8 Things You Unconsciously Do When Depressed PLUS bonus end clip

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  3 роки тому +6531

    Who is the FRIST and LAST person sees Dream character in this video? Btw, did you see the bonus clip yet? :D

  • @ayushigoswami6300
    @ayushigoswami6300 3 роки тому +5835

    One of the worst things about depression- you want people to notice that you are acting differently, you want them to help you, but when they confront you and try to do so, you want them to leave you alone.

    • @kaikai52720
      @kaikai52720 3 роки тому +143

      for me, i've been living in it for so long, I don't even notice that it's a problem anymore. Most of the time I think it's normal to act this way until someone shows me that its unhealthy

    • @drabnail777
      @drabnail777 3 роки тому +40

      signs youre depressed:
      ypu eat too much or too little
      you sleep too much or too little
      you socalise a lot or you isolate yourself
      you have too much energy or not enough
      what trash, anything is a symptom depression, it is literally in your head, if you think youre ill then youll feel ill. go outside, workout, eat healthy (vegan ideally) do something productive snd worthwile etc.
      You are your only disease and cure
      Edit: Another good inspirational quote is:
      We cannot always change the things that happens to us, but we can always change our reaction to them

    • @Hyeoreo
      @Hyeoreo 3 роки тому +7

      Damn...relate

    • @Cornballmean0
      @Cornballmean0 3 роки тому +88

      @@drabnail777 I see what your saying, but keep in mind these signs are supposed to be considered in relation to how you typically act, so if you are suddenly socializing all the time where you didn’t before, eating almost nothing when you usually would yea 3 meals a day, etc. I agree going out and being productive can help you feel better, but the symptoms described still fit

    • @suhani2668
      @suhani2668 3 роки тому

      I really got used to it

  • @thisissuhweet1505
    @thisissuhweet1505 3 роки тому +8754

    You know what’s depressing? Knowing you’re showing symptoms and trying to prevent yourself from going into a slump - but inevitably falling back into the same depressed routine.
    Edit: Is it sad that I’m not very surprised y’all be going thru it to?

    • @omartlili5849
      @omartlili5849 3 роки тому +135

      I feel you, I'm with you, I'm trying too
      I honestly don't know what else to do, always trying to be better even if it's so hard, I'm with you

    • @AJ-hl6tn
      @AJ-hl6tn 3 роки тому +90

      I used to try to be productive constantly, and I used to feel so energetic when my depression started to kick in. Now its like every ounce of my energy has been wasted, and I’M TIRED ALL THE FREAKING TIME AND IT MAKES ME WANT TO SCREAM BECAUSE ONE JUST CAN’T CONTROL IT.

    • @thisissuhweet1505
      @thisissuhweet1505 3 роки тому +45

      @@omartlili5849 after working against it for so long it just gets exhausting and you reach a state of not being able to care anymore. Before you get there call a doctor or see someone - it will make a difference

    • @thisissuhweet1505
      @thisissuhweet1505 3 роки тому +20

      @@AJ-hl6tn yeah I stopped competing and dropped out of school for a season. Before it gets to that point you should get professional help. It seems exhausting and like a nuisance now but it will help.

    • @laxmipathak5964
      @laxmipathak5964 3 роки тому +3

      I feel it

  • @okkelly6207
    @okkelly6207 3 роки тому +3208

    THIS CHANNEL EDUCATES ME MORE THAN SCHOOL-

    • @oceana4460
      @oceana4460 3 роки тому +18

      SAME!!!

    • @blue-3430
      @blue-3430 3 роки тому +83

      Schools should start teaching kids about mental health issues SOOOO much earlier, and they don’t even do it THAT well in high school,, the most I’ve learned about mental health from school is well... not much now that I think about it. If kids learn about mental health issues early in elementary school it could help SO MANY KIDS. The only reason I found out I had social anxiety was because of content creators being brave enough to open up about theirs. If that hadn’t happened I’d still be asking what was wrong with me. Learning about anxiety in elementary school wouldve saved the little 8 year old me so many years of wondering what the fuck was wrong. It could help so many people, but no let’s teach the kids something that they’ll forget by the time they’re out of here👍

    • @chicagogyrl4846
      @chicagogyrl4846 3 роки тому +9

      @@blue-3430 I believe the early education system puts the responsibility of taking care of a child’s mental health on their parents.

    • @blue-3430
      @blue-3430 3 роки тому +31

      @@chicagogyrl4846 sadly some parents don’t give a shit and awareness would be nice since parents will never know their child as well as that child knows themselves

    • @destaniedillard1001
      @destaniedillard1001 3 роки тому +2

      100😂

  • @kenopsia9013
    @kenopsia9013 3 роки тому +1469

    whenever i have depressive phases i don’t feel sad at all just empty so it’s really comfusing

    • @sophiecasey5475
      @sophiecasey5475 3 роки тому +101

      Ya I kinda just feel blank and have like zero emotion-

    • @danielroach8330
      @danielroach8330 3 роки тому +7

      Same

    • @unsafestwaif
      @unsafestwaif 3 роки тому +8

      @@sophiecasey5475 Yeaa me too

    • @athenaparkoura7761
      @athenaparkoura7761 3 роки тому +35

      I believe called disassociation. It's where you just stiffle your emotions or shift your attention elsewhere in order to place a bumper between yourself and the initial problem. You sometimes see people combat this over-consumption in other ways i.e. substances, media, social situations, sex, and sometimes even throwing themselves into otherwise healthy things such as relationships, work, or exercise.
      I personally go through this and can say it can be both helpful and harmful. Checking your emotions to allow yourself to process them at the proper place and time with proper coping mechanisms is a great thing. However, overtly suppressing yourself will result in these issues surfacing in other aspects of your life. Just be careful. Humans are insanely complex creatures.

    • @aaronposter1052
      @aaronposter1052 3 роки тому +2

      @@athenaparkoura7761 so many nuances to depression and it’s symptoms. How do you explain to people it’s not healthy to throw yourself into exercise or socializing, etc?

  • @ranereverie
    @ranereverie 3 роки тому +2843

    1. Constantly want to socialize
    2. You isolate yourself
    3. You express inappropriate emotions
    4. You react intensely
    5. Your sleeping schedule changes
    6. You get tired easily
    7. Your appetite has changed
    8. You're indeccesive

    • @simonavin3787
      @simonavin3787 3 роки тому +27

      Thank you!

    • @denissegalvan2875
      @denissegalvan2875 3 роки тому +107

      I think I might have depression I don't want to self diagnose tho

    • @toMickorNottoMick
      @toMickorNottoMick 3 роки тому +28

      Hey thanks. I really was too tired to watch the whole vid, lol. You rock

    • @waterohya
      @waterohya 3 роки тому +3

      yup thats me, but imma wait until i know for sure

    • @apelsinuke
      @apelsinuke 3 роки тому +3

      constantly do not want to socialize, tbh

  • @wisdom-for-all
    @wisdom-for-all 3 роки тому +4789

    Sometimes the worst place we can be is in our heads. No one notices our tears, our sadness, and our pain. It will always get better, but please get help 🖖

    • @elwez4742
      @elwez4742 3 роки тому +38

      True
      One of those days ill get help 🤣
      I need it badly .. but nothing is for free
      Only problem is that i keep thinking that I'll never make it anyways so y bother 😂
      But thank you sir u explained somthing that not alot of people get

    • @renookami4651
      @renookami4651 3 роки тому +22

      It's not that people don't notice, it's just easier to pretend not to.

    • @samarezek8866
      @samarezek8866 3 роки тому +13

      @@elwez4742 r u ok?
      You don't seem fine please talk with someone ik its fucking difficult but please reach out for help
      Im saying this on my behalf since im going through the same thing yet I can't to do shit about it so im telling you so you can learn from me

    • @hmmm9311
      @hmmm9311 3 роки тому +6

      I cant and wont get help sadly
      By the time i get help im probably going to be gone, i have no other option

    • @samarezek8866
      @samarezek8866 3 роки тому +3

      @@hmmm9311 we can stay here im trying my best everyday just to stay here I know its hard and ik it fucking sucks but we will try our best try talking to someone you can even talk to me if you want

  • @naturallyalex2
    @naturallyalex2 3 роки тому +6041

    I isolate myself from people but still want social interactions, idk. It's weird

    • @BloodyMaryLPS1112
      @BloodyMaryLPS1112 3 роки тому +68

      Same

    • @daisygirl1217
      @daisygirl1217 3 роки тому +339

      I am the same way. I think it's more of, we don't want to be around nasty, mean, and fake people, but we do need authentic, caring people in our lives.

    • @clarysage9678
      @clarysage9678 3 роки тому +14

      same!!

    • @pastelprincess8770
      @pastelprincess8770 3 роки тому +239

      Yes. And then when I'm in the social interaction I forget how to socialize properly and instantly regret coming out to socialize in the 1st place.

    • @weakestmax0rfanenthusiast481
      @weakestmax0rfanenthusiast481 3 роки тому +2

      Same too

  • @Syn
    @Syn 3 роки тому +976

    i feel really bad for everyone going through a lot and their mental health isn't at the best place , some probably want to reach out for help so much but their parents neglect their needs by saying they had gone through worst and/or simply just doesn't believe in mental health

    • @Anonymous-pf1mb
      @Anonymous-pf1mb 3 роки тому +23

      I feel called out

    • @watermelon6239
      @watermelon6239 3 роки тому +14

      My father doesn’t believe in depression so I can’t talk to him about it, he believes the scratches on my thighs are from our cat because that was what I told him. ^^

    • @bearsbeetsbattlestargalactica8
      @bearsbeetsbattlestargalactica8 3 роки тому +7

      if my parents had done that id be dead right now. People need to realize it has NOTHING to do with "what youve been through". I mean obviously going through horrible things can trigger depression, that's not Whatcom saying..i just mean that like this is an illness...you can have severe depression even when everything in ur life is going awesome. It has nothing 2 do with that and its not something you can control or fix on your own without medication in most cases ESPECIALLY if it had nothing to do with any upsetting event. When it's strictly chemical, you HAVE 2 get those chemicals back in balance or however you wanna describe it, you cant fix anything by JUST going to therapy and trying really hard in 95% of cases, in my experience and opinion. Thats like someone having an issue with driving because they arent a great driver to begin with AND their tires need to be aligned and their brakes need 2 be repaired. Like sure you can take driving lessons all day long and try super hard and yea that will improve your driving issue but if you dont get those brakes and tires fixed, all the work you do isnt going to be enough and theres no substitute for fixing brakes that need fixing. You cant will yourself new brakes. That's how I look at the idea of meds plus therapy and actively working to get better.

    • @kindom.monbebe7984
      @kindom.monbebe7984 3 роки тому +7

      My mom has anxiety but when i try to tell her that I want a therapist bc I've been having suicidal thoughts, she just tells me that it won't look good for other jobs blah blah blah.

    • @cherichb7238
      @cherichb7238 3 роки тому +3

      My parent do things like these so that's why I'm to scared to come out

  • @simoncowell7539
    @simoncowell7539 3 роки тому +24531

    Me who has been professionally diagnosed with depression: wow that's crazy I do all of these

    • @thereishaironyourscreen2991
      @thereishaironyourscreen2991 3 роки тому +226

      You isolate and over socialise?

    • @simoncowell7539
      @simoncowell7539 3 роки тому +1180

      @@thereishaironyourscreen2991 I have periods where I completely cut off from everything and other times when I talk to people a little too much just depends

    • @sanjaychembakasseri516
      @sanjaychembakasseri516 3 роки тому +55

      I have these symptoms ...

    • @sanjaychembakasseri516
      @sanjaychembakasseri516 3 роки тому +32

      I guess all of it..

