Thanks to everyone who shared their story in this episode of Texts From - it takes immense courage to share something so personal, but we hope that sharing helps us remember what’s important and helps others feel less alone. Do you have any texts from your loved ones who have passed away you’d be willing to share? We’d love to hear about them. 💛
Love your content, Jubilee. It would be nice to have "ask anything" episode for someone who attempted suicide. It can help create a general information for the loved ones of those suffering depression to understand what they can do for the person undergoing it. It can also create a discussion of the best practices to overcoming depression. By having strangers talk to someone who attempted suicide, there can be answers for the questions in people's mind but are unsure how to ask or what to ask as well. 😁 Hope you consider this. 😉
As somebody with passive suicidal ideation, it's never about the fear of dying. It's the fear of what effect it'll have on the ones you love. Fear, mingled with immense guilt.
@@shrutis hey I feel you. If you need to talk/rant/vent then I‘m available (I could tell you my insta). Please know that there are people who do care about you, even if it seems like there is no one. You are strong and beautiful 💚
To everyone who commented on this: I’m sorry, that’s tough, I cannot relate, but I wanna let you know, gods watching over you, and if you are bullied or have a hard life, everything will plan itself out, and if your bullied those peoples opinions do not matter,
My best friend committed suicide. The last text/words he said to me was “I’m tired. I can’t do this anymore. I’m so sorry. I love you.” I got this text at 11:00 PM, but I was still awake. So, I ran to his house[despite the time] but when I got there, I was too late. He was unconscious on the floor with an empty bottle of Advil in his hand. He overdosed. I miss him.
I was in a bad place a couple of weeks ago and I almost committed suicide they only reason I didnt is because of my dog. Shes a service dog and she has a self harm disruption task and she layed over my leg right before I got to my artery I went to the hospital 2 days later and they couldn't stich it cause of how old it was its still healing but its almost done. My dog has saved my life on more than one occasion but this is her greatest achievement, I had a public access issue yesterday at save alot and they claimed my dog peed in the floor she didn't and the liquid was clear not yellow but I picked it up anyway to help them and then I had a really bad panic attack she kept geting out of her sit stay to alert me and finally I went to my car and it was locked so I sat down outside of it and started crying and hyperventilating while she did dpt that was the third pa issue I've had she's still a puppy 8 months old and I do carry around poop bags, paper towels and disinfectant wipes. I hate the way I was treated cause the lady yelled across the store "You have to get that dog out of here it just p****d in the floor" was her exact words. She lost her job today because we called Corporate and the store owner called us this morning telling us he was sorry and that I was allowed in the store and that no one would bother me ever again.
Yeah that hit me hard too because I can’t imagine the pain of losing a best friend like that. My best friend was also close to it as well saying “maybe I should end it” but she’s still here and I’m grateful she is because idk who I would be without her
@@deannawheeler4362 Im sorry to hear that. I know ur hurting, but remember u will get over it with experience. Stay strong, and im sending all my love to u and ur sister
Everyone you see on the road, on the street, in a public store, restaurant, etc. They all have lives and a story. Be kind to people, everyone is healing from something.
That is in fact how empathy works, and how it develops. Having so much care for strangers is empathy. Putting yourself in their shoes is also kindness and a stepping stone to developing empathy. Giving warmth to others really helps a lot. It's just what everyone needs even if they don't desire it or thought about it
The last message my boyfriend sent me before he passed away was, "If I'll late today, don't worry, I'll bring you a gift when I come back. I love you"But he was hit by a car as he walked out of the store it was an engagement ring still wear it even though it's been three years .He would have been 28 now I will always love you Mark
It truly is beautiful. I love the positive engergy in this comment section, sadly the topic is a very tragic one. Remember that your life can end any time and much worse: the lifes of your loved ones as well
@Sofia Bugge same I'm not religious,I have tried to be but I just ask to many questions to myself instead of just believing, And hearing him say that just hit hard.
My last ones from my mom was two images she sent me, one saying 'If i could give my daughter 3 things, it would be the confidence to always know her self worth, the strength to chase her dreams, and the ability to know how deeply loved she is' and the second one was more of a funny, it had two unicorns sitting on a rock as Noahs Ark was sailing away and them being like 'oh cr@p was that today?' haha. I'm still working hard on that first one, hoping I can make her proud.
me and my mom were never super close, she had lots of issues, and i didn't see her that much. She fell into a diabetic coma in Febuary of 2019 and officially died June of 2019. I was 14. Now I'm 17 and i regret not talking to her, I regret being so cold to her.
My Battle Buddy. He saved me from bleeding out in a ditch in Afghanistan when I couldn’t help myself. His last text was that he was so sorry and thank you for everything we had. He shot himself that same day.
Grief can last a lifetime. Truthfully, nobody gets over losses, especially when it's a close friend or family member. You just learn how to hide the pain better.
m e SAME and I don’t know why. When I talk about something uncomfortable for me I smile for some reason and people think I’m joking or something and it pisses me off because I can’t control it
The woman who said she was still sending messages to her friend who passed away on Instagram literally made me crying. I cannot imagine how painful it would be.
When she said “Why didn’t you say goodbye before you left” THAT HIT HARD BRO I CRIED. anyone who is deeling with something like this i wish u da best bro
I never got a finely goodbye to my mom that died Christmas Eve 2019 she died of rare uncurble tumor cancer she was 49 I have part of her last message on my collar bone from the day she died all I wanted was to be there but couldn't she wouldn't even let me call her to say my last words to her cause she was in so much pain 😢💔 she was heart broken not being able to talk to me even 💔 her dying broke her heart
i have a teacher, she isn't dead. but because of stroke she stopped teaching. before she got stroke, she told us, "i will be with all of you at graduation, don't worry." but graduation is canceled and she doesn't recognize us anymore.
Charlene Baes oh my goooddd, i can feel the pain, if it’s someone you really cared about it would be such a terrible feeling to not be able to do ANYTHING whatsoever 🥺💔💔
I lost my best friend of 16 years in an earthquake in 2008, she was pregnant. Three years of depression for me, I didn’t kms because everyone else was still grieving. I love you, Stephanie.
I lost my dad when I was only 7. I did not have any source of text communication with him as I was really very young. He had a disease and he went to another country for its treatment. The last message which he sent for me was "You are my tiny plant, one day you will grow up into a really beautiful big tree". I miss him so damn much.
I also lost my father at 7. He was driving to either Oklahoma or Texas to work at the oil field. I woke up the next morning to my mom bawling and telling me my dad died. I am now 14 and I’m still traumatized from that day. November 11th, 2015.
My grandma was in hospital and I didn't want to look at her. I hated hospital my entire life and still do. Then on March 28 2019 (two days before my birthday) she died and we had a break in. I wasn't allowed to know and they said she just couldn't come maybe next year. And I didn't get to say goodbye. I'm sorry ma Miner. So sorry. I loved you dearly.
The last message from my best friend was “I love you too, sis. I really appreciate you sticking with me through thick and thin.” She’d been fighting a nasty heroin addiction for years and I had convinced her to go to rehab one last name. After that, it was radio silence for months until I found out she was in the hospital with no brain activity and her parents were taking her off life support. A big part of me died with her, as she really was my other half. Grief never goes away, even when you learn how to deal with it. It permanently changes you.
My fiance passed away yesterday. We had a minor argument and the last thing she texted was that she needed a favor from me. I'll never know what the favor is because later that day she was walking to the mall and got hit by a truck. According to people around her, the last thing she said was my name and she's sorry. I'm devastated rn.. I'm really sorry my love. I should have protected you somehow.
One of my online friends was very suicidal and depressed, and we could play games together every day. When it seemed they were getting happier, they committed and the last word they said was “hi” not much, but still hurts.
