I Was Body-Shamed | STORYTIME
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- Опубліковано 2 лис 2020
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In this week’s video Siza gives you STORYTIME of how she was body-shamed in her own home.
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The older generation is toxic sometimes, they break other women's confidence and self esteem, it's so sad😞
True, and it's never too late for anyone whether old or young to learn new things because we're evolving as people
They can be very toxic those ones 😭😭
@@patiencemoremi9033 it’s definitely in the unlearning old habits
Some truth in this.
True,it has happens to me everytime
The nerve!!!!! When will some women understand that another woman’s weight or womb is NOT their business?? 🤮
One household at a time mama. We’re fixing the country 😭❤️
It will be nice if siza had her own channel so we engage more on this kinda topics 😍😍😍
Siza you're here to change certain narratives... dump stereotypical thinking. I love this... You're defs an influencer! We are learning from you sis ❤️
Thank you mama. 🙏🏾❤️
I was body shamed by my aunt at a family gathering.. Me and my cousin(who's petite) were coming back from the shops and we put the goods on the table and sat down,aunt came in and said "no wonder y'all are so big, cant even put stuff where they belong". It got to me so badly I broke down cause I knew it was directed to me.
I've always avoided comments about my weight especially when it comes from strangers cause they don't know crap about my life but it gets to me when it's a family member because that should be my safe place away from all the body shaming..
Thank you for sharing this. I LOVE YOU SIS❤️
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Sorry Keabetswe😘😘
I’m so sorry you had to go through that mama. Ag 😔. The very same people that should be protecting us hey. It’s sad. But one day is one day kuzolunga. It’s my pleasure and I love you too 🤗❤️
Sorry sis. Family members are the worst honestly! I was insecure about my weight for a very long time coz of body shaming from family members.
People hate us lmao 🤣 they say the dumbest thing
Askies my love♥️
Ukuqhela kakubi sana! She wouldn’t have even reached the top step kwami yoh. I would’ve asked her to walk down those very stairs & leave my home. Angeke.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ungijwayelile yena no lies 🤦🏾♀️. Ei babe and how you would’ve handled it would’ve been soooo understandable honestly. 🌸
I can see you are addressing us with a triggering issue but have you seen how gorgeous you look😍😍😍 I'll have to rewatch the video coz your beauty distracted me😢😍😍 umuhle Ntombooo😰
Lol Konje unje 🤣🤣. Thank you my love 🤗❤️
Lol😂 it's the love I have for you 😍
I was thinking the same thing, I am just like no man this lady is beautiful
Siza, last Dec I got in trouble because I said to my aunt commenting about weight is not a greeting because there is alot going on with her looks but we not saying anything, when my family wanted to call me to order I explained where I was coming from and it went on to many other avenues, asking my recently married cousin about kids and all that other stuff like you saying that has NOTHING to do with them, I told them our houses don't have dogs that bite, and if they carry on with this behavior we won't go home anymore...
People were shook, my dad even stood with me because he saw ukhuthi I was at my last wit with this behavior, ndi dikwe finish!
I stand with u, mindfulness is important, kindness important and I will repeat my Dec stance if I have to o, it needs to change.
The movement continues 🤜🏾
Love love this. If it means we distance ourselves from toxic family then so be it honestly! UNkulunkulu ukhona. 😭❤️
I'm still watching ads, preparing for whoever body shamed my queen because yerrrr 😡😡😡😡😡😡
Thank you so much for watching the ads. ❤️❤️🤗🤗 Sizomushaya!! 😂
The saddest thing is learning to love yourself, accepting your body and getting to a point of smiling when you're naked in front of the mirror and then someone triggers you with unnecessary comments which will be playing in your head long after they have left and forgotten about you.
Everytime I see your face it feels like an affirmation of something, you're beautiful sisi ❤️❤️
Kodwa mntase she is very beautiful😍
Ncaaaaah Siba you're so sweet. 🥰🥰 Thank you so much and I'm happy I make you feel that way. ❤️🤗
@@sasalubelwana4520 Thank you Sasa. ❤️❤️
Very beautiful like her to bits!!!
