If you ever have a little girl, her handbag collection will be INSANE!!!!! All seriousness though, you would be a fabulous Mum - your Mum and Mama Rachel are proof of this ❤
I am not a maternal person either and I became a mum by accident and I like it. I am still not maternal and always felt bad about it but my child who is now 8 tells me often that I am the best and its just the best feeling to see her happy and that I am clearly good enough. You are a good person so If you decide to have children I am sure you will do great. Its a rewarding feeling to care for children
I got quite emotional when you spoke about feeling accomplished at the end of the day. It’s such a fantastic way of looking at things. I wish I’d been able to think about it like that at the time. I love the way you share your feelings and how you articulate them.❤
As a mum at the end of the day I feel exhausted 😩 but love it. Also how you decide... meet the right person. So important:) because it will make parenting easier having the right partner. X
My first baby was born in May. I don’t know if I would say I feel accomplished every day, but I feel SO fulfilled. I didn’t know if I wanted kids, but I would say of the top 100 happiest moments of my life, at least 50 of them have happened in the last 3 months. Here’s the thing about having a child- it’s really easy to imagine the downsides even not having a child. Like not sleeping, being puked on, not having free time. All of that is easily imaginable. But it’s truly impossible to imagine the love you will feel for your baby until you have that baby. I honestly had no clue that love like this was possible. I have amazing family, friends, and husband that I love dearly… but this is unmatched. And no matter how hard I try, I can’t explain it, the only way to really understand is to experience it. That’s the hard part of deciding to have kids… the downsides are easy to imagine but the upsides are impossible. Sometimes I think about if I had decided not to have children and it gives me the chills honestly… I can’t imagine not having this baby now that I have her.
You would be a lovely mum Amelia, funny and cool, you have gathered enough life experience, and as for accomplishments every evening, it will be the small things, if your kid is safe, healthy and happy, but you become a parent for life, not only until they turn 20, it goes on and on, different stages, different requirements 😁 Love your spirit🥰
I was never the person who couldn’t wait to have kids, or felt rushed and like my life was incomplete without them but now that I have two, a 5 year old and 3 year old I have to say, wow, I cannot imagine not having them and their sweet souls in my life. Literally the greatest accomplishment of my life
My baby stood watching you the whole time you were holding Gemma’s baby 🥰 You have no idea Amelia how accomplished, fulfilled and purposeful you feel when you’re a mother. I couldn’t recommend it more. Like imagine how much love your mum and mamma Rachel feels… not to mention how much more in love you fall with your husband when you see them as a dad 😍😍😍 So… we will all just sit patiently for you to have a beautiful baby with Jak. No pressure, just positive vibes from afar 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Literally watching this with my 5 week old next to me. Yes I feel accomplished and like I’ve done something very important in this day and also super selfless. The peace of a sleeping baby is next level ❤
I would say if you have a desire to have children don't let the fear of 'maybe I'm not maternal enough, or patient enough' etc stop you. That often comes after your baby is born, your brain rewires for motherhood 💕. And yes I do feel super accomplished and also like I've achieved nothing else that day 😅. My girls are the greatest joy of my life 💕
As someone who has decided not to have kids, I just thought about my life and my goals and ultimately decided on them not being for me. My partner agreed and that was that. It took awhile but I know it was right for me
Its amazing to hear you thinking in this track of a mother being accomplished and I hope you and others tell that to mother's as often as possible because I think a lot of mother's struggle with feeling accomplished because you spend all day and night feeding and cleaning and putting to sleep the babies, and the laundry dishes meals other kids work and husband sit unattended- and it's very easy to feel like you got 'nothing' done.
I am a mum of a 10 year old and had mine at 32. I debated whether or not I was maternal or not or even if I wanted one. But when I had my daughter I will be honest it took some time to get into my new role and new life. But as I went on I got into in and felt more confident with my new life. Now I love it and it's quite literally the best thing that ever happened to me. You might not know till you have one but I'm sure that if you do you'll be an amazing mum ❤
I am the mom of a 26 yr old boy/man...when he was little, I felt that if he had a fun, interesting, meaningful day, I had accomplished something. I would leave the house a disaster and head to the beach for the day....Do I remember the messy house now? No, but I do remember the beach days with all the moms and kids, Yes! They were epic! My son and his friends still talk about their childhoods...With wonderful memories of all the adventures we had....a bit of advice for moms with young kids...Don't stress about the things that don't really matter.... If you ever have to choose between making a memory (fun day out) or making dinner/cleaning ect ....Make the memory!!! I promise you will not regret your choice, xo
My son and his wife had their first baby a beautiful girl in April , my daughter didnt want children as she is a professional & 31yrs and with her brother having a baby it has completely turned her head she gets it now and cant wait to see her every weekend and have her own baby . My granddaughter has enriched our family for us all !!Good luck , whatever you decide xxx
I did not think I was maternal at all, but I now have a 4 month old and I love it so much. I wouldn't say you ever feel fully ready, but i think you just have to get the feeling of being more excited about it than not if that makes sense? And everything else will fall into place!
The day your baby comes into the world, you will feel like a superhero! There are hard times but the good always outweighs it and that is when you will truly learn what unconditional love means ❤
Honestly Amelia, you have beautiful examples in your Mother and Grandmother. And don't underestimate the help and time they will happily give you. Priceless ❤
I am a mum to a 15 month old beautiful baby boy. Being a mum is the most hardest but rewarding and amazing thing in the world! People lie how hard it is but its so worth it you feel so accomplished that you did something so amazing with your life shaping a little person’s world! I wasn’t maternal until my sister had her 3rd baby and the i got all the baby feels! Me and my hubby just went for it and was like if it happens it happens and we never regret it as he is just the most amazing special cheeky 15 month old boy that we made. I am constantly in awe that I am a mum and everyday is a blessing whether its hard or easy. Its the best thing you will ever do in your life ❤
I don’t feel accomplished going to bed. Usually I think of the things I didn’t get to. I want to have a more positive outlook on the day and things i got done. Thank you for the mom encouragement.
I think most moms go to bed feeling like they’re failures. It’s never ending so you don’t feel accomplished. Like ever. I raised my son by myself after a divorce. I worked 2 jobs and finished my degrees. I cried a lot. Thank God for my parents. It’s completely okay to not want kids. It’s completely okay to want kids. It’s completely okay to not know if you want children or not. I love my son and he’s almost 22 now. I never wanted children but I’m happy he’s mine. It’s brave to be open about things. Women bully women all the time. Have a great week!
I have three kids, I homeschool. It is 110% the most fulfilling thing. I did that. I had three kids. I’m helping them with their education. I did that. Nothing in this world compares.
As a mom of two (3 and almost 6), I have to say you probably feel exhausted at the end of the day. BUT, at the same time its the greatest feeling. I felt so lucky, when I gave birth to my children and I suddenly felt instant love to a new person. Its a strange feeling. Now they’re older and sometimes they fight and I get annoyed at them for not listening, but a minute late they sot together and cuddle. Or they will come running towards you when you pick them up at school. To me, its one of the greatest feelings of all.
I was on the fence the whole time. But I have always loved kids. Having the right partner is important. My son is the best kid in the world and I’m thankful for him everyday.
Kids are a life long commitment. But, it’s the best job I have ever done. Being a mom, never stops. Babies are a 24 hour , toddlers allow a little independence, teenagