It’s a sad speech. Seeing a person have so little worth for themselves is truly heartbreaking. “I’m the best their is when it comes to losing” like bro 😭 Honestly one of my favorite shows. Seeing this man go from this to worst to then better gotta be my favorite things ever.
Watching Oregairu after graduating in high school will never feel the same way as watching it during those times. Hachiman and I were once the same age. Can't believe that I already outgrown him.
The way he cringes at this speech in seson three is absolutely adorable and genius. Growing up with this anime as a loner who lived and thought in a very simmilar way to Hachiman was hillarious, as when I watched the 3rd season I cringed at my younger self as much as he did. I knew exactly then how he felt in that moment. Bro just needed a hug.
The sheer nostalgia. I watched Oregairu when I was in high school and it was the first time I realised that what people say and what they feel are different. I started asking myself WHY people acted like they did. It was also the first time I realised how much my parents sacrificed for me and my happiness. Man, Oregairu is one of the only animes that changed how I saw the people around me. That's why I will always love it.
IF truth is cruel then lies must be kind.... That's why kindness is a lie ! Didn't know how it happened but the clarity in the voice made is sound as if the voice is true
The real truth behind this man’s speech isn’t the lie of kindness, because after all true kindness is from the heart; it’s that we dudes wish that kindness was not only reserved for us individually but meant for romantic validation. We should appreciate kind women for the impact on society even if it doesn’t meet our needs. Kindness is a beautiful attribute in the world
Bro have you watched it fully? This man isn’t a reliable narrator. His words aren’t fact. This show is literally about how this toxic way of thinking and complete lack of self worth is unhealthy. This man’s whole thing is making up sophistry to explain we he is the worst and doesn’t deserve anything. Like come on. This video is just a boy rationalizing his fear of being hurt again. Which is fine, you’re allowed to be scared. But don’t lie to yourself. I recommend you two doses of S2, especially ep2 and 8. Doctors orders. You can’t have something genuine without being vulnerable!
@@hiiamelecktro4985is that what he meant when he said he wanted something genuine like he wants something genuine but he doesn't want to be vulnerable
@@bigchris327 yeah, he’s scared to be vulnerable. Probably because he got rejected a bunch in middle school, and when he got his hopes up that high school would be different, he got hit by a car and spend his first year alone anyway. Which I think he took as sign that he’s meant to be alone or something like that. You can see him freeze up when Yukino runs away after he says he wants something genuine as well. He took that as a rejection at first, I think. If Yui hadn’t snapped him out of it, I don’t think he would’ve been fine.
@@hiiamelecktro4985 damn that's deep man and so relatable we all want something genuine in this effed up world. But finding something like that is damn near like looking for a needle in a haystack.
@@hiiamelecktro4985 I have watched this anime a lot. I love the character development. damn. Hiki is scared to connect but he really cares for the people around him.
This is me right now, that nice girl I like,but now after watching the anime again, I think I should wait for the right time cause I have never seen her irl too or talked to her,like online stuff,so ya need to meet her and get to know her more and its fine if I end up getting friendzone cause that way I will achieve sir hikigaya title
Achieve Hikigaya title? Dude, Hikigaya didn't TRY to become the way he is. He became that way through personal experiences. You sound like you're trying to manufacture a similar background for your own amusement. People who are REAL loners don't try to be loners, that's just how they are. They keep everyone at an arm's distance at least, trust very rarely and only to those they know inside and out. True loners don't fool themselves with dreams of love or happiness, because they've already accepted reality for what it is. They may not like reality, they may hate the people they have to deal with, but they understand that it's a part of life. They don't go out of their way to be nice or do good for attention, they'll simply do it in passing and not even acknowledge it. True loners are comfortable with being alone and prefer it compared to being surrounded by people they don't know. If you like this girl without ever actually meeting her or talked to her, then you aren't like Hikigaya.
Im seeing a lot of weird comments about this speech, but people really forget that Hikigaya himself hated this speech as he got older and more mature. It’s nice to see characters actually develop and mature, coming to understand that they were wrong about certain things… like kindness being a lie or hating nice girls lol genuin people exist
It's kinda complicated moment The speech are brilliant, when you have same state as Hachiman in your heart and soul But also it absolute nonsense, when you truly happy
His English VA is the same as Houtarou Oreki from Hyouka, Hiroomi Nase from Kyoukai no Kanata, and Seiya Kanie from Amagi Brilliant Park, all husbandos.