I love how you said "sometimes you won't know what a person is going through" sometimes I wake up personally feeling like I left my confidence in my sleep. I wake up with insecurities about my weight and little things that people say will trigger so many emotions. Thank you so much for this ❤
It’s my pleasure 🥺❤️
I applaud you for keeping your cool. A few ago weeks a male colleague of mine made some body shaming remarks to me, I honestly couldn't keep my cool. I got physical(not proud) but I really felt like the guy was being ignorant nje. You have no idea what I am dealing with, I might be having a medical issue that is the cause of my weight gain. Hay no people must rest maan.
So so true hey. Also most of the time we can’t control how we react which then causes an even bigger issue. Abantu bazofa coz of their big mouths smh. So sorry you had to go through that hey 😔❤️
Vele va nghenaphi? Especially when:
1. God who made me is not complaining
2. My parents accept, love and are proud of me
3. When I love myself just the way I am
4. When my GG mommy inspires, motivates and advices me.
Uzo nghenaphi umuntu🙄. You are beautiful Siza and I really like how you handled the situation with her excuses on top of that. We as women need to stand together and uplift each other. 💕💕💕💕
Well said 👌
Love love this. Thank you for this Pash. Women are just not getting it hey ag. Sakuthandi angel ❤️
Thank you for addressing the behavior Siza,
I just feel like we tolerate so much body shame from our elders/ family or loved ones and it needs to stop, they need to know when to shut it ... my body and my struggles are my business.
🥰✌🏽
Pleasure mama. We need to stop with the tolerance hey 🤦🏾♀️
I'm so proud of you for "saying" something... Siyabonga joh... I've had those a lot of times, I excerise and constantly on eating plans not because I wanna lose weight but because I wanna keep healthy and someone said but there are no results.. I kept quiet but I wish I could go back to that moment and giver her my mind...
So sorry you had to go through that mama 😔🤦🏾♀️
@@MzwandileSiza we move but you just encouraged me ukuthi ngingathuli umuntu mengphaphela
I've had the same experience with my family, honestly it's disgusting. I almost fell into a depression because of these kind of comments, and when you try to speak to them they always say " you must take the kind of things to heart". People don't understand these things really do affect people.
They do and they will keep pushing and pushing. Someone needs to put them in their place once
They think what they are saying is acceptable because they're family 😭
And we are so quick to give grace to our toxic family members. We need to stop. At this point and mental health in mind your wellbeing comes 1st 😭❤️
Your story time is so spot on. Went home for the weekend for the first time after giving birth and my moms friend says 'you dont look like you breastfeeding yazi, usually people that are breastfeeding are so skinny'. That time its been only 3 months and ive actually lost 14 kg's... I had a brief moment of explosion in my head at that time but I decided to let it slide, since my baby was born ive been soo intentional about protecting my peace.
I echo your sentiments exactly, rest bafwethu! Futhi kube ngisho njalo kuye 😂😂😂😂
Ngabe ushilo Yazi 🤣🤣🤣. Yho ngeke andbthese are the very same women that should be protecting us and holding us down. I’m so glad you’re intentional about protecting your peace mama. Sorry you had to go through that man Ag 😔🤗❤️
@@MzwandileSiza - ♥️♥️♥️ all lessons man! Take care Siza🌼
Hey Gentle Giants 💕💕
I'm so annoyed
Especially as a thick girl, small comments can make you feel so self conscious
Thank you for standing up for us
#roadto20k
PS that 20k giveaway eyami guyzini let's not fight angisho
Aawwww it’s a pleasure angel. Lol that PS ❤️
Your beauty is unmatched sis😍
I love how you handled the situation, like a pro!
Thank you boo ❤️
Hi Siza i think wena u are a nice person nje under G-general . This are trully convos we should be having daily . For wena u might have been able to think and internalise it during the day when that lady was working and even be strong enought to speak to her about it .
What about that boy or girl who cant even say anything after such words, this is also what causes di mental health issues to those who are not as stong as you Siza .
#Little education is dangerous
Not education in a formal sense but in an informal way where we learn to teach each other to be sensetive and think before speaking anything .
Ohhh but o montle shammmmmm
#Summer colours
#You popping sisterrrrsssss
That is why it's so important for us to be sensitive, how what we say and how we say it because not everyone is strong enough to brush things off. So these are definitely conversations we need to constantly have with the older generation, the current generation and the future generation. 🙌🏾
Thank you so much Moja. 🥰🥰🥰
You treated it well MmaNdlovu.
It truly is a taught thing, a teaching that is so invasive and insensitive. It’s currently how we feel about the “married for so long and no babies yet?” comment.
