Oh, Cathy, beautiful beach. So clean. I know exactly what you're saying and how you feel. I'm with my hubby 24/7 as I'm disabled, but! I would love some time on my own. To collect my thoughts, reflect on my life, present, and future. It's very hard for a man to understand women. They say they do, but they don't. We are all here for you, sweetheart always. Just enjoy your holiday. I l9ved listening to the sea it's so calming and haunting. Xxx❤❤❤
I put ocean sounds on while I'm sleeping, I find it very soothing and relaxing. No worries Cathy, I think we all need a break from men now and again. You do what makes you happy.
Chin up Cathy, it’s normal to feel overwhelmed when you are so used to living alone. You will be back home before long, In your own home and back to your own routine. We are all behind you and loving the sea footage take care xxx❤
I'm in rainy Washington state. Hard to believe it's actually sunny somewhere!! Totally understandable that you need a breather from John. Too much together time can be draining. Do what you need to keep yourself healthy, happy and stressfree! Stay safe and enjoy the new year! God Bless.
Hi Cathy, thanks for letting us go with you on your walk by the sea. Lovely listening to the water and kids having fun. Don't ever be apologising for your low mood. I know you always look on the bright side of life when you can. I hope I am not going to overstep the mark here because I don't want to offend you but John is definitely getting on your nerves this holiday. I just wonder if you could look into hotels there and book separate rooms next time. John obviously cares about you so much because you could see him looking for you on the beach ⛱️. I understand about you wanting your own space but I would love to have my late husband back again.. Deep breaths Cathy and I hope you can get in some more good company and enjoy yourself. We are all mates on here and we try to help each others moods whether they are up or down. Love to you and John and I hope you can relax and enjoy the rest of your holiday x 👍❤️
Love your videos and descriptions of the places and people you've seen. I totally understand alone time after being solo for a long time. John is very lucky to have you but he hasn't got a clue that he's getting on your nerves. Hi again from Chicago. ❤
I could listen to the ocean all day long. I love the smell of the air, too. The water is so calm. Is that a huge rock in the distance out in the water? Hope you enjoyed your walk. Much love ❤️ ❤
That sound of the ocean is lovely Cathy ❤Make a time every day tell john its Cathy's time see you in a couple of hours head off for a walk a bit of lunch or shopping Cathy's time do not disturb for 2 hours 😂❤❤
Cathy I totally understand I absolutely love my own space I’m 64 been single for 15 yrs I just can’t be arsed with a man wrapped round my neck been there done it wore the t shirt lol my wee Mam used to tell everybody Marion’s to set in her ways plus she prefers animals to humans x 😂😂❤
One thing could you go away on your own,I was on my own 17 years,I was young and fit then. Even moved abroad and lived in furtenventura and worked there with my young son for 8 years. Now sons in Germany,I met this bloke 15 years ago were just mates like you and john. But he's cared for me when no ones there. He drives me up the wall at times. But I'm greatful❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I very much understand the sea is so calming for you and hard for you feeling for him but feeling alone with your feelings nice you're at least able to share with us never apologise for how tough you are finding things especially wanting your own space take care bless 🙏🙏💜
Beautiful beach. Seems like you are going through a difficult time. I understand you fully as I live on my own and used to my own space. Please God things will improve for you both. ❤❤❤
Aw bless ya nan skel! Cos your used to being on your own!! Least your not living together permanently eh!!! That beach is lovely n clean .Nice bit of filming there! Enjoy the rest of you hols.💕
Aww!!! Nannyskel!! I know exactly how yea feel been there worn the T-shirt thee drive ya potty don’t thee ,we can’t live with em and can’t live without em haha can we love ya skel xxxxx
Your not a moaning old cow Kathy, trouble shared is a troubled halved......And were here to listen to you.....Next Sunny Day just say to John I would like to get deck chair and go and sit on the beach (in the shade)...Your welcome to come, but if not you do your thing.....and see what reaction you get......Keep your chin up Kathy it's your holiday aswell so you enjoy it ...God Bless.❤❤😊😊
