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  • @johnharvey1845
    @johnharvey1845 5 років тому +240

    It still bothers her, you can see it. Doesn't mean she isn't happy now but some things never totally go away.

    • @ELEKTRA_LUXXX
      @ELEKTRA_LUXXX 4 роки тому +26

      So true!! I can tell! The not knowing and just vanishing like that, something did happen to him, but whatever that did happen, remains completely unknown, it would bother me too, even you know if I married and moved on happily, it would still have that haunting affect on me on some degree

    • @98clearlake
      @98clearlake 3 роки тому +6

      @@ELEKTRA_LUXXX I totally agree with both of you ! I have watched this a few times while searching for other stores on Brian and I can see the look on her face after 10 years for that interview she did that it looked like she was still very upset about his disappearance even though she has moved on to a brand new life getting married , kids and her practice even moving to another town ! I can tell she wanted to cry if she could ! She was very strong not too ! Anyways your right ! The unknown is hard ! Because you are always wondering what could have happened that night ? God bless her and her family ! Now it has been 15 long years and still no answers and unsolved ! 🙏🙏😢😢

    • @oofright6000
      @oofright6000 3 роки тому +9

      this story sounds similar to an employee of a supermarket that went missing about 12 years ago in Iowa and his body was found in 2019 behind some freezers

    • @aandjay
      @aandjay 3 роки тому +4

      @@oofright6000 omg whats their name thats so scary

    • @ELEKTRA_LUXXX
      @ELEKTRA_LUXXX 3 роки тому

      @@aandjay the story of Brian Shaffer.

  • @forasec
    @forasec 8 років тому +163

    I wish you the best Alexis.

  • @theworldisavampire3346
    @theworldisavampire3346 5 років тому +107

    I'm so glad she was able move on. The horrors of not knowing is awful.

    • @quarf53206
      @quarf53206 Рік тому +7

      i went to high school with someone who has been missing since 2005. It was always sad driving past his home seeing several missing signs in his front yard with his photo on it. His sister worked at the fred meyer in town and you could always tell how sad she was

  • @LyndaandtheMinkies
    @LyndaandtheMinkies 8 років тому +141

    So horribly sad but great to see how well Alexis is doing with her little family now. And despite this, she still made this film which was a really great thing to do. She moved on, yes, but she didn't forget Brian. The True Crime Garage did a 2 part podcast on Brian's story and it's well worth a listen. Good luck, Alexis and let's hope for Derek's sake too that the mystery is one day solved X

    • @IanP1963
      @IanP1963 8 років тому +1

      Where's link ?

    • @theboyhey43
      @theboyhey43 7 років тому

      Lynda Kelly I know where Brian Shaffer is

    • @828jwjsd
      @828jwjsd 7 років тому +3

      where?

    • @ibrookedup2465
      @ibrookedup2465 7 років тому +9

      do you really? that is very important information to be withholding.

    • @lalaland8137
      @lalaland8137 7 років тому +2

      ibrookedUp probs just a troll

  • @nicklasvoncloust5001
    @nicklasvoncloust5001 3 роки тому +62

    This case is truly baffling, what happened to this young man is a subject of mind blowing preportions.

    • @johnballs4107
      @johnballs4107 2 роки тому +4

      When the answer comes out one day you will see that it wasn’t so baffling at all and the explanation won’t be as impressive as you think

    • @CracKFists
      @CracKFists 2 роки тому +3

      No. It's not "baffling". This case has simply (obviously) been deliberately manipulated. The party responsible is well connected in a significant way in regards to this investigation. It very well may never be "solved" & it's pretty obvious someone(s) who matters wants it that way.

    • @dannigro8794
      @dannigro8794 Рік тому +4

      @@CracKFists I think it’s likely what happened then I agree whoever did this. It happened very quickly, and very easily covered up.

    • @RaulMartines-j1v
      @RaulMartines-j1v Місяць тому

      @@CracKFists Yes. Have you heard of that Reddit user who was sued like half a year ago? A lot of people actually believe that some of what she is saying is true, at least with the people she is accusing and who have sued her. Buckle up!! This case between the Osowski Brothers and QueenBee is going to be closer then people think. Let's see what she has cooked up here. There definetly is a cover up here by the police department of Columbus. I think this case has been solved and they know who did it, but won't correct mistakes they made when Brian first vanished.

  • @IanP1963
    @IanP1963 8 років тому +52

    I am a former British Nurse of 25 yrs and I can see Brian has kind eyes, he would have made a great doc I feel. Hope you find him one day !!!!

    • @astridvvv9662
      @astridvvv9662 5 років тому +4

      @Hairy Pothead dude he was pretty damn sexy.

  • @cranke99
    @cranke99 Рік тому +10

    It'd be nice to hear more from Clint about what happened that night. Especially after he walked Meredith to her car. C'mon man! What are you so afraid of if you're completely innocent. You don't need mommy and daddy to hold your hand. Be a man! Proclaim your innocence so we can put a part of this to rest.

  • @SamLeeSmith
    @SamLeeSmith 4 роки тому +32

    Worst kind of pain, not knowing.

  • @JulieDodgshon
    @JulieDodgshon 8 років тому +92

    After I read of the tragic Brian Shaffer case I found myself kinda obsessively googling to try and find out what happened to Brian (sadly no news, tho I was horrified to learn of his fathers bizarre death from a falling tree and that his mother had passed away from cancer a month before Brisn vanished into the thin air of the unfortunately named Ugly Tuna Saloona) but mainly I wished to know if Alexis had found love and become a doctor...happily yes! My fiance unexpectedly and mysteriously died in his sleep at 42 so I could relate to the heartbreaking change in the direction of your life. Very glad to see Alexis is s happy mom and doctor! Happy Mother's Day Alexis and my heart goes out to Brian's brother and family, may we find Brian!

    • @Mel__21
      @Mel__21 8 років тому +2

      same here! barely found out about this and became a bit obssesed wanting know what did happen to him. really glad tho at least Alexis is doing good in life. with what happened to his dad and mom I hope his brother is doing fine.

