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@@Stephanie-lk5jf EDNOS stands for eating disorders not otherwise specified. The term has been updated and now people more commonly use OSFED or other specified eating or feeding disorders.
i have dirty blonde hair and blue eyes too, i was just highlighting it because i think it was a good point to make and the main part was the “perfect body”
As a boy, I'm here to remind girls with insecurities that not everyone looks the same or acts the same, they all have their unique way of being beautiful so just bcuz some girl looks different and she looks good doesn't mean you aren't beautiful, she just has a different way of being beautiful, dw guys will love you for you and your unique way of being beautiful to them and unique way of being YOU.
I can't tell you Alfonso that how many girls may have read this comment and may have felt better. Your parents/ guardians or even yourself did a really good job on your perspective and personality. You are an excellent man and I may not know you but I really hope that if you ever find your soulmate they will be absolutely lucky to have found a gem like you.
Every time I listen to this song, it either makes me cry or makes me want to shut out the world with the negativity and embrace myself with trying new things! Whoever feels like this, it’s going to be okay and we can achieve our goals
No don't be sad! I can already tell that, assuming you find this song somewhat relatable, you're a great person and these insecurities are all in your head. It's ok. This also appies to anyone else reading this too i guess. Hope I helped a bit, sorry if I exaggerated or something :)
me: **crying in the bathroom because im insecure about my body** **pretty skinny blonde girls dancing to this on tiktok and doing "what i eat in a day"**
Me in the morning looking at the mirror: now that's a good looking guy there. Me at 3 am looking the mirror: you look like shit, you worthless human being.
I wore a tight take top I never wear but I did when I went to the water park I have a belly I am fat on the belly and I know this already and I'm a hairy person but that shit did not stop me because my brother told me if someone doesn't like you on your ugly day move the fuck on everyone has there fears and demons it's your choice to take it and control it and take power
@@ellenceri3995 okay fuck thats good, i stg im living by that now,, lemme say it once more: 'if someone doesnt like you on your ugly day everyone has there fears and demons it's your choice to take it and control it and take power'
Me too. For me it’s about the kids at my school who all treat me like shit and like I’m worthless, and all the popular girls are pretty and skinny and they have perfect bodies and no acne, and everyone tells me I look like a man. *I* don’t even think I look like a man, like at all!!!!
Emily Riddle exactly!! I get that to, I got told I look like a man but I don’t sound like one I don’t have the body type for one. It’s just the matter of how you see yourself.
This song really hits hard for me, not just because im ugly, but because I am overweight for my age. My dad hasn't been supportive at all. If he catches me with a snack at 12 at night, he'll body shame me and say "This is the exact reason that you are big." I silently cry to this song because of how much I've been thinking of starving myself, and this has also led to dark thoughts. I tried once already on my finger, and the scar is still there. I still haven't found self-acceptance yet and I'm not ready to tell anyone about this yet, even though I joke about it with my friends. It hurts even more because all of my friends are getting into relationships that I help them with while I'm here, alone. I just feel like I have so many insecurities, almost too many. Hopefully no one really sees this, I just felt like saying this to get things off of my chest. Edit: Hey guys, just wanted to say that I've gotten slightly better with eating. I'm seeing some ppl in the comments saying that dieting isn't hard to do, but it made me feel even worse bc my dad kept saying things like that, which made me not want to do anything about it and eventually lose motivation. I'm still struggling with mental health and figuring myself out, but thank you to the ones who were kind and gave advice to me
Your dad is right, if you're up eating snacks at the middle of the night clearly you're not doing enough to lose weight. You're the only reason you're over weight.
Hey ignore that fucker. Hes just being a bitch cause he has nobody that loves him, or even cares about him. Hes a basement baby. You are a delicate soul that needs to be protected
@@Zviktoriya its really hard to quit eating snacks in the middle of the night? Their dad cares and is doing something to try and help yet they push all that away and choose to be overweight and unhealthy because they cant control themselves. Even if it is hard, its 100% possible to do
man your dad shouldn't have said that 😭 but on a more serious note, i think you should stop snacking at midnight, it will affect your health. if you're hungry, eat something healthy like nuts (if you're not allergic) or oat cereals
@Sofia-Cristin Panayiotou I have almost the same story. I was bullied into starving myself, and before my parents could stop me, I was already ‘Too thin’, and ‘Flat’. I was never satisfied with my body image. I honestly never will be. I only know I will never resort to any sort of surgery to change it. I hate showing my face, and I wear oversized clothing to hide myself. People ask me why, and I usually respond with ‘I hate myself.’ The conversation doesn’t go on from there. Now all I am is a skinny white girl being criticized by men wherever I go. I don’t go to public places anymore. Sure, take my extra money and deliver all of my meals and groceries to me. I’ll do anything to stay away from human interaction outside of the internet, where I can just be whoever I want without showing myself.
*ive been starving myself* damn. i haven’t done that in awhile. i’m actually proud that i’m recovering :) and i’m gonna keep it that way. no matter what.
I feel like I should update you all. I had a bad week. That bad week made me go back to this habit but I talked to my therapist and doctor about it and they’ve found different ways to help me. I’m still on a track to help better myself and I’m going good. Thank you for all your kind words and encouragement. It honestly helped me throughout that week as I kept rereading them when I felt like I was going to be low. 💛
listen yall no matter your accent gender stretch marks skin color sexuality religion ethnicity nationality weight height face or other. your perfect in ur own way. your ur own person. dont let people tell u otherwise! eat something, drink water, dont try to be the person people want u to be, be the person u YOURSELF. want to be. love ya
I know ur coming at it from a good place, but this is fake comfort. if ur willing to accept that the only love u need is your own then fine, be as weird as u want. but if ur looking for someone else's love we need to put in the effort for it. people that say "just be urself" are people that don't need to change and already align with current standards, not all of us fit in so easily.
@@toitman2 i think you missed the point of this comment - they aren't necessarily trying to say "just be yourself" but rather "be the person you want to be" - that means taking steps to improve yourself to where you want to be, not just settling for being satisfied with the way you are currently (if you don't truly feel that way) as well as dont beat yourself up over things you have no control over (like the aforementioned "imperfections"). also, this isn't fake comfort; don't miscontrue kindness, if someone is being kind, just take it to face value. look for reasons to be kind, not doubtful because suspicion only leads to division and regrets.