But our role as girls is to support you guys. We just feel good about helping someone who needs it. Please don't get us wrong 😔 Don't expect but just appreciate. If we're truly into you, it would be our fault for not admitting it.
@@emanueleteneggi1266 Hachiman is essentially ass-mad that the "niceness" of girls he is interested in isn't reserved only for him, so he thinks they must be faking their niceness for something rather than thinking they can't just be good people. In context, it's a good speech and at this point in the show where he says it, you understand where he is coming from and why he thinks that way, but the entire point of the show is him learning to get over him self by actually getting to know these "nice girls" and nice people in general and realizing that people can just be nice because being nice is nice. This moment is a speaking truth to power moment, its a I'm lashing out at my lowest point while trying to sound cool moment.
Can't tell if you have been where Hachiman was in your school years, but the point he is making is that it's easy to confuse interest and being nice, that's why he hates nice girls, because it confuses him, giving him hope for romance even tho deep down he knows it's unlikely, but you still feel the hope which later shuts you down even tho you always knew it was not so, later he finds out how to tell a part and understand things better. People make it out to be some highly intellectual yap, but it's just basic things that many highschool boys go through. Hachiman knew people can be just nice, he literally said so right in the video too and no he didn't mean it like it's a bad thing, he doesn't like the fact that it stimulates his feelings while knowing things aren't truly that way. People who don't get it, haven't experienced it so why even bother giving input when they don't know what they are talking about.@@DetectiveYuki
Oshi no Ko Rascal Does not dream of Bunny-girl My Little Monster Ao Haru Ride Orange If you like decent character writing, drama, and introspective looks on how we view relationships and how we fit into them, these should be solid picks for you.
Jaku-chara Tomozaki-kun season 1 is a similar but more positive story about self-improvement, with a LOT of help, but it's still good the way they connect the gamer mentality with life's challenges. I don't like season 2 too much because it becomes more of a romcom than Tomochadki life advice.
Went through shit similar to the nice girl trap. Long story short: I ask out she says sure, 2 1/2 weeks pass she gets with someone else and I hate them forever
This show is about an edgelord learning to stop that terrible way of thinking 🤣 Promise it’s really good, give a try! First season is the most ‘positive’ his edgynes is depicted.
I hate nice girls. If they so much say hello, it stays on my mind. If they return my text, my heart races. The day one calls me I know I'll look at my call history and grin. But I know in my heart it's just them being nice. People who are nice to me are also nice to everyone else. I almost ended up forgetting that. If the truth is cruel, then lies must be kind. That's why kindness is a lie. I gave up on always expecting it always mistaking it and always hoping for it. Someone whos alone for long doesn't fall for the same trick twice. I am a veteran. I'm the best there is when it comes to losing. And that's why I'll always hate nice girls.
I never got why this was supposed to be profound, it's basically like a dude who goes to a restaurant and thinks the waitress is in love with him just because she was smiling (policy), people just don't want you to think you hate them or just want to be friends, the mc is just immature
“If the truth is cruel then lies must be kind. That’s why kindness is a lie.
If the truth is cruel then lies must be kind. That's why kindness is a lie
That fr hit
I have one too
"I don't care if nobody likes me"
I wasn't born in this world to entertain people"
Lmao these people are going to end up thinking all girls are bad because they keep dating bad girls.
This was too powerful
Still gives me goosebumps. He is saying cruel truth.
Keep dating rude girls that will treat you like shit!
@Kirito Sama I think it's either episode 5 or 6 of S1
No it isn’t. This show is literally about how this mindset is wrong and toxic. How can you miss the point so hard?
@@southasianbrat3878 S1 eps 5 Time 21:08
@@hiiamelecktro4985it’s not wrong it’s called being safe 😊
That's such a beautiful speech.. got to be one of the best
whats the name of the anime
@@CallistusChabala Yahari Ore no Seishun Love Come wa Machigatteiru
It’s a sad speech. Seeing a person have so little worth for themselves is truly heartbreaking.
“I’m the best their is when it comes to losing” like bro 😭
Honestly one of my favorite shows. Seeing this man go from this to worst to then better gotta be my favorite things ever.
@@shawnlopez2957just say oregairu bruh
@rockjohnson706 I said this like 2 years ago💀, kinda late bro
He is the man the myth the legend hikigaya hachiman
Yep hes hachiman the goat
Watching Oregairu after graduating in high school will never feel the same way as watching it during those times. Hachiman and I were once the same age. Can't believe that I already outgrown him.
How he explains that kindness is a lie is just FANTASTIC!