    • @IanP1963
      @IanP1963 8 років тому +2

      You know what they say - NO NEWS IS GOOD NEWS !!!

    • @JulieDodgshon
      @JulieDodgshon 8 років тому +1

      *****
      Thanks, I love a mystery even tho it's sad.

    • @tcorrea83
      @tcorrea83 7 років тому +8

      Her now husband looks like Brian...

    • @echalone
      @echalone 6 років тому

      Ugly Tuna Saloona is a great name! :D
      But other than that, I'm glad too she found some distance and a good life :)

  • @htkggk5897
    @htkggk5897 3 роки тому +23

    It broke my heart when she said that it seemed like it happened to someone else... I wonder where he is and I wished I could help.

  • @brookebenton8192
    @brookebenton8192 4 місяці тому +5

    I heard the bar is a rumored trafficking hub for young men. They probably weren't aware of what kind of danger they were in. I think it's possible that he was targeted somehow and trafficked.

  • @normanbfifteen3468
    @normanbfifteen3468 8 місяців тому +8

    If someone was going to leave for a new life, they wouldn't do it: 1. drunk at 2 am on a Saturday morning, 2. two days before a trip already paid for. 3. after studying like crazy to pass school tests

    • @silkie7571
      @silkie7571 Місяць тому

      Except for the fact that you would do it that way if you don't want people to think you exactly did that.

    • @mulg1
      @mulg1 25 днів тому

      @@silkie7571 I sense that he did not have it in himself to break her heart and not marry, he couldnt face her or his family, and did not want to keep going the direction his life was taking , so he bailed by gambling on absolute untraceable disappearance...totally starting new elsewhere.

  • @carrieking6343
    @carrieking6343 4 роки тому +40

    I'm so happy for her. She got on with her life. Must have been a hard guy to lose

  • @Rswipes83
    @Rswipes83 3 роки тому +42

    She seems like such a lovely girl. I’m glad she has managed to move on and have a family of her own.

    • @zoilalulu3798
      @zoilalulu3798 3 роки тому +1

      woman*

    • @nomiddlenamenmn427
      @nomiddlenamenmn427 7 місяців тому

      @@zoilalulu3798Thank you. Very much a woman and a strong, intelligent one.

  • @catdevereux1274
    @catdevereux1274 2 роки тому +15

    Alexis from all accounts is a beautiful and kind lady. I am glad she was able to move on and find happiness.

  • @claudiar8240
    @claudiar8240 5 років тому +44

    Brian Shaffer's disappearance is just so haunting; it's one of the rare missing person cases that has stayed with me for years. Anyway, Alexis says that she's had the chance to step away and not have Brian's disappearance be the focus of her life; which I don't begrudge her (though getting married 3 years after his disappearance seems rather quick to move on). The one I really feel sorry for is Brian's brother Derek. This poor man lost his mother, brother, and father in rather quick succession and is the only one left of that family. Alexis may feel like what happened is all in her past and she no longer thinks about it, but Derek will probably never be able to detach his emotions so easily.

    • @lynncrf
      @lynncrf 3 роки тому +5

      Yes, I was shocked that she got married so quickly, especially considering how horrendous things were for her for the first year.

    • @brooklynlandrum4429
      @brooklynlandrum4429 3 роки тому +17

      Do you hear yourself ??? 3 years is a long time .... what did you want her to do wait 10 ? she found happiness and that’s all that matters. She had to move on for her. Not to impress the likes of y’all.

    • @aandjay
      @aandjay 3 роки тому +1

      I initially thought it was rather fast as well but it took me 5 years to get over my ex I haven't met anyone yet though. But yeah I think what happened was she had her life planned out and wanted certain things at certain periods and marriage is what she wanted in 2009 she wanted it to be brian but unfortunately that happened I see some denial in her that she's completely separated from this part of her life I think she has stuffed part of the emotion in thats how she copes so it feels like almost real but its not so I think counseling would help but I guess that's just how she wants to deal with it i also see her saying "why did he leave me" so she chose to only believe he's still out there and left not the alternative that would be incredibly painful I think that was less painful for her and helped her move on fast too. She misses him a lot more than she'd like to admit but worked her whole life to get where she is and didn't want anything getting in the way especially grief.

    • @cosmosaic8117
      @cosmosaic8117 3 роки тому +4

      @@brooklynlandrum4429 3 years is nothing. Not sure why she would do that.

    • @easttowest5984
      @easttowest5984 Рік тому +5

      I don’t think it’s quick at all. They weren’t married, they were together less than a year. Thank goodness she is in a happy place with a loving family.

  • @trashtvinternational
    @trashtvinternational 8 років тому +138

    Looks like Jennifer garner

    • @elizabethsmith9624
      @elizabethsmith9624 5 років тому +5

      subwaysurfer similar personality too!

    • @hellomynameisjoe5939
      @hellomynameisjoe5939 4 роки тому +7

      Yes!!!! I couldn't figure out who she reminded me of until you mentioned that! She is beautiful! I am glad that she found peace.

    • @lightraveler333
      @lightraveler333 4 роки тому +2

      Was anticipating this comment lol she does

    • @musicisgoodforthesoul999
      @musicisgoodforthesoul999 3 роки тому

      I was thinking the same thing...

    • @cosmosaic8117
      @cosmosaic8117 3 роки тому +1

      Capital One Venture Card

  • @Bloxygames-c1g
    @Bloxygames-c1g 3 роки тому +8

    You have beautiful family Alexis....God Bless

  • @strawberryjones7193
    @strawberryjones7193 5 років тому +66

    she certainly has a type, her husband looks like brian. happy she was able to finally move forward. how tough that whole ordeal must have been.

    • @SS-fx7vz
      @SS-fx7vz 3 роки тому +7

      That’s what I thought too!

    • @brookebenton8192
      @brookebenton8192 4 місяці тому +3

      My husband looks exactly like my celebrity crush😅 (but cuter lol:)

  • @JoeCnNd
    @JoeCnNd 6 років тому +33

    What's the hand thing he does in all his pictures?