"count your calories" i already know i'm gonna love this song lets get this bread EDIT: goddamm its been two years and im still stuck in this neverending cycle of owie ouchie i hate my body. i really hope the rest of yall can find comfort and happiness one day, life is full of too much beauty for us to be stuck here. blessed be
beach bunny: *writes this song about eating disorders* famous tiktok ccs: *disrespects this song by showcasing how much they eat in a day while having this song play in the background*
Fr that's dumb but if didn't see everyone cancelling Addison i would have never listens to it but pls forgive I never knew this song was about ed when I first heard it i was just listening to the instruments and the prom queen part
yea...but It’s also kinda about body confidence and things...It’s about not-liki g your body...and then indeed people on tik tok are just like “eh,you can have it if you want to”
I'm finally able to listen to this without shaking and tears running down my face. Finally able to look in the mirror without any bad thoughts. Finally.
(Run-on sentence warning) I don't even know if this is a joke or not bc I've seen a lot of Facebook Moms and shit but I relate to that on a spiritual level.
@@frankslefttesticle3247 getting love without effort isn't very fun, is it? i just want to have a lot of firsts with one person *shrug two narcissists have trouble raising their expectations
I relate to this song so much, I had this one friend which everyone was looking up to because she was 'pretty' or in other words 'perfect' she was smart, kind, she's the package everyone wants. I wanted to have that type of feelings too, being loved by everyone. So I starved myself, skipped breakfast everyday, re-bond my hair, studied, overworked myself by studying, but it still wasn't enough. I was still ignored by people. I gained ED along the way, and It was so worse that I have a look of disgust trying to eat every food served in my plate, worrying how much calories I would gain if I eat those. I exercise every time I eat a lot of food that has many calories. And finally I opened up to my dad saying I have ED when I finally felt comfortable saying it, he said that I should stop doing it and because I was younger than 13 that time. *So just reminder for everyone, please don't pressure yourself just for people to like you, be your own way!!*
*"I wish I was like you, blue eyed blondie."* This takes me back to my childhood. I would always see these pretty main characters with blue eyes and blond hair, not to mention the popular girls in my school looked like that, and I slowly started to hate my brown hair and my brown-black eyes. This is why representation is very important. I dont want people to go through that kinda self judgement.
Yeah same, I used to wish I was blonde with blue eyes when I was younger. My mother always said I looked pretty the way I was and that if I dyed my hair blonde it wouldn't look that great.
..."I've been starving myself".. I can relate to much to that bc I wanna starve myself and I have been trying. But I just can't seem too and every time I sing that song " blue eyed blondie perfect body" in friends with a girl like that and I'm insecure about myself for it...and every time I hear that I start to cry. Every time my friends ask me: "are you okay?" I say "I'm fine" while tears are pouring down my face and they say "are you sure?" And I wipe my tears and I say "yes.." I cannot get over it in fat and I say that and every one is like "no your not" and there just saying that to make me fell better and it doesn't even help. I say it every day I act like everything is fine even though I'm smiling on the outside in crying and screaming on the inside....
Beach bunny: *wish I was like you blue-eyed blondie, perfect body.* mxmtoon: *i’d be the prom queen if crying was a contest* Somethings going on here 🤔 They are trying to warn us prom is gonna be horrible!
i know its hard but i really hope you get better, you are better than that and you deserve better, dont hurt yourself just because of some other people who like to let others down. this is a 8 month old comment and i hope you got better and you arent like this anymore but if you are im so sorry and if you need someone you can talk to me on insta : e11y.th3fr0g
I just found this song recently and it reminds me of how people aren’t often told that they’re good enough. It’s not fair and I think everyone deserves to feel beautiful, I just wish we could show each other how much they’re valued even just a little bit…
this song really speaks to me. i feel like whenever i do my makeup and dress up nicely for school, people are actually nice to me and treat me with respect. but when i don’t do my hair and makeup and just wear sweats, people tend to ignore me and sometimes even disrespect me.
Let me tell ya, it's the opposite for me. I wear make-up and dress up EVERY single day. I've never worn jeans or sweatpants a day in my life. You'll never catch me without makeup. I get told I wear too much make-up or that I'm over dressed. People prefer me to use my 'natural beauty' and wear comfortable clothes. Apparently I'm 'fake' or attention seeking because I put so much into my appearance. Wearing makeup and dressing up makes me happy. Infact, I feel more like myself in a full face of makeup than I do bare faced. And that's okay. Being natural and comfortable doesn't make me feel good even if it makes others like me more. The same goes for you. Wear and do what makes you comfortable and happy. Sweatpants? No makeup? Messy hair? Whatever. You go for it! Whatever makes you feel beautiful and hot as fuck is entirely up to you and NO ONE has the right to change that self perception. If they don't respect you for you, then they certainly aren't worth your time. ❤
Tbh same I wore this really pretty black long dress that was super expensive and even a boy called me pretty. Everyone else complimented me and tried starting conversations with me, like is it the push up bra or the dress? (don’t mind the push up bra lmao a store worker recommended it since it was strapless) Why can’t everyone just be nice like that everyday?
It was for an ad, from what she said: they told her to use this song, and show off the product. She probably didn’t look into the song, and was just doing what she was told to do.
y’all can be mad this got on tiktok, or y’all can be happy this song got the recognition it deserved. your choice whether you want to bring the negativity into your life.
tik-tok let's me see amazing songs, IDK how tik-tok can even ruin it, it's people who like the song and dance or move to it, other people like it and it becomes a trend, it's such a pretty song with a sad meaning people can relate to ( thank you for being positive, I've seen negative comments) u make my day happy
*My love for people joins the chat* *My care for you has joined the chat* *My happiness has joined the chat* My care for you is typing.. *My self doubts has left the chat*
If you're here, this is a checkpoint. Get a drink of water. Eat a snack if you haven't eaten in a while. Smile because you're beautiful and loved Have a nice day/night
@@supernova5562 Yes you are, You're loved by me and this friend shaped human, at least! There's undoubtedly more people that I'm not currently aware of that love you as well. Take care of yourself, my friend! Sent with hugs and a bag of marshmallows, your spooky neighborhood Spider-Man!
