This would not be realistic. No way mistress and wife be in same room all blissful. I could only imagine all the times his lips touch her and be sick. Nope I couldn't go back could only look forward.
I would also be envisioning all the times he held her, spent nights with her, went bankrupt for her, went places with her and all the rotten, horrible things he said to me including that he loved her and that I was boring. Ruined the family, ruined and traumatized the child they had together, was wishy washy, then asked for a divorce. Nope, she couldn't come within 5 ft of me, him, the business, or the city. As if ruining their reputation wasn't enough, she'd be all smiley with me? Nope!!
@@brendaturner8742 gosh, putting it that way, I probably would have a lot of problems even being in the same room/area with him. Being married and told by your spouse they love someone else snd know they’re with them instead of you while still married, I just couldn’t.
Not just the lips..lol, id think of everytime he buried himself in her, and he would never be with me again. I also don't think he truly loved the mistress, I think he was infatuated with a younger woman..like wife said in one episode what happens when mistress gets older, will you look for another younger one?
Women go through menopause at around their forties - hormonal changes. Men also go through that and especially when they're in their forties or fifties. When their family's not around them in a foreign country what do you expect them to do in their down time ... sit in the big empty house watch TV or knit ... Anyway I don't condone what lihai did and I think he's a jerk and he lost his way and priorities. Revenge is not the correct option. Taking revenge on your own spouse because he betrayed you will not necessarily bring happiness ....
So disappointed in the story line no 1 if the husband chose the mistress because he can't live without her how can he just have stop loving her then runs to his wife just like that now the lawyer who liked the wife likes the mistress and the poor wife she just forgets everything the husband did the worst betrayal ever writer wake up you had a good plot and ruined it
Mistress gave up because wife told her she could have him. Mistress wanted to be the one to dump him after she fell for a YOUNGER and single guy. She wanted to be the winner. Didn't realize wife will quit fighting for the marriage. Nothing but stupid writers GLORIFYING CHEATERS. And yes no smart exes would forgive a cheater. Its like putting on your dirty underwear after a bath
I guess this is what the writer is hoping for that sweethearts and wives will live in harmony. I think there's a big lesson here. We tend to blame the women when the men are to be blamed. If the side didn't push him away, he wouldn't have left. The side is telling us that we do not need to crush a marriage. We have the grit to use our conscience and walk away. I think the story is very important. I also believe he loves his wife, but he just needed a nudge and a break away from the side distraction. The takeaway here is enormous.❤
To say that the wife is magnanimous in every way is an understatement. She deserves a lot lot more than what she is bargaining for. BUT we have to accept that if she is happy and content to the result at the end, ces't la vie.
Ни фига! Семья как дышло, куда мужчина повернул, туда и вышло. Видимо в Китае тоже кризис семьи, не работают коммунистические нормы морали, а общечеловеческие не прижились. Впрочем, как всегда- женщины терпят, мужчины делают «ошибки». Но природа человеческого паразитизма так и не раскрыта
Dumbest script ever, she would of got together with the young lawyer abd dumped the cheat ex-husband once a cheat always a cheat! THE MISTRESS IS PRESENT AS WELL. THIS IS VERY STUPID.
No entran en mi cabeza estos argumentos y menos estos finales, pero llegue a la conclusion que hoy en dia, algunas culturas aun viven como en la epoca de las dinastias, donde los hombres tenian esposas, concubinas y amantes y los llenaban de hijos. Y todos felices. 🤦♀
Mais um dorama ridículo... e eu não aprendo continuo vendo estas mulheres sendo humilhadas, diminuídas, e aceitando tudo numa boa. Fico me perguntando se é ficção ou a realidade delas é assim mesmo. Acho que agora vou parar de assistir definitivamente. Tem muitas outras opções coreanas muito mais agradáveis e prazerosas. Dá nos nervos estas histórias exibidas pelo UA-cam
La pregunta que me surge una y otra vez en cada video, viendo la enorme cantidad de comentarios insatisfechos con el final y con las actitudes de cada uno de los protagonistas a lo largo de la historia, es cuál fue la reaccion de la teleaudiencia china? Allá les gusto el final de siempre, donde una mujer traicionada, deshonrada, preterida, se somete, perdona y vuelve con el marido?