    • @malthewolf7182
      @malthewolf7182 3 роки тому +55

      My whole family has diagnosed depression.. besides me. I have ADHD and anxiety and I think I have depression too but my whole family never notices

  • @aisharobbo1281
    @aisharobbo1281 3 роки тому +2806

    1) constantly want to socialise (to cover the your depression)
    2) isolate yourself (cancelling plans)
    3) expressing inappropriate behaviour (imbalanced emotions)
    4) you react intensely (blowing things out of proportion)
    5) sleeping schedule keeps changing (too little or too much)
    6) you get tired easily (depression can lead to high levels of fatigue)
    7) your appetite has changed (too much or too little food, or cravings)
    8) youre indecisive (doubt your ability to make decisions)

    • @_cottontuna_3790
      @_cottontuna_3790 3 роки тому +7

      @@matildeherremangutierrez4788 Same

    • @bruinsfan902
      @bruinsfan902 3 роки тому +6

      Yes yes and yes

    • @SepiaShards
      @SepiaShards 3 роки тому +8

      Tf i have all of these 🧍‍♀️

    • @pisces-g7t
      @pisces-g7t 3 роки тому +6

      I know yall mean well when you’re making these lists but I think you should just let people watch and enjoy the animations and these kind of lists may be taking some of their watch-time away (from people clicking off after the summary)

    • @Suiton1996
      @Suiton1996 3 роки тому +5

      tt ɪᴛ’s ʏᴏᴋɪ tt it also helps when you've forgotten elements of the list or just if you like having lists to compound the information 🙂

  • @VictorPham_
    @VictorPham_ 3 роки тому +989

    "Am I depressed or am I just tired and lonely all the time?" Anyone else or just me?

    • @kamyakt4100
      @kamyakt4100 3 роки тому +5

      Me! Lol!🤷😌🤦

    • @nightdog4183
      @nightdog4183 3 роки тому +9

      I think i kinda can relate to that.

    • @annellle
      @annellle 3 роки тому +10

      me for like 10 years, and then finally got told that all those years were indeed depression :’)

    • @bouncybird2331
      @bouncybird2331 3 роки тому

      Yes.

    • @nighthero_gaming9021
      @nighthero_gaming9021 3 роки тому +9

      I feel like I definitely have some depression, but I still feel like my situation just needs to improve 🤷‍♂️

  • @stixy_x
    @stixy_x 3 роки тому +262

    At the end of this video I had to cover my tears because my parents were close. They won't allow me to visit actual therapist to diagnose me because they don't believe that mental illnesses are real. Thank you for your videos, they make this world a bit better place.

    • @quentinmoton5950
      @quentinmoton5950 3 роки тому +9

      keep going dont stop

    • @bruhhhcookie8136
      @bruhhhcookie8136 3 роки тому +22

      Same my parents also don't believe if mental illness exist, since they are very religious they only said that because either I'm not having good connection with God or BeCaUsE Of Da pHoNE

    • @emerysleeper1272
      @emerysleeper1272 3 роки тому +2

      You should show them by giving them some poison secretly. It will show them, that you are serious and should be treated as a serious grown up person with their own needs and problems. When they wake up, of course.

    • @brittneylacy8576
      @brittneylacy8576 3 роки тому +9

      I went through the same thing. I held on until 18 to see someone myself and be diagnosed and treated. It does get better, but the waiting wasn't easy. Hold on until you can get help it is worth it

    • @lexiedeal6895
      @lexiedeal6895 3 роки тому +4

      Online therapists!

  • @jamin6034
    @jamin6034 3 роки тому +11779

    “Your sleeping schedule keeps changing.”
    Me: what sleeping schedule

    • @kITTYKSS
      @kITTYKSS 3 роки тому +65

      It’s 3:50 am for me Rn. I usually would go to bed at maybe 10 or 11 but this past week I’ve been staying up and then going to bed when it gets light outside

    • @d00dfx
      @d00dfx 3 роки тому +25

      I could stay up for 37 hours without sleeping. Mostly because I want to sleep.

    • @GospelOfTimothy
      @GospelOfTimothy 3 роки тому +24

      People have a sleeping schedule?

    • @ciarafunk2626
      @ciarafunk2626 3 роки тому +10

      Totally didn’t go to school with 1 1/2 hours of sleep the other day😅

    • @mysterious8953
      @mysterious8953 3 роки тому +6

      i choked-

  • @xpxthy
    @xpxthy 3 роки тому +3407

    I’m not depressed, just unmotivated, unable to stop procrastinating, self deprecating, and confused.

    • @subwaygirl4679
      @subwaygirl4679 3 роки тому +196

      There's other stuff besides depression that can make you feel this way. Also, quarantine isn't helping, and it can also be traumatizing to some people.

    • @jelamabbun5623
      @jelamabbun5623 3 роки тому +17

      yup this is me

    • @nyxasteria3991
      @nyxasteria3991 3 роки тому +7

      Me.

    • @linus9671
      @linus9671 3 роки тому +82

      same thing here, i dont really think im depressed but quarantine and my finals have definitely taken their toll, its just like life has suddenly decided to catch up with me and fuck me up

    • @liberationwasalie2982
      @liberationwasalie2982 3 роки тому +10

      sounds like you have a case of humanism

  • @bluebrakes
    @bluebrakes 3 роки тому +5423

    The narrator should read bedtime stories. Her voice is really soothing.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +668

      We will consider that! Thanks! Which stories do you recommend?

    • @halfacookie8902
      @halfacookie8902 3 роки тому +32

      yes

    • @annahill975
      @annahill975 3 роки тому +82

      @@Psych2go kids ones there very soothing

    • @KittyFridge
      @KittyFridge 3 роки тому +54

      @@Psych2go Goodnight moon

    • @Mia-pc7sp
      @Mia-pc7sp 3 роки тому +20

      Stories like tragedic oness

  • @bojarckhoosemanschnarf5851
    @bojarckhoosemanschnarf5851 3 роки тому +282

    Me who literally has most of these and bottles up everything: nah I'm fine fr

    • @lizzyl9357
      @lizzyl9357 3 роки тому +1

      Same

    • @dannywonhie4367
      @dannywonhie4367 3 роки тому +3

      ur pfp 😭😭

    • @tanishka9801
      @tanishka9801 3 роки тому +1

      I understand you I always smile even my friends say I have a pretty smile but deep inside I am sad and want to cry

    • @alexysc9305
      @alexysc9305 3 роки тому

      Lmao same!!😅

  • @dianaj8153
    @dianaj8153 3 роки тому +3284

    Does anyone have like bursts of motivation and then like big depression seasons I hate it

    • @annasundin1484
      @annasundin1484 3 роки тому +204

      Yes just happened to be almost two weeks ago, I had so much motivation , u know working out, eating good and healthy, focusing in school. But then a sudden burst of negative thoughts just took over, I started feeling hopeless and that my life din’t matter and etc. I started getting into my bad eating habits and stopped working out, I shut out my family members and I don’t even know why. Lmao but then I just say to myself that I’m overreacting and that I just want attention, even though I make sure to never show how I feel to my parents. I’m tired man

    • @xSilentStrangerx
      @xSilentStrangerx 3 роки тому +38

      This is how my many grand projects and exciting ideas I've had, have been thoroughly stopped in their tracks. x-x

    • @alondra2317
      @alondra2317 3 роки тому +4

      me lol

    • @Iakelakestubslake
      @Iakelakestubslake 3 роки тому +11

      NOTICE THE PATTERNS BE SELF AWARE AND THEY GET SMALLER ♥️

    • @tabithavelez9495
      @tabithavelez9495 3 роки тому +8

      yes, so far I’m going through my first motivation burst in like a year it’s pretty nice

  • @Bacon_Inator
    @Bacon_Inator 3 роки тому +5416

    “You constantly want to socialize”
    Ok that’s not me
    “You isolate yourself”
    Uh oh

    • @reynaa.c0m932
      @reynaa.c0m932 3 роки тому +17

      right

    • @imokay4018
      @imokay4018 3 роки тому +37

      im like frick caught me dead in my tracks

    • @chillylilly3754
      @chillylilly3754 3 роки тому +3

      Same

    • @caml1580
      @caml1580 3 роки тому +22

      i really thought i was safe the first minute of the video

    • @AJ-hl6tn
      @AJ-hl6tn 3 роки тому +22

      And then there's me who attempts to do both :D

  • @donaldreno7370
    @donaldreno7370 3 роки тому +1656

    Depression is like that friend who always needs to use you, but never does anything for you...

    • @lord__pasta
      @lord__pasta 3 роки тому +60

      I feel like that is also school.
      Depression and school both feel like abusive boyfriends/girlfriends.

    • @donaldreno7370
      @donaldreno7370 3 роки тому +5

      @@lord__pasta Definitely

    • @non_existentpuppy5676
      @non_existentpuppy5676 3 роки тому +3

      And sometimes drags u down

    • @atomictartar
      @atomictartar 3 роки тому +1

      Im actually depressed thanks to someone like this

    • @nimmernomma8830
      @nimmernomma8830 3 роки тому +4

      @@lord__pasta school CREATES depression and anxiety... we need a school reform.

  • @gdsaurmanex8804
    @gdsaurmanex8804 3 роки тому +1156

    “Do you constantly cancel plans with others?” Jokes on you, my friends don’t invite me anywhere

    • @emilyjohn6444
      @emilyjohn6444 3 роки тому +38

      anymore**
      Cuz I never go anyway :)

    • @sophiecasey5475
      @sophiecasey5475 3 роки тому +13

      Ya same honestly lol

    • @dinklezucc5982
      @dinklezucc5982 3 роки тому +5

      @@emilyjohn6444 Was JUST going to comment that.

    • @kikojackson6036
      @kikojackson6036 3 роки тому +16

      I cancelled way too many times, I think they gave up lol

    • @exile8111
      @exile8111 3 роки тому +2

      I cancelled soo many plans with my friends😶

  • @chrisbandicoot9552
    @chrisbandicoot9552 3 роки тому +673

    As someone who has depression, I wish more people would watch videos like this.
    I'm so sick of meeting people who think having depression just means feeling sad all the time.

    • @polkolkj4788
      @polkolkj4788 3 роки тому +25

      My depression caused by vitamins diffency because I had h. Pylori and sibo.and other problems In my gut absorption issues . My depression was like a body without any feelings . I can't laugh I can't cry I can't feel happiness and I can't feel sadness. . I bought my dream pc for 10k dollars without any sensation of happiness . Like I bought a 🌮 from a store . It's a horrible feeling . There's a huge difference between depression and sadness . Sadness it's a just random feeling due the daily pressure . But depression it's a mental disease caused by the lack of serotonin in the brain

    • @chrisbandicoot9552
      @chrisbandicoot9552 3 роки тому +14

      @@polkolkj4788 I have the opposite problem. Some things give me great joy, if only for a moment or two. But something that would give someone else a little bit of sadness or a little bit of anger, will give me loads of sadness or anger.

    • @polkolkj4788
      @polkolkj4788 3 роки тому +5

      @@chrisbandicoot9552 mybe you're bipolar

    • @river.ate.your.geese.
      @river.ate.your.geese. 3 роки тому +29

      I don't feel anything most of the time. I can feel happy, but that's a very superficial feeling, the moment I stop laughing or when the chapter of my webcomic ends i just get back to being empty. Sometimes I'm just so empty it's overwhelming. The weight in my chest gets heavier and I can't breathe.. I don't know what to do anymore

    • @BloodyMaryLPS1112
      @BloodyMaryLPS1112 3 роки тому +2

      @@river.ate.your.geese. I am also empty and emotionless.

