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  • Опубліковано 17 гру 2024

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  • @BitsOfNique
    @BitsOfNique Рік тому +21

    People pleasing will drain you mentally and physically. Especially trying to live up to someone else expectations. Don’t ever be ashamed of the trials and tribulations that comes along with life. Embrace your feelings, appreciate your journey. At times life can be rough but it won’t be that way forever. I’m glad you’re doing well and continue to take care of yourself!💛

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому +2

      Amen Amen , I am so done with trying to put other people happiness above my own . ✨

    • @patreeceaw
      @patreeceaw Рік тому +1

      Well said ❤

  • @lorrainekey9944
    @lorrainekey9944 Рік тому +5

    So glad I found your channel again.

  • @ficklekitty2169
    @ficklekitty2169 Рік тому +13

    I've watched all of your videos and I love them. You're real, your story of starting over is compelling, and you seem so kind. You're someone it's easy to root for, and I think people watch you because they root for you and see a bit of themselves in you. I know I do. I admire the hard work you put in to create your home, and the optimism that you display. I watch to support, but also because it's encouraging to see another woman making her way. Much more success to you!

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for this comment , so sweet and down to earth . I appreciate you for being here . 🤎

  • @lorrainesimmons2645
    @lorrainesimmons2645 Рік тому +10

    Hello VanTazia. I'm alway's happy to see a video from you. I remember your other channel This life of mine. I enjoyed all of your video's in that channel. I'm so happy you are back,and getting better. With God in control, of our life you can do it all. Many Blessings to you. Thank's for sharing ❤

  • @AtHomeWithErica
    @AtHomeWithErica Рік тому +20

    So happy you found the courage to share this with us! Someone out here needed this video and through your courage and testimony, you're helping someone!
    During your hiatus, you were HEAVY on my mind and I'd say a prayer for you and your kids. And when I saw tour comment on one of my videos I was filled with JOY...I read that comment a million times and it just did my heart good knowing that you were back online.
    Keep going Vantazia! You have people here who love and support you! Make sure to always pray and take time out for yourself and those precious babies of your💙💙

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому +3

      It was so hard posting this but I’m happy I did . Now I feel like I can really start this journey & it’s a fresh new start .
      Thank you so very much for praying for us and continuing to show us so much love .
      It feels so good to be back and Abel to connect with you guys .
      Thank you so much and I’m so happy I can put a smile on your face in some way. 🤎

    • @michelearmour3550
      @michelearmour3550 Рік тому

      @@ThislifeofmineOG yes you do yes you do and you keep doing you and also when you get a chance and you stop at cooking I'll miss the recipe the banana pudding recipe and I would love for you to share that when you get the chance thank you and I appreciate you ❤️

    • @patreeceaw
      @patreeceaw Рік тому +1

      Yessss !!! Love this

  • @Pmotherof3
    @Pmotherof3 Рік тому +4

    I'm so proud of you! It's NEVER easy talking about your personal life especially when it's so many nay sayers in the world who will never understand! I have been watching you since Jonah was a baby and I knew you where strong then your such a beautiful woman and such a great mommy and a fighter I have always enjoyed your videos and your energy! A year ago I noticed how small u where and seeing these new videos show healthy and happy weight and I'm here for it! Trust me life has been hitting me left n right also BUT GOD!!! and finding you again just made me so happy again and I know the WE will be alright!! Trust me your day 1's understand 100% no explanation needed!! WE LOVE YOU &SO HAPPY to see you back!!❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥰🥰🥰💯💯💯

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому +1

      Yesss!!! We will be just fine!!! I’m so glad you’re back 🫶🏾 It’s been such a long journey and I’m very happy we’ve found our way back to each other again through UA-cam !
      I’ll most definitely keep you in my Prayers . 🤎
      I wasss going through so much and my weight & mental health was honestly down the drain for so long . 😢 However, I feel so good now , sometimes a little stumped but at the end of each day I’m so happy with how far I’ve come from THEN! 🫶🏾

    • @Pmotherof3
      @Pmotherof3 Рік тому +1

      @@ThislifeofmineOG I can tell and your absolutely amazing and so strong! Keep on pushing beautiful u got this!💪🏾🙏🏾👍🏾😁 & I am here 100% can't wait to see you shine!!🌟🌟🌟🌟

  • @carmenrivera8688
    @carmenrivera8688 Рік тому +4

    Hi.Iam so glad to see you I never stopped looking for you .God is good and blessings 🙏 to you and your family.

