1. He's just not that interested 2. Too intimidated 3. He's goal focused, other priorities 4. He has mental health issues 5. He doesn't see your value 6. He plays hard to get,less he gives the more you'll chase him 7. He sets boundaries 8. He's not looking for anything serious 9. He was hurt/burned in the past 10. Online dating 11. Starts taking you for granted 12. You both have different expectations 13. He feels he is the prize 14. He lost attraction for you 15. He feels trapped in a relationship
I just told my ex not to come back into my life unless hes prepared to move mountains and give me the world. And every single thing I ask for. Otherwise he is wasting his time and mine. He said "okay." 😅😂 I will win and I will get everything I want. I just have to be patient.
I don't do online dating, but whenever a man approaches me through social media I ask him to show me a recent picture of him. Then if it's a real pic of him and I find him interesting, I ask him to talk on Zoom on daylight to see how he looks like and get a glimpse of his energy in video-person. That will save you time and energy before you start all the chatting. In my case most of the time they don't get past their first picture they show me. Also, if it's long distance, I ask him to contact me when he is London, otherwise I don't bother to do long distance online chatting. So, I only use social media for business and keeping in touch with people I know. It's best to talk to beautiful strangers in person in public places.
I heard on the radio this morning this poor girl was being used by a man. She wanted to know where she stood. He said he didn't want a relationship. The Radio hosts asked him if he could still see himself with her in 6 month's time. He answered "If she wasn't mucking around, then yeah, she can stick around." Whoaaa!!! So she isn't allowed to see anybody. She is never to make demands on him. They have sex only on HIS TERMS. That's it! Nothing more. He makes LESS than NO EFFORT. The poor girl really likes him, is bound to him & is under his control.
I’m in this relationship with this guy and I feel like I am doing #15! I’m looking for a way out, feel guilty, and just am scared of all his controlling ways. I don’t even want to talk to him at all because I can’t express myself honestly in this relationship. He gets angry when I set boundaries and tries to make me feel I am doing something wrong! I feel like he is controlling and psychologically abusive.
@@shayflowers8471 Really? So you think he’s narcissistic? I suspected that, but he was so different from narcs I’ve been with in the past, so I wasn’t sure. I really thought I had healed myself and made progress to where I wouldn’t attract narcs anymore, but I guess not. 😭 I broke up with him yesterday and am grieving so badly. Sorry you’ve been with this type too😢
Great video, great new look on different situations. And that's true, sometimes we may try and change ourselves, but we can not control everything and the guy may just get bored or irritated and rude regardless of our patience or how good things were. Sometimes guys just dissapoint and this is not always a fault of being low value. I love it, when you give real examples, a story is better than a theory. Also your hair are very beautiful, looks silk like and girly, I like it better that the wigs. Not always longer hair is better in my opinion. Arms lenght is very feminine and classy.
My guy used to take me to restaurants and PAY. Now he just wants to walk around outside, and if we do go to eat somewhere, he wants me to pay for both of us! 😮
I agree but with busy men, we understand but is there a way a busy man can come across as making you feel special or a priority or is it not possible..?
1. He's just not that interested
2. Too intimidated
3. He's goal focused, other priorities
4. He has mental health issues
5. He doesn't see your value
6. He plays hard to get,less he gives the more you'll chase him
7. He sets boundaries
8. He's not looking for anything serious
9. He was hurt/burned in the past
10. Online dating
11. Starts taking you for granted
12. You both have different expectations
13. He feels he is the prize
14. He lost attraction for you
15. He feels trapped in a relationship
Then, you need to figure out which ones apply to him, or just don't bother and move on to the next.
I just told my ex not to come back into my life unless hes prepared to move mountains and give me the world. And every single thing I ask for. Otherwise he is wasting his time and mine. He said "okay." 😅😂 I will win and I will get everything I want. I just have to be patient.