A lone warrior surviving hundreds of battle, when it comes to losing I'm the strongest.
Dark Souls be like.
The way he cringes at this speech in seson three is absolutely adorable and genius. Growing up with this anime as a loner who lived and thought in a very simmilar way to Hachiman was hillarious, as when I watched the 3rd season I cringed at my younger self as much as he did. I knew exactly then how he felt in that moment. Bro just needed a hug.
The sheer nostalgia. I watched Oregairu when I was in high school and it was the first time I realised that what people say and what they feel are different. I started asking myself WHY people acted like they did. It was also the first time I realised how much my parents sacrificed for me and my happiness.
Man, Oregairu is one of the only animes that changed how I saw the people around me. That's why I will always love it.
Too friggin' real words!! His speeches are insanely relatable!!!
This will forever be my faviorte speech of all time. The most relatable.
I've never thought of it that way, being kind is a lie, these words hit like a dagger to the heart
THE ONLY ANIME WHERE I CAN ACCEPT THE DEFEAT OF THE SHORT HAIRED GIRL😭😭
Did you just spoil the anime?
But honestly it's obvious at this point in episode 3 of season 3
Gotta keep this in mind before entering college.
IF truth is cruel then lies must be kind.... That's why kindness is a lie !
Didn't know how it happened but the clarity in the voice made is sound as if the voice is true
Never underestimate the performance people can conjure just to hide their intention's or lack there of.
The real truth behind this man’s speech isn’t the lie of kindness, because after all true kindness is from the heart; it’s that we dudes wish that kindness was not only reserved for us individually but meant for romantic validation.
We should appreciate kind women for the impact on society even if it doesn’t meet our needs. Kindness is a beautiful attribute in the world
When the truth hurts more than the lies
Real
Imma start listening to this everyday until I get it through my fucking skull. I also just love this anime
Bro have you watched it fully? This man isn’t a reliable narrator. His words aren’t fact. This show is literally about how this toxic way of thinking and complete lack of self worth is unhealthy. This man’s whole thing is making up sophistry to explain we he is the worst and doesn’t deserve anything.
Like come on. This video is just a boy rationalizing his fear of being hurt again.
Which is fine, you’re allowed to be scared. But don’t lie to yourself.
I recommend you two doses of S2, especially ep2 and 8. Doctors orders. You can’t have something genuine without being vulnerable!
@@hiiamelecktro4985is that what he meant when he said he wanted something genuine like he wants something genuine but he doesn't want to be vulnerable
@@bigchris327 yeah, he’s scared to be vulnerable. Probably because he got rejected a bunch in middle school, and when he got his hopes up that high school would be different, he got hit by a car and spend his first year alone anyway. Which I think he took as sign that he’s meant to be alone or something like that.
You can see him freeze up when Yukino runs away after he says he wants something genuine as well. He took that as a rejection at first, I think. If Yui hadn’t snapped him out of it, I don’t think he would’ve been fine.
@@hiiamelecktro4985 damn that's deep man and so relatable we all want something genuine in this effed up world. But finding something like that is damn near like looking for a needle in a haystack.
@@hiiamelecktro4985 I have watched this anime a lot. I love the character development. damn. Hiki is scared to connect but he really cares for the people around him.
The quote from any anime 🎉🎉😢😢
That's every introvert ever.
This is me right now, that nice girl I like,but now after watching the anime again, I think I should wait for the right time cause I have never seen her irl too or talked to her,like online stuff,so ya need to meet her and get to know her more and its fine if I end up getting friendzone cause that way I will achieve sir hikigaya title
Its wierd trying to meddle, but do u need some help or do u want to talk about your situation?
@@kw3565 well na its fine buddy, trying to remove the thoughts for now as exams next week,if I need I will surely let u know
Are you sure you're not getting scam dude, cuz it sounds like a scam
Achieve Hikigaya title? Dude, Hikigaya didn't TRY to become the way he is. He became that way through personal experiences. You sound like you're trying to manufacture a similar background for your own amusement. People who are REAL loners don't try to be loners, that's just how they are. They keep everyone at an arm's distance at least, trust very rarely and only to those they know inside and out. True loners don't fool themselves with dreams of love or happiness, because they've already accepted reality for what it is. They may not like reality, they may hate the people they have to deal with, but they understand that it's a part of life. They don't go out of their way to be nice or do good for attention, they'll simply do it in passing and not even acknowledge it. True loners are comfortable with being alone and prefer it compared to being surrounded by people they don't know. If you like this girl without ever actually meeting her or talked to her, then you aren't like Hikigaya.
