Omg, I have that same lamp! I love the mercury glass with the linen shade, I got it 4-5 yrs ago an I love it!! . When I think of class I think of: clean house, everything put together well, coordinating colors and styles, no clutter, elegant soft textures, real wood(nothing plastic), beautiful shiny glass and mirrors, fresh cut flowers, nothing out of place, everything has a place, attention to details, fresh clean smell, natural and soft lighting...clean and pressed beds, no fake flowers or plants, fresh linens and soft music.
When I think of a classy person the first person that comes to mind is my Grandma. She didn’t have a lot but what She did was very well taken care of. He clothing was clean and pressed. Her home was clean and bright. Lots of light and plants. She was Greek and made the most healthy and delicious food. Everything was made with love. Lastly, she had the most beautiful smile and would never say a bad word about anyone. I think I really comes down to making the most of what you have and deep appreciation.
My grandmother made every pillow and every curtain and she ironed every sheet and pillow case.She always had classical music playing on low volume behind one of her two cushioned claw ottomans. Everything was always the same but very clean.
When my house is untidy I feel very anxious, unfortunately I have a husband who thinks every available surface is for dumping stuff on 😔, it's like clearing up after a 5 year old 🤭, bless him!! Really enjoyed this video x
This has so frustrated me because I have balance and walking issues. So, this a.m., I started taking pics on my phone. I've had to leave NOTES in places where his leaving things out could be dangerous...I'm done being his Mom. He's a very intelligent person, very kind to his friends, but he considers the ENTIRE house, as his "man cave". Thing is, I DO NOT WANT TO HURT HIS FEELINGS. I do love him so. So, pictures tell a thousand words, right?
Great video to share with others... never having children, my home is one of those homes you are speaking about... I am a homebody anyway...a clean home is a way of life...It keeps you very grounded ...There is a confidence in the way you live...❤
Yes to all that you said. And a classy home has a classy pet. 😄 I love a well-mannered pet with a calm greeting & then chills in their own space. I love energetic puppies too, yet when human hosting, a puppy ought to have a classy space to play & rest. Thank you, Valentina!
Tiny flower arrangements on the powder room / guest bath vanity along with pretty paper fingertip hand towels. As a younger woman I was introduced to beautiful hostess ing by two older women in my prayer circle. I will always gratefully replicate this nicety in my own home today.
I think classy homes always have things available for guests....little things like toothpicks and mints in the bathroom to a set place to put their bag and coat . Even a water pitcher and glasses set out so they don’t have to ask for water is such a nice touch
Thank you for sharing, Valentina. I’m new to your channel, but I’ve been watching lots of your videos, and I truly appreciate the time you put in and the knowledge you share. My mom’s best friend, Arlene, was this classy-lady inspiration for me. Her home was always beautifully clean, it smelled like cinnamon-spice, and she and her husband were fantastic cooks. I have such wonderful memories of being in their home, they used the “good stuff” for their guests often, -China and crystal glasses, and it was such a lovely feeling of being warmly welcomed and celebrated. I try to create that experience for my guests, and also my own family.
I really enjoy your channel. Thank you for sharing your expertise with us that don’t have that talent. I love this look on you. Your makeup makes your eyes pop!
One thing I always appreciate from a host (including myself) is when the dinner is largely done in advance so they aren't spending the first hour in front of the stove and oven trying to get everything done last minute. I have a rule of 5 mins. for myself. In the time before dinner while guests are there, I have 5 mins. I get to be in the kitchen and everything else has to be done before arrivals. So I can put in and take out of oven, saute a veggie, grab things from the fridge, etc., but all under a cumulative 5 mins. so guests aren't sitting there bored without your attention. This rule has served me well. Takes planning, but it's worth it. I've been to dinner parties where you barely see the host at all because they are cooking or cleaning the whole time. Have a discreet place ready to put the dirty dishes and do them after the guests leave. Be with your guests. They are the important ingredient that needs to be enjoyed. Preset the table. Precut the vegetables and refrig the platters, have a ramekin ready with spices/sauces that you can micro a few secs right when needed. All you should have to do is take the food from the oven/fridge/stovetop and take to the table. Spending time with YOU is what the people will remember so be sure to do that. LOL
The individuals I have found classy over the years were usually older women who had their hair fixed with nothing out of place. A lovely everyday or special occasion dress on that is tidy. Small dainty earrings even if they were dangles, a light fragrance, and most of all a sweet smile that melts your heart and direct attention that makes you feel special in a way no one else can.
I like that you mentioned manicure because that doesn’t mean expensive or new or trendy….classy people appreciate and take care of their friends, family and possessions
Great ideas; however, many are extremely sensitive to scents, so when I have family or guests over I’ll make sure that I address their comfort level with regards to scents, even details such as the type of soap I have in the washrooms as well as dishwashing liquid.It’s like asking someone if that person is allergic to anything before preparing a meal.
Thank you so much for your wonderful tips, we have cats and I have on your advice replaced all my plug-ins with natural candles and diffusers. You always look very classy too Valentina and I love your new make-up look. Would you possibly be able to do a piece on how to transform a house that is being rented? We live in England and we're waiting for the right time to buy a house. Thank you!
Valentina for smaller spaces like 1500sft would you suggest only one scent for the entire house, every room the same? Or is it okay to have different scents for different rooms?
I had to look twice at your thumbnail photo. The art that’s behind you made it look like your hair was HUGE. I actually whipped my glasses off while my mouth was hanging open and my brain was stuck on “Huh?!”. 😳😵💫 I’m so glad it was a sort of optical illusion. Especially since your video was about being classy. 😂 You’re your classy self - not a big haired babe from the Jersey Shore. 🤣
Classy people do not perceive themselves as classy, others assign that label to them. A warm personality, well kept appearance, a graceful demeanor, inform others the person is grounded, understands themselves and will more than likely understand them. In my opinion our homes are a reflection of ourselves and we should keep our environment real. I am not a believer of contrived home decor.
Great video! However, you used the word ‘classy’ about a thousand times 😀. Perhaps you could have used some synonyms such as elegant, refined or chic instead? It would have made your video easier to listen to.
