my parents worked hard and rise from having very low-income to having a great-income. i have seen them growing from the bad stage to better stage. now they have enough money to fund me for studying abroad and im feeling really guilty. firstly, i have always felt bad whenever my parents spend a lot of money on me, it feels like im a pressure on them. secondly, if i succeed, my success would belong to my parents. if i lose, it would be like "oh even after getting such support from parents, he failed".
first of all, thank you for sharing this! ❤️ on your first point regarding feeling bad when they spend money on you, maybe it can help you to switch that narrative and realize that they're spending that money on you because they want to! there is no reason to feel guilty about being given things out of the kindness of others' hearts 🤍 and on your second point, i understand the feeling of your success belonging to your parents or whoever financially supports you. but firstly, rather than feeling guilty about it, i think it's more productive to simply be grateful for that financial support and use it in the best way you see fit. secondly, just because your parents help you financially doesn't mean you don't put a lot of work and effort into your own life. don't take that credit away from yourself just because you financially got help. somebody could have the richest parents on the planet, but if they did no work of their own, they likely wouldn't find success. or at least not fulfilling success. you need to give yourself credit for the work you do put into your own life ❤️ and lastly, on the point about failure, i don't believe failure is a one and done type of thing. the most successful people have often tried and failed 100x which is exactly what gave them the knowledge they now have to be so successful. overall, it sounds to me like you're being a lot more hard on yourself than you deserve, and i hope this can encourage you to give yourself some more credit ❤️❤️✨✨ plus, i imagine the last thing your parents would want is for you to be feeling guilty for the things they willingly and happily give to you; again, they do that because they want to 🤍
@@hippienikki11 thank you so much for replying. your reply gave me another perspective and relieved me. im really grateful for what my parents got to offer me. i wish you a happy and fulfilling life. thank you for helping me.
finally someone said it !
I resonate so much with this/you! Thank you for posting 🤍
thank you for the support! 💖 glad to hear this resonates 🥰
my parents worked hard and rise from having very low-income to having a great-income. i have seen them growing from the bad stage to better stage. now they have enough money to fund me for studying abroad and im feeling really guilty. firstly, i have always felt bad whenever my parents spend a lot of money on me, it feels like im a pressure on them. secondly, if i succeed, my success would belong to my parents. if i lose, it would be like "oh even after getting such support from parents, he failed".
first of all, thank you for sharing this! ❤️ on your first point regarding feeling bad when they spend money on you, maybe it can help you to switch that narrative and realize that they're spending that money on you because they want to! there is no reason to feel guilty about being given things out of the kindness of others' hearts 🤍 and on your second point, i understand the feeling of your success belonging to your parents or whoever financially supports you. but firstly, rather than feeling guilty about it, i think it's more productive to simply be grateful for that financial support and use it in the best way you see fit. secondly, just because your parents help you financially doesn't mean you don't put a lot of work and effort into your own life. don't take that credit away from yourself just because you financially got help. somebody could have the richest parents on the planet, but if they did no work of their own, they likely wouldn't find success. or at least not fulfilling success. you need to give yourself credit for the work you do put into your own life ❤️ and lastly, on the point about failure, i don't believe failure is a one and done type of thing. the most successful people have often tried and failed 100x which is exactly what gave them the knowledge they now have to be so successful. overall, it sounds to me like you're being a lot more hard on yourself than you deserve, and i hope this can encourage you to give yourself some more credit ❤️❤️✨✨ plus, i imagine the last thing your parents would want is for you to be feeling guilty for the things they willingly and happily give to you; again, they do that because they want to 🤍
@@hippienikki11 thank you so much for replying. your reply gave me another perspective and relieved me. im really grateful for what my parents got to offer me. i wish you a happy and fulfilling life. thank you for helping me.
@@amarpreetsingh305 of course! i wish you the same 10fold :)