No one "wins" with divorce except the lawyers 💰. Almost all issues in a marriage can be resolved with setting aside the pride of selfishness, a willingness to forgive and to renue the covenant that united husband and wive in the first place. Unfortunately the legal ease of divorce claims to remove pain and to solve everything. Scars produced are usually permanent and affect childen the most
and with famous couples, so many people want to know what happened and most of all, whose fault it was. You can't blame one party in a divorce, it takes two to tango and people need to learn that famous couples are still couples, people with feelings. The fans should forget about their idol's personal lives and concentrate on enjoying the music.
I always said:It's rediculous to say "the winner takes it all" because there is no winner in the case of divorce,there are only two loosers plus children
"Almost all issues in a marriage can be resolved with setting aside the pride of selfishness, a willingness to forgive and to renue the covenant that united husband and wive in the first place." That is true IF husband and wife were a real match in the first place.
Pour ma part, je n'ai que de merveilleux souvenirs de tout le groupe ABBA depuis l'eurovision 1974 et je les regarde et ecoute toujours avec autant d'amour musical
No podemos juzgar esta historia solo ellos tienen su verdad y es válida. Me quedo con el legado musical que dejan para seguir disfrutando esa época donde hay recuerdos, nostalgia y felicidad. Las letras de sus canciones algunas son profundas y llevan a la reflexión. Es lamentable lo que sucedió en la vida de Agnetha pero hoy en su vejez se ve tranquila y en paz y eso es excelente. 💖💖🙏🙏🌷🌷
Sure, only human as human can be. Don’t down play two of the most beautiful vocalists in the world. They avoided the media simply for this reason. We expect them to be as perfect as there music. Thank god they didn’t sell there souls. RESPECT ❤
Life is never about being a winner as all of us are insecure but hide it and as the song was written in a drunken stuper where his emotions all came out mixed up the real winner is your consciounce as you can always pretend your happy but in realty your not .Life is a fight to survive
Please don't feed the fantasies of the more excitable fans. Divorce is painful but in a unhappy relationship that is only getting worse, it can be relief to both parties. Some fans bizarrely really want to portray Agnetha as being completely subservient. She was sensitive and had anxiety issues but she was also driven and known to have a fierce temper, something she herself admits to. ABBA was made up of four strong characters who could be stubborn and not give way over decisions without a fight. It's frankly insulting to Agnetha to cast her as some weakling who depended on Bjorn. ABBA DID NOT fold with this marriage collapse in late 1978. The group went on for another four full years, creating three more studio albums plus the 1982 singles including many of their finest work. They continued to go on promotion visits abroad plus embarked on concert tours of North America, Europe and Japan in 1979-80. I think it needs reminding too that Agnetha did not stop her singing career after ABBA effectively became inactive. She recorded three solo albums during the 1980's and even travelled to a Los Angeles studio for the last of those. There are some really fanciful notions put about. Nobody 'used' anyone in the two ABBA marriages. All four were successful recording artists before ABBA formed. Benny and Bjorn were the 'in house' producers for Polar as well as songwriters for other artists. The two couples in ABBA became romantically involved a full three years before the group recorded its first official single. They loved each other, they fell out of love. It happens to tens, maybe hundreds of millions of people around the world every year and it doesn't matter whether you are rich, poor or in a famous Pop band or not. It's just life.
They were such a great band and the music immortalised now. How many coiples split up. They are a kind of fairytale to us fans but really just talented people with all the same problems and desires we all have. As mentioned here. We are still very lucky to have had them in our lives. The world of music is a better place because of them.
Agnetha ist eine sensible Frau , die Mutter geworden war.Sie konnte oder wollte nicht so viel reisen.Agnetha wurde der " Rummel " um Abba zuviel.Meinen größten Respekt auch dafür das sie den Song " The winner take it all." gesungen hat.Ihre Emotionen kamen an.❤
I was born in 1951 (like she was) and enjoyed (still do) all of ABBA's music since the early 1970s ... picked up "ABBA Gold" and "More ABBA Gold" later in life when these albums were released ... thank you for the music ... from Canada eh.
What a sad, unfair, and one-sided slant on things. Bjorn was so 'distraught', he found another woman one week after they parted. Then he left her when she became ill & found another younger woman to adore him in the manner he needed. He also was an absent father to his first two children.
TOO COLD BLOODED ABANDONED AGNETHA WHEN SHE GOT SICK AGNETHA MADE HIS SONGS FAMOUS WITHOUT HER VOICE WHO WOULD KNOW THEM,HE LOVED HER WHEN SHE WAS SHINING BEAUTY WITH MAGNIFICENT VOICE WHEN THIS PERFECT IMAGE STARTED TO CRACK HE DIDN'T WANT HER ANYMORE WHAT A CRUEL BEHAVIOUR TO THE MOTHER OF HIS KIDS, AGNETHA LOVED HIM SO MUCH SINCE SHE WAS 18 YEARS OLD,HE KNEW HOW SENSITIVE SHE WAS BUT STILL HE BEHAVED SO COLD BLOODED!!! AGNETHA HAS FALLEN IN NERVOUS BREAKDOWN AND PLUS THE LOSS OF HER PARENTS LED HER GRADUALLY IN HEAVY DEPRESSION AVOIDING PEOPLE AVOIDING PUBLIC,AVOIDING MUSIC,BECOMING RECLOSURE AND ABANDONING HER CAREER,SUCH A GREAT VOICE HAVING STOPPED SINGING!!!HER SENSITIVITY DESTROYED HER AND THERE WAS NOONE TO HOLD HER HAND,ALL THE MEN THAT FOLLOWED NOT WORTHY!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
There are somethings that need not be shared,and besides which side of the story is being broadcast. Let’s just remember ABBA as one of the greatest entertainment groups that we have had the privilege to hear.
