Understanding How To Escalate With Women (My PAINFUL MISTAKES)

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  • @Kyle_Froonjian
    @Kyle_Froonjian  3 роки тому +11

    Like & Comment for the youtube algorithm 💪🏼
    Apply To Be Mentored By Me Personally (Link in description)
    IG: @Kyle_Froonjian

    • @jcasipit8
      @jcasipit8 3 роки тому

      I feel so far behind

    • @cloudk3574
      @cloudk3574 Рік тому

      LOL at not trying to say the term friendzone.....like its Lord Voldemort

    • @charlesjue4962
      @charlesjue4962 5 місяців тому

      Just because the Colombian girl is getting married does mean that you still can't get with he after she gets married. It may actually be even easier to do that

  • @wizardellaga
    @wizardellaga 3 роки тому +52

    I like how Coach Kyle gave the answer right away with no intro

  • @ShoaibKhan-bz5qm
    @ShoaibKhan-bz5qm 3 роки тому +199

    Nobody talks about this how to logically progress from slight sexuality at the beginning to the kiss - the bridge from hello to sex

  • @scnager1
    @scnager1 Рік тому +41

    This is the equivalent of talking to a girl platonically for a while and finally asking her out and then she friend zones you because you missed your window compared with being flirty from the beginning. Great video!

    • @mw00295
      @mw00295 6 місяців тому +1

      she would likely friendzone you from the start. its simply impossible to get any woman you want. A lot of it is down to luck. Not everybody is equally ready for something more. Don't stress too much about time windows, it's going to make you awkward, but you should know what you want and be confident about it.

    • @AllanRochez
      @AllanRochez 5 місяців тому

      Sooooooo true

  • @manaspratimgoswami3810
    @manaspratimgoswami3810 3 роки тому +65

    Kyle and colombian chick reference is a no brainer

  • @Kevvvinus1
    @Kevvvinus1 3 роки тому +36

    Kyle full respect I’m from 88 , been through many struggles in my own life . Regardless I’m a good looking man with a good psychic but my brain barriers and what happened in past , that shit was blocking me . It took me almost 2 years and I’m still learning stuff. When I was 24 I got myself into a 7 years of a weird relationship. And bro I remember your videos from few years ago , content was always real just like You, but now that’s like a diff game thanks to You and Alex, based Zeus

  • @habibicometodubai888
    @habibicometodubai888 3 роки тому +24

    Only channel that I have notifications on for

    • @Kyle_Froonjian
      @Kyle_Froonjian  3 роки тому +10

      that’s lit let’s go 💪🏼✊🏼

  • @Kmurray1029
    @Kmurray1029 3 роки тому +63

    Best dude out there, can you make some fitness advice videos too? Thanks bro appreciate the grind great content love the channel

    • @Kyle_Froonjian
      @Kyle_Froonjian  3 роки тому +15

      yes i got you

    • @Kyle_Froonjian
      @Kyle_Froonjian  3 роки тому +18

      @shredded m'fucker lol facts.. but fitness is also a big part of my lifestyle & a lot of guys just resonate with me so.. fuck it, why not

    • @kamprikorn
      @kamprikorn 3 роки тому +1

      @@Kyle_Froonjian fuck it bro, some fitness guys who watch it might stumble upon your game videos

  • @brocklanders3616
    @brocklanders3616 3 роки тому +288

    Learning escalation comes from experience. I had a chick grab the back of my neck during a hug, it was in a store infront of customers. So escalation was not happening. Texted her the next day, and crickets. I learned when it comes to females, they lose interest faster than they gain it for you. And Lord knows, a pretty girls options are unlimited.

    • @TheRumpelstinskin
      @TheRumpelstinskin 2 роки тому +24

      Maybe there was never interest in the first place.
      It's possible she does that with everyone or she is a natural flirt.