As someone who isn't part of the "pretty girl" group at school, this song really speaks to me. I don't WANT the attention, but it stings when they get all of it, when everyones eye is always drawn to them first, especially when I have the same qualities, I just wonder what they have that I don't. And it's not their fault either, they don't see themselves as above me, they're such lovely people, it's just that the people around us hold them on this twisted pedestal.
this song is actually about everything, body’s, faces, liking boys but being insecure because you feel like you’re not pretty enough, it’s all, and i just love it
Samee and I'm only 12 and my mam keeps on taking me to therapy but ya know I'm getting skinnier and skinnier and more cuts on my wrists stomach and thighs
holy shit, why are you crying, man?! you're literally the most gorgeous person I've seen!! chin up, darling and don't be sad, you're gonna make it ilyyy
This song really hits me, since everyone around me is living a happy life, theyre all beautiful with their unique style, or getting into happy relashionships, while im stuck here alone, with no one even showing slight interest in me, and the one time i somehow got feelings for someone they just rejected me, its so hard to have a crush or fall in love for me, so i end up being the person with the good advice that can only watch life continue from a distance.
me: *slowly recovering from my eating disorders and learning how to cope with my feelings while going to therapy, would rather not think about it* UA-cam: so we just found the most perfect thing for you
they didn't though, in america, they spell it like because in newspapers and such, the cost of publishing things used to be by the letter, so they cut out letters that seemed unecessary like u, but we kept them because the pricing was different for us.
@@icearmy1254 I'm not anorexic. Body issues are very prevalent in teens, and that's what I interpret the song to be about. I know I'm not happy with my body, but I'm trying to fix that healthily.
this song hits different because i always used to get bullied cause of my body and hearing songs like these make me so sad knowing this is our world we live in knowing if you don’t fit the beauty standard people will hate on you and bully you
just to all the girls that need to hear this this song hits so many hard spots on so many different people and I just want you to know that you are beautiful that you are amazing and you are perfect you are loved by so many. anyone who thinks they have the right to tell you other wise is a lowlife piece of trash and you do not need that negativity in you're life. so ignore them and just be happy knowing that you are strong, beautiful, and you don't need anyone or anything to tell you that.
Funnily enough, they played this song at my middle school dance. It got me dancing with girls I’ve always wanted to hang out with, and the next day, we talked more than usual. I felt like I... fit in.
I was 7 and my dad took me and my brother to get yogurtland, he made me get the plain and strawberries topping while my brother got to get whatever he wanted, i didn’t understand but i didn’t care because you know ice cream, but then when we went back to the car he yelled at me about my weight and how he shouldn’t have even let me get strawberries because they had too much natural sugars, he repeatedly told me to go to the gym. I was 7. So yeah i think that’s how it started
Beach Bunny: *Wish I was like you blue-eyed blondie, perfect body.* mxmtoon: *I’d be the prom queen if crying was a contest.* Molly Kate Kestner: *Turned her tears to diamonds in her crown.* Me: Coincidence? I think not!
*”teach me how to be okay”*
that one hit home :/
fiona mclellan I have the same last name (Avery not Eva)
B O B R O S S
Big mood
It's Tough.
I wanna be okay" :/
*If I’m pretty, will you like me?*
oh boy, that one hit home :’)
MissFanGirl :(
MissFanGirl It's okay girl, you're beautiful.
Josh Pierce I love how you say probably -_-
same..
@@lilkanna8019 lol, is that better?
This song: *exists*
People with eating disorders: it’s free real estate :,)
Thot Destroyer fr 😔
Thot Destroyer yeah. I look up prom queen after I’m finally over my eating disorder. My disorder: were getting the band back together!!
Me eating something for once: I'm happy I'm finally over it
UA-cam: are you sure about that
I’ve been trying not too eat for this boy I like he said I looked fat so now I can’t stop not wanting to eat
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"I wanna be okay." Just a simple line, yet still has so much impact
*”carving skin until my bones are showing”*
that one hit *hard*
Same buddy boo
AMLD ghoul ur pfp 💜
JiminChu I'm your 500th like!
Yeah same I cut myself awhile ago ...not anymore tho
hyunjinsmochi 😂 we have the same pfp 💜
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Indigo Animates this is actually a perfect comment
Thanks for remembering us ~Someone with EDNOS
ScarletSilver what is EDNOS?
@@Stephanie-lk5jf EDNOS stands for eating disorders not otherwise specified. The term has been updated and now people more commonly use OSFED or other specified eating or feeding disorders.
When you have all 4 and look this comment like: 👁👄👁
*”wish i was like you - blue-eyed blondie, perfect body”*
I’d like to say I’m blonde haired and blue eyed and I have a lot of insecurities so that’s not the best line to highlight
i have dirty blonde hair and blue eyes too, i was just highlighting it because i think it was a good point to make and the main part was the “perfect body”
K• K daniel seavey
I think the worst part is that one of my crushes friend is a blue eyed Blondie that he liked at one point..
lmfao *I’m not racist but* hitler be like 😂
As a boy, I'm here to remind girls with insecurities that not everyone looks the same or acts the same, they all have their unique way of being beautiful so just bcuz some girl looks different and she looks good doesn't mean you aren't beautiful, she just has a different way of being beautiful, dw guys will love you for you and your unique way of being beautiful to them and unique way of being YOU.
Stop being a soyboy
Such an important thing to say, but it’s not said nearly enough as it should be. Kudos
I can't tell you Alfonso that how many girls may have read this comment and may have felt better. Your parents/ guardians or even yourself did a really good job on your perspective and personality. You are an excellent man and I may not know you but I really hope that if you ever find your soulmate they will be absolutely lucky to have found a gem like you.