Oh Cathy it’s very difficult and as you said it’s draining. You’re a better person than me, I couldn’t put up with it life’s too short. As you say you’re not together now as a couple, so maybe spend less time together? Sorry I hope you don’t mind me saying. Great little vlog, I could lie on the sand with my eyes shut and listen to the sound of the sea…so relaxing. Sending my love ❤and hugs 🤗 Xxxx
Cath mine drives me insane most days. Know exactly how you feel. Ive had 10 hrs off & on with him with the drive up to Scotland. 2 hotel rooms over the 2 days & i swear to god i was going nuts. The crossing on the ferry over to orkney was very rough today & it was the only time he shut up lol 😆 can i suggest Stephen dalton a Irish sleep story teller. Hes on youtube & hes the only one i can listen too..he does different stories & the ones i like are with rain sounds. I suffer with insomnia & cant shut my brain down & it really helps. Look him up he does loads of different ones & it might help you. Sending lots of love from stormy Orkney ❤️ xx
I understand that been with my partner for nearly forty years but some need a break too they do get under your slun sometimes chin up enjoy your houlday it lioks lovely there
Cathy, I know exactly what you mean, when you have been on your own for a long time, you get stuck in your ways, like to do what you want, when you want, you don’t have anyone to think of, to answer to or to consider and then someone comes along to rock your boat, they are in your face 24-7 and with me its their constant talking that drives me crazy, don’t worry about off loading to us, we are there for you and iff it helps to have a moan then you carry on, thanks for taking us to the beach Cathy it is beautiful, don’t worry about your views going down, when you get home and start doing your videos as you were doing them the viewers will soon come back, xx❤
Also, there are some women who have someone in their life who don't pay that much attention to them. Maybe they are physically and emotionally abused. These women wish to have a guy like John because they crave that kind attention. Maybe you need to have a chat with John when you get back home to set boundaries for home and when abroad. ❤❤❤
I am going to be 58 in February and I never really got involved with anyone because I have always loved being in my own space. Big time introvert is what I am. Would rather animals over people any day. So I get it. It seems to me that I tell people this to their face so I don't get rude at them they keep bothering me upsetting me even more so. Quetion-- WHAT IN BLOODY HELL IS WRONG WITH THESE PEOPLE? AND just because you're on holiday, why not tell you need a bit of time away from him? John needs to learn to be a bit more independent. Needs to cut the apron strings.❤❤❤
How are you today Cathy? (31st) …hopefully back to yourself..being alone is something I can’t do anymore . I’m 74 and have real low self esteem..my husband goes everywhere with me now.
what a beautiful, clean beach, just love the ocean sounds, thank you for sharing nanny ❤❤❤
Thanks for visiting x
Oh, Cathy, beautiful beach. So clean. I know exactly what you're saying and how you feel. I'm with my hubby 24/7 as I'm disabled, but! I would love some time on my own. To collect my thoughts, reflect on my life, present, and future. It's very hard for a man to understand women. They say they do, but they don't. We are all here for you, sweetheart always. Just enjoy your holiday. I l9ved listening to the sea it's so calming and haunting. Xxx❤❤❤
Hi my favourite any where near ocean .we loved our walks here skely thank u 😊❤
You’re welcome 😊
I put ocean sounds on while I'm sleeping, I find it very soothing and relaxing. No worries Cathy, I think we all need a break from men now and again. You do what makes you happy.
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Thanks for lovely video Cathy. Nice seeing the sun!. You'll be fine . Cathy. Take a breather. Happy New year 2025 Cathy you lovely lady. X
I'm trying, believe me x
Cathy beautiful beach is lovely and clean thank you for sharing your video ❤God bless you your amazing person Cathy ❤️ ❤️👍😊xxxx
You are so welcome xx
Chin up Cathy, it’s normal to feel overwhelmed when you are so used to living alone. You will be back home before long, In your own home and back to your own routine. We are all behind you and loving the sea footage take care xxx❤
Yes! Thank you!
I'm in rainy Washington state. Hard to believe it's actually sunny somewhere!! Totally understandable that you need a breather from John. Too much together time can be draining. Do what you need to keep yourself healthy, happy and stressfree! Stay safe and enjoy the new year! God Bless.
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Hi Cathy, thanks for letting us go with you on your walk by the sea. Lovely listening to the water and kids having fun. Don't ever be apologising for your low mood. I know you always look on the bright side of life when you can.