My grandpa said “your the best grandson ever” he died in the hospital two weeks after. and that day I was heartbroken so In the moment I texted his phone after he died and said “I wish I got to say goodbye grandpa you were my best friend”
I am sorry to hear that. And I am glad you were close with your granddad. I wasn't very close with my granddad, due to him serving in the military and passing the discipline down, is what I thought, but he just didn't have the courage to show the affection in front of everyone. He passed away when I was 12, so I didn't really understand what happened, but I just want to say, Dada, i love you.
My daughter was found dead after being missing for over two months. She was having a psychiatric emergency and thought federal agents were after her. Her last text to me was mom. Having the worst day. Please I’m scared. Turns out the night she went missing and I was on my way to pick her up was the night she died. March 14, midwestern United States very cold. She had hidden in a back yard and fell asleep dying of exposure in the night. She was skinny. I miss her so. My deepest love for all whom suffer. The only thing we are all destined to do. Just remember it’s your life to live. Not to take. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Im the youngest in my family, and i realized years ago im going to have to experience all of them passing away. I remember being so scared i prayed i would be the first to die
This teaches you so clearly of the lesson not to take people for granted, You'll never know if that one message is the last message you'd receive from anybody.
The final text I ever got from my grandfather was "Hi [my irl name.] Sorry it has taken so long to respond. I've been in the hospital for the last week and much if it has been a blur. How is life? It has been so long since we have been able to sit down and talk!" Still makes me cry to this day.
Sometimes I hear my best friend quietly mumbling stuff about suicide..I’m trying my best to keep her mentally happy and physically, before I lose her..
my best friend sense she died on this month, march on the fifth then two days later I got to see her before she got creamated and she was my doggie an she was just thirteen I miss her so much 😭☹😢😢
My best friend died 4 months ago and my first love died 2 months ago. I’ve never felt so alone and lost in the world. Only thing that keeps me going is knowing that one day we will meet again :(: ❤️
Ciara Anaya Cruz I’m so sorry for that guys... just remember that we’re all here to support you If you’re still too sad and want to talk to someone you can talk to me in my channel 😞👍
My boyfriend got hit by a car and died in my arms. His blood on my clothes and my face. I can never forget the words he said to me. "I love you, never forget me. Live on for me." And then he died. I am so sorry to anyone who has been through loss. My deepest condolences.
@@ruikamishiro984 because i know gre guts online and in person so i can say if stuff really happened , gre guts is a pathological liar. we have been trying to get them help for it but they refused.
I've never been scared of death, it seems rather peaceful. I would love to go to heaven and not have anymore cares. I'm always just scared of what my death will cause, I don't want anyone to be sad or get depressed over me.
The last thing I remember saying to my little sister was "Look mom she's holding my hand!" Few weeks later she passed in front of me I was only 5 at the time I remember it like it was yesterday she was a beautiful little thing R.I.P Maybel I love you and you'll always be my little Angel 💜
Miguel Hernandez there isn’t a problem lmao just because you’re numb from all your trauma doesn’t mean everyone else needs to be lol good luck w therapy
i am so sorry for your loss, i was looking through the comments and this one completely broke me cause that’s my worst fear, may she fly high and rest in peace ❤️
The girl who’s friend committed suicide looks like a strong strong person, mentally. She was keeping a smile the whole time talking about it, even when she started crying. I hope things get much better.
A free warm hug for whoever is struggling with the loss of a loved one rn and are sharing their story here. Know that you are strong and loved so much. -A random internet friend.
Really...thats why i just love the internet sometimes.I always know there people who makes me happy,belives in me and loves me....but the fact is that i will be sure that we will loose someday the contact to eachothers and never met us to 99%...and thats makes me even more sad...
The last words I texted to my bf just before he died was: “ please be ok...” after he was gone. I noticed he saw the message just before he died...it’s hard to pick yourself up after such a tragic loss. Your body is screaming to just go. It was earlier this month when I was told by doctors at a hospital he was taken to. That he died of a heart attack...since it happened all I’ve wanted to do is sleep...
@@taeilsquish275 hey, I’m so sorry bout all that... no one should go through that and I hope you are doing ok 🙂 if ya ever want to talk we are here. I have discord if u want to talk on there, but seriously, hope you are alright. ❤️
Jenny the pain is still there and i guess it will just live within me. He is my brother he is the same blood as me.. but I am trying to be strong for my family. And that keeps me sane.
4:34 actually made me so sad because that's exactly how it happened with my mom. I just got a random video message with her and my little sister. I say it was a random message but it was still just the most perfect reminder of her.
the last message of my father was him trying to talk to me more during the pandemic some days after, i sent a message, the first one in a while with concern and feeling, but it was too late i later discovered in 2022 some audios from him, hearing his voice broke me so much, hearing his voice, seeing his face, his smile, his jokes, everything breaks me again and again
Imagine not knowing that text would be the last text you receive from a person. Just take a moment and be thankful for the people around you, you never know when they might be gone.
My cousin almost died and our last convo would've been about why I was wearing slippers in the kitchen😂 he lived tho and now I never end a convo w him or his brother without saying ily
The night before she died, my cat came to me, sniffed and licked my hand, but I was too lazy too pet her or pick her up, but I didn't knew I'll never get to touch her again.
I lost my wonderful kitty 2 months ago. 12 years with me. He was one of the living beings I loved most in my entire life. I know someone could laugh: often people think “it’s just a pet”. I know, I know... and I must say I feel a bit ashamed of crying for him.. but I do miss him so much. I can’t sleep without him near my pillow.
@@claudiadesimone6217 While a pet or an animal, there is no difference in the emotions you feel or create, especially love. Emotions are always the same and genuine. Its been over 16 years my cat passed away, I miss her constantly and my life honestly has not been the same since.
My best friend called me last night to tell me her mom passed away yesterday (my friends 24th birthday).. first thing I said to her was “you’re joking”.. I still am struggling to process it, that woman was a second mom to me & one of the kindest people I’ll ever have the privilege to know. Almost exactly 2 years older than my own mom which makes my heart hurt even more. She was always excited to see me & hear about my life since I moved out of state & now I’ll just have to settle for updating her in my journal 🥹 •Love you always Mama Eileen, hope you’re enjoying Heaven with Cuddles ♥️👼🏻
@DualNexus People who don’t have depression need to stop saying they have depression. Depression is a mental illness, not something you randomly get when you’re grieving or feeling sad because of something.
@@sammsu4668 Especially people in the internet claiming to be "depressed" I go to therapy every Saturday but i don't call myself as a *depressed person* i just can't get over my Grandpa's death and bullying plus the problems at home..But yeah If people really are depressed,They shouldn't say it in the internet cuz nobody ain't gonna believe you..Seek help instead of telling the web :)
@@sammsu4668 What has it to do with this topic? The person's comment was about people not talking it seriously, not about faking it. Even if someone fakes it - people should still care about them because they might just need a little more love and attention. What is your problem with it..?
@@burningHazard because people calling themselves depressed when they're just sad can spread harmful misinformation, it's how the whole "just stop being sad" response started. I've seen a lot of people who don't have depression but claim they do say stuff like they didn't need help to get over it which can be really harmful for people with depression, who often struggle with getting help with it.
I don't mind dying It's fate But it breaks my heart to think about the amazing people I'll leave behind and how much they'll be grieving. That's why don't want to die before anyone I love dies. I break down when I think about my friends dying and I can't think about my family dying
I'm afraid of dying, not just because I don't want to die but also because I don't want to leave my loved ones behind and sad. My friend has been struggling with the loss of her parents and if I'm taken too early then that might cause her to go over the edge. I want to be there for her everyday but I can't control when I leave this world. I just hope I can live to see us grow up.
I remember, when my grandma had just passed away, i would call her number from time to time praying she’d answer once. I was 5 at the time. I love her so much and I hope that she’s happy. ❤
was it we must go to tamriel? Edit: Forgot that this was a yt comment section and how sensitive people lash on to things.i didn’t mean to joke about the guy death in any way and of course I’m sorry for her loss. Was only trying to guess and ask her.
