✨The plan b part is not for everyone some men veiwed there wife as the spare. Men can sometimes take for granted that their wife is an "easy lay/target" so to say... because she is not supposed to deny her body from her husband. Because they are one flesh, one of her wifey duties are to make sure her husband sees delight in her. This is often taken for granted until that man is brought to a place of understanding as a man of God. And thats why it is important not to engage in sex before marriage even with your husband so thst he is not confused (men can be a literal at times) even if you see deeper and have a deeper revelation it is important to allow your husband time to catch up. ✨
I feel very conflicted about this because just knowing that he thought I was an easy lay and a plan B and treated me as such when I gave him no reason to think that way and now the only reason he wants to come back although hesitant is because he got hurt by his first choice?...no Thank you I respectfully decline...the thought that I was just a stand by...a easy lay a plan B will never be forgotten...the ducks might be all in a row but the memory is a tricky thing and especially if there was a lot of hurt in the past with this person...there's always forgiveness but forgetting is another story...thank you Jesus for free will and being at peace with my decision.✝️🏃♀️🏃♀️❤️🩹🕊🌟🦆
@@theresakemp8032 first take this message back to the Father and make sure it's for you. And if it is. Ask the Father to help you to navigate your feelings. Remember we have done things our way all our lives going off of our feelings and emotions and where has it gotten us❓ although you may not like the information you receive we have to be thankful for the insight given to us even though we will Never know it all. And at some point you have to realize your husband wasn't your first choice you were with a counterfeit. So we have to remember to show the same mercy grace and forgiveness that God showed us when the truth is revealed. Before we join together in marriage we must first understand what that commitment to each other means Don't allow your emotions to control your future. Check your emotions with God and make sure they are valid before you give your husband away for making a made mistake or judgement call. 📖🕯️🕊️You would want the same from him if it were vice versa.
@AkilahFranklin Yes my sister you're absolutely right about forgiveness...you can forgive but that doesn't mean that you give the person a green light to come back in with those possible same toxic behaviors...and everyone's healing through trauma looks different...the good Lord has given us all free will...I know who I am and who God says I am and I'm nobody's plan B or easy lay or spare tire so with that said even though I have forgiven him I have the right to move on with my life free and clear even if he's sorry, even if he regrets what he did and wish he could take it all back...some women might be able to forget that they were the second choice or even no choice at all... but I'm not one of those women...I'm not holding any grudges because I've released him to the Lord but I choose peace and for me that means life without him and I'm grateful for that.🙏
@@MostCherishedDaughters3084You know Sis iron sharpens iron...and I have to give credit where credit is due...you're absolutely correct...I most definitely was speaking out of my emotions...as women we know how some females can act when it comes to a man and especially if she's his top choice...for the last few days your videos have been about that how Haagar and Sarah didn't get along but Sarah being the wife Haagar had to submit...women can be very nasty and spiteful and I've been through a number of torture chambers....I'm still learning to channel my emotions where they need to be and it's not easy when you haven't been taught these things and when people think because you're a child of God they can disrespect you and then sit back and wait to see how you handle your emotions as a child of God...anyway I'm going to need prayer and fasting in that area of my life...when you've gone so long not knowing who you were and not loving yourself or feeling worthy and then the Lord comes in and picks you up and heals you and makes you whole again its a blow to your self esteem and it hurts a person's feelings to know that you're someone's 2nd choice or you're just a easy lay especially as a woman because if I'm being honest when it's a woman that's frowned at to looked in that way especially when you don't carry yourself like that...I agree with what you said about giving grace and mercy...I have a lot to talk to the Lord about. ❤
*im not bothered by the fact that my significant other (his name is Kevin) has and has had other significant relationships in his life, I’m bothered by the way he weaponized her and used her against me in attempt to thwart me off him (he’s hell bent and determined to reject me). But I’m confident in who I understand him and me to be; he is the Adam to my Eve and I am the Eve to his Adam. No other woman can or will ever replace me. He can reject me, hurt me, he has done these things. I endure. I believe in him. I put up with all the crap and the abuse for a long time. I’m committed. Nothing he has ever said or done has ever thwarted me. I’ve never lost love for him, never lost hope. He is my forever. He’s my connection to God and I’m his connection to God. I am a woman who needs there to be a man between me and God. And that man is supposed to be my husband but it can go beyond that. My significant other, Kevin, has lived his life in rebellion, agnosticism, enmity (he hates Mary and Israel). He’s very Santa Claus instead of Jesus. But he and I both know the dark side, the sacrilegious, rebellion and sin and evil. It’s part of us, our soul. Well anyway, I know my Kevin is my Adam. He’s been more aligned with the impenitent thief instead of the penitent thief. We’ll see how it goes. I love my person, and I’m always going to. No matter what happens. I’ll never leave him. I won’t abandon him.*
Time stamp 3009 in Strongs Hebrew is the word ‘yagab’ is used to express deep affection or desire. 553 views in Hebrew is to be strong and courageous 😊 in Greek is to eagerly await, to expect fully. Rom. 8:25, But if we hope for what we do not see, with perseverance we wait eagerly for it. 💘.