    • @JoeCnNd
      @JoeCnNd 4 роки тому

      Did the video change? I remember a picture I believe with his father doing a hand gesture.

    • @peterwatts7386
      @peterwatts7386 4 роки тому +2

      It's a metal thing Brain was a massive metal fan he's just goofing off.

    • @LunsJail
      @LunsJail 4 роки тому

      Not a metal thing, the Shocker. Look it up

    • @lisakn27
      @lisakn27 4 роки тому

      @@peterwatts7386 In every picture?

  • @williamsavary1519
    @williamsavary1519 7 років тому +48

    This case is so sad. Brian's family was struck with some seriously *_BAD_* luck. First his beloved mother dies from some freaky rare disease, then Brian vanishes into thin air, then his father gets killed by a falling tree, of all things. Now, the only fam he has left is his brother. And of course his girlfriend, Alexis seen here.
    I definitely believe his "drinking buddy" of that night, Clint Florence, is responsible for his death.
    In a situation like this, the odds of the culprit being the very same person that was last seen with the victim is extremely high. I think it's over 90%. Meaning that roughly 9 out of 10 times, the pwrson they are last seen with is the cold-blooded killer.
    I also believe that Brian's death was an accident of sorts. I think that Clint Florence had hurt him, maybe they got into a drunken fistfight (which is not uncommon), and Florence ended up killing him by accident and panicking. Making him dispose of the body. Probably in the nearby river.
    Im not a psychic or anything crazy like that. I've nust done a lot of research on this case, and that's nust my opinion. Florence also flat out refused to take a lie detector/polygraph test. And still does, to this day. Weird, if you ask me. He's definitely hiding something.

    • @SadalDay
      @SadalDay 7 років тому +8

      i think it happened in the construction site and clint (or whoever) put his body in a hole or place where the construction would be built on top of his body, never able to be found.
      thats how you have to look at this, where on earth does it make sense, considering all the facts, could he end up where he would never be discovered and imo it would be the construction site. the answer remains the same if one put self in a killers mindset in respect to where to get rid of the body without having to leave the building, construction site.. it should be dug up and combed imo as im confident hes there :(

    • @islanders1329fan
      @islanders1329fan 7 років тому +7

      William Savary Yeah Clint Florence clearly must’ve had something to do with Brian’s disappearance. He refused to take a lie detector test. He knows what happened to Brian. I wonder why the police haven’t charged him with anything or question him again. Innocent people don’t behave like this.

    • @victoriah.3413
      @victoriah.3413 6 років тому +2

      I'm sure they had dogs sniffing the whole area and whatever else to see if that was the case. Sad that this case has not been solved. Glad to see his old GF moving on and happy, but i am sure she still has the hopes that one day it will be solved.

    • @truthseeker2222
      @truthseeker2222 6 років тому +15

      Clint was seen on camera leaving down the escalator though.. So how would he have gone back and disposed of the body? Its almost impossible. On top of that, its a busy bar at closing time, someone would have seen it happen.

    • @JRLOC
      @JRLOC 6 років тому +6

      Investigators brought in cadaver dogs that would have easily found him. According to all of the shows on ID Discovery, a decomposing body is supposed to be horrific and detectable from a great distance. The dogs would have found him if he somehow ended up behind a wall.

  • @eugeniaskelley5194
    @eugeniaskelley5194 3 роки тому +16

    That is one strong woman. To continue at medical school and also be trying to find her boyfriend. I hope she has a wonderful life. She deserves it. Personally I think Brian is deceased. I don't know what happened to him, but I hope he is watching over her and his brother.

  • @BassAcoustic-ww1eu
    @BassAcoustic-ww1eu Рік тому +2

    “With a lot of time and distance, it feels like it happened to someone else now”.
    Cold world.

  • @margenrbd
    @margenrbd 8 років тому +19

    Es una historia muy triste y yo no creo que ella siga enamorada de Brian pero es muy generosa al seguir buscándolo, ella y su marido y familia. Porque si no fuera por ella quien lo buscaría? Brian ha perdido a sus padres que murieron y el hermano no le he visto por internet ni en ningún vídeo buscándolo, supongo que todos entonces haríamos lo mismo que Alexis o por lo menos yo si. Mi consciencia no me permitiría vivir sin buscar a cualquier persona cercana a mí o no que no tiene a nadie que luche ya no por encontrarle vivo o no, sino para saber que pasó.

    • @gilluna3902
      @gilluna3902 7 років тому

      margenrbd eso es muy cierto

  • @Anushablueblood
    @Anushablueblood 6 років тому +94

    Am I the only one who thinks her husband has similar features as that of Brian?

    • @astridvvv9662
      @astridvvv9662 5 років тому +2

      Definitely not. He looks similar.

    • @hellomynameisjoe5939
      @hellomynameisjoe5939 4 роки тому +2

      Yes. When I first saw a family photo of her with her husband I thought maybe she took a picture with Brian's brother for some reason.

    • @ELEKTRA_LUXXX
      @ELEKTRA_LUXXX 4 роки тому +4

      They do look similar!! What if it was Brian? Plastic surgery changed! Now that would be one hell of a plot twist!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @nepheshr5265
      @nepheshr5265 4 роки тому +3

      Yes ,you are right,he looks similar,I thought that too.

    • @breec7
      @breec7 4 роки тому

      Same thing with Maura Murray’s boyfriends wife, totally looks like Maura, pretty creepy actually

  • @bharper9422
    @bharper9422 3 роки тому +19

    After seeing this I further believe he was murdered by someone that drew him into an area of that complex outside the bar right after he re entered. How many people left the bar at 2am? His friends were in that crowd and he supposedly put on a disguise and walked passed them being 6’2”? He would have stood out no matter what he put on.

  • @LTPottenger
    @LTPottenger 4 роки тому +9

    What a crazy case! Hope whoever is responsible is found out some day, or if an accident or runaway we find out about that.