  • @ComedyTherapyYT
    @ComedyTherapyYT 3 роки тому +93

    Yup happened to me recently. Awkward kiss at the end of first date because I wasn't teasing, flirting, escalating physically. But second date she knew what was up and we got really physical

    • @Kyle_Froonjian
      @Kyle_Froonjian  3 роки тому +7

      lets go Samuel 💪🏼

    • @effortless4588
      @effortless4588 3 роки тому +1

      You both make great content I could see you with millions of subs to be honest

  • @ejmulawin4336
    @ejmulawin4336 3 роки тому +23

    Biggest thing I learned from you man was those macro moves, me and a girl I was dating were in a room alone, I knew I had to somehow escalate but I just didn't know how, shit was painful for me too bruhh, wish I had time to google this shit back then Hahaha, anyways thanks for the awesome content kyle!

  • @omg_itz_mohammed8970
    @omg_itz_mohammed8970 3 роки тому +19

    My man✌🏾, thanks a lot for helping me achieving my goals, you’re the best man keep the hard work up 🔥👌🏾

  • @wvmy
    @wvmy Рік тому +1

    Makes sense. Luckily you’ve put in the woman’s perspective on how we as humans Interact. Mainly if i’m gonna be honest. Being and having a open body language is key. Practice it more often then you will be more open. If you’re not physically escalating things women can definitely take it as rejection. So open body language is key. And be comfortable with them when you have it.

  • @ngucoco9152
    @ngucoco9152 3 роки тому +10

    Love how it’s becoming a daily thing keep it up💯

  • @antonywmduma
    @antonywmduma 3 роки тому +8

    Happy Birthday Coach

  • @leonazzvibes
    @leonazzvibes 10 місяців тому +1

    "reverse engineered the whole thing" - I like that framing

  • @charldrichkoopman3954
    @charldrichkoopman3954 3 роки тому +11

    When we getting another infield breakdown been waiting for that shit.

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 2 місяці тому +1

    *Escalating naturally means being attuned to her comfort level while confidently progressing the connection.*

  • @abcjackob1
    @abcjackob1 3 роки тому +2

    Happy birthday Coach Kyle

  • @ICON101789
    @ICON101789 10 днів тому

    This was my problem lol I have no problem securing dates but would never get past the first or second. Wasn’t sure what I was doing. Not knowing how to escalate was the problem. Great advice here

  • @wussellwestbrook136
    @wussellwestbrook136 3 роки тому +3

    Been subbed for a while and also agree you should do a full body workout routine us gym newbies. Keep it up bro!

  • @davidrivas6412
    @davidrivas6412 3 роки тому +4

    Almost 200k followers bro. Keep up the good work!!!! You'll be at 500k before you know it haha

  • @dre098
    @dre098 3 роки тому

    Can't wait till kyle reach his one. mil goal💪🏾

  • @tyronewilson7890
    @tyronewilson7890 3 роки тому +5

    Just brought a girl back to my room for first time. Wasn’t a success. Kinda hurts cuz I rlly like her and wanted to do sum. I feel like she was down but my escalation was trash.

  • @DontbeanNPC
    @DontbeanNPC 3 роки тому +2

    Man, I literally just heard about your channel, looked it up and watched some videos. You are far beyond most guys I see online. I just watched a piece of an interview with Prince O and yourself and I'm blown away. I can relate to what you said about not being able to talk to women before you started because you didn't have a father around to teach you that as I had the same situation after my father passed when I was 11. You look like you're in a great physical shape and awesome with being able to have conversations with women and I want to be there someday too so just wanted to say I'm inspired by your channel and keep it up man!

    • @maryambashir4193
      @maryambashir4193 3 роки тому

      Don't give up on life and the universe I know of a great man who helped you me fix my broken hear beat relationship and everything was restored to pormal in days without delay

    • @maryambashir4193
      @maryambashir4193 3 роки тому

      massage him on WhatsApp

  • @ogsal7549
    @ogsal7549 3 роки тому +2

    Happy bday homie

  • @ZaKeGoAwAy
    @ZaKeGoAwAy 3 роки тому +7

    Now with this pandemic situation. I cant even hug man. But i'm studying the theory and what i can put in practice, even in this global situation, i'll do my best.