I just said that phrase today in reference to something my sister’s mother-in-law said a long time ago 😅 By the way, didn’t you put out a word a while back about being a sitting duck 🦆, with a thumbnail of a duck with a target on it?
God just gave the song Avant Sorry, ik we're all in our feelings about being plan B ,God will also have to deal with my heart, because I'm hurt,and angry,but we still have to be obedient to what the Lord wants.😢
This sounds very much like my situation, but at this point, too much has happened, and I don't EVER want someone who has ever considered me to be a backup or second choice. Whatever love that might have been there is gone.
My kid's call me delusional for believing God , because of what it looks like and I don't know why he would think ,I was a easy lay, because I'm celibate,this word got me in my feelings, frfr I know it's for me, I'm sure he took my kindess for weakness and considered me a lick,but then again , I think he felt guilty for trying to use me because he tried to give me a couple grand to make up for it.smh
Oh goodness not Abraham again 😢😂…. This word is spot on, it’s a hard truth but it’s the truth nevertheless. We have to see it how it is. We were the ram in the bush. These spouses were going to sacrifice our marriages. But God showed us how valuable we truly are!
@@gracefullyrachel6573 lol not Abraham ‼️🤣💪you tuned in sis lol absolutely our Father will always have our backs If show me your plan and I'll show you mine was a person 📖🕯️🕊️😎🌹✨💞
He just don’t want me he thinks I’m weak not enough for him not up to part enough for him DONT look the way he want me too and don’t have the things he wants me to have I’m very honest with myself , he can keep his image with the other girl , I don’t even care anymore honestly I’m blessed with or without him honestly if he feeling like it’s too much for him or like I’m a burden with too much and too less 🤷🏽♀️
Don’t matter I feel like he still trying to just have his way if he can keep in touch with me from a distance he wouldn’t feel the need to leave the other girl he will have his cake and eat it too , he said forget me he just want to be there for his kid and have the home and family with her 🤷🏽♀️ I’m no fool he feels like he benefits more over there triggering insecurities in me … what’s sad is the reality is everybody are dealt different cards not to make excuses or justifications just facts I’ve been through a lot that was out of my control too literally
As the chosen one coming second though even if things didn’t fall through with the first one wouldn’t I still be considered the second choice and if he could’ve had his way he sure would have .
@@AbbaAndMommyVlogs first ask the Father if this message for you and if it is ask The Father to help navigate your feelings. Remember we don't know everything. We are lucky to receive insight. We have to be blessed for the things we do know. And lean not on our own understanding. We have all made mistakes. Don't allow your feelings to control your future. We have to get in front of our emotions and learn to submit to God and our husbands before joining marriage physically. 📖🕯️🕊️Seek ye first the kingdom of heaven and the rest will be added to you. For some of us they weren't our first choice #truth🎙️
I know I’m Gods eyes I’m first no matter what but to humans it’s different gotta show up in his light though right not of this world strangers of it tryna think like God and not my freshly self .
✨The plan b part is not for everyone some men veiwed there wife as the spare. Men can sometimes take for granted that their wife is an "easy lay/target" so to say... because she is not supposed to deny her body from her husband. Because they are one flesh, one of her wifey duties are to make sure her husband sees delight in her.
This is often taken for granted until that man is brought to a place of understanding as a man of God.
