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    Marriage breakdowns and divorces are becoming increasingly common in British Asian communities in the UK, particularly in countries like India, Pakistan, and Bangladesh. These marriages were once seen as safe by families who believed that girls from their native countries would be more willing to accept the ways of the husband and family here and be prepared to live in an extended family. However, this has changed, especially in countries like India, where the boom of the economy and changes to lifestyle have made girls and women safer there.
    Many British Asian men marry their sons off to a girl from abroad to stop him from dating or continuing with a care-free lifestyle. However, this does not always work in practice, as some men may continue his affairs with women after marriage in an adulterous manner. Additionally, greed-driven families residing in the UK get their sons married to brides from South Asia merely for a large dowry.
    Many British Asian women marry men from abroad because of their desire for a partner, especially after divorce. In some cases, these men stay for a while in the marriage and then divorce or leave. South Asian women from abroad also use a marriage abroad as a way to find a new life in the UK. Some women marrying abroad, especially from India, come over to the UK after passing all the matrimonial tests and requirements without the intention to stay in the marriage. After some time, they either divorce or leave their husband to live independently.
    The changing South Asian lifestyle has led to many British Asian families struggling to adapt to the new changes in South Asian lifestyle. Most families came from countries behind the West and were not developed, so they brought up their families in the UK with the same values and mixed in some British culture. However, today, especially in India, where the country has advanced dramatically, those 'old' ways are long forgotten, leaving people from South Asian communities in the UK somewhat bewildered, confused, and with a sense of non-belonging.
    In conclusion, marriage breakdowns and divorces in British Asian communities in the UK are becoming more prevalent due to the changing South Asian lifestyle. It is crucial for families to be aware of these trends and work towards a more harmonious and harmonious relationship.
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  • @rabeeyarehman2092
    @rabeeyarehman2092 5 днів тому +2

    Aag kal zeyada ter bahoen aesi hi huti hain. ye tu pakri gae aksar sari zindagi pakri nhi jaten or hmesha susral walon se shaki nazer aati hain ..jis tarah sari sasen khrab nhi huten us tarah sari bahoen nek or mazloom nhi huten ( last sentance Akhter Abbas k lye hai )

  • @quratulainnoor2314
    @quratulainnoor2314 19 днів тому +2

    Bohaaat Afsoos howa Maa beti aik jaisi hain 😕😕😕😕

  • @yashfeenhasan3006
    @yashfeenhasan3006 19 днів тому

    Very nice message

  • @Fatimafatima012
    @Fatimafatima012 11 днів тому

    Yes mobile is a major disaster

  • @nabelashabbir7075
    @nabelashabbir7075 20 днів тому

    Phone ma lock ka option bi hota ha

  • @maryamghias6061
    @maryamghias6061 20 днів тому

    sir brain "booste" r "sakoon" kesey mngwa saktey hn?

  • @ayeshasiddiqua6563
    @ayeshasiddiqua6563 20 днів тому

    Aap boht cute lgy h jub aap face lifting btarhy thy🎉

  • @NadeemAhmad-bi8pb
    @NadeemAhmad-bi8pb 18 днів тому

    Sir ap ye phly bta dety ku k meri jethani ka whtsapp hack kya mery dewar ne or jo baten hm ghr k about karty thy sas susar k bary main ab osky pas sari recordings pari hoi or wo khty k me sbky samny bt kro ga

  • @javeriaishtiaq8237
    @javeriaishtiaq8237 19 днів тому +2

    Assalam-0-alakium
    Sir I told that Story to my husband.
    He said he has not done this to his wife
    He should discuss it with her and let her a chance if she wants to live with him and feel sorry then give her apology.
    That is not good according to my husband.
    He said now he is not able to trust any girl and it is the total loss.

  • @bluesapphire3671
    @bluesapphire3671 19 днів тому

    Massage per kon aise baat kerta hai log call per kerte Hain buraiyan

  • @salaudinayobi6997
    @salaudinayobi6997 20 днів тому

    Mard ka bacha Mard hi hotha haiy...!

  • @hinaghuman8165
    @hinaghuman8165 20 днів тому

    Meri behan ka gher bachta hy tab hy sir jab wo apny gher walon ko badtamezi beadbi sy bulati rahy 😢kia karen easy damaad ka 😒

  • @globilshine2030
    @globilshine2030 20 днів тому

    A.s.a sir mere sohar py qaraz h jis Ki vjha sy Barone E mulk chaly ghe 6 Sal ho ghe hn wahan ja K dusri orton K shat dostean barha Li .ma kafi preshan hun Mujhe btaine ma Kia kron

    • @lifechallenges9945
      @lifechallenges9945 20 днів тому +1

      Sister do astagfar and darood shareef. Inshallah Allah apki mada zarur kryga. Dua mangin k Allah unko hidayat dy

  • @lahorimasala7028
    @lahorimasala7028 13 днів тому

    Telephone?☎️

  • @jalalibrothers2022
    @jalalibrothers2022 20 днів тому +5

    Sir agar husband wife me understanding na ho to wife kia kre

    • @saneelaaltaf4905
      @saneelaaltaf4905 20 днів тому

      Gol rotiaan banaye

    • @shehnazbukhary8110
      @shehnazbukhary8110 20 днів тому

      ​@@saneelaaltaf4905😂

    • @shehnazbukhary8110
      @shehnazbukhary8110 20 днів тому +1

      Sabar😢

    • @somafuntime
      @somafuntime 20 днів тому +2

      ALLAH apko ASAANIAN dein.. or apk dermayn bht achi understanding or muhabbat ajae Ameen sum Ameen ❤

    • @uzmajabeen6704
      @uzmajabeen6704 20 днів тому +3

      Understanding naam ki koi cheez nhi hoti sirf husband ki baat manna un ki khwahish ko Understand krna hi kafi he hr jagha sath dena kuch bi espact karna yehi Understanding he

  • @apnokiduniyawithtamannasai4198
    @apnokiduniyawithtamannasai4198 19 днів тому +1

    Yar meri bhabi to meri ma bheno bhaeo k bare main bohot bura bolti hai bhae ko or wo sunta hai even k sb k samne husband ko b begherat bolti hai tb b ose koi mardangi nae jagti

    • @AkhterAbbas
      @AkhterAbbas  19 днів тому

      بے عزتی کروا کے جینا بعض لوگوں کی غذا بن جاتی ہے

  • @saeraabid262
    @saeraabid262 19 днів тому

    Aslamoalaikum sir ...mere husband. Meri saas aur nand se bht dartey hain...aur wo negative hain bht zyada...ye baat mere husband khud boltey thy...beton k ghr b kharab krti hain jhot aur sazishon se..jb wo mere husband k sath Kuch krti TU wo APne Liye action letey...jb mere sath Kuch krti TU khtey bardast kro...insaf ni hain in logon ma...Inki iss na insafi se mentally disturb rhti...mje khu ko ye negative sochne pe Maj or kr detey...ma in k sath kese deal kron...k ma positive rahon...k Meri tbiyat na kharab ho bs

    • @user-vf8gs3ng4v
      @user-vf8gs3ng4v 18 днів тому

      Tell your husband how it affects you. Would he want this for his daughters? A man is his wife’s qawaama. If he wants that status then he should forfill It’s conditions. Either he protects you or he allows u to do it yourself. Tell him gently what you expect and hope for change. If there is no change then start setting firmer boundaries.

  • @ZaryabCheema80
    @ZaryabCheema80 20 днів тому +2

    Ap apna UA-cam channel delete kr dein plz

    • @saneelaaltaf4905
      @saneelaaltaf4905 20 днів тому

      Kiun??

    • @ZaryabCheema80
      @ZaryabCheema80 20 днів тому

      Coz he’s different in personal
      This is his digital personality moreover his regressive views fuels patriarchy.
      He’s a misogynist although I think his major client base is lower class illiterate families where men have no respect for there better half and its important to surrender for women to continue their family.
      Overall he’s a toxic person connecting everything to religion demeaning minorities other developed nations based on morality and cultural difference.
      He never goes against men however it’s important coz of same reason mentioned above.
      This is his digital personality. He isn’t this sweet.
      Go to learned psychologist not this person .
      He also claims he conducted interviews for PPSC when he can’t even speak one sentence of English you can read his previous video subtitles.
      He claims to have taught in a private university and it’s not something to be extra ordinary.
      Many a times he victim blame and most pathetic thing he can do is to support polygyny. He claims that men can have multiple wives or in case of an extra marital affair women should try to understand their husband in a better way. Try to reach the cause of his promiscuity but the behaviour doesn’t go the other way. If a woman conducts an affair his rhetoric is pathetic based on male ego chauvinism and that the heinous sin a woman can do is adultery.
      He has double standards in everything.
      His views are pathetic.
      Stay away from him.
      Best thing a woman can do is to focus on her personal growth so that she can achieve beyond the stars. Marriage or family or institutions of patriarchal oppression. If a woman has wasted her life in meaningless chores now she has to face the music.
      Women should prioritise economic independence. He opposes this view and claims that ultimate goal of women is to marry. I mean wtf.
      This is the reason his Channel has not grown from past 4 years. It’s almost static. It’s because he has already gathered a huge illiterate audience.
      Women tend to over burden themselves due to fake male ego. Men should be held accountable.
      Again he’s a male what can you expect girl.
      So I answered you this long coz your question “kiun??” was precise and somewhat showed your aptitude to inquire. His views are radical. He isn’t inclusive nor understand anything like cultural relativism or any modern era value just stuck in religion saying Allah has made men wiser and they have the birthright to lead. I mean who says things like this.
      He doesn’t understand the history or sociology of religions their evolution just typical radical Madrassah boy acting as he’s spitting facts.

    • @ZaryabCheema80
      @ZaryabCheema80 20 днів тому

      Because he is different in person.
      This is his digital personality, moreover his regressive views fuels patriarchy. He is a misogynist, although I think his major client base is lower-class, illiterate families where men have no respect for their better halves , and it's important to surrender for women to continue with their family life.
      Overall, he is a toxic person connecting everything to religion, demeaning minorities, other developed nations based on morality and cultural difference. He never goes against men. However, it's important coz of some reasons mentioned above about safeguarding one’s family life. This is his digital personality.
      He isn't this sweet. Go to a learned psychologist, not this person. He also claims he conducted interviews for PPSC when he can't even speak one sentence of English. You can read his previous video subtitles. He claims to have taught in a private university, and it's not something to be extraordinary. Many a times, he victim blames and most pathetic thing he can do is to support polygyny. He claims that men can have multiple wives, or in case of an extra marital affair, women should try to understand their husband in a better way, try to reach the cause of their promiscuity, but the behavior doesn't go the other way. If a woman conducts an affair, his rhetoric is pathetic based on male ego, chauvinism, or that the heinous sin a woman can do is adultery.
      He has double standards in everything, his views are pathetic, stay away from him. Best thing a woman can do is to focus on her personal growth so that she can achieve beyond the stars. Marriage or family or institutions of patriarchal oppression. If a woman has wasted her life in meaningless chores, now she has to face the music. Women should prioritize economic independence. He opposes this view and claims that ultimate goal of women is to marry, I mean wtf.
      This is the reason his channel has not grown from past 4 years, it's almost static. It's because he has already gathered a huge illiterate audience. Women tend to overburden themselves due to fake male ego. Men should be held accountable. Again, he's a male, what can you expect from him, girl.
      So, I answered you this long because you questioned “Kiun??”was precise and somewhat showed your aptitude to inquire. So, that's it.
      He knows nothing about modern era values or history or sociology of religion just stuck in religion and propagate submissive attitude as a solution for everything. He has a typical Madrassah retort.
      Let me tell you something important. So this man who just yesterday made a video on why he doesn’t deleted critical messages on his social media accounts, has deleted my message right now.
      I’m reposting it.

    • @ZaryabCheema80
      @ZaryabCheema80 20 днів тому

      Because he is different in person.
      This is his digital personality, moreover his regressive views fuels patriarchy. He is a misogynist, although I think his major client base is lower-class, illiterate families where men have no respect for their better halves , and it's important to surrender for women to continue with their family life.
      Overall, he is a toxic person connecting everything to religion, demeaning minorities, other developed nations based on morality and cultural difference. He never goes against men. However, it's important coz of some reasons mentioned above about safeguarding one’s family life. This is his digital personality.
      He isn't this sweet. Go to a learned psychologist, not this person. He also claims he conducted interviews for PPSC when he can't even speak one sentence of English. You can read his previous video subtitles. He claims to have taught in a private university, and it's not something to be extraordinary. Many a times, he victim blames and most pathetic thing he can do is to support polygyny. He claims that men can have multiple wives, or in case of an extra marital affair, women should try to understand their husband in a better way, try to reach the cause of their promiscuity, but the behavior doesn't go the other way. If a woman conducts an affair, his rhetoric is pathetic based on male ego, chauvinism, or that the heinous sin a woman can do is adultery.
      He has double standards in everything, his views are pathetic, stay away from him. Best thing a woman can do is to focus on her personal growth so that she can achieve beyond the stars. Marriage or family or institutions of patriarchal oppression. If a woman has wasted her life in meaningless chores, now she has to face the music. Women should prioritize economic independence. He opposes this view and claims that ultimate goal of women is to marry, I mean wtf.
      This is the reason his channel has not grown from past 4 years, it's almost static. It's because he has already gathered a huge illiterate audience. Women tend to overburden themselves due to fake male ego. Men should be held accountable. Again, he's a male, what can you expect from him, girl.
      So, I answered you this long because you questioned “Kiun??”was precise and somewhat showed your aptitude to inquire. So, that's it.
      He knows nothing about modern era values or history or sociology of religion just stuck in religion and propagate submissive attitude as a solution for everything. He has a typical Madrassah retort.
      Let me tell you something important. So this man who just yesterday made a video on why he doesn’t deleted critical messages on his social media accounts, has deleted my message right now.
      I’m reposting it.

    • @ZaryabCheema80
      @ZaryabCheema80 20 днів тому

      Because he is different in person.
      This is his digital personality, moreover his regressive views fuels patriarchy. He is a misogynist, although I think his major client base is lower-class, illiterate families where men have no respect for their better half, and it's important to surrender for women to continue with their family life.
      Overall, he is a toxic person connecting everything to religion, demeaning minorities, other developed nations based on morality and cultural difference. He never goes against men. However, it's important coz of some reasons mentioned above about safeguarding one’s family life. This is his digital personality.
      He isn't this sweet. Go to a learned psychologist, not this person. He also claims he conducted interviews for PPSC when he can't even speak one sentence of English. You can read his previous video subtitles. He claims to have taught in a private university, and it's not something to be extraordinary. Many a times, he victim blames and most pathetic thing he can do is to support polygyny. He claims that men can have multiple wives, or in case of an extra marital affair, women should try to understand their husband in a better way, try to reach the cause of their promiscuity, but the behavior doesn't go the other way. If a woman conducts an affair, his rhetoric is pathetic based on male ego, chauvinism, or that the heinous sin a woman can do is adultery.
      He has double standards in everything, his views are pathetic, stay away from him. Best thing a woman can do is to focus on her personal growth so that she can achieve beyond the stars. Marriage or family or institutions of patriarchal oppression. If a woman has wasted her life in meaningless chores, now she has to face the music. Women should prioritize economic independence. He opposes this view and claims that ultimate goal of women is to marry, I mean wtf.

  • @TikTokvideos-jh3qj
    @TikTokvideos-jh3qj 16 днів тому +1

    fon wali batt shohr ko b btaen...