  • @cazpk6840
    @cazpk6840 4 роки тому +17

    So glad she is happy. What a traumatic thing to go through. Hope they find out what happened to Brian and if there was foul play - we still want justice.

  • @anaameliaperalta3025
    @anaameliaperalta3025 4 роки тому +5

    Beautiful Family wish you the best

  • @XercasPathology
    @XercasPathology 4 місяці тому +2

    People giving her crap for moving on fast, it's called filling the void. This was a form of trauma on her.. she won't ever get over it

  • @fia7110
    @fia7110 2 місяці тому

    Why is it on thecolumbusdispatch ??? isn't katie santry from that area???

  • @Brutex3
    @Brutex3 5 років тому +17

    I looked up Alexis due to being a new patient with her at her practice and not having met her yet. She is an incredibly strong woman and i cannot wait for my appointment. I wont be bring this up but im happy she positively got through something that couldve easily broke her.

    • @MrMarco855
      @MrMarco855 3 роки тому

      Are you still her patient? If so, I'd like to tell her what happened to Brian, she probably would like to know. I didn't want to contact her directly, but maybe if you're still a patient of hers you could pass along what I said. She could respond here and I'll get it. Thanks, and if you think it's inappropriate that's fine, I understand.

    • @seriouslynothingmakesanyse6418
      @seriouslynothingmakesanyse6418 3 роки тому +5

      @@MrMarco855 you don't know what happened to brian. shame on YOU!

    • @MrMarco855
      @MrMarco855 3 роки тому

      @@seriouslynothingmakesanyse6418 Shame on you. Why do you insult a stranger? You have no idea who I am, yet you know this. How? You shouldn't be so negative. It doesn't help.

    • @aandjay
      @aandjay 3 роки тому +4

      @@MrMarco855 what do you mean ? Do you know something that happened to him you should go to the authorities if you are serious and really know something

    • @cosmosaic8117
      @cosmosaic8117 3 роки тому +1

      Just bring it up!

  • @kayr2556
    @kayr2556 3 роки тому +15

    I feel bad or her. She is still haunted by the event. I am glad she moved on and has a great life but there is a part of her that will always remember he has never been found.

  • @antoniasinfield1762
    @antoniasinfield1762 3 роки тому +6

    She seems lovely and it's so nice she really moved on. You have to. Concerning Brain himself - I've always said he absolutely must still be on that site. They were able to identify every single person leaving that bar, expect him. That can only mean he's still there. I have a feeling bones will be found there one day.

    • @danman1789
      @danman1789 5 місяців тому +1

      no, he left that site. police easily ruled out the possibilities of him still being there.

  • @germanshepherd6638
    @germanshepherd6638 Рік тому +1

    Were there any serial killers in the area?

  • @AngelaMastrodonato
    @AngelaMastrodonato 3 роки тому +8

    So if she was the same age as Brian was when he disappeared, she would be 36 or 37 here and she still looks and sounds like she’s 18-22

    • @SpinningbacKFisT
      @SpinningbacKFisT 3 роки тому +3

      She really does. Seems like a nice girl. Cute...

    • @aandjay
      @aandjay 3 роки тому +2

      Ikr she looks so young still hasn't aged a bit

    • @nomiddlenamenmn427
      @nomiddlenamenmn427 7 місяців тому

      Lovely woman.

  • @jaj4706
    @jaj4706 5 місяців тому +1

    Was Alexis concerned about Clint not being cooperative with investigators?

  • @brachio1000
    @brachio1000 8 років тому +39

    So now even the woman who loved him has largely put him out of her mind. This isn't unusual, and it's certainly not wrong on her part. It is, though, a melancholy comment on what becomes of all of us aside from the exceedingly rare William Shakespeare or Abraham Lincoln. It reminds me of the scene in the movie TROY in which Achilles' mother tells him that, if he doesn't go to the war, he'll remain an admired Greek warrior, and he'll have children and grandchildren who love him, but, after that, even he'll be forgotten.

    • @michaelshier3956
      @michaelshier3956 8 років тому +1

      brachio1000 u got it

    • @IanP1963
      @IanP1963 8 років тому +5

      YES more like a Greek tragedy than anything else !!!

    • @sunshine91671
      @sunshine91671 6 років тому +16

      She certainly needed to move on but to hear that she's removed from it and I've also read other articles in which she said there's no emotion around it. I think is pretty heartless and cold. It sounds like she really does think that he abandoned her and there's a bit of anger there. But I think that's ridiculous....somebody's who's going to take off from their life is not going to buy tickets to go on vacation.

    • @ErynRenee
      @ErynRenee 6 років тому +13

      sunshine91671 It probably sounds heartless and cold because its been more than a decade, and she has learned to compartmentalize his disappearance in order to cope with it and move on in her life. This isn't unique. This is what thousands of families do to handle life while a loved one is missing for years.

    • @spac18
      @spac18 5 років тому +18

      She didn't forget him, she just realised that he won't be coming back and had to move on. Her agreeing to do this interview clearly shows that she sill cares, just not to the extent of ruining her own life .

  • @SandyzSerious
    @SandyzSerious 4 роки тому +6

    If he never left the building, he must be in that construction addition somewhere.

  • @misskelly9184
    @misskelly9184 2 роки тому +5

    I know it’s still in the back of her head. I’m glad she has a family

  • @sproutnbabyg
    @sproutnbabyg 6 років тому +7

    what kind of construction was going on at the bar?

    • @thelemonvr8747
      @thelemonvr8747 5 років тому +7

      I sincerely hope he's not a part of it. You know like somewhere down in the sidewalk or cemented into a wall

  • @vgoogleuser8136
    @vgoogleuser8136 5 місяців тому

    Its said theres a service entrance located relatively close to the only entrance into the bar where he was last seen. Theres also a roof access point on the second level within the Gateway building. The bar relocated some years ago.

  • @paigebrown9868
    @paigebrown9868 4 роки тому +7

    Arw Bless Her, She Is Right Though, You Have To Move On. It's Been Too Long

  • @Believerfearless
    @Believerfearless 3 роки тому +15

    She delivered my baby :D

  • @LovinLife-pv7op
    @LovinLife-pv7op 3 роки тому +8

    How tragic. Plus, what the hell happened to him?