Pensamos lo mismo,el autor tiene que ensenarle a la mujer Chinese a respect ella misma,no recoger lo que ha b traicionado,si alguien me cambria porque a Volver a recibir,el hara lo mismo,porque si personal una vez,el espera que le perdone otra vez.😊
Considero que si este personaje femenino hubiera nacido en cualquier otro lugar del mundo, por su calidad de mujer, actuaría de la misma manera. Mis respetos para las mujeres y hombres, dondequiera que hayan tenido la oportunidad de nacer.
@@guadaluperoman2981 si. Hay mujeres así en todo el mundo. Yo misma cedí absurdamente y no vale la pena pues solo encoraja mas a quien deshonra. Lo que preguntaba es por la novela. No me parece bien que una y otra vez, por no decir siempre, en las novelas chinas la esposa sea tan magnánimo, sumisa y perdonar tanto. La TV educa. Eso no está bien. Al final ella se fue a acompañar a la hija a Canadá, dejando solo aun marido cincuentón millonario. Que la amante al final se arrepienta e empuje al América hacia la esposa es ridículo. Que la esposa perdone y sigan juntos, también. Lo que acabo, acabo. Las relaciones amorosas son como cristales. El amor se va transformando y es inevitable pero que perdure es trabajo diario. Cuando el cristal se trizas, no es más un cristal, es cristal trizado. La forma en que el mira a la amante lo dice todo. Y que esa amante se vaya a trabajar con el después de tantas cosas que pasaron, también. En la vida real, la esposa está destinada a cargar cuernos de por vida.
I hated this story. Why do all these women forgive and reunite with cheaters as if nothing happened?! The women are so much better than the scumbags. Be thankful you divorced and move on!
Horrible drama. La esposa enamorada del esposo, pero el esposo un sinvergüenza, maltratador, la esposa lo recibe con los brazos abiertos, lo perdona. El papel de la esposa es de una mujer sumisa, ciega, sorda y muda. - 'Felicitaciones a los autores de este drama'.
Боже мой. ЖИЛИ ДОЛГО И СЧАСТЛИВО... БРЕД. такого козла после предательства и измен на кол надо посадить а не жить с ним как не в чем не бывало. Женщины Китая странные... Никакого самоуважения. Лучше одной жить одной чем с таким.
What a bad ending just to prove their culture that men are benevolent even they are bastard... what a bs ch drama... and the wife is a fool .... cheater always a cheater hopehe cheat in you again
Absurdo...como pode se esquecer uma traição e pior , conviverem como se nada tivesse acontecido. É muito machismo desses autores.
Mesmo, a mulher aceita com normalidade e ainda ajuda o marido que andou dormindo com outra, e não se passa nada! 🐮 😣😣
Not necessarily having sex together but that he actually loved the mistress. He was ready and willingly ready to dispose of the wife for the mistress.
Didn't Tingting feel nauseous each time LiHai touched her?
Que triste final.Esposa por tudo que passou,foi humilhada pelo marido,ainda assim o ajudou a recuperar sua empresa,e fica ao seu lado...lamentavel!!
Mas o final é bom.
Любовь зла, полюбишь и козла.
No me gustó el final el esposo tuvo que pensarlo mucho . Aun tiene su corteja en su corazón. Un hombre así no lo quiero.
This would not be realistic. No way mistress and wife be in same room all blissful. I could only imagine all the times his lips touch her and be sick. Nope I couldn't go back could only look forward.
Same here! I could never accept knowing everything he did with her snd was ready to leave me for her.
I would also be envisioning all the times he held her, spent nights with her, went bankrupt for her, went places with her and all the rotten, horrible things he said to me including that he loved her and that I was boring. Ruined the family, ruined and traumatized the child they had together, was wishy washy, then asked for a divorce. Nope, she couldn't come within 5 ft of me, him, the business, or the city. As if ruining their reputation wasn't enough, she'd be all smiley with me? Nope!!
@@brendaturner8742 gosh, putting it that way, I probably would have a lot of problems even being in the same room/area with him.
Being married and told by your spouse they love someone else snd know they’re with them instead of you while still married, I just couldn’t.
Not just the lips..lol, id think of everytime he buried himself in her, and he would never be with me again. I also don't think he truly loved the mistress, I think he was infatuated with a younger woman..like wife said in one episode what happens when mistress gets older, will you look for another younger one?