  • @thatsnotnice1360
    @thatsnotnice1360 3 роки тому +1699

    “Do you cancel plans?”
    *Bold of you to assume I had any 😃*

  • @unitymask
    @unitymask 3 роки тому +1896

    "do you find it difficult to concentrate and get things done?"
    me with possible depression and adhd: _cha cha real smooth_

    • @kawiisakii6968
      @kawiisakii6968 3 роки тому +11

      Relatable OML

    • @teun1433
      @teun1433 3 роки тому +11

      Aspergers same issue - struggling with it especially with online semester

    • @tatianastudy
      @tatianastudy 3 роки тому +4

      too true ;-;

    • @mackingcheeseinthemichaelwave
      @mackingcheeseinthemichaelwave 3 роки тому +6

      omfg yes, and i take adderall too and like it helps with focusing if i take enough but it makes my heart really speed up and i end up pacing around my room because my anxiety gets set off and so i can’t do my work. it’s such an unsettling feeling but my parents don’t get that i need to take more adderall to have an effect :/

    • @m00nsickn3ssx6
      @m00nsickn3ssx6 3 роки тому +1

      Relatable-

  • @PoisonAngelGirl
    @PoisonAngelGirl 3 роки тому +71

    I always watch these knowing damn well im gonna relate to every single one 💀

  • @BexOrSomething
    @BexOrSomething 3 роки тому +3750

    My parents told me this and I quote
    "You're not depressed, just dramatic."

    • @angelicaruthcatiis4496
      @angelicaruthcatiis4496 3 роки тому +85

      🤝 Sadly

    • @idk-uv7mt
      @idk-uv7mt 3 роки тому +126

      Tell them that there toxic

    • @BexOrSomething
      @BexOrSomething 3 роки тому +79

      @@idk-uv7mt They'd take away everything bruv 😔😔

    • @AJ-hl6tn
      @AJ-hl6tn 3 роки тому +135

      My dude I have the same exact problem. I courageously told them how depressed I am and then they brushed it right off. Like they just don't get it do they? They just want to have perfect little children who don't have anything wrong with them.

    • @flackoflowy
      @flackoflowy 3 роки тому +22

      Your parents may be not helping your depression

  • @fizz.zzz101
    @fizz.zzz101 3 роки тому +472

    Depression for me feels like feeling homesick of a place that u dont even know exists
    Ur home, ur surrounded by ppl yet u feel alone like ur screaming underwater and noone can hear you. And u slowly suffocate inside. U smile and you laugh with ppl u try to make things better for others yet all u feel is emptiness.
    EDIT: To all the replies and ppl who can relate to this feeling i hope oneday WE ALL CAN FIND THE PLACE THAT WE CAN CALL HOME!♡

    • @mendozarodriguez4195
      @mendozarodriguez4195 3 роки тому +7

      My exact feelings

    • @wingedcatperson3243
      @wingedcatperson3243 3 роки тому +25

      Exactly. I'm home but... I wanna go home.

    • @AJ-hl6tn
      @AJ-hl6tn 3 роки тому +4

      Screaming underwater but no one can hear you... damn that resonates with me.

    • @Exhausted_Pigeon
      @Exhausted_Pigeon 3 роки тому +5

      This resonates with me so much. I was literally crying while going through the comments.
      You and another commenter shared similar analogies...and I swear I really do feel this way.
      I'm really having a bad moment rn but I know I have to keep reminding myself, to keep my head over the water.
      BTW; I calmed down while writing this.

    • @coreeyree5459
      @coreeyree5459 3 роки тому +3

      That’s how I feel well when I try to open up to others they ignore it and assume what I’m feeling and it feels like I’m screaming for help I’m asking for a rescue but they can’t hear me 😔

  • @nyancat2221
    @nyancat2221 3 роки тому +2061

    I love how basically this means that my entire existence is just symptoms of depression

    • @Trper-qh1nn
      @Trper-qh1nn 3 роки тому +29

      Same here I've been this way since I finished high school

    • @yomama8866
      @yomama8866 3 роки тому +27

      been like this since late elementary

    • @cartman55655
      @cartman55655 3 роки тому +64

      No it means this video did a shit job in describing depression and made it so broad that essentially everyone is partially depressed under this description

    • @wallybanner512
      @wallybanner512 3 роки тому +7

      I could picture this comment before I clicked on the video

    • @blahblahblah02
      @blahblahblah02 3 роки тому

      I felt that so hard

  • @HazelHomicide1
    @HazelHomicide1 3 роки тому +64

    Hello... I'm going to share how I'm feeling here. I lost my dad nearly two years ago and have felt a whole lot more lonely since. My family are spread out in the world so they're not easy to see nor is it the same talking via phone. In the nature of grieving and the pandemic, I've felt that I've not had someone to talk to or open to about losing a loved one until recently. A new person has entered my life who is dealing with the loss of a parent too. This has really helped in being able to relate to someone and talk about old times. Since his passing, I've found myself isolating from the world naturally, wanting to process what has happened. I don't know who I'd pick for a shoulder to cry on apart from a long distant relative. Some days I'm content, some days I'm in my own world, dealing with emotions.
    I hope everyone appreciates what they have in front of them before it's gone forever. Miss you dad ❤️

    • @CarolusRex420
      @CarolusRex420 Рік тому

      Man that sucks. I have half family where i live half at the other side of the Planet my father left my mom and me when i was 3 years old and we moved from the states to germany and in germany anoter time so i think i can relate a little it always is a pain to think about my dad or my relatives Sinne i cant See either of them. And now im in this weird inbetween of denying a depression and at the Same time having the agonising feeling that im making something up. And yes it Sure cant be good that after every two days im thinking that my stepfather is going to break up with my mom leaving three children behind so yea.... i cant gocus on school i guess

  • @H.EMPRESS
    @H.EMPRESS 3 роки тому +10910

    Depression is that feeling to want to go home but you are already there.
    Edit : thank you for your likes and replies survivors or helpers, I read this quote somewhere and don't want to take the credit as if it's my own. I've faith that all of us will heal and become a better form of ourselves... I can feel you guys. Live for yourself and love yourself 💜Warm hugs . Hang in there!! Namaste 🙏

    • @themightypancake5695
      @themightypancake5695 3 роки тому +267

      Holy crap that describes it perfectly, what the heck-

    • @helmetmcbarin
      @helmetmcbarin 3 роки тому +21

      How 😂 dont make sense

    • @SADIE_Maybe_SADISTIC
      @SADIE_Maybe_SADISTIC 3 роки тому +13

      Wow.......

    • @angelguts4752
      @angelguts4752 3 роки тому +174

      @@helmetmcbarin it doesn't make sense to you, but it could make sense to people with depression.

    • @cats11111
      @cats11111 3 роки тому +55

      Or feeling that you are not home

  • @snowwalker218
    @snowwalker218 3 роки тому +1439

    Me: *who’s been eating only one meal a day and watching these videos every night at like 4AM*
    Me: “Damn that’s crazy”

    • @SHRIIMPSUCKS
      @SHRIIMPSUCKS 3 роки тому +62

      I honestly can't tell if I'm even hungry anymore

    • @ridzz.714
      @ridzz.714 3 роки тому +19

      I’ve started eating less but I think it’s just because I’m fat

    • @reona6851
      @reona6851 3 роки тому +1

      Omg same

    • @reygillera3276
      @reygillera3276 3 роки тому +6

      does anybody here want to build a discord server where we can talk and accompany each other?

    • @snowwalker218
      @snowwalker218 3 роки тому +3

      @@reygillera3276 not a bad idea honestly

  • @leanneneville2431
    @leanneneville2431 3 роки тому +662

    To me, it’s like a heaviness, a hole, something just missing. It’s always there and varies in intensity. Your mind never stops turning over and over the same negative thoughts. It’s exhausting and you are so angry a lot of the time.

    • @soniaeames3637
      @soniaeames3637 3 роки тому +13

      Yes I understand when you say about a hole, something missing. Mine was a huge gaping chasm for so many years. However over the last decade through constant work on myself things have improved. The hole is still there though and I except it might always be there. But I feel I have more say in how I deal with it. Constant work though. At times its hard to keep doing the work. But it makes a difference.

    • @nicoleffion1563
      @nicoleffion1563 3 роки тому +7

      That’s a perfect way to describe it I totally get you

    • @Fenrir90918
      @Fenrir90918 3 роки тому +1

      Yeah I remember when I thought it was just me forgetting to do something, then I started feeling the emptiness more and more until I just feel empty constantly now

    • @Fenrir90918
      @Fenrir90918 3 роки тому

      Yeah I remember when I thought it was just me forgetting to do something, then I started feeling the emptiness more and more until I just feel empty constantly now

    • @twilightwolfpiano
      @twilightwolfpiano 3 роки тому

      Yes exactly

  • @aimeeharvey7602
    @aimeeharvey7602 3 роки тому +11

    I have been diagnosed with severe clinical depression, and watching this, its made me realise how much i didnt notice things. Like the socalising. One day i can be like overly sociable, the next day i can isolate myself. I never noticed that before and thought it was part of my anxiety!
    Thank you for this video! It has been shared by me!

  • @itsgothicrose
    @itsgothicrose 3 роки тому +9998

    **literally has all of the symptoms and has legit been diagnosed**
    “Nah I’m just being over dramatic...”

    • @kimgregorio3360
      @kimgregorio3360 3 роки тому +131

      Accurate

    • @AJ-hl6tn
      @AJ-hl6tn 3 роки тому +131

      LMFAO. ACTUALLY ME THOUGH!!

    • @eyelashbug
      @eyelashbug 3 роки тому +105

      NOOOO YOU'RE NOT OVERDRAMATIC :0 It's ok not to be ok! You should take that seriously, we support you. You are loved, and worthy❤️

    • @The_Real_Hikki
      @The_Real_Hikki 3 роки тому +27

      Shame without h

    • @queeniemarigold
      @queeniemarigold 3 роки тому +3

      Same

  • @mckaylakim5580
    @mckaylakim5580 3 роки тому +4474

    ❽ things you unconsciously do when depressed
    1. you constantly want to socialise.
    2. you isolate yourself.
    3. you express inappropriate emotions. (ft. among us)
    4. you react intensely.
    5. your sleeping schedule keeps changing.
    6. you get tired easily.
    7. your appetite has changed.
    8. you're indecisive.
    note: you have no idea how happy i am to see this art style again :>

    • @taliawantsanap1460
      @taliawantsanap1460 3 роки тому +28

      Ty and same

    • @randy-x
      @randy-x 3 роки тому +8

      Lol, I did this 4 minutes later than you.

    • @El-tf6fg
      @El-tf6fg 3 роки тому +13

      I do almost all of those

    • @ItsTheMagicMelon
      @ItsTheMagicMelon 3 роки тому +1

      Yea I love this one

    • @valestdebut4473
      @valestdebut4473 3 роки тому +24

      1. (ft. dream)
      5. (ft. among us plushie)
      8. (ft. among us chew toys)

  • @catyherondale2019
    @catyherondale2019 3 роки тому +9585

    Fun fact: if you’re an introvert, when you’re depressed you’ll search for socialization, if you’re an extrovert, for solitude
    Edit: this is a psychology theory, it doesn’t mean that applies to everyone, but one of you requested a discord chat to speak about our problems and depression, I think is a really nice idea so if you want that please leave a comment
    Also thank you for all the likes and comments:)

    • @petsmart1000
      @petsmart1000 3 роки тому +1447

      not me, I'm ridiculously introverted and when I'm depressed, the thought of being around anyone makes me more anxious. idk if it makes any sense but I feel LESS comforted when I'm around people.

    • @feraldaisy6518
      @feraldaisy6518 3 роки тому +614

      As a very depressed introvert, I don’t talk to anyone and stay in my room all day just to avoid ppl

    • @theocaratic
      @theocaratic 3 роки тому +352

      Can't say i relate to that one.I'm an introvert, and when my mental health is shaky, i often isolate myself

    • @naina9807
      @naina9807 3 роки тому +44

      thaT would resonate with me... im extroverted but i just want to be alone and keep crying. this sux.