I absolutely hate it when people make such comments about people’s bodies! “Oh you’re so fat, oh you’re so skinny, when are you having a baby, why did you have a baby” all that nonsense really gets to me. My best friend liked making such comments (mind you, I’m actually very happy with my body weight and had been working hard towards my current weight) the first thing she and her fiancé would say after not seeing me since the lock down was “oh my goodness, you’re so fat” and that time I’m thinking, I’m 58kg and I’m actually happy with my weight.
True. Older people really dont know how to speak to people. They get rude and still expect respect... Im also vocal but elders hate the truth and they see it as disrespect. We need to stand our ground and voice out our feelings. Im happy you didn't let her go without voicing out your feelings ❤️❤️
I really love the way you addressed the situation, I'm actually going through the same situation everywhere I go. All my mother's friends feel the need to body shame me every time they come to visit and I fear to respond or address it because I'm scared I'll come off rude and they'll think I'm disrespectful..... I'm constantly told to go to the gym or my mother should lock up the fridge or I should get my jaw locked..... BTW YOU LOOK STUNNING AND I LOVE YOU ❤️❤️❤️
Omggg I'm so sorry😭😭❤️
You and me. The same person. I hate it. I fought with my mom about it because she said I needed to change my attitude when someone says such. I'm like wtf woman. Now I'm in the wrong when I'm the one being offended.
I'm so sorry that you're going through such 💔 but remember that you are fearfully and wonderfully made. You are beautiful in every way. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. ❤
Sis, perhaps you should talk to them (respectfully) that it bothers you. If they react or feel like you're disrespectful, that's on them but they'll know not to speak rudely about your body.
You should definitely address it mama. Or maybe even ask your mom to speak to her friends on her behalf. They have no right to do that. Ag man thank you so much and I love you too. 🤗❤️
@@tholakelemasha oh no I’m so sorry mama. The same person that should be protecting you 😔
yhooo SIza in all honesty i know this video was not meant to be an emotional one but rather educational but somehow i found myself crying to a point where i had to pause a bit from watching not because of anything bad that you said but i acually realised how heavy my heart has been and how i supressed everything i felt people would call be sdudla or other names but i would laugh and brush it off and think to my self that because it is a norm in our society for bigger people to be called that so i might as well settle for that but i was lying to my self clearly because i just realized how everything hurt me and how its continuing to hurt me ...and with how you are also comfortable with your body even around your husband is really admirable ...i wish i can reach that stage cause im not even comfortable undressing infront of someone else and your videos are really helping me with my self acceptance journey
i saw someone on the comment section say it was probably the way you handled the situation & its not like you even handled it badly.
most people would have probably been extremely rude to uSarah & chased her out .
abanye ke could have even hit her cause some people dont take nonsense at all .
you handled the situation very well because you didnt belittle or say rude things to her instead you decided to let her know where she was wrong & telling her not to do that to the next person .
you expanded her knowledge & that shows how much of a great woman that you are .
you radiate positive energy & that is very good.
Ncaaaaah Kea, this is so heartwarming to read. 🥰 Thank you so much babe. ❤️🤗
I love how you corrected her inlove and you being intentional to inform her to never comment on people's weight. Thank you for this I will now know how to respond ❤️❤️
Aawwwww it’s my pleasure. Thank you boo ❤️
You handled the situation with so much grace, loved that you educated her
You are worthy And lack absolutely nothing 🤗Thank you for this
P.s you look so gorgeous😍
"Umshado uyakthanda" got to me. I got married just a month before lockdown and haven't been back at work/ gym since. I have been struggling with how I look for a while now, even prior to marriage so every time I hear that line I am triggered and it sticks.
People bodyshame with smiles on their face like it's nothing. Arg, thank you for this video.