    • @BassAcoustic-ww1eu
      @BassAcoustic-ww1eu Рік тому

      Probably killed or abducted on the way home around the Wendy’s restaurant (camera wasn’t working) after slipping out of a back door of the bar to avoid his friends. Search dogs apparently tracked his scent from the alternative bar exit up to the Wendy’s area. Possibly a robbery or drunken fight gone too far.
      Doubt we’ll ever know.

  • @dimitris90schild92
    @dimitris90schild92 2 роки тому +1

    But in her fb i saw ZERO photo of Bryan shafter....😑😑

  • @rainbow20112011
    @rainbow20112011 3 роки тому +4

    I don't think he ran away, that doesn't make any sense to me. I think he was killed. But by WHO...That is the question.

  • @Dreamtime-Walker
    @Dreamtime-Walker 2 роки тому +3

    Re -Visiting this Baffling Case. Thanks for the Human Element in This Update. I Think He Disappeared Willingly. So Very Sorry. 🍁

    • @BassAcoustic-ww1eu
      @BassAcoustic-ww1eu Рік тому +1

      I just don’t get it though. Disappearing willingly having been at a bar on camera, surrounded by tons of people all night. Where could he go to continuously avoid detection. The only way it’s feasible is if he’d planned it with someone to shelter him somewhere.
      I think taking his own life is more likely than running away. Especially if he’d just had a big argument with Clint as is speculated. He’d had an awful time with his mother passing and might have been one push away from doing it…… but even then, where’s the body? It’s one crazy case that’s for sure.

    • @Dreamtime-Walker
      @Dreamtime-Walker Рік тому +1

      @@BassAcoustic-ww1euRight. It’s Best to Keep an Open-Mind.👍

  • @nathandrake5941
    @nathandrake5941 4 роки тому +14

    I think he collapsed into the construction site and was buried by cement. God bless him, his mom and dad in heaven, so sorrow.

    • @suckthesebigirishballs5512
      @suckthesebigirishballs5512 3 роки тому +1

      Are you stupid

    • @WithJazzyx
      @WithJazzyx 3 роки тому +3

      Police checked the site right after he went missing when they couldn't find him on the surveillance camera at the front door.
      The back exit was a clear sight for other buildings surveillance camera & they couldn't see Brian leaving the back door either.
      Honestly - I think he got lost in the crowd that's how nobody can pick him up on the cameras. Instead of the 2 girls, he met up with some bigger guys with the same height as him & that's why its harder for him to be recognized. He did get into a fight with his friend that night.. its possible he just hung out with strangers the whole night

  • @tillyg1541
    @tillyg1541 4 роки тому +24

    HER HUSBAND LOOKS EERILY SIMILAR TO BRIAN 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @alwaysdusty
      @alwaysdusty 3 роки тому +5

      Not by a long shot.....lol....

    • @miranda13c
      @miranda13c 3 роки тому +1

      Not really and even if he does look similar, what does that matter? Not sure what random conspiracy theory you are trying to claim with this comment.

    • @tillyg1541
      @tillyg1541 3 роки тому +2

      @@miranda13c yeah champ where did I say it was a conspiracy theory??? 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ You don’t have to agree that he looks similar so pack up your crayons 🖍 and run along . Thank you

    • @indigenousaquarian3112
      @indigenousaquarian3112 3 роки тому

      @@tillyg1541 Hey Tilly!! I seen you on Sloan Bella's channel!! You still follow her!? I haven't seen you on there!?

    • @tillyg1541
      @tillyg1541 3 роки тому

      @@indigenousaquarian3112 yeah sis I listen to her while im at work I just hardly comment coz we can’t have phones on the floor 😂😬

  • @laquishalida3569
    @laquishalida3569 3 роки тому +3

    its sad but glad you have moved on, probably she couldnt get over it because she didnt have closure and only by having her own family that she finally can focus on somebody else..

  • @CG-lc5my
    @CG-lc5my 4 роки тому +3

    did police trace his phone?

    • @fbakr222
      @fbakr222 3 роки тому

      That's exactly what i was wondering, in movies they always show that they can track someone thru their phone y they didn't do that in Brian's case

  • @kiarahidalgo0730
    @kiarahidalgo0730 2 роки тому +2

    I’m sorry but maybe it’s just me what if his best friend, Clint was involved in his disappearance? I read somewhere they were giving lie detector tests to everyone but him? Why is that? What can he possibly know about Brian? Brian’s family needs closure.

  • @JoelUnknownGaming
    @JoelUnknownGaming 4 роки тому +3

    Who else searched this up after watching Stephanie soo video?!

  • @beagledog2001
    @beagledog2001 4 роки тому +11

    I am glad she is so happy now.

  • @susandyke7318
    @susandyke7318 4 години тому

    She knows more then she leads on

  • @danielhartin7680
    @danielhartin7680 3 роки тому +4

    Never knowing has to be the absolute worst.

    • @nomiddlenamenmn427
      @nomiddlenamenmn427 Рік тому

      I agree. It is right up there with unrequited love. Hope the family and friends have found some joy.

  • @LunsJail
    @LunsJail 4 роки тому +16

    I feel like she was about one sentence away from saying she thinks he ran off

    • @alwaysdusty
      @alwaysdusty 3 роки тому +5

      The detective from the case leans toward that too.....

    • @mariahyohannes
      @mariahyohannes 6 місяців тому

      I want to know why she believes that! Before he disappeared they were moving to a new level in their life, they had to have talks about the future!

  • @lupitatorres3721
    @lupitatorres3721 4 роки тому +2

    Subtitulos al español , porfavor 🙏 muchas gracias

  • @tmwick10
    @tmwick10 3 роки тому +6

    She is my current doc. Such a sad story to see :(

  • @ernestthecatmiller4210
    @ernestthecatmiller4210 2 роки тому +1

    Seems like such a bright young lady. What a catch. Love smart, down to earth chics.

