I absolutely love this guy! Im very much married 30+yrs with a career. My hubs was the same way, he didnt want me to work while pregnant either. Our incomes match, working for me is an option. I have WORKED our entire marriage except for pregnancy. He is a provider, my daughters husband is a provider. These type of men are out there for sure....Don't apply if you cant match this gentleman, its that simple. He clearly has worked hard and deserves nothing but the best. Good Luck ladies!
He's a very nice guy. Ladies be fair, if you're overweight, more than 2 kids and nothing going for yourself, do not reach out to this man. Yes we all have worth but its not fair for someone who got his education, works out, keep himself clean to have women who didn't make anything of themselves, didn't protect their womb and have kids with multiple men and dont workout, be delusional and unreasonable thinking you deserve this man.
I went to the store today and the black woman at the register was sitting down, when I got closer I saw she was pregnant and her coworker had ended her shift about to leave. She said “call me if they get to be shorter than 3 minutes apart and I’ll come back” she was having contractions and not due till the middle of March! I’m so glad he said what he said about pregnant women working and all the guys I’ve dated felt the same! I waited for the only other customer to leave then I said a prayer with her. I cried in the car but I trust her and the baby will be blessed ❤️
@@jayo3074not all jobs have paid leave. Actually probably most jobs don’t have it in the U.S. at least. It is not federally required. Possibly some states may require it, but I doubt many if any. There is job protection available if you meet the federal requirements, but a lot of people don’t. If she’s a cashier I very much doubt that she gets paid leave and a good chance she qualify for unpaid leave/job protection. This country does not treat mothers well unfortunately 😔
He does not want his wife to work while pregnant ! The ancestors are smiling from the heavens. Good luck CJ, the women are coming for you! And we want an update!
Wow, if he feels like that, then why is he on the show, where that's the majority audience. There are a lot of sassy, incel men in the audience as well.
Very true. My husband and I have 5 children together. I’m in shape and do well for myself but if I have ever found myself single I would not date until all my children were grown.
@@dredey1971I think what she meant was be truthful in assessing oneself, and self-eliminate, rather than put yourself forward to then be turned down by the man for obvious reasons.
It’s really disheartening to see the comments from other black men telling him to date out because no black woman would qualify. I literally know several in my friend groups alone. And I meet other black women that qualify all the time. If the black men commenting haven’t met said black woman yet it’s probably because YOU don’t qualify for that type.
@@kevinlee9929Same place she was when dusty males like Tommy Sotomayor started the BW hate train in the early 2000s, and told y’all to date out because ur slave masters apparently raised better women. Bunch of shameless defeated clowns. BW only started dating out more RECENTLY, in reaction to ur decades of bullying and bashings online.
He’s a Great Catch! Reminds me of my Hubby when I met him with my 1 year old. We’ve been together over 20 years & I had 5 of his children making us have a total of 6 kids. We live in our Dream Home that we built from the ground up & our love continues to grow with the years. I’m so grateful for my Love & our Dynasty. That 1 year old I had when we met & my Hubby didn’t have kids at that time is now 24 & he’s been such an amazing Father to him & the 5 kids we have together. #HURDCREW♥️
He’s a great catch. His DM’s are going to blow up. Plus he’s good looking. Lady’s treat him right. ❤️Just based on his presentation alone he’s a better choice than most of the clowns that come on the show (men and women)
The young lady recently that had the short hair in Atl I believe...no kids, beautiful, smart, works out and is ready. Dang I can't remember her name....but find her and reach out! Find him and reach out! Lol🥰😍💞
Not on this show, he needs to get his passport if he wants a good quality woman, nothing but traumatize, hurt babymama with multiple babydaddies on here.
