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  • The Buy Nothing, Get Everything Plan has helped me immensely with my hoarding recovery!! It has helped me give away my hoarded items for free, reduce waste, and save me money! I also share some struggles that I had with it but I am a recovering hoarder who still has triggers!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 75

  • @user-jd9qw3om6o
    @user-jd9qw3om6o 6 днів тому +56

    My boys school always excepted clothing, naps sacks etc.. to give out to kids that didn't have much The one rule I had with my boys that if they saw anyone wearing what we donated to never never approach them and say I donated this. One day my son came home and said mommy today I saw someone wearing what we donated and he felt proud knowing that he helped someone that was in need.

    • @annbeth6730
      @annbeth6730 6 днів тому +4

      Beautiful child

    • @fabienneroure9995
      @fabienneroure9995 6 днів тому +1

      Awwwww ❤ that's very sweet.❤

    • @ahoardersheart
      @ahoardersheart  4 дні тому +2

      I absolutely LOVE your story!!! Great job mama raising such an amazing kid ❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️

  • @thelove2beloved
    @thelove2beloved 6 днів тому +24

    I recommend moving the cube unit to the basement or to one of the boy's rooms. The living room will look less cluttered and more organized and calm.

    • @ahoardersheart
      @ahoardersheart  4 дні тому +3

      Thank you for sharing with me!! I am planning on rearranging, reorganizing and updating the living room this year!!

  • @sandywlaschin3878
    @sandywlaschin3878 6 днів тому +20

    We set items on our curb with a free sign and usually they are gone within an hour.

  • @sundevilish
    @sundevilish 6 днів тому +21

    I love my local buy nothing group!! I have ended up with more friends from there than I could ever have imagined. We have had potlucks, ice cream socials, etc.

    • @ahoardersheart
      @ahoardersheart  4 дні тому +1

      Yesssss!!! What a wonderful story and I love how you made new friends as well!! Love love love 🦄💜🌟🙏🏼

  • @wendymartin4251
    @wendymartin4251 6 днів тому +17

    This week I donated some metal items for scrap metal towards helping someone afford to fix his A/C in his truck. We were going to bring it ourselves, but instead, I was happy to pay it forward.

    • @ahoardersheart
      @ahoardersheart  4 дні тому

      I absolutely love that!!! What a blessing to that family, you’re amazing 🦄💜🌟🙏🏼

  • @angelamelcher6497
    @angelamelcher6497 6 днів тому +5

    I worked up to getting rid of stuff. Started out selling things online, then I started giving it away on buy nothing groups, now I am able to load up car and take a bunch to goodwill easier than it use to be.

  • @chaitrasuhas5973
    @chaitrasuhas5973 6 днів тому +19

    I recommend making a caddy for all the art supplies and moving the games to the photo corner or into the boys' bedroom. they can bring what they want to play with and put it away.That way you can eliminate the whole cubby in the living room and upkeep is easier

    • @ahoardersheart
      @ahoardersheart  4 дні тому +1

      We are definitely going to reorganize and rearrange the living room this year!! Thank you for sharing this me!!

  • @tammys5687
    @tammys5687 6 днів тому +13

    Unfortunately, my buy nothing group isn’t that great. I tried to give things and it was just one person after another falling through on the items. It is much easier for me to donate to a local thrift store that gives back to the community than to mess around with messaging multiple people per item.

    • @corilarge9267
      @corilarge9267 6 днів тому +1

      Same. My local chapter of Meals on Wheels is my go-to donation spot (and thrifting spot).

  • @bronwynbrin
    @bronwynbrin 5 днів тому +2

    I'm part of my local buy nothing group & I've been able to gift a lot of things my kids have outgrown on it

  • @allalala9916
    @allalala9916 6 днів тому +4

    I've been doing the buy nothing thing for a couple years but I don't get free stuff either. I only buy the necessities, clothes for kids when they grow up a size, shoes when they get torn, items to replace broken or worn out items, school supplies when we run out. We really don't need anything else. Kids get one Christmas present and one birthday present and I try to get the smallest toy possible because they rarely ever play with bulky toys. No seasonal items except one box for Christmas decor. I still wear clothes I wore 10-20 years ago. It's classic pieces, nothing trendy.

  • @Atira_
    @Atira_ 6 днів тому +8

    Important topic! We over consume waaay too much and one way of changing that is to buy second hand first and give away the things you don’t need to somebody else. 😊 Plus it’s better for the environment! 💚♻️ Love your videos!