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому

      Thank you so much! I’m glad you’re here/back . 🤎

  • @DATFAMILY5
    @DATFAMILY5 Рік тому +6

    You are amazing just as you are. Please remember that. I am so proud of the woman you are becoming. The winters in our life make way for our summers. So glad for you. Love from VA. Always here❤❤❤

  • @ToEachTheirOwnHome
    @ToEachTheirOwnHome Рік тому +7

    Tazia, you are allowed to make mistakes. You are allowed to learn from them. You are allowed to love yourself. I am proud of you, God is proud of you. Keep pushing. The growth you have experienced is tremendous. 💕 you are worthy of a happy and healthy life. 💕

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому

      Thank Youuu so very much , I needed to read and tell myself that . 🤎🤎

  • @chantytastic10
    @chantytastic10 Рік тому +2

    I support you. We want to see you doing everything you want. We'll keep running the numbers up so you can experience a good life. You got it girl !

  • @eugeniaable258
    @eugeniaable258 Рік тому +7

    ❤ thanks for sharing your story we need to hear and talk about life and being single homeless and etc keep up the good work

  • @camila4cuba827
    @camila4cuba827 Рік тому +8

    I love and appreciate your honesty and transparency! Beautiful growth! I am enjoying watching you flourish and am proud to have been here since This Life of Mine. Stay true to you! My family and I are loyal supporters forever!❤❤❤🎉

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much, I appreciate your love & being here . 🤎 sending love and hugs to you all as well . 🤎

  • @donzellcooper
    @donzellcooper Рік тому +4

    I’m glad you got a full time job and the new channel. You deserve this apartment after all the things that happened. You gonna make thru this.

  • @dorothygreen6474
    @dorothygreen6474 Рік тому +3

    Stay strong you’ve got this ! Life,
    Is tough at times for us all . Just hold your head up and keep on keeping on !

  • @cynthiathomas617
    @cynthiathomas617 Рік тому +2

    Dear sweet young lady. I dont know yoyr story. But i am sending you prayers 🙏 all the way from South Carolina. My daughter is also a single parent of 2. You do what you need to do to take care of yourself and your children. Take 1 day at a time. God will never leave uou nor forsake you. Blessings 🙌 to you and your children.

  • @CleanWithRachel
    @CleanWithRachel Рік тому +5

    Thank you so much for sharing. I remember watching your videos and I was trying to see if you were the same person. Very proud of the work that you are putting in. Stay strong and continue to move forward.

  • @monalisahixson573
    @monalisahixson573 Рік тому +5

    Nice video so glad you are back doing what you like to do you are a child of God and he will protect you God remove people for a reason you continue to do what you doing I am praying for you and your children God bless❤🙏❤

  • @tracygrice3206
    @tracygrice3206 Рік тому +6

    We really enjoy your company and your family life good or bad, we are here for you❤

  • @janetsides901
    @janetsides901 Рік тому +3

    I followed you on your other channel and was wondering where you went. I’m a 61 year old woman. I’ve been where you were. I’m so proud of you. I’ll keep you in my prayers and of course I’ll follow you. I’ve learned so much from you and felt a kinship. I’ve dealt with depression for my whole life. And learned a lot once I could actually breath and think away from negative people.

  • @deannagavaldon-tarman6490
    @deannagavaldon-tarman6490 Рік тому +5

    Glad to see you back. And God has you and your new journey. Look forward to seeing the new content stay strong.❤

  • @susiesandifer9623
    @susiesandifer9623 Рік тому +4

    God got you sweetie sky is the limit you will be ok jus keep being you and Len on God 🙏

  • @asiajackson9475
    @asiajackson9475 Рік тому +1

    Keep on doing what you do you are a strong young black queen and God is going to protect you keep your faith strong black woman you are God bless can’t wait to see you succeed

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому

      Thank Youuu 🫶🏾 Sending lots of virtual hugs ! 🫶🏾

  • @tieashasamuels2627
    @tieashasamuels2627 Рік тому +1

    I am upset YT hasn't had you in my feed from your 1st return video 😡. But I am THRILLED that you are back & allowing us to join you on this new journey. Praying for you & rooting you on ❤

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому

      Welcome back to my channel! I hope you enjoy the ride , and I appreciate your support 🤎🤎

  • @cynthiamckinstry1269
    @cynthiamckinstry1269 Рік тому +2

    Hey Tazia its good to see you back and doing videos. You are not alone girl. There are a lot of us who have been through what you are going through. Just know that God is covering you and you shall rise. The one that is trying to bring you down will be the one to watch you win. Keep your spirits up you are stronger than you realize.
    You don't have to do it all alone you know. Set up an Amazon registry Let us help you get the things that you need to get you back on your feet.

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому

      Awwww! Thank you so much for that . 🫶🏾 i do have an Amazon wishlist in my description, I just need to update it but it’s there . 🤎

  • @gnightdecor9357
    @gnightdecor9357 Рік тому +5

    You should let your other channel know about this channel we love watching your channel. They might be like me just so happen to run across you.

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому +2

      If I could I would , I just don’t have access to that channel at All anymore .

    • @gnightdecor9357
      @gnightdecor9357 Рік тому +1

      @@ThislifeofmineOG thank you for responding I appreciate you and have all ways enjoyed watching your channel stay strong and keep your head up. We will always be here.remember you make the channel it’s not about the kids even though they are beautiful but it’s about you.

  • @stephanielee7715
    @stephanielee7715 Рік тому +3

    Hi. I’ve have a relationship like that years ago . Of someone putting you down making you feel less than. It’s their insecurities not yours. Your old channel was doing so well and they knew it they were afraid of you being the great person that you are. And get left behind.. God made you to be an amazing person!! Just continue to pray and love yourself and your children!! This is just the start for you. New beginnings!! PRAISE GOD .!🙌🏽🙌🏽 You are the head and not the tail!! I believe great things are headed your way . Stay strong. You sharing blessed my heart!! I’m so happy your back. I have missed you!! Take care sweetheart. And always keep God first!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому

      After all this time , even with making a New Channel , I’ve learned so much . This journey was meant for me & to do things that brighten not only my future but my children’s future as well . It wasn’t meant for me to have with someone else . I’ve put in a lot of work, time, and effort & I am the only person that deserves this chance . My children are the only people who deserve to receive anything from me doing this or anything in my life .
      I strongly feel this is just the beginning to a new and fresh start in life and I’m not looking back . Thank Youu for being here and your encouraging comment. 🤎

  • @susiesandifer9623
    @susiesandifer9623 Рік тому +2

    👍👍💕💕 watching

  • @mrs.sickhumortv3113
    @mrs.sickhumortv3113 Рік тому +1

    You’re so strong and you’re not alone so happy you are able to talk about. Just keep going and don’t give up we are here for you 💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @tashadavis607
    @tashadavis607 Рік тому +3

    Going through a similar situation. A breakup from my girls Dad, definitely a journey. But God is an amazing Father. Praying for your new journey to be nothing but happiness and peace.

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому +1

      I’m sorry you’re going through that . Indeed he is !! I hope I can share some positive vibes for you as we go through this journey together . 🫶🏾

  • @donzellcooper
    @donzellcooper Рік тому +4

    I’m so sorry you been going through some personal things and I’m glad you are trying to get back on your feet. Also your 24 years old that’s amazing.❤️🙏🏾

  • @allthingsfamily4291
    @allthingsfamily4291 Рік тому +2

    I think since u got all tht off ur chest without saying to much things will get easier and easier for you!!! I wish nothing but the best!!! U were forced to grow up to soon, and now u r starting to learn truly who u are *hugs*

  • @lisadawson2652
    @lisadawson2652 Рік тому +6

    Sis I just met you and I feel like I’ve always known u I think it’s because u are a real person with real issues and it’s like u are me in many ways and the things u offer to all of us is wisdom love and a safe place and I thank u for that keep discovering who u are for yourself and we will always be here for u I LOVE YOU SIS ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому

      👐 I really appreciate this comment , thank you . 🤎

  • @charmainecrow3140
    @charmainecrow3140 Рік тому +6

    Stay strong girl. We are here for you. I love your new channel even more. Love from South Africa ❤❤❤

  • @peyton1046
    @peyton1046 Рік тому +2

    I am so sorry for what you have been through over the past few years! I can't imagine! Prayers for you! I loved watching your channel before and watched you grow. I am happy to see you now have a apartment, furniture, puppy and job! How strong of a person you are to pull yourself back up and do all of this is nothing but AMAZING! YOUR ARE AN INSPIRATION!!!!! Keep it up! Be strong and continue the faith! ☺❤❤❤❤❤