How do you know this. Maybe when they wasn't performing on stage and they were at the house and their private life maybe she was a bitch and really hard to get along with.. we don't know we don't know what happened between the two of them
Mental illness she needed help. He should stand by her. Husband and wife until death do us both until death?! I am Roman Catholic and former Marine Corps recon scout sniper. Then a police officer and SWAT SNIPER for 23 years. You talk about PTSD! I got help well into my 40s. I was born 2 to 3 months premature too. My learning utilities suffered. I understand her so well. My Girlfriend stood by me for 15 years. We broke up after our son was born premature as well but died. Instead of crying on her shoulders I got drunk and hated my religion! I lost everything I ever loved. But I came back to God and Jesus Christ. Life has gotten better. But the hurt and black hole in me never heals. I can't take my own life being Catholic. Semper Fi dear lady.
Easly said. Have you tried to deal with a mentally disturbed person? You can't. There is no effective treatment for complex disturbances, either. It's an illusion.
@@danutahanyga4834 death until US apart dumb ass he sign on for everything. He is a coward! He divorced his 2nd wife because she was getting to old for him. So he married a lady 25 or 30 years younger. Then tells everyone he gets sex 5 times a day what a guy!
Benny made the biggest mistake when he divorced the beautiful and intelligent and talent Anni-Frida. She was a wonderful woman then, and has been wonderful ever since as she has helped with so many charities.
Both Bjorn & Benny did not care about their wife, they heartlessly and carelessly abandoned them. They were cold, distant & aloof. They started a new life like nothing happened & left their wife broken hearted.😮😮
Why you are so desperate to create stories, where we should not be interested, it is their private life, we love their music, and that is what is important
She never had an affair. Watch the videos and you will see him flirting with the young and i mean young girls while on stage with his wife up there with him.
Forget about who won who lost. they were seeking stardom as a young couple in the most cruel musical business, yes they got together, and at that time needed each other to be successful in their trade. This took a massive parts of their-lives relationship, and in life you seek different things, to go foreword and be successful. In divorce theres no winers, probably money wise yes, but loosing your loved one is devastating. Bjorn needed his freedom so he could expand mentally in his music creations, he didn’t externally suffer, then again he probably did internally yes .Agnatha suffered mentally which hurt her more, is that worse. “The winner Takes it all the looser has to fall”. who’s to say there was a winner or a looser, we’ve all been there at some point in our lives. The winner is life. The looser are the fans, but ABBA leave a legacy of beautiful music, and we can put our own words and feelings to the music they created for us🎶 “So i say thank you for the music the song your singing thanks for all the joy your bringing who can live with-it. you know the words. Just to say thanks for giving it to me???😄😀😆😆😆❤️❤️❤️🇬🇧🇬🇧
It's a disgrace that someone would do such a reprehensible exposé of the private life of one of the best bands in the world as a way of attracting subscribers. What's more, he doesn't even know the truth, he just writes something shameful. Let's hope the fans don't care.
This was a video with remarkable insight, I have always adored Agnetha her voice and her music and always felt an empathy for her however I always thought that there was and underlying tone within something deep going on, then after her mothers suicide I realised that it was very probable that Agnetha had in fact inherited some of her mothers genes containing depression. But considering all that look what she gave the world. The most fantastic amazing voice that has never altered nor faltered in 50 years. What a gift and I am so grateful I was of the generation who was there to experience, ABBA and Agnetha, for of this I am certain, there will never be another, of either.
Divorce is ugly enough without it being in the spotlight as well. I think they handled it very well considering. ABBA have never been anything other than gracious and very professional in everything❤❤❤❤❤
In a divorce, especially when children are involved, THERE ARE NO WINNER. One might suffer a bit less than the other, regardless of who filed first, everyone loses. Young children involved are the ones that pay the biggest price of all, because they live and grow up with the guilt that it is their fault. As beautiful and painful THE WINNER TAKES IT ALL is, (and I never get tired of listening to it), there are NO WINNERS IN A DIVORCE, ONLY PAINFUL MEMORIES FOR THE REST OF THE COUPLE'S LIFE.
I read the ABBA biography , “Bright Lights, Dark Shadows”, the best ABBA biography, imo. I came away with the impression that Bjorn never tried to understand Agnetha. He did not understand her pain in leaving the children so much and her real happiness at being a family at home. Bjorn, to me is the brains and the rudder of ABBA, on the business side. He can be quite ruthless about getting his own way. I think he had his new wife lined up long before Agnetha realized the marriage was over. He is quite strategic and focused when he wants something. Agnetha is a very sensitive soul that needed a great deal of reassurance from her husband at that time. She suffered from paranoia because the world became a scary place for her. As can happen when you feel alone and not supported emotionally . They were not on the same page about giving each other what they each needed. She needed a lot support and he needed to be going forward with his ideas. It was a very difficult situation and, yes, the winner did take it all.
Sad that a great band had toend up eith two divorces of the pair of husbansand wives. The 2 women went on with their individual solo career but the men faded into obscurity even though they wre the creative geniuses of the band. Frida married a member of an Eurioean royal family and became a queen. Agnetha became a recluse. ABBA's reign was short but their nusic lives on.....
Ordinary on the outside, brilliant on the inside. Benny wrote great melodies, Bjorn wrote great words. The mystery is not this, but how an ordinary Swedish band, with ordinary melodies and words, suddenly began to write bestseller after bestseller. No group in the world has sung so many amazing and magical things, in different variations. Songs that never get old. What a mystery, what a mystery 🙃
Björn did not find a younger woman at all as Lena Kallersjö was a year older than Agnetha. Lena was born in 1949 Agnetha was born in 1950. A lot of your facts are incorrect. You can't even pronounce her name.
Je suis écoeurée , révoltée et en colère par tout ceux qui laissent des commentaires faux sur ABBA . Bjorn n'a pas attendu 2 semaines pour se remarier après son divorce avec Agnetha , mais bien 2 ans , il n'a pas abandonné sa seconde femme malade , c'est là encore un tissu de mensonge , il n'a pas eu de liaisons avec une nounou pour enfants . Agnetha n'a jamais eu de liaisons avec Benny . Comment les gens peuvent raconter des mensonges écoeurants sur un groupe tel que ABBA . C'est le meilleur groupe qui puisse exister . Tous ces cons qui racontent ces tissus de mensonges , sont peut être jaloux de leur retour à la musique .