Chipped nails have always been a huge no no for me. Either wear no polish. Or keep it non chipped. But it goes back to my mammaw saying no matter how poor you are, be neat and clean.
Good quality is also a sign of a classy home. Wood or solid core doors, solid heavy door knobs, upgraded moulding, furniture that is sturdy and made well, solid faucets and hardware…really do make a difference in how your home is perceived. I bought a really nice home that lacked most of these things. I’ve been upgrading slowly. It makes all the difference!
I have an art studio in my house. It's only immaculate when I'm having a dry spell! I cannot work effectively without my paints & equipment within arm's reach. Otherwise, in our home spaces, I agree--untidy houses are depressing, and definitely no fun for guests.
Agreed, I’m on a roll of organizing these last few days.It makes me smile with satisfaction when I step back and look at my organized linen closet, or when I finish organizing paperwork in a 3 drawer shelving unit for my dads tax receipts and finally my laundry room 👏👏👏
I think classiness has little, if anything, to do with money or things, but with attitude of heart. One could live in a gorgeous mansion but demean, if not destroy, its ambiance with arrogant, self-centered behavior. My grandmother had very modest means. Yet she and her home were rich in graciousness and hospitality-always exuding peace, patience, self-control, gentleness, kindness, goodness and joy. Her humble home’s signature fragrance was the lingering aroma of freshly made biscuits,
In times with very little extra $ or more ease I tried to provide warmth & welcome in my home. I love uncluttered spaces but homey with a simple vase of nature, books (old friends!) inviting very light natural scent & yes, quiet music & a prominent candle. A big basket to stash my kids’ or dogs’ toys is a must. I also love an inviting place to sit with a pillow or blanket. I have kept a little dish of revolving candies or chocolates next to the front door for years. When a guest is over I try not to be busy in the kitchen & just be more present. Some people have commented that I must be a perfectionist or look “perfect”. That breaks my heart because really the way I set my home is an act of love from me that says I care about you & want you make yourself at home. I think I’m trying to recreate the way my loving grandma made me feel at home.
Loved this video Valentina. My mom is the classiest person I know and she serves all her food on restaurant quality china with cloth napkins and crystal water glasses. Her motto is “when you can’t go out … go in” I live by it now. It’s so special to prepare meals in a classy way for my family. Again great video.
Regarding chipped nail polish, this year I discovered Kiss nails ($6-10 for 24). They're glue on. I've watched a few UA-cam videos on how to get them perfect (rough up your nail, push cuticles back, file fake nail to your perfect fit, thin line of included glue down the middle, press on for five seconds and you're good for a week). Avoid spending $60 at the salon! I get compliments all the time. They come in a variety of lengths and colors, designs or sparkle.
One of my biggest pet peeves is smelling a person’s cologne or fragrance that is so strong that it makes me want to leave the area to get a breath of fresh air. Being European my mother always dressed elegantly even when grocery shopping and she applied her fragrance sparingly. She was a great role model for me.
I loved this. My mother who has passed on now was always a very classy lady even though we grew up in what others would describe as a very poor home; she always made the house homey in a classy way and welcomed people into our home so beautifully with her Italian style and warmth. She was alway cooking in the kitchen and singing so beautifully. Everyday she would put herself together…her hair and the way she wore her clothes even if they were older and she couldn’t afford newer clothes she took care of what she had impeccably. Now as an adult I’ve had many comments especially when I was working on how I always look “put together” and people think I’m “classy”. I’ve had to get used to those comments because when I was younger I took that as them thinking I was “snobby”….. I know better now and smile inside when I think of mom.
I've been working on a "signature home fragrance" for my essential oil diffusers. I love grounded earthy scents over florals. My blend is vetiver, lime, cedarwood and vanilla. It's fresh, earthy, warm and calming.
A classy home is a cultured home. My grandmother always had order and warmth in her home. She taught us manners like no slamming doors and screaming all over. Meal time were set, reading time was a norm and she overall, created a signature of "home".
This sounds like this should be the main focus around any classy home conversation. If there is no harmony, culture and warmth, no amount of candles or fancy moldings would make up for it
My sense of style largely derives from my grandmother. She was the classiest woman I ever knew. Her living room was the delight of professional interior designers, but additionally the furniture was soft to the touch and comfortable. Her personal style was always impeccable. She was always the most stylish woman in her church.
This was an interesting topic. The music one was something I view different. I love lively music in the home, ie salsa, soco, reggae or any Afro Caribbean music makes me feel at home.
I agree with you about the music and I think it very much depends on the musical taste of the host and knowing the type of music your guests enjoy. For me old school 90s Mariah, Whitney, etc. is always what sets the mood and my family loves it too!
My dad was a real classy man. One of those who wore a classic cape to go to the concerts at the National Theater. He loved entretaining, and making sure everyone had always enough food and full wine glass on hand :) thanks for the video, Valentina, loved it 🥰
Sounds like you grew up in a privileged world. It's a bit easier to be "classy" when you can afford certain things. That being said, I love how much you loved your Dad.😊
@@wrmlm37 thank you :) Indeed, I was privilege indeed in having hard working parents who earned very good reputation in what they did for a living (my dad was a well known sound engineer). He worked very hard to get there though, he never got anything for free. No, that's a lie. They once won 500euros in a shopping mall and they spent it on a TV - that my mom still has now :) I think class comes with personality and wisdom, not money. Thanks for the comment.