@@dentreveal3820 and 98% of the men are in the same situation. What’s your point? Just b/c those folks have kids don’t mean they aren’t worthy of love. Also I’m pretty sure he wanted a women with no kids so folks with kids shouldn’t even be in the convo. You don’t have to down American women to make your self feel better babe. Get help
@@Morg820 So if he wanted a woman with no kids like most men why come on a show where 98% of the women are babymamas by multiple men. Statistically he is doing himself a diservice. Anyone with a brain can tell the ods are not in his favors because 98% of the women on this show are babymamas.
You think, (no homo) a handsome 🥷 like him can’t get a black woman? Or any race of woman? It’s not that he can’t, it’s that he can’t find a black woman that meets his standards. And you’re not gonna like this but his standards are too low. He’s willing to date women 9 years older than him. He’s tweeking. He must be content with not having his own kids with a woman that old. Couldn’t be me. I smash women older tho 🤷🏽♂️
Dude set your standards high like the women that come on this show do. There are plenty of single black beautiful women with no kids. I don't understand why you would date someone with kids when you don't have kids yourself. Just from one Army veteran to another veteran.
I knew he was in the navy when he kept saying belay my last, i still say it, too, lol. He's cute. He should try to find a woman at the gym or church he goes to! Cali is full of health-conscious women! If i liked working out, wanted kids & was religious, i would take him, lol
He’s fine and I can meet all his requirements ❤! 😊😊 I make his financial requirements! I thought he was older! He seems, humble and mature! This man is so awesome and understanding! Reminds me of my Dad!
High valued men can be with a single mother and thrive. If he’s interested then why not🤦🏾 he’s taking accountability for his community which is a a beautiful thing✊🏾
Southern California is similar to NY…especially LA & NYC…it really is a rat race and most of the people you run into are here to further their careers…not have a family.
NOW THIS IS WHAT IM TALKIN ABOUT!! KEEP IT IN THE COMMUNITY MY BROTHA!! I REALLY WISH YOU WELL IN YOUR DATING JOUNEY. MAYO!! HE SAID NOPE!! SO STOP IT OK!!! GOD BLESS
CJ seems like a very solid guy. I love guys who are direct, but not an asshole about it. Good luck to you sir, I hope you find what you are looking for!
I remember this guy's original video.He studied Kendras show and rehearsed what he was gonna say. I remember thinking he's just trying to get play. Checked his IG and he follows A LOT of women (ladies you know what that means). I believe he had women that met his standard reach out but he was looking for quantity and now he's back for round two. This man is playing the game, keep ur wits about you ladies
I find it funny that he laid out all of his qualifications and women that didn’t meet any of them were the ones that were reaching out, that’s a perfect analogy for a lot of single women in today’s dating market, A lot of them just don’t qualify for the guy they want and the guy they want does not want them, when they get that through their head then they’ll have a better chance at meeting someone who’s a good fit for them.
He either needs to hire a matchmaker or hire me to sift through those applicants if he doesn't want to do it. The wife is not going to show up in the first 10 DM's.
I don’t be believing nobody who claim to have so much going on for themselves but struggling to find a decent partner…especially a guy like him who seems to be charismatic and not socially awkward. Something ain’t right with this one
I’m so glad I’m not the only one who caught this. What 6 foot, 6-figure, attractive black man needs to advertise on KG show to find a baby mama of 2? 🤔🙄 Matter of fact, he’s guaranteed to find a dozen of these every night on the KG show. Why not just DM one of the plethora of baby mamas who come on her show daily? This is a clout chase. I feel it in my bones.
I kinda agree. Plus he lives in Southern California. It’s not like he’s in a small town in Mississippi or Indiana. He really shouldn’t have any issues finding a woman in Cali that meets his standards
I love what he said about when he has children his pregnant wife is not working. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen pregnant black women in particular lifting heavy boxes and stocking shelves. It’s obvious they didn’t have a man who could make it easier for her while she’s pregnant. Most likely they were not married. So there is a huge difference between a husband who can provide and a broke man who can’t provide especially after he’s impregnated a woman.
I like him as a person.. he seemed like he could’ve been a old friend of Kendra’s meaning his answers felt genuine and not rehearsed. I hope he finds a great woman!
