So I listened to this story and three things just pop out, (1) he did the right thing by divorcing and moving away; he did not play the pick me game and left with his pride and respect: (2) I am a 60 year old man and laugh when people talk about a man’s six; does it matter? Sure, to a lot of women but many women care less about size. When a woman loves you she loves all of you to include your imperfections. True love and commitment comes with joy and pain, anger and reconciliation, patience and impatience, but most importantly it comes with compromise and forgiveness as long as disrespect and vengeance is not a part of the relationship.(3) Children are the most important aspect of a relationship, but co-parenting if done successfully results in happy children, but staying together in a unhappy relationship is the worse thing a couple could do; your own happiness is the most valuable and important part of living. Based on how this story reads, I can see a reconciliation with a postnuptial. I won’t judge him for his decision, in the end he made the right choice!!!
This bish.... She up and leaves... then shows up out of nowhere, with a kid. Then all she does is lie. His parents told a completely different story about what happened when she showed up and announced her pregnancy. Then all she can do is call him names and refuse to hear his side of the story without telling him his view is wrong. When she didn't give him anything to go off of. She just up and left. What tf was he supposed to think? Then she drags him to that even to ignore him. No warning of her plans to be quick and all that. Again just expected him to know what she was thinking. And the whole DNA thing???? Could have done a familial DNA test with his parents to show that they were indeed the grandparents. Then again, not telling him about needing to break up with her boyfriend, just dropped off the kid and immediately goes to see another man. She should have known by this point how bad she hurt him, how she had shattered his trust in her. Jumping in front of that knife was the first thing she ever did that did anything to actually show him that she truly cared. Overall, it ended well. But I still think I would have problems trusting her if this had ever happened to me.
There are some aspects that resemble my separation & divorce . When she wanted me out of her life and her 2 kids , it was very difficult for me . 5 months later I sent my Xmas presents by mail ( the Military posted me 2,400 miles away from the kids ) . Anyway my former loving and responsible wife opened every present , re wrapped them and put her name on the presents that were better than hers . Such a nice role model of motherhood !
And there goes another survivor succumbing to the temptation to return to doormat status. He should have handled the DNA test independently, instead the 304 gets to handle it? I wouldn't trust her with anything, let alone taking charge of DNA testing.
Such a screwed up woman , she takes so long to tell her views , then she insults the very person that she wants to resume a relationship with . O M G !
I like it i wish to heard more stories like the type famous female spouse and normal ordinary guy and their problems to work as a couple this one was really good i even like some of her actions to get him back....
This is one of the main problems that cheating causes; it is called broken trust, and when that trust is lost it is very hard to restore. There will always be that element of doubt where the cheated person is concerned. Of course time will always be the ultimate healer.
I mean.. true. But in this story.. it seems like two characters who were far to young, and both far far to immature to be married. She far far more then him. But were clearly not ready for dealing with that type of deep level of commitment as well as a massive failure of communication. (which comes with all the aforementioned) With all her past stuff showing her immaturity, and the present stuff especially the charity event stuff and how long it took him to actually apologize for what was clearly a mistake- as well as showing both of them still trying to learn proper communication (her failure to fully explain the event).
@@sirwence9949 Point taken but one of the major issues, if not the major issue, that will cause failure in marriage is cheating. There are degrees of immaturity that do not necessarily end in divorce; e.g. mother-in-law intervention: there are some young spouses who are so immature that they run to mama with their internal disagreements when they should be seeking effective communication with their spouses in order to arrive at a mutual understanding. While this can be annoying to their partners, it will not likely trigger divorce. There is also the issue of poor budgeting and the general mishandling of the finances which could lead to disagreements that, except in worst case scenarios, would not likely end up in divorce. Even mature persons who should know better sometimes find themselves in divorce scenarios as some of the very stories on these cheating websites attest. I have seen some videos where people were married for over 25 and 30 years; These persons would have to be in an age group of 50 to 60.
First of all his parents could have had a D N A Test to see if there are any family genes in common . Then to make certain check the son’s D N A ! So this could have been resolved when the child was 1 month old VS 3 Yrs . Such a waste of time !
