and watched more then one episode, I think I'm on season 5.... I think 😏. I gave it a chance and I changed my mind about it. It's pretty suspenseful, which I can do suspense. I'm really liking it. I just don't like horror movies. He was right about it! It's a little-lotta-bit late😝. I wish I could tell him I'm finally watching it, and he was right, it's a good show😆 hehe. There was another movie I finally watched, I wanted to watch it with him, but someone ruined that for me. It was Pulp Fiction, I ended up liking that one too. Then again too little to late 😜.
You know when you wanna talk about stuff, at the same time, you only wanna talk to a certain person, about said stuff. So frustrating 😲
Awesome!
great video
oh my I am in love lol
Ughyoure the love god ! I wonder how well youd treat me if you were my boyfriend yaayy
Hey Matthew. Do you have a radio talk show in the UK too? a number where I can call? Thank you.
love be you friendly kind great video
What to do if i asked his opinion n show interest but he never ask what i did n when i bring this topic again n I want to tell him what happened 7 times of 10 he show no interest n if i insist he'd easily say I don't care
I hated that so i stopped to tell him anything
But finally i told him something is wrong here u r not listening to me
PS: i listen to him for hours talking about everything
N he'd wake me up to talk to me about his internet friends n tell me what happened with he n them
I'm being bad right??
You are such guy !
I've been with my guy for a month now and he lives with me. He has not done a single thing for me. Not single date or even go out to eat. He don't even help with rent or any bills. He brags about how much he paid at his last place. My work went out of business and my last two pay checks were no good. He has not offered anything. what the hell do I do. I can't support myself now , I sure can't take care of him
+nobody nobody I'm so sad to hear that. I think you need to tell him this and see what he says. He should be supporting you especially as you're not working now.
You've never been on a single date but moved him in with you after a month and he pays nothing???? WTH? Possibly the stupidest situation I've ever heard of. You aren't in a relationship, you're just living with a moocher.
I don't wanna sound rude but kick him out first, and next time, go get yourself a man that respects you. A quality woman has a man waiting at least 1 year to start living together. The best option is always marrying, because there's no real love without marriage and there's no real love without patience and knowledge of the other. If he doesn't respect you is because you let him enter your life so quickly without stating the conditions to be respected. You're like his mother and he's your teenager son. There isn't much you can do with this guy.
Just stay single until you have read "Why men love bitches" by Sherry Argov and have watched all Mr Hussey's videos. They really shed light in how love works.
Finally, my parents helped a lot I always talk a lot with my mother but my father gave me the best 2 tips ever:
1-Please stop talking so much, a woman has to be mysterious.
2-You always talk a lot about how many guys you attract but you stay with none, you'll never marry acting like that.
Now I've got the best boyfriend in the world, and the most shy too! Anything is possible xD
Bon courage!
+Anna Naveira Thank you so much for your comments. I recently met up with a friend who laughed at me because I told her I wouldn't move in or even sleep with a guy (until I'm married) and now reading your post I'm convinced a friend wouldn't behave in such a way. Thank you and have a great day. PS. I'm not surprised you have a wonderful boyfriend, like attracts like x
😣😮Leave the bludging lazy piece of shit..he won't ever change...and what if you have a child to this piece of shit..😶😬😲
i have a friend who thinks that no body cares about him f.y.i he doesn't have a gf and as a good friend i try to show some care by saying good things about him and how good looking he is flattering him just to make him feel better but every time I'm doing this it goes up in his head thinking that i have "hidden desire" for him which is very annoying!!.. his doing this to all girls!.. i care about him but I'm just simply annoyed on how he react in that situation.. ggrrr!!!...
how to communicate with you? apart from calling you..
Dating a divorced man who or may not still have a relationship of some sort with their ex wife?
If she is more of a workaholic than he is, taking time off work, or arranging a day to do something he would want to do might be good. Arrange a day of paint ball. Find something he likes and do that.
what about go carts
I do everything for my fiancee and he said he's still not happy
julia nearing LOLLLL......that's when you stop doing everything for him, men's like kid, you want to care for them but not spoiling them.