  • @therobinmasterstheory1636
    @therobinmasterstheory1636 2 роки тому +5

    I think he started a new life. I once saw someone that looked like him. At the time of the encounter I knew nothing of who he was, it was later that I ran across a video here on UA-cam about him. Do I think it was him?? Anything is possible.

    • @jasminm3878
      @jasminm3878 2 місяці тому +1

      I seen a man that looked like him coming in to eat alone at a restaurant where I work at as a waitress here in Florida.

  • @Frugivorous
    @Frugivorous 4 місяці тому +1

    I can still see the pain within for sure but glad she’s moved on. I am Brian’s same age this year. I’m baffled by this very much so also. I do have a very bad unexplained vision that he was somehow trafficked that night outside of the state. Then resisted & unfortunately that’s how he went out.

  • @4idhero798
    @4idhero798 2 місяці тому

    Glad she's moved on with a beautiful family now and with her own practice in Toledo, and she's able to put it behind her, but I'm sure the "needing some answers" will continue to tug at her and won't go away.

  • @alexandrazakos528
    @alexandrazakos528 2 роки тому +4

    She thinks he’s alive & that he just left.

  • @tsmith3286
    @tsmith3286 6 років тому +5

    I’m not sure what you mean by you saw it with your own eyes. If you are sure you have solved the case then tell me and I will go to Derek myself. I live near him and have no problem if I’m convinced with approaching him.

    • @MrMarco855
      @MrMarco855 5 років тому

      If Derek wants to hear what happened, I'm easy to contact. I don't need you to filter the information. It's that easy; Derek needs to be serious and attentive, the story isn't what anyone has ever mentioned. He has to be open minded, not with an attitude as if doing me a favor. That's what it takes, and that's all I ask.

    • @MrMarco855
      @MrMarco855 5 років тому

      @Steve Kane......I waited many months hoping to tell Derek what I discovered but he never gave me the chance. If you want to discuss this, maybe by email but we probably shouldn't say anything here.

    • @MrMarco855
      @MrMarco855 5 років тому

      @Richard StarnerYou've gotten yourself in some trouble, just wait and read my last response. What in the hell are you talking about a 50 year old man about? You're a real evil and ignorant Person. I've worked with 3 FBI agents recently, and I'm going to my attorney. If you own anything I'll take it in a slander lawsuit. I'm 64 years old and I'm not playing with you junior. You have run your face far too much, you should listen to me and stay quiet now. I can prove every word I've said, and I can prove you slandered my name. When I talk with my lawyer, you'll have to explain your actions, I have n o fear whatsoever, but you should because you're not a clean person and the dirt will be exposed. By the way, it's personal that you made sure to expose my name. Anyone can find it, I never hide anything because I have no shame, I feel no guilt. But it's still a personal thing that you put my name out, I'm involved in many cases where murder was committed. You've endangeredme, but more importantly my wife and grandson, and for that I'm boiling over. You should pray that I don't lose control, and if my wife or grandson were to get hurt, nowhere on this earth could you hide. I'm telling you straight, I'm not playing any more, you've violated the safety of my family, If you say another word to me, I'll consider it a threat to my household. Do you hear me boy, don't address me again.

  • @ryrykhalid6627
    @ryrykhalid6627 3 роки тому +3

    Its so sad really💔💔💔💔

  • @amytompkins140
    @amytompkins140 3 роки тому +1

    did brian start new life

  • @stanleycoleman
    @stanleycoleman 3 роки тому +8

    he is/was very handsome.

    • @alwaysdusty
      @alwaysdusty 3 роки тому

      Dreamy....lol....bisexual too....

    • @cosmosaic8117
      @cosmosaic8117 3 роки тому

      @@alwaysdusty Trisexual actually

  • @dmgsoultogetherness6667
    @dmgsoultogetherness6667 2 роки тому +2

    God bless her.....

  • @dinglbarry1275
    @dinglbarry1275 3 роки тому +5

    Of course she just so happens to have the most inadvertently confusing use of language at the most critical part in the conversation, so it's just as much of a mystery what she's saying as the mystery itself.
    She says "when it first happened, like how could somebody leave and how could he do that to me and obviously that's impossible so something horrible must have happened, but now with a lot of distance and a lot of time and now I I mean II think I probably have less of.... it feels like it happened to somebody else." The first time I heard it I interpreted as though she suspects he left and started a new life, but now I think it could go either way. I'm literally 50/50 in reference to this just coming out wrong or if she's insinuating that she thinks he started a new life. How irritating!

    • @nomiddlenamenmn427
      @nomiddlenamenmn427 Рік тому +3

      She is a doctor. I believe they have their own way of discussing highly emotional situations. They are trained to always keep a certain level of detachment. That is how I interpret it, anyway. Thank you.

  • @aliciatucaz1
    @aliciatucaz1 2 роки тому +3

    I once saw a case of a young woman who went out on a date and surveillance cameras see her out with her date and detectives then track them going into a hotel but she never comes out
    They continue to check the hotel cameras hours later and nothing. But what they do see is a man coming out with a suit case and it looked as if he was struggling to pull it
    They looked into it and sure enough he had murdered the young lady and dismembered her body and put her in the suit case
    I can’t stop to think if with the Brian Shaffer case if they continued to look at surveillance videos hours or even days after

  • @GatCat
    @GatCat 4 роки тому +5

    Could it be an April’s fools joke?

    • @JustJoshinAroundd
      @JustJoshinAroundd 4 роки тому +11

      Do you think disappearing for 9 fucking years is a April’s Fools joke?

    • @Etrius0023
      @Etrius0023 3 роки тому +4

      lol

  • @SURVIVOR-111
    @SURVIVOR-111 4 роки тому +6

    God bless you and your family 👪 🙏.

  • @Hurricanetongue
    @Hurricanetongue 3 роки тому +3

    I wonder if Brian came back and explained to her what happened. Would she be able to forgive him? I'm happy that she was able to move on. Although someone like me would neve really be able to move on from something like this.

