My Divôrcè With My Pastor Husband Was Caused By Ghanaians,I Was Naive & Became Déprêssed, Frustràted

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  • @deeamoo
    @deeamoo 10 місяців тому +50

    It was great to talk all about my life here in Germany 🇩🇪

    • @africanmummyindeutschland2741
      @africanmummyindeutschland2741 10 місяців тому +3

      ​@@dorcasagyei5040 Thanks , I was happy to share.

    • @daavigh9239
      @daavigh9239 10 місяців тому +1

      An amazing interview. @deeamoo, you are awesome. Lots of love❤❤❤

    • @ellenagyei-tuffour1631
      @ellenagyei-tuffour1631 10 місяців тому

      Thanks for sharing your story. Can I get your email or any official contact to ask a question?

    • @amvic207
      @amvic207 10 місяців тому

      ​@@africanmummyindeutschland2741
      great insight, proud of you❤
      remember the best is yet to come❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @estherappiah6402
      @estherappiah6402 10 місяців тому

      Yaaaayyy that’s my Sis oooo❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nanaakuaasiedu1022
    @nanaakuaasiedu1022 10 місяців тому +24

    just 13 minutes into this interview but i can say this lady is very honest and real. She blamed herself for her failed marriage (few peeople will publicly accept uch blame). I really like the part where she said 'I was vunerable and never knew that my marriage can end'. Trust me, if you are from a good home, you never understand why divorce happens unless you experience it.

    • @icetee1517
      @icetee1517 10 місяців тому

      shes calling a man financially abus1ve.. and you saying shes real.. smh. The problem we have, you dont even get encouraged a bit to think of getting married.

  • @damoahlydia1284
    @damoahlydia1284 10 місяців тому +16

    Some Ghanaians hmm, if you want your marriage to work in abroad don't involve self too much in Ghanaians, let your husband/ Wife be your friend to share everything with ❤❤

  • @ndotdot23
    @ndotdot23 10 місяців тому +12

    These are the people you should follow when you come abroad. Great interview and thanks for what you do for your community

  • @akoblossom666
    @akoblossom666 10 місяців тому +10

    Am sooo glad I watched this interview. Trust me, it was therapeutic for me...bless u Lady🙏

  • @traceyyeboah3034
    @traceyyeboah3034 10 місяців тому +9

    Wow Dentaa, God bless you for this enlightenment on depression. I’m a healthcare provider in America and it’s one of the biggest challenge we face here. Ghanaians are raised to be immune to mental health and it’s sad because we suffer through or blame the “devil”, eduro, etc, but that’s another topic for another day. Bless your beautiful heart and daughter. You’ve done good for yourself. I’m proud of you. Enjoy life, focus and ignore any distractions

    • @adwoaackom4641
      @adwoaackom4641 10 місяців тому

      I like that

    • @africanmummyindeutschland2741
      @africanmummyindeutschland2741 10 місяців тому +4

      ❤ Thank you so much. I appreciate your words so much! Mental health is something we really ignore as Ghanaians everything is always spiritual or someone is to blame!

  • @Rosay2000
    @Rosay2000 10 місяців тому +10

    She looks like Jackie Appiah😊

  • @khalicity4179
    @khalicity4179 10 місяців тому +6

    This Interview is very enlightening. I'm in germany and most of the things she said is very true. There are so many opportunities here but most Ghanaians fail to see them because they don't get the right guidance.

    • @jemimaasante8927
      @jemimaasante8927 10 місяців тому +1

      In most cases Ghanians are cheasing money and anything concerning education it not for them but make money any how.

  • @deri613
    @deri613 10 місяців тому +10

    She does so much work to help women in Germany with her platform...such a good person ❤

  • @sikakesse5389
    @sikakesse5389 10 місяців тому +3

    Maame you spoke so well, this interview will go down as one of my best, Well done.
    DJ Nyame thank you.

  • @charityapam2860
    @charityapam2860 10 місяців тому +2

    This lady has learned!
    This is inspiring.
    Very intelligent lady
    God bless you

  • @pinaama6445
    @pinaama6445 7 місяців тому +1

    DJ we need p2 from this lady. You can make it anywhere in Europe if you step out of your circle and take positive steps 👏👏👏

  • @apdwaseb8663
    @apdwaseb8663 10 місяців тому +3

    This is very good. I was once taken aback when one Ghanaians German pharmacist tried to encourage others to become pharmacist. We need to get out of our comfort zones and move up.