Corect! De ce să arunci așa mizerii? Toți cei care iubesc Abba nu dau doi bani pe prostiile astea! Am doi copii adolescenți, care ascultă cu plăcere muzica lor. Cred că asta e cel mai important :muzica lor dăinuie în timp si este ascultată de toate generațiile!
When the going got tough, the not so tough got going. So I guess Agneta was not that close to her band “sister.””Astrid, 😊Because she wasn’t mentioned at all and they said she had no friend to talk to. That means they’re not that close.
Why does there have to be a "winner" anyways? Both are winners because they both were successful in their musical careers. Agnetha might be the winner in the sense of that is who most think of first when Abba gets mentioned.
En tu título y nota solo se trata de lo que Bjorn " confirma"sobre el matrimonio y Agnetha , pero una pareja la conforman dos personas, ahora sería prudente que hicieras otra nota donde mostras e informás que "confirma" Agnetha acerca de lo que fué su matrimonio y lo que tiene que decir de Bjorn, un trato justo no crees?????
Sylvie, I totally agree with you. How can anyone really know what goes on behind closed doors? I think they were both two good decent people who perhaps just grew apart from each other.
@@sylvierau3208 Well actually Bjorn had said that in an interview on his own words and perception.He was quite gentle and non-judgemental on Agnetha but nice and rather nostalgic.
@@kathleenolszewski7982 Both decent imo.No one blamed each other.Btw in the book i have read "Abba in their own words" compiled by Rosemary York early '80s Agnetha stated how "bad it hurt" after they got seperated.But they tried hard to save it and couldn't work.She also wasn't negatively possesed on Bjorn for anything but was discreet.It's in their humble nature i guess.They are loveable people.
I think that is too harsh you said Agnetha was a loser. She's not a loser. She didn't want the divorce. Bjorn talked her into getting a divorce. Why she's so distraught over the divorce. Would you. I feel sorry for Agnetha. She has been through a lot since the 70s. Take it easy with her. She is a lovable woman.
If Agnetha was not that attractive, the world would not have cared that much about her divorce. Beauty is power and that is true, BUT beauty is not a garantee for happiness and that is more important!
AGNETHA THE BEAUTIFUL BLONDIE WITH THE MAGNIFICENT VOICE SO SENSITIVE AND EMOTIONAL SO IN LOVE WITH BJORN THAT HE COULDN'T STAND IT,HE ABANDONED HER WHEN SHE GOT SICK,TOO CRUEL,HE WAS THE WINNER TAKES IT ALL,CAREER AND LIFE THRIVED,WHEN AGNETHA ABANDONED HER CAREER SOME YEARS LATER AND HER LIFE FULL OF MISERY AND MENTAL ISSUES AGNETHA WAS THE LOSER WHO FALL, AGNETHA COULDN'T STAND THE HARD WORLD OF POP AND SHE BROKE,HE WAS HER MENTOR AND HER SUPPORTING HAND WITHOUT HIM SHE FELL INTO RECLOSURE AND DEPRESSION!!!❤❤❤❤❤
It is virtually impossible to deal with a loved one who is mentally ill even if you love them unconditionally, and at some point, no matter how painful, self preservation kicks in and you must leave or be destroyed. The photo that catches attention here is of Agnatha kissing Freda. There are other photos purporting to show the same thing although none have implied, as here, that if such a relationship existed it somehow was determinative in Björn and Agnatha separating. Their lives have all the elements of Greek tragedy. Happily, time and their very real love for each other appears to have allowed both to heal the pain. Amor Vinci Omni.😢❤😅 Unfortunately for the other superb voice of our time, Karen Carpenter, death precluded a happy ending.
@@jamesshea9575 BJORN HAS MET AGNETHA WHEN SHE WAS JUST 18 YEARS OLD HE LOVED HER WHEN SHE WAS BEAUTIFUL AND HEALTHY BUT WHEN SHE BROKE HE ABANDONDED HER, HE WAS VERY CRUEL WHEN HE KNEW HOW SENSITIVE SHE WAS,HE NEEDED HER FOR HIS CAREER WHEN THE PERFECT AGNETHA STARTED CRACKING HE DIDN'T WANT HER ANYMORE,HE LEFT HER TO CONTINUE THE DOWNFALL TO MENTAL ILLNESS AND DESTRUCTION ,NOW AGNETHA IS STAYING AWAY FROM EVERYTHING LIKE A PRISONER IN HER HOUSE FORTUNETLY SHE HAS HER KIDS AND HER ANIMALS,SUCH A GREAT VOICE DESTROYED BY HER SENSITIVITY AND THE CRUELTY OF THE MAN SHE LOVED THE MOST,THE OTHERS WERE PAINKILLERS, AGNETHA IS THE KIND OF PERSON THAT REALLY LOVES ONCE!!!♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@@SCARAMOUSXL5 From what I have read Agnatha hates the portrayal you have depicted. She said she is not a “Garbo” hiding at home. In the not too recent past she may have used seclusion to heal her psyche, but she has long since emerged as a competent and successful performer. She has made a number of excellent and successful albums as a solo artist. Her psychological problems have been treated by professionals, and she has appeared with the other three members of the group in cordial, even loving, settings over the decades. She had a successful career both before and after meeting and falling in love with Bjorn (and he with her) as did the other three members of the group. In my opinion Agnatha has emerged as a strong, loving, and brutally honest person who richly deserves the adoration we fans continue to bestow on her as an icon of her craft. And the way she sings and performs all her moving songs bespeak her many virtues. Quite a remarkable person, God love her.
@@SCARAMOUSXL5 You Say right , I agree 100% , that s the truth ,sadly about each of them and their relationshiop...i am in my 60' d and stilul adore Abba , Agnetha ' s magical talent and beauty, never been a fan of Bjorn, yet i respect jos talent also
I think that Agneatha came out only very slightly the winner, if in fact Bjorn was with a wandering eye. I am so loyal a fan of ABBA as to not point a finger rashly at either Bjorn or Agneatha because I don't know the detailed facts behind their divorce. I hope they can...patch it up together!?