Classy for me is clean, neat and lightly scented. I visited a gentleman's home and it was a colonial style. Once I entered, I noticed the light scent of what I perceived to be some sort of candle that had not yet been lit. Like when u are in a store and remove the lid of a candle. It smelled like he had maybe three of those sitting around his home, on that level. I couldn't even tell u what his furniture style or anything at this point. I really enjoyed that scent. It wasn't heavy, feminine or masculine. It was soft but present. His home was quiet and I don't know if that's how he rolled everyday, as I was there on a short visit with someone else. I like all of the above however I enjoy jazz, gospel or a little classical music in my home. I like a bit of art, color flow (no matter the style of furniture, etc), a summer breeze, comfortable furniture and no lingering food smells, unless you're cooking. I also enjoy candles lit on any night. Any-whooo, that's all classy to me
I have 2 friends that have gorgeous homes no matter where they are living (NYC small apartments). they always decorate full not half done which I feel that your average person that is not going to drop 10k-20k to decorate stuggles with, half done. Elegant sophisticated homes are completed looking spaces. i call it "pulled together". Also agree completely if all of us just stopped and looked around each room and put things away and pulled all the visual clutter out of a room you would have an immediate calm and elegant feel to a room! :-) great reminder video HofV
I saw a recent video in which a lady showed how to make a bed properly, with no special linens! Oh, the care and attention to detail! She made the bed properly with just an older comforter and a top sheet over it. She washed the linens in special detergent, ironed the linens, sprayed them with linen fragrance, did the hospital corners. I felt soooo relaxed and special just watching the care that went into it. Beautiful and heartwarming to know that we can be content with whatever we have and make it special with cleanliness and gratitude and care! Lovely. Love this topic, Valentina!
You make such a great point! Having a classy home doesn't have to be expensive or brand new, but instead is intentional with items that are well cared for and that oh so important attention to detail ❤
My mother always focused on not making noise in a kitchen when washing dishes or serving dinner..it should be done quietly so guests don't have to worry about host working so hard 😊
Ciao, i remember my childhood home my Mom passed away many years ago, i'm so thankfull that she teached to as feeling of harmony & beauty, we didn't had candles or fashion magazines, instead had a lot of books, was tidy well organized, smelled flowers filled with happiness this is my home, hope my home feels like that, ciao 😘
Hello, Valentina! Thank you for your thoughtful review of elements of classiness. When you mentioned listening to outdoor sounds, & the sounds of the crickets, I felt quite sad. I have lived in my home for 35 years, & this is the first summer that there has been no sound of crickets chirping at night. Listening to recordings helps, but it's just not the same. Climate change is upon our world. Ah well, I do enjoy your uplifting & encouraging videos. Thank you for sharing your insights & inspirations. Sending you gratitude & love.... 🙏🌿🌷🌿😘🌿🌷🌿🙏
Love my lamps and candles burning, especially my diffuser during the day that sends off a beautiful smell throughout our home, I have a small question, are table runners in or out on your dining room table and coffee table, just curious if you don’t mind answering my question. Always Love your content. Cheers from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺❤️❤️
I usually have light classical music playing in the background. There is always that one person who will come in and ask “what the hell is that noise!!?”
I might make multiple comments bc I’m not even done with the video! I like to keep a couple empty lidded boxes throughout the house to store random things and when it’s full I go through and toss what isn’t needed or my kids forgot about, put away the things that need to go away… really helps keep life mess out of soght
Yes!!!! Totally agree. I am feeling inspired to clean today. Have to say that I love your office and your vlog presentations. Saw a black and white pencil drawing Of a leopard on another channel and all I could think of was how great that would look behind YOU when you vlog. It was very large and under glass and mainly head depiction with a lot of white background. Designers never retire. The mind is still creating yet another vignette. Wishing you well Valentina.
I'm a "young" millennial, prayerfully moving into our first house with our sweet daughter this year. I feel so daunted with the task of designing and crafting our home. I am excited, and definitely leaning on creators like Valentina and Nick Lewis to help me navigate this process. Thank you for making a body of work that is not afraid to celebrate elevated and excellent design. Please wish us luck! ✨🎀🏡✨
Glad that you mentioned ambiance music , lower voice tone and minimum noise in a classy homes Sometimes we forget the importance of of hearing and focus on vision and smelling They work all together to creat a classy home
I’ve been thinking I need a intercom system so that I can call my family upstairs to come downstairs. My grandmother had one and it was very civilized.
Just get a whistle 😄 A nice bell could work too. I remember a friend of mine growing up had the room to room intercom. You could play music on it throughout the house, which was neat. Or, put talk radio/morning news on in the AM and not have to worry about bringing your phone or bluetooth speaker with you, all around the house as you get ready.
I get a classy vibe when a house is clean; also, when is not a room made in a furniture room, all the pieces matching, the rug, and the two lamps, this just seems put together with no thought. A home to me is classy when is not a shrine to something like titles and trophy’s, etc or pictures everywhere. Thanks for the video 🌸🌸🌸
Love all the info in the shorter video 👏👏👏! Can you share your choices for the “warm” lightbulbs you suggest? I’m always confused if it’s like daylight or warm white, etc (I def can’t do the cool, blueish white light or those fluorescent bulb colors ! 🤔🤔🤔? I need a warm white task lighting that doesn’t distort colors ! The cool white lights are too blueish and the “Edison-type” yellow-colored lightbulbs look too gold in my home! They actually change the color in my room and don’t give enough task lighting above my island and in lamps for me! I prefer a warm, crisp white light that’s doesn’t look so yellowy or make my whites look off-white ! I’ve bought so many different light bulbs that were the wrong color ☹️😞😆! I could use this help for my recessed lights too! I want all the lights to be the same color snd not mismatched warm/cool lightbulbs! ! Also a link , please for your top two favorite Hotel fragrances! 😉❤️
Valentina, this video brought a smile to my face. As I watched , I also thought how I also have learned from my mom how to entertain, decorate, and even how to carry myself. Thank you for this video. You express yourself so beautifully , which I admire about you. 💗💕❤️🙏🏻
If a pet is in a classy home, it's well trained. Dogs don't jump on, bite, or slobber all over guests. They dont beg for or steal food. And there's no animal smells. I've visited houses I thought were elegant and welcoming until I met the pet(s).
Our home is always clean and uncluttered it gives me peace that anyone could walk through the door and I would not be embarrassed to invite them in. I don’t wear perfume but I burn candles in each bathroom that permeates through the house and always play the same music in every room so no matter where our guests go they will hear the same music, even outdoors as living in Arizona we use our backyard to entertain. It’s the way I was raised and the way I am most comfortable.
The classiest and also most down to earth person I know is YOU! Always a pleasure and an inspiration in both design and attitude!! PS. I do listen.... buying new candles right now! :)
There’s a film that was released in 1987 called ‘Someone to Watch Over Me’ with Tom Berenger and Mimi Rogers. I remember the beautiful apartment the Rogers character owned but most of all the orchestra music that was always playing in the background. To me that made such an impression of luxury and elegance.