  • @wendyasiedu-antwi7284
    @wendyasiedu-antwi7284 10 місяців тому +6

    My sis faced the same situation but she stood her grounds.ghanaians in germany are noted for that

  • @eaboakye5310
    @eaboakye5310 10 місяців тому +1

    Very very good conversation. Enlightenment and wisdom in all spheres of life.

  • @yvonneberko3674
    @yvonneberko3674 10 місяців тому +6

    Maame Dentaa has always been a leader from her childhood. I am not surprised about the amazing woman she has grown to become. Maame well done ! I have no doubt that you will continue to do exploits.

  • @ibrahimhhalidu4069
    @ibrahimhhalidu4069 9 місяців тому

    This lady is very intelligent. I have kept a lot of notes. Respect to you my darling sister.

  • @desasterking1740
    @desasterking1740 10 місяців тому +5

    Ghana Community is so far behind when is about Education. Talking from experience. Born and raised in Germany.

    • @veraaddoyobo8482
      @veraaddoyobo8482 10 місяців тому

      They only think about money, a lot of Ghanaians have poverty mindset

  • @akwasiasiamah220
    @akwasiasiamah220 10 місяців тому +3

    Please Germany is very big country with population of at least (83 million) people so therefore (Essen) the city in which she lives is not big as Hamburg,Berlin or Munich, am talking about the way she trying to narrate the conversation saying about never saw any one paid more than (3000€) first and foremost not everybody will come on the show and talk about how much she or he gets paid and also about the type of job people are doing here in Germany just explain yourself and please don't forget not everybody can go to university

  • @afuaowusuaa2865
    @afuaowusuaa2865 10 місяців тому +3

    Very very different, when you stay, work and pay yr bills that is when you know the system, not visiting

  • @abdel-karimosmanuazumah499
    @abdel-karimosmanuazumah499 9 місяців тому +1

    She is very very very right . In Germany you can be anything . Dont listen to the old Borga's . I'm Software Engineer in Germany and I don't even speak German .

  • @nanaama7632
    @nanaama7632 10 місяців тому +1

    Have in joy this interview

  • @abdallahhasia2018
    @abdallahhasia2018 10 місяців тому

    She is a very good person with a heart of Gold ,God bless you big sister ❤

  • @judithaddison-h4l
    @judithaddison-h4l 10 місяців тому +3

    Great interview ❤

  • @estherappiah6402
    @estherappiah6402 10 місяців тому

    Great Interview Sis…please continue with the great works. You are doing well

  • @famegotyousick1175
    @famegotyousick1175 10 місяців тому +3

    VERY great show

  • @amvic207
    @amvic207 10 місяців тому

    @ Mad. Adenta the best is yet to come in your life so don't give up❤

  • @ZEEpass
    @ZEEpass 7 місяців тому

    I love this lady paa. I look up to her

  • @ohemaagloria4367
    @ohemaagloria4367 9 місяців тому

    Great interview. Depression is very real cuz I was shoplifting just lipstick when I became depressed. I shut down mentally. Couldn't pray or talk to people even my own family. But we mock people when it happens to them

  • @MameConnie-zd5pj
    @MameConnie-zd5pj 10 місяців тому +2

    Ghana sweet too much o o o o! Home bi home.
    😁😄😄😀😃🖐️👍👋

  • @kwame334
    @kwame334 8 місяців тому

    I agree, those who have been in general labor sectors for years like manufacturing, construction, landscaping or cleaning are the ones who like to meddle in the affairs of others. I guess they do that out of frustration with life.

  • @priscillaasamoah9156
    @priscillaasamoah9156 10 місяців тому

    I was waiting for this interview. This lady is a great motivator on TikTok but she’s missing kakraa. I’m in Oberhausen, never knew she’s even close to me

  • @akosuaish
    @akosuaish 10 місяців тому

    I really enjoyed the interview

  • @francisadjei1208
    @francisadjei1208 10 місяців тому +1

    God bless you my dear, I don't know what is wrong with we Ghanaians, instead of to enjoy life ours is to travel and build mansions to show off and stay in cubicles abroad , later die and leave them with family members who never worked for it. God should grant us wisdom.

  • @WillietsWorld
    @WillietsWorld 10 місяців тому +2

    I was unable to fully understand this story. Why did you need someone to communicate with your husband?

    • @akosuaish
      @akosuaish 10 місяців тому +2

      No it’s when they go to Germany offices

  • @graceritaowusu1434
    @graceritaowusu1434 10 місяців тому +5

    God bless you my dear, I don't know what is wrong with we Ghanaians, all that we know is to travel and build mansions to show off in Ghana instead of enjoying life, we prefer staying in cubicles abroad and later we die and leave those mansion for our family members who never contributed to our success. God should grant us wisdom.