كل ما في الامر Agnetha شعرت بعدم الأمان .. الذي المفروض تحصل عليه من زوجها .. وعند الانفصال زادت الأمور صعوبة ... حيث في كل علاقة عادية تمر بحياتنا جعلتها تتمسك به ل تشعر بالأمان . الماضي له دور ايضا بهذة المشكلة .. للأسف . رغم إعجابي بهذا المغنية وحتي هذة اللحظة أقترح كل جديد لها ...إلا انني كنت أشعر دوما لو كنا بجانبها لتشعر بالأمان من كثر ما فهمتها .. .... كنت دوما اشعر دوماً انها تحتاج لانسان يفهمنا قبل ان يحبها ...
Agnetha is 16 years older than me, but she never met me. That's pitty because she got on me a good nice and funny husband if she saw me. But no... it may not be. I wish her good luck in her life. XXX 😘
Being a psychiatrist, I can tell a difference b/w Eastern and Western cultures. In West, husband separated/left and divorced his wife when she really needed his love, care and companionship more than ever. Reverse is the case in East. I know one person whose wife is suffering mentally (Schizophrenia and Fragidity) but he sacrificed everything, every emotion and need for her and still happy, contended and caring.
If you are an Abba fan, that is the most ridiculous thing to say. Without Bjorn and Benny's compositions of all those wonderful songs we wouldn't have been able to hear those out of this world harmonies from Agnetha and Frida. As with a lot of these stories on UA-cam some are twisted, as a few viewers have said, they can't even pronounce the names correctly.
Björn met Lena and started an affair before he and Anna were divorced, he married Lena but 38 years later he leaves her and she also has cancer, now he has married a Danish woman his daughter Linda’s age late 40’s Björn is 80 next year. This commentary is all about Bjorn and a lot of it is so false, Lena had been a friend of Anna’s as well and yet she had an affair with her husband. My respect has gone down for Bjorn after 38 years of marriage with Lena as well that should have been a happy long term relationship it was once, they had two daughters. Now Lena is alone battling her health but she did not respect her friend Agnetha when she started to have a relationship with him. All very sad, Anna wanted to be a mother with less touring Bjorn loved touring and yes their children suffered as Linda stated in an interview recently.
Really sad 😭!! They really need Jesus Christ in they lives 1 and all. I feel for those kids ,they had it rough. Only Jesus Christ can fill the empty void in their life. If only the group knew the difference ❤❤❤
No one "wins" with divorce except the lawyers 💰. Almost all issues in a marriage can be resolved with setting aside the pride of selfishness, a willingness to forgive and to renue the covenant that united husband and wive in the first place. Unfortunately the legal ease of divorce claims to remove pain and to solve everything. Scars produced are usually permanent and affect childen the most
and with famous couples, so many people want to know what happened and most of all, whose fault it was. You can't blame one party in a divorce, it takes two to tango and people need to learn that famous couples are still couples, people with feelings. The fans should forget about their idol's personal lives and concentrate on enjoying the music.
A lesson my ex wife just could not grasp
I always said:It's rediculous to say "the winner takes it all" because there is no winner in the case of divorce,there are only two loosers plus children
"Almost all issues in a marriage can be resolved with setting aside the pride of selfishness, a willingness to forgive and to renue the covenant that united husband and wive in the first place."
That is true IF husband and wife were a real match in the first place.
Pour ma part, je n'ai que de merveilleux souvenirs de tout le groupe ABBA depuis l'eurovision 1974 et je les regarde et ecoute toujours avec autant d'amour musical
No podemos juzgar esta historia solo ellos tienen su verdad y es válida.
Me quedo con el legado musical que dejan para seguir disfrutando esa época donde hay recuerdos, nostalgia y felicidad.
Las letras de sus canciones algunas son profundas y llevan a la reflexión.
Es lamentable lo que sucedió en la vida de Agnetha pero hoy en su vejez se ve tranquila y en paz y eso es excelente.
💖💖🙏🙏🌷🌷
АGNETНА, PERFECTION.
obviously not
Если бы Бог не соединил Агнету и Бьерна, не было бы такого чуда как АВВА.
You're right about that my dear ❤👍❤️
Wow, well said.
@@michaelm3943. 👍
Yes,beautiful tell👍
Sure, only human as human can be.
Don’t down play two of the most beautiful vocalists in the world.
They avoided the media simply for this reason.
We expect them to be as perfect as there music.
Thank god they didn’t sell there souls.
RESPECT ❤
Life is never about being a winner as all of us are insecure but hide it and as the song was written in a drunken stuper where his emotions all came out mixed up the real winner is your consciounce as you can always pretend your happy but in realty your not .Life is a fight to survive
This commentary is full of fantasy & assumption billed as fact. Awful.
agree!!!
Please don't feed the fantasies of the more excitable fans. Divorce is painful but in a unhappy relationship that is only getting worse, it can be relief to both parties. Some fans bizarrely really want to portray Agnetha as being completely subservient. She was sensitive and had anxiety issues but she was also driven and known to have a fierce temper, something she herself admits to. ABBA was made up of four strong characters who could be stubborn and not give way over decisions without a fight. It's frankly insulting to Agnetha to cast her as some weakling who depended on Bjorn.
ABBA DID NOT fold with this marriage collapse in late 1978. The group went on for another four full years, creating three more studio albums plus the 1982 singles including many of their finest work. They continued to go on promotion visits abroad plus embarked on concert tours of North America, Europe and Japan in 1979-80. I think it needs reminding too that Agnetha did not stop her singing career after ABBA effectively became inactive. She recorded three solo albums during the 1980's and even travelled to a Los Angeles studio for the last of those.
There are some really fanciful notions put about. Nobody 'used' anyone in the two ABBA marriages. All four were successful recording artists before ABBA formed. Benny and Bjorn were the 'in house' producers for Polar as well as songwriters for other artists. The two couples in ABBA became romantically involved a full three years before the group recorded its first official single. They loved each other, they fell out of love. It happens to tens, maybe hundreds of millions of people around the world every year and it doesn't matter whether you are rich, poor or in a famous Pop band or not. It's just life.