There’s nothing wrong with his preference for kids just like his other preferences are valid. Women do it all the time, they date men with kids. And no I ain’t got no kids
I think he may want to find his soul mate and unfortunately, life happens and his soul mate might just have a child already with that age range. It's his preference though, he doesn't have a problem with it, so there's no problem 🤷🏾♀️
CJ, you need a woman from the “Midwest!/East Coast” Thank me later, Just saying. You’re welcome! I already knew CJ was from the south! He has great qualities!✅♥️You’re raised very well, CJ..Good luck
CJ my man, stay 10 toes down and keep repeating over and over. No overweight ladies. No overweight ladies. To make it clearer. Tell them size 8/10 dress or smaller
What’s his @ ? I fit all of his requirements outside of living in Cali. I have lived there in the past and am only in Vegas. Open to see what can happen.
lol y’all be thinking ppl are a good match because they have standards and are good looking but some of these ppl be fucked up in the mind can’t change that 🙌🏾💕
I think it's wild people are getting everything but what they ask for. He actually seem like he could make a decent partner. I think it's deeper than we can see why some of these people are getting the total opposite. He looks like the type that women that fit his description would attract to. It's something deeper with these wants. Social Media is vast. He's doable but I'm not in Cali, I don't want kids, and I'm not looking for marriage 😀 And I'm not going to be in a pick me line lol
I have the same job but I have a bachelors of science in engineering. That’s not a lot of money for so cal. Unless you bought a home when the market was down.
What does having a missing site tooth do to you? I had a tooth pulled when I was 18, and replaced it. Some people can’t afford to replace it but their overall hygiene is still good. I just don’t see the issue with the missing teeth unless it’s combined with a yuck mouth.
Lol ppl gotta stop. I tried to push that standard to the side before and realized that out of shape men just aren't for me, I'm simply not attracted...and that's ok
Young ladies: read these comments here. MARRY BEFORE YOU CARRY. That baby mama stuff absolutely lowers your value. Period. Young men: hold the women to a standard. If the kids weren’t from marriage, the value is lower bc of decision making. Choose accordingly.
He's a man with STANDARDS.......ladies PLEASE respect that and respect yourself 😮😢😮.....
I’m laughing because bum ass women reached out hhahahahhahaa
There’s nothing wrong with wanting someone in shape
I absolutely love this guy! Im very much married 30+yrs with a career. My hubs was the same way, he didnt want me to work while pregnant either. Our incomes match, working for me is an option. I have WORKED our entire marriage except for pregnancy. He is a provider, my daughters husband is a provider. These type of men are out there for sure....Don't apply if you cant match this gentleman, its that simple. He clearly has worked hard and deserves nothing but the best. Good Luck ladies!
Not for the baby mamas who watch this show
Provider ?.just doesn't seem right
In this economy, everyone should be the provider.
Both ADULTS should be providing for the family. Women should be looking for a husband not a daddy replacement.
Correct, the guys are out there, but that's the problem. A lot of females didn't want to match the description of what he was looking for.
What a breath of fresh air, his deal breakers aren’t far fetched. Best wishes to him!
But it's crazy he's still having trouble. Tells you how the bad the dating market is. Even being reasonable is a lot to ask.
He's a very nice guy. Ladies be fair, if you're overweight, more than 2 kids and nothing going for yourself, do not reach out to this man. Yes we all have worth but its not fair for someone who got his education, works out, keep himself clean to have women who didn't make anything of themselves, didn't protect their womb and have kids with multiple men and dont workout, be delusional and unreasonable thinking you deserve this man.
I went to the store today and the black woman at the register was sitting down, when I got closer I saw she was pregnant and her coworker had ended her shift about to leave. She said “call me if they get to be shorter than 3 minutes apart and I’ll come back” she was having contractions and not due till the middle of March! I’m so glad he said what he said about pregnant women working and all the guys I’ve dated felt the same! I waited for the only other customer to leave then I said a prayer with her. I cried in the car but I trust her and the baby will be blessed ❤️
It's crazy for her to be working while almost about to give birth. Don't companies give women paid maternity leave?