    • @cynthiaacquah9733
      @cynthiaacquah9733 9 місяців тому +2

      I rather build in Ghana for my family to live in to carry my legacy when I die than die abroad and government taken my properties

  • @AbdoulAzizOUEDRAOUGO
    @AbdoulAzizOUEDRAOUGO 6 місяців тому

    Hmmmmmm oh my god.oh Lord have mercy

  • @faustinavidzornu3650
    @faustinavidzornu3650 10 місяців тому +1

    Maami Dentaa ( Mummis in Deutschland) we Love ❤❤❤ U

  • @charityapam2860
    @charityapam2860 10 місяців тому

    Your circle’s is very important

  • @EmmanuelAgyeiOpoku-e4j
    @EmmanuelAgyeiOpoku-e4j 10 місяців тому

    This woman is speaking a lot of sense dj bring her again

  • @familieOteng-Mensah
    @familieOteng-Mensah 10 місяців тому +1

    I mean if you say black people are not earning 3000€ that is not true because there are Ghanaians or other blacks who are born here in Germany 🇩🇪 and they have good jobs and they earn good income you have to say some of them who came here from Africa or some where else and they can’t speak the language that one is understandable

  • @mylifeisqueen
    @mylifeisqueen 10 місяців тому +1

    Great job, Maame Amo.

  • @egsie
    @egsie 10 місяців тому

    that right there is a good conversation

  • @modesterkumasim1515
    @modesterkumasim1515 10 місяців тому +1

    Good one ❤

  • @MameConnie-zd5pj
    @MameConnie-zd5pj 10 місяців тому +1

    Please DJ Nyame, overseas being boring depends on if you leave in big city or small town or rural areas. My dears, some people leave in small towns which are mostly white people. So, we must be careful in generalization. We must not say that some people are doing laborer jobs may be that is all they are capable of doing. May be, those laborers do not have choice. This lady is lucky because she seems not to facracism.

  • @priscillantow3517
    @priscillantow3517 10 місяців тому +2

    Great interview.👍
    Well done Denta.👏👏👏👏
    Dj Nyame please share her social media handle.
    Thank you

  • @Gemini18463
    @Gemini18463 10 місяців тому

    So inspiring

  • @emmanuelprempeh7766
    @emmanuelprempeh7766 9 місяців тому

    Have you seen the reason why people don’t associate themselves with Ghanaians everywhere …???

  • @ntiamoahkofi1992
    @ntiamoahkofi1992 10 місяців тому +2

    But this lady is interesting

  • @gorgeous.akosua
    @gorgeous.akosua 9 місяців тому

    Why did she not move in with her husband?
    Is she using her Ghanaian degree now?

  • @mercygyamfi8661
    @mercygyamfi8661 10 місяців тому +3

    Prioritize yourself 😘

  • @mirandaannor7552
    @mirandaannor7552 10 місяців тому

    Omg this interview ❤️

  • @DadieBoachie
    @DadieBoachie 10 місяців тому +1

    Nyame, ony3 Samia alloo?

  • @nanayaw3201
    @nanayaw3201 10 місяців тому

    Madam the big mistake you made in Germany is, you met nkuraasefoɔ on your way

  • @rosie5930
    @rosie5930 10 місяців тому +3

    It's not easy when a man brings you abroad as a wife. It's either you remain submissive in your misery when you definitely knows you can do better or you break out and move forward. Only few men who truly loves you will understand you.

  • @MameConnie-zd5pj
    @MameConnie-zd5pj 10 місяців тому

    Men and women, you may want to stop listening to people when it comes to your relationship. Not everyone is looking out for your betterment. Some people talk too much about their sacred marriage to different people. Be cautious in trusting some people

  • @emmanuelprempeh7766
    @emmanuelprempeh7766 9 місяців тому

    Ghana can only be sweet for you when you have much money…!!!

  • @reinreindorf
    @reinreindorf 8 місяців тому

    As for us...we only come here looking for a wife 😅

  • @kayd.3185
    @kayd.3185 10 місяців тому

    Easy money to be a pastor nowadays in this world. Why her husband pastor didn’t choose to go and minister in the villages of Ghana instead of the most branches in Europe.The tithing in euros in Europe was better.Please listen to this woman about illiteracy in Ghanaian communities, ask her how many phd’s degree holders in her husband’ churches giving free money to her pastor husband.