    • @ahoardersheart
      @ahoardersheart  4 дні тому +1

      Yes my friend!!!! You are absolutely right🦄💜🌟🙏🏼🌎♻️

  • @alanbirkner1958
    @alanbirkner1958 6 днів тому +5

    I've been cleaning beaches for years. I pick up trash--especially plastic-- most places I go. Here, near Chicago, there are beautiful forests, rivers, and Lake Michigan. I buy maybe 3 brand new items in a year. This year, I will buy a pair of shoes because I only own 2 pairs. Tina, Al's wife

    • @ahoardersheart
      @ahoardersheart  4 дні тому +1

      You seriously are the BEST, you know that?!!! You are my inspiration my friend 🦄💜🌟🙏🏼

  • @Peanut11111
    @Peanut11111 6 днів тому +9

    I doing a no spent month again.Love it.I got way to much and doing away with a ton of it.

    • @ahoardersheart
      @ahoardersheart  4 дні тому +1

      Yesssss! I am cheering you on my friend!!! You got this!!

  • @lizbratcher2919
    @lizbratcher2919 6 днів тому +8

    Yes I have to be careful about just constantly scrolling through my buy nothing group. I only get on to gift things or if I’m looking for something specific. It can be a way to just continue to bring stuff into my house that we don’t really need. You’re so right that the shoppers high is a real thing and does occur even on buy nothing.

    • @ahoardersheart
      @ahoardersheart  4 дні тому +2

      Yessss, it’s definitely a real emotion and I’m so happy you’re so aware of that too!! You are doing amazing my friend 🦄💜🌟🙏🏼

  • @allisonsings
    @allisonsings 5 днів тому +2

    As I understand it, Buy Nothing, began on Bainbridge Island, WA (where I used to live). That small island had multiple Buy Nothing groups by region of the island because all the groups were so active. Through Buy Nothing we were blessed to receive a kid's bed, toddler bed, couch, veggies, and countless other things. It was amazing. Especially when we moved, I loved being able to return the favor.

    • @ahoardersheart
      @ahoardersheart  4 дні тому +1

      Yessss!!! Thank you for sharing your story, I absolutely loved reading it 🦄💜🌟🙏🏼

  • @dlcarbonneau3750
    @dlcarbonneau3750 4 дні тому +1

    Thank you, this is common sense. It just hurts my feelings when I see people throwing good items into the trash, like Cass and Minimal Mom do sometimes.

  • @ChristianAnneSmith
    @ChristianAnneSmith 5 днів тому +2

    Being part of our local buy nothing group has been life-changing for me. It has allowed me to declutter so many items that I might’ve felt like I couldn’t before. I do not have hoarding disorder, but I am quite sentimental. I’ve done so much as to explain this when I post an item of my child’s and often I will get a private message afterwards from the Mom showing it being used by the next child. It makes me so happy!
    Joined before the pandemic and during it, it was an essential way for some people to get food or items they needed because we do requests.
    Instant someone might post we’re having a hard time and not sure what I’m gonna feed my kids tonight . Then offer things or ask to private message them. I have four chickens and it’s been so great to drop off a dozen eggs when people needed them.
    It goes beyond just letting go of items I have consciously you no longer need. When another person post to request often I realize I do have a duplicate of that or that I can let it go and offer it.
    It’s a beautiful way to get to know some of my neighbors and a very slow and somewhat distant that isn’t overwhelming . It really makes my neighborhood feel more like a village than it used to.

  • @bonesareheavy
    @bonesareheavy 6 днів тому +6

    Melanie, I LOVE that dress! Those are my colors! Thanks for explaining your "Townsgiving" in more depth. I have that book on my list to check out from the library at some point this summer. Right now I am reading a book about how companies and advertisers use propaganda to overstimulate and profit from consumers...kinda goes hand in hand with the Buy Nothing.

  • @ros8986
    @ros8986 6 днів тому +8

    Ms HH - maybe remember that there are people who need the stuff more than your family (it helps me to keep from acquiring things).

    • @ahoardersheart
      @ahoardersheart  4 дні тому

      Yesss! That’s exactly what I do! That’s what gives me the closure from hoarding the items.

  • @sarahreid-warren6266
    @sarahreid-warren6266 6 днів тому +5

    Look how far you have come on your journey ! We are all so proud of you x x

  • @MsArtistwannabe
    @MsArtistwannabe 6 днів тому +6

    Our local buy nothing group is pretty active. I’ve re homed so many items.

    • @ahoardersheart
      @ahoardersheart  4 дні тому +2

      That’s amazing!!!! You have blessed so many families 🦄💜🌟🙏🏼♻️🌎

  • @charishurt1768
    @charishurt1768 6 днів тому +8

    Fantastic clean up congratulations beautiful lady 💜🦄

  • @siameseire
    @siameseire 2 дні тому

    Such a helpful talk through the process of letting go (and the stress of second-guessing and waiting for the closure). I am so grateful for you. 💛

  • @kbal1451
    @kbal1451 6 днів тому +4

    I’m in Australia, in my city there’s a buy nothing group for each suburb. I’ve picked up some beautiful items and given away items that I don’t use. My local supermarket, added an item to my delivery that I didn’t want and it’s not cost affective to return it, posted on my buy nothing facebook page and someone picked it up a couple of hours later. It’s so easy.

    • @ahoardersheart
      @ahoardersheart  4 дні тому +1

      Yesss!! I love reading your story!! So happy it’s been a blessing to you and your family!

  • @katia.luna213
    @katia.luna213 4 дні тому

    💜💜 1. I see no harm in upgrading what you have, item-wise. For example, if I got rid of all or most of a collection of items (be it winter things or holiday decor or even hair accessories), getting a handful of items that are BETTER quality is a step up from having lots of items you either don't care about as much anymore or just need to replace.
    2. The dreaded mail!!!! Have a baggy for trash if you aren't close to a bin. I chuck pretty much everything that comes in the mail. If something is important, I can pull up the website on the spot or write a reminder in my notepad.
    😺 Bonus: If you get interrupted too much, start setting boundaries. Mom had three of us. Kids can have quiet time when they get home so Mommy can do Mommy Things. Don't feel guilty. You pay the bills!

  • @themightymeowmeows7349
    @themightymeowmeows7349 5 днів тому +1

    We also have free groups in Scranton pennsylvania. I run a kids clothing ministry through my church. I get donations from other people who don't want to post it themselves and I group them together and give them to people who need them. Biggest problem I have is hackers who sometimes will take it and bring it up to the consignment store for cash. It's a wonderful idea especially in this day and age to give away items you don't need

  • @josephdaly2015
    @josephdaly2015 6 днів тому +5

    Wonderful insight as always. Thank you so much. Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇‍♀️👏💪👍🙏💐🐈

    • @ahoardersheart
      @ahoardersheart  4 дні тому +1

      Thank you and Have a wonderful week my dearest friend 🦄💜🌟🙏🏼

  • @mollyklumb
    @mollyklumb 5 днів тому +1

    Thank you for highlighting this subject! You’re a great inspiration for many.
    Mail clutter I learned you can unsubscribe from using an email address/phone number on the back of almost any mailer. Video idea maybe too :)
    Thanks for being there for us!

  • @myrnahouston5773
    @myrnahouston5773 6 днів тому +5

    A wonderful message! Thank you again for sharing your journey!

  • @Lili-ls7um
    @Lili-ls7um 5 днів тому +1

    I didn’t know the second part even though I’ve been with them for years 😅
    We have loved being part of our local. Made so many friends, too.
    And my things now suits me better while the ones that are unloved here gets to be very loved elsewhere.
    Between buynothing, verge/hard rubbish collection and church community we buy very few non-consumables. And actually regularly get consumables there, too (food esp)

  • @isabellerininger6249
    @isabellerininger6249 6 днів тому +1

    Pepper is sooo relaxed! She’s adorable.❤

  • @trishb6895
    @trishb6895 6 днів тому +3

    Even though you are a recovering hoarder you are allowed to have “new” to you things but in your case it’s a good rule of thumb to do the one in one out method. Just because you have things to still let go of doesn’t mean you are never allowed to change things up.

