15 Reasons Why Men Give Minimal Effort

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  • Опубліковано 31 лип 2024
  • 15 Reasons Why Men Give Minimal Effort #relationshipadvice
    Is he taking you for granted? Has he not replied to your text? Has he stopped to pursue you? Did he lose interest? Is he bread crumbing you? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then video is definitely for you!
    00:00 Intro
    01:54 he is not into you
    03:21 he is too intimidated to approach you
    04:05 he has other priorities
    05:37 he battles depression
    06:40 he doesn't see enough value in you
    07:19 he thinks he should play hard to get
    08:31 he is setting in a boundary
    09:49 he is just looking for fun
    10:41 He got hurt in the past
    12:22 online dating
    14:11 he is taking you for granted
    15:17 Different expectations
    17:37 He thinks he is the prize
    19:21 if he has lost attraction for you
    19:51 he feels trapped and wants to get out
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 40

  • @khrisi9410
    @khrisi9410 Рік тому +13

    1. He's just not that interested
    2. Too intimidated
    3. He's goal focused, other priorities
    4. He has mental health issues
    5. He doesn't see your value
    6. He plays hard to get,less he gives the more you'll chase him
    7. He sets boundaries
    8. He's not looking for anything serious
    9. He was hurt/burned in the past
    10. Online dating
    11. Starts taking you for granted
    12. You both have different expectations
    13. He feels he is the prize
    14. He lost attraction for you
    15. He feels trapped in a relationship

  • @lke4907
    @lke4907 Рік тому +17

    I just told my ex not to come back into my life unless hes prepared to move mountains and give me the world. And every single thing I ask for. Otherwise he is wasting his time and mine. He said "okay." 😅😂 I will win and I will get everything I want. I just have to be patient.

    • @cheekymonkeygirl3378
      @cheekymonkeygirl3378 Рік тому +7

      This is what I told my perspective boyfriend and he ran to the hills and disappeared in thin air! 😢

    • @lke4907
      @lke4907 Рік тому +9

      @@cheekymonkeygirl3378 the difference between me and you is.. I don't care if my man comes back or not.

    • @lke4907
      @lke4907 Рік тому +10

      Saying this filters men from boys, and also filters men who actually love you from men who are using you.

    • @Powerskaty
      @Powerskaty Рік тому +3

      I didn't put an "unless" with mine. I told him I wasn't willing to be in the singles circle. He then found a married woman to have sex with. ✌️

    • @cheekymonkeygirl3378
      @cheekymonkeygirl3378 Рік тому +4

      @@lke4907 Sure. I know I should not act desperate but most men are spoiled nowadays. They won't make any effort. 😼

  • @Jennifer-di4nl
    @Jennifer-di4nl Рік тому +11

    I noticed the hard to get attitude . My response was to break it off. Im just shocked it works on women at all.

  • @afg6605
    @afg6605 Рік тому +2

    Love your advice thanks for this video.❤️🌸🌸

  • @cherylnegus2441
    @cherylnegus2441 Рік тому +2

    I heard on the radio this morning this poor girl was being used by a man. She wanted to know where she stood. He said he didn't want a relationship. The Radio hosts asked him if he could still see himself with her in 6 month's time. He answered "If she wasn't mucking around, then yeah, she can stick around." Whoaaa!!! So she isn't allowed to see anybody. She is never to make demands on him. They have sex only on HIS TERMS. That's it! Nothing more. He makes LESS than NO EFFORT. The poor girl really likes him, is bound to him & is under his control.

  • @hdshjs
    @hdshjs Рік тому +1

    Great video, great new look on different situations. And that's true, sometimes we may try and change ourselves, but we can not control everything and the guy may just get bored or irritated and rude regardless of our patience or how good things were. Sometimes guys just dissapoint and this is not always a fault of being low value. I love it, when you give real examples, a story is better than a theory. Also your hair are very beautiful, looks silk like and girly, I like it better that the wigs. Not always longer hair is better in my opinion. Arms lenght is very feminine and classy.

  • @lyunt
    @lyunt Рік тому +2

    Great video as usual :)

  • @alycer.8158
    @alycer.8158 Рік тому +1

    Bravo!!!! 👏 👏 👏
    There it is
    Applaud ⚘️⚘️⚘️

  • @janeb6287
    @janeb6287 Рік тому +1

    Good video!

  • @light3940
    @light3940 Рік тому +2

    I’m in this relationship with this guy and I feel like I am doing #15! I’m looking for a way out, feel guilty, and just am scared of all his controlling ways. I don’t even want to talk to him at all because I can’t express myself honestly in this relationship. He gets angry when I set boundaries and tries to make me feel I am doing something wrong! I feel like he is controlling and psychologically abusive.

    • @shayflowers8471
      @shayflowers8471 Рік тому +2

      That's narcissistic behaviour honey. Been there too

    • @light3940
      @light3940 Рік тому +2

      @@shayflowers8471 Really? So you think he’s narcissistic? I suspected that, but he was so different from narcs I’ve been with in the past, so I wasn’t sure. I really thought I had healed myself and made progress to where I wouldn’t attract narcs anymore, but I guess not. 😭 I broke up with him yesterday and am grieving so badly. Sorry you’ve been with this type too😢

    • @iwhippedcreamcode4642
      @iwhippedcreamcode4642 Рік тому +2

      GET OUT OF THAT! Where's Your Dad to Vet this person?

  • @etiquetteconnoisseur6184
    @etiquetteconnoisseur6184 Рік тому +1

    Then he may lose the woman he could have had. Too bad.

  • @ellebelle222
    @ellebelle222 Рік тому

    I agree but with busy men, we understand but is there a way a busy man can come across as making you feel special or a priority or is it not possible..?

    • @GretaBereisaite
      @GretaBereisaite  Рік тому +3

      They usually do that in the beginning

    • @lke4907
      @lke4907 Рік тому +1

      @Greta Bereisaite exactly.. that's how they hooks us 😅

    • @Powerskaty
      @Powerskaty Рік тому +2

      Busy is an excuse. Always.

  • @light3940
    @light3940 Рік тому

    My guy used to take me to restaurants and PAY. Now he just wants to walk around outside, and if we do go to eat somewhere, he wants me to pay for both of us! 😮

  • @Rouchelleprivate
    @Rouchelleprivate Рік тому

    He’s definitely doing the right things. Amen. 🪬

  • @puabi666
    @puabi666 Рік тому +1

    Why would a depressed person date sum1

  • @user-nd3xs7jh2f
    @user-nd3xs7jh2f 11 місяців тому

    The person I'm in a

  • @mrconfusion87
    @mrconfusion87 8 місяців тому

    Cuz you ain't putting out?! 🤔

  • @badmon29
    @badmon29 Рік тому

    Throughout all your reasons, you refuse to hold women accountable. That's to much of a reason why alot of men aren't putting in that effort🤷

  • @TinfoilHatGirl
    @TinfoilHatGirl Рік тому

    Why do you always speak of "we" when you are talking about men?!

    • @GretaBereisaite
      @GretaBereisaite  Рік тому +1

      I say “they” but my accent makes it sound like we 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @puabi666
      @puabi666 Рік тому

      ​@@GretaBereisaitework on the th sound đ