  • @peterkofi1545
    @peterkofi1545 10 місяців тому

    The gospel musicians themselves dont last in their marriages talk less if they connect you to someone being Pastor.

  • @gyebiwinfred
    @gyebiwinfred 10 місяців тому +2

    Nice .... woaa wo nkrataa ny3 , how can you go for holidays ?

    • @healthartistrymatters9569
      @healthartistrymatters9569 10 місяців тому +1

      Some of you de333... What's the meaning of this statement?

    • @gyebiwinfred
      @gyebiwinfred 10 місяців тому +2

      @@healthartistrymatters9569 meaning some Ghanaians do not have papers so considering a vacation is the remotest thing think about.

  • @m.t8140
    @m.t8140 10 місяців тому +2

    Better to believe in your husband than friends. You were ungrateful and so greedy that was the problem

    • @ellenagyei-tuffour1631
      @ellenagyei-tuffour1631 10 місяців тому +1

      She’s not ungrateful wai, I’m in Germany too and I can relate to whatever she is saying. The illiteracy rate (not education wise) is too high so it’s difficult to find someone who will understand that you are an educated woman that needs pushing to the top. All they care about is to turn you into a work slave. Hmmm many wives are suffering here paa.

    • @veraaddoyobo8482
      @veraaddoyobo8482 10 місяців тому

      How is she greedy and ungrateful? Ghanaians hate women wanting progress

  • @kwamedarko1141
    @kwamedarko1141 10 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @susanaosei9572
    @susanaosei9572 10 місяців тому

    Be smart next time, that's whow some of the Ghanaians are.

  • @danjones1335
    @danjones1335 10 місяців тому +3

    Pls, mind ur speech Germany is not for illiterates as u think. There are cultured literates people in Germany. So do u mean those doing aprapra and danke danke have no sense? It was unfortunate u meet the wrong people Don’t everyone can be a lawyer, medical officer, and so forth. So respect any work provided the work Someone is doing. May u don’t have have literates in Essen. In Hamburg we have a lot in Hamburg working in offices.

    • @nanaamoo4705
      @nanaamoo4705 10 місяців тому +7

      That’s not what she’s saying please. She added..no disrespect. She was merely stating her truth.

    • @yvonneberko3674
      @yvonneberko3674 10 місяців тому +8

      Please she said “no disrespect” and she didn’t meet such people . Not that they don’t exist there. She just shared her experience in a very enlightening way.

    • @jossmaan2839
      @jossmaan2839 10 місяців тому +3

      That was true with a few of the cases in the 70s and 80s. Very few scholarship students went to Germany back then compared to the UK and US, yet there were thousands of Ghanaians who hustled their way there back then. I personally met several in Germany who were Saume Magazine, trotro drivers etc who hadn't been to school but did well making money once there. One guy brought his illiterate younger brother in 78 and all he did was get drunk everyday, a waste!😂 Bottom, line the interviewee did not mean it the way you are thinking, read between the lines!✌

    • @africanmummyindeutschland2741
      @africanmummyindeutschland2741 10 місяців тому +2

      Looks like you didn't watch or understand the interview. Stay blessed.

    • @sikakesse5389
      @sikakesse5389 10 місяців тому +1

      Please watch the interview again to get a better understanding, looks like you missed some parts.
      No offence.

  • @agyeinimboateng2699
    @agyeinimboateng2699 10 місяців тому +1

    A university graduate fell in love with azaa osofo madam you are cheep

    • @faustinavidzornu3650
      @faustinavidzornu3650 10 місяців тому +2

      Stop what u saying because u don't know her non her Ex Hubby

    • @maraaba6734
      @maraaba6734 10 місяців тому +1

      Oh! Smh.

    • @akwasiasiamah220
      @akwasiasiamah220 10 місяців тому

      She and her husband did not make more inquiries before came to Germany, than again here is not English speaking country therefore if any one with university level first and foremost make sure to learn the language or choose English country for your future than here in Germany

    • @kwamedarko1141
      @kwamedarko1141 10 місяців тому

      Who told you that the was azaa osofo

    • @veraaddoyobo8482
      @veraaddoyobo8482 10 місяців тому

      Look at you, another Ghanaian cheap talk

  • @MameConnie-zd5pj
    @MameConnie-zd5pj 10 місяців тому +1

    Have you guys seen some Africans with Phds working in odd jobs? Do you guys know some well educated Africans in great and demanding fields that are hired in good jobs but fired or refused them promotion? Such people are going through a lot and barely surviving with laborer jobs because some of them are blackballed. Please guys don't forget color of people's skin? Thanks guys