Women go through menopause at around their forties - hormonal changes. Men also go through that and especially when they're in their forties or fifties. When their family's not around them in a foreign country what do you expect them to do in their down time ... sit in the big empty house watch TV or knit ... Anyway I don't condone what lihai did and I think he's a jerk and he lost his way and priorities.
Revenge is not the correct option. Taking revenge on your own spouse because he betrayed you will not necessarily bring happiness ....
A very nice & touching story of a family together forever binded by love ..no one can separate what God has put together.Amen🙏🏻💝🕊️
Какая плохая концовка, всё довольны, зачем здесь любовница то, бред
She should have left with the lawyer even if she didn’t want to get together with him so 😡 she went back to the husband he didn’t want her 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Agree
So disappointed in the story line no 1 if the husband chose the mistress because he can't live without her how can he just have stop loving her then runs to his wife just like that now the lawyer who liked the wife likes the mistress and the poor wife she just forgets everything the husband did the worst betrayal ever writer wake up you had a good plot and ruined it
Mistress gave up because wife told her she could have him. Mistress wanted to be the one to dump him after she fell for a YOUNGER and single guy. She wanted to be the winner. Didn't realize wife will quit fighting for the marriage.
Nothing but stupid writers GLORIFYING CHEATERS. And yes no smart exes would forgive a cheater. Its like putting on your dirty underwear after a bath
Это не адвокат с любовницей, коллега
I guess this is what the writer is hoping for that sweethearts and wives will live in harmony. I think there's a big lesson here. We tend to blame the women when the men are to be blamed. If the side didn't push him away, he wouldn't have left. The side is telling us that we do not need to crush a marriage. We have the grit to use our conscience and walk away. I think the story is very important. I also believe he loves his wife, but he just needed a nudge and a break away from the side distraction. The takeaway here is enormous.❤
To say that the wife is magnanimous in every way is an understatement. She deserves a lot lot more than what she is bargaining for. BUT we have to accept that if she is happy and content to the result at the end, ces't la vie.
Nope! Could never had taken him back. Never could trust him and the mistress that close together. Nope nope nope!!
🤣🤣🤣
Сказка про белого бычка,все плохие стали хорошими,тишь да гладь,божья благодать.Китайская логика,семья неприкосновенна.
Ни фига! Семья как дышло, куда мужчина повернул, туда и вышло. Видимо в Китае тоже кризис семьи, не работают коммунистические нормы морали, а общечеловеческие не прижились. Впрочем, как всегда- женщины терпят, мужчины делают «ошибки». Но природа человеческого паразитизма так и не раскрыта
Как называется эта дорама?
Nice movie good ending ....happy family.
Dumbest script ever, she would of got together with the young lawyer abd dumped the cheat ex-husband once a cheat always a cheat! THE MISTRESS IS PRESENT AS WELL. THIS IS VERY STUPID.
😁
Shes present because its her project
Ingilızce dizi name
No entran en mi cabeza estos argumentos y menos estos finales, pero llegue a la conclusion que hoy en dia, algunas culturas aun viven como en la epoca de las dinastias, donde los hombres tenian esposas, concubinas y amantes y los llenaban de hijos. Y todos felices. 🤦♀
Its good this was just a story telling a lie!!😂...in real life this won't do!!...man with mistress..yeks sooo dirty!!!
Name of this drama
Married, but available.
Name: The Marriage Secret
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За каждым преуспевающим мужчиной стоит умная женщина.
хорошо сказано.
Санта барбара 💘 зла полюбишь и....Благодарю за перевод. ЗДОРОВЬЯ МИРА ДОБРА !!! ❤ 5:04
Mais um dorama ridículo... e eu não aprendo continuo vendo estas mulheres sendo humilhadas, diminuídas, e aceitando tudo numa boa. Fico me perguntando se é ficção ou a realidade delas é assim mesmo.
Acho que agora vou parar de assistir definitivamente. Tem muitas outras opções coreanas muito mais agradáveis e prazerosas. Dá nos nervos estas histórias exibidas pelo UA-cam
😂
النهاية سخيفة الزوج يستحق أن يعيش بمفرده بعد ترك العشيقة له و الزوجة تستحق رجل افضل يحبها و يحترمها و تحقق استقلالية لنفسها ناجحة
La pregunta que me surge una y otra vez en cada video, viendo la enorme cantidad de comentarios insatisfechos con el final y con las actitudes de cada uno de los protagonistas a lo largo de la historia, es cuál fue la reaccion de la teleaudiencia china? Allá les gusto el final de siempre, donde una mujer traicionada, deshonrada, preterida, se somete, perdona y vuelve con el marido?
