I was wondering why my man was behaving like this , now I fully understand that I am responsible he's me pushed out, I wasn't being stable inside and believed that he's going to continue doing this come n go .. it was really hurtful for me. I take responsibility now and I'll do whatever you told in this video. I love you Shelly. You're blessing to this world. ❤️
The best video among the best. This is it. This is THE answer. This is THE remedy! Thank you, Shelly! Hope I could've heard and found this 10 years earlier!
You explain every single thing so simple.You offer so simple solutions on every video in couple minutes. Your advices worked for me in just one day! 💗💗💗
Very nice content. My biggest reservation about this concept is where did our childhood issues/trauma come into play with this idea.? I would say every time I get momentum going in developing this, I am reminded of the horrible circumstances of growing up. If I am able to shape my relationships now as an adult, which I’ve seen to be true, why was the childhood part of life so incredibly negative. Thank you for your thoughts. Enjoy your channel. have a nice holiday.
You're an infinite soul who came here to have certain experiences for your growth and development. Even as a child you had thoughts and expectations of the people around you.
I understand your question and I can't say I have the exact correct answer. Could be that our Soul's chose to come into certain families/life experiences for growth. Could be that we instantly started creating the moment we were born (which I do believe)... so events started building on themselves as we manifested them, even as babies/young children. I definitely don't have all the answers about this but I do feel certain that we create everything in our realities. That's what my own inner wisdom has guided me to believe and through the evidence (which I receive all day, every day), I personally don't question it too much anymore. That's just me, though. We all have our own path with it.
Shelly Bullard I appreciate your honesty and willingness to explore the ideas openly. I’m seeing a ton of results in certain areas. I’m just having issues with the philosophy behind our early lives. Great channel. Very thought provoking.
I feel like we didn’t necessarily create the trauma but what ended up happening was because we weren’t aware of our own power back then, Trauma was bestowed upon us by people who are unconscious. So now as conscious beings we can choose not to have that any more and change the story. Those people in our lives never told us that we were conscious creators so of course the trauma patterns and sued until we realise there was another way.
Your videos have been like this Beautiful healing balm. As deeply as I want to manifest my person what I found most was the self love that was so much more important. Thank you... You have been such a beautiful source of support. ❤
I personally was questioning this yesterday! I feel like many people have push and pull coz it is a generational thing that we observe and see and also in our modern day life where there is less spirtual life (energy) more people are using others as their energy source which creates the push pull in a lot of people
Just came across this vid because yt recommended it to me :D so good!!! exactly what I needed to hear. suggestion: it'd be awesome if you could make a rampage-type video saying these things "my partner is fully present" "they're completely in" etc, I was totally feeling soothed as you were speaking those words and my anxiety went away for a few seconds. It's be marvelous to go to sleep every night listening to rampages like this that lasted for a few minutes. Anywaysies, subscriiiiibed! love this and can't wait to watch all the content :D
I want to commend you on how much easier it is to get into the feeling and knowing the way you explain it. You are magic Shelly! My question is what if my SP has been on/off with everyone he’s ever been with? He’s actually lasted longer with me and has shared many experiences than with anyone else. I just haven’t been able to sustain it because now I realize I would stop working on my beliefs when things started going well. Then I’d lapse when he’d start acting emotionally distant and I realize I was abandoning myself. I’m already changing my beliefs about myself and envisioning a stable, fulfilling, life-long partnership but I’m wondering if this dynamic can change even if that’s been his pattern?
This is true. In the beginning me n my sp were awsome as there was no doubt. But later it was all my insecurity n thinking. I m manifesting back again. Things r being as I m manifesting as I see the series of event happening. Now it’s turn to be together committing in a love relationship again. N I won’t ever be negative. Since following loa I have cha ged so much ❤️💛
if it is all about 'me' and my story, how have some relationships been very stable and then unstable? what about people that are completely blindsided by their sp? They felt completely secure in themselves and boom the house comes tumbling down? I want to believe this, all of it, and yet.....…..?!
Think of it as a sequence of unfortunate events that lead to grief and a major depressive episode. It was a test to see how unshakeable your belief was. Albeit an excessive one... but it's an opportunity to expose deep fears, see them materialize, and realize that you can still survive that outcome and change things for the better regardless of what happened. All that is required is to begin the transformation within yourself.