I’m so sorry for this mama Ag. It’s honestly my pleasure 😭❤️
I’ve been body shammed by my aunts, female church members, my mom and random other people in the streets. When are people honestly going to keep their nasty opinions to themselves about other people’s bodies. Hayi suka man! 😔🙄
Well done Siza on handling the situation with such grace. I can’t imagine how much chill it took you not to come out a can. ❤️💐
I’m so sorry mama. Ag no man Mxm 😔
🙌🙌🙌 This is fire, we often don't take note of what we say and how it's received 😢
I swear after that restaurant issue and this one, I can safely say you are a better person than me when it comes to composure😂😂 my shady self would have said something kuye that’s worse than what you said. I hate how we are always expected to be bigger people in situations just to make people feel better about themselves. It gets tiring honestly, people must know their place and have some filter. Entlek umntu must THINK before talking
It definitely gets tiring but I think I’m really invested in teaching someone and helping them unlearn certain behaviors so they are better people instead of just fighting Fire with Fire. Maybe the day will come when I will kill everything in front of me 🤣🤣🤣
Obviously we were not there to grasp tones but there is so much power in you being able to remove yourself and show her perspective in general because even though she might not be genuinely sorry, it will always be in the back of her mind to be calculated and thoughtful with her words or intensions... we really don’t even need to feel sorry for you because you my dear resonate Power!!!! Keep at it 💫💫
I'm watching this video with my 2 year old daughter and she's like "mama uphi uZwandi lana"
Ncaaaaaaw🤣 My son also comments when I'm watching saying "You are always watching them". That's how much into UA-cam and the GGs I am🙈❤
Ncaaaaaaaaaaah the absolute sweetest man. 🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍 Zwandi will be back soon. 🤗
@@motheowalerato701 We totally love this, so so special man. ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for watching. 🤗
I love it here Siza! 👏👏
People should be mindful of the things they say to others because one phrase can take a person back to square one of progress.
So true Koena. Aawwww glad that you love it here. ❤️
Story of my life it's always"are you sure you didn't give us a wrong age"
Siza you really have a good heart coz someone in your place would have reacted differently. Weight is a very sensitive topic and I'm glad you corrected and educated her♥️
#Roadto20K
Aawww thank you so much ❤️🤗
I love love and respect you Siza.your response and how you addressed the whole situation with such wisdom is admirable. Thank you for being a voice of reason! I totally respect how you handled this.
Thank you mama 🙏🏾❤️
Because I just saw the notification now while I'm typing my looooonnnnggg research paper. Of course I'm going to ditch these Havard referencing shenanigans for some real fun❤️❤️❤️❤️beautiful Siza what's good? Our fav online sister😍😍😍😍😍
😭😭😭😭😭😭 Sis I'm tired, I need therapy, lo havard will be the end of me.
Same here😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 Those references can chill. 😂😂 We truly appreciate you Lulu. ❤️🤗
Thank you so much babe. ❤️❤️❤️
I love that your platform is not just entertainment but EduTainment❤️❤️❤️. Thank you for this Siza❤️
It’s my pleasure boo 🙏🏾❤️
So much wisdom, so much grace 😭🙆♀️♥️♥️ there's definitely hope for this generation because there are women like you. You're lidashiphu 😍😘🙋♀️ please consider doing a series on self-love ♥️♥️ I love you a million times, you look so beautiful it's just insane 😍🙆♀️😭😣
Aawww thank you angel. I love you too. I’ll definitely consider it. ❤️
I was body shamed by a passenger in a taxi yesterday, I was going to a place that's about 70KM away from my house, she said "You should have taken a walk, so that you will loose some fat" 😑 I looked at her and asked her to repeat that and she giggled, and had the audacity to repeat it.
Oh my word! What? 🙃
I’m so sorry you had to go through that mama.
Loyo ubedinga impama khona ngeke aphinde 🤭
@@MzwandileSiza Lol, abantu abadala sometimes offend us unintentionally and when you respond bese bathi you're disrespectful
Whaaaaat😩 the audacity 😢.. Askies babe
@@khudu_mthe ❤️❤️
Semhle Sis Siza 😍
Thank you so much for this vid, I was body shamed some time last week and I was surprised that people still pass such remarks. 😓
I'm taking everything I learnt from this video and using it going forward 😊♥️
Aaawwww thank you my love. It’s a pleasure man 🙏🏾❤️
Off topic...(forgive me)....It’s the eyeshadow for me🔥😍😍
She's STUNNING right? :-)
Lol thank you baby ❤️
Very informative video . I sent the link to my aunt who didn’t really understand why i was offended when she commented on my weight gain . You literally put my thoughts into words. Siyabonga 🥺🙏
Aawwww this is so special. I hope it helps out things into perspective for her
Calm down. We all dealing with our own things.
Thank you Siza. This needed to be said.