    • @fairyfellermasterstroke
      @fairyfellermasterstroke 3 роки тому +14

      Great, I might as well be an extravert with a horrible anxiety. Or maybe I was never even depressed enough to go extroverting...

  • @kerstinbing7851
    @kerstinbing7851 3 роки тому +48

    I don’t have friends.
    I’m always isolated.
    I don’t want to socialise.
    I don’t eat much, sometimes I have a meal that has lots of calories so I don’t get sick and also try to have food that provides me supplements and vitamins etc.
    I often make something small in to a big thing for myself.
    I sleep like 13-14 hours some weeks, then like today, and few days ago, like 3 hours and fall asleep around 4 am.
    Everything sucks, but I want to live my life, but it is hard.

  • @eravere6928
    @eravere6928 3 роки тому +2984

    Me: *literally has so many symptoms of depression*
    Me: I haven’t been diagnosed, so I cannot say I have it. That would be self diagnosis. Have a nice day :)

    • @jude4400
      @jude4400 3 роки тому +116

      SAME.

    • @Grieferr
      @Grieferr 3 роки тому +87

      it be like that

    • @ridzz.714
      @ridzz.714 3 роки тому +35

      Same

    • @duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa
      @duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa 3 роки тому +94

      Bruh I actually have a diagnosis and I still think I'm not valid lmao. Tbh it changes nothing, at least for me.

    • @jude4400
      @jude4400 3 роки тому +16

      @@duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa blink?!?! 👀💕🖤 but dw you’re valid

  • @anni1961
    @anni1961 3 роки тому +381

    When you try to constantly have music or stuff on your mind so you don't have to think about your problems

    • @jenynz5334
      @jenynz5334 3 роки тому +10

      Did that for decades. Trust me, work through your stuff before you get a midlife crisis.

    • @hakuqtsukii
      @hakuqtsukii 3 роки тому

      😹 deadass

    • @spicyfruitjuice1491
      @spicyfruitjuice1491 3 роки тому +6

      I feel called out and I haven’t even started the video

    • @JM-tl1eg
      @JM-tl1eg 3 роки тому +3

      Girl... You describe my situation so well right now! My life right now is absolute trash. Finished my masters, just to end up working at a terrible job that I hate (and where you need to take tests, which I am done with! I am done with tests, I want to work) i now truly feel like those adults that complain about the rat race etc. (If you still study: enjoy it!). Anyways, i always try to keep myself busy with social media or music. I used to think I do it because I am lazy but I found out it is because I hate my life and silence makes me think too much! Today I stopped lazy habits and did all my things on my to do list. I was not allowed to be on social media and listen to music. I thought I would be happy with such a productive day but instead I started bawling and picking fights with everyone....

    • @christel7579
      @christel7579 3 роки тому +1

      During my depression I could only fall asleep listening to true crime podcasts

  • @katarina5098
    @katarina5098 3 роки тому +348

    Can't we just appreciate how softly she is speaking. I love how calm it makes me and how much more I can learn and memorize when I am being spoken to like that. School teachers could never!

    • @nightdog4183
      @nightdog4183 3 роки тому +12

      Same, it really helps me to remember these things.

    • @metra8604
      @metra8604 3 роки тому +7

      yep. a lot better than overwhelming noises everywhere.

    • @spiritual_king2375
      @spiritual_king2375 3 роки тому +3

      *” PlEaSe TuRn Ur CaMeRaS On Or U WiLl Be MaRkEd AbScEnT”*

    • @theeternalflame4563
      @theeternalflame4563 3 роки тому +3

      I like the way it is in these videos but I would be very uncomfortable if my school teachers talked like that 😂

    • @siceastwood2714
      @siceastwood2714 3 роки тому

      @@karlichristofferson5332 it's just for the views anyways. I wouldn't even describe it as soft but tryhard empathetic

  • @duke_of_rats7416
    @duke_of_rats7416 3 роки тому +74

    Me: *relating to a lot of these symptoms*
    Also me: I’m just over reacting, I don’t have depression I’m fine!
    Me again: *goes off to feel no emotions at all and feel sad all the time*

    • @oBvIoUsLyNoRmAlFaNpAgE
      @oBvIoUsLyNoRmAlFaNpAgE 3 роки тому +1

      ikr me too

    • @morsonproductions
      @morsonproductions 3 роки тому +2

      Did you watch the end of the video?
      Please try to get better, ignoring this but continuing to learn and watch symptoms isn't going to help, at one point you've gotta walk out of it. It's hard but it's possible, and you don't have to do it alone.

    • @duke_of_rats7416
      @duke_of_rats7416 3 роки тому +3

      @@morsonproductions my biggest concern is that if I tell my mom she won’t believe me at tell me I’m over dramatic

  • @hellokittiesleftovary
    @hellokittiesleftovary 3 роки тому +2417

    depression is like being tired but you cant go to sleep and then falling asleep right when you have to get up
    edit) im not saying everyone with depression does this or everyone who does this is depressed. im simply stating what my Depression feels like to me (and maybe some others)
    edit2) depression aint poggers. but yall are

  • @kinam3928
    @kinam3928 3 роки тому +1691

    Worse thing about depression, is that you silently call for help, expecting the people around you will notice you have changed and help you. Instead, they just say you are lazy when you sleep too much, teasing you are in a diet when you eat less because you have no appetite. Hence, they make you feel worse.
    That's my case anyway and its so painful.

    • @xx_mysticwolf_xx1492
      @xx_mysticwolf_xx1492 3 роки тому +8

      Same except I think throat cancer might be making me lose my ability to swallow which is triggering anxiety about eating but I’m too afraid to get diagnosed 🥲

    • @kristijanceple6026
      @kristijanceple6026 3 роки тому +20

      @@xx_mysticwolf_xx1492 Please, go and see a doctor if you suspect anything - if it gets diagnosed early enough it can be removed and treated!!! Just do it

    • @xx_mysticwolf_xx1492
      @xx_mysticwolf_xx1492 3 роки тому +4

      @@kristijanceple6026 thing is they remove your whole esophagus I’m fkn terrified of that

    • @kristijanceple6026
      @kristijanceple6026 3 роки тому +5

      Same. I actually really want to socialise and go out but just get ignored, and college keeps stomping on me(why the fuck did I enroll at the top college in the country ?!?)
      I've got OCD and ADHD(go to the psychologist for that) so I think people probably view me as dumb, annoying, lazy and/or weird or something and therefore since I'm not cool or popular enough for them they just don't want to hang out :/

    • @kristijanceple6026
      @kristijanceple6026 3 роки тому

      @@xx_mysticwolf_xx1492 why do you think you have throat cancer in the first place?

  • @evenessa
    @evenessa 3 роки тому +155

    1:05 you constantly want to socialise
    1:31 you isolate yourself
    2:01 you express inappropriate emotions
    2:33 you react intensely
    2:58 your sleeping schedule keeps changing
    3:30 you get tired easily
    3:58 your appetite has changed
    4:28 you are indecisive

    • @mritten
      @mritten 3 роки тому +3

      Thanks

    • @veronkun5690
      @veronkun5690 3 роки тому +1

      Everything out of these well damn

    • @otobustutkusu303
      @otobustutkusu303 3 роки тому +1

      1 --> Well not at all, I just go completely silent sometimes to avoid socialisation.
      2 --> No
      3 --> No
      4 --> No, I've been emotionally numb for months so it doesn't apply.
      5 --> So true... Sometimes I sleep until the afternoon, sometimes I sleep for 3-4 hours and I'm up again and can't sleep.
      6 --> This one, yeah kinda true. But I can function normally. It doesn't affect too much.
      7 --> TRUE 100% Even when I eat a whole meal, I still don't feel full. Also I have realized that I have started to eat more junk food than I would like to. Lıke all I wanna eat is biscuits, crackers, chocolate bars...
      8 --> Not true. I am mostly very decisive.

    • @Professional_Tough_Guy
      @Professional_Tough_Guy 3 роки тому +1

      Copying what the sexy above me did:
      1: yes
      2: yes
      3: yes
      4: yes
      5: yes
      6: yes
      7: yes
      8: yes

  • @karter969
    @karter969 3 роки тому +86

    It’s kind of funny the amount of times a symptom is listed, and then a moment later the literal antithesis of said symptom is also listed.

    • @TheButterflybeat
      @TheButterflybeat 3 роки тому +20

      i think its the extremity/lack of balance that is the issue

    • @patsyhodge9071
      @patsyhodge9071 3 роки тому +1

      Yep.

    • @jordanharper3333
      @jordanharper3333 3 роки тому

      Depression isn't black and white so nothing can truly be wrong until the understanding is broadened further

  • @crasher4737
    @crasher4737 3 роки тому +1869

    "Have you ben sleeping too much or too little recently?"
    -Yes

    • @kaskenkaski4715
      @kaskenkaski4715 3 роки тому +26

      Bro, I Don't care if it's copied or not. That was too relatable

    • @howltae
      @howltae 3 роки тому +19

      I barely sleep, I wish I could sleep peacefully someday.

    • @yourtypicalinternetcommenter11
      @yourtypicalinternetcommenter11 3 роки тому +2

      both

    • @mayafenech4969
      @mayafenech4969 3 роки тому +1

      LITERALLY ive been sleeping at 10 and in these past 2 days Ive been sleeping at 3 in the morning....

    • @logemi668
      @logemi668 3 роки тому +7

      @@yourtypicalinternetcommenter11 just about to comment that, sleeping 14 hours a day for some days then it just switches and i sleep 2 hours a day

  • @brianl8481
    @brianl8481 3 роки тому +3426

    2020 was the year everyone got a free trial of depression, and it's continuing into 2021.

    • @ahassett37
      @ahassett37 3 роки тому +15

      Oh-
      Well
      Yay
      :’)

    • @kaylaAnastasiaStrydom393
      @kaylaAnastasiaStrydom393 3 роки тому +38

      Now we have to pay each month for prescription antidepressants and therapy 😀

    • @thehood1433
      @thehood1433 3 роки тому +19

      I already have depressions since 5 years😂

    • @watermelondave8574
      @watermelondave8574 3 роки тому +31

      I have been on the premium since 2016

    • @LibbyMia-rz8gk
      @LibbyMia-rz8gk 3 роки тому +7

      @@watermelondave8574 very close, I have been on the premium list since 2018 at the age of 18

  • @angie2989
    @angie2989 3 роки тому +551

    me: *has been depressed and suicidal for over 3 years, done countless hours of research on depression, shows several signs of depression, taken countless online tests that say i have depression*
    also me: i can't self diagnose, maybe i'm just overreacting! i'm fine :)

    • @chiakinanami6382
      @chiakinanami6382 3 роки тому +42

      this is me too, bc my parents especially my mom thinks that i’m overreacting and since i talk about how i show signs of these types of things and have had suicidal thoughts, she thinks that i’m trying to get a mental disorder, but i’m actually concerned for myself bc i’ve been showing signs for a long time, but i’m terrified of telling people and i’m good at hiding it so i’ve gotten used to pretending, but i need help.

    • @jadenbluitt6250
      @jadenbluitt6250 3 роки тому +24

      I haven’t been diagnosed or anything and don’t want to self diagnose or anything. But I have so much symptoms for being bipolar or depressed but like. All the symptoms seem normal lmao. Also I feel like my life is to good to be sad or anything

    • @angie2989
      @angie2989 3 роки тому +12

      @@jadenbluitt6250 i know from experience, depression doesn't care how good your life is. your life isn't too good to be sad

    • @cookiegamerhj5103
      @cookiegamerhj5103 3 роки тому +3

      5 years of depression for me 🙃

    • @cookiegamerhj5103
      @cookiegamerhj5103 3 роки тому +3

      @andree france paquette '-'

  • @robin888official
    @robin888official 3 роки тому +33

    IMPORTANT PSA: These are (possible) symptoms of depression. That does *not* imply that having some (or even all) of these symptoms means you're having a depression.
    Analogy: A wet street is a "symptom" of rain. (When it rains, the street gets wet.) But a wet street doesn't necessarily imply that it had rained. (Maybe it was a sprinkler.)
    In this sense depression can lead to any of these symptoms, but having some of these symptoms can have other causes.
    What I want to say is: Don't worry if you match some of the symptoms described. (I see that a lot in the comments.)
    But, of course, if you think you might have a depression see a professional!