@@jayo3074she should’ve married a good stable man. Her fault. No one cares not even y’all. Be real.
@@KingCarolina_ I didn't say I care I'm just stating the law. Women are entitled to maternity leave
@@jayo3074 of course they are who disagreed or said otherwise?
@@jayo3074not all jobs have paid leave. Actually probably most jobs don’t have it in the U.S. at least. It is not federally required. Possibly some states may require it, but I doubt many if any. There is job protection available if you meet the federal requirements, but a lot of people don’t. If she’s a cashier I very much doubt that she gets paid leave and a good chance she qualify for unpaid leave/job protection. This country does not treat mothers well unfortunately 😔
He does not want his wife to work while pregnant ! The ancestors are smiling from the heavens. Good luck CJ, the women are coming for you! And we want an update!
Lmmaooo he saying 95% of women who be on here in the comments are larger than life with a bunch of kids 😂😂😂😂😂
And I OOP
Are these the Godly women he’s referring to? 🤣
😩😆😭🤣😭
Wow, if he feels like that, then why is he on the show, where that's the majority audience. There are a lot of sassy, incel men in the audience as well.
If these are the only women who hit him up then he doesn’t qualify for something better 🤷🏿♀️
This is one of the top picks of men I have ever seen on the Show Blessings Handsome
He has a beautiful smile.
Yes ❤❤❤
😂 love when he kept it moving when Kendra disconnected 😂😂😂
That was awesome!
That was awesome!
His improv was great
I would never insult myself for a man to tell me no… be honest with yourself, you’re not going to change his mind!!!!
Just curious, why is it an insult for a man to tell you no?
@@dredey1971because what’s between her legs she think it’s valuable
Very true. My husband and I have 5 children together. I’m in shape and do well for myself but if I have ever found myself single I would not date until all my children were grown.
@@dredey1971I think what she meant was be truthful in assessing oneself, and self-eliminate, rather than put yourself forward to then be turned down by the man for obvious reasons.
@@aoc092 I think i understand. Men play the game differently because we are normally the pursuers.
It’s really disheartening to see the comments from other black men telling him to date out because no black woman would qualify. I literally know several in my friend groups alone. And I meet other black women that qualify all the time. If the black men commenting haven’t met said black woman yet it’s probably because YOU don’t qualify for that type.
Where are you when BW tells other BW to date other races of men .... ?
Well according to stats, 4 out of 5 black women are overweight.
@@blklightning21 Dusty black men making up stats AS USUAL. 4 out of 5 is 80%. Where did u get the stats from, dummy? Post the link.
@@kevinlee9929Same place she was when dusty males like Tommy Sotomayor started the BW hate train in the early 2000s, and told y’all to date out because ur slave masters apparently raised better women. Bunch of shameless defeated clowns. BW only started dating out more RECENTLY, in reaction to ur decades of bullying and bashings online.
Well, if there were black American women who met his qualifications he would not be back a second time. The reality beats your anecdotal experience!
Women really don’t believe it when men say they don’t like fat women.its a worldwide preference
And the white women don't believe him when he said only Sisters
Some men do though, not many but they do exist
I was once a chubby chaser
but most blk men like fat white women, it's very commom in my country
Key words "not many" @@AshleyNoneya yes, they're "out there" few and far between
He said no missing side teeth 😂😂😂
😁😬😸😹
What😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀
Lol........😅😮😢😮😅😮😅😮
What's funny is I know exactly what he's talking about 😂 😁
@@patricewasheresame!!!