  • @colematlapeng3155
    @colematlapeng3155 3 роки тому +9

    Impressive indeed

  • @AndrewWalden-fn1zg
    @AndrewWalden-fn1zg 2 місяці тому

    Go for everything! Hello chads style

  • @YTSylantys
    @YTSylantys 3 роки тому +3

    Happy bday

  • @cortex7024
    @cortex7024 2 роки тому +2

    ive had 3 hot women now flirt with me hard, this one at work was flirting with me constantly for months and i had no clue how to escelate it and to get her to know i wanted to makeout with her and stuff. She was all over me all the time, asked to come along with me everytime id go on a break and would talk to me almost all day but nothing ever happened because i didn't know what to do!

  • @mw00295
    @mw00295 6 місяців тому

    if you wait too long you can still save it by starting from those small things you mentioned

  • @Himel_Debnath
    @Himel_Debnath Рік тому

    But, how to do these stuffs at a public gym?

  • @nathasantos5616
    @nathasantos5616 3 роки тому +16

    Chega um certo ponto do vídeo que não tem legenda em português mas tá muito bom o vídeo

  • @canaldoperuzyus6096
    @canaldoperuzyus6096 3 роки тому +2

    Kyle, the substitles are very late compared to the audio

  • @saullandiof5768
    @saullandiof5768 Рік тому +2

    it's hilarious to see how women talk about this stuff, they either say "touching is so creepy on first date, hands off!" or "I liked our conversation but he didn't touch at all, so I turned down the second date"

  • @pxelthelegend6035
    @pxelthelegend6035 3 роки тому +1

    Hey Kyle ,i was searching your videos where you appraoch to girls and i dont find them ,you stopped making them?
    Because they were very intertaining!

  • @AllanRochez
    @AllanRochez 5 місяців тому

    These things happen man live and learn
    And get better

  • @senmonkashonen5875
    @senmonkashonen5875 3 роки тому +1

    Well... I've been wondering, after getting women then what?

  • @eldromedario3315
    @eldromedario3315 2 роки тому +1

    video starts at 3:03

  • @hbfitness4264
    @hbfitness4264 Рік тому

    I meet women at salsa so physical part is okay but still need to learn to go for the kiss in that aspect

  • @xylexfn3275
    @xylexfn3275 3 роки тому +18

    Consistency 😍

  • @vibewithdipen8473
    @vibewithdipen8473 3 роки тому +5

    is the thumbnail girl Doha ? 😍 💘

  • @BelegaerTheGreat
    @BelegaerTheGreat 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks for saying why. Now tell me how.

    • @ienjoysandwiches
      @ienjoysandwiches 7 місяців тому

      He didn't even answer what he said he would in the title. Total clickbait.

  • @davidmtz75
    @davidmtz75 3 роки тому +4

    Happy birthday Kyle stay epic your videos help a lot I’ve been using it and I can’t wait to get laid she’s just désires me lmao like fuck, you too good at this

  • @m-linko
    @m-linko 3 роки тому

    Oi bro, what happened to the central park infield? That one was gold

  • @moneyman206
    @moneyman206 3 роки тому +2

    BROOOO!!! does this Colombian girl name start with a S and he last name start with a R? I was fw this bad Colombian who literally just got engaged

  • @imadb1305
    @imadb1305 3 роки тому +2

    UR better off on the field !!

  • @benalexender3046
    @benalexender3046 3 роки тому

    Thanks from Egypt 🇪🇬

  • @joj4541
    @joj4541 3 роки тому +5

    How does one go from only hand shakes to side hugs?? I still struggle with this, and I’m talking about a girl that I see more often like a friend

  • @williamkjellstrand5280
    @williamkjellstrand5280 3 роки тому +2

    Whats good Kyle?

  • @jeremyhopkins2692
    @jeremyhopkins2692 3 роки тому +2

    Do you have an escalation ladder with physicality, if so where can I find it?

  • @alfredomancini3710
    @alfredomancini3710 Рік тому +2

    "closer you can start interaction, the easier it will be to escalate" what a true judgement. In my before dating eperiences, ı was afraid to touch and establish a phsyical connection, consequently kissing was impossible. But today I have a date and I will touch the girl at the start

  • @mykochan2429
    @mykochan2429 3 роки тому +1

    What name is that haircut bro?