Be Kind💜💜
We honestly are. Pleasure boo ❤️
#The like before you watch gang 🤘🏽♥️
Love that gang. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Siza for this video. It's definitely needed ,especially in this time. We need to be more kinder and gentle with one another. But more importantly, we need to be more aware of the things we say and how they impact people. Once again, thank you for this video❤ God bless mama❤❤
That is so true, we definitely need to do better as people. 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you so much Sibongile. You are most welcome. ❤️🤗
We live in a toxic world where people do not mind their business, we go through a lot as individuals!!
I like the way you addressed the issue Siza, personally have learnt a lot from this video.
I lost my husband in 2012 and I have decided to wear my ring and my friends, family and colleagues are always making a big issue out of it
Thank you so much Siza now I will not get angry but explain in a calm manner💖
You have a good heart, you are a motivator, influencer and YES YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL MY DEAR😍😍😍😍
It’s the audacity for me🤢
Yey wena!!! Like the nerve!
Same here Yandisa... Like 🙆
Wait, in your own home haybo the nerve 🤔, I love how you handled the situation, so calm and muture, hayi if it was me kwakuzonyiwa shame. People need to drink water and mind their business really.
Mme Ndlovu those earings sis ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍, you are beautiful 😍😍
In my house sis lol. Thank you baby lol 🤗❤️
So sorry you had to go through that. This is a very sensitive topic and we need to constantly remind ourselves to mind our own business really. Big ups for educating us😘😘
Aawww it’s my pleasure 🙏🏾❤️
Beautiful message. We have a lot to learn
Thank you 🙏🏾❤️
So inspired and proud of you Siza. These conversations must be had. And regarding the concerns about health and what not, I hardly believe that health concerns are the reason why majority of people feel the need to comment on other people's weight. It's just u'kthanda izindaba. And you'll find that many plus size people are leading far healthier lives than those who appear look tinier. People must "rest" ngempela 😂😂.
Side note: You're super gorgeous 💕 (not that you need a reminder from me since that's Zwandi's field of expertise 😅)
These conversations definitely need to be had hey. We seriously need to start showing the importance of being able to be vocal and stand up to yourself.
Thank you so much babe. ❤️❤️🤗🤗
You handled her with so much maturity. She definitely would have tested my gangster 🥴
U muhle Sis😍 dont let them pull u down you inspire me 🥰
Siza wam hle but love the approach you took, so lady like and mature.
Am currently also being asked questions about my weight and why sometimes I handle it well sometimes it goes south because it comes from judgemental and disrespectful place, sicela umuntu nomuntu ancome adlule if awaz mele thini thula because our mouths are the sharpest weapons we own.
Umntu akanake inxaki zakhe hle, asizifundiseni ukuthi okungasifuni sikuyeke❤
I get body shamed on a regular by my family and sometimes i feel worthless.
Your make up looks amazing ❤❤
I’m so sorry Taati 😔
Me too about having big breast and small bums,it hurts
@@patriciamotsamai3850 sending love to you ❤️
🖤🖤 love the way you addressed it. Very enlightening.
Thank you 😊❤️
Siza, you look beautiful ❤️😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏 Zwandi would be saying "baby umuhle yoo"
You know him so well. 🥰🥰😍😍
Body shaming has been my life and I used to cry a lot until my mom told me that everyone who body shames you has a problem.
My dear mom continue, girl look yourself in the mirror and tell me what you see,you are so very beautiful very pretty indeed.
Siza you are pretty confident and through out your life you will attract negativety.
Jeolus don't even bother married to the man who loves you very much.
Keep shining dearest.🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hi Siza,
you handled the matter in a mature manner and what’s even better is that you maintained your confidence throughout the confrontation. You’ve taught me a lot from this video, thank you for sharing your story.
Kudos to you, Queen. 👏🏽
It’s a pleasure my love. 🥺❤️
I love how you handled the situation, people can be so insensitive.
-Been there🙁 people e are cruel sis Siza and they don't care about other people's feelings and I wish they could know that the negative things they say about people's bodies or anything might make that person's life worse 💔imagine a whole mother saying bad things about someone else's body🚮.. Thank you for sharing Sis.
Your honestly soo kind Queen❤ how you handled this was amazing.
Thank you angel 🙏🏾❤️
You're absolutely beautiful,people can be so annoying. I have experience with body shaming throughout my entire life, as long as im happy to hell with people's opinions. They even have the nerve to ask when you'll join a gym.