@@parisheynisbatbatool True
Agreed
gotta love upbeat but depressing songs
edit; thanks for the likes, guys
This is definitely our genre 🤟
@@raymondjacque6594 AGREED
Absolutely
Hell yeah
Help by Pink Guy
F in the chat for everybody here who's struggled with eating disorders, mental health, etc
If you struggle just know that your beautiful and worth it
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“Count your calories”
*eyes bag of chips I’m eating as I listen to this*
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I just ate half of a chips
*yeet*
@@zaza123A me every 6 hours
I feel fucking disgusting
Avocado Animations I felt that on a spiritual level
Avocado Animations :,(
Every time I listen to this song, it either makes me cry or makes me want to shut out the world with the negativity and embrace myself with trying new things! Whoever feels like this, it’s going to be okay and we can achieve our goals
"You'll only be happy if you look a certain way"
Oh boy that hit hard ('::
and even after you get what you want, we always want more lolol
@@orange1293 yes yes and yes
Lila Lit me
Because it’s true -
I was reading this as she sang that line
I think UA-cam is just trying to make me more depressed by giving me sad songs
Honestly that's my kintype
I feel you.
pringleman FBI OPEN UP same..
It's all part of the UA-cam algorithm
No don't be sad! I can already tell that, assuming you find this song somewhat relatable, you're a great person and these insecurities are all in your head. It's ok. This also appies to anyone else reading this too i guess. Hope I helped a bit, sorry if I exaggerated or something :)
To the person listening to this at 3am when crying
Drink water, eat something if you haven't in a while and go to bed
Eris Smits what if I’m not tired? 🤣
@@marysimkins6144 still go to bed if it's late ÙwÚ
Eris Smits aww the gosh dang it part❤️
This hit hard. Thanks for reminding me, haven’t been told this in a while. ; (
don’t forget to brush your teeth after also :B
“If I get more pretty, do you think he will like me?” Has me sobbing and rolling on the floor
Fr..
sameeee
me: **crying in the bathroom because im insecure about my body**
**pretty skinny blonde girls dancing to this on tiktok and doing "what i eat in a day"**
hey, just remember that pretty skinny blonde girls who dance on tiktok can be insecure about their bodies too
@@emmi1110 ikr! they do be going RENEGADE RENEGADE RENEGADE 💃💃💃
I feel the same way but it's gonna get better
I’m skinny but to skinny and the words “until my bones are showing” just hit me
@@emmi1110 do you not see the issue
*gets confident that im not fat*
UA-cam : dude look at this thing I found
Me in the morning looking at the mirror: now that's a good looking guy there.
Me at 3 am looking the mirror: you look like shit, you worthless human being.
s a m e
god that’s such a mood
I wore a tight take top I never wear but I did when I went to the water park I have a belly I am fat on the belly and I know this already and I'm a hairy person but that shit did not stop me because my brother told me if someone doesn't like you on your ugly day move the fuck on everyone has there fears and demons it's your choice to take it and control it and take power
@@ellenceri3995 okay fuck thats good, i stg im living by that now,, lemme say it once more:
'if someone doesnt like you on your ugly day everyone has there fears and demons it's your choice to take it and control it and take power'
“If I get more pretty will you like me?” That hit too close man
Me too. For me it’s about the kids at my school who all treat me like shit and like I’m worthless, and all the popular girls are pretty and skinny and they have perfect bodies and no acne, and everyone tells me I look like a man. *I* don’t even think I look like a man, like at all!!!!
Emily Riddle exactly!! I get that to, I got told I look like a man but I don’t sound like one I don’t have the body type for one. It’s just the matter of how you see yourself.
at least you’re not like me, I turn to
the side and everyone like, ‘yo she fuckin disappeared- ‘
@@heavvyhearts i-
Wait... oh fuck... this is a girls song... shit... am I gay now? What does it mean?!?
This song really hits hard for me, not just because im ugly, but because I am overweight for my age. My dad hasn't been supportive at all. If he catches me with a snack at 12 at night, he'll body shame me and say "This is the exact reason that you are big." I silently cry to this song because of how much I've been thinking of starving myself, and this has also led to dark thoughts. I tried once already on my finger, and the scar is still there. I still haven't found self-acceptance yet and I'm not ready to tell anyone about this yet, even though I joke about it with my friends. It hurts even more because all of my friends are getting into relationships that I help them with while I'm here, alone. I just feel like I have so many insecurities, almost too many. Hopefully no one really sees this, I just felt like saying this to get things off of my chest.
Edit: Hey guys, just wanted to say that I've gotten slightly better with eating. I'm seeing some ppl in the comments saying that dieting isn't hard to do, but it made me feel even worse bc my dad kept saying things like that, which made me not want to do anything about it and eventually lose motivation. I'm still struggling with mental health and figuring myself out, but thank you to the ones who were kind and gave advice to me
Your dad is right, if you're up eating snacks at the middle of the night clearly you're not doing enough to lose weight. You're the only reason you're over weight.
Hey ignore that fucker. Hes just being a bitch cause he has nobody that loves him, or even cares about him. Hes a basement baby. You are a delicate soul that needs to be protected
@@ughicanteven5896 did you know that it's really hard to quit doing that kind of stuff?? Ugh I can't even...
@@Zviktoriya its really hard to quit eating snacks in the middle of the night? Their dad cares and is doing something to try and help yet they push all that away and choose to be overweight and unhealthy because they cant control themselves. Even if it is hard, its 100% possible to do
man your dad shouldn't have said that 😭
but on a more serious note, i think you should stop snacking at midnight, it will affect your health. if you're hungry, eat something healthy like nuts (if you're not allergic) or oat cereals
Prom season anthem
who set these unrealistic beauty standards i just wanna talk
white people
Not all white people
@Sofia-Cristin Panayiotou I have almost the same story. I was bullied into starving myself, and before my parents could stop me, I was already ‘Too thin’, and ‘Flat’. I was never satisfied with my body image. I honestly never will be. I only know I will never resort to any sort of surgery to change it. I hate showing my face, and I wear oversized clothing to hide myself. People ask me why, and I usually respond with ‘I hate myself.’ The conversation doesn’t go on from there. Now all I am is a skinny white girl being criticized by men wherever I go.