Did he/she die taking an arrow to the knee?(That's a Skyrim Joke) Sorry... I am not trying to make fun of your loss. God bless him/her. Dont ever forget him/her.
Same. Most nights I can't help but think we're all one day closer to our deaths. I lost my older brother on December 2 and we weren't close at all but it hurts.
@@anantsingh7442 it's going to be okay and everything is going to be alright ok honey don't think so much about it just enjoy the time you have with the ones that are special to you forever means forever Hun
It’s such a beautiful gift to hear these people share their piece on losing a loved one. I only wish if I passed i had people who missed me this way. 🖤 Thank you for sharing.
My aunt killed herself and the last thing she said to me in private was: "Listen to me. You be you. I know you're sad but please make it past 50. Please, do that for me. Just live on. It's going to get better. I love you, so so much." (Edit: Thank you all so much for the recognition and support, I don’t have words to express how thankful I am of you all. ❤️)
I did that for the love of my life who messed up, making me walk away. She was the person I could see spending the rest of my life with, having a family, and growing old together, never stopping to adore one another. I texted her after 2 years of no contact to see if she was all right from the coronavirus as she has multiple underlying health conditions. I was worried because even though I walked away, she was still so important to me and I truly love her. She didn't respond back, so I was getting worried she might've already gotten it. Or maybe she was ignoring me or was busy, she had no reception, or she blocked me. A day and then a few days passed and still no response. Her lack of response could have been her ignoring me, but I didn't want to assume that in case it was more serious, so I got all antsy thinking that in the time I don't message her, she could pass away (or maybe already has), and I'll have forever lost my chance to talk to her one last time, making me live with regret... So I shot her another text a week later. She responds. My nerves are racing just from her replying. Still care about her. I ask her if she's doing all right. She says she's doing fine. I'm relieved. Still nervous from talking to her again. She also says she's expecting a baby in 3 months, after having said before that she'll never have children... That was a pretty heavy blow that blindsided me. I don’t think she realizes how much it meant for me to reach out and make sure she’s okay. Still, better to have tried and been there in time than to live with regret wishing I’d taken action sooner.
I text to my best friend every day, she may not respond every time I send one, but its usually "I love you bestie c:" type texts and I sometimes worry I may never get a text back 😅
@SimpleCanadian I’ve been texting my best friend during quarantine and I used to call her everyday to check up on her and ask her about her crush and stuff. lately she’s been extremely dismissive and partially irritated by me. I’m worried that I’m gonna lose a 9 year friendship...
@@wngyie2688 really? That sucks.. I've known my friend for almost 10 years and idk what I'd do if I lose her as a friend. I hope everything will work out and be alright again
My best friend(Harper), her sister (Heather) and I were really close. But one time we were at a sleepover at their place, we were helping her sister(Heather ) pack and sell her things. Her bed, desk, chairs, tv teddies. Everything. We were helping her sell them because she was going to redecorate her room with her work money and the monkey from her stuff. After a 2 weeks she only had her mattress, pillow, blanket, clothes and a cardboard box full of her stuff that she loved. She had a baby girl outfit that was a floral tutu outfit, it was meant to be for her child (from sa) but she had a miscarriage. She had a shirt from her favourite band, jewellery a music box and a lot more. A couple days later my best friend (Harper) we’re having a sleepover and her parents were on a date so ,Heather, was home alone. Me and harper were watching a movie when my mum comes in saying we have to take her home because there was an emergency. We got to her house and Heather had an overdose. She was barley breathing. Paramedics where screaming, trying to revive her in the front lawn. Neighbours were recording her nearly lifeless body. Her mother was being retained by a police officer while repeatedly screaming “Heather, baby please breath, please breath for mum please! Let me be with my daughter! If I’m there I know she will come back for me I know it she loves me!” Harpers farther was praying on the floor. Me and Harper didn’t do anything, we were standing there crying trying to process what was going on. Not even 10 minutes since we arrived Heather was pronounced dead and taken away in a body bag. They had a small intimate funeral with a few friends and family A month after her death harper was home alone and decided to go into heathers room, there was 10 notes spread out on the floor. One for each person she loved. They were all in different coloured envelopes with matching gel pen writing and stickers. She loves being organised like that. But harpers was different, harper had a box and inside were many photos of them together, some shirts she always loved and begged Heather to give to her and 23k in cash. This was a mix of her work money and money she made selling her bedroom things. Heather was a kind person, she always was talking to everyone. If a stranger looked sad she would go start up a conversation with them, she loved everyone and was passionate about being a doctor one day. Unfortunately she never got to pursue this. Due to relentless verbal and physical bullying by her schoolmates and constant harassment my lonely men in the streets, as-well as many mental issues, Heather took her own life on 17th of March 2021. Fly high babe x 🕊🕊
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that Harper and her family are okay, and that you yourself are doing okay as well. Stay strong. Heather sounded like an amazing person. 🤍🤍
My last text from my uncle was "I'll see you at 5, love you" after he asked me if I wanted to go for ice cream when he got out of work. I found out when I took the bus that he had a heart attack while getting ready. I really wish I could go back in time just to say a proper goodbye and go to his funeral (Which I didn't because I had a breakdown in my room and refused to go)
my bestfriend sent me a picture of a frog on a flower, that was the last thing that i got. when im old enough im going to get a picture of a frog tattooed on me
Every day I feel grateful that I never have had to go through a lot of things these people go through… my heart goes out to them with the most love and comfort in the world ❤
Videos like these teach us how to appreciate the ppl around us. They remind us how we should treasure and value them. Idk there's this lump in my throat. But anyway ty for this
My last text to my dad was telling him “thank you!” He’d bought me a graphing calculator for school, that I was too prideful to ask for help to get. I’d called him that same day and he gave a speech of how proud of me he was. I’d always been so insecure that I was disappointing my parents. He died a few hrs late of a heart attack. It felt so surreal I couldn’t stop texting and calling him. Each day my class updates… eventually I stopped, but I still get the urge to call and update him.
@@ThePursuitWOD ty for the advice ❤ I always feel so down seeing my self, but I tried to heal my self by making vid that I love, or making jokes at internet.. So I can forget what just happened, hope I survive until God end my life
Having recently lost a loved one I would say these guys are brave to open the last text message. I punched in the name in my whatsapp but my heart was not ready to open the inbox because I knew I would cry.
"you still down to go camping tomorrow?" "yep, why?" "just making sure, i'll see you tomorrow" "see you" she committed suicide that night, she passed away 16th july 2019.
Use me as a “Why did I intentionally make myself sad button?” Edit: In no way am I trying to “beg for likes”, or “self promote”. I am just trying comment somethings relatable. Also, getting likes on a UA-cam comment doesn’t really benefit me in any way.
Thanks to everyone who shared their story in this episode of Texts From - it takes immense courage to share something so personal, but we hope that sharing helps us remember what’s important and helps others feel less alone. Do you have any texts from your loved ones who have passed away you’d be willing to share? We’d love to hear about them. 💛
I'd get too emotional if I were to talk about that.
hi.
@@TheRealGuywithoutaMustache hope you feel much better 👍
Love your content, Jubilee. It would be nice to have "ask anything" episode for someone who attempted suicide.
It can help create a general information for the loved ones of those suffering depression to understand what they can do for the person undergoing it.
It can also create a discussion of the best practices to overcoming depression.
By having strangers talk to someone who attempted suicide, there can be answers for the questions in people's mind but are unsure how to ask or what to ask as well. 😁
Hope you consider this. 😉
I don't know about that..
“She c-committed suicide...” the *PAIN* in her voice...
I'd be the best friend commiting suicide tbh, but i kinda don't want to
@@joselyngonzalezzz don’t commit it’s not worth it!