@@tthomas501 I’d love to know what you think about it, especially the music. Do you have a link, or can you tell me how to reach the music list you were talking about?
@@rneustel388 I haven't been able to find it for free, but I saw the trailer, and you're right, the apartment is nice. I don't know what list you are referring to 🤔
A classy home has a gracious host, beautiful/clean environment where you can tell they paid attention to the details. It's beautiful, welcoming and comfortable all at the same time.🤗🥰
Do you have a video on paint undertones? For example: I bought brushed brass fixtures for my exterior. They will be under a wrap around porch so it is shaded. I am wondering what type of white to choose? Does undertone of paint make a difference with the fixtures you have? Does the amount of light in the area affect what undertone to choose?
I just discovered your channel. I think you are so precious!!! I enjoy you and your personality so much!!! I think you live in Georgia too?! I'm north of AugustaI. I know you are super busy, but if you get an opportunity I have a crazy question! I can not quite nail down my design style, but I know what I like when I see it. Some of the pictures you had in the video are so me!! (Hallway with black doors, sitting room with tortoise shell on wall, and the one with the wood table against the window and the little chair in front) What style is that? And would you be able to tell me where you found those images so I can find more?! I'm so sorry for asking such a weird question, but I am so frustrated! Thank you so much for taking the time to read my long comment!
I agree that tidiness is important, and so is flow. Indeed, it is NOT about money. It is about cleanliness, appearance, being at ease, and comfortable around others. No stress. No anxiety. A classy person exudes kindness and confidence, not arrogance. A classy home is the same. It is visually appealing and comfortable to be in. Elegant without being untouchable. Getting a guest a drink or cup of coffee should be easy and appear effortless. The hosts may have worked like mad preparing behind the scenes, but the guests should only see effortless, sumptuous entertaining. I knew a lady who made a production of bringing out a plate of cookies. You would think the plate was hot and weighed fifty pounds. She grunted and huffed, and.... just needed all eyes on herself. Unfortunately, my husband does the same thing. Grrrr. I get around the me-me-meeees by careful timing - arranging for things to be ready before guests arrive. When company is staying with us, I do my best and let go of the rest. Open floor plans make it difficult. Some people just need to be at the center of everything and in control. My dear friend is like that. She gets in the middle of the kitchen and starts messing with everything recipe. She says she's helping. No, she's making a me-me-meeeee scene. She has ruined more dishes fir more dinners than I can count. And we love her anyway. Hmmmmm .... I think next visit, I will bring in the tall orange cones we use for training horses and put caution tape between them to set up a barrier around the kitchen. That might be real classy. LOL.
Hi lovely Valentina!! Could you please remind me of which Hotel candle you love? I think you mentioned it in another video. Thank you so much! I just adore your videos, it has helped me so much!
I love the my quiet moments as well, I don't like loud music, love candles, yes even the fake ones, and live plants. To me a classy person first takes care of their own appearance, their mind, their behavior, their conversation, language, and their home, is a great hostess without making people feel uncomfortable. The cent in your home is very important, the aviant you portray, friendliness, and being fun to be around, I don't like loud anything, that has zero class, my opinion.
I loved all these tips! With 2 kids in diapers (and a cat), tidiness and welcoming scents are a real challenge. I would have loved to see some diversity in the examples of classy ladies though. Love your channel❤️
Omg, I have that same lamp! I love the mercury glass with the linen shade, I got it 4-5 yrs ago an I love it!! .
When I think of class I think of: clean house, everything put together well, coordinating colors and styles, no clutter, elegant soft textures, real wood(nothing plastic), beautiful shiny glass and mirrors, fresh cut flowers, nothing out of place, everything has a place, attention to details, fresh clean smell, natural and soft lighting...clean and pressed beds, no fake flowers or plants, fresh linens and soft music.
When I think of a classy person the first person that comes to mind is my Grandma. She didn’t have a lot but what
She did was very well taken care of. He clothing was clean and pressed. Her home was clean and bright. Lots of light and plants. She was Greek and made the most healthy and delicious food. Everything was made with love. Lastly, she had the most beautiful smile and would never say a bad word about anyone. I think I really comes down to making the most of what you have and deep appreciation.
Now, that's classy! What a classy grandma u were gifted with. Beautiful
Yes ☺️
I feel the same way about mine. She was Serbian. Same as your Yaya , she wasn’t wealthy but she took care of everything and had class.☺️🇷🇺
This reminds me of my own grandmother ...and my Mum! How fortunate are we to have such wonderful role models!
That is exactly what I would say
My grandmother made every pillow and every curtain and she ironed every sheet and pillow case.She always had classical music playing on low volume behind one of her two cushioned claw ottomans. Everything was always the same but very clean.
My favorite series added to your videos of what stylish people have in their homes. 👏👏. Please put together on a playlist.
When my house is untidy I feel very anxious, unfortunately I have a husband who thinks every available surface is for dumping stuff on 😔, it's like clearing up after a 5 year old 🤭, bless him!! Really enjoyed this video x
Same and same plus my 12 year old son too. 🙂
Oh my! Sounds like my husband. Never meta flat surface he didn’t want to fill. So now I try to live by “pardon our mess. We are making memories”
@@barbaranye9670 ha ha I like that 😆
This has so frustrated me because I have balance and walking issues. So, this a.m., I started taking pics on my phone. I've had to leave NOTES in places where his leaving things out could be dangerous...I'm done being his Mom. He's a very intelligent person, very kind to his friends, but he considers the ENTIRE house, as his "man cave". Thing is, I DO NOT WANT TO HURT HIS FEELINGS. I do love him so. So, pictures tell a thousand words, right?
@@wrmlm37 hope it works for you 🤞
Yes !
Tidiness is the foundation!
It is worth the effort
Great video to share with others... never having children, my home is one of those homes you are speaking about... I am a homebody anyway...a clean home is a way of life...It keeps you very grounded ...There is a confidence in the way you live...❤
I couldn’t agree more!!
@@HouseofValentina I totally agree too!👏
Valentina - I simply adore you and your husband - thank you for sharing your knowledge and talent!
