Why your friend secretly hates you

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  • Опубліковано 11 гру 2024

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  • @Wahsoep
    @Wahsoep 3 дні тому +2

    I'm so glad you covered this. I hope we can receive more on friendships. I think this whole idea of women competing with each other secretly or openly is played out. There's power in women who genuinely want the best for each other, Bey didn't sing women run the world for no reason.
    Friends who cannot wait to embarrass you infront of people are not friends!! What about the women who act brand new when they want a man's attention😅 whew so sad or the ones already in relationships & their whole identity is tied to their men, so exhausting to be around.
    Thanks for that show recommendation & I love the new background💜.

  • @aggiew6359
    @aggiew6359 6 днів тому +6

    That thumbnail is sending me😂😂
    Why were we like that as kids surely

    • @Jepisms
      @Jepisms  6 днів тому +3

      🤣🤣i didn’t even think of that while making it but it actually fits

    • @WhatIsthat13
      @WhatIsthat13 6 днів тому +3

      @@aggiew6359 lol now we’re just bigger kids

  • @craftycat5494
    @craftycat5494 5 днів тому +2

    I see some women on the internet bragging about something mediocre their boyfriend did for them and lording it over other women. I feel sorry for them because they don't see themselves nor develop themselves further than that.

    • @Jepisms
      @Jepisms  5 днів тому +2

      Imagine how exhausting it would be to have such people around you. 😭

    • @craftycat5494
      @craftycat5494 5 днів тому +1

      @Jepisms 😩😩 terrible

  • @justgracious3196
    @justgracious3196 4 дні тому +1

    I have such a person in my circle and Yooh everything you said is true, she acts friendly but she goes around telling our mutual friend that she hates my guts and there was a period she was obsessed with me and could copy almost everything, comparing, competing in a very unhealthy way and talking about me 24/7 it was so exhausting and even though she sometimes acts like she cares about me and wants us to be close I just can’t be naive to forget all that, they say keep your friends close but your enemies closer 😅

    • @Jepisms
      @Jepisms  4 дні тому +1

      Omg…i can’t imagine being this situation 😭😭. Power to you 🥂

    • @justgracious3196
      @justgracious3196 4 дні тому +1

      @ Thank you, it’s not a good plc to be but it has opened my eyes

  • @itzcloveynuh1207
    @itzcloveynuh1207 3 дні тому +2

    With friends like these who needs enemies, who needs enemies, who needs enemies._Tommy Lee 🤷🏾🤦🏾🙅🏾🧘🏾💆🏾😢

  • @Datb2
    @Datb2 6 днів тому +2

    Yea emotional abuse is so real

  • @luvinfitness
    @luvinfitness 5 днів тому +1

    Wise words

  • @CindySmith-vd7xh
    @CindySmith-vd7xh 6 днів тому +4

    Oh god. I've had to let go of frienimies from the kenyan community (specifically from my own tribe, sadly) and other communities as well because of this. Competition can be healthy but jeeeeez. I'll just be by myself now. It's okay 😅😂

    • @Jepisms
      @Jepisms  5 днів тому +3

      IKR…it’s really hard to have healthy friendships without deconstructing all these patriarchal ideals that encourage competition

    • @funmi5653
      @funmi5653 5 днів тому +2

      @@Jepismsthis! 💯we are so conditioned by this misogynistic & patriarchal society that both parties would need to deconstruct those competitive notions programmed into us before we can truly be good friends to oneself and then to each other. Especially us women because I find that throughout my life I’ve either had to with jealous &/ competitive friends 😮‍💨 and it is exhausting. Seeing women like you online lets me know, my people are out there though. I won’t give up

  • @EdelKoech
    @EdelKoech 5 днів тому +2

    How do you practice your spoken French?...I read well and understand the language.....but speaking...highschool oral exams kept me on my toes....but now I am out of practice..

    • @Jepisms
      @Jepisms  5 днів тому +1

      I speak to myself 🤪, I read poems and articles out loud and I also try to memorize French songs.
      In addition, I journal in French. Writing helps with speaking too. I don’t do all these everyday but I try at least a few times a week

  • @wendyabura9939
    @wendyabura9939 6 днів тому +1

    Can I have one of the cats OMG❤

  • @WhatIsthat13
    @WhatIsthat13 6 днів тому +2

    Do you have a channel where you only speak French?

    • @Jepisms
      @Jepisms  6 днів тому +3

      Nope…been tinkering with the idea of making my TikTok fully French though.

    • @EdelKoech
      @EdelKoech 5 днів тому +1

      ​@@Jepisms please do.....❤