Years ago I went through the marriage even though there was emotional, sexual and verbal abuse. It affected my children as well. I thought that I had to stay because I was a Christian. The enemy lied constantly and I finally left. My adult children and I were better for it. Don't ever forget that we have a Heavenly Father that loves us no matter what.
Toxic Christianity. There is no reason for cheating. Period.
People can have a million reasons why they have cheated, the bottom line it is an act of selfishness. Period!! It’s about “me”.
If a spouse isn’t meeting a need or needs… specific communication is required and possibly counseling when needed. To cheat is an absolute selfish choice. Marriage goes through trials, and tribulations, downtimes, etc. none of those reasons are an excuse to cheat. It isn’t even comparable for a spouse that cheats and a spouse that isn’t fulfilling your needs anymore because of everyday life. Most couples aren’t communicating and unfortunately reading between the lines or trying to read minds won’t cut it. Be direct and communicate so there isn’t any misunderstanding.
All I hear are excuses we make for those who cheat. There is NEVER an excuse good enough to excuse or stand as reason for one to cheat. Never. One makes that choice. People start blaming themselves for people who can't stand the heat. If it's too hot, get out of the kitchen!! Be woman enough or man enough to leave the other person. Than putting them through the pain. Cowards!
Who cares if you stopped watching DAYSTAR. Millions and Millions of people just can't wait to watch the next episode.
Isolation is a huge sign of danger. He made his man cave outside of the house. His shop, and a camper we had in our backyard.
My ex did that a few times and then abandoned me even though I suggested Christian counseling.
@@barbie3139 thank you, God is taking care of me. I am better off because he is living in sin.
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Love Joni Table Talk. You have the most interesting guests on everything from cutting edge medical issues to Bible scholars are important issues. God bless you and all the ladies at the table
Most of the time!! The people are not a real Christians.
I do not believe this cheating thing, my ex traveled 9 month out of one year but I have never though to cheating even and he is the one cheated. It is each one commitment issues.
Cheaters open up the door to cheat.
You still CHOOSE to cheat......so the spouse who is withdrawn, is at fault for their spouse cheating???? HUH?? I've been married 24yrs....life happens, we go thru ups and downs, sometimes, out of our control, things happen, whether it's health, work, stress....I won't put myself in a position to cheat, either does my hubby....its a choice we make! Life is hard, marriage is hard, but in sickness and in health, till death do us part!
@joycemullane5337 thank you...years ago, my hubby's youth pastor, married us, and we went thru premarital counseling beforehand with the pastor and his wife.. one thing that never left me, was when he stated to us, never put yourself in a compromising situation with the opposite sex(never alone, ect) that has stuck with us... it's not hard....you never solve marital issues, outside of the marriage!! It's pretty simple....this doug guy, gives me the creeps
@@jesusis1459I also have an unsettling feeling when Doug is present over the years when he was a guest on Marcus and Joni, Joni Table Talk and Ministry Now.
My personal thought, he has a narcissistic personality and is obsessed with sex, exercise, money and himself.
Joni is blinded to the numerous red flags in this relationship and has chosen attention, charm and lust over God's Word and family.
Doug will eventually exhaust her emotionally and physically.
@@joycemullane5337 I honestly, don't watch daystar, however, my mom has for years...I occasionally would listen with her on table talk, and Marcus and joni.... recently, table talk, ect, has been popping up on my feed on utube, so when I saw her with Doug, I tuned in, and instantly, creep vibe....talking to my aunt, she knew much more about him and his history. I had no idea, except, the discernment, is real....what she said, was exactly what I was getting....with that said, I have never been interested in the mega/pastor/church shows...most have never sat well with me....ill stick to my smaller pastors I have found on utube, who aren't afraid to say the truth, speak on sin, and could care less about the following they have. They are on here, just to spread the gospel and get the truth out about these last days.... my favorite is JD Farag from Kaneohe, Hawaii😊
@@joycemullane5337 my comment, just got removed.....I will just stick to my small time pastors on here.....my favorite, is JD Farag, from Kaneohe, Hawaii...he focuses on God's word, book by book, verse by verse, and God is using him in a big way in these last days😊.....Jesus is coming soon, thankfully
Thank you for sharing ❤️ ♥️ ❤❤
Great show love the messages shared
This was really good
Also even when I had loving issues toward my ex due yo he was married to his mom, I have prayed to God many years to restore my love towards my ex and Lord did restore my heart.