Ladies this man is a good catch. His requests are reasonable. I hope he finds what he’s actually looking for. Good luck to him
He’s a Great Catch! Reminds me of my Hubby when I met him with my 1 year old. We’ve been together over 20 years & I had 5 of his children making us have a total of 6 kids. We live in our Dream Home that we built from the ground up & our love continues to grow with the years. I’m so grateful for my Love & our Dynasty. That 1 year old I had when we met & my Hubby didn’t have kids at that time is now 24 & he’s been such an amazing Father to him & the 5 kids we have together. #HURDCREW♥️
He’s a great catch. His DM’s are going to blow up. Plus he’s good looking. Lady’s treat him right. ❤️Just based on his presentation alone he’s a better choice than most of the clowns that come on the show (men and women)
But ya always gotta remember..
Everything that glitters ain't Gold.
@@concretejungle6938 no such thing as perfect
Blown up with everything that he’s not looking for once again!😂😂😂
He definitely seems solid! Single ladies good luck with this one ❤❤
@concretejungle6hrd not looking for gold 938
The young lady recently that had the short hair in Atl I believe...no kids, beautiful, smart, works out and is ready. Dang I can't remember her name....but find her and reach out! Find him and reach out! Lol🥰😍💞
Great idea!👏🏿👏🏿
I remember her; if he doesn't have a hair fetish 🙄 she might be a good match for him
I was thinking the same thing! I recently saw her interview
Yeah she was a hair stylist and wore an orange dress or something. I think she’s 27
Oh yeah! I remember her. She would be great to meet up with him.
I thought he was descent guy...hes allowed to have his preferences 🤷♀️
Do you know his @? I missed it HELP😂
Go to 5:10 mark @@lifewithneyj
Good guy who knows what he wants. Good luck to him in his journey to love
CJ seems genuine and knows exactly what he’s looking for. He will meet the woman he is looking for.
Not on this show, he needs to get his passport if he wants a good quality woman, nothing but traumatize, hurt babymama with multiple babydaddies on here.
@@dentreveal3820 tell me you don’t get
Out side with out telling me
@@Morg820 clearly you don't watch show to see 98% of the women that come on this show are babymamas with multiple different baby daddies.
@@dentreveal3820 and 98% of the men are in the same situation. What’s your point? Just b/c those folks have kids don’t mean they aren’t worthy of love. Also I’m pretty sure he wanted a women with no kids so folks with kids shouldn’t even be in the convo. You don’t have to down American women to make your self feel better babe. Get help
@@Morg820 So if he wanted a woman with no kids like most men why come on a show where 98% of the women are babymamas by multiple men. Statistically he is doing himself a diservice. Anyone with a brain can tell the ods are not in his favors because 98% of the women on this show are babymamas.
Hoorah CJ, good luck shipmate!!!! He has great energy
I’m here for everything this man said and felt about black woman !!! How is this man not taken my god!!
You think, (no homo) a handsome 🥷 like him can’t get a black woman? Or any race of woman? It’s not that he can’t, it’s that he can’t find a black woman that meets his standards. And you’re not gonna like this but his standards are too low. He’s willing to date women 9 years older than him. He’s tweeking. He must be content with not having his own kids with a woman that old. Couldn’t be me. I smash women older tho 🤷🏽♂️
Dude set your standards high like the women that come on this show do. There are plenty of single black beautiful women with no kids. I don't understand why you would date someone with kids when you don't have kids yourself. Just from one Army veteran to another veteran.
So what. Why are you tryna police other people choices. This has absolutely nothing to do with you. What are you the dating president.wtf
He said it doesn't matter cause he loves children
Sounds like he is just broadening his horizons to meet someone.
Navy vet. He’s not a soldier like us.
He seems so genuine and sweet! I truly hope he finds a beautiful black woman with no kids that he can build a legacy with💪🏾❤️
If he was near or over 50 with no desire for kids, he would be my type of man.
His age limit is 42 though...or are you young looking for a much older man? I can't tell from your pic because black don't crack ❤
Even with his hairstyle? I wore my hair like that as a toddler 😂
He seems very sincere 🤴🏾 He represented Black Excellence 🙏🏾
His requirements are reasonable. Im in SoCal too, its ugly out here! Good luck sir! 👏🏾
Salute to my Navy fam! Good luck, brother!