I don’t go to public places anymore. Sure, take my extra money and deliver all of my meals and groceries to me. I’ll do anything to stay away from human interaction outside of the internet, where I can just be whoever I want without showing myself.
sorry for the rant it’s really late here and i can’t sleep
why does it gotta be white men like other people do this too
*ive been starving myself*
damn. i haven’t done that in awhile. i’m actually proud that i’m recovering :) and i’m gonna keep it that way. no matter what.
Do yo thing 👌❤
Proud of you ❤️ Keep going, you've got this!
alyssa marie Yes queen! Strive to be happy and healthy! I believe you
I feel like I should update you all. I had a bad week. That bad week made me go back to this habit but I talked to my therapist and doctor about it and they’ve found different ways to help me. I’m still on a track to help better myself and I’m going good. Thank you for all your kind words and encouragement. It honestly helped me throughout that week as I kept rereading them when I felt like I was going to be low. 💛
alyssa marie that’s wonderful!
This song is comforting. This song helps me realize that I’m not the only one who feels this way. 💔
It sounds like a song that would play summer of 2013 on the radio
lisaa xx yeah
Maybe I do miss 2013 then...
lisaa xx but the nostalgia tho
I miss the 2000’s
Feels to me like a movie song from like 2004
"You'll only be happy if you look a certain way.I wanna be okay."
*That hit me 😔
-함수초 [LIA] your pfp is so cute I can’t
Me 2
Same :(
This song is like me Same story
this song: about eating disorders
Addison Rae: *RENEGADE*
sg 1200 frl i ordered her merch but i’m returning it
To be honest how’s Addison not cancelled
XXXƘσηαXXX I know, tbh the hype house is just so problematic
iiRosella I would do the same
sg 1200 the only one that isn’t is Charlie, and for some reason everyone hates her? Instead, Addison should be canceled 😔
listen yall
no matter your
accent
gender
stretch marks
skin color
sexuality
religion
ethnicity
nationality
weight
height
face
or other.
your perfect in ur own way. your ur own person. dont let people tell u otherwise! eat something, drink water, dont try to be the person people want u to be, be the person u YOURSELF. want to be. love ya
I know ur coming at it from a good place, but this is fake comfort. if ur willing to accept that the only love u need is your own then fine, be as weird as u want. but if ur looking for someone else's love we need to put in the effort for it. people that say "just be urself" are people that don't need to change and already align with current standards, not all of us fit in so easily.
@@toitman2 i think you missed the point of this comment - they aren't necessarily trying to say "just be yourself" but rather "be the person you want to be" - that means taking steps to improve yourself to where you want to be, not just settling for being satisfied with the way you are currently (if you don't truly feel that way) as well as dont beat yourself up over things you have no control over (like the aforementioned "imperfections"). also, this isn't fake comfort; don't miscontrue kindness, if someone is being kind, just take it to face value. look for reasons to be kind, not doubtful because suspicion only leads to division and regrets.
@@rxquettes402 but if being myself will only make things worse then i would rather fake it
"count your calories" i already know i'm gonna love this song lets get this bread
EDIT: goddamm its been two years and im still stuck in this neverending cycle of owie ouchie i hate my body. i really hope the rest of yall can find comfort and happiness one day, life is full of too much beauty for us to be stuck here. blessed be
- namjune *cries in ana*
Bread makes you fat
No too many calories
Make sure you know how many calories are in the bread
it's funny, right now they're offering food in class and i refused like a boss hehe pls help i'm very insecure about myself
beach bunny: *writes this song about eating disorders*
famous tiktok ccs: *disrespects this song by showcasing how much they eat in a day while having this song play in the background*
Fr that's dumb but if didn't see everyone cancelling Addison i would have never listens to it but pls forgive I never knew this song was about ed when I first heard it i was just listening to the instruments and the prom queen part
a lot of ppl were quick to cancel popular creators on tiktok 4 using this song like that
@@juno9859 yep
yea...but It’s also kinda about body confidence and things...It’s about not-liki g your body...and then indeed people on tik tok are just like “eh,you can have it if you want to”
Wow this is so true...
“Random lyric” damn that hit to close to home
Lmfao
true
ya ikr
Truuuueeee
True but it’s not funny
I'm finally able to listen to this without shaking and tears running down my face. Finally able to look in the mirror without any bad thoughts. Finally.
I'm so proud of u
i rlly hope i get there one day but i don’t think i ever will
@@izzyh0 hope you will be fine and everything will get better, good luck
I genuinely can’t listen to this without crying
its ok i will comfort you, office chair
same
Yo
You look like a nice chair
Me too:( all of the replies are taking about your name and I will too :)
"shut up"
bro that one hit home haard 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔
Bro, same-
big peen “he” 😔👊hits harder than my sister hit me against a wall when I was a child which would explain so much
(Run-on sentence warning)
I don't even know if this is a joke or not bc I've seen a lot of Facebook Moms and shit but I relate to that on a spiritual level.
you know "my" hit harder
“They” hit the hardest for me 😔
Me:
No one:
Nobody:
Not a single soul:
UA-cam Recommendations: *What can i say except you're welcome?*
True Though. I normally never listen to deep songs.
😭😂 i literally laughed so hard
omg thank u so much for reminding me of this song
Finally a song that suits me
*shut up, count your calories - I never looked good in mom jeans*
wholesome kermit same
The real question is why do I look good in mom jeans
iron can oof
@@charisnowels9841 I now I'm not even a mom
iron can same
Bo burnham: lower your expectations!
Beach bunny: lower your expectations..
Me: you tryina to tell me somethin'.
imagine setting low expectations
@@ploopybear imagine wanting every partner you have to treat you like royalty
@@frankslefttesticle3247 imagine not treating your partner like royalty lmao
@@ploopybear welp that's not how life always works out so in the words of Bo burnham "if you want love lower your expectations"
@@frankslefttesticle3247 getting love without effort isn't very fun, is it? i just want to have a lot of firsts with one person *shrug
two narcissists have trouble raising their expectations
“You wanna know something I learned about bodies? They don’t define us. We aren’t our bodies. They’re just temporary.”