This is what I told my perspective boyfriend and he ran to the hills and disappeared in thin air! 😢
@@cheekymonkeygirl3378 the difference between me and you is.. I don't care if my man comes back or not.
Saying this filters men from boys, and also filters men who actually love you from men who are using you.
I didn't put an "unless" with mine. I told him I wasn't willing to be in the singles circle. He then found a married woman to have sex with. ✌️
@@lke4907 Sure. I know I should not act desperate but most men are spoiled nowadays. They won't make any effort. 😼
I noticed the hard to get attitude . My response was to break it off. Im just shocked it works on women at all.
It works on immature women
I don't do online dating, but whenever a man approaches me through social media I ask him to show me a recent picture of him. Then if it's a real pic of him and I find him interesting, I ask him to talk on Zoom on daylight to see how he looks like and get a glimpse of his energy in video-person. That will save you time and energy before you start all the chatting. In my case most of the time they don't get past their first picture they show me. Also, if it's long distance, I ask him to contact me when he is London, otherwise I don't bother to do long distance online chatting. So, I only use social media for business and keeping in touch with people I know. It's best to talk to beautiful strangers in person in public places.
I heard on the radio this morning this poor girl was being used by a man. She wanted to know where she stood. He said he didn't want a relationship. The Radio hosts asked him if he could still see himself with her in 6 month's time. He answered "If she wasn't mucking around, then yeah, she can stick around." Whoaaa!!! So she isn't allowed to see anybody. She is never to make demands on him. They have sex only on HIS TERMS. That's it! Nothing more. He makes LESS than NO EFFORT. The poor girl really likes him, is bound to him & is under his control.
I’m in this relationship with this guy and I feel like I am doing #15! I’m looking for a way out, feel guilty, and just am scared of all his controlling ways. I don’t even want to talk to him at all because I can’t express myself honestly in this relationship. He gets angry when I set boundaries and tries to make me feel I am doing something wrong! I feel like he is controlling and psychologically abusive.
That's narcissistic behaviour honey. Been there too
@@shayflowers8471 Really? So you think he’s narcissistic? I suspected that, but he was so different from narcs I’ve been with in the past, so I wasn’t sure. I really thought I had healed myself and made progress to where I wouldn’t attract narcs anymore, but I guess not. 😭 I broke up with him yesterday and am grieving so badly. Sorry you’ve been with this type too😢
GET OUT OF THAT! Where's Your Dad to Vet this person?
Love your advice thanks for this video.❤️🌸🌸
Great video, great new look on different situations. And that's true, sometimes we may try and change ourselves, but we can not control everything and the guy may just get bored or irritated and rude regardless of our patience or how good things were. Sometimes guys just dissapoint and this is not always a fault of being low value. I love it, when you give real examples, a story is better than a theory. Also your hair are very beautiful, looks silk like and girly, I like it better that the wigs. Not always longer hair is better in my opinion. Arms lenght is very feminine and classy.
Bravo!!!! 👏 👏 👏
There it is
Applaud ⚘️⚘️⚘️
Great video as usual :)
Thank you x
Good video!
❤️❤️
My guy used to take me to restaurants and PAY. Now he just wants to walk around outside, and if we do go to eat somewhere, he wants me to pay for both of us! 😮
DUMP HIM!
He's breadcrumbing you. Exit asap
Then he may lose the woman he could have had. Too bad.
I agree but with busy men, we understand but is there a way a busy man can come across as making you feel special or a priority or is it not possible..?
They usually do that in the beginning
@Greta Bereisaite exactly.. that's how they hooks us 😅
Busy is an excuse. Always.
The person I'm in a
Cuz you ain't putting out?! 🤔
Throughout all your reasons, you refuse to hold women accountable. That's to much of a reason why alot of men aren't putting in that effort🤷
Why do you always speak of "we" when you are talking about men?!
I say “they” but my accent makes it sound like we 🤦🏼♀️
He’s definitely doing the right things. Amen. 🪬