Yeah y'know that's the thing bout suicide. It doesn't end the pain, it just passes it on.
Jesus is King that’s why I’m still here
Jesus is King I couldn’t be the reason other people are hurt
“Why didn’t you say goodbye before you left” that hit so hard.
Kasey Karlsen no
Time stamp?
Andie German 4:11
@@caprithorn thank you!
Timestamp plssss
As somebody with passive suicidal ideation, it's never about the fear of dying. It's the fear of what effect it'll have on the ones you love. Fear, mingled with immense guilt.
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@@shrutis hey I feel you. If you need to talk/rant/vent then I‘m available (I could tell you my insta). Please know that there are people who do care about you, even if it seems like there is no one. You are strong and beautiful 💚
I’ve had suicidal ideation on and off for years. I don’t/haven’t done it because i know my family would be crushed.
@@vanessalang2018 same here and they've been through enough heartbreak
To everyone who commented on this: I’m sorry, that’s tough, I cannot relate, but I wanna let you know, gods watching over you, and if you are bullied or have a hard life, everything will plan itself out, and if your bullied those peoples opinions do not matter,
My best friend committed suicide.
The last text/words he said to me was
“I’m tired. I can’t do this anymore. I’m so sorry. I love you.”
I got this text at 11:00 PM, but I was still awake. So, I ran to his house[despite the time] but when I got there, I was too late. He was unconscious on the floor with an empty bottle of Advil in his hand. He overdosed. I miss him.
I’m so sorry
Damn dude best friends or familie or pets are everything
I'm so sorry for your loss I hope your doing OK
Im so sorry I hope your doing better.
Rip
“she comitted suicide” oml that hit hard.This cruel evil world😭💔
This usually happens with bullying.. Some people need to change!
Sasha Dumse that is true of the bullies they are who they are
That hit so hard
I was in a bad place a couple of weeks ago and I almost committed suicide they only reason I didnt is because of my dog. Shes a service dog and she has a self harm disruption task and she layed over my leg right before I got to my artery I went to the hospital 2 days later and they couldn't stich it cause of how old it was its still healing but its almost done. My dog has saved my life on more than one occasion but this is her greatest achievement, I had a public access issue yesterday at save alot and they claimed my dog peed in the floor she didn't and the liquid was clear not yellow but I picked it up anyway to help them and then I had a really bad panic attack she kept geting out of her sit stay to alert me and finally I went to my car and it was locked so I sat down outside of it and started crying and hyperventilating while she did dpt that was the third pa issue I've had she's still a puppy 8 months old and I do carry around poop bags, paper towels and disinfectant wipes. I hate the way I was treated cause the lady yelled across the store "You have to get that dog out of here it just p****d in the floor" was her exact words. She lost her job today because we called Corporate and the store owner called us this morning telling us he was sorry and that I was allowed in the store and that no one would bother me ever again.
Eliani Rodriguez sometimes it isn’t the world....it’s just yourself criticizing you...for who you are💔
The girl that still texted her dead bestfriend after she died... That made me cry. She was not ready for it, and she still isn't
im here crying too. no one should go through heavy stuff like that
Yeah that hit me hard too because I can’t imagine the pain of losing a best friend like that. My best friend was also close to it as well saying “maybe I should end it” but she’s still here and I’m grateful she is because idk who I would be without her
sometimes people question, “was I not a good enough reason for you to want to stay alive?” They question their worth . . . that’s what makes me cry
My little Sister died a few months ago and I still text her.
@@deannawheeler4362 Im sorry to hear that. I know ur hurting, but remember u will get over it with experience. Stay strong, and im sending all my love to u and ur sister
Everyone you see on the road, on the street, in a public store, restaurant, etc. They all have lives and a story. Be kind to people, everyone is healing from something.
This is the best thing I heard today
People need to know this. This was so well worded.
That is in fact how empathy works, and how it develops. Having so much care for strangers is empathy. Putting yourself in their shoes is also kindness and a stepping stone to developing empathy. Giving warmth to others really helps a lot. It's just what everyone needs even if they don't desire it or thought about it
Facts
Yes true
The last message my boyfriend sent me before he passed away was, "If I'll late today, don't worry, I'll bring you a gift when I come back. I love you"But he was hit by a car as he walked out of the store
it was an engagement ring still wear it even though it's been three years .He would have been 28 now I will always love you Mark
I’m so sorry. I hope you are alright❤
فطرت عدس
That broke my heart, sorry for your loss
😢😢😢❤
this is the only comment thats actually made me cry. im so very very sorry
“I still send her messages.” I’M SOBBING OMG
same
I send my brother messages too but hes not alive too
@@SnickersEatsCookies I am sry bro..
@@SnickersEatsCookies I would have done the same ya know
@@SnickersEatsCookies sorry for your loss
“You’re going home right now. I’m excited for you.” That really is one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever heard.
It truly is beautiful. I love the positive engergy in this comment section, sadly the topic is a very tragic one. Remember that your life can end any time and much worse: the lifes of your loved ones as well
@Sofia Bugge same I'm not religious,I have tried to be but I just ask to many questions to myself instead of just believing, And hearing him say that just hit hard.
@Sofia Bugge I think its just people finding peace and meaning in death that is beautiful
I’m not religious, but I’m sure when he arrives to the gates of heaven, God will say “You must be tired. Come on in”
Lol I wish I could have such a positive view of life/death
My last ones from my mom was two images she sent me, one saying 'If i could give my daughter 3 things, it would be the confidence to always know her self worth, the strength to chase her dreams, and the ability to know how deeply loved she is' and the second one was more of a funny, it had two unicorns sitting on a rock as Noahs Ark was sailing away and them being like 'oh cr@p was that today?' haha.
I'm still working hard on that first one, hoping I can make her proud.
me and my mom were never super close, she had lots of issues, and i didn't see her that much.
She fell into a diabetic coma in Febuary of 2019 and officially died June of 2019. I was 14. Now I'm 17 and i regret not talking to her, I regret being so cold to her.
You already have.
😭
🥹
My Battle Buddy. He saved me from bleeding out in a ditch in Afghanistan when I couldn’t help myself. His last text was that he was so sorry and thank you for everything we had. He shot himself that same day.
the fact that they're laugh crying :( you can tell they're in serious pain.
Yeah :(
I always laugh while sad so people normally think I'm a sociopath when I talk about dead people or pets
the easiest way to not feel sad is to laugh at it. if u feel its a joke. u think itll be ok. but its not.
Grief can last a lifetime. Truthfully, nobody gets over losses, especially when it's a close friend or family member. You just learn how to hide the pain better.
m e SAME and I don’t know why. When I talk about something uncomfortable for me I smile for some reason and people think I’m joking or something and it pisses me off because I can’t control it
“she died before she could read that“ that broke me.
Me too I started to cry
Me too
Same
Yeah
Me too : (
The woman who said she was still sending messages to her friend who passed away on Instagram literally made me crying. I cannot imagine how painful it would be.
I remember texting my best friend who did the same
Like sending her messages writing letter to her on every new year it has been 4 yrs now
And I still regret lossing her
When she said “Why didn’t you say goodbye before you left” THAT HIT HARD BRO I CRIED. anyone who is deeling with something like this i wish u da best bro
Princess Nobody same i’m crying rn
I never got a finely goodbye to my mom that died Christmas Eve 2019 she died of rare uncurble tumor cancer she was 49 I have part of her last message on my collar bone from the day she died all I wanted was to be there but couldn't she wouldn't even let me call her to say my last words to her cause she was in so much pain 😢💔 she was heart broken not being able to talk to me even 💔 her dying broke her heart
Diana’s Corner me too I’m crying
Martina Lola fraser im sorry for your loss 🥺
Martina Lola fraser omg i’m so sorry😖
i have a teacher, she isn't dead. but because of stroke she stopped teaching. before she got stroke, she told us, "i will be with all of you at graduation, don't worry." but graduation is canceled and she doesn't recognize us anymore.