Falou com sinceridade.
Falou tudo. Concordo.
They were such a great band and the music immortalised now. How many coiples split up. They are a kind of fairytale to us fans but really just talented people with all the same problems and desires we all have. As mentioned here. We are still very lucky to have had them in our lives. The world of music is a better place because of them.
I have always thought that the two ladies of ABBA was so very beautiful and sexy ❤
I totally agree!
Agnetha ist eine sensible Frau , die Mutter geworden war.Sie konnte oder wollte nicht so viel reisen.Agnetha wurde der " Rummel " um Abba zuviel.Meinen größten Respekt auch dafür das sie den Song " The winner take it all." gesungen hat.Ihre Emotionen kamen an.❤
well said. YBBBYOYX
I was born in 1951 (like she was) and enjoyed (still do) all of ABBA's music since the early 1970s ... picked up "ABBA Gold" and "More ABBA Gold" later in life when these albums were released ... thank you for the music ... from Canada eh.
She was born April 1950 the year of the Tiger
The 5th April 1950. 😊
What a sad, unfair, and one-sided slant on things. Bjorn was so 'distraught', he found another woman one week after they parted. Then he left her when she became ill & found another younger woman to adore him in the manner he needed. He also was an absent father to his first two children.
What a shit are you telling.@@Jones-w5i
TOO COLD BLOODED ABANDONED AGNETHA WHEN SHE GOT SICK AGNETHA MADE HIS SONGS FAMOUS WITHOUT HER VOICE WHO WOULD KNOW THEM,HE LOVED HER WHEN SHE WAS SHINING BEAUTY WITH MAGNIFICENT VOICE WHEN THIS PERFECT IMAGE STARTED TO CRACK HE DIDN'T WANT HER ANYMORE WHAT A CRUEL BEHAVIOUR TO THE MOTHER OF HIS KIDS, AGNETHA LOVED HIM SO MUCH SINCE SHE WAS 18 YEARS OLD,HE KNEW HOW SENSITIVE SHE WAS BUT STILL HE BEHAVED SO COLD BLOODED!!! AGNETHA HAS FALLEN IN NERVOUS BREAKDOWN AND PLUS THE LOSS OF HER PARENTS LED HER GRADUALLY IN HEAVY DEPRESSION AVOIDING PEOPLE AVOIDING PUBLIC,AVOIDING MUSIC,BECOMING RECLOSURE AND ABANDONING HER CAREER,SUCH A GREAT VOICE HAVING STOPPED SINGING!!!HER SENSITIVITY DESTROYED HER AND THERE WAS NOONE TO HOLD HER HAND,ALL THE MEN THAT FOLLOWED NOT WORTHY!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@SCARAMOUSXL5. 🤔
@@SCARAMOUSXL5 So true
@@SCARAMOUSXL5 she is the most beautiful blonde in the whole world. She's the winner, because.... she's the most beautiful woman in the whole world.
Angetha, the most beautiful female artist of all time :)
There are somethings that need not be shared,and besides which side of the story is being broadcast. Let’s just remember ABBA as one of the greatest entertainment groups that we have had the privilege to hear.
👍👍
He was way too insecure to be married to the worlds most beautiful women
How do you know this. Maybe when they wasn't performing on stage and they were at the house and their private life maybe she was a bitch and really hard to get along with.. we don't know we don't know what happened between the two of them
Bjorn thinks divorcing his wife when she has TERRIBLE mental health is wrong af
They were both very different people, that's life, when 2 people stop getting along, stop liking each other it's time to move on, Period.
@@michaelm3943 He wanted to tour nonstop while she wanted a couple of weeks with their children
Mental illness she needed help. He should stand by her. Husband and wife until death do us both until death?! I am Roman Catholic and former Marine Corps recon scout sniper. Then a police officer and SWAT SNIPER for 23 years. You talk about PTSD! I got help well into my 40s. I was born 2 to 3 months premature too. My learning utilities suffered. I understand her so well. My Girlfriend stood by me for 15 years. We broke up after our son was born premature as well but died. Instead of crying on her shoulders I got drunk and hated my religion! I lost everything I ever loved. But I came back to God and Jesus Christ. Life has gotten better. But the hurt and black hole in me never heals. I can't take my own life being Catholic. Semper Fi dear lady.
If you ever read her book, then you know most of what was said in this video is untrue.
@@johnwhitmore5408I wanted to read it, but it is so expensive!
Easly said. Have you tried to deal with a mentally disturbed person? You can't. There is no effective treatment for complex disturbances, either. It's an illusion.
@@danutahanyga4834 death until US apart dumb ass he sign on for everything. He is a coward! He divorced his 2nd wife because she was getting to old for him. So he married a lady 25 or 30 years younger. Then tells everyone he gets sex 5 times a day what a guy!
We saw that with the Carpenters. Money, money, money. Stretching the rubber band until it breaks. Ignoring all warnings.
Benny made the biggest mistake when he divorced the beautiful and intelligent and talent Anni-Frida. She was a wonderful woman then, and has been wonderful ever since as she has helped with so many charities.
No,Ludvig was important for Benny and us (Producer Voyage Show) He is a very important supporter for Benny and ABBA
Sometimes, couples fall out of love 😢
Benny went on to have a very happy fulfilling life with Mona, And Frida also went on to Marry several time please stop writing nonsense.
Both Bjorn & Benny did not care about their wife, they heartlessly and carelessly abandoned them. They were cold, distant & aloof. They started a new life like nothing happened & left their wife broken hearted.😮😮
@@michaelm3943 Frida married once after the divorce from Benny.
This is not her mother on the picture, it's Astrid Lindgren! This doesn't seem to be a good researched video!
Lol!Wasn't the only inaccuracy.What an embarrassing lack of credibility.
Why you are so desperate to create stories, where we should not be interested, it is their private life, we love their music, and that is what is important
Jammer dat ze gingen scheiden, dat doet echt pijn ❤❤❤❤ maar ABBA blijft in je hart zitten, en het gaat er ook niet meer uit ❤❤❤❤
She never had an affair. Watch the videos and you will see him flirting with the young and i mean young girls while on stage with his wife up there with him.