And thats why it is important not to engage in sex before marriage even with your husband so thst he is not confused (men can be a literal at times) even if you see deeper and have a deeper revelation it is important to allow your husband time to catch up. ✨
I feel very conflicted about this because just knowing that he thought I was an easy lay and a plan B and treated me as such when I gave him no reason to think that way and now the only reason he wants to come back although hesitant is because he got hurt by his first choice?...no Thank you I respectfully decline...the thought that I was just a stand by...a easy lay a plan B will never be forgotten...the ducks might be all in a row but the memory is a tricky thing and especially if there was a lot of hurt in the past with this person...there's always forgiveness but forgetting is another story...thank you Jesus for free will and being at peace with my decision.✝️🏃♀️🏃♀️❤️🩹🕊🌟🦆
@@theresakemp8032 first take this message back to the Father and make sure it's for you. And if it is. Ask the Father to help you to navigate your feelings. Remember we have done things our way all our lives going off of our feelings and emotions and where has it gotten us❓ although you may not like the information you receive we have to be thankful for the insight given to us even though we will Never know it all. And at some point you have to realize your husband wasn't your first choice you were with a counterfeit. So we have to remember to show the same mercy grace and forgiveness that God showed us when the truth is revealed. Before we join together in marriage we must first understand what that commitment to each other means
Don't allow your emotions to control your future. Check your emotions with God and make sure they are valid before you give your husband away for making a made mistake or judgement call. 📖🕯️🕊️You would want the same from him if it were vice versa.
True forgiveness is a gift from the Holy Spirit. Pray and listen to the word of God and what He tells you.
@AkilahFranklin Yes my sister you're absolutely right about forgiveness...you can forgive but that doesn't mean that you give the person a green light to come back in with those possible same toxic behaviors...and everyone's healing through trauma looks different...the good Lord has given us all free will...I know who I am and who God says I am and I'm nobody's plan B or easy lay or spare tire so with that said even though I have forgiven him I have the right to move on with my life free and clear even if he's sorry, even if he regrets what he did and wish he could take it all back...some women might be able to forget that they were the second choice or even no choice at all... but I'm not one of those women...I'm not holding any grudges because I've released him to the Lord but I choose peace and for me that means life without him and I'm grateful for that.🙏
@@MostCherishedDaughters3084You know Sis iron sharpens iron...and I have to give credit where credit is due...you're absolutely correct...I most definitely was speaking out of my emotions...as women we know how some females can act when it comes to a man and especially if she's his top choice...for the last few days your videos have been about that how Haagar and Sarah didn't get along but Sarah being the wife Haagar had to submit...women can be very nasty and spiteful and I've been through a number of torture chambers....I'm still learning to channel my emotions where they need to be and it's not easy when you haven't been taught these things and when people think because you're a child of God they can disrespect you and then sit back and wait to see how you handle your emotions as a child of God...anyway I'm going to need prayer and fasting in that area of my life...when you've gone so long not knowing who you were and not loving yourself or feeling worthy and then the Lord comes in and picks you up and heals you and makes you whole again its a blow to your self esteem and it hurts a person's feelings to know that you're someone's 2nd choice or you're just a easy lay especially as a woman because if I'm being honest when it's a woman that's frowned at to looked in that way especially when you don't carry yourself like that...I agree with what you said about giving grace and mercy...I have a lot to talk to the Lord about. ❤
*im not bothered by the fact that my significant other (his name is Kevin) has and has had other significant relationships in his life, I’m bothered by the way he weaponized her and used her against me in attempt to thwart me off him (he’s hell bent and determined to reject me). But I’m confident in who I understand him and me to be; he is the Adam to my Eve and I am the Eve to his Adam. No other woman can or will ever replace me. He can reject me, hurt me, he has done these things. I endure. I believe in him. I put up with all the crap and the abuse for a long time. I’m committed. Nothing he has ever said or done has ever thwarted me. I’ve never lost love for him, never lost hope. He is my forever. He’s my connection to God and I’m his connection to God. I am a woman who needs there to be a man between me and God. And that man is supposed to be my husband but it can go beyond that. My significant other, Kevin, has lived his life in rebellion, agnosticism, enmity (he hates Mary and Israel). He’s very Santa Claus instead of Jesus. But he and I both know the dark side, the sacrilegious, rebellion and sin and evil. It’s part of us, our soul. Well anyway, I know my Kevin is my Adam. He’s been more aligned with the impenitent thief instead of the penitent thief. We’ll see how it goes. I love my person, and I’m always going to. No matter what happens. I’ll never leave him. I won’t abandon him.*
We have to remember alot of these people are prodigals and God wants us to have the response like the Prodigals Father and not the Prodigals Brother.
On point on point on point...no other words to say... God's will be done...
Time stamp 3009 in Strongs Hebrew is the word ‘yagab’ is used to express deep affection or desire. 553 views in Hebrew is to be strong and courageous 😊 in Greek is to eagerly await, to expect fully. Rom. 8:25, But if we hope for what we do not see, with perseverance we wait eagerly for it. 💘.
@@debb2900 🕯️🕊️📖
This also makes me feel like they are getting their ducks in a row ✨
@@deannag3273 did you see the Pic? Ducks 🦆 are definitely in a row ‼️ All glory be to God 🕊️🕯️📖
@@MostCherishedDaughters3084 I sure did 😊 God is good 🤍
I just said that phrase today in reference to something my sister’s mother-in-law said a long time ago 😅 By the way, didn’t you put out a word a while back about being a sitting duck 🦆, with a thumbnail of a duck with a target on it?
Faith over fear
God just gave the song Avant Sorry, ik we're all in our feelings about being plan B ,God will also have to deal with my heart, because I'm hurt,and angry,but we still have to be obedient to what the Lord wants.😢
We both had to experience and go through things my faith counting on it but these insecurities
🤯🤯🤯🤯☀️AMAZING KEEP UP THE HARD WORK N FASTING IS TRULY KEY
❤ I am his first love. He never thought he could be that to anyone. ❤
😂😂😂😂
❤❤❤ You woman of God
Love you my darling God 😂🎉
Ónly you can make me laugh like this😅😂
Amen! ❤ Thanks Daughter of the Most High🎉🎉❤❤
Yes we been back and for always
Lol truth. Say it How it is. Amen
This sounds very much like my situation, but at this point, too much has happened, and I don't EVER want someone who has ever considered me to be a backup or second choice. Whatever love that might have been there is gone.
My kid's call me delusional for believing God , because of what it looks like and I don't know why he would think ,I was a easy lay, because I'm celibate,this word got me in my feelings, frfr I know it's for me, I'm sure he took my kindess for weakness and considered me a lick,but then again , I think he felt guilty for trying to use me because he tried to give me a couple grand to make up for it.smh
Oh goodness not Abraham again 😢😂….
This word is spot on, it’s a hard truth but it’s the truth nevertheless.
We have to see it how it is. We were the ram in the bush. These spouses were going to sacrifice our marriages. But God showed us how valuable we truly are!
@@gracefullyrachel6573 lol not Abraham ‼️🤣💪you tuned in sis lol absolutely our Father will always have our backs
If show me your plan and I'll show you mine was a person 📖🕯️🕊️😎🌹✨💞
He just don’t want me he thinks I’m weak not enough for him not up to part enough for him DONT look the way he want me too and don’t have the things he wants me to have I’m very honest with myself , he can keep his image with the other girl , I don’t even care anymore honestly I’m blessed with or without him honestly if he feeling like it’s too much for him or like I’m a burden with too much and too less 🤷🏽♀️
Don’t matter I feel like he still trying to just have his way if he can keep in touch with me from a distance he wouldn’t feel the need to leave the other girl he will have his cake and eat it too , he said forget me he just want to be there for his kid and have the home and family with her 🤷🏽♀️ I’m no fool he feels like he benefits more over there triggering insecurities in me … what’s sad is the reality is everybody are dealt different cards not to make excuses or justifications just facts I’ve been through a lot that was out of my control too literally
As the chosen one coming second though even if things didn’t fall through with the first one wouldn’t I still be considered the second choice and if he could’ve had his way he sure would have .
@@AbbaAndMommyVlogs first ask the Father if this message for you and if it is ask The Father to help navigate your feelings. Remember we don't know everything. We are lucky to receive insight. We have to be blessed for the things we do know. And lean not on our own understanding. We have all made mistakes. Don't allow your feelings to control your future. We have to get in front of our emotions and learn to submit to God and our husbands before joining marriage physically. 📖🕯️🕊️Seek ye first the kingdom of heaven and the rest will be added to you.
For some of us they weren't our first choice #truth🎙️
❤❤❤🙏✝️👑
3009: To love, desire/ husband man/ to till
The land is good where love prevails. Amen. Dont ever mock God, dangerous territory.
One thing for a fact I know God has done and allowed this according to detail and timing
I know I’m Gods eyes I’m first no matter what but to humans it’s different gotta show up in his light though right not of this world strangers of it tryna think like God and not my freshly self .
Yes 😛 he did he got married to other female