So I listened to this story and three things just pop out, (1) he did the right thing by divorcing and moving away; he did not play the pick me game and left with his pride and respect: (2) I am a 60 year old man and laugh when people talk about a man’s six; does it matter? Sure, to a lot of women but many women care less about size. When a woman loves you she loves all of you to include your imperfections. True love and commitment comes with joy and pain, anger and reconciliation, patience and impatience, but most importantly it comes with compromise and forgiveness as long as disrespect and vengeance is not a part of the relationship.(3) Children are the most important aspect of a relationship, but co-parenting if done successfully results in happy children, but staying together in a unhappy relationship is the worse thing a couple could do; your own happiness is the most valuable and important part of living. Based on how this story reads, I can see a reconciliation with a postnuptial. I won’t judge him for his decision, in the end he made the right choice!!!
This bish....
She up and leaves... then shows up out of nowhere, with a kid.
Then all she does is lie.
His parents told a completely different story about what happened when she showed up and announced her pregnancy.
Then all she can do is call him names and refuse to hear his side of the story without telling him his view is wrong. When she didn't give him anything to go off of. She just up and left. What tf was he supposed to think?
Then she drags him to that even to ignore him. No warning of her plans to be quick and all that. Again just expected him to know what she was thinking.
And the whole DNA thing???? Could have done a familial DNA test with his parents to show that they were indeed the grandparents.
Then again, not telling him about needing to break up with her boyfriend, just dropped off the kid and immediately goes to see another man.
She should have known by this point how bad she hurt him, how she had shattered his trust in her.
Jumping in front of that knife was the first thing she ever did that did anything to actually show him that she truly cared.
Overall, it ended well. But I still think I would have problems trusting her if this had ever happened to me.
Exactly 💯💯💯
What a simp.
162 kg mastif....thaymts 352 lbs....seriosly needs to go on a diet
There are some aspects that resemble my separation & divorce . When she wanted me out of her life and her 2 kids , it was very difficult for me . 5 months later I sent my Xmas presents by mail ( the Military posted me 2,400 miles away from the kids ) . Anyway my former loving and responsible wife opened every present , re wrapped them and put her name on the presents that were better than hers . Such a nice role model of motherhood !
And there goes another survivor succumbing to the temptation to return to doormat status. He should have handled the DNA test independently, instead the 304 gets to handle it? I wouldn't trust her with anything, let alone taking charge of DNA testing.
Such a screwed up woman , she takes so long to tell her views , then she insults the very person that she wants to resume a relationship with . O M G !
This was outstanding!!!
I like it i wish to heard more stories like the type famous female spouse and normal ordinary guy and their problems to work as a couple this one was really good i even like some of her actions to get him back....
This is one of the main problems that cheating causes; it is called broken trust, and when that trust is lost it is very hard to restore. There will always be that element of doubt where the cheated person is concerned. Of course time will always be the ultimate healer.
I mean.. true. But in this story.. it seems like two characters who were far to young, and both far far to immature to be married. She far far more then him. But were clearly not ready for dealing with that type of deep level of commitment as well as a massive failure of communication. (which comes with all the aforementioned) With all her past stuff showing her immaturity, and the present stuff especially the charity event stuff and how long it took him to actually apologize for what was clearly a mistake- as well as showing both of them still trying to learn proper communication (her failure to fully explain the event).
@@sirwence9949 Point taken but one of the major issues, if not the major issue, that will cause failure in marriage is cheating. There are degrees of immaturity that do not necessarily end in divorce; e.g. mother-in-law intervention: there are some young spouses who are so immature that they run to mama with their internal disagreements when they should be seeking effective communication with their spouses in order to arrive at a mutual understanding.
While this can be annoying to their partners, it will not likely trigger divorce. There is also the issue of poor budgeting and the general mishandling of the finances which could lead to disagreements that, except in worst case scenarios, would not likely end up in divorce. Even mature persons who should know better sometimes find themselves in divorce scenarios as some of the very stories on these cheating websites attest. I have seen some videos where people were married for over 25 and 30 years; These persons would have to be in an age group of 50 to 60.
Why do they all have Mastiff's
First of all his parents could have had a D N A Test to see if there are any family genes in common . Then to make certain check the son’s D N A ! So this could have been resolved when the child was 1 month old VS 3 Yrs . Such a waste of time !
The wife did not cheat just put her job before her family.
Yeah right, good men finish last.