I hope I am not going to overstep the mark here because I don't want to offend you but John is definitely getting on your nerves this holiday. I just wonder if you could look into hotels there and book separate rooms next time. John obviously cares about you so much because you could see him looking for you on the beach ⛱️. I understand about you wanting your own space but I would love to have my late husband back again.. Deep breaths Cathy and I hope you can get in some more good company and enjoy yourself. We are all mates on here and we try to help each others moods whether they are up or down. Love to you and John and I hope you can relax and enjoy the rest of your holiday x 👍❤️
I have sent him out with his mate, I have had a lovely day with friends, laughed all day, and not a drop of alcohol, on my part 😂😂😂
@Nannyskely Well done 👍❤️
Love your videos and descriptions of the places and people you've seen. I totally understand alone time after being solo for a long time. John is very lucky to have you but he hasn't got a clue that he's getting on your nerves. Hi again from Chicago. ❤
Most men are clueless.
Thanks kate, that's my mams name , I told you, so that's letting me know it's OK x❤️❤️❤️❤️
I could listen to the ocean all day long. I love the smell of the air, too. The water is so calm. Is that a huge rock in the distance out in the water? Hope you enjoyed your walk. Much love ❤️ ❤
Yes, it is peacock Island, I think x
Lovely Beach walk Cathy. I Really Love the Sea. Thanks So Much for taking me along. ☘❤
You are so welcome xx
I find the water soothing Cathy, ah bless you, Cath you wouldn't be without him xxxx❤😅🎉
Know I wouldn't, but I need some space xx
Can't live with em ,can't live without em 😏 xx
True x
That sound of the ocean is lovely Cathy ❤Make a time every day tell john its Cathy's time see you in a couple of hours head off for a walk a bit of lunch or shopping Cathy's time do not disturb for 2 hours 😂❤❤
I tell him that, but says ill go when you are 🙈🙈🙈😵💫
❤ thank you love the sea sounds ❤ xxxx
Cathy I totally understand I absolutely love my own space I’m 64 been single for 15 yrs I just can’t be arsed with a man wrapped round my neck been there done it wore the t shirt lol my wee Mam used to tell everybody Marion’s to set in her ways plus she prefers animals to humans x 😂😂❤
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One thing could you go away on your own,I was on my own 17 years,I was young and fit then.
Even moved abroad and lived in furtenventura and worked there with my young son for 8 years.
Now sons in Germany,I met this bloke 15 years ago were just mates like you and john.
But he's cared for me when no ones there.
He drives me up the wall at times.
But I'm greatful❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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That is what we are like. 👍❤️
I very much understand the sea is so calming for you and hard for you feeling for him but feeling alone with your feelings nice you're at least able to share with us never apologise for how tough you are finding things especially wanting your own space take care bless 🙏🙏💜
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Looks beautiful there Skely ❤😘 Everyone gets off day's!!? 😂😂 Keep your chin up my lovely 😘
Thank you, I will, told him to have a day with his mate, he will be bladderd when home but will go to bed x
You are so loved, my thoughts and prayers are with you. ❤ 🙏
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You let us know what is on your mind. It's actually nice to hear. We are all friends 😊
Thank you so much for that xxx
Beautiful beach.