  • @latric61
    @latric61 Рік тому +2

    I am so glad I found you again. Be strong, you got this ❤

  • @michelearmour3550
    @michelearmour3550 Рік тому +4

    I'm proud of the fact that you went through all that and you still standing and it's nothing but the grace of God God got you when you got this you are an awesome and amazing young woman and you are such an amazing I don't care what anybody say keep your head up and I'm praying for you and I can't wait to get your book when you put it out there

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому +1

      Awwww, Thank Youu ! ✨🤎

    • @michelearmour3550
      @michelearmour3550 Рік тому +1

      ​@@ThislifeofmineOG I meant every word I said I can't wait for your book and also I can't wait till you do your banana pudding again I miss the recipe that time you did it and oh my God I was in love with the banana pudding and your method but you keep on keepin on and know that you are loved❤🎉😊

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому

      I’ll be filming a cooking video soon & I’ll be sure to add that banana pudding .
      I haven’t had it in sooooo long , I’ve honestly been craving some . I can’t wait to make it & I’ll share the recipe with y’all too . 🤎

  • @angiewilder6110
    @angiewilder6110 Рік тому +5

    Thank you Vantazia for sharing.. Keep your head up and stay prayed up baby girl much love to you❤

  • @tiffday41
    @tiffday41 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for sharing your story. Please share as lilttle as possible about your personal life. Glad you are back I subbed to your new channel love all your content🤗

  • @victoriajacobowitz7198
    @victoriajacobowitz7198 Рік тому +7

    This was a beautiful video, thank you for sharing. I can't tell you how happy I was to get a suggestion for your new channel because i was constantly checking the old one for a new video. You are strong and and inspiration to anyone watching. I'm grateful your back ❤️❤️

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому

      Thank you , I’m glad you enjoyed it . I’m so very happy to have you here with us on this channel . 🤎✨

  • @cherylsims8522
    @cherylsims8522 Рік тому +3

    Hey Tazia, been looking for This Life of Mine to resurface, been praying you and your beautiful babies are ok. Missed your channel a lot. Yours was one of the realist on the tube. I was doing some scrolling today and to my shock a new channel popped up and I clicked on it and whose face did I see, smiling I said she's back and immediately subscribed. You are a beautiful soul and I will continue to support your channel. Many prayers up for your family, stay true to you and let no one still your joy again. Welcome Back.

    • @cherylsims8522
      @cherylsims8522 Рік тому +1

      Fyi I used still instead of steal because I dont think your joy was taken away from you just put on hold.

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому

      Thank you sm for this very sweet reply . I’m glad you’re back and I can’t wait to share some New Content with you guys that’s New for me all the way around .
      This is my Confirmation Era & no one will be allowed to attack what’s to come , not even my joy . Thank Youu . 🤎

    • @cherylsims8522
      @cherylsims8522 Рік тому

      You are Blessed, Stay Strong for your beautiful babies but especially for Yourself. 🙂

    • @daintyflygirl4va
      @daintyflygirl4va Рік тому

      What happen to her other channel?

  • @mookyjr1
    @mookyjr1 Рік тому +3

    I followed your other channel, and I love this for you.. keep going, stay up ❤

  • @marylongoria5679
    @marylongoria5679 Рік тому +2

    Hi , sweetheart ..
    Stay strong no matter what u go through. sometimes life can be hard I've been in this road many times in my life ..life sometimes throws us obstacles to see how strong u can be u and ur family ... im do sorry I know u will make it through ... U r young beautiful, smart , keep ur head up no matter what u go through never give up keep on going with ur babies...sending hugs ...

  • @cheryldixon5956
    @cheryldixon5956 Рік тому +3

    I pray so many blessings come your way When I watched this I cried. You are one brave lady,keep on keeping on sweetie I wish you and your babies nothing but the best and I love you to pieces. Thanks for your videos and God bless

  • @trecee4356
    @trecee4356 Рік тому +4

    Hooray!! I found you back! Praise God!!! I missed you,were wondering what became of you!!! Glad that you are doing OK,was scrolling through and I recognized your voice ❤
    Watching from Barbados 🇧🇧

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому

      Welcome back! WELCOME BACK! Thank Youu . 🤎 I have a lot in store for this channel so stay tuned . ✨🙌🏾

  • @alicegauteng2358
    @alicegauteng2358 Рік тому +2

    Sending you love and hugs from Canada❤

  • @Decoratingismylovelanguage
    @Decoratingismylovelanguage Рік тому +2

    Welcome back girl!