I knew he was in the navy when he kept saying belay my last, i still say it, too, lol. He's cute. He should try to find a woman at the gym or church he goes to! Cali is full of health-conscious women! If i liked working out, wanted kids & was religious, i would take him, lol
S/O to my Navy Veterans!!When he said "Belay my last" I knew he was a Navy vet !!
He’s fine and I can meet all his requirements ❤! 😊😊
I make his financial requirements! I thought he was older! He seems, humble and mature! This man is so awesome and understanding! Reminds me of my Dad!
Same but he seems like a player so good luck Hun
Tell us how it goes
@@mindingmybusiness6309 ok thanks ☺️
Lol man I don't even make his financial requirement 😂 but good luck girl get your man.
❤❤ He seems really nice and respectful. Hopefully he finds someone that he matches with.
Idky people who don't meet someone's requirement reach out. That's crazy!!! Them side teeth 🦷 gotta be extra weak cuz they be the first to go!
He should go to the Christian Dating Sites. 😏
I really enjoyed Cj presence he seems down to earth his standards are reasonable he seem like a overall great catch ❤️😍💥🤩 wish I wasn’t too young 😢
Good luck to him!! He seems great. There are sooooo many beautiful professional women on here. I hope he finds one 💕💗😊
I like this guy! Unfortunately I don't meet the criteria in age or location....damn. 😔
Great dude! I hope he finds what he’s looking for! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
He sounds like such a good guy. I hope a good one finds him. Too bad he's too far for me.
I wish CJ luck in finding the one!
Bro, don’t get a single mother. You’re a high valued man.
High valued men can be with a single mother and thrive. If he’s interested then why not🤦🏾 he’s taking accountability for his community which is a a beautiful thing✊🏾
Don't tell this grown ass man what and what not to do, worry about you please.
Amen
He need to lower the age range to 22-32
@@Willy_Jeanhe old you what he wanted and 22 is too young
He’s lightskin and so many women on here say they don’t want a lightskin black man…guess the receipts ain’t matching what these ladies saying 😂
For me it’s the opposite, am attracted to light skin men
@@Sassy_Mimisame here!
These women be LYING! They gush over light skinned kids but don’t want a light skinned man? That makes no sense.
Light skinned men make the best partners.
He is brown..... and handsome...😋
He is attractive. I just wonder why is he single in a place like Southern California?
Cali is a terrible place for dating decent women 😂
Southern California is similar to NY…especially LA & NYC…it really is a rat race and most of the people you run into are here to further their careers…not have a family.
Cali has very attractive men though!
I was wondering the same lol. Maybe he’s just not going to the right places/events
He said that he doesn't go anywhere, but to work and the gym.
I like him! He knows what he wants and seems grounded. Goodluck!
Kendra- What do you do for a living?
CJ. - "I manage Multi Million Dollar projects"
Kendra- "Ok you're a project manager"
Me -lol
😂😂😂😂😂
Right!
That's literally what the title of his job is. Project Manager
Didn’t he say “ I manage multi-million dollar construction projects… so I’m a project manager “
@@qwertymolerat Sounds like Real Estate projects, Commercial Buildings, Multi-Use Developments, etc.
NOW THIS IS WHAT IM TALKIN ABOUT!! KEEP IT IN THE COMMUNITY MY BROTHA!! I REALLY WISH YOU WELL IN YOUR DATING JOUNEY. MAYO!! HE SAID NOPE!! SO STOP IT OK!!! GOD BLESS
CJ seems like a very solid guy. I love guys who are direct, but not an asshole about it. Good luck to you sir, I hope you find what you are looking for!