  • @glndlbro83
    @glndlbro83 4 роки тому +5

    She looks like Jennifer Garner.

    • @aandjay
      @aandjay 3 роки тому +2

      I see a bit of a mix of liv Tyler too

  • @josegarciavazquez
    @josegarciavazquez 5 років тому +1

    Nunca me imaginé que esto sucediera en los Estados Unidos. I could not understand this situation happening in Columbus, Ohio

  • @irenemiller
    @irenemiller 7 років тому +17

    Got married 3 years after her boyfrined vanished, that's way moving on, and she's also way over it like she said "it feels like it happened to someone else" so I guess she realy believes that he ran off

    • @KISHEEME
      @KISHEEME 6 років тому +9

      irene miller what should she have done? Still been sitting somewhere three yrs later waiting for him to come home

    • @charlottebuchanan3193
      @charlottebuchanan3193 6 років тому +4

      At first I thought 3 years sounded soon but after thinking about it thats quite a long time..

    • @freakyfriesday
      @freakyfriesday 5 років тому +3

      🙄He would have wanted her to be happy

    • @irenemiller
      @irenemiller 5 років тому +2

      @@KISHEEME Not "waiting for him to come back to her" but when she said "it feels like it happened to someone else" idk looks cold

    • @irenemiller
      @irenemiller 5 років тому +4

      @@freakyfriesday I think she's in peace, but not happy

  • @lisakn27
    @lisakn27 4 роки тому +7

    Something happened to him at the construction site, imo..I think he probably got stuck there for 3 or 4 days and died of dehydration. He had too much going on to just run off like that and he had no enemies to kill him..He was also in a good part of town where people don't just get murdered over a dollar or two. It was an accident..had to be.

  • @carmensandiego211
    @carmensandiego211 3 роки тому +3

    i couldnt help being those kids and thinking i wouldnt be here if this guy didnt go missing so my dad could get in..

  • @ceberios
    @ceberios Рік тому +2

    he's stuck somewhere in that mall

  • @ianodonnell5552
    @ianodonnell5552 2 роки тому +2

    New husband looks a lot like him

  • @charmainejay7515
    @charmainejay7515 2 роки тому +1

    So sad 😢

  • @butterflygirl2285
    @butterflygirl2285 3 роки тому +1

    This kind of reminds me of the Craig Frear missing person case in New York State. Very haunting, because the victim seems to have a stable, happy life, and then boom: - they have vanished.

  • @MilliVanilli2007
    @MilliVanilli2007 4 роки тому +5

    I can't shake off that stick figure tattoo Brian had....wonder when he got it. The lyrics from that song go "I'm still alive"...

    • @musicisgoodforthesoul999
      @musicisgoodforthesoul999 3 роки тому +2

      It's Pearl Jam "Alive". Great song. I hope someday there will be answers. From what I've read and seen, he seemed like a good guy.

  • @MrMarco855
    @MrMarco855 6 років тому +3

    I'm trying to find a way to contact Brian's brother Derek. Can anyone help me? It's very important. Thank you

    • @AerophlixMedia
      @AerophlixMedia 6 років тому

      contact these guys they are in contact with him now we marched with him Sunday as well www.comebackpodcast.com
      They also have new information that the media was completely wrong on

    • @MrMarco855
      @MrMarco855 6 років тому +1

      Aerophlix Media,......Thanks,...........I spoke to Derek once a few weeks ago. I know what happened to his brother,......but he didn't seem too interested.

    • @samb656
      @samb656 6 років тому +1

      MrMarco855 it’s just really sweet of you man

    • @MrMarco855
      @MrMarco855 6 років тому +1

      Zoya barwani,......Thank you my man,.......God Bless you and you're loved ones.

    • @tsmith3286
      @tsmith3286 6 років тому +4

      I would suggest if you have a tip to call the hotline.

  • @islanders1329fan
    @islanders1329fan 7 років тому +5

    This is too heartbreaking.
    Chances are Brian isn’t alive and probably fell into a river and drowned or entered into an elevator that leads to a hazardous construction site by mistake and it killed him because he was drunk. I hope I’m wrong, but that could be the reason why he was never seen on camera leaving the bar. Usually when someone is missing this long chances aren’t very good in finding them alive...but miracles do happen you know...hopefully and hopefully is the main word here that he’s still out there alive somewhere just waiting to be found.

    • @SpinningbacKFisT
      @SpinningbacKFisT 3 роки тому +1

      Sucha stupid theory. He just "fell into the river". Not a chance. First off the Scioto is a hike from the Tuna. Second the river has literally been drained few years back. I think they were involved in drugs. In fact I k ow they were. Im from columbus and was apart of that whole scene back then.

    • @musicisgoodforthesoul999
      @musicisgoodforthesoul999 3 роки тому

      @@SpinningbacKFisT she doesn't seem to be the type. And they were boyfriend and girlfriend. Usually, they would have something like that in common. He seemed like a good guy... First time I've heard of the "drugs" thing.

    • @SpinningbacKFisT
      @SpinningbacKFisT 3 роки тому +1

      @@musicisgoodforthesoul999 I assure you Clint and Brian were involved in cocaine. I can say 100% for a time Clint was selling it. Don't really care what you've heard before. I knoW before soo...

    • @musicisgoodforthesoul999
      @musicisgoodforthesoul999 3 роки тому +1

      @@SpinningbacKFisT okay I was just thinking that with that added info... The possibilities are endless... It's just sad there is no closure.

    • @SpinningbacKFisT
      @SpinningbacKFisT 3 роки тому +1

      @@musicisgoodforthesoul999 it really is. I remember when it happened. I was living near campus at the time. I was like 19. The family has been plagued with tragedy.

  • @rondal7316
    @rondal7316 4 роки тому +1

    Alexis go to Awakening Starseed she did a reading on Brian. The people he was with killed him.

  • @ferch5410
    @ferch5410 4 роки тому +12

    She moved on really fast

    • @cosmosaic8117
      @cosmosaic8117 3 роки тому

      @@Delilah513 Yes it is.