Yes to all that you said. And a classy home has a classy pet. 😄 I love a well-mannered pet with a calm greeting & then chills in their own space. I love energetic puppies too, yet when human hosting, a puppy ought to have a classy space to play & rest. Thank you, Valentina!
You are a great example of classy! Great job! I just shared one of your videos with a neighbor and she loved it.
Tiny flower arrangements on the powder room / guest bath vanity along with pretty paper fingertip hand towels. As a younger woman I was introduced to beautiful hostess ing by two older women in my prayer circle. I will always gratefully replicate this nicety in my own home today.
I think classy homes always have things available for guests....little things like toothpicks and mints in the bathroom to a set place to put their bag and coat . Even a water pitcher and glasses set out so they don’t have to ask for water is such a nice touch
Thank you for sharing, Valentina. I’m new to your channel, but I’ve been watching lots of your videos, and I truly appreciate the time you put in and the knowledge you share.
My mom’s best friend, Arlene, was this classy-lady inspiration for me. Her home was always beautifully clean, it smelled like cinnamon-spice, and she and her husband were fantastic cooks. I have such wonderful memories of being in their home, they used the “good stuff” for their guests often, -China and crystal glasses, and it was such a lovely feeling of being warmly welcomed and celebrated. I try to create that experience for my guests, and also my own family.
I really like how everything in the room you are in is painted one color. What color is that? Really stands out.
The warm homey feeling albeit the luxe pieces is what makes a home classy.
I really enjoy your channel. Thank you for sharing your expertise with us that don’t have that talent. I love this look on you. Your makeup makes your eyes pop!
One thing I always appreciate from a host (including myself) is when the dinner is largely done in advance so they aren't spending the first hour in front of the stove and oven trying to get everything done last minute. I have a rule of 5 mins. for myself. In the time before dinner while guests are there, I have 5 mins. I get to be in the kitchen and everything else has to be done before arrivals. So I can put in and take out of oven, saute a veggie, grab things from the fridge, etc., but all under a cumulative 5 mins. so guests aren't sitting there bored without your attention. This rule has served me well. Takes planning, but it's worth it. I've been to dinner parties where you barely see the host at all because they are cooking or cleaning the whole time. Have a discreet place ready to put the dirty dishes and do them after the guests leave. Be with your guests. They are the important ingredient that needs to be enjoyed. Preset the table. Precut the vegetables and refrig the platters, have a ramekin ready with spices/sauces that you can micro a few secs right when needed. All you should have to do is take the food from the oven/fridge/stovetop and take to the table. Spending time with YOU is what the people will remember so be sure to do that. LOL
Classy to me is my great aunt and Mom. They had glasses chilled for guests. Always had good food on pretty plates. House was always clean!
The individuals I have found classy over the years were usually older women who had their hair fixed with nothing out of place. A lovely everyday or special occasion dress on that is tidy. Small dainty earrings even if they were dangles, a light fragrance, and most of all a sweet smile that melts your heart and direct attention that makes you feel special in a way no one else can.
Great content! Love all the different styles and color pallets you showed. 👍🏻
Love your videos soooo much, you are classyl ❤️
So agree 🌸
Interesting topic. Thank you.❤️
Thank you Vanlentina! Such a beautiful message and great life tips❤🙏
I like that you mentioned manicure because that doesn’t mean expensive or new or trendy….classy people appreciate and take care of their friends, family and possessions
Great ideas; however, many are extremely sensitive to scents, so when I have family or guests over I’ll make sure that I address their comfort level with regards to scents, even details such as the type of soap I have in the washrooms as well as dishwashing liquid.It’s like asking someone if that person is allergic to anything before preparing a meal.
That is awesome! I wish more people understood this.
There are so many toxic and synthetic fragrances now that are making life hard for many.
Thank you so much for your wonderful tips, we have cats and I have on your advice replaced all my plug-ins with natural candles and diffusers.
You always look very classy too Valentina and I love your new make-up look.
Would you possibly be able to do a piece on how to transform a house that is being rented? We live in England and we're waiting for the right time to buy a house.
Thank you!
Valentina for smaller spaces like 1500sft would you suggest only one scent for the entire house, every room the same? Or is it okay to have different scents for different rooms?
Love the video!👍🏻
Love 💕 the music ideas! Where would I find your French Cafe?
I had to look twice at your thumbnail photo. The art that’s behind you made it look like your hair was HUGE. I actually whipped my glasses off while my mouth was hanging open and my brain was stuck on “Huh?!”. 😳😵💫
I’m so glad it was a sort of optical illusion. Especially since your video was about being classy. 😂 You’re your classy self - not a big haired babe from the Jersey Shore. 🤣
Classy people do not perceive themselves as classy, others assign that label to them. A warm personality, well kept appearance, a graceful demeanor, inform others the person is grounded, understands themselves and will more than likely understand them. In my opinion our homes are a reflection of ourselves and we should keep our environment real. I am not a believer of contrived home decor.
R.M., I think this is one of the best descriptions of Classy people that I have read.
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Can you tell me where to get the glass vases on stands you showed? Love your style!
I think you might be referring to Menu's échasse vases. Very elegant!
@@MlleSara2 Thank You! Very kind of you!
Great video! However, you used the word ‘classy’ about a thousand times 😀. Perhaps you could have used some synonyms such as elegant, refined or chic instead? It would have made your video easier to listen to.
Chipped nails have always been a huge no no for me. Either wear no polish. Or keep it non chipped. But it goes back to my mammaw saying no matter how poor you are, be neat and clean.
Love your videos. I am a fan from Puerto Rico 🇵🇷. Please do something about your art in the background. It does not look classy.
That is your opinion.
Too much talking without samples....I am a visual person.
I do want to hear what you have to say, I just wish you would get to the point quicker.
Really really. Really? There must be other words. Or just eliminate most the reallies.
Good quality is also a sign of a classy home. Wood or solid core doors, solid heavy door knobs, upgraded moulding, furniture that is sturdy and made well, solid faucets and hardware…really do make a difference in how your home is perceived. I bought a really nice home that lacked most of these things. I’ve been upgrading slowly. It makes all the difference!