I remember this guy's original video.He studied Kendras show and rehearsed what he was gonna say. I remember thinking he's just trying to get play. Checked his IG and he follows A LOT of women (ladies you know what that means). I believe he had women that met his standard reach out but he was looking for quantity and now he's back for round two. This man is playing the game, keep ur wits about you ladies
Did he have a fade last time...I don't remember
I don't remember his hair @@salutemimi81
He should have no problem getting what he wants, good luck to him. Great catch
I find it funny that he laid out all of his qualifications and women that didn’t meet any of them were the ones that were reaching out, that’s a perfect analogy for a lot of single women in today’s dating market, A lot of them just don’t qualify for the guy they want and the guy they want does not want them, when they get that through their head then they’ll have a better chance at meeting someone who’s a good fit for them.
Not Kendra leaving her own show 😂😂😂 4:55
And he continued the show 😂😂😂
Lol 😂
😂😂😂😂😂 hire him Kendra
Something is off about this brotha
I agree. And then he said and I quote "Black women are the closest thing to God".
Anyone who says something like that is most definitely off.
The cliche vague comment, used in order to hate but hide your face. Pathetic.
Like what's off ?
@@longbeachmaumba7059 Yeah, he's making that statement yet none of these "close to God" women hit him up the first time? That seems odd.
I’m shocked a black man from Cali is that passionate about Black Women!
One of the best bm on the show much respect
Great guy. I pray 🙏🏾 he attracts the right woman
He either needs to hire a matchmaker or hire me to sift through those applicants if he doesn't want to do it. The wife is not going to show up in the first 10 DM's.
He definitely look like a great guy but definitely don't let the smile fool you. He reminds me a little bit of Byron that was on the show 🙏🙏
Right military 🚩🚩🚩
He seems like a good guy 😉
Being unwilling to date a woman with kids has nothing to do with not liking kids lol. I'm annoyed by that answer.
Annoyed at the answer or the fact you want him all to yourself.🤨
Niqqa 35 rocking a 17yr old hairstyle is comical 😂
Probably because when you you have to be structured and uniform for so long, self expression is freedom
Why does hairstyles have to do with age
Seems like a solid guy he deserves the best
Okay cj seems like a decent good brotha I hope he finds the woman he is asking for 🙌🏾
Seems like a good guy. Some ppl should invest in a match maker. May be a better option.
I don’t be believing nobody who claim to have so much going on for themselves but struggling to find a decent partner…especially a guy like him who seems to be charismatic and not socially awkward. Something ain’t right with this one
I’m so glad I’m not the only one who caught this. What 6 foot, 6-figure, attractive black man needs to advertise on KG show to find a baby mama of 2? 🤔🙄
Matter of fact, he’s guaranteed to find a dozen of these every night on the KG show. Why not just DM one of the plethora of baby mamas who come on her show daily? This is a clout chase. I feel it in my bones.
@@JLynnDsMyoosik 100% he either a fraud or he just looking clout…likely both are true
Facts! At 6 ft he should be hollering at everything moving outside. He on Kendra show because he don't have game in real life.
I kinda agree. Plus he lives in Southern California. It’s not like he’s in a small town in Mississippi or Indiana. He really shouldn’t have any issues finding a woman in Cali that meets his standards
I love what he said about when he has children his pregnant wife is not working. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen pregnant black women in particular lifting heavy boxes and stocking shelves. It’s obvious they didn’t have a man who could make it easier for her while she’s pregnant. Most likely they were not married. So there is a huge difference between a husband who can provide and a broke man who can’t provide especially after he’s impregnated a woman.
He’s cute.. he’s a catch.
I like him as a person.. he seemed like he could’ve been a old friend of Kendra’s meaning his answers felt genuine and not rehearsed. I hope he finds a great woman!
He's crazy! If you're 35 with no kids, why would you want a woman with kids and baby daddies?