    • @cosmosaic8117
      @cosmosaic8117 3 роки тому

      @@Delilah513 You can move on without already getting married with kids by 2009. Sheesh. I still haven't even gotten a new relationship since my last messy breakup in 2017, nor have I pursued one.

    • @cosmosaic8117
      @cosmosaic8117 3 роки тому

      @@Delilah513 3 years is practically 3 weeks for crying out loud like WTF JFC LMFAO SMDH GTFOH

    • @cosmosaic8117
      @cosmosaic8117 3 роки тому

      @@Delilah513 So every guy is disposable to your precious eggs. Got it.

    • @cosmosaic8117
      @cosmosaic8117 3 роки тому

      @@Delilah513 "She is smart to move on quickly" ...so you admit she moved on quickly. Checkmate.

  • @Sorvert
    @Sorvert 3 роки тому +3

    is it just me but does her husband look at lot like Brian?

  • @Rome795
    @Rome795 5 років тому +2

    I watched some paranormal guy on UA-cam"communicating" with the dead on some device. The man asked where Brian is..The spirit answered.."Seattle"...The band Brian went back to talk to comes from Seattle...lol.

  • @edwardcarlon1966
    @edwardcarlon1966 8 років тому +7

    I found Brian Shaffer on a phone book and I'm guessing it's him because he's 35-39 age and he's located in boca raton FL and the research I found was he told his wife that he was gonna go to a trip to Florida and people have seen him in Florida Virgin Islands I hope this helps I care for other people too and I just wanted to help

    • @MatthewNY94
      @MatthewNY94 8 років тому +31

      I HIGHLY doubt Brian would still be using his real name if he ran off to start a new life

    • @IanP1963
      @IanP1963 8 років тому +6

      On or in a phone book ? He didn't have a wife Alexis was his fiancé !!!!

    • @edwardcarlon1966
      @edwardcarlon1966 8 років тому +1

      whatever bitch IAN PAYNE

    • @jenCo2020
      @jenCo2020 5 років тому

      That would be cruel to do that. But If he did surely he would say and for sure his friend wouldve said. Instead refusing a lie detector makes the friend look bad. I really doubt that.
      If anyone thinks that then get his photo and video and send it on to the family or police. I wish that was true but I think its far more sinister

    • @lolitafikc8281
      @lolitafikc8281 4 роки тому +1

      strange. 4 month ago I have found a picture of a man looking like him and living in florida, his name was brian shaffer but police said it was not him.....

  • @ManAcadie
    @ManAcadie 4 роки тому +3

    She is very pretty.

  • @h.g9985
    @h.g9985 Рік тому

    هذا الشخص ليس لديه اعداء حسب ما سمعنا
    ولكن تم التستر على هذه القضية من قبل الشرطة
    وصديقه الذي لم يعترف ولماذا الشرطة اهملته
    قد يكون عالق بمكان ما .. أو قد تم التخلص منه وتقطيعه ورميه بالكيس ويحملوه عدة اشخاص
    او هرب من منفذ اخر .. لكن لو كان يريد الهرب لهرب بطريقة اخرى فلماذا يأتي لسوق عالمي وفيها كامرات مراقبة ويريد الاختفاء .. يعني الامر مريب

  • @janetsavona7590
    @janetsavona7590 2 роки тому

    Very nice young lady No way he would leave her!! its not uncommon to encounter problems when you bar hop People are drunk they behave stupid

  • @diegoandrade8109
    @diegoandrade8109 2 роки тому +3

    I wonder if she dreams about him

  • @WithJazzyx
    @WithJazzyx 3 роки тому +2

    What I don't understand is..his cell phone rang YEARS ago when his gf was still living in his apartment but she didn't answer?
    She said she called his cellphone all the time but the one time it rang she didnt pick up? Instead she handed it to the police?
    Somebody could've been on the other end - as the number was still registered 🤔🤔

    • @AngelaMastrodonato
      @AngelaMastrodonato 3 роки тому +1

      When I heard that I thought when she called she heard the phone ring a couple of times instead of going straight to voicemail. What I don’t understand is how long will a phone number and phone operate when no one is paying the bill?

    • @WithJazzyx
      @WithJazzyx 3 роки тому +2

      @@AngelaMastrodonato I heard it was the other way around because when she gave the phone to the police they were able to locate the cell tower it came from. However the phone company called it a "glitch" & they didnt persue further. Either way I would've answered then hand it to the police. I don't understand her motive there but I don't think she did it tho.
      She lived in his apartment after he disappeared in case he came back so they probably kept paying bills etc. In case he came back💔

    • @AngelaMastrodonato
      @AngelaMastrodonato 3 роки тому

      @@WithJazzyx I just listened to the Prosecutors Podcast on this case. It’s in two parts. They go into detail about how a phone tower pings near a phone when it has an *incoming* call. So she had called him. It always went directly to voicemail when she called except for one time 6 months after he disappeared. I do agree that investigators shouldn’t have written this off though because this is like the only evidence in this case. The Prosecutors Podcast was wondering how this ping could be caused by a computer or circuit glitch like the phone company presumably claimed.

    • @WithJazzyx
      @WithJazzyx 3 роки тому

      @@AngelaMastrodonato so 6 months after he disappeared the phone rang unexpectedly?

    • @AngelaMastrodonato
      @AngelaMastrodonato 3 роки тому

      @@WithJazzyxher phone didn’t ring because she got an incoming call. When she called him after he disappeared, everyday it went immediately to voicemail because the phone was off. Six months later, one day when she called she heard it ring 3 times on the other line before it went to voicemail as if his phone was turned on. The phone company says this was a glitch but it did ping a phone tower in a town north west of Columbus

  • @VancouverCatDogLover
    @VancouverCatDogLover 4 місяці тому

    Clint did it

  • @suhyun-in1160
    @suhyun-in1160 4 роки тому +1

    한글자막이 없군

  • @RealParadoxed
    @RealParadoxed 3 роки тому +3

    He must have fallen down the construction site surely