-Melanie Martinez
Im just gonna say, i love youre username and profilepicture (countryhumans👌)
K-12? Awesome. :)
K-12!!!!!!!!!
her movie k-12
Melanie is a queen 👏
This song always make my tears come out
No one:
Addison ray: *throws back to song about eating disorders
Addison needs to shut the fuck up
Addison needs to be canceled
Aisha Iman LMAO AND PEOPLE REALLY CANCELED JENNA MARBLES-
@@user-ee9qw9bt9j Apologies don't mean shit at this point. Shouldn't have done it, she's not a toddler.
@@user-ee9qw9bt9j she said the n word.
i’m a girl in junior year wearing size 13 nikes
MENS size 13 nikes
Heheheheheheheheeheheheheheheheheheheehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe
No. ⚡
Shoto Todoroki
Whaddup Todoroki, how's Deku
Lol the memes
@@nbae1106 Midoriya is fine.
Thank you for asking. 😌
Song: ive been starving myself
Addison rae: rEnEgADe
First reply at 1.4K 💀
HEPK I REMEMBER WHEN SHE DANCED TO IR
I relate to this song so much, I had this one friend which everyone was looking up to because she was 'pretty' or in other words 'perfect' she was smart, kind, she's the package everyone wants. I wanted to have that type of feelings too, being loved by everyone. So I starved myself, skipped breakfast everyday, re-bond my hair, studied, overworked myself by studying, but it still wasn't enough. I was still ignored by people. I gained ED along the way, and It was so worse that I have a look of disgust trying to eat every food served in my plate, worrying how much calories I would gain if I eat those. I exercise every time I eat a lot of food that has many calories. And finally I opened up to my dad saying I have ED when I finally felt comfortable saying it, he said that I should stop doing it and because I was younger than 13 that time. *So just reminder for everyone, please don't pressure yourself just for people to like you, be your own way!!*
I feel you
*recovers from eating disorder*
UA-cam: hey you know what’s funny
N O *still dealing with it*
UA-cam: wow she seems into eating disorder stuff here you go!
Me *listens on repeat*
dude same I went to therapy yesterday and I found this in my recommend
Felt that
same eye-
omg ikr
*"I wish I was like you, blue eyed blondie."*
This takes me back to my childhood. I would always see these pretty main characters with blue eyes and blond hair, not to mention the popular girls in my school looked like that, and I slowly started to hate my brown hair and my brown-black eyes. This is why representation is very important. I dont want people to go through that kinda self judgement.
Me too :( and im white so I don't have a whole community with me, because not many us girls have that
I’m Korean and I want blue eyes so bad but it’s super rare for Koreans to have blue eyes 😔
Yeah same, I used to wish I was blonde with blue eyes when I was younger. My mother always said I looked pretty the way I was and that if I dyed my hair blonde it wouldn't look that great.
Yea, but it was irl.
So I’m a bully- people think I’m a bully bc I have blonde hair and blue eyes. 😒
Nobody:
Sea turtles: “ITS GETTING HARD TO BREATHE THERES PLASTIC WRAP IN MY CHEEKS”
That's darkk💔
NO
No turtles!!
I hate this so much that I love it XD
"TEACH ME HOW TO BE OKAY"
..."I've been starving myself".. I can relate to much to that bc I wanna starve myself and I have been trying. But I just can't seem too and every time I sing that song " blue eyed blondie perfect body" in friends with a girl like that and I'm insecure about myself for it...and every time I hear that I start to cry. Every time my friends ask me: "are you okay?" I say "I'm fine" while tears are pouring down my face and they say "are you sure?" And I wipe my tears and I say "yes.." I cannot get over it in fat and I say that and every one is like "no your not" and there just saying that to make me fell better and it doesn't even help. I say it every day I act like everything is fine even though I'm smiling on the outside in crying and screaming on the inside....
Beach bunny: *wish I was like you blue-eyed blondie, perfect body.*
mxmtoon: *i’d be the prom queen if crying was a contest*
Somethings going on here 🤔
They are trying to warn us prom is gonna be horrible!
Yes
Not to mention prom queen by Mary.
God save prom-
well prom was months ago so...
i missed prom because of a broken leg so yay
"they say beauty makes boys happy"
me, a lesbian: WRITE THAT DOWN, WRITE THAT DOWN
lmao
gay
@@bruhbruh6229 correct-
@@bruhbruh6229 well no duh
@@bruhbruh6229 dont worry we said no homo
“I’ve been starving myself
Carving skin until my bones are showing”
I’m actually crying because this song explains me perfectly
you are perfect and you do not need to change. please be safe. you are loved
i know its hard but i really hope you get better, you are better than that and you deserve better, dont hurt yourself just because of some other people who like to let others down. this is a 8 month old comment and i hope you got better and you arent like this anymore but if you are im so sorry and if you need someone you can talk to me on insta : e11y.th3fr0g
Loser!😂
Daisy Boyd shut the fuck up
I hope you’re okay
I just found this song recently and it reminds me of how people aren’t often told that they’re good enough. It’s not fair and I think everyone deserves to feel beautiful, I just wish we could show each other how much they’re valued even just a little bit…
this song really speaks to me.
i feel like whenever i do my makeup and dress up nicely for school, people are actually nice to me and treat me with respect. but when i don’t do my hair and makeup and just wear sweats, people tend to ignore me and sometimes even disrespect me.
Let me tell ya, it's the opposite for me.
I wear make-up and dress up EVERY single day. I've never worn jeans or sweatpants a day in my life. You'll never catch me without makeup. I get told I wear too much make-up or that I'm over dressed. People prefer me to use my 'natural beauty' and wear comfortable clothes. Apparently I'm 'fake' or attention seeking because I put so much into my appearance. Wearing makeup and dressing up makes me happy. Infact, I feel more like myself in a full face of makeup than I do bare faced. And that's okay. Being natural and comfortable doesn't make me feel good even if it makes others like me more.
The same goes for you. Wear and do what makes you comfortable and happy.