    • @yoonniemin6438
      @yoonniemin6438 3 роки тому +1

      Damn I really wanna see one but my mom thinks I should just go to church this sunday and it'll all work out just fine, cupcakes and rainbows and all yikes.

    • @pleaseberational1433
      @pleaseberational1433 2 роки тому

      @@yoonniemin6438 sheesh. That sucks TT
      I really hope it gets better for you! Please take care of yourself

  • @sim543
    @sim543 3 роки тому +403

    “you may isolate yourself”
    *as i’m sitting in a pitch black room all alone for the past 5 hours*✨

    • @isabeldonofrio9312
      @isabeldonofrio9312 3 роки тому +9

      same i feel u it’s okay we got tbhs

    • @sim543
      @sim543 3 роки тому +4

      @@isabeldonofrio9312 yeaa

    • @flyklora6152
      @flyklora6152 3 роки тому +9

      Tbh, ive experience to be alone in a room for 9 hours to night. I didnt know that being in a dark room was pretty relaxing and peaceful for me i feel like hesitating myself for a sec when someone comes in.

    • @sim543
      @sim543 3 роки тому +9

      @@flyklora6152 honestly being in a dark room with just yourself is the best thing, sure you get into your own head buts it’s kinda better then being surrounded by ppl😕

    • @flyklora6152
      @flyklora6152 3 роки тому +6

      @@sim543 i couldn't agree more, but sometimes i don't realize that everytime my parents call me to do chores or something i unconciously complain, thats why my sister gets mad at me everytime i complain. Which i think thats one of the reasons why i want to be alone.

  • @desagradavel-mente3474
    @desagradavel-mente3474 3 роки тому +192

    Depression feels like being stuck in a place and having no idea how to get the hell out of there.

    • @queeniemarigold
      @queeniemarigold 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly

    • @notmo.
      @notmo. 3 роки тому

      This reminds me of the backrooms. Depression is like the backrooms.

    • @sallypellegrini7394
      @sallypellegrini7394 3 роки тому +1

      It’s like IKEA and just like IKEA everything inside you feels dysfunctional and disordered and ready to collapse at any second.

  • @kyleejoaquin9987
    @kyleejoaquin9987 3 роки тому +2721

    them: *explains alexythemia*
    me, who didn’t cry when I found my grandpa dead in my bathroom but had a breakdown when gangnam style played on the radio: hmmm *interesting*

    • @martinacocca4225
      @martinacocca4225 3 роки тому +192

      Oh god what-
      (I'm sorry for u)

    • @nuggets8229
      @nuggets8229 3 роки тому +91

      I didn't cry at my uncle's funeral.

    • @The_One_Time
      @The_One_Time 3 роки тому +90

      Me when I didn't cry from one of my dogs dying and yet throws a temper tantrum after something falls over even though I know it's fine: Hmm...

    • @discordiscalling1969
      @discordiscalling1969 3 роки тому +74

      Im so sorry but I just laughed so hard when I read that, forgive me im not all there in the head

    • @RaduP3
      @RaduP3 3 роки тому +30

      i get you lol, happens to me as well many times. leaves me confused and wondering why that happens many times. my parent's cat died a few days ago, used to be my cat as well but I moved out several years back. Found out about it, literally almost didn't feel a thing. then a rollercoaster of thoughts trying to find out why. "did I not like that cat?" "am I a psychopath?" "is it safe for me to walk free in the streets?" hehe kidding last one. wish you the best bro. "even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise" don't forget that. i got it tattooed on my left arm

  • @BlackBloodCombatClub
    @BlackBloodCombatClub 3 роки тому +18

    Recently I've lost all connection to my emotions. I no longer feel any sensation associated with such feelings. It's as though I've become a hollowed out cheap knock-off of myself and I absolutely hate it. I just wanna have my emotions back ;m; I miss being able to interact with people normally and being able to show more empathy. Now it seems all but impossible. My intelligence has also taken a sharp decline. Nothing I say or do makes much sense anymore. Everyday is a blur and I always end up staying up way past midnight, with any attempt to sleep at another time causing me to panic, or have labored breathing to the point where it feels I might just die if I tried to sleep. I generally try to stay positive, but it's as though something blew out in my brain and I'll never feel normal again.

    • @yugmuh3071
      @yugmuh3071 3 роки тому

      Damn

    • @analeticiasantiagodonascim469
      @analeticiasantiagodonascim469 3 роки тому

      You might be suffering from dissossiation, do you go to therapy? Cause you should seek help with that, it can be really harmful for you.

  • @darthmaul3998
    @darthmaul3998 3 роки тому +545

    What I have learned from this video;
    *depression isn’t a hobby, it’s a lifestyle*

  • @yajie1035
    @yajie1035 3 роки тому +357

    "Sleeping routine change a lot"
    Me: literally watching this 3am in the morning.

    • @eye2eye899
      @eye2eye899 3 роки тому +6

      Me reading this comment in bed after waking up at 2pm

    • @AverageMan7
      @AverageMan7 3 роки тому +1

      Literally atm at 3am

    • @broskinitortellini3502
      @broskinitortellini3502 3 роки тому +1

      Me seeing this comment at 3:10 in the morning: 👁👄👁

    • @amandadutton2719
      @amandadutton2719 3 роки тому +1

      I went from, I can stay up all night to.. Ive been waking up at 7.... A A A A A

    • @Akaashi_is_Superior
      @Akaashi_is_Superior 3 роки тому +1

      It’s 4am 🥸

  • @anidiot4558
    @anidiot4558 3 роки тому +699

    Me: has all the symptoms
    Also me: must be my hormones flying all over the place

    • @zigzag2442
      @zigzag2442 3 роки тому +35

      Me: has all the symptoms
      Also me: Hasn't been diagnosed (self diagnosis) Doesn't want to seek help

    • @anidiot4558
      @anidiot4558 3 роки тому +4

      @@zigzag2442 same lol

    • @anidiot4558
      @anidiot4558 3 роки тому +4

      @1 1 the Internet

    • @anidiot4558
      @anidiot4558 3 роки тому +2

      @1 1 k

    • @_llydsgh3826
      @_llydsgh3826 3 роки тому

      SSAAAAMMMEEEEE!!!!

  • @alterbridgebrad
    @alterbridgebrad 3 роки тому +21

    The best way I can describe depression for me is just feeling numb to everything, like something bad/good could happen to me or even someone else, and I'd know that I should feel positive/negative about it, but instead I just feel nothing like it doesn't even matter. That's also why I'm less inclined to socialise with people sometimes because I'm worried that I'll come across as uncaring. The whole thing is just a mess 😄

  • @ruthbat-leah4078
    @ruthbat-leah4078 3 роки тому +932

    Also, you feel irritated at like everything.

  • @lilmunchie8344
    @lilmunchie8344 3 роки тому +850

    "your appetite has changed"
    Me, eating an entire family sized bag of chips by myself: interesting

    • @Sincerely.TheNarrator.
      @Sincerely.TheNarrator. 3 роки тому +39

      that's me but the bag would be the only thing I'd eat for the day

    • @katelynb1665
      @katelynb1665 3 роки тому +7

      same but then i feel like crap so i won’t eat for a day to compensate hahahahahelpmehahaha

    • @Akaashi_is_Superior
      @Akaashi_is_Superior 3 роки тому +4

      You’re telling me that isn’t normal- My whole life has been a lie- I eat way too much💀🤚

    • @julieoh8617
      @julieoh8617 3 роки тому +2

      @@Sincerely.TheNarrator. omggggg same

    • @saudade7842
      @saudade7842 3 роки тому +1

      Everytime a new thing would come up I would just begin audibly laughing and just say to myself "god damn it." Literally everyone was an exact match.

  • @Benni777
    @Benni777 3 роки тому +533

    I had the WORST intense depressive episode the other night. It was almost as bad as before I was medicated and went to therapy, which is when I was15/16. I tried to ask my dad for emotional support, but he saw how distressed I was, that he didn’t really didn’t know what to do. He tried his best and I know that bc he is compassionate. Then I opened up my bible and read the psalms that related to my situation. The thoughts that I was thinking wasn’t even my own and I knew that bc I never really had those thoughts in a long time.

    • @rayanne1136
      @rayanne1136 3 роки тому +62

      Glad you go to God’s word instead of acting out on your emotions. God will get you through this. God bless you.

    • @isaoost1891
      @isaoost1891 3 роки тому +5

      We can talk if you want?❤

    • @Mtz2604
      @Mtz2604 3 роки тому +21

      I do something similar, I pray and open up my heart even when I don't have the proper words to describe what I feel. I know my Heavenly Father can see my heart and mind.
      Nights are the worst and waking up ia also hard... Mostly when you take meds to sleep with your treatment (I'm in this here too)

    • @thefoolsfavorite
      @thefoolsfavorite 3 роки тому +4

      I hope you're okay now!

    • @jwdenese8296
      @jwdenese8296 3 роки тому +2

      1Peter5:6,7

  • @clintraymundo6547
    @clintraymundo6547 3 роки тому +5

    “You constantly want to socialize.”
    I thought I was overcoming my depression by reaching out to others lol. But yeah, I have to stop being needy and learn to be okay with being alone.

  • @yellowlamp4183
    @yellowlamp4183 3 роки тому +1829

    me to myself: you’re just tricking yourself into thinking your depressed for attention
    Me: *watches this and realizes I have all of them spot on*
    oh.

    • @faeryli.4336
      @faeryli.4336 3 роки тому +20

      that’s what people think of me...
      We’re in the same boat bro

    • @viktorlattanzi8205
      @viktorlattanzi8205 3 роки тому +7

      same pal :')

    • @kay5502
      @kay5502 3 роки тому +110

      i constantly think im tricking myself into thinking im depressed for attention and its really bad because i actually dont know anymore

    • @kingdomsoul8968
      @kingdomsoul8968 3 роки тому +3

      Yeah...

    • @shaukeeee
      @shaukeeee 3 роки тому +23

      Yeah bruh..i even dont know if i have depression...but i have all symptom

  • @melonchaa07
    @melonchaa07 3 роки тому +296

    Me, who relates to all of those, not being diagnosed with depression: this is fine.

    • @taytayluvr
      @taytayluvr 3 роки тому +17

      mood. ive been doing things like this for years but I don’t wanna tell my parents

    • @jkstcibg
      @jkstcibg 3 роки тому +1

      Honestly mood.

    • @bruinsfan902
      @bruinsfan902 3 роки тому +4

      Mood cant tell parents becuase they wont believe

    • @strong3402
      @strong3402 3 роки тому

      @@taytayluvr same

    • @azathoththe3rd
      @azathoththe3rd 3 роки тому +3

      I don't know if it's actual depression or stress of the current events. Plus I don't wanna pay through the nose for professional help.

  • @aisatsen102
    @aisatsen102 3 роки тому +7

    the important thing about depression is:
    we all feel bad at times, sometimes those feelings are intense - but a healthy person would move on from those emotions in a short period of time. naturally, when the triggering factor is no longer bothering.
    meanwhile a depression patient would stay in this mental state in the period of up to 9 months and more.
    if its not treated in 2 years, unfortunately depression becomes chronic
    so if you’re experiencing those symptoms only for a short time, it might be a signal to take a break and reorganize life until its too late.
    if you’ve been struggling with this for long, then please seek a mental health professional as soon as you can.
    its not too late while you can stand up from your bed and do the bare minimum.