They create it & then come conplaining about it to every one they know & writting songs about it 😂😂😂 how hilarious are ppl lol (& iam one of them, but slowly *or fast* coming out of the delusion)
Oh you really got me here, no, I didn't ask to have him be hot, cold, abusive etc., so you all are really saying when children get raped and abused, they created that.. no. My 1st boyfriend didn't physically abuse or use silent treatments or distance or narcissistic behaviour... no... this cannot really be right... if I am God of my Universe ... by now I would have manifested security , safety, proper love an money abundance ? ? Doesn't make sense
Of course. Only you can choose to believe what you believe... and you have every right to feel this perspective doesn't resonate for you. For some people, it'll be an obvious and instant resonance as truth...for others, it won't be. We all have our own perspectives/experiences with it.
Hey Angela. Here’s what I’ll say. It sounds like we have similar issues involving lives that had abuse in our younger lives. What I have found, is that there are tangible results in these teaches that are measurable. This doesn’t really explain the childhoods that we seem to have had but these ideas do empower the person who explores the concepts. I’m struggling too but I do recommend exploring the concept. I hope we both find answers to the questions we are after. - Best
There is no "other people", there is no other children, there is no other boyfriend. They are all you. What happens in your reality is created by what you believe. So when you see abuse or rape happening, you're imagining it happening, it might not necessarily be happening in the child's reality, but it sure is happening in yours because YOU are convinced that shit like this happens. I would recommend watching Leo's video on youtube called "what is reality"... His channel is called actualized.org... Bald guy who explains how reality is all imagination... Might open your mind a little 👍🏼 Examine your own beliefs, stop trying to fight and justify stuff. Just ask yourself, what do I believe about XYZ, say an sp... All those bitter thoughts that come up, those are your beliefs. The good news is that they can be changed.
30 seconds in. How can a push-pull dynamic be the sole responsibility of ONE side of the relationship? And even if it is, how do you know it's the fault of the half watching this video?
I manifested my ex back, someone who was one foot in and one foot out. It had been 2 months. In this time I bought your program, and I worked on myself. Daily affirmations, mirror work, I am work… when he came back he immediately said “ we are not compatible” and then went on and on with a list of reasons about me. Just 3 moths ago he told me he wanted to marry me. And now he is saying I wouldn’t be happy with him. Why did I manifest him back even after feeling so good about myself only to have him put me down again. If I am working on myself and know I am a queen , why did he show up rejecting me? This is what i don’t get about “ your outer world is you pushed out” I don’t get it. Please help and Clarify.
Why have I been imagining people being kidnapped and all that kid of bad stuff being manifested by them and then scared to create something like that what is that
Hi shelly i am going insane my best nd i are not in talking term we met everyday in park one day he respond to my greet next day no repond..i am going mad what i do ...😭😭😭😭
it's the same.. go watch everyone is you pushed out.. also, an avoidant issue is your limiting belief and that's why you have that experience. she has videos on how to change someone, check that out..
Sometimes I wish you would be a bit more gender neutral. It's hard to listen to you always talking about a man. My girlfriend and I have been hit and cold. She keeps breaking up with me. Anyway. I'm trying to stay positive. Love from Sweden
I've been bingewstching your videos these past hours. They are a treasure trove! What a lovely day to end the year.
Shruthi Jaya Venukumar wonderful!! I’m so happy you’re enjoying them & that they’re resonating for you! 🙏🏼🌟
U r so right...Abraham Hicks keeps telling...stop ur old story n start telling new story....so true ...thank u....love u
suchi wesly yes
I was wondering why my man was behaving like this , now I fully understand that I am responsible he's me pushed out, I wasn't being stable inside and believed that he's going to continue doing this come n go .. it was really hurtful for me. I take responsibility now and I'll do whatever you told in this video. I love you Shelly. You're blessing to this world. ❤️
Yes! Twin flames gather around and listen to her message 😂😚❤️
The best video among the best. This is it. This is THE answer. This is THE remedy! Thank you, Shelly! Hope I could've heard and found this 10 years earlier!