So very sad! I always loved ABBA! They are my favorite Swedish band! In divorce no one is the winner!❤
That was the whole trouble really, nepotism.
They should have kept professional friendships and got outside relationships.😢
Forget about who won who lost. they were seeking stardom as a young couple in the most cruel musical business, yes they got together, and at that time needed each other to be successful in their trade. This took a massive parts of their-lives relationship, and in life you seek different things, to go foreword and be successful. In divorce theres no winers, probably money wise yes, but loosing your loved one is devastating. Bjorn needed his freedom so he could expand mentally in his music creations, he didn’t externally suffer, then again he probably did internally yes .Agnatha suffered mentally which hurt her more, is that worse. “The winner Takes it all the looser has to fall”. who’s to say there was a winner or a looser, we’ve all been there at some point in our lives. The winner is life. The looser are the fans, but ABBA leave a legacy of beautiful music, and we can put our own words and feelings to the music they created for us🎶 “So i say thank you for the music the song your singing thanks for all the joy your bringing who can live with-it. you know the words. Just to say thanks for giving it to me???😄😀😆😆😆❤️❤️❤️🇬🇧🇬🇧
It's a disgrace that someone would do such a reprehensible exposé of the private life of one of the best bands in the world as a way of attracting subscribers. What's more, he doesn't even know the truth, he just writes something shameful.
Let's hope the fans don't care.
It is seemed that the reason of the divorce was her relationship with FRIDA!
ABBA es ABBA y lo seguirán siendo porque sembraron su legado para quedarse en la música de siempre
This was a video with remarkable insight, I have always adored Agnetha her voice and her music and always felt an empathy for her however I always thought that there was and underlying tone within something deep going on, then after her mothers suicide I realised that it was very probable that Agnetha had in fact inherited some of her mothers genes containing depression. But considering all that look what she gave the world. The most fantastic amazing voice that has never altered nor faltered in 50 years. What a gift and I am so grateful I was of the generation who was there to experience, ABBA and Agnetha, for of this I am certain, there will never be another, of either.
I -think the same and Bjorn.didn't has sympathy with her. He has a great ego.
Divorce is ugly enough without it being in the spotlight as well. I think they handled it very well considering. ABBA have never been anything other than gracious and very professional in everything❤❤❤❤❤
In a divorce, especially when children are involved, THERE ARE NO WINNER.
One might suffer a bit less than the other, regardless of who filed first, everyone loses.
Young children involved are the ones that pay the biggest price of all, because they live and grow up with the guilt that it is their fault.
As beautiful and painful THE WINNER TAKES IT ALL is, (and I never get tired of listening to it), there are NO WINNERS IN A DIVORCE, ONLY PAINFUL MEMORIES FOR THE REST OF THE COUPLE'S LIFE.
I agree 100%.
Nobody won.There are only two loosers plus children.
I read the ABBA biography , “Bright Lights, Dark Shadows”, the best ABBA biography, imo. I came away with the impression that Bjorn never tried to understand Agnetha. He did not understand her pain in leaving the children so much and her real happiness at being a family at home. Bjorn, to me is the brains and the rudder of ABBA, on the business side. He can be quite ruthless about getting his own way. I think he had his new wife lined up long before Agnetha realized the marriage was over. He is quite strategic and focused when he wants something. Agnetha is a very sensitive soul that needed a great deal of reassurance from her husband at that time. She suffered from paranoia because the world became a scary place for her. As can happen when you feel alone and not supported emotionally . They were not on the same page about giving each other what they each needed. She needed a lot support and he needed to be going forward with his ideas. It was a very difficult situation and, yes, the winner did take it all.
In cases of dvorce,there is no winner,there are only two loosers plus children
Sad that a great band had toend up eith two divorces of the pair of husbansand wives. The 2 women went on with their individual solo career but the men faded into obscurity even though they wre the creative geniuses of the band. Frida married a member of an Eurioean royal family and became a queen. Agnetha became a recluse. ABBA's reign was short but their nusic lives on.....
Frida was a Princess not a queen
Not a Bjorn fan.
Agnetha was an angel. She obviously couldnt handle the star life but Bjorn should have supported her.
Two Beautiful women married to very ordinary looking men thats a mystery.
Ordinary on the outside, brilliant on the inside. Benny wrote great melodies, Bjorn wrote great words.
The mystery is not this, but how an ordinary Swedish band, with ordinary melodies and words, suddenly began to write bestseller after bestseller.
No group in the world has sung so many amazing and magical things, in different variations. Songs that never get old. What a mystery, what a mystery 🙃
@@АлексейАлексеев-ж7р You should be from Sweden.
Ordinary looking ? I don't agree with that & certainly not ordinary men in any way , both extraordinarily talented men!
Benny was a good looking Man under the beard .
Björn did not find a younger woman at all as Lena Kallersjö was a year older than Agnetha. Lena was born in 1949 Agnetha was born in 1950. A lot of your facts are incorrect. You can't even pronounce her name.
Bjorn divorced Lena too. he just remarried again to a woman 25 years younger than he last week. he just can't be alone I guess
Je suis écoeurée , révoltée et en colère par tout ceux qui laissent des commentaires faux sur ABBA . Bjorn n'a pas attendu 2 semaines pour se remarier après son divorce avec Agnetha , mais bien 2 ans , il n'a pas abandonné sa seconde femme malade , c'est là encore un tissu de mensonge , il n'a pas eu de liaisons avec une nounou pour enfants . Agnetha n'a jamais eu de liaisons avec Benny . Comment les gens peuvent raconter des mensonges écoeurants sur un groupe tel que ABBA . C'est le meilleur groupe qui puisse exister . Tous ces cons qui racontent ces tissus de mensonges , sont peut être jaloux de leur retour à la musique .
Corect! De ce să arunci așa mizerii? Toți cei care iubesc Abba nu dau doi bani pe prostiile astea! Am doi copii adolescenți, care ascultă cu plăcere muzica lor. Cred că asta e cel mai important :muzica lor dăinuie în timp si este ascultată de toate generațiile!