    • @curtisrandolph1887
      @curtisrandolph1887 2 роки тому

      That’s the problem. Depression robs you of your ability to make an income. You can’t see a mental health professional without money. You are trapped.

  • @baronanastis
    @baronanastis 3 роки тому +1237

    1. You constantly want to socialize - no
    2. You isolate yourself - yes
    3. You express inappropriate emotions - yes
    4. You react intensely - yes
    5. Your sleeping schedule keeps changing - yes
    6. You get tired easily - yes
    7. Your appetite has changed - yes
    8. You're indecisive - yes

    • @nelliel5001
      @nelliel5001 3 роки тому +12

      Same

    • @Some_guy_passing_by
      @Some_guy_passing_by 3 роки тому +24

      Same. 😢. I think we are reaching the border.

    • @user-youdontknowme
      @user-youdontknowme 3 роки тому +4

      *YES* TTTT.TTTT

    • @baronanastis
      @baronanastis 3 роки тому +51

      @@nelliel5001 what bothers me the most is that I don’t even have the energy to talk or even complain about my issues...

    • @baronanastis
      @baronanastis 3 роки тому +3

      @@Some_guy_passing_by sigh...

  • @artemtsarevskiy2785
    @artemtsarevskiy2785 3 роки тому +1239

    You know you have problems when this shows up in your recommended.

  • @lovelynikki_346
    @lovelynikki_346 3 роки тому +407

    Whoever is reading this just remember that ur not alone and u will soon get through all ur problems very soon, just don’t ever give up! I believe in y’all and will be there for u. Wish u all luck.❤️ There are so many people who feel the same way, I used to always think I was alone and no one would understand, but now I know that so many other people are dealing with this problem, we will all get through this together, just always remember ur NEVER alone. ❤️
    Remember that I love u❤️❤️ :)

  • @shouyili3751
    @shouyili3751 3 роки тому

    Just one thing really need to bring up here. IT IS REALLY NICE TO HEAR THIS VOICE TALKING LIKE THIS. This is helpful for me already. Suffer from depression for 7 years and I still do not want to give in.

  • @chocolatesugar-lovage9678
    @chocolatesugar-lovage9678 3 роки тому +212

    1. You constantly want to socialize. ✔
    (I'd rather be with my friends than at home.)
    2. You isolate yourself. ✔
    (I just can't talk to my parents anymore. Every talk with my dad ends up becoming a forced life lesson and everytime I talk with my mom she just doesn't care and uses what I said against me later. Only person who listens and understands is my sister.)
    3. You express inappropriate emotions. ✔
    (I'm constantly told I laugh to loud or that I'm not emotional enough. I just don't know how to correctly express my emotions when I'm told they're wrong.)
    4. You react intensely. ✔
    (Small things do annoy me, but I'm constantly angry at myself when I can't control my emotions. I don't want to let people see that they get to me but I can't help it. I'm an emotional person.)
    5. Your sleeping schedule keeps changing. ✔
    (Too much? No. Too little? Yes. All the time. I have times where I have insomnia and others where I fall right asleep. But I definitely have an irregular sleeping schedule.)
    6. You get tired easily. ✔
    (I can't concentrate with background noise that never goes away. And I'm not one to get a lot done. Fatigue is a common symptom in my day-to-day, but I've gotten used to it.)
    7. Your appetite has changed. ✔
    (I don't eat a lot, but that's a regular for me. I try not to eat a big meal since I usually eat 2 times a day due to waking up in the afternoon. I try to eat when I feel hungry but sometimes I hold out on my hunger because of my mom making me feel insecure everytime I enter the kitchen.)
    8. You're indecisive. ✔
    (I've always been indecisive but recently I've felt like I can't make a decision or I feel rushed. My dad hates when I can't decide on something and I usually end up feeling guilty for wasting time on a decision that I usually end up disliking.)

    • @ahassett37
      @ahassett37 3 роки тому +5

      Your description in the first and second one I-
      That’s me-
      Except my sister is kinda immature so I only talk about some things to her for fear of getting hurt like I have before ._.

    • @rhea6927
      @rhea6927 3 роки тому +1

      this is my life. im so sorry you have to go through this bs too. i hate it here honestly and i can imagine what you feel like. im so sorry

    • @tonyguitarselfhelp1403
      @tonyguitarselfhelp1403 3 роки тому

      Oh dear... No worries, you will keep on getting better every single day 😞

    • @crystaljoke2431
      @crystaljoke2431 3 роки тому +1

      I'm so sorry you have that kind of family. I wish I could help, even if mine's not better. Good luck, I'm with you.

    • @sianmarie9876
      @sianmarie9876 3 роки тому

      All of these, except the 7th one

  • @0omerlino025
    @0omerlino025 3 роки тому +332

    "Do you find yourself tired and not able to do things or focusing?"
    Me watching this with my math homework in front of me: ... no

    • @lilyjr.1384
      @lilyjr.1384 3 роки тому +4

      Jeremiah 29:13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart ♡

    • @SK-jg2vw
      @SK-jg2vw 3 роки тому +4

      @@lilyjr.1384 Geesh it's off topic man

    • @SK-jg2vw
      @SK-jg2vw 3 роки тому

      LOL

    • @AJ-hl6tn
      @AJ-hl6tn 3 роки тому +8

      @@lilyjr.1384 Depression isn’t satan invading your mind. Chill.

    • @lesbiansthatlove7245
      @lesbiansthatlove7245 3 роки тому +1

      This is a loaded question for someone who has A.D.D. This is me 24/7 with or without depression.

  • @boyka235
    @boyka235 3 роки тому +104

    I really want to have someone to talk to about my depression, social anxiety, etc. But not really a therapist, rather a true friend who always support you.

    • @Sam-ex9eo
      @Sam-ex9eo 3 роки тому

      Yeah

    • @isaoost1891
      @isaoost1891 3 роки тому +7

      We can talk if you want to❤

    • @lovvesickrose5593
      @lovvesickrose5593 3 роки тому +6

      Me too I wish I had someone to take care of me in this type of way :(

    • @eveking6289
      @eveking6289 3 роки тому +7

      A therapist can help you in ways even a really supportive bestie I have the sweetest best friend who lives with me and she cooks for me and cars for me when I'm having a really hard time but she reminds me that she can't help me the way a therapist can. (I've just started therapy and it is helping) I think ideally you need both 💖

    • @HumbleWorldTraveler
      @HumbleWorldTraveler 3 роки тому +6

      I tried military mental health 🤦🏽‍♀️and Talkspace therapy app. I rather just journal and be to myself. It’s like paying to answer questions you’ve already thought to yourself and meds😒

  • @cedrickalba7081
    @cedrickalba7081 3 роки тому +5

    Her voice is really calming.

  • @almajensen6878
    @almajensen6878 3 роки тому +336

    Anyone know they are depressed not just because you have got all the signs of it, but are still like «nahhh am i really depressed tho..i could just be tired and Sad and lonely»

    • @AJ-hl6tn
      @AJ-hl6tn 3 роки тому +18

      Oh my goodness sake that is literally half of being depressed. This is random, but aren’t you so tired of the misconceptions about depression? People who are fine think that depression isn’t an illness or something because they can’t see it. It’s so annoying

    • @puddleduck1405
      @puddleduck1405 3 роки тому +15

      me too i get what you mean. Usually I'm a really bright happy person, but over the last year literally nothing makes me happy anymore lmao and im always tired and upset, but im like is that just teenage hormones or something haha

    • @avieebvlogs8018
      @avieebvlogs8018 3 роки тому +12

      @@puddleduck1405 idk about me I just always told myself I’m just lazy or dramatic, even though I felt this way since I was 10

    • @hastinm3579
      @hastinm3579 3 роки тому +5

      But i actually "try" to be happy and yet fail. I guess I'm unconsciously forced to be empty and tired all the time.

    • @no1GIRluvr
      @no1GIRluvr 3 роки тому +1

      @@AJ-hl6tn theres a lot more to depression some people may not shower for weeks or months because of their depression of course its different for everyone but depression isnt just being sad all the time

  • @ameliaobrien2519
    @ameliaobrien2519 3 роки тому +379

    Me: having lots of symptoms of depression and knowing I should get help
    Also me: major fear of telling people and professionals about my problems and not getting help

    • @bizygirlxxxly
      @bizygirlxxxly 3 роки тому +5

      You don't have to be afraid to seek help within your inner cirkel and professionals. Your inner cirkel will probably support and help you and professionals will help you, it's their job and passion. They care for their patients and want to see them overcome their struggles and see them thrive. Believe me seeking out help or even talking about it with someone close to you can do wonders. Don't wait until it's to late please

    • @ameliaobrien2519
      @ameliaobrien2519 3 роки тому +5

      @@bizygirlxxxly thank you this reply really helped. I am still trying to open up about especially to my parents but hopefully I will be able to in the future. Thank you!

    • @nameofthename
      @nameofthename 3 роки тому +3

      ayo who said you could talk about me in these comments

    • @bunnylifestory9754
      @bunnylifestory9754 3 роки тому

      Oh well I hope you can open up soon and find a better way to be happy

    • @ohgodimlost421
      @ohgodimlost421 3 роки тому

      Maybe you could start by anonymously calling a mental health line? I also really struggled with telling the people around me about my depression and noticed that it’s easier to talk about it anonymously

  • @ellielucey9763
    @ellielucey9763 3 роки тому +366

    Me: has all the signs. me again: stop being dramatic girl-

    • @sydneyrhodes5021
      @sydneyrhodes5021 3 роки тому

      i heard that you're more critical of yourself soo

  • @marxthesocialist5231
    @marxthesocialist5231 3 роки тому +4

    Its a little bit unbelievable that so many people say they are depressed. As a person who went through it for 6 months and had started drinking at home every day after school ( 18 = legal) and got closer and closer to being ok with taking my on life .I can not understand how depression does not just break you guys down completely. I HAD to do something at one point and went to my school therapist, I can not imagine being like that for an extended period of time like holy shit. I hope yall actually try to get help like its so much better and you are so much smarter as a person after you kinda " get over it" ( not in a bad way but get over the slump of depression).

  • @person_maybe5702
    @person_maybe5702 3 роки тому +117

    I find myself alternating between binge eating and not eating at all, sometimes I try avoid eating all day and it makes me feel good but other times I just keep eating non stop and it makes me feel guilty but its kinda a stress reliever at the same time.

    • @mysharona6754
      @mysharona6754 3 роки тому +6

      Same...the struggle is real

    • @Paola-yc2ou
      @Paola-yc2ou 3 роки тому +3

      Same :(

    • @traceypenfold7781
      @traceypenfold7781 2 роки тому

      I hate eating. Wish I wasn't born with a stomach. So don't normally eat properly (apparently don't have eating dissorder though as my weight is perfectly fine for my height and age and I don't make myself sick ect) can go days not bothering to eat but then days where all I do is eat all day but I believe the binge eating stages are just from shere boredom as I have such a lonely boring day to day existence I literally have nothing else to do but eat and I HATE it.

  • @wh0643
    @wh0643 3 роки тому +81

    just a reminder:
    although you may relate to some or all of these things, it’s important that you don’t self diagnose. instead, go to a doctor first and get diagnosed so you can receive the most appropriate treatment.
    wishing everyone the best ❤️

    • @justarandompersonontheinte5119
      @justarandompersonontheinte5119 3 роки тому +3

      Sooo, I relate to some of the things said in this video like:
      I isolate myself some times
      React intensely (I have done this a lot of times)
      The sleep schedule is like shit rn, I sleep so late, like from 3am - 5m
      Dificult to concentrate, I almost failed school bcs of this
      My apetite has changed, I stopped eating things with more sugar and started to eat a lil bit less
      But, I dont think I have like depression, it might be like just stress bcs there where so much personal fights in 2020,and I had like a big problem with cortisol, soo 1 thing imma do is when the coronavirus ends, imma go and see a therapist and see how it goes, but it will take a while bcs of how things are rn
      (also srry if my english was bad, I speak spanish-)

    • @unknown-qg9jg
      @unknown-qg9jg 3 роки тому +12

      Also a reminder that being diagnosed by a doctor is a privilege :) not everyone has the money to do that sadly

    • @wh0643
      @wh0643 3 роки тому +4

      @@justarandompersonontheinte5119 your english is amazing oh my god!!!
      and i genuinely wish you the best with your therapist :)

    • @wh0643
      @wh0643 3 роки тому

      @@unknown-qg9jg this.