You explain every single thing so simple.You offer so simple solutions on every video in couple minutes.
Your advices worked for me in just one day!
💗💗💗
Red Rose Amazing!! I’m so Glad!
@@ShellyBullard And remote seduction.Haha works like a charm. But schhh 😂💕
Very nice content. My biggest reservation about this concept is where did our childhood issues/trauma come into play with this idea.? I would say every time I get momentum going in developing this, I am reminded of the horrible circumstances of growing up. If I am able to shape my relationships now as an adult, which I’ve seen to be true, why was the childhood part of life so incredibly negative. Thank you for your thoughts. Enjoy your channel. have a nice holiday.
You're an infinite soul who came here to have certain experiences for your growth and development. Even as a child you had thoughts and expectations of the people around you.
I understand your question and I can't say I have the exact correct answer. Could be that our Soul's chose to come into certain families/life experiences for growth. Could be that we instantly started creating the moment we were born (which I do believe)... so events started building on themselves as we manifested them, even as babies/young children. I definitely don't have all the answers about this but I do feel certain that we create everything in our realities. That's what my own inner wisdom has guided me to believe and through the evidence (which I receive all day, every day), I personally don't question it too much anymore. That's just me, though. We all have our own path with it.
Shelly Bullard I appreciate your honesty and willingness to explore the ideas openly. I’m seeing a ton of results in certain areas. I’m just having issues with the philosophy behind our early lives. Great channel. Very thought provoking.
@@brianhunt1748 🙏🙏
I feel like we didn’t necessarily create the trauma but what ended up happening was because we weren’t aware of our own power back then, Trauma was bestowed upon us by people who are unconscious. So now as conscious beings we can choose not to have that any more and change the story. Those people in our lives never told us that we were conscious creators so of course the trauma patterns and sued until we realise there was another way.
The most important video for everything!
You are so right, I do feel like you described .I need to stay in the path and belive that these relationships is already mine 😊
Yesss✨
Your videos have been like this Beautiful healing balm. As deeply as I want to manifest my person what I found most was the self love that was so much more important. Thank you... You have been such a beautiful source of support. ❤
This is so 100 💯 how I am so grateful for this advice thank you 🙏
Thank You Shelly, Bless You !
I personally was questioning this yesterday!
I feel like many people have push and pull coz it is a generational thing that we observe and see and also in our modern day life where there is less spirtual life (energy) more people are using others as their energy source which creates the push pull in a lot of people
What you see/think/feel/believe is what you create. :)
Just came across this vid because yt recommended it to me :D so good!!! exactly what I needed to hear. suggestion: it'd be awesome if you could make a rampage-type video saying these things "my partner is fully present" "they're completely in" etc, I was totally feeling soothed as you were speaking those words and my anxiety went away for a few seconds. It's be marvelous to go to sleep every night listening to rampages like this that lasted for a few minutes. Anywaysies, subscriiiiibed! love this and can't wait to watch all the content :D
My courses do that... you can check in the description, two courses to program your Subconscious Mind. ;)
Also, so happy you're here! Welcome to my channel!
Brilliant 😃You must watch this.
Thank you!
This resonates.. Thanks Shelly
You’re welcome
Shelly ur amazing 😉 u make it so simple for us. Woozers ❤️ u xxx
Niiiiice. So glad it's resonating!
Really needed this. Thank you
you're welcome
I want to commend you on how much easier it is to get into the feeling and knowing the way you explain it. You are magic Shelly! My question is what if my SP has been on/off with everyone he’s ever been with? He’s actually lasted longer with me and has shared many experiences than with anyone else. I just haven’t been able to sustain it because now I realize I would stop working on my beliefs when things started going well. Then I’d lapse when he’d start acting emotionally distant and I realize I was abandoning myself. I’m already changing my beliefs about myself and envisioning a stable, fulfilling, life-long partnership but I’m wondering if this dynamic can change even if that’s been his pattern?