  • @Valvival
    @Valvival 3 роки тому +3

    Can you make a video about nofap? What do you think about it ? It's good or not?

  • @GameW200
    @GameW200 9 місяців тому

    Game changer set it off early

  • @bollebanan1186
    @bollebanan1186 Рік тому

    Ngl hearing your mistakes makes me feel better haha

  • @antonboludo8886
    @antonboludo8886 10 місяців тому

    Mistakes are learning experiences.

  • @jdwinston6728
    @jdwinston6728 2 роки тому

    I love how he explains to the viewers👍🔥

  • @LalaLala-d7j
    @LalaLala-d7j Рік тому

    Kyle, i am gay,and my question is:are these tequnices about escalation and flirtng, suitable for boys?

  • @behonest9500
    @behonest9500 3 роки тому

    Why u removed old videos ! .... It was amazing

    • @onthearth1
      @onthearth1 3 роки тому

      He did it for the subscribing; he wants to take his channel to another level

  • @xzmplxsnoop4786
    @xzmplxsnoop4786 4 місяці тому

    I’m still 17 but I had an experience last night with this girl😕 we hung out and I thought it would just be a good idea to hang out for just once and talk yk and get to know each other without the touchy stuff but I feel like I sold😭 (that was our first 1 on 1 encounter)

  • @ZzZin_
    @ZzZin_ 3 роки тому +1

    A legenda em português tá atrasada, e não tem legenda em inglês, aí complicou kkkk

  • @kadirlive7307
    @kadirlive7307 3 роки тому

    Why there aren't Turkish subtitles KYLE ? HELP ME

    • @Kyle_Froonjian
      @Kyle_Froonjian  3 роки тому +1

      i dont speak Turkish brotha

    • @kadirlive7307
      @kadirlive7307 3 роки тому

      @@Kyle_Froonjian You are wonderful, bro, we learned a lot from you. Doesn't translate mode work?

    • @kadirlive7307
      @kadirlive7307 3 роки тому

      @@Kyle_Froonjian Maybe be done while uploading the video

  • @jossell911
    @jossell911 2 роки тому

    That same story you said happened to me. She gave me the cheek and I felt horrible that night. Funny thing is…she still liked me. Another round. See how it goes guys!! Great vid brotha💯

  • @dariobuongarzone6469
    @dariobuongarzone6469 3 роки тому +3

    But don't you think that, even on that first date without physicality, if you went for the kiss she would've gone for it? Not trying to diminish all the stuff you said on the video which are FACTS.

    • @Kyle_Froonjian
      @Kyle_Froonjian  3 роки тому +8

      the first escalation can be the first kiss .. but it’s not ideal & most men that are inexperienced will feel pressure & it will be harder to execute

  • @chowell1451
    @chowell1451 2 роки тому +1

    She’s been flirting with me, I’m socially awkward sometimes but I like her honestly what should I do?
    There’s been some tension between us the past 2 months. She’s a really outgoing/extrovert/golden retriever type and she starts convos with me and I try but I can really only do it when I’m drunk I’m just too introverted and still overcoming my social anxiety so I can’t start convos really, I can carry them with her tho and I show interest because I kinda am. She’s sweet and just got done with a bad relationship with some kid my age who’s completely different than me physically and mentally so I sometimes wonder if she’s just trying to get back but idk the signs she gives tell me something else. What should I do? Continue to just let her approach me and wait or what? I met her in the summer so we’re still new to each other but we actually fuck with each other. Our relationship is still in its infancy stage though like besides parties every weekend we don’t really see each other or talk but I’m boys with her brother. She’s sat on my lap in a car for 30 minutes and we chilled, she wrote me a note when she was really drunk with my name and a heart on it that same night (this is when it all started) am I overthinking or does she like me? After a football game it was senior night so my poster and fam were at the game and she texted me the next day saying she wanted to take a pic with them and my poster. My old wrestling poster was in an office and she found it n took a picture with it, lil shit like that. We’ve never had sex or kissed but you can feel the tension. I think my issue is I’m just too scared of scaring or making her uncomfortable and I’m also just not confident enough sometimes. Any advice? Any girls who’re extroverts and have gotten with an introvert how did the relationship grow? Took me a time to write this and I rarely do this so any help would be appreciated.
    TLDR; I like her, I think she likes me and I feel she’s done things that have come off as flirtatious and I’ve kinda flirted back but i just feel weird and I’m an introvert. Should I continue to let her do shit in hopes that she escalates it herself or do I need to make a mov before it’s too late?