No excuses!
Interesting topic!!!
Spirit of lust and soul ties
Joni, I don't understand why you don't share your story of your 1st husband's infidelity? Your story is important to hear also. Why are you not telling us your story and how you felt on your show?
Personal responsibility people! Reverence of Almighty God. No one can ever meet all our needs, ever! To place this burden on someone else & then cheat because they can't live up to every expectation is horrible. Doug unfortunately gives very narcissistic excuses. Something is very off with him. Christ is the only One who can satisfy us in every area of life.
I love you Joni! U are my girl!❤
Why aren’t Doug & Joni sharing “their” personal experiences?
It would have been helpful to hear me from your guest.
Yes I agree. It seemed like her husband was the one being interviewed.
Dont find excuses for cheeters. Its not anyones fault but their own, its their choice, nobody else.
What is Doug doing on the show He can't talk what about is marriage with his wife Lisa so he can't give advice
Dorthy my first marriage was like yours
Interesting good to talk about it your very careful the next time but l think the wife should be present to share the full story
This situation is drastically different when someone's married to a narcissist 😢
Joni will soon be discovering it for herself.
Doug has a narcissistic personality and is obsessed with sex, exercise, money and himself.
He will eventually exhaust Joni emotionally and physically.
New music please❣️😊❤️
Blah blah blah
Joni… please. What do you call what you did with a man in covenant , “Dr Doug” married to his wife Lisa of over 3o years. Lisa Weiss needs to have her say. They still work together at their Heart to Heart ministry… in Colorado. A marriage counseling service. Make it make sense.
It won't make sense to her for awhile. She was swept off her feet by this "charmer".
Also, she surrounds herself with "yes " people. No one at that table dares to have a differing opinion, or they wouldn't be there. They nod and smile....
Joni shouls know!
Are you going to talk about soul ties and spirits of lust
Only God sees the real polygram
Dr Wiess couldn't restore his marriage?
No making him a hypocrite. He supposedly saved others but not his own.
But do we know the situation there. Hopefully one day if led he will share that @@noracortez8019
Aww instead of manatees! It's the opposite! Lol. Doug seems to be a great fit for the ladies at the table today.
I know this will be an informative show today.
Joni l really really Love and appreciate you and your darling husband.God bless you two. Amen and Amen.
It really is interesting how Joni always calls out everyone elses past but never discusses her own. I stopped watching & supporting Daystar after Doug came into the picture & just seeing the pride & arrogance. Its just become disgusting to me. What happens to the brain? Why don't you discuss what Scriptures say?? My goodness, psychology can't save or fix. That's just a band aid. Christians glorify psychology & don't put Scripture & Christ first.
Children...read God's word,then do what God says, not man.
Ugh 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Yu really could have scrolled pass, yu know? But then it wouldn’t feel right seeing there’s Doug and there’s Joni. Yur two favourite pple in d whole world 😂😂😂😂😂
Jesus won't allow unrepentant adulterers in heaven and the new testament doesn't allow women to divorce
Women are allowed to divorce an unfaithful spouse who is unrepentant and will not change his ways.
Five years back, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was hard, but we made it through...... Most times, patience and the desire to make it work, is all we need.
I'm in a relationship that really is struggling and even though we're apart, I can't think of life without her; my love for her is solid. I really want her back, and I'm committed to making it work. We've tried different things, like therapy, to mend things.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll immediately search for her online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring about positive changes for me; I miss her deeply.
You should... I promise you will not regret it