I'm sorry for that. Must've been hard :(
omg this is the saddest
Peak
Charlene Baes oh my goooddd, i can feel the pain, if it’s someone you really cared about it would be such a terrible feeling to not be able to do ANYTHING whatsoever 🥺💔💔
Oh god I’m so sorry
I lost my best friend of 16 years in an earthquake in 2008, she was pregnant. Three years of depression for me, I didn’t kms because everyone else was still grieving. I love you, Stephanie.
Sorry i’m a year late, but I am so sorry. My condolences ❤ I hope you are doing well now. ❤
I’m sorry for your loss. You are so powerful to have recovered from deppression in just a few years. Praying for you and hope you are doing well.
I lost my dad when I was only 7. I did not have any source of text communication with him as I was really very young. He had a disease and he went to another country for its treatment. The last message which he sent for me was "You are my tiny plant, one day you will grow up into a really beautiful big tree". I miss him so damn much.
I also lost my father at 7. He was driving to either Oklahoma or Texas to work at the oil field. I woke up the next morning to my mom bawling and telling me my dad died. I am now 14 and I’m still traumatized from that day. November 11th, 2015.
💜😭so sorry for ur loss... purple u💜
@@aestheticella2937 borahae 💜🥺
@@chitaliii 🥺💜
I'm feeling so sorry for you
“Why didn’t you say goodbye before you left” that’s was sad
:(
Yeah 😭
Yeah
My grandma was in hospital and I didn't want to look at her. I hated hospital my entire life and still do. Then on March 28 2019 (two days before my birthday) she died and we had a break in. I wasn't allowed to know and they said she just couldn't come maybe next year. And I didn't get to say goodbye. I'm sorry ma Miner. So sorry. I loved you dearly.
@@sleepyfishy aw I’m so sorry ):
The son who wasn’t close with his mother I felt that audio... it seemed like she was motivated to turn her life around
:(
RenoEXP it wouldve been just 1 more year, and everything could've changed... that one got me the most...
You know,sometimes you need to accept it,he did accepted that her mother died.
Time is not hurting,it healing
it hurts me more bec that’s my birthday and i lost my dad when i was 2
Josh im sorry
The last message from my best friend was “I love you too, sis. I really appreciate you sticking with me through thick and thin.” She’d been fighting a nasty heroin addiction for years and I had convinced her to go to rehab one last name. After that, it was radio silence for months until I found out she was in the hospital with no brain activity and her parents were taking her off life support. A big part of me died with her, as she really was my other half. Grief never goes away, even when you learn how to deal with it. It permanently changes you.
My fiance passed away yesterday. We had a minor argument and the last thing she texted was that she needed a favor from me. I'll never know what the favor is because later that day she was walking to the mall and got hit by a truck. According to people around her, the last thing she said was my name and she's sorry. I'm devastated rn.. I'm really sorry my love. I should have protected you somehow.
Lol skill issue should have looked both ways before crossing the streets
@@ArjunSingh-cp1li Not funny
I hope you're doing alright and that must be tough to go through :( I'm sorry for your loss
I’m so sorry for your loss
@@ArjunSingh-cp1liyour disgusting and not funny at all get a life
my brother passed away from heart disease in 2014. His last words were “It aint fair”.
I am sorry
I'm so sorry.
I'm sorry for your loss. I hope I had more to say. R.I.P.
You are loved and so is he. I am so sorry
Hope god gives you the strength to heal❤️
My brother’s last text to me was “Where’d you go?” Where’d YOU go, dude? I miss you.
mincloud 💔 hang in there
My brother died too......
that hurts
your bro in heaven:WHERE IS HE!?
he misses you, i hope one day you will reunite
mindcloud im so sorry..
oh god... so sorry to hear that...
One of my online friends was very suicidal and depressed, and we could play games together every day. When it seemed they were getting happier, they committed and the last word they said was “hi” not much, but still hurts.
Damn.
A lot of suicidal people become happier towards the end because they know the pain will be gone soon
@@usersareoverrated5652 omg thats too deep
My grandpa said “your the best grandson ever” he died in the hospital two weeks after. and that day I was heartbroken so In the moment I texted his phone after he died and said “I wish I got to say goodbye grandpa you were my best friend”
I am sorry to hear that. And I am glad you were close with your granddad. I wasn't very close with my granddad, due to him serving in the military and passing the discipline down, is what I thought, but he just didn't have the courage to show the affection in front of everyone. He passed away when I was 12, so I didn't really understand what happened, but I just want to say, Dada, i love you.
@@karthikmaguluri4990 om
this comment section has made my bed into a swimming pool
Mine has turned into the ocean.
@@RainiiDay7 mine has turned into a flood
I find this funny but i cant even laugh because of how sad i am right now
@ᴍᴀʀɪᴀᴋᴏᴏᴋ mine turned into a tsunami
my pillow is now soggy
*"i texted her 'i love you' and she died before she could read that"* that breaks my heart
Lol same i felt it and eyes got watery
You poor thing.. god bless your soul, she is in a better place now.
Vane Ceja why did you say “lol” kinda rude tbh :/
Chopsticks_boi YT they said lol?! What kind of person would say that?!
Same tho 😭❤xx
My daughter was found dead after being missing for over two months. She was having a psychiatric emergency and thought federal agents were after her. Her last text to me was mom. Having the worst day. Please I’m scared.
Turns out the night she went missing and I was on my way to pick her up was the night she died. March 14, midwestern United States very cold. She had hidden in a back yard and fell asleep dying of exposure in the night. She was skinny. I miss her so. My deepest love for all whom suffer. The only thing we are all destined to do. Just remember it’s your life to live. Not to take. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
everyone in this video is so strong to share their last texts of loved ones. i could never do that without bursting into tears
"Are you okay my doll? Your voice over the phone seemed like you were crying."
-My mom's last text message.
Im sorry for your loss:/🙏hope you feel better now
@@alexandra-ww3ku I try:)
Inna lillah..
Condolences, praying for comfort 🙏🏾
@@Abdulah-M3 Ameen
Who else has a weird feeling because you know that your loved ones are going to die and your going to experience it
I have that feeling...
The course of things and time
Very uncomfortable for me.
Never thought or want to think about it only time heals
Im the youngest in my family, and i realized years ago im going to have to experience all of them passing away. I remember being so scared i prayed i would be the first to die
This teaches you so clearly of the lesson not to take people for granted, You'll never know if that one message is the last message you'd receive from anybody.
The final text I ever got from my grandfather was
"Hi [my irl name.] Sorry it has taken so long to respond. I've been in the hospital for the last week and much if it has been a blur.
How is life? It has been so long since we have been able to sit down and talk!"
Still makes me cry to this day.
Hello! Are u alright? Honestly be strong --
Dad: Why you crying so damn loud?
Me: going trough the comments.
Me rn at 1 am
Same :/
@@lauranguyen8534 me rn at 3 am XD
Aww.
Ikr
That girl who’s bestfriend commited suicide... she laughed about it because she didnt want to cry, i can see that she still hurts☹️
It was more of a shocked/nerves chuckle. ( aka an unintentional reflex)
Sometimes I hear my best friend quietly mumbling stuff about suicide..I’m trying my best to keep her mentally happy and physically, before I lose her..
Yea it rlly does cuz my uncle did 4 days ago fr fr not joking
Completely Random Videos it might be a girl you may never know
my best friend sense she died on this month, march on the fifth then two days later I got to see her before she got creamated and she was my doggie an she was just thirteen I miss her so much 😭☹😢😢
I just threw away my electric cigarette in memory of your friend . Thank you 🙏🏿
I’ve vaped too I couldn’t stop I’ve been able to stop because I knew it wouldn’t be the best for me
love to you❤
They are sooooo bad. Please stay on your path ❤
My best friend died 4 months ago and my first love died 2 months ago. I’ve never felt so alone and lost in the world. Only thing that keeps me going is knowing that one day we will meet again :(: ❤️
How are you?