    • @ahoardersheart
      @ahoardersheart  4 дні тому +1

      You are absolutely right my friend 🙏🏼❤️ That’s why I’ll only post an “in search of” for something I really need! We can absolutely enjoy new things but for myself, it’s a matter of self control and recognizing my current limits when acquiring new things ❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

  • @sarasmith5506
    @sarasmith5506 6 днів тому +1

    I love our buy nothing group! Thanks for talking about it and sharing

  • @Stefunny82
    @Stefunny82 6 днів тому +5

    Is Pepper Mommy’s baby girl? It seems no matter where you are in the house she is right there with you! ❤

    • @ahoardersheart
      @ahoardersheart  4 дні тому +1

      Ohhhh yessssss 😻❤️ She’s definitely my soul kitty!!! Such a good little girl, she rescued me honestly 🌟🌟🌟

  • @vanessawhitneypro
    @vanessawhitneypro 6 днів тому +7

    I’m a nanny… My boss LOVES “buy nothing”… She’s hardly spent any money on toys for her kiddos…

    • @ahoardersheart
      @ahoardersheart  4 дні тому

      That’s amazing!!! All those toys are being loved again and staying out of a landfill!!

    • @vanessawhitneypro
      @vanessawhitneypro 4 дні тому

      @@ahoardersheart Yes, indeed! Let's keep working on making our own homes better, and saving someone money by sharing our gently loved toys/clothes/dishes/furniture etc, with others! Peace & Love to ALL!

  • @katia.luna213
    @katia.luna213 6 днів тому +3

    🤔 I will try the local ones. Tried my current city's not too long ago, and it felt scammy. I like my area, though. Maybe it was just a crappy week for me!

  • @nnylasoR
    @nnylasoR 4 дні тому

    Yep …. I once was an Admin of a local FB buy/sell group…. **was.**
    It was baaad, because I was one of the few getting to see the post before it was even approved and put out there.
    Again…. **was.** I did not have the self control that I have now and my gathering simply got … out of control.
    *Yes, it was unfair that I, as an Admin, jumped on so many items before others had a chance, but at least the person was still getting their asking price from me.🙃

  • @katrinamuritala3207
    @katrinamuritala3207 6 днів тому +4

    I need to do this

  • @beknight9399
    @beknight9399 5 днів тому

    It triggers me that the picture over your dinner table is not in the middle 😂🙈
    Thank you for sharing your experiences, it always motivates me to clean something, too (today in the garden).
    I would recommend to store the things (games, stationary etc.) in the ikea (?) shelf elsewhere. Your boys can bring down from their rooms, what they need and afterwards put it back.
    Eventually you can use the space for wardrobe or something? I remember you have no hallway... I think that's very hard, because everything gets immediately in the living room 😬

  • @croccatcher
    @croccatcher 6 днів тому +3

    What an awesome idea

  • @Outbackhobbyhorsing
    @Outbackhobbyhorsing 6 днів тому +2

    Great suggestions. Thank you!

  • @ritavasnanigurbani6063
    @ritavasnanigurbani6063 6 днів тому +3

    Loved this video🎉🎉

  • @judenebaer9997
    @judenebaer9997 5 днів тому

    Very wise for helping others❤❤

  • @hannahkennedy2259
    @hannahkennedy2259 6 днів тому +3

    Cute dress😊

  • @tngirlz4622
    @tngirlz4622 6 днів тому

    Fantastic idea!👏👏👏🦄

  • @francinehogsett3065
    @francinehogsett3065 6 днів тому

    Great advice…..beautiful dress you wear it well 😊❤️

  • @happyluv
    @happyluv 5 днів тому

    Hi Miss Hart! I've been following you for a long time. I'm definitely on the spectrum of a level 1 or 2 hoarder so I completely understand what its like. I find your channel personally very motivating and healing. The basement is truly amazing and reflects all of the hard work you have done on healing past trauma.
    Where do you keep birthday cards and special event invitations etc?
    Also I would be interested in your meal planning strategy and recipes from a busy mom.
    I'm 67 years old, but a full time caregiver to my husband as well as my grandson so any tips on easy meals would be appreciated!

  • @sandradisclafani6725
    @sandradisclafani6725 6 днів тому

    ❤️👍

  • @suzannerockall4030
    @suzannerockall4030 6 днів тому +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @michellerobillard4067
    @michellerobillard4067 6 днів тому +6

    Hi girl I have a question for you. Your night stand is looking good grate job but why is hubbys side so messy and unorganized? I would think his side would be cleaner than that .

    • @katia.luna213
      @katia.luna213 6 днів тому +8

      Hubby has always seemed like he's got hoarding tendencies

    • @ewaem8519
      @ewaem8519 6 днів тому +7

      Yeah, the House isn't only "her" problem, they all have the tendencies 🐶