    • @urestruly
      @urestruly 3 роки тому +2

      the psychiatrist here is really expensive. 🙂

  • @CharlieMelanincholy
    @CharlieMelanincholy 3 роки тому +130

    When I get depressed, I won't even look at myself in the mirror. Like I can't even look at a failure. I'm doing better now though.

    • @aggie5668
      @aggie5668 3 роки тому +10

      Same, but I also just lay down and stare at the ceiling for a long time because I can't even handle to look at my own body parts.

    • @halag.1048
      @halag.1048 3 роки тому +4

      Is it okay to be sad for no reason cuz I can't find a reason why I'm sad :(

    • @sadseal3337
      @sadseal3337 3 роки тому +2

      @@halag.1048
      Being sad when things aren’t going good for you is just sadness but if you are constantly sad even when things are going your way then that might be depression so in short depression is being sad when you should be fine

    • @halag.1048
      @halag.1048 3 роки тому +2

      @@sadseal3337 Yes I feel like I shouldn't be sad but I'm also scared to be happy i don't know why [thank you for responding]

    • @qualityname2055
      @qualityname2055 3 роки тому +2

      im glad you're doing better!!!

  • @jasiani2598
    @jasiani2598 3 роки тому +2

    I'm happy you brought up the need to constantly socialize when depressed. This is something I've struggled with for a long time, I don't have the energy to truly engage with people and give them the time of day but I always want to be around them and being alone is just making me feel a whole lot worse. So I end up going out and hanging out with someone but I barely contribute anything to the conversation and more often than now I'm lost in my head but I don't feel as much dread as I do when I'm alone at home. I thought that I may be just looking fo distraction. I don't see a lot of websites talk about this issue, more often or not they mention social isolation so yeah, I'm glad it was brought up here.

  • @carlrivera1737
    @carlrivera1737 3 роки тому +113

    Deep depression is like
    "You have a body that wants to live but I mind that wants to die"

    • @jonservo
      @jonservo 3 роки тому +10

      You mean like a mind that fantasizes about doing harm to the body and almost doing it but the body seems to step in and stop you even though it’s the mind ultimately doing it

    • @lauren3114
      @lauren3114 3 роки тому +6

      Yeah ive never related more to a comment

    • @clusterfuckingfantastic
      @clusterfuckingfantastic 3 роки тому +1

      This is word for word how I've described it to others - relatable

  • @k_rivera
    @k_rivera 3 роки тому +362

    “Suicide doesn’t stop the pain,” “It gives it to someone else.”
    - [ ] 1: We would miss you
    - [ ] 2: It’s worth it to be alive
    - [ ] 3: It does get better, believe it or not, it will eventually get better.
    - [ ] 4: There’s so much you would miss out on doing.
    - [ ] 5: You are worth it don’t let anyone, even yourself tell you otherwise.
    - [ ] 6: God made you for a reason, you have a reason.
    - [ ] 7: There is always a reason to live!
    - [ ] 8: So many people care about you
    - [ ] 9: You are amazing
    - [ ] 10: I don’t even know you and I love you
    - [ ] 11: I care for you
    - [ ] 12: There are plenty of people that love you
    - [ ] 13: Youre literally perfect!!
    - [ ] 14: There are plenty of people that care for you
    - [ ] 15: God loves you
    - [ ] 16: God cares about you
    - [ ] 17: Sometimes life is hard but it will make you a stronger person don’t worry!
    - [ ] 18: What about all the things you’ve always wanted to do?What about all the things you’ve planned,but never got around doing? You can’t do them if your dead.
    - [ ] 19: I want you to be alive
    - [ ] 20: So many people want you alive!
    - [ ] 21: You won’t be able to listen to Music if you die
    - [ ] 22: You’ll never be able to listen to your favorite song if you die.
    - [ ] 23: You’ll never be able to listen to your favorite singer if you’re gone
    - [ ] 24: You’ll never be able to listen to your favorite rapper if you’re gone.
    - [ ] 25: listening to really loud music
    - [ ] 26: Killing yourself is never worth it,you’ll hit both yourself & the people who care about you.
    - [ ] 27: There are so many people that would miss you,including me
    - [ ] 28: the clouds
    - [ ] 29: You are gorgeous
    - [ ] 30: Someone out there would die for you :’)
    - [ ] 31: How do you think your family would feel?
    - [ ] 32: Proving people wrong with your success.
    - [ ] 33: Watching the jerks that doubted you fail at life.
    - [ ] 34: You’ll never have the feeling of walking into a warm building on a cold day.
    - [ ] 35: You’ll never have the feeling of walking into a cold building on a hot day.
    - [ ] 36: Being stupid in public just because you can.
    - [ ] 37: Helping other people.
    - [ ] 38: You have a future to live for..
    - [ ] 39: Being alive is good
    - [ ] 40: thinking about happy memories
    - [ ] 41: Finding your soulmate.
    - [ ] 42: All nighters!!!
    - [ ] 43: Sleeping in all day
    - [ ] 44: You can look back at yourself later in your life and be glad you didn’t commit suicide.
    - [ ] 45: Nobody could ever replace you
    - [ ] 46: You’re unique
    - [ ] 47: pets
    - [ ] 48: petting pets
    - [ ] 49: Netflix and movies
    - [ ] 50: Decorating the Christmas tree
    - [ ] 51: Dreams that make you smile
    - [ ] 52: Breakfast in bed
    - [ ] 53: New clothes
    - [ ] 54: New shoes
    - [ ] 55: New books
    - [ ] 56: Sunrises and Sunsets
    - [ ] 57: Friends
    - [ ] 58: The ocean
    - [ ] 59: Sunlight
    - [ ] 60: Your family
    - [ ] 61: Inside jokes
    - [ ] 62: Birthdays
    - [ ] 63: Christmas
    - [ ] 64: Family traditions
    - [ ] 65: The taste of your favorite food
    - [ ] 66: Favorite tv show
    - [ ] 67: Favorite movie
    - [ ] 68: Going to new places
    - [ ] 69: The ability to peruse whatever you choose (there are over 7 billion people on Earth, don’t be afraid to be you)
    - [ ] 70: To earn money and rewards
    - [ ] 71: You can always flip your life around.
    - [ ] 72: To find the perfect job/career for you
    - [ ] 73: Pizza
    - [ ] 74: Kittens
    - [ ] 75: New haircuts
    - [ ] 76: Moments you can look back to and laugh at
    - [ ] 77: The clouds
    - [ ] 78: The world is better with you in it
    - [ ] 79: Roller Coasters
    - [ ] 80: Showers
    - [ ] 81: Cake
    - [ ] 82:Growing old
    - [ ] 83: Growing old with the person you love
    - [ ] 84: Singing
    - [ ] 85: Sleeping
    - [ ] 86: Icecream
    - [ ] 87: Cookies
    - [ ] 88: food in general
    - [ ] 89: Movie nights
    - [ ] 90: Candy
    - [ ] 91: Popcorn
    - [ ] 92: Daydreaming
    - [ ] 93: Happy moments
    - [ ] 94: Halloween
    - [ ] 95: Sleepovers
    - [ ] 96: Parties
    - [ ] 97: Having a good personality
    - [ ] 98: Making people happy
    - [ ] 99: Bonfires
    - [ ] 100: Sitting on rooftops
    - [ ] 101: Vacations
    - [ ] 102: Hearing crazy stories
    - [ ] 103: Telling crazy stories
    - [ ] 104: Treehouses
    - [ ] 105: Starbucks
    - [ ] 106: You’ve changed someone’s life
    - [ ] 107: If you’re gone how will you achieve great things?
    - [ ] 108: Everyone has talent including you
    - [ ] 109: Eating crazy food
    - [ ] 110: Hanging out with your friends
    - [ ] 111: Nobody could ever replace you
    - [ ] 112: You have so much to live for
    - [ ] 113: Your dreams need some fulfilling to do
    - [ ] 114: Living life to the fullest
    - [ ] 115: Heck,I would miss you like crazy
    - [ ] 116: Your family and friends would be devastated if you were gone
    - [ ] 117: Someone out there is constantly praying to meet someone like you
    - [ ] 118: Your future
    - [ ] 119: You could save so many lives
    - [ ] 120: You are too beautiful to disappear
    - [ ] 121: You are bigger than any of your problems
    - [ ] 122: You are never alone during this struggle
    - [ ] 123: Tomorrow is a new day!
    - [ ] 124: You are worth more than you think
    - [ ] 125: But,the final and most important one is, just being able to experience life,because even if your life doesn’t seem so great right now,anything could happen!
    All suicide hotline numbers if you need someone to talk to :
    - [ ] Argentina: +5402234930430
    - [ ] Australia: 131114
    - [ ] Austria: 142; for children and young people, 147
    - [ ] Belgium: 106
    - [ ] Bosnia & Herzegovina: 080 05 03 05
    - [ ] Botswana: 3911270
    - [ ] Brazil: 188 for the CVV National Association
    - [ ] Canada: 1 .833 .456 .4566, 5147234000
    - [ ] (Montreal); 18662773553 (outside Montreal)
    - [ ] Croatia: 014833888
    - [ ] Denmark: +4570201201
    - [ ] Egypt: 7621602
    - [ ] Estonia: 3726558088;
    - [ ] Russian 3726555688
    - [ ] Finland: 010 195 202
    - [ ] France: 0145394000
    - [ ] Germany: 08001810771
    - [ ] Holland: 0900767
    - [ ] Hong Kong: +852 2382 0000
    - [ ] Hungary: 116123
    - [ ] India: 8888817666
    - [ ] Ireland: +44058457909090
    - [ ] Italy: 800860022
    - [ ] Japan: +810352869090
    - [ ] Mexico: 5255102550
    - [ ] New Zealand: 0800543354
    - [ ] Norway: +4781533300
    - [ ] Philippines: 028969191
    - [ ] Poland: 5270000
    - [ ] Portugal: 21 854 07 40/8 . 96 898 21 50
    - [ ] Russia: 0078202577577
    - [ ] Spain: 914590050
    - [ ] South Africa: 0514445691
    - [ ] Sweden: 46317112400
    - [ ] Switzerland: 143
    - [ ] United Kingdom: 08457909090
    - [ ] USA: 18002738255
    - [ ] Veterans’ Crisis Line: 1 800 273 8255/ text 383255
    songs that could make you happy
    Personal by HRVY: @YJpE
    I like me better by Lauv: @ozwA
    Classic by MKTO: @A4Ds
    Just friends by JORDY: @eINM
    Eastside by Benny Blanco,Halsey,& Khalid: @UvGY
    What makes you beautiful by 1D: @-A4E
    Cheerleader by OMI: @QfW8
    Everybody talks by Neon Trees: @84lE
    Dear future husband by Meghan Trainor: @D_40
    Backyard Boy by Claire Rosinkranz: @shy8
    Shut up and dance with me by WALK THE MOON: @lx6Q
    iSpy by KYLE: @gMPU
    Trap queen by Fetty Wap: @NKio
    LMK by Lil XXEL: @IC24
    Dynamite by BTS: @WNZg

    • @jiminscheetos9950
      @jiminscheetos9950 3 роки тому +11

      You are an angel omg❤thankyou❤so so so much..