Such a good point often missed x
Dean Sharp was talking about "the details" on his "House Whisperer" radio show this morning!
I agree completely!
Completely agree
When my house is clean and uncluttered it gives me such a feeling of well-being 🌸
Same here. I mentally can’t function if I have mess and clutter around me.
Yes agreed! Clutter is not good for mental health!
I have an art studio in my house. It's only immaculate when I'm having a dry spell! I cannot work effectively without my paints & equipment within arm's reach. Otherwise, in our home spaces, I agree--untidy houses are depressing, and definitely no fun for guests.
Agreed, I’m on a roll of organizing these last few days.It makes me smile with satisfaction when I step back and look at my organized linen closet, or when I finish organizing paperwork in a 3 drawer shelving unit for my dads tax receipts and finally my laundry room 👏👏👏
I think classiness has little, if anything, to do with money or things, but with attitude of heart. One could live in a gorgeous mansion but demean, if not destroy, its ambiance with arrogant, self-centered behavior.
My grandmother had very modest means. Yet she and her home were rich in graciousness and hospitality-always exuding peace, patience, self-control, gentleness, kindness, goodness and joy. Her humble home’s signature fragrance was the lingering aroma of freshly made biscuits,
How precious❣️
Thank you for sharing. So true🤯💕
Absolutely! Money has nothing to do with it!
Your grandma sounds like a wonderful lady !
In times with very little extra $ or more ease I tried to provide warmth & welcome in my home. I love uncluttered spaces but homey with a simple vase of nature, books (old friends!) inviting very light natural scent & yes, quiet music & a prominent candle. A big basket to stash my kids’ or dogs’ toys is a must. I also love an inviting place to sit with a pillow or blanket. I have kept a little dish of revolving candies or chocolates next to the front door for years. When a guest is over I try not to be busy in the kitchen & just be more present. Some people have commented that I must be a perfectionist or look “perfect”. That breaks my heart because really the way I set my home is an act of love from me that says I care about you & want you make yourself at home. I think I’m trying to recreate the way my loving grandma made me feel at home.
Loved this video Valentina. My mom is the classiest person I know and she serves all her food on restaurant quality china with cloth napkins and crystal water glasses. Her motto is “when you can’t go out … go in” I live by it now. It’s so special to prepare meals in a classy way for my family. Again great video.
THAT! Lovely...
You have mentioned several times the Hotel scent, especially the candles. Could you give us a link as to where to purchase the candles?
Classical music in the background & amber lighting throughout our home. Very calming & welcoming. 🥰
Regarding chipped nail polish, this year I discovered Kiss nails ($6-10 for 24). They're glue on. I've watched a few UA-cam videos on how to get them perfect (rough up your nail, push cuticles back, file fake nail to your perfect fit, thin line of included glue down the middle, press on for five seconds and you're good for a week). Avoid spending $60 at the salon! I get compliments all the time. They come in a variety of lengths and colors, designs or sparkle.
Mine usually last 2 weeks thanks to those tips I heard from a UA-cam 😃 and yes you’re right you save money for sure.
One of my biggest pet peeves is smelling a person’s cologne or fragrance that is so strong that it makes me want to leave the area to get a breath of fresh air. Being European my mother always dressed elegantly even when grocery shopping and she applied her fragrance sparingly. She was a great role model for me.
I loved this. My mother who has passed on now was always a very classy lady even though we grew up in what others would describe as a very poor home; she always made the house homey in a classy way and welcomed people into our home so beautifully with her Italian style and warmth. She was alway cooking in the kitchen and singing so beautifully. Everyday she would put herself together…her hair and the way she wore her clothes even if they were older and she couldn’t afford newer clothes she took care of what she had impeccably. Now as an adult I’ve had many comments especially when I was working on how I always look “put together” and people think I’m “classy”. I’ve had to get used to those comments because when I was younger I took that as them thinking I was “snobby”….. I know better now and smile inside when I think of mom.
I've been working on a "signature home fragrance" for my essential oil diffusers. I love grounded earthy scents over florals. My blend is vetiver, lime, cedarwood and vanilla. It's fresh, earthy, warm and calming.
Sounds great!
I love all those scents!
Can you share your “recipe“ using that blend? Love all those scents!
Love oils, but I have cats and cannot use diffusers.
A classy home is a cultured home. My grandmother always had order and warmth in her home. She taught us manners like no slamming doors and screaming all over. Meal time were set, reading time was a norm and she overall, created a signature of "home".
This sounds like this should be the main focus around any classy home conversation. If there is no harmony, culture and warmth, no amount of candles or fancy moldings would make up for it
My sense of style largely derives from my grandmother. She was the classiest woman I ever knew. Her living room was the delight of professional interior designers, but additionally the furniture was soft to the touch and comfortable. Her personal style was always impeccable. She was always the most stylish woman in her church.
This was an interesting topic. The music one was something I view different. I love lively music in the home, ie salsa, soco, reggae or any Afro Caribbean music makes me feel at home.
Sounds like fun and energetic!
I agree with you about the music and I think it very much depends on the musical taste of the host and knowing the type of music your guests enjoy. For me old school 90s Mariah, Whitney, etc. is always what sets the mood and my family loves it too!
To me, a classy person is empathetic and kind.
Agree.
There is a lack of stress in a classy person and a classy home. A lack of frustration too. So ergonomics is essential in a classy home.
My dad was a real classy man. One of those who wore a classic cape to go to the concerts at the National Theater. He loved entretaining, and making sure everyone had always enough food and full wine glass on hand :) thanks for the video, Valentina, loved it 🥰
He sounds like an amazing man!
Sounds like you grew up in a privileged world. It's a bit easier to be "classy" when you can afford certain things. That being said, I love how much you loved your Dad.😊
@@wrmlm37 thank you :) Indeed, I was privilege indeed in having hard working parents who earned very good reputation in what they did for a living (my dad was a well known sound engineer). He worked very hard to get there though, he never got anything for free. No, that's a lie. They once won 500euros in a shopping mall and they spent it on a TV - that my mom still has now :) I think class comes with personality and wisdom, not money. Thanks for the comment.