    • @lolaland5595
      @lolaland5595 2 роки тому +1

      If you truly care about her, you need to man up and tell her. It will be super hard but it's 10 seconds of pain versus months of regret if you don't. Tell her you like her and ask her out for a lunch date. You need to tell her. No matter how scared or socially awkwars you are, you need to tell her. If she actually likes you she will accept your date. Make sure you have an exact place in mind to eat, the day and time too. She will want to see that you planned it out. Good luck

    • @chowell1451
      @chowell1451 2 роки тому

      @@lolaland5595 thanks brodie

  • @rawfit12424
    @rawfit12424 3 роки тому

    Do any of these vids have anything to do with scenarios which do not involve getting shitfaced?

  • @whocares5
    @whocares5 3 роки тому

    I am a woman and have no problems with men
    How did I get here lol😂 but interesting to hear all of it from the male side

  • @rileios7848
    @rileios7848 3 роки тому +1

    How tall r u man ?

  • @jafromthe5593
    @jafromthe5593 3 роки тому

    Happy Birthday lol

  • @MOHAMAD_771
    @MOHAMAD_771 3 роки тому

    ادرع شي 🔥

  • @A1un9ine
    @A1un9ine Рік тому

    tell em

  • @adomede
    @adomede 3 роки тому +1

    3:00

  • @zurielrigual2472
    @zurielrigual2472 3 роки тому +2

    Yesssirrr

  • @jorgerafael139
    @jorgerafael139 3 роки тому

    My touch game is amazing but my talk is meh

  • @orisha2310
    @orisha2310 3 роки тому +1

    LESSGOO

  • @JohnDoe-qq8et
    @JohnDoe-qq8et 3 роки тому +1

    Single for life 😬😷

    • @antonsaraste4726
      @antonsaraste4726 3 роки тому

      There's no way you will be.

    • @JohnDoe-qq8et
      @JohnDoe-qq8et 3 роки тому +1

      @@antonsaraste4726 Sounds like we got ourselves a bet. I been a loser ny whole life but this is one bet I can't lose. You're on, buddy.

  • @CarlosEduardo-ty8sx
    @CarlosEduardo-ty8sx 3 роки тому +5

    🔥🇧🇷💪

  • @alexsandrodecarvalho7945
    @alexsandrodecarvalho7945 3 роки тому

    O gringo é foda pega mulher pra caramba.

  • @DonnieToys
    @DonnieToys 7 місяців тому

    For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. (Romans 6:23)
    For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul? (Matthew 16:26)
    For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. (Romans 10:13)
    The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance. (2 Peter 3:9)

  • @coldsteel9420
    @coldsteel9420 2 роки тому +1

    There's only one way to score a kiss. "I can tell that you're attracted to me. Come here and kiss me."

    • @ulyssesjr1274
      @ulyssesjr1274 Рік тому +1

      Cringe

    • @coldsteel9420
      @coldsteel9420 Рік тому +1

      @@ulyssesjr1274 I'd love that response. I'd rather her reject me than catch a false charge or waste time with a woman who doesn't have genuine lust.

    • @pratik6342
      @pratik6342 5 місяців тому

      works

  • @DavidDL7
    @DavidDL7 3 роки тому +3

    🇧🇷✨🤬🔥

  • @wasbaz
    @wasbaz 2 роки тому

    Omg this sounds so familiar, but I ended up making out with this chick a few months later

  • @saurabhsharmarules
    @saurabhsharmarules 8 місяців тому

    😂😂😂😂🤣🤣

  • @levisousa1901
    @levisousa1901 3 роки тому

    🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷

  • @gfx-vision
    @gfx-vision 3 місяці тому

    Bro sorry to say but the reality is when she gives you the cheek that means it‘s over she has no romantic interst in you