I've been reading Dan Wile's and Dorothy Kaufmann's great, short book, "Solving the Moment: A Collaborative Couple Therapy Manual" (138 pages) so I was happy to find this UA-cam video featuring Dan Wile talking about his Collaborative Couple Therapy. I love his comment from 18:33 - 18:43 mins. "To do this kind of therapy, what you want to do is to be able to get into each person's perspective and appreciate what they're struggling with, rather than stand back and judging them." To put his comment in context, at 17:29 mins. Dan said, "Sometimes you just kind of know you hate this person and you want the other person to get divorced." What a miraculous thing it is to be able to appreciate what someone is struggling with from their perspective rather than judging them from one's own perspective! There are 3 parts to Dan's Collaborative Couple Therapy: (1) Theory (Solving the Moment), (2) Methods (the method of Doubling mostly but a few others), and (3) Sensibility (the therapist's self-monitoring of any slippage from listening to judging). I highly recommend Dan's and Dorothy's book and this video. 😊
I've been reading Dan Wile's and Dorothy Kaufmann's great, short book, "Solving the Moment: A Collaborative Couple Therapy Manual" (138 pages) so I was happy to find this UA-cam video featuring Dan Wile talking about his Collaborative Couple Therapy. I love his comment from 18:33 - 18:43 mins. "To do this kind of therapy, what you want to do is to be able to get into each person's perspective and appreciate what they're struggling with, rather than stand back and judging them." To put his comment in context, at 17:29 mins. Dan said, "Sometimes you just kind of know you hate this person and you want the other person to get divorced." What a miraculous thing it is to be able to appreciate what someone is struggling with from their perspective rather than judging them from one's own perspective! There are 3 parts to Dan's Collaborative Couple Therapy: (1) Theory (Solving the Moment), (2) Methods (the method of Doubling mostly but a few others), and (3) Sensibility (the therapist's self-monitoring of any slippage from listening to judging). I highly recommend Dan's and Dorothy's book and this video. 😊
I found this really interesting as a couples counsellor 👍🏽
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Where do I find part 2?
Part 2 is available to only RECAMFT members. recamft.org