Pensamos lo mismo,el autor tiene que ensenarle a la mujer Chinese a respect ella misma,no recoger lo que ha b traicionado,si alguien me cambria porque a Volver a recibir,el hara lo mismo,porque si personal una vez,el espera que le perdone otra vez.😊
Considero que si este personaje femenino hubiera nacido en cualquier otro lugar del mundo, por su calidad de mujer, actuaría de la misma manera. Mis respetos para las mujeres y hombres, dondequiera que hayan tenido la oportunidad de nacer.
@@guadaluperoman2981 si. Hay mujeres así en todo el mundo. Yo misma cedí absurdamente y no vale la pena pues solo encoraja mas a quien deshonra. Lo que preguntaba es por la novela. No me parece bien que una y otra vez, por no decir siempre, en las novelas chinas la esposa sea tan magnánimo, sumisa y perdonar tanto. La TV educa. Eso no está bien. Al final ella se fue a acompañar a la hija a Canadá, dejando solo aun marido cincuentón millonario. Que la amante al final se arrepienta e empuje al América hacia la esposa es ridículo. Que la esposa perdone y sigan juntos, también. Lo que acabo, acabo. Las relaciones amorosas son como cristales. El amor se va transformando y es inevitable pero que perdure es trabajo diario. Cuando el cristal se trizas, no es más un cristal, es cristal trizado. La forma en que el mira a la amante lo dice todo. Y que esa amante se vaya a trabajar con el después de tantas cosas que pasaron, también. En la vida real, la esposa está destinada a cargar cuernos de por vida.
I hated this story. Why do all these women forgive and reunite with cheaters as if nothing happened?! The women are so much better than the scumbags. Be thankful you divorced and move on!
На свадьбе приглосить любовницу, как так возможно. Во всех дорамах золушки всегда унижаютьсч
Сказка невозможная...
😁Все возможно.
Una historia estúpida, como se va perdonar una traición y aún más cada vez que el esposo se encontraba con la amante se volvía loco.
😂
I found that distressing. He was like a sick dogthe way he carried on about the mistress.
Horrible drama. La esposa enamorada del esposo, pero el esposo un sinvergüenza, maltratador, la esposa lo recibe con los brazos abiertos, lo perdona. El papel de la esposa es de una mujer sumisa, ciega, sorda y muda. - 'Felicitaciones a los autores de este drama'.
ตอน38ภาษาไทย
Jerks……
НУ КАК ЭТО НАЗВАТЬ , ПО РУССКИ ЭТО ОЧЕРЕДНОЙ ДУРДОМ . ВСЕ ДОВОЛЬНЫ , ВСЕ СМЕЮТСЯ И ЛЮБОВНИЦА ЗДЕСЬ . МОЕМУ УМУ ЭТА МУТЬ НЕПОСТИЖИМА .
Rotten ending. The cheating man doesn't deserve his wife's love .
Боже мой. ЖИЛИ ДОЛГО И СЧАСТЛИВО... БРЕД. такого козла после предательства и измен на кол надо посадить а не жить с ним как не в чем не бывало. Женщины Китая странные... Никакого самоуважения. Лучше одной жить одной чем с таким.
Totally unrealistic! I have no respect for this woman whatsoever!!!😝
Bad story
Agree
,на щет кола это правильно 5:04
All Chinese dramas have the same plot. Unfaithful husband with mistress. At the end repentant and the wife forgive him. So boring....🥱🥱🥱🥱
wtf c'est le pays des bisounours ...
Hahahahaha oui
ФуФЛО
Hyghyyyyyyyhhhgh
บทเลวร้ายยย
Péssimo...final muito ruim
Se hubiera quedado con el galan mas joven y dejar al viejo traidor infiel el infiel es siempre infiel horrible fin
What a bad ending just to prove their culture that men are benevolent even they are bastard... what a bs ch drama... and the wife is a fool .... cheater always a cheater hopehe cheat in you again