Hope you are doing ok
Wow...stay strong,my friend...
sun you're so strong
when she was texting her best friend even when she was gone,, i just broke down completely
「Remiiniscent 」 I did that when my sister committed suicide. It killed me to hear her bestie was a suicide also I really related with her sadly enough
She stonkie
Missa Del my sister committed suicide January 13th, I feel you.. as soon as she said how she died I broke down
Ciara Anaya Cruz praying for your heart love, I'm so sorry
Ciara Anaya Cruz
I’m so sorry for that guys... just remember that we’re all here to support you
If you’re still too sad and want to talk to someone you can talk to me in my channel
😞👍
“why didn’t you say goodbye before you left” i’m sobbing
🥺😢
fuckin hell dude
When I heard that one it made me burst out in tears.
That one is just so relatable
Dude I cried-
I don't want to imagine my precious people disappearing from life. My condolences to everyone in the video.
My boyfriend got hit by a car and died in my arms. His blood on my clothes and my face. I can never forget the words he said to me. "I love you, never forget me. Live on for me." And then he died. I am so sorry to anyone who has been through loss. My deepest condolences.
that never happend to you
Actually, it did. I don't know what your problem is but leave me alone.
@@silpsizzup1299 How do you know that?
@@ruikamishiro984 because i know gre guts online and in person so i can say if stuff really happened , gre guts is a pathological liar. we have been trying to get them help for it but they refused.
@@silpsizzup1299 lmfao
,,We are gonna see each other someday”
She committed suicide after This.
I’m so sorry... I hope she’s in a good place now. Stay strong ❤️
Im sorry to hear that😭😭
This actually hit me hard in the heart
She's in a better place now.
I'm so sorry, this really hurts. I hope you're doing OK ❤️❤️❤️
These people are trying so hard trying not to cry that much in front of the camera 😔
i know and thats the reason why i was crying
Legit I'm the one who's crying
Bruh id already be on the floor
Yeah 😥
Leakzym 😔❤️🙏
I've never been scared of death, it seems rather peaceful. I would love to go to heaven and not have anymore cares. I'm always just scared of what my death will cause, I don't want anyone to be sad or get depressed over me.
@Divya Madhuri I'm doing well, thank you 😊
@@meowbigdong763 Agree to disagree
@@meowbigdong763 cringe
That's so narcissistic and self-centered, who says things like that ? Besides YOU obviously...
The last thing I remember saying to my little sister was "Look mom she's holding my hand!" Few weeks later she passed in front of me I was only 5 at the time I remember it like it was yesterday she was a beautiful little thing R.I.P Maybel I love you and you'll always be my little Angel 💜
Wow...im so sorry for you...stay strong,my friend.
The last thing I ever said to my best friend before she died was, “don’t let anyone tell you your not enough”
Harper Wixom she was, she sadly committed from cyber bullying
I’m sorry for your loss I can’t even imagine how hard that would be ❤️ I hope your doing better
I would’ve replied “ you’re*”
@@hiiily5408 Stop just stop do u know how rude that is
@@hiiily5408 😐🖕
The girl who’s still texts her friend made me start crying 🥺🥺🥺
Miguel Hernandez yooo chill
Miguel Hernandez yessir
Miguel Hernandez I did cry so he’s not wrong
Miguel Hernandez there isn’t a problem lmao just because you’re numb from all your trauma doesn’t mean everyone else needs to be lol good luck w therapy
Miguel Hernandez
You’re not edgy or quirky for calling out people with dealing with a trauma in a different way than you do, lmao grow up
I lost my grandfather in late 2013,I didn’t get to see him even in my whole 17 years of life.I know he’s great, rest in peace grandpa.
I lost him in 2015
@@anyamerrin that’s so sad :(
@@laean.taleen It's ok, we'll stay strong!
@@anyamerrin thanks!
everyone in this video is so strong to share their last texts of loved ones. i could never do that without bursting into tears :(
“Hey are you awake?” - My sister at 1:28am. I awoke to a call from my mom that she found my sister had taken her own life
I am truly so sorry. R.I.P.
i am so sorry for your loss, i was looking through the comments and this one completely broke me cause that’s my worst fear, may she fly high and rest in peace ❤️
GROWMAXIAGT Thank you
Paula Belliard thank you for the kind words ❤️
Rip 🙏🏻 🙏🏻 🙏🏻 🙏🏻
The girl who’s friend committed suicide looks like a strong strong person, mentally. She was keeping a smile the whole time talking about it, even when she started crying. I hope things get much better.
jins_fallen_ flower ik she is so strong I’m proud of her she and her family went thru a lot
Yeah i dont think i would ever get over it if i was super close to him/her
AAARRRMMMYYY my bias is Jin btw, also I agree with your comment I would just break down crying
Mati08 。 me too
yeah
A free warm hug for whoever is struggling with the loss of a loved one rn and are sharing their story here. Know that you are strong and loved so much.
-A random internet friend.
I needed that. Scrolling through the comments trying to find a reason to live
@@a_tree_in_the_forest I am glad 🫂🫂🫂❤️ I hope you're doing great and you must live because there's great things awaiting you ahead, my friend.
Really...thats why i just love the internet sometimes.I always know there people who makes me happy,belives in me and loves me....but the fact is that i will be sure that we will loose someday the contact to eachothers and never met us to 99%...and thats makes me even more sad...
The last words I texted to my bf just before he died was: “ please be ok...” after he was gone. I noticed he saw the message just before he died...it’s hard to pick yourself up after such a tragic loss. Your body is screaming to just go. It was earlier this month when I was told by doctors at a hospital he was taken to. That he died of a heart attack...since it happened all I’ve wanted to do is sleep...
My mum died when I was only seven and her last words were “don’t cry when I’m gone, it will make you stronger, everything happens for a reason”
Your mom sounds like a really strong and remarkable woman, my prayers go to you.
How did she die?
@@lejla5314 cancer, specificly cervical
@@NathanBomber thankyo for the kindness
@@soinaisthebestest3270 i am so sorry for you, who raised u then ?
the last thing my best friend said to me was “it’s time for me to go now”
Are u okay ?
@@milanxx3408 everytime i think about it, i break down in tears. she committed suicide december 15th, 2020
@@taeilsquish275 do u wanna write any where
My insta is @fck._.people
Snap is milan0934
You can talk with me
@@milanxx3408 i’m not allowed to have either, even tho i’m 13 :^ but thank you a lot.
@@taeilsquish275 hey, I’m so sorry bout all that... no one should go through that and I hope you are doing ok 🙂 if ya ever want to talk we are here. I have discord if u want to talk on there, but seriously, hope you are alright. ❤️
I swear I am about to cry and the video isn’t even done-
grief is one of the hardest things, bc you could have everyone around you, but still feel alone, bc you don’t have the one person who you want there.
My bro passed away and on that day his last text on me was “always been proud of you”
im so sorry for your loss, i hope you don't feel that much pain.
stay strong
Jenny the pain is still there and i guess it will just live within me. He is my brother he is the same blood as me.. but I am trying to be strong for my family. And that keeps me sane.
i cried reading that
i know the pain is forever going to be there. but i hope you learn to live with it. sending love and prayers. ❤️
BROO THAT HIT ME HARD😭😭
My grandmas last message to me was “send me a picture, so I can see your beautiful face”
Omg I fell so bad for,I’m crying
I am very sorry for your loss. That's heart breaking.
Thats soo sweet I don't remember the last thing my grandma and grandpa said to me
@NOMAL BONBASO and
Did you send the picture?