They have the nerve to ask a lot of things these people hey smh lol. Thank you my love ❤️
We all need to ask ourselves "ngi ngenaphi" before making remarks regarding things that don't concern us♥️
Definitely. Let’s normalize this
I like how you handled the situation,,, much love sis ❤️
Thank you ❤️
Spot on Siz can people learn from this ...You are Amazing Love you lots Sis...Gang Gang😍
Thank you so much boo ❤️
Thank you siza... We face this alot as young and old women... You know some people loose or gain weight because of sicknesses etc. Then people start to make such comments and they don't know how they fill in that skin, body etc. There's a lot to say but thank you so much hopefully people who do that they change from their behavior we need to build each other as women...enjoy day too.
So true. People need to be mindful of what they say. Thank you Kwanda 🙏🏾❤️
Ohhhhh hell no and I love that app for the convenience and the safetyness! I hope you've reported her not to be malicious or anything but people need to learn respect! The liver this cleaner has yasis I haven't even watched the whole video but I'm livid that she had the nerve in your own home. This is the problem with being younger and having older people work for you is always the pits, the confrontation just becomes awkward. I'm so happy you confronted her yasis. People are just mean for no reason wtf.
It's very convenient!
Yey wena!! The actual nerve! 🤷🏾♀️
i'm very happy with how you dealt with the situation. no matter who you are mntkbw , getting body shamed gets to u even if its for 2 minutes then you forget. but futhi ukuuqhela kakbi lo uzokuxelela ngomzimba wakho KWAKHO. and people enter no where!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! we love you sis, keep flourishing
Thank you angel. I love you too. ❤️
Hi GG's notification gang 🤘🤘🤘. Yoh Siza you are driving us crazy with these looks. Like I can't keep up. Umuhle tjrr the flames 🔥🔥🔥🔥.
As for this cleaner-The bloody nerve. Clearly she was foolish klaar.
Lol Askies Bathong ❤️. It’s the nerve for me stru
It's the look for me😍😍😍
Thank you for the heads up mama♥️I hope people have learnt that commenting on people's weights and other things is not a compliment
Thank you and it’s a pleasure boo 🤗
Thank you very much for confronting her❤️. You are totally correct, the older black generation are just so entitled to make comments about our weight, skin etc, with the excuse that we "take things too personally" or "una itliziyo encane"
I love the way you handled the situation Siza. I have been body-shamed by people in the name of jokes. Sadly those people just laugh it away kuthiwe nawe you take things serious. If it makes me feel somehow then it is definitely wrong but the society we live in never sees a problem with it.
That’s another problem. People turning these issues into jokes. Ag man Mxm. I’m so sorry hun ❤️
That beautiful eyeshadow though Mam! I'll defo tag you when I recreate it. I'm so inspired ❤❤❤
Thank you mama lol. Can’t wait to see you looking all Tropical 🤗❤️
Yazi ntomboo uyalwa 😍😍😍 so gorgeous!
Your resilience multiplies unto us, thank you ❤️
Thank you my love ❤️
I definitely learnt something from GentleGiant Momma and thank you for sharing the experience ❤😊And also we on a road to 20k subscribers 🥳
It’s my pleasure boo. 🤗❤️
Hey GGs ❤️
You look amazing Siza 🔥❤️!
Thank you for sharing 🥺🥺.
We really need to educate the older generation to be more mindful when it comes to such things.
Much Love ❤️❤️
#RoadTo20K 💃🏾💃🏾!!
It’s my pleasure Ora. Thank you 🤗❤️
Thank you for sharing and also confronting the situation. It wasn't easy but it really has to be done as you said. Clearly Sarah was suffering coz of the stairs. All she had to say was " I'm suffering coz of the stairs" Periodt, not project her issues on you.
I have big feet, when I was younger I was called " Big foot" and "Loaf size" by some men at the market. Ever since then I started buying smaller sized shoes... they hurt. Years later I'm suffering the consequences ALONE! My hubby is sweet, he pushes me to buy those loaf sized shoes and rock them and be happy. That has definitely boosted my confidence.