When the going got tough, the not so tough got going. So I guess Agneta was not that close to her band “sister.””Astrid, 😊Because she wasn’t mentioned at all and they said she had no friend to talk to. That means they’re not that close.
Agnetha won because she's rid of Bjorn.
Nobody won.There are only two loosers plus children.
Learn how to say the names of your subjects man.
When there is real love there is no divorce
100 percent
Why does there have to be a "winner" anyways? Both are winners because they both were successful in their musical careers.
Agnetha might be the winner in the sense of that is who most think of first when Abba gets mentioned.
There’s no winners everyone looses something
Divorce, try not to.
Astrid Lindgren was not her mother .
It’s only one of lot’s mistakes here .
Bjorn didn't understand what his wife was going trough
En tu título y nota solo se trata de lo que Bjorn " confirma"sobre el matrimonio y Agnetha , pero una pareja la conforman dos personas, ahora sería prudente que hicieras otra nota donde mostras e informás que "confirma" Agnetha acerca de lo que fué su matrimonio y lo que tiene que decir de Bjorn, un trato justo no crees?????
Agnetha I believe likes being on her own now.
Perception of divorce is not the same for men and women, the stakes are completely different...
Together they are and will continue to be great, once separate they will start nosedive into oblivion. 😮 Lovely foursome!
C'est du grand n'importe quoi . Ce sont des idioties honteuses . Renseignez vous avant de poster des commentaires débiles
Sylvie, I totally agree with you. How can anyone really know what goes on behind closed doors? I think they were both two good decent people who perhaps just grew apart from each other.
@@kathleenolszewski7982 "we grew apart" was one big reason admitted in own words said about the divorce btw.
Personne ne peut dire pourquoi Bjorn et Agnetha ont divorcés . En tout cas pas à d'un adultère
@@sylvierau3208 Well actually Bjorn had said that in an interview on his own words and perception.He was quite gentle and non-judgemental on Agnetha but nice and rather nostalgic.
@@kathleenolszewski7982 Both decent imo.No one blamed each other.Btw in the book i have read "Abba in their own words" compiled by Rosemary York early '80s Agnetha stated how "bad it hurt" after they got seperated.But they tried hard to save it and couldn't work.She also wasn't negatively possesed on Bjorn for anything but was discreet.It's in their humble nature i guess.They are loveable people.
Il ne faut jamais dire''fontaine je ne boirai pas de ton eau😢🙏
I love ABBA!
These videos are sick. I am not going to watch any more. This man should be ashamed of the stress he is putting her through.
Bjorn is the winner and Annetha is the losser because she has no support from any one .
I think that is too harsh you said Agnetha was a loser. She's not a loser. She didn't want the divorce. Bjorn talked her into getting a divorce. Why she's so distraught over the divorce. Would you. I feel sorry for Agnetha. She has been through a lot since the 70s. Take it easy with her. She is a lovable woman.
If Agnetha was not that attractive, the world would not have cared that much about her divorce. Beauty is power and that is true, BUT beauty is not a garantee for happiness and that is more important!
Without her he had no Abbba ,,those beautiful talented girls , they had to live in the spotlight create be mothers, wives , he made her insecure ,
Agnetha should have married me!
AGNETHA THE BEAUTIFUL BLONDIE WITH THE MAGNIFICENT VOICE SO SENSITIVE AND EMOTIONAL SO IN LOVE WITH BJORN THAT HE COULDN'T STAND IT,HE ABANDONED HER WHEN SHE GOT SICK,TOO CRUEL,HE WAS THE WINNER TAKES IT ALL,CAREER AND LIFE THRIVED,WHEN AGNETHA ABANDONED HER CAREER SOME YEARS LATER AND HER LIFE FULL OF MISERY AND MENTAL ISSUES AGNETHA WAS THE LOSER WHO FALL, AGNETHA COULDN'T STAND THE HARD WORLD OF POP AND SHE BROKE,HE WAS HER MENTOR AND HER SUPPORTING HAND WITHOUT HIM SHE FELL INTO RECLOSURE AND DEPRESSION!!!❤❤❤❤❤
It is virtually impossible to deal with a loved one who is mentally ill even if you love them unconditionally, and at some point, no matter how painful, self preservation kicks in and you must leave or be destroyed. The photo that catches attention here is of Agnatha kissing Freda. There are other photos purporting to show the same thing although none have implied, as here, that if such a relationship existed it somehow was determinative in Björn and Agnatha separating. Their lives have all the elements of Greek tragedy. Happily, time and their very real love for each other appears to have allowed both to heal the pain. Amor Vinci Omni.😢❤😅 Unfortunately for the other superb voice of our time, Karen Carpenter, death precluded a happy ending.
@@jamesshea9575 BJORN HAS MET AGNETHA WHEN SHE WAS JUST 18 YEARS OLD HE LOVED HER WHEN SHE WAS BEAUTIFUL AND HEALTHY BUT WHEN SHE BROKE HE ABANDONDED HER, HE WAS VERY CRUEL WHEN HE KNEW HOW SENSITIVE SHE WAS,HE NEEDED HER FOR HIS CAREER WHEN THE PERFECT AGNETHA STARTED CRACKING HE DIDN'T WANT HER ANYMORE,HE LEFT HER TO CONTINUE THE DOWNFALL TO MENTAL ILLNESS AND DESTRUCTION ,NOW AGNETHA IS STAYING AWAY FROM EVERYTHING LIKE A PRISONER IN HER HOUSE FORTUNETLY SHE HAS HER KIDS AND HER ANIMALS,SUCH A GREAT VOICE DESTROYED BY HER SENSITIVITY AND THE CRUELTY OF THE MAN SHE LOVED THE MOST,THE OTHERS WERE PAINKILLERS, AGNETHA IS THE KIND OF PERSON THAT REALLY LOVES ONCE!!!♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Beautiful lady
@@SCARAMOUSXL5 From what I have read Agnatha hates the portrayal you have depicted. She said she is not a “Garbo” hiding at home. In the not too recent past she may have used seclusion to heal her psyche, but she has long since emerged as a competent and successful performer. She has made a number of excellent and successful albums as a solo artist. Her psychological problems have been treated by professionals, and she has appeared with the other three members of the group in cordial, even loving, settings over the decades. She had a successful career both before and after meeting and falling in love with Bjorn (and he with her) as did the other three members of the group. In my opinion Agnatha has emerged as a strong, loving, and brutally honest person who richly deserves the adoration we fans continue to bestow on her as an icon of her craft. And the way she sings and performs all her moving songs bespeak her many virtues. Quite a remarkable person, God love her.