Really like ur smile and laugh very very much
This is true. In the beginning me n my sp were awsome as there was no doubt. But later it was all my insecurity n thinking. I m manifesting back again. Things r being as I m manifesting as I see the series of event happening. Now it’s turn to be together committing in a love relationship again. N I won’t ever be negative. Since following loa I have cha ged so much ❤️💛
Wonderful!
if it is all about 'me' and my story, how have some relationships been very stable and then unstable? what about people that are completely blindsided by their sp? They felt completely secure in themselves and boom the house comes tumbling down? I want to believe this, all of it, and yet.....…..?!
Think of it as a sequence of unfortunate events that lead to grief and a major depressive episode. It was a test to see how unshakeable your belief was. Albeit an excessive one... but it's an opportunity to expose deep fears, see them materialize, and realize that you can still survive that outcome and change things for the better regardless of what happened. All that is required is to begin the transformation within yourself.
I needed to hear this thank you!
They create it & then come conplaining about it to every one they know & writting songs about it 😂😂😂 how hilarious are ppl lol (& iam one of them, but slowly *or fast* coming out of the delusion)
😂
Oh you really got me here, no, I didn't ask to have him be hot, cold, abusive etc., so you all are really saying when children get raped and abused, they created that.. no. My 1st boyfriend didn't physically abuse or use silent treatments or distance or narcissistic behaviour... no... this cannot really be right... if I am God of my Universe ... by now I would have manifested security , safety, proper love an money abundance ? ? Doesn't make sense
Of course. Only you can choose to believe what you believe... and you have every right to feel this perspective doesn't resonate for you. For some people, it'll be an obvious and instant resonance as truth...for others, it won't be. We all have our own perspectives/experiences with it.
Hey Angela. Here’s what I’ll say. It sounds like we have similar issues involving lives that had abuse in our younger lives. What I have found, is that there are tangible results in these teaches that are measurable. This doesn’t really explain the childhoods that we seem to have had but these ideas do empower the person who explores the concepts. I’m struggling too but I do recommend exploring the concept. I hope we both find answers to the questions we are after. - Best
There is no "other people", there is no other children, there is no other boyfriend. They are all you. What happens in your reality is created by what you believe. So when you see abuse or rape happening, you're imagining it happening, it might not necessarily be happening in the child's reality, but it sure is happening in yours because YOU are convinced that shit like this happens. I would recommend watching Leo's video on youtube called "what is reality"... His channel is called actualized.org... Bald guy who explains how reality is all imagination... Might open your mind a little 👍🏼
Examine your own beliefs, stop trying to fight and justify stuff. Just ask yourself, what do I believe about XYZ, say an sp... All those bitter thoughts that come up, those are your beliefs. The good news is that they can be changed.
Só true
Shelly!!!!
30 seconds in. How can a push-pull dynamic be the sole responsibility of ONE side of the relationship?
And even if it is, how do you know it's the fault of the half watching this video?
I manifested my ex back, someone who was one foot in and one foot out.
It had been 2 months. In this time I bought your program, and I worked on myself. Daily affirmations, mirror work, I am work… when he came back he immediately said “ we are not compatible” and then went on and on with a list of reasons about me. Just 3 moths ago he told me he wanted to marry me. And now he is saying I wouldn’t be happy with him.
Why did I manifest him back even after feeling so good about myself only to have him put me down again.
If I am working on myself and know I am a queen
, why did he show up rejecting me?
This is what i don’t get about “ your outer world is you pushed out”
I don’t get it. Please help and Clarify.
Why have I been imagining people being kidnapped and all that kid of bad stuff being manifested by them and then scared to create something like that what is that
Why didn't i see this vdo ago
Hi shelly i am going insane my best nd i are not in talking term we met everyday in park one day he respond to my greet next day no repond..i am going mad what i do ...😭😭😭😭
What after pull n push dynamic
I don’t see the link for the metioned video to not react.
Same
So if the partner has avoidant attachment issues?
it's the same.. go watch everyone is you pushed out.. also, an avoidant issue is your limiting belief and that's why you have that experience. she has videos on how to change someone, check that out..
❤️
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Sometimes I wish you would be a bit more gender neutral. It's hard to listen to you always talking about a man.
My girlfriend and I have been hit and cold. She keeps breaking up with me.
Anyway.
I'm trying to stay positive.
Love from Sweden