We should love one another not tear each other down ♡♡♡
Aawwww man Rose. So so true. Thank you for sharing this and I’m so sorry you had to go through this. 😔❤️
Thank You Siza! The way you handle situations amaze me every time and inspires me to be and do better because I know I would have gone bananas over this😂! Thank you #GentleGiantsMamma ❤❤
Lol it’s a pleasure mama 🤗❤️
You handled the situation so well. You are so beautiful and I love you so much mama.❤
Thank you angel. I love you too 🤗❤️
Amen Bazalwane!🐘🐘 love it so much when you say "its the ghetto"
Lol thank you 🙏🏾😊
Owk ke Siza let's start with the face beat🥵🔥🔥🔥you literally frying us🔥❤❤❤
Lol Askies baby lol. Ngyabonga ❤️
rest bafethu!!!! thanks mntase for this insightful convo.. btw you look soooo pretty
You are most welcome. 🥰 Thank you so much. ❤️❤️🤗🤗
What a comment! I have been wanting to try Krispy Kreme for so long, so when I finally decided to go buy at PnP because it was the closest outlet that sells the doughnuts. The cashier said to me that I'm still eating doughnuts at my size. Probably won't forget it but I tore the doughnuts apart - they were delicious! I have learn to go "buzz off" at such negativity.
Thanks for sharing the story!
Bathong molweeeeni hleng. Been a while yaz. Looking gorgeous as ever Siza. Let’s get into the video ❤️❤️colors are communicating 👌🏾🥰
Thank you so much babe. ❤️❤️🤗🤗
Sis siza👧 i am happy you handled the situation that calm🌻.I was also body shamed at Primary📚 and that affected😭 me a lot through out the years and seeing someone like you who has so much love and confidence with your body being body shamed..i am fuming ..i would have scolded the woman for you bcoz wow I HAVE NO CHILL AT ALL😂..trust me i hate seeing people being body shamed.
Aawwww thank you mama. I think we love and we learn especially on how we handle certain situations lol. I’m so sorry you had to go through that 😔🤗❤️
I'm glad you addressed it Siza... Body shaming ain't cool whether fully figured or petite there's no need for someone to comment on your body... It's mine mus so ungena phi...
You also mentioned fertility yoh that one gets to me tjerr people just talk without thinking I get the fertility comment most of the time "kanti when are you having kids you are 30 after 30 it's hard having kids" eish ungena phi 🙄🤷🏽♀️
Yea these conversations seriously need to be had and more awareness conversations need to be had be had. We just all need to do better. 🙌🏾
A LOT of people are not mindful some a going around throwing jabs at other people.. Im glad you addressed it. She will be mindful next time.
You so kind Siza and you handled the situation beautifully 👏
Aaawwww Thank you 🙏🏾❤️
Siza I admire you and how you handle issues, I would have dealt with her right there and then shame and chase her out of my space. I hate body shaming it just kills me.Just a reminder Mrs N you are a beautiful and phenomenal woman♥️😍
Restani bafethu nge personal lives zabantu
Ngyabonga sthandwa 🙏🏾❤️
I lv the way u handled the situation Siza,retla mo shapa ausi oo🤣🤣 by the way u look beautiful one love❤
Thank you hun 🤗
I commend how you handled the situation siza. it really shows you're a woman of virtue. the fact that she's older and you were able to approach in a right way. ukuth abone naye ukuth njengomuntu okhulile.
Abantu abadala abakwazi ukukhuluma especially about izinto ezi sensitive. resulting to us sibe affected mentally.
i don't understand people who feel as if kuright to pick on somebody's weight or looks and they don't even apologize. it's totally disrespectful and out of line.
It’s really disrespectful and out of line. Thank you mama 🙏🏾❤️
First one here 😛 . I absolutely adore you❤ !
Whoop Whoop 🎉❤️😄💃🏽🕺🏽
Most of my body shamers are family members who cover their body-shaming as " caring for my health". My aunt once said to me that once I lose weight I will find a man and that I will be beautiful. I finally learned that not every opinion matters and I love how you approached the situation. I had to teach some of my family members how to be mindful of their words. I agree with everything you said in this video and even watched it with my mom.
What your aunt said was definitely bullying and body shaming Ag. I’m so glad you’ve empowered some of your family members. That’s amazing to see mama. Thank you for watching this with your mom. Aawwww 🙏🏾❤️
Since Zwandi is not with you today lemme do it for him lol, you look so pretty😍💕. Can’t stop looking at your eyes, you nailed it yoh😻
Anyway thank you this. It teaches us how to communicate with people without saying offensive things and also to mind our businesses.
Hahaha thank you. Aaawww it’s my pleasure ❤️
The more they body shame you the prettier you become. U ya baba siza gul
Hair goals 🙌