Sweatpants? No makeup? Messy hair? Whatever. You go for it! Whatever makes you feel beautiful and hot as fuck is entirely up to you and NO ONE has the right to change that self perception. If they don't respect you for you, then they certainly aren't worth your time. ❤
Sis same
love cherry motion
@@H3vnlii YES!!! GO OFF QUEEN!!!👏👏
Tbh same
I wore this really pretty black long dress that was super expensive and even a boy called me pretty. Everyone else complimented me and tried starting conversations with me, like is it the push up bra or the dress? (don’t mind the push up bra lmao a store worker recommended it since it was strapless)
Why can’t everyone just be nice like that everyday?
ouch, these lyrics hit me hard :(
BIG Oof
Nigga toilet
Same..
@@icearmy1254 cool...?
Then hit back 🤩💅
Slowly developing eating disorder
UA-cam: hey look!
*insert insult here * why is this relatable
Ahh I wish this wasn't me
Gracie R same
hahahahaha i feel that
this is so terribly relatable
I’ve learned to “get pretty” for myself instead of trying to impress someone. Self love first. ❤️
Nobody:
Addison rae dancing to this song which is about eating disorders: 💃💃
CONNOR
@@thenbhdenthusiast3699 yes
It was for an ad, from what she said: they told her to use this song, and show off the product. She probably didn’t look into the song, and was just doing what she was told to do.
UhM- Productions. but she should have realised it was about a sensitive topic like the first line is “shut up count your calories”
@@uhm-productions.7736 she could of easily said no
y’all can be mad this got on tiktok, or y’all can be happy this song got the recognition it deserved. your choice whether you want to bring the negativity into your life.
who's mad lol
Exactly I found this song cos of ticktock and I already new from "count your calories" I could relate so much it helped me het the support I needed
tik-tok let's me see amazing songs, IDK how tik-tok can even ruin it, it's people who like the song and dance or move to it, other people like it and it becomes a trend, it's such a pretty song with a sad meaning people can relate to ( thank you for being positive, I've seen negative comments) u make my day happy
Thanks for this comment
zelmy literally every top comment
*anxiety joins the chat*
*insecurities join the chat*
*depression joins the chat*
*my will to live left the chat*
*My love for people joins the chat*
*My care for you has joined the chat*
*My happiness has joined the chat*
My care for you is typing..
*My self doubts has left the chat*
Li-Chu I love you sm
@@rockpaperscissorsgodbutcal3631 love you too
My relatableness has joined the chat
So only three things joined the chat?
i cry everytime i listen to this it hurts too much
“teach me how to be okay” damn.
That one hit close to home.
*the Beautiful People joined the chat*
*Eating disorder joined the chat*
*Anxiety joined the chat*
*Depression joined the chat*
Relatable
Oh my "old pals"
*my will to live has left the chat*
I actually have dark blue eyes and really blonde hair that has waves in it
iS thAt pfp froM. MyStIc mESsEnger?
I̶ ̶r̶e̶l̶a̶t̶e̶ ̶t̶o̶ ̶t̶h̶i̶s̶ ̶m̶o̶r̶e̶ ̶t̶h̶a̶n̶ ̶i̶ ̶s̶h̶o̶u̶l̶d̶ ̶:̶"̶0̶
If you're here, this is a checkpoint.
Get a drink of water.
Eat a snack if you haven't eaten in a while.
Smile because you're beautiful and loved
Have a nice day/night
I'm not beautifull or loved, but thanks random stranger, you did make me smile 😊
edit: life got better, i found the love of my life
@@supernova5562 Yes you are, You're loved by me and this friend shaped human, at least! There's undoubtedly more people that I'm not currently aware of that love you as well. Take care of yourself, my friend! Sent with hugs and a bag of marshmallows, your spooky neighborhood Spider-Man!
thank you
nah, i'm starving myself until i'm good.
Ty🥰 I’ll go eat some ice now
As someone who isn't part of the "pretty girl" group at school, this song really speaks to me. I don't WANT the attention, but it stings when they get all of it, when everyones eye is always drawn to them first, especially when I have the same qualities, I just wonder what they have that I don't.
And it's not their fault either, they don't see themselves as above me, they're such lovely people, it's just that the people around us hold them on this twisted pedestal.
Every lyric of this song hit close to home,
*D* *A* *M* *N*
My sisters Prom Queen:gOd sAve tHe pROm qUeeN TeEnAgE DaYdReAM
My Prom Queen:
ღᗩesthetic Subliminalsღ omfg me and my friends
thanks for explaining my life ! snsn jkjk but srsly this is my friends and meee
Omgggg same 😂
I love both songs
@@ophelia1323 same
i like both prom queens
this song is actually about everything, body’s, faces, liking boys but being insecure because you feel like you’re not pretty enough, it’s all, and i just love it
also having having an ed 😃
Yea then you have ed to...:)
me too:)
Mee to
@@kenmasapplepie6749 whats an ed?
the fact i relate this song so much
big Marceline [Adventure Time] and Regular Show vibes for some reason, love it
-and tbh I think Beach Bunny is pretty-
Omg Marceline would totally sing this
I started dancing like an idiot straight from the beginning
Kiauna Duran omg sammeeee lets be friends
Meena Espinoza lets all be friends please omfg
lmao-
add my insta we’ll become friends :)
@@ryleighmariah827 omg count me in
*i’ve been starving carving skin until my bones are showing*
:,)
When I read this it played that part
That was mood
Samee and I'm only 12 and my mam keeps on taking me to therapy but ya know I'm getting skinnier and skinnier and more cuts on my wrists stomach and thighs
Has anyone ever cut there shoulder? Like jeez thats hard to hide.
*haha me too*
holy shit, why are you crying, man?! you're literally the most gorgeous person I've seen!! chin up, darling and don't be sad, you're gonna make it ilyyy
**is going through self love problems**
UA-cam recommendations:
Ya know-
Jazz_ikan ME🤣😭👏
Jazz_ikan
“Dude look at this thing I found.”
🤣🤣
tsumugi?
Jazz_ikan
Hope you get better dude, you are loved
"Blue-eyed blondie, perfect body" Hitler?