Matt and dating well my guess is he will behave like a gentleman, friendly and fun with a ++ potential to be warm to hot if interested in a woman, this being said must choose wisely for his love life public could affect his carrier for the best I will keep it private only for family and close friends to know, he has that Mr Right kind of doing that is attractive, good presence and fun personality I wish man could open their eyes and become more aware of what do they offer and what do they need. Good luck in finding true love!
And Matt wear "no sexy" t-shirts for now we ladies can think at only 1thing at the time and you would like that to be the topic right?😉
I do ALL of these things and yet he still questions alot if I care and love him. These sadly don't work for me :'( Any other things i could do to show him that i do love and care for him? I REALLY need some help! : (
Find out his love language!
If a guy truly loves you... You need not show anything. Even if your mean sometimes, he will love you
+Laarni Lim While I agree with you I think it's nice to show you care and doing maybe one of the things he suggests will allow the man to see how much you love him.
make us a sandwhich
What if men can't show it easily?
Blimey, men are easily pleased.
I'm sorry that was hilarious "would you say hes career driven?" "Hes an animator"....sooo no. Lol
People who work in the animation industry are some of the most career driven people I know. Maybe this dude just does it as a hobby/on the side... But ya. This comment is offensive as F.
@@christopherlai364 let me clarify career as in conformity/corporate...hes a driven creative. I apologize it def wasn't my intention to offend anyone.
Animation is a huge career these days. To get to work on the biggest ones like the Simpsons and family guy you have to be career driven. It’s not just creative driven. So your wrong.
@@ryanmorgan775 I know right? This Piscesgirl and maybe the speaker in the video are just incredibly ignorant.
@@christopherlai364 There are careers in almost everything these days. 1 crazy example is playing computer games. The dedication and skill to make it a career is externally hard. But there is millions to be made and can offer further career opportunities.
The best thing you can do for your man is let him be in his own home alone. Make him his favorite meal, order whatever he’s been wanting to watch, game, movie, fight, whatever. Take the kids and gtfo.
Men need their alone time just like women need time to connect. When you come back DO NOT comment on the mess. When you come home have dinner picked up from is favorite place, with his favorite beverage. Give him a big kiss, put the kids to bed, and slip into something sexy.
That’s what men want.
Mathew you got a
girlfriend?
+Heba Hamid he has to say hes single cause its better for business
***** wow, okay, i just say im sorry, im such a judgemental person, i keep working on it and i wish you a weekend full of wonders and love
+Heba Hamid though vhf juju pi
+Trafalger Law Great reaction of yours, thumbs up for you
+Cybraxas
lmao, yeah i struggle hard with sarcasm in the writing form i thought the heart at the end was enought overkill to show but nvm. i still say hes single because of business cuz just like all the boyband members and all the girlband members the moment they have a bf/gf and people realize they are fucken someone who is not you they tend to not only lose interest but some of these freaks are going on an INSANE! hatred trip with killing and acids and shit, or hes single cuz he a mgtow you know what they say right dont try to understand woman, woman understand woman and they hate each other. i dont know this dude and i dont watched his vids since around the 30.01 what have been almost half a year now, my pursuit of knowledge led me here and i think he is pretty cool guy but he is smart and smart people do smart things like ripping of chicks who deserve it
hot Matt :D
COOK>>>>
Am seeing a guy right now but it hurts to understand that he really don't care much about me, he can't take me for a dinner, not even a movie, not even for a drink, he can't order even an uber for me to take me home, and he expects me to go home in the night alone without escorting me, if we happen to meet in the evening at his place, the place is untidy, no food to eat and he can't even ask me if I have eaten or not, he'll just offer me wine and then he's all over me kissing 🙄🙄 that turns me off, if he's going to work in the morning I need to wake up too and we leave together without even breakfast, he don't cook he eat out like everyday, there's no place to cook in his apartment......... Etc
Am planning to tell him we ain't matching at all, he's the opposite of a guy that I would like to date!!
i give a great back rub
ok roast it is then
Your girlfriend is not your crying station, you have to deal with it yourself and don‘t let out female tears! Make Men Men again! 💪
You don’t have to deal with it yourself that causes more problems for yourself and the relationship it means a lot to speak about stuff
:)
Sounds like I am doing everything right :D
Just be natural when doing it !
Awesome!
hot Matt :D