Seems like you are going through a difficult time. I understand you fully as I live on my own and used to my own space. Please God things will improve for you both. ❤❤❤
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Aw bless ya nan skel! Cos your used to being on your own!! Least your not living together permanently eh!!! That beach is lovely n clean .Nice bit of filming there! Enjoy the rest of you hols.💕
Thank you for that xxx
Aww!!! Nannyskel!! I know exactly how yea feel been there worn the T-shirt thee drive ya potty don’t thee ,we can’t live with em and can’t live without em haha can we love ya skel xxxxx
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Your not a moaning old cow Kathy, trouble shared is a troubled halved......And were here to listen to you.....Next Sunny Day just say to John I would like to get deck chair and go and sit on the beach (in the shade)...Your welcome to come, but if not you do your thing.....and see what reaction you get......Keep your chin up Kathy it's your holiday aswell so you enjoy it
...God Bless.❤❤😊😊
I just say I'm going the shop. But go sit on my own. 😵💫🤷♀️😂😂😂😂
How long are you in Benidorm? Love to go but it’s a bit far from 🇦🇺👍
There's people from all over the world here! You should Google how long the journey takes, we have few more weeks, x
Not so much the distance, but the cost! Thanks and happy new year to you and your family!!!👍🇦🇺
Oh Cathy it’s very difficult and as you said it’s draining. You’re a better person than me, I couldn’t put up with it life’s too short. As you say you’re not together now as a couple, so maybe spend less time together? Sorry I hope you don’t mind me saying. Great little vlog, I could lie on the sand with my eyes shut and listen to the sound of the sea…so relaxing. Sending my love ❤and hugs 🤗
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Hi nanny love the sounds of the waves so relaxing isn’t it ☺️. I thought you were back at home. Is this one you made earlier🫣 take care 🥰🥰😊
No still here x
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That energy would drain me too,ive got one of them at home too called George 😂
Oo there must be a few of them because I've got one here too 😅😂
Pmsl at you 2 xxx
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We've all got a John and they all the bloody same, know it all's 😂😂
I’ve not got a John…..
Cath mine drives me insane most days. Know exactly how you feel. Ive had 10 hrs off & on with him with the drive up to Scotland. 2 hotel rooms over the 2 days & i swear to god i was going nuts. The crossing on the ferry over to orkney was very rough today & it was the only time he shut up lol 😆 can i suggest Stephen dalton a Irish sleep story teller. Hes on youtube & hes the only one i can listen too..he does different stories & the ones i like are with rain sounds. I suffer with insomnia & cant shut my brain down & it really helps. Look him up he does loads of different ones & it might help you. Sending lots of love from stormy Orkney ❤️ xx
I will look that up thank you x
Oooh sounds good I’ll look him up too..
I understand that been with my partner for nearly forty years but some need a break too they do get under your slun sometimes chin up enjoy your houlday it lioks lovely there
He's still out with his mate I'm in relaxing now x
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Know what you mean Cathy, I've been divorced twice and on my own for nearly 20yrs. Wouldn't have it any other way.❤
Left him in pub with mates x
Cathy, I know exactly what you mean, when you have been on your own for a long time, you get stuck in your ways, like to do what you want, when you want, you don’t have anyone to think of, to answer to or to consider and then someone comes along to rock your boat, they are in your face 24-7 and with me its their constant talking that drives me crazy, don’t worry about off loading to us, we are there for you and iff it helps to have a moan then you carry on, thanks for taking us to the beach Cathy it is beautiful, don’t worry about your views going down, when you get home and start doing your videos as you were doing them the viewers will soon come back, xx❤
I hope they doo, that makes me feel sad that I'm note posting, but I can't when he is around. Xx
Also, there are some women who have someone in their life who don't pay that much attention to them. Maybe they are physically and emotionally abused. These women wish to have a guy like John because they crave that kind attention. Maybe you need to have a chat with John when you get back home to set boundaries for home and when abroad. ❤❤❤
I left him with his mate, came home, I had scouse done fed him he went to bed to sleep it off 👌👌
Try these 3 words Cathy
I Don't know 😮
Tried it, he says, Well you know how to more than me, so just have a look...F"O" SAYS ME ! 🙈🙈
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Must be hard babes...when you are so comfortable in your own skin xxx
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I am going to be 58 in February and I never really got involved with anyone because I have always loved being in my own space. Big time introvert is what I am. Would rather animals over people any day. So I get it. It seems to me that I tell people this to their face so I don't get rude at them they keep bothering me upsetting me even more so. Quetion--
WHAT IN BLOODY HELL IS WRONG WITH THESE PEOPLE? AND just because you're on holiday, why not tell you need a bit of time away from him? John needs to learn to be a bit more independent. Needs to cut the apron strings.❤❤❤
Certainly does x
How are you today Cathy? (31st) …hopefully back to yourself..being alone is something I can’t do anymore . I’m 74 and have real low self esteem..my husband goes everywhere with me now.
I'm OK, it's just that he put me on a downer, yesterday morning , and I could not shake it of the whole day, he got warned today not to do again x
@ you are both so use to each others ways by now…you’d be lost without each other I’m sure 😘
Is he being a leech Cathy
Yes x