He's sus
You must be broke and ghetto to not understand a successful man.@@bigbawlzlebowski8886
I totally agree. He's crazy for real. Raise another men kids when he don't have any his self
There’s nothing wrong with his preference for kids just like his other preferences are valid. Women do it all the time, they date men with kids. And no I ain’t got no kids
I think he may want to find his soul mate and unfortunately, life happens and his soul mate might just have a child already with that age range. It's his preference though, he doesn't have a problem with it, so there's no problem 🤷🏾♀️
Sometimes looks aren’t just enough. Sometimes you gotta see if you can handle each other’s flaws.. because we all have them.
Damm right!!..
CJ, you need a woman from the “Midwest!/East Coast” Thank me later, Just saying. You’re welcome! I already knew CJ was from the south! He has great qualities!✅♥️You’re raised very well, CJ..Good luck
CJ my man, stay 10 toes down and keep repeating over and over. No overweight ladies. No overweight ladies. To make it clearer. Tell them size 8/10 dress or smaller
Not even that because clothing manufacturers vanity size clothing.
I like how he kept tge shiw going. Seems like a nice man
One of the best interviews Kendra has had btwn both men or women. Love CJ.
I like him! He’s handsome and seems really put together!!!! Also humble!! Ladies please don’t waste his time!!!
I would like to know why CJ and the one person from last show didn't work out.
What’s his @ ? I fit all of his requirements outside of living in Cali. I have lived there in the past and am only in Vegas. Open to see what can happen.
Great guy. Alot of men could learn from him on being respectful towards women.
I really like this guy. He is a good one.
I like him, he seems very smart and respectful. I wish you the best young man! And as always, shout Kendra G. 🤘🏾❤️
Well I'm out. I have missing teeth and I hate dogs😅
😂😂
Love Kendra realness
Kendra CB please make a playlist with male callers only
Now he is a quality individual 🎉
Aww. I'd definitely be interested, but I don't have social media so I can't reach out 🤣 CJ if you're reading this what's your email???
If you have friends that have social media have them pass along your info. Best of luck.
@@Noir_NouveauGreat idea! 👏🏿👏🏿 She should!
lol y’all be thinking ppl are a good match because they have standards and are good looking but some of these ppl be fucked up in the mind can’t change that 🙌🏾💕
I think it's wild people are getting everything but what they ask for. He actually seem like he could make a decent partner. I think it's deeper than we can see why some of these people are getting the total opposite. He looks like the type that women that fit his description would attract to. It's something deeper with these wants. Social Media is vast. He's doable but I'm not in Cali, I don't want kids, and I'm not looking for marriage 😀 And I'm not going to be in a pick me line lol
But u are older
Yep I'm 42
Good luck young brother I wish you all the best
He fine but he like women‼️‼️ good luck cj, and I hope you find the lady that deserves you
Omg he was talking to my friend 😂😂 I ain’t gone tell their business 🙊 he’s funny for this though
Spill the tea!😂
@@teecharee6069exactly 🙄🙄
Great catch. Very good catch.
The lady with the cute pixie cut whos into fitness from Atlanta would be so good for him - the hairstylist 🙇🏿♀️
I have the same job but I have a bachelors of science in engineering. That’s not a lot of money for so cal. Unless you bought a home when the market was down.
He is fine
What does having a missing site tooth do to you? I had a tooth pulled when I was 18, and replaced it. Some people can’t afford to replace it but their overall hygiene is still good. I just don’t see the issue with the missing teeth unless it’s combined with a yuck mouth.
Now watch how the chicks in the comments light him up because he wants a woman who's in shape.
😂😂😂
I applaud him for his standards! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 He needs to also say women with no kids.
Lol ppl gotta stop. I tried to push that standard to the side before and realized that out of shape men just aren't for me, I'm simply not attracted...and that's ok
We're still watching...looks like you were wrong.
Young ladies: read these comments here. MARRY BEFORE YOU CARRY. That baby mama stuff absolutely lowers your value. Period.
Young men: hold the women to a standard. If the kids weren’t from marriage, the value is lower bc of decision making. Choose accordingly.
Good catch!
I remember him, thought he would’ve gotten a good one. He on the other side of the US for me
Aww I have all the requirements but I’m on the east coast