    • @avieebvlogs8018
      @avieebvlogs8018 3 роки тому +9

      Thank you so much

    • @blueberrybiscuitsoyummy
      @blueberrybiscuitsoyummy 3 роки тому +11

      I’m sure a lot of people need to see this. Thank you

    • @alc5756
      @alc5756 3 роки тому +5

      thank you i really needed this

    • @talithaleah6563
      @talithaleah6563 3 роки тому +15

      I appreciate your intentions, but this list would not work for an atheist.

  • @eeveearoace
    @eeveearoace 3 роки тому +1415

    "Your emotions are more muted"
    Me, who's emotions have felt very muted recently: O.O
    Me: I definitely have depression
    Also me: But I haven't been diagnosed or anything, so maybe I'm just lazy and expecting life to be all sunshine and rainbows and maybe if I'd stop complaining life would be easier

    • @chimerasofhafgufa
      @chimerasofhafgufa 3 роки тому +98

      imposter syndrome anyone?

    • @themightypancake5695
      @themightypancake5695 3 роки тому +90

      @@chimerasofhafgufa I'm sus of myself constantly

    • @sunshibe8811
      @sunshibe8811 3 роки тому +190

      I swear to god, i relate to _so many_ of these things, especially the depression videos, pretty much every point. it's like they know me. but at the same time, I think I'm just overreacting and don't have depression, self diagnosing is dumb and I'm just sensitive or something.? and I'm way too scared to actually go to a professional, because I don't want my parents to worry or pay too much attention to me, since I still live with them. I genuinely not know what to do and I'm so tired of this..

    • @SADIE_Maybe_SADISTIC
      @SADIE_Maybe_SADISTIC 3 роки тому +22

      @@sunshibe8811 same

    • @itshoneychilee
      @itshoneychilee 3 роки тому +31

      That’s literally how I felt! I’ve been diagnosed several times and still felt like I was making it up (imposter syndrome like the below poster said) and now I’m finally on meds and feel sooo much better. I physically can’t get that sad and depressed anymore. Even if I feel a wave coming on it’s like it stops midway and it’s blocked.

  • @nottristenmcneil-tews5164
    @nottristenmcneil-tews5164 3 роки тому +5

    I can feel it coming back.. The last time I watched any videos like these I was in a bad place and I can feel myself slowly creep back into that place that I do not want to be at :/

  • @62Cristoforo
    @62Cristoforo 3 роки тому +148

    Finding someone who will just listen to you is better than finding gold.
    We all need to be heard. We all have a story to tell

  • @justzami8451
    @justzami8451 3 роки тому +63

    As one woman said: depression isn't always visible and easy to see, sometimes you can't even realise that someone have it.
    Or something like that, can't remember.. but hey, point is still the same.
    R.I.P. Chester.

  • @madeleineroux1319
    @madeleineroux1319 3 роки тому +794

    "You isolate yourself"
    Me : i don't want to
    Covid : yes you do

  • @sodafied7988
    @sodafied7988 3 роки тому

    I learn quite a bit from these videos, but I mainly watch because her voice is so soothing. Makes me wanna smile.

  • @nbj6284
    @nbj6284 3 роки тому +736

    Things you do when depressed:
    -watch 1000 videos about depression AND NOT DOING ANYTHING ABOUT IT

  • @emmaok6684
    @emmaok6684 3 роки тому +258

    her voice is so calm that it cured my depression

    • @ntom5579
      @ntom5579 3 роки тому +8

      She really does have a very pleasant voice :)

    • @alisonsmith9240
      @alisonsmith9240 3 роки тому +6

      This comment made me smile for the first time today

    • @calvenmuswagon7445
      @calvenmuswagon7445 3 роки тому +4

      Truw

    • @missplay3320
      @missplay3320 3 роки тому +3

      You didnt have depression 🤦

    • @FLRSKLVR
      @FLRSKLVR 3 роки тому +2

      oh really? I find the forced sweet voice highly irritating.

  • @Sherufff
    @Sherufff 3 роки тому +1044

    Psycg2Go: “Do you relate to any of the signs metioned here?“
    Me: How about to all of them

    • @secretfairytail7368
      @secretfairytail7368 3 роки тому +10

      Yeah i can relate to all of them :(

    • @charmingnarcisse
      @charmingnarcisse 3 роки тому +10

      @Preetish Pratihari one can relate to extremes in different times so

    • @tsuyuasuithemoonlightfropp6554
      @tsuyuasuithemoonlightfropp6554 3 роки тому

      Same with me.

    • @anahiperez976
      @anahiperez976 3 роки тому

      Same

    • @jordan-s
      @jordan-s 3 роки тому

      @Preetish Pratihari Some people can have long periods of time where they don't interact with others, interchanging with other long periods of time where they just really constantly oversocialize.

  • @ronanrawk2113
    @ronanrawk2113 3 роки тому +342

    Me who does all these things but is a relatively happy person: “Maybe I am depressed”

    • @TheSneakyPete23
      @TheSneakyPete23 3 роки тому +11

      me except i can see myself declining from happy to depressed

    • @georgina1447
      @georgina1447 3 роки тому +4

      no you arent

    • @fae1984
      @fae1984 3 роки тому +38

      @@georgina1447 maybe they are tf

    • @DaisyKmua
      @DaisyKmua 3 роки тому +40

      @@georgina1447 you can act happy and be depressed. I catch myself doing it constantly. I call it depression mask, not showing others how you feel. Everyone deals differently.

    • @nomorenoob2045
      @nomorenoob2045 3 роки тому +33

      @@georgina1447 you can be happy and depressed at the same time, emotions are confusing and everything isn’t always black and white.

  • @junexxmoon1985
    @junexxmoon1985 3 роки тому +137

    My dad lastly said to me:
    "You know, I wish I could take a look at your inside to see how you really feel"
    And I answered (and I was 100% serious): "You don't want that".
    I said that, because you are very lucky if you don't know the feeling of depression. Trust me, you would never want to know how it feels. I wouldn't want you to know either, because depression is something, I would not even wish the worst human alive.

    • @svea538
      @svea538 3 роки тому +6

      @Liouxs Brent Espinosa they may mean "recently" instead of "lastly". I am from Germany and that seems like a common mistake a German-speaker could make because "lastly" would be the literal translation of how you'd say it in German.

    • @bahahhaaoklmaoo4692
      @bahahhaaoklmaoo4692 3 роки тому

      @@websurfin2010 please please don’t end your life, you matter so much. Ending ur life doesn’t heal the pain it only passes it on to those around you. You have much to live for and it does get better even though it doesn’t seem like it now. What abt all the things you wanted to do b4 you died? Idk what to say to you but I really care so please stay.❤️

    • @yourshadows
      @yourshadows 3 роки тому

      I’m sorry you’re depressed, im depressed also and trying to recover, I get you...I think what dad said is nice tho, it’s nice that he said he would really like to know how you feel. I don’t think we hear that enough.

    • @shoganflamemasta3975
      @shoganflamemasta3975 3 роки тому +1

      Depression is one of the most common mental illness of all time, and the number of depressed people is growing exponentially along with modernity. Depression is progresively becoming more and more common. So start wraping your head around depression being a very common, normal and non dramatic thing. There would probably be a point where people won't even consciously identify depression, and governaments or pharmaceitucals will profit from different casual drugs to try and mask the general despair of a modern society that is sick at its core, extremely isolating and individualistic, and completely detached from healthy humane social practices and treatments. Best way we can see it is, humanity is headed towards utter emotional and mental despair, where all of our grandchildren and descendants will grow depressed from early childhood, we are lucky and should be grateful to live in a society that can still somewhat treat depression. You can treat the depression of a person, you can't treat a whole society. We are lucky.

  • @tabitha5497
    @tabitha5497 3 роки тому +49

    Everyone here who is struggling, know that you are special, valid, and loved. The world is better with you all in it!!

    • @Sevren_
      @Sevren_ 3 роки тому

      No one here is special. But they are valid and still important

    • @SprigiTot
      @SprigiTot 3 роки тому +1

      You are a nice person I'm happy you care about depressed people unlike my friends

    • @soaringpuppy4042
      @soaringpuppy4042 3 роки тому +1

      @@Sevren_ well that was unnecessary but okay

  • @mrme-dj6ib
    @mrme-dj6ib 3 роки тому +42

    Everytime my depression hitting me I pretend to not care, I was like no don't come, busying myself w other stuff, pretend to forget my problem, my anger. This feeling continue then after three days I burst crying so hard. I hate myself so much

  • @siyaanda
    @siyaanda 3 роки тому +1

    Everything that was described here
    Is all the things i go through.
    I keep watching this to make me calm❤

  • @badmelll
    @badmelll 3 роки тому +133

    Me trynna deny I'm depressed, but having all the symptoms lol

    • @hostileenvironment6107
      @hostileenvironment6107 3 роки тому +2

      You ugh.... wanna snuggle and watch anime. :-3?

    • @quinnceysmaze8157
      @quinnceysmaze8157 3 роки тому +1

      @@hostileenvironment6107 can I..?😔

    • @hostileenvironment6107
      @hostileenvironment6107 3 роки тому

      @@quinnceysmaze8157 “Lifts open fuzzy Jon Snow like cloak blanket” And nods mmhmm. I’m down for anythingg ugh tried getting some chick I was fooling around with into Berserk probably not a good starter anime ngl but she was goth looking and figured she would’ve loiked it. 🤷‍♂️

    • @mochizunnku6504
      @mochizunnku6504 3 роки тому

      @@hostileenvironment6107 wtf-

    • @hostileenvironment6107
      @hostileenvironment6107 3 роки тому

      @@mochizunnku6504 Yuh probably unnecessary info, was probably baked then so kind of ramble...? Mehh ah well I’m roight as rain mate.

  • @sunooismyroad
    @sunooismyroad 3 роки тому +288

    me: laughs in the most inappropriate setting.
    also me: no I'm just a psychopath

    • @Akaashi_is_Superior
      @Akaashi_is_Superior 3 роки тому +14

      No cause I say this to myself I can’t self diagnose ofc but I feel like I have something other than depression- 🧍🏻‍♀️

    • @sunooismyroad
      @sunooismyroad 3 роки тому +6

      @@Akaashi_is_Superior fr same :D

    • @copingant9103
      @copingant9103 3 роки тому +11

      every time i encounter a sad moment in a movie or a show i always have the urge to laugh and then i think that im a psychopath or something. Im kinda glad I saw this vid and I realized that many people are feeling the same way too hope we all get better tho :(

    • @jayemescano6047
      @jayemescano6047 3 роки тому +1

      Same

    • @sevazzztian
      @sevazzztian 3 роки тому +2

      I just laugh bc dense situations make me nervous 🥩

  • @Lmao_moood
    @Lmao_moood 3 роки тому +402

    Me: probably has all the signs
    Also me: nah, maybe I'm just tired.

    • @Spooky_wooky_attorney
      @Spooky_wooky_attorney 3 роки тому +3

      Same, buddy.

    • @meghansullivan6812
      @meghansullivan6812 3 роки тому +5

      ✨Imposter syndrome ✨

    • @bunnylifestory9754
      @bunnylifestory9754 3 роки тому +1

      Same though though like you said I'm probably tired or being dramatic

    • @bunnylifestory9754
      @bunnylifestory9754 3 роки тому +1

      umm I just took a depression test0-0and it said I have bipolar disorders but you know it's just a test nothing serious, like I don't believe I have problems?

    • @makingaappearance2300
      @makingaappearance2300 3 роки тому +1

      @@bunnylifestory9754 don’t take tests that’s self diagnosing

  • @denvergilmer2924
    @denvergilmer2924 3 роки тому

    Thank you for creating this video. I knew so many people who needed help but couldn’t access it. You are doing exactly what you said in the beginning. Making mental health education more accessible.