Classy for me is clean, neat and lightly scented. I visited a gentleman's home and it was a colonial style. Once I entered, I noticed the light scent of what I perceived to be some sort of candle that had not yet been lit. Like when u are in a store and remove the lid of a candle. It smelled like he had maybe three of those sitting around his home, on that level. I couldn't even tell u what his furniture style or anything at this point. I really enjoyed that scent. It wasn't heavy, feminine or masculine. It was soft but present. His home was quiet and I don't know if that's how he rolled everyday, as I was there on a short visit with someone else. I like all of the above however I enjoy jazz, gospel or a little classical music in my home. I like a bit of art, color flow (no matter the style of furniture, etc), a summer breeze, comfortable furniture and no lingering food smells, unless you're cooking. I also enjoy candles lit on any night. Any-whooo, that's all classy to me
Hi. Would love to follow your Spotify playlist!! Please share. Thank you
I have 2 friends that have gorgeous homes no matter where they are living (NYC small apartments). they always decorate full not half done which I feel that your average person that is not going to drop 10k-20k to decorate stuggles with, half done. Elegant sophisticated homes are completed looking spaces. i call it "pulled together". Also agree completely if all of us just stopped and looked around each room and put things away and pulled all the visual clutter out of a room you would have an immediate calm and elegant feel to a room! :-) great reminder video HofV
I saw a recent video in which a lady showed how to make a bed properly, with no special linens! Oh, the care and attention to detail! She made the bed properly with just an older comforter and a top sheet over it. She washed the linens in special detergent, ironed the linens, sprayed them with linen fragrance, did the hospital corners. I felt soooo relaxed and special just watching the care that went into it. Beautiful and heartwarming to know that we can be content with whatever we have and make it special with cleanliness and gratitude and care! Lovely. Love this topic, Valentina!
Thank you so much!
You make such a great point! Having a classy home doesn't have to be expensive or brand new, but instead is intentional with items that are well cared for and that oh so important attention to detail ❤
My mother always focused on not making noise in a kitchen when washing dishes or serving dinner..it should be done quietly so guests don't have to worry about host working so hard 😊
Ciao, i remember my childhood home my Mom passed away many years ago, i'm so thankfull that she teached to as feeling of harmony & beauty, we didn't had candles or fashion magazines, instead had a lot of books, was tidy well organized, smelled flowers filled with happiness this is my home, hope my home feels like that, ciao 😘
LOVED this video!! I found so much value in your tips. They’re true and worth keeping top of mind for anyone making their house into a home! 🙌🏼
Hello, Valentina! Thank you for your thoughtful review of elements of classiness. When you mentioned listening to outdoor sounds, & the sounds of the crickets, I felt quite sad. I have lived in my home for 35 years, & this is the first summer that there has been no sound of crickets chirping at night. Listening to recordings helps, but it's just not the same. Climate change is upon our world. Ah well, I do enjoy your uplifting & encouraging videos. Thank you for sharing your insights & inspirations.
Sending you gratitude & love....
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Love my lamps and candles burning, especially my diffuser during the day that sends off a beautiful smell throughout our home, I have a small question, are table runners in or out on your dining room table and coffee table, just curious if you don’t mind answering my question. Always Love your content. Cheers from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺❤️❤️
I usually have light classical music playing in the background. There is always that one person who will come in and ask “what the hell is that noise!!?”
I might make multiple comments bc I’m not even done with the video! I like to keep a couple empty lidded boxes throughout the house to store random things and when it’s full I go through and toss what isn’t needed or my kids forgot about, put away the things that need to go away… really helps keep life mess out of soght
That’s a great idea! I have a three year old and it’s crazy how quickly things get messy since we had him
I watched your video and lit a candle. Lol. You really are a classy lady and I love you videos.
Thank you so much!
Yes!!!! Totally agree. I am feeling inspired to clean today. Have to say that I love your office and your vlog presentations. Saw a black and white pencil drawing Of a leopard on another channel and all I could think of was how great that would look behind YOU when you vlog. It was very large and under glass and mainly head depiction with a lot of white background. Designers never retire. The mind is still creating yet another vignette.
Wishing you well Valentina.
Sorry. Big cat with spots.
That sounds beautiful!
This was such a classy video! So beautiful you honored your mom too! ☺️
Thank you so much!!
I'm a "young" millennial, prayerfully moving into our first house with our sweet daughter this year. I feel so daunted with the task of designing and crafting our home. I am excited, and definitely leaning on creators like Valentina and Nick Lewis to help me navigate this process. Thank you for making a body of work that is not afraid to celebrate elevated and excellent design. Please wish us luck! ✨🎀🏡✨
Love your mom! My mom is so classy too! Great video as usual 🍃
Thanks!!
Glad that you mentioned ambiance music , lower voice tone and minimum noise in a classy homes
Sometimes we forget the importance of of hearing and focus on vision and smelling
They work all together to creat a classy home
Can you make a stylish home music playlist on your page here on youtube? With music like you have on this video , please‼️😊
I would love that too!
That’s a great idea!
I absolutely agree on that
Excellent presentation Valentina.
I’ve been thinking I need a intercom system so that I can call my family upstairs to come downstairs. My grandmother had one and it was very civilized.
Just get a whistle 😄
A nice bell could work too. I remember a friend of mine growing up had the room to room intercom. You could play music on it throughout the house, which was neat. Or, put talk radio/morning news on in the AM and not have to worry about bringing your phone or bluetooth speaker with you, all around the house as you get ready.
I’m glad I already do and embody all of this ☺️ Good quality materials also exude classy vibes.
I think classy people always engage in wonderful interesting conversations.
Good to know that occasional shouting at kids is still permissible in a classy home 🤣🤣
Thank you Valentina! I love these ideas ❤️
I get a classy vibe when a house is clean; also, when is not a room made in a furniture room, all the pieces matching, the rug, and the two lamps, this just seems put together with no thought. A home to me is classy when is not a shrine to something like titles and trophy’s, etc or pictures everywhere. Thanks for the video 🌸🌸🌸
Love all the info in the shorter video 👏👏👏! Can you share your choices for the “warm” lightbulbs you suggest? I’m always confused if it’s like daylight or warm white, etc (I def can’t do the cool, blueish white light or those fluorescent bulb colors ! 🤔🤔🤔? I need a warm white task lighting that doesn’t distort colors ! The cool white lights are too blueish and the “Edison-type” yellow-colored lightbulbs look too gold in my home! They actually change the color in my room and don’t give enough task lighting above my island and in lamps for me! I prefer a warm, crisp white light that’s doesn’t look so yellowy or make my whites look off-white ! I’ve bought so many different light bulbs that were the wrong color ☹️😞😆! I could use this help for my recessed lights too! I want all the lights to be the same color snd not mismatched warm/cool lightbulbs! !