@@SCARAMOUSXL5 You Say right , I agree 100% , that s the truth ,sadly about each of them and their relationshiop...i am in my 60' d and stilul adore Abba , Agnetha ' s magical talent and beauty, never been a fan of Bjorn, yet i respect jos talent also
I think that Agneatha came out only very slightly the winner, if in fact Bjorn was with a wandering eye. I am so loyal a fan of ABBA as to not point a finger rashly at either Bjorn or Agneatha because I don't know the detailed facts behind their divorce. I hope they can...patch it up together!?
You don't hurt the one that you love, you do not hurt the one that loves you .....
Vous Demeurez Dans Nos Cœurs 🧡 Willy
That your post sucks?
Never take long to get another woman for a man ,,,,,
ABBA De Nuestra Vida. Willy
كل ما في الامر Agnetha شعرت بعدم الأمان .. الذي المفروض تحصل عليه من زوجها .. وعند الانفصال زادت الأمور صعوبة ... حيث في كل علاقة عادية تمر بحياتنا جعلتها تتمسك به ل تشعر بالأمان . الماضي له دور ايضا بهذة المشكلة .. للأسف .
رغم إعجابي بهذا المغنية وحتي هذة اللحظة أقترح كل جديد لها ...إلا انني كنت أشعر دوما لو كنا بجانبها لتشعر بالأمان من كثر ما فهمتها .. .... كنت دوما اشعر دوماً انها تحتاج لانسان يفهمنا قبل ان يحبها ...
Björn fled …….. for better or for worse wasn’t in his book ……he left her at her most vulnerable moment
Agnetha was too attractive for him anyway. Everyone I knew wanted her in the mid-Seventies.
An-yeta.... Not Ag-nita..... You're wellkum
No. An-yeta is the american way of pronounce her name. Listen how she pronounce it. There is no y anywhere.
It's closer to Ann' netta ua-cam.com/video/5HJmW8EY8m0/v-deo.html
@@teromattila3657 She must be american then because its the way she explains how to pronounce it in videos.
Well said. Still it’s what you expect from an American. Dreadful load of nonsense about Agnetha. Beautiful and hugely talented lady.
Agnetha is 16 years older than me, but she never met me. That's pitty because she got on me a good nice and funny husband if she saw me. But no... it may not be. I wish her good luck in her life. XXX 😘
Agnetha wasxthe most beautiful woman in the world and so very talented
It's funny how the woman he married, is the image of Agnetha!!!
One of the greatest Bands. I guess to somebody but I know They're not bad but i'm not going to The best band
why they never see the truth ( one of the two girls in this time 1980 was chiring she was with both gays of the grup ABBA ITS OK SEE THE TRUTH
Being a psychiatrist, I can tell a difference b/w Eastern and Western cultures. In West, husband separated/left and divorced his wife when she really needed his love, care and companionship more than ever. Reverse is the case in East. I know one person whose wife is suffering mentally (Schizophrenia and Fragidity) but he sacrificed everything, every emotion and need for her and still happy, contended and caring.
Cough...honour killings, Burkas and Sharia mandated beatings et al!
Never liked those short men!
If you are an Abba fan, that is the most ridiculous thing to say. Without Bjorn and Benny's compositions of all those wonderful songs we wouldn't have been able to hear those out of this world harmonies from Agnetha and Frida.
As with a lot of these stories on UA-cam some are twisted, as a few viewers have said, they can't even pronounce the names correctly.
You need to learn how to pronounce agnetha
You need to learn that all names should be typed and written with capital letters
Unless the use of lowercase is meant as deliberate disregard.
These type of videos pop up randomly, no one knows who’s behind all this crap!!
Born is the man and is honest about it
Hmm? Material success is no guarantee of personal happiness? Who'd a guessed?
Björn met Lena and started an affair before he and Anna were divorced, he married Lena but 38 years later he leaves her and she also has cancer, now he has married a Danish woman his daughter Linda’s age late 40’s Björn is 80 next year.
This commentary is all about Bjorn and a lot of it is so false, Lena had been a friend of Anna’s as well and yet she had an affair with her husband.
My respect has gone down for Bjorn after 38 years of marriage with Lena as well that should have been a happy long term relationship it was once, they had two daughters. Now Lena is alone battling her health but she did not respect her friend Agnetha when she started to have a relationship with him.
All very sad, Anna wanted to be a mother with less touring Bjorn loved touring and yes their children suffered as Linda stated in an interview recently.
" ican feel a shit coming on " " i can smell it too !"
АGNETНА , GODDESS
Take up again later. Great backroumd information
This is seriously crap!!!
ONE WOMAN OF THE ABBA GRUP SHE WAS WITH TWO OF THE GAYS ABBA ... CHIRING
The person wrote the song gain more
Bjorn is the winner
Was doing ok till he found religion ,now hes a bjorn again Christian 😊
Really sad 😭!! They really need Jesus Christ in they lives 1 and all. I feel for those kids ,they had it rough. Only Jesus Christ can fill the empty void in their life. If only the group knew the difference ❤❤❤
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This is a biased video. Waste of time watching
The winner is the one who kept the kids
I'M ALWAYS FEARFUL OF GIANT CHEESE BALLS CRUSHING ME!
No one is th winner,everyone is th loser.
Their Own version of
Fleetwood Mac and their
RUMOURS.
It's not! Ag-na-ther...it's Ann-yet-ter or Ann-yet-a