@@somerandomguy2348 hei! Let us know it worked or not? It's been 3 months...
The author really hints us this in s1 that it was never yuigahama
real
Also that part where he said if truth is evil than lie must be a kind mistress something like that
This guy remembers my young me.
Im seeing a lot of weird comments about this speech, but people really forget that Hikigaya himself hated this speech as he got older and more mature.
It’s nice to see characters actually develop and mature, coming to understand that they were wrong about certain things… like kindness being a lie or hating nice girls lol genuin people exist
It's kinda complicated moment
The speech are brilliant, when you have same state as Hachiman in your heart and soul
But also it absolute nonsense, when you truly happy
I feel this one
This is the exact situation that I'm in 💔
Relate to this a lot
His English VA is the same as Houtarou Oreki from Hyouka, Hiroomi Nase from Kyoukai no Kanata, and Seiya Kanie from Amagi Brilliant Park, all husbandos.
For those wondering which ep its ep 5 from season 1
I never used to understand this until recently 😭
real.
Yo that hit a home a bit. I don’t hate nice girls but it’s true that when they’re nice with everybody it’s harder to understand
I am with you 👍
To support you
That was me with my first crush back in high school
This Guy Thoughts Are Same As Mine
But our role as girls is to support you guys. We just feel good about helping someone who needs it. Please don't get us wrong 😔 Don't expect but just appreciate. If we're truly into you, it would be our fault for not admitting it.
James in the 3rd grade be like
its so sad bc he so fucking true sadly
0:20
i just ended the anime and its really good
whats it called
@@MonkeyDYaz-bk3fq my romantic comedy snafu
@@migo143 finished it all its a master piece
i can only say gigachad ,at least in the first 2 seasons
He just like me fr
Real.
real sigma speech
Waaah how dare you be nice to someone who is not me
This comment section encapsulated my mind a few years ago but looking back at it now just makes me embarrassed that I ever thought this way
you should be embarrassed that you're a pathetic fakecel now. Imagine getting bluepilled this hard and turning your back on gang, celibate lifestyle.
What you mean?
@@emanueleteneggi1266 Hachiman is essentially ass-mad that the "niceness" of girls he is interested in isn't reserved only for him, so he thinks they must be faking their niceness for something rather than thinking they can't just be good people.
In context, it's a good speech and at this point in the show where he says it, you understand where he is coming from and why he thinks that way, but the entire point of the show is him learning to get over him self by actually getting to know these "nice girls" and nice people in general and realizing that people can just be nice because being nice is nice. This moment is a speaking truth to power moment, its a I'm lashing out at my lowest point while trying to sound cool moment.
Bro turned into shakespeare😂 amazing analysis
Can't tell if you have been where Hachiman was in your school years, but the point he is making is that it's easy to confuse interest and being nice, that's why he hates nice girls, because it confuses him, giving him hope for romance even tho deep down he knows it's unlikely, but you still feel the hope which later shuts you down even tho you always knew it was not so, later he finds out how to tell a part and understand things better. People make it out to be some highly intellectual yap, but it's just basic things that many highschool boys go through.
Hachiman knew people can be just nice, he literally said so right in the video too and no he didn't mean it like it's a bad thing, he doesn't like the fact that it stimulates his feelings while knowing things aren't truly that way.
People who don't get it, haven't experienced it so why even bother giving input when they don't know what they are talking about.@@DetectiveYuki
He broke the nicest girl. I hate him.
Mf was easy ahead of times
Based chad
Buddy please upload some more anime quotes .
I want more shows like this and please suggest something other than hauka and classroom of elite
Oshi no Ko
Rascal Does not dream of Bunny-girl
My Little Monster
Ao Haru Ride
Orange
If you like decent character writing, drama, and introspective looks on how we view relationships and how we fit into them, these should be solid picks for you.
@@tyriquesmith8850 none of them come close to oregairu
@@JarlinJamesNDK13 Well, Eye of the beholder and all that, but they are somewhat similar.
@@tyriquesmith8850+ Tomozaki Chan is bottom tier Character.
Jaku-chara Tomozaki-kun season 1 is a similar but more positive story about self-improvement, with a LOT of help, but it's still good the way they connect the gamer mentality with life's challenges. I don't like season 2 too much because it becomes more of a romcom than Tomochadki life advice.
My Youth Romantic Comedy Is Wrong, As I Expected
Anime name
Let me just say, i wouldve done everything in my power to bag my teacher if i was him.
Ima graduate and ima find you
I will always hate nice girls....
Hilarious that I feel exaclty the same
Went through shit similar to the nice girl trap. Long story short: I ask out she says sure, 2 1/2 weeks pass she gets with someone else and I hate them forever
Totally get that
Why are we normalising hating on nice girls lmao 🤣 I swear nice girls get treated like shit.
@@YatashaPenguin it’s not that I’m hating on nice girls, it’s that we never see genuine good girls
I think that almost every single guy fell into the nice girl trap at least once
@@YatashaPenguin you wouldn’t get it you’ve probably played with many hearts just another b/tch
He's pridictable and at the end he was wrong he needs just time
real
Most of this show is kinda silly but sometimes Hikigaya says the most based thing ever. Anyway, Yui best girl
Anime name?
I'm cringing at this comment section bro.
Which episode is this?
Hachiman really reminds me in high school, but unlike him I've never met my Yukino... Otherwise now I wouldn't hate all girls (nice and not nice)
We will find eventually maybe but same as u never met a yukino
the dude ended with a bunch of girls falling for him. Let's be real, he ain't one of us.
What anime is this?
My teen romantic comedy snafu/ oregairu
Episode?
His GF is pretty nice though
What season and episode
Where can I watch this?
Its called snafu but i use a fee website that i wont recommend to you because i dont want you to get a virus
Samurai haciman reincarnation 😍
Hi Guys, what is the name of the anime?
Oreigaru
Ep ?
𝕎𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕒𝕟𝕚𝕞𝕖 𝕚𝕤 𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕤
it is oregairu ( japanese name ) or my teen romantic comedy snufa ( english dub name )
Anime name
My youth romantic comedy/oregairu
EDgeLoORD
This show is about an edgelord learning to stop that terrible way of thinking 🤣
Promise it’s really good, give a try! First season is the most ‘positive’ his edgynes is depicted.
Which ep ?
Hi
Plz tell me
Ep?
ep 6
anyone know the song?
Ost??
Name?
My teen romantic comedy
Which ep does hikki say this plss anyone tell
S1 ep6
@@nivedith6545 but it wasnt there
What ep is this
What’s the anime name?
Oregairu (Yahari Ore)
@@pit2992 thank you
Did you know the bgm
𝕀 𝕨𝕒𝕟𝕥 𝕥𝕠 𝕨𝕒𝕥𝕔𝕙 𝕚𝕥
what will it take to write in normal text
I hate nice girls.
If they so much say hello, it stays on my mind.
If they return my text, my heart races.
The day one calls me I know I'll look at my call history and grin.
But I know in my heart it's just them being nice.
People who are nice to me are also nice to everyone else.
I almost ended up forgetting that.
If the truth is cruel, then lies must be kind.
That's why kindness is a lie.
I gave up on always expecting it always mistaking it and always hoping for it. Someone whos alone for long doesn't fall for the same trick twice.
I am a veteran.
I'm the best there is when it comes to losing.
And that's why I'll always hate nice girls.
Is that why he and so many like him prefer tsunderes?
that actually makes so much sense
"Why she is only hitting and badmouthing me that must be love"
"Why she is only hitting and badmouthing me that must be love"
"Why she is only hitting and badmouthing me that must be love"
What's the ep num ?
S1 6
@@iamaghoul4413 i appreciate ur reply bt too late bro already watched the whole series
@@graffitiop sorry I just finished 15 mins ago. Is the anime ended?
@@iamaghoul4413 yup man and it's very sad 😢 coz i want it to be continued
@@graffitiop the triangle between yui yukino and hachiman is interesting but those school club activities half of the anime screen time is kinda dull
If this clip gets recommended one more time i am going to start making fun of you losers
someone made a fan dub of this years ago, and in my opinion it's way better. does anyone know where i can find it or has a link to it?
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I never got why this was supposed to be profound, it's basically like a dude who goes to a restaurant and thinks the waitress is in love with him just because she was smiling (policy), people just don't want you to think you hate them or just want to be friends, the mc is just immature
And they hate you to~
Kindness is lie .
But Quran is truth.
Allah said it's is a tuth book
asalamalacum brothe inshallah praise box
praise his name!
Of course brother. It just a anime. Don't use these advices in the real world.
Anime name?
🗿
My teen romantic comedy SNAFU
Which is this anime??
My teen romantic comedy
Anime name?
My teen romantic comedy SNAFU