Hunter Meek I didn’t need to know that, but I’m glad I do
I thought it was brown hair not blonde
@@gojoluvr28 no blonde was the "perfect" race.
Lol
Hitler actually had brown eyes and hair. He didn't even fit into his own perfect human image.
“Maybe I should try harder”
That hit different:(
No your fine
@@theend2340 what?
This song really hits me, since everyone around me is living a happy life, theyre all beautiful with their unique style, or getting into happy relashionships, while im stuck here alone, with no one even showing slight interest in me, and the one time i somehow got feelings for someone they just rejected me, its so hard to have a crush or fall in love for me, so i end up being the person with the good advice that can only watch life continue from a distance.
Why do I relate so much 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲
me: *slowly recovering from my eating disorders and learning how to cope with my feelings while going to therapy, would rather not think about it*
UA-cam: so we just found the most perfect thing for you
i'm never really into this kind of music but i can't stop coming back to this song ???
Agreed.
Same. I usually listen to happy Love songs
*"They say beauty makes boys happy"*
Good thing I'm not into guys then, huh?
This comment is underrated
Honestly, whenever I listen to straight songs, some corner of my brain automatically swaps the pronouns...
@@liamfaoisidheold Lol
Same here my dude
Sameeeeeeeeee thanks :D
"You'll only be happy if you look a certain way." Speechless.
I'm pretty sure the line towards the end is "the say beauty is pain" not vain
quite a few are wrong, she put would where it's meant to be will, spelt calories wrong
Root she didn’t spell calories wrong that’s the non American way 😐
Stop Commenting ARMY Whenever You See One then either it is misspelled or she’s from some foreign country but ig its a typo
they didn't though, in america, they spell it like because in newspapers and such, the cost of publishing things used to be by the letter, so they cut out letters that seemed unecessary like u, but we kept them because the pricing was different for us.
I’m pretty sure it’s vain because in every lyrics video I’ve seen it says vain
This song hits when you really feel what it feels like 👍🏻
it’s gonna be okay
fr
Fr
fr
Real
It's alarming how relatable this is...
Thanks for introducing me to this band big brother...
Of course everyone in the comment section is apparently anorexic...
@@icearmy1254 I'm not anorexic. Body issues are very prevalent in teens, and that's what I interpret the song to be about. I know I'm not happy with my body, but I'm trying to fix that healthily.
this song hits different because i always used to get bullied cause of my body and hearing songs like these make me so sad knowing this is our world we live in knowing if you don’t fit the beauty standard people will hate on you and bully you
just to all the girls that need to hear this
this song hits so many hard spots on so many different people and I just want you to know that you are beautiful that you are amazing and you are perfect you are loved by so many. anyone who thinks they have the right to tell you other wise is a lowlife piece of trash and you do not need that negativity in you're life. so ignore them and just be happy knowing that you are strong, beautiful, and you don't need anyone or anything to tell you that.
I wish I could share this so many people need to hear it. ❤
I wish I could hug you right now :,)
Gabrielle Phillips not like any males need to hear this too-
@@Grodz73 all guys gals and non binary pals should hear this
sunniixfl0wers yes
I never knew I needed this song until I played it.
Lol samee
This song: exists
Tik- Tok: HIPPITY HOPITTY YOUR’RE NOW MY PROPERTY
I really wanna say Im not okay( i promise)
Oh wait that’s the other guy
you’re* but ill let you slide this time bc you have a TOP profile picture
Inna Ly idk
*you're
the way i physically cant listen to this song without crying
Nothing hurts more than your own family body shaming you.
True
I can relate.
Ye thats why i have ed...
:(
you know what hurts more they all team up on u
Funnily enough, they played this song at my middle school dance. It got me dancing with girls I’ve always wanted to hang out with, and the next day, we talked more than usual. I felt like I... fit in.
LMFAO
@@vividqrt what was the point of replying to a comment that was written 2 years ago
@@wonderhoyzzz why not lol
I was 7 and my dad took me and my brother to get yogurtland, he made me get the plain and strawberries topping while my brother got to get whatever he wanted, i didn’t understand but i didn’t care because you know ice cream, but then when we went back to the car he yelled at me about my weight and how he shouldn’t have even let me get strawberries because they had too much natural sugars, he repeatedly told me to go to the gym. I was 7. So yeah i think that’s how it started
what a shitty dad
@@pixelle2848 *dad, the brother is a child, he would not know any better either.
Hope you feel better rn
I’m so fucking sorry, I hope your doing better now :(
your "dad" if you can even call him that is shit 😊 im sorry for that my mom dose that
beauty always win👑
Another one of those “happy sounding but don’t read the lyrics” songs
**pumped up kicks flashback**
*Riptide flashbacks*
*Gypsy Bard flashbacks*
ᴅᴏɴᴋᴇʏ ᴋᴏɴɢ when your ride with devistation
Kittykatkattoo XD there’s a simple explanation
*“You’ll only be happy if you look a certain way”*
that hits. that hits so hard.
Me : crying every night on this song because i look like a whale
People om tik tok : *eat 10000 calories meal*
i come here for this
This is the quality content I subscribed for but tbh a lot of people on tiktok promote unhealthy eating habits unfortunately.
I hope you know binging is also an eating disorder, it’s not only anorexia
I eat 800 calories I just forget and don’t eat
Ayo.. incorrect 😃 they should know it’s 2000
Finally a good song without bad words and is clean
Prom dress: Depressing song about highschool
Prom queen:Even more depressing highschool song ._.
Why am I doing this to myself
both songs are undoubtly amazing though
@@redheart_future13570 true
i ask myself the same questions
Beach Bunny: *Wish I was like you blue-eyed blondie, perfect body.*
mxmtoon: *I’d be the prom queen if crying was a contest.*
Molly Kate Kestner: *Turned her tears to diamonds in her crown.*
Me: Coincidence? I think not!
"I wanna be okay"
Me too.
I know. I wanna be okay too.
we'll all be okay. it's all going to be okay. let's take it one day at a time💓
Yep. I do too.
I always find myself listening to this song again when I'm at my lowest