Also a link , please for your top two favorite Hotel fragrances! 😉❤️
Valentina, this video brought a smile to my face. As I watched , I also thought how I also have learned from my mom how to entertain, decorate, and even how to carry myself. Thank you for this video. You express yourself so beautifully , which I admire about you. 💗💕❤️🙏🏻
Thank you so much!
If a pet is in a classy home, it's well trained. Dogs don't jump on, bite, or slobber all over guests. They dont beg for or steal food. And there's no animal smells. I've visited houses I thought were elegant and welcoming until I met the pet(s).
Loved it what a great topic. What is your favorite brand of oil diffusers and fragrance? I’m not sure what to purchase. Thanks
Our home is always clean and uncluttered it gives me peace that anyone could walk through the door and I would not be embarrassed to invite them in. I don’t wear perfume but I burn candles in each bathroom that permeates through the house and always play the same music in every room so no matter where our guests go they will hear the same music, even outdoors as living in Arizona we use our backyard to entertain. It’s the way I was raised and the way I am most comfortable.
The classiest and also most down to earth person I know is YOU! Always a pleasure and an inspiration in both design and attitude!! PS. I do listen.... buying new candles right now! :)
I love to have tidy but it's impossible 😔 when people around you I get so stressed 😫 so let it be
There’s a film that was released in 1987 called ‘Someone to Watch Over Me’ with Tom Berenger and Mimi Rogers. I remember the beautiful apartment the Rogers character owned but most of all the orchestra music that was always playing in the background. To me that made such an impression of luxury and elegance.
I'm going to check it out 👍 I love beautiful homes in cinema (Father of the Bride, Mrs. Doubtfire).
@@tthomas501 I’d love to know what you think about it, especially the music. Do you have a link, or can you tell me how to reach the music list you were talking about?
@@rneustel388 I haven't been able to find it for free, but I saw the trailer, and you're right, the apartment is nice. I don't know what list you are referring to 🤔
A classy home has a gracious host, beautiful/clean environment where you can tell they paid attention to the details. It's beautiful, welcoming and comfortable all at the same time.🤗🥰
Do you have a video on paint undertones? For example: I bought brushed brass fixtures for my exterior. They will be under a wrap around porch so it is shaded. I am wondering what type of white to choose? Does undertone of paint make a difference with the fixtures you have? Does the amount of light in the area affect what undertone to choose?
Elegant simplicity. Lack of cluttered Knick knacks. Clean, orderly, welcoming. Ambient lighting. Nothing worse than glaring overhead lighting at a dinner party...
I think of people like Audrey Hepburn, Grace Kelly, Jackie Kennedy, JULIE ANDREWS, and Marilyn Monroe.
I just discovered your channel. I think you are so precious!!! I enjoy you and your personality so much!!! I think you live in Georgia too?! I'm north of AugustaI. I know you are super busy, but if you get an opportunity I have a crazy question! I can not quite nail down my design style, but I know what I like when I see it. Some of the pictures you had in the video are so me!! (Hallway with black doors, sitting room with tortoise shell on wall, and the one with the wood table against the window and the little chair in front) What style is that? And would you be able to tell me where you found those images so I can find more?! I'm so sorry for asking such a weird question, but I am so frustrated! Thank you so much for taking the time to read my long comment!
I agree that tidiness is important, and so is flow. Indeed, it is NOT about money. It is about cleanliness, appearance, being at ease, and comfortable around others.
No stress. No anxiety. A classy person exudes kindness and confidence, not arrogance. A classy home is the same. It is visually appealing and comfortable to be in. Elegant without being untouchable.
Getting a guest a drink or cup of coffee should be easy and appear effortless. The hosts may have worked like mad preparing behind the scenes, but the guests should only see effortless, sumptuous entertaining.
I knew a lady who made a production of bringing out a plate of cookies. You would think the plate was hot and weighed fifty pounds. She grunted and huffed, and.... just needed all eyes on herself. Unfortunately, my husband does the same thing. Grrrr. I get around the me-me-meeees by careful timing - arranging for things to be ready before guests arrive.
When company is staying with us, I do my best and let go of the rest. Open floor plans make it difficult. Some people just need to be at the center of everything and in control. My dear friend is like that. She gets in the middle of the kitchen and starts messing with everything recipe. She says she's helping. No, she's making a me-me-meeeee scene. She has ruined more dishes fir more dinners than I can count. And we love her anyway.
Hmmmmm .... I think next visit, I will bring in the tall orange cones we use for training horses and put caution tape between them to set up a barrier around the kitchen. That might be real classy. LOL.
Hi lovely Valentina!!
Could you please remind me of which Hotel candle you love? I think you mentioned it in another video. Thank you so much!
I just adore your videos, it has helped me so much!
I do work in clients homes and did notice that the more upscale homes always have music pumped throughout.
I love the my quiet moments as well, I don't like loud music, love candles, yes even the fake ones, and live plants. To me a classy person first takes care of their own appearance, their mind, their behavior, their conversation, language, and their home, is a great hostess without making people feel uncomfortable. The cent in your home is very important, the aviant you portray, friendliness, and being fun to be around, I don't like loud anything, that has zero class, my opinion.
I loved all these tips! With 2 kids in diapers (and a cat), tidiness and welcoming scents are a real challenge. I would have loved to see some diversity in the examples of classy ladies though. Love your channel❤️
Loved this one! Glad to know I’m doing some of them. Keep up the good work on your videos!
This is really life changing I would love to emulate!!! Great suggestions!! Thanks so much!
Wonderful topic and video!!! ❤️💕 Thank you so much!!!