4:34 actually made me so sad because that's exactly how it happened with my mom. I just got a random video message with her and my little sister.
I say it was a random message but it was still just the most perfect reminder of her.
the last message of my father was him trying to talk to me more during the pandemic
some days after, i sent a message, the first one in a while with concern and feeling, but it was too late
i later discovered in 2022 some audios from him, hearing his voice broke me so much, hearing his voice, seeing his face, his smile, his jokes, everything breaks me again and again
Imagine not knowing that text would be the last text you receive from a person. Just take a moment and be thankful for the people around you, you never know when they might be gone.
I don't have to.
Imagine buying the peice of cloth that u will die in
xassaisin17 I mean I wanna die lookin hella fresh
My cousin almost died and our last convo would've been about why I was wearing slippers in the kitchen😂 he lived tho and now I never end a convo w him or his brother without saying ily
@@Hostefar this made feel way better thank you 🤣
The night before she died, my cat came to me, sniffed and licked my hand, but I was too lazy too pet her or pick her up, but I didn't knew I'll never get to touch her again.
Ayesha Shah I have that experiences. It was very sad 😭😭
I feel you. Something like that happened to me a few months ago...
I lost my wonderful kitty 2 months ago. 12 years with me. He was one of the living beings I loved most in my entire life. I know someone could laugh: often people think “it’s just a pet”. I know, I know... and I must say I feel a bit ashamed of crying for him.. but I do miss him so much. I can’t sleep without him near my pillow.
@@claudiadesimone6217 While a pet or an animal, there is no difference in the emotions you feel or create, especially love. Emotions are always the same and genuine. Its been over 16 years my cat passed away, I miss her constantly and my life honestly has not been the same since.
I cried so much reading this comment because I lost my pet hamster recently and I just can't imagine not having her by my side anymore
my cousin just passed away to a car crash, i wasn't very close to her but ever since she passed it made me appreciate everyone i have in my life more.
My best friend called me last night to tell me her mom passed away yesterday (my friends 24th birthday).. first thing I said to her was “you’re joking”.. I still am struggling to process it, that woman was a second mom to me & one of the kindest people I’ll ever have the privilege to know. Almost exactly 2 years older than my own mom which makes my heart hurt even more. She was always excited to see me & hear about my life since I moved out of state & now I’ll just have to settle for updating her in my journal 🥹
•Love you always Mama Eileen, hope you’re enjoying Heaven with Cuddles ♥️👼🏻
People with depression really need to be taken seriously.
@DualNexus
People who don’t have depression need to stop saying they have depression. Depression is a mental illness, not something you randomly get when you’re grieving or feeling sad because of something.
@@sammsu4668
Especially people in the internet claiming to be "depressed"
I go to therapy every Saturday but i don't call myself as a *depressed person* i just can't get over my Grandpa's death and bullying plus the problems at home..But yeah If people really are depressed,They shouldn't say it in the internet cuz nobody ain't gonna believe you..Seek help instead of telling the web :)
@@sammsu4668 What has it to do with this topic? The person's comment was about people not talking it seriously, not about faking it. Even if someone fakes it - people should still care about them because they might just need a little more love and attention. What is your problem with it..?
Yea its serious but it's more like mental illness
@@burningHazard because people calling themselves depressed when they're just sad can spread harmful misinformation, it's how the whole "just stop being sad" response started. I've seen a lot of people who don't have depression but claim they do say stuff like they didn't need help to get over it which can be really harmful for people with depression, who often struggle with getting help with it.
I'm not afraid of dying, I'm afraid of losing someone I love.
Both
I don't mind dying
It's fate
But it breaks my heart to think about the amazing people I'll leave behind and how much they'll be grieving.
That's why don't want to die before anyone I love dies.
I break down when I think about my friends dying and I can't think about my family dying
Same
honestly me
I'm afraid of dying, not just because I don't want to die but also because I don't want to leave my loved ones behind and sad.
My friend has been struggling with the loss of her parents and if I'm taken too early then that might cause her to go over the edge. I want to be there for her everyday but I can't control when I leave this world. I just hope I can live to see us grow up.
I remember, when my grandma had just passed away, i would call her number from time to time praying she’d answer once. I was 5 at the time. I love her so much and I hope that she’s happy. ❤
Losing loved ones is very hard. Moving on from grief is even more hard.
my friend killed himself two weeks ago. the last thing he told me was a skyrim joke that i didn’t get because i don’t play skyrim. i miss him.
Cameron Lacy What was the joke j mean maybe i could tell you what it means if you want me to.
Oh. I’m sorry. I don’t know what to do but I’m sorry. I hope ur good
was it we must go to tamriel?
Edit: Forgot that this was a yt comment section and how sensitive people lash on to things.i didn’t mean to joke about the guy death in any way and of course I’m sorry for her loss. Was only trying to guess and ask her.
Yo he texted a skyrim joke what a legend. Sorry for your loss
Did he/she die taking an arrow to the knee?(That's a Skyrim Joke) Sorry... I am not trying to make fun of your loss. God bless him/her. Dont ever forget him/her.
My boyfriend last words for me was " im going to sleep."
And yes he did. It was 4 years ago.
Army we got your back purple you so so much
he's in a better place
Army
@Dzsamila # hey can i talk to u i lost a best freind today
Did he just ghost you or
It's hard and scary to lose a loved one just by thinking about it.
I don't want to happen to me.😢
Same. Most nights I can't help but think we're all one day closer to our deaths. I lost my older brother on December 2 and we weren't close at all but it hurts.
Please tell me it's gonna be ok
@@anantsingh7442 it's going to be okay and everything is going to be alright ok honey don't think so much about it just enjoy the time you have with the ones that are special to you forever means forever Hun
@@anantsingh7442 ok
It’s such a beautiful gift to hear these people share their piece on losing a loved one. I only wish if I passed i had people who missed me this way. 🖤
Thank you for sharing.
Imagine your mother wanting to talk for the last time with her son but then she dies..
𝚃𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚠𝚘𝚞𝚕𝚍 𝚋𝚎 𝚜𝚘 𝚜𝚊𝚍 ☹︎☹︎♡︎
@@thepotatoeshoes6073 but it did happen?
@@mymo_on4722 no
I got corona
This happened to me last month
My aunt killed herself and the last thing she said to me in private was:
"Listen to me. You be you. I know you're sad but please make it past 50. Please, do that for me. Just live on. It's going to get better. I love you, so so much."
(Edit: Thank you all so much for the recognition and support, I don’t have words to express how thankful I am of you all. ❤️)
This comment broke me.
JustAs You :((
Dang I wonder why she couldn’t listen to herself when she said that.Sorry for your loss❤️
Shochu It's alright, i'm getting better. ❤️
Lol
The voice message really took me. I pray for everybody in this video to be comforted. I am so sorry for your loss.
im literally bawling my eyes out watching this vid and reading these comments i’m so sorry for y’all’s losses.
Moral of the story:
Talk to people, because you never know when your or their last day will come.
Ain’t nobody appreciating me bro.
I did that for the love of my life who messed up, making me walk away. She was the person I could see spending the rest of my life with, having a family, and growing old together, never stopping to adore one another. I texted her after 2 years of no contact to see if she was all right from the coronavirus as she has multiple underlying health conditions. I was worried because even though I walked away, she was still so important to me and I truly love her. She didn't respond back, so I was getting worried she might've already gotten it. Or maybe she was ignoring me or was busy, she had no reception, or she blocked me.
A day and then a few days passed and still no response. Her lack of response could have been her ignoring me, but I didn't want to assume that in case it was more serious, so I got all antsy thinking that in the time I don't message her, she could pass away (or maybe already has), and I'll have forever lost my chance to talk to her one last time, making me live with regret... So I shot her another text a week later.
She responds. My nerves are racing just from her replying. Still care about her. I ask her if she's doing all right. She says she's doing fine.
I'm relieved. Still nervous from talking to her again.
She also says she's expecting a baby in 3 months, after having said before that she'll never have children...
That was a pretty heavy blow that blindsided me.
I don’t think she realizes how much it meant for me to reach out and make sure she’s okay. Still, better to have tried and been there in time than to live with regret wishing I’d taken action sooner.
I text to my best friend every day, she may not respond every time I send one, but its usually "I love you bestie c:" type texts and I sometimes worry I may never get a text back 😅
@SimpleCanadian I’ve been texting my best friend during quarantine and I used to call her everyday to check up on her and ask her about her crush and stuff. lately she’s been extremely dismissive and partially irritated by me. I’m worried that I’m gonna lose a 9 year friendship...
@@wngyie2688 really? That sucks..
I've known my friend for almost 10 years and idk what I'd do if I lose her as a friend. I hope everything will work out and be alright again
my grandmas last text: “hi.”. i didn’t respond, and i regret it everyday
Thats sad !
no..
Damn
She would want you to forgive yourself and release that regret. God bless ❤️
Don't feel bad she knew you loved/love her
My best friend(Harper), her sister (Heather) and I were really close. But one time we were at a sleepover at their place, we were helping her sister(Heather ) pack and sell her things. Her bed, desk, chairs, tv teddies. Everything. We were helping her sell them because she was going to redecorate her room with her work money and the monkey from her stuff. After a 2 weeks she only had her mattress, pillow, blanket, clothes and a cardboard box full of her stuff that she loved. She had a baby girl outfit that was a floral tutu outfit, it was meant to be for her child (from sa) but she had a miscarriage. She had a shirt from her favourite band, jewellery a music box and a lot more. A couple days later my best friend (Harper) we’re having a sleepover and her parents were on a date so ,Heather, was home alone. Me and harper were watching a movie when my mum comes in saying we have to take her home because there was an emergency.
We got to her house and Heather had an overdose. She was barley breathing. Paramedics where screaming, trying to revive her in the front lawn. Neighbours were recording her nearly lifeless body. Her mother was being retained by a police officer while repeatedly screaming “Heather, baby please breath, please breath for mum please! Let me be with my daughter! If I’m there I know she will come back for me I know it she loves me!”
Harpers farther was praying on the floor. Me and Harper didn’t do anything, we were standing there crying trying to process what was going on.
Not even 10 minutes since we arrived Heather was pronounced dead and taken away in a body bag.
They had a small intimate funeral with a few friends and family
A month after her death harper was home alone and decided to go into heathers room, there was 10 notes spread out on the floor. One for each person she loved. They were all in different coloured envelopes with matching gel pen writing and stickers. She loves being organised like that. But harpers was different, harper had a box and inside were many photos of them together, some shirts she always loved and begged Heather to give to her and 23k in cash. This was a mix of her work money and money she made selling her bedroom things.
Heather was a kind person, she always was talking to everyone. If a stranger looked sad she would go start up a conversation with them, she loved everyone and was passionate about being a doctor one day.
Unfortunately she never got to pursue this. Due to relentless verbal and physical bullying by her schoolmates and constant harassment my lonely men in the streets, as-well as many mental issues, Heather took her own life on 17th of March 2021. Fly high babe x 🕊🕊
❤️
I am very sorry for your loss. I hope you and her family are healing
I'm sorry 😞.. really sorry
The dove 🕊️ is a tattoo I was going to get in honor of my sister.
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that Harper and her family are okay, and that you yourself are doing okay as well. Stay strong. Heather sounded like an amazing person. 🤍🤍
My last text from my uncle was "I'll see you at 5, love you" after he asked me if I wanted to go for ice cream when he got out of work. I found out when I took the bus that he had a heart attack while getting ready. I really wish I could go back in time just to say a proper goodbye and go to his funeral (Which I didn't because I had a breakdown in my room and refused to go)
The last thing my best friend told me days before she passed away was "I promise I'll be back"
Maya Tan 🥺
Same here with my aunt I said see you next week the next week I saw Her at her funeral 😭 I'm sorry for you're loss
You'll get through this ❤❤
the last thing my dad told me before he died was that he loved me and it hurts that i couldn’t make him proud in the time he was alive
I was crying before watching the video then I saw your comment and I cried even more. I’m so sorry. 🥺
my bestfriend sent me a picture of a frog on a flower, that was the last thing that i got. when im old enough im going to get a picture of a frog tattooed on me
That's so wholesome
I am really sorry, this is wholesome :)
you should get a pet frog
🥺
I’m so sorry, may your best friend rest in peace 🥺
I’m here because I lost my cousin suddenly a week ago and been struggling since. Rest in Peace Lauren ❤
Sorry for your loss ♥️
hope you’re doing better
Every day I feel grateful that I never have had to go through a lot of things these people go through… my heart goes out to them with the most love and comfort in the world ❤
Imagine if one of the messages just say "K"
That’s probably what’s going to happen to the owner of buzzfeed
i was just about to cry after watching the video and i just read your comment and couldn`t help but laugh damn u got me
I mean the black guy, whos mother passed away technically could have said this.
That would be me
LMAOO
Videos like these teach us how to appreciate the ppl around us. They remind us how we should treasure and value them. Idk there's this lump in my throat. But anyway ty for this
My last text to my dad was telling him “thank you!” He’d bought me a graphing calculator for school, that I was too prideful to ask for help to get. I’d called him that same day and he gave a speech of how proud of me he was. I’d always been so insecure that I was disappointing my parents. He died a few hrs late of a heart attack. It felt so surreal I couldn’t stop texting and calling him. Each day my class updates… eventually I stopped, but I still get the urge to call and update him.
The girl talking about her friend literally made me sob
Liam Pearce me too :(
I'm literally weeping rn
How?
My besties last words where "see you tomorrow!". She lied to me..
Why does this have so many likes.
Hugs for you ID wilk be your friend
aww stay strong everyone’s here for you! Also I’m so sorry..
I'm so sorry
Oh noooo😭😭😭😭😭
@@ThePursuitWOD ty for the advice ❤ I always feel so down seeing my self, but I tried to heal my self by making vid that I love, or making jokes at internet.. So I can forget what just happened, hope I survive until God end my life
i cried at the part with the girl that was reading the messages on instagram it rlly hurts that she’ll never answer those 😭
Having recently lost a loved one I would say these guys are brave to open the last text message. I punched in the name in my whatsapp but my heart was not ready to open the inbox because I knew I would cry.
"you still down to go camping tomorrow?"
"yep, why?"
"just making sure, i'll see you tomorrow"
"see you"
she committed suicide that night, she passed away 16th july 2019.
OMG I'm so sorry.
Not dead, but the last thing I got to text to my bipolar aunt was “I love you” her episodes can last for years and I don’t get to see her.
@@kennedyhenderson9005 Im sorry
@@p1kkumyy yeah me too. Bipolar disorder doesn’t just affect the person. But at least I’ll get to see her again. I’m so sorry for your loss
My birthday is on 16th July
_should I do the same?_
i lost my older brother because of an overdose. his last words were, “i think i took too much”
im so so sorry
I’m very very sorry
Pray to god to keep him in peace 🙏🖤🖤
chilling. i am so sorry for your loss of your older brother
i’m incredibly sorry:(💗
my heart aches for the people who’ve lost loved ones, i’m so sorry this happened to all of you 💗
It must be nice having people who love/care for you.
Use me as a “Why did I intentionally make myself sad button?” Edit: In no way am I trying to “beg for likes”, or “self promote”. I am just trying comment somethings relatable. Also, getting likes on a UA-cam comment doesn’t really benefit me in any way.
yeah lol
mood
Zxn Bringman i literally told myself before clicking on the vid that it was gonna make me cry but i clicked anyways
poxitivee chode
@@aaravsingh1125 ?