  • @olimpiaalexander002
    @olimpiaalexander002 Рік тому +2

    God is good 🙏🏼 So happy you are in a better place girl ❤

  • @itsmomvibes
    @itsmomvibes 6 місяців тому

    Sending love your way ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mieashajones1683
    @mieashajones1683 Рік тому +2

    It was good to see you again keep going

  • @mummymoskitchen
    @mummymoskitchen Рік тому +2

    Thanks for sharing your story ❤. Hugs

  • @dsander24
    @dsander24 Рік тому +1

    So glad I found your new channel

  • @shaleeshawest8639
    @shaleeshawest8639 Рік тому +2

    I was just thinking about you and how I haven't seen you up here. I'm so happy that I click on suggestion videos. As soon as I heard you speak, I came straight to your channel

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому

      I’m happy you clicked on the suggestion video as well . So happy to have you hear . I hope you enjoy this channel as much as the other one . 🤎

  • @judyrookard7965
    @judyrookard7965 Рік тому +4

    GOD IS LOVE ❤️ KEEP YOUR HEAD UP 😍😍

  • @octaviawalker823
    @octaviawalker823 Рік тому +3

    Everyone goes through hard times, you are not alone. Your cries were heard and it was your time. That is my saying. Happy for you. Only you can reflect on these times.

  • @nedrarobertson4171
    @nedrarobertson4171 10 місяців тому

    Heyyyyy, your video just popped up today in my feed and OMG, I was thinking about you about month ago. I just recall one of your last messages which broke my heart. It's so good to see you doing you and healing yourself. Hope those babies are doing well. Will continue to pray for you. Glad to see you again.

  • @divineintervention253
    @divineintervention253 Рік тому +2

    I'm so happy for you. Continue your healthy journey. Tfs. We love u Sweetie. Remain blessed. ❤

  • @belindag9827
    @belindag9827 Рік тому +3

    I am so happy to see you I have been watching you for quite some time when you had your other UA-cam channel. You know God is with you he will make a way for you like he is doing now stay strong. I Will be watching you❤

    • @ThislifeofmineOG
      @ThislifeofmineOG  Рік тому

      Welcome back! Thank you so much for your kind words . 🤎

  • @HomemakingWithThisMama
    @HomemakingWithThisMama Рік тому +1

    🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

  • @genniejefferson6588
    @genniejefferson6588 Рік тому +1

    I wondered what happened to you. You are so sweet and have grown a lot. I remember you from your first house. I’m glad I found you again. I remember when you lost a lot of weight. You’re not that big anyway. I know you prayed a lot. I’m back here for you.

  • @CleaningWithNeecee
    @CleaningWithNeecee Рік тому +3

    Hello New here again it's been a while since I last seen you I was wondering where you had gone glad your back thanks for sharing ✨🌼😊

  • @genapstton2919
    @genapstton2919 10 місяців тому

    Hi friend I found u again I'm glad I found u again I subscribed as soon as I found you

  • @marymcdonald4298
    @marymcdonald4298 Рік тому +1

    Keep your head up ⬆️ god got you believe in him. Things will get better ❤️‍🩹 stay strong 💪 you can do it.😊😊💙💛❤️

  • @raisingallboys
    @raisingallboys Рік тому +3

    I pray you make it out stronger after your divorce ❤ Thanks for sharing!

  • @tarahj7950
    @tarahj7950 Рік тому

    🌟👑🌟

  • @kellymason4015
    @kellymason4015 3 місяці тому

    I am late to the game. You popped back up on my UA-cam! I have thought about you and wondered where you went. Now i have lots to catch up on!

  • @citychicdoc1596
    @citychicdoc1596 10 місяців тому

    Best wishes to you!

  • @LisaAladwan
    @LisaAladwan Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @darlenejacobs6440
    @darlenejacobs6440 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @NewSeason24
    @NewSeason24 6 місяців тому

    ❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️

  • @sharonfowlkes2546
    @sharonfowlkes2546 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @NewSeason24
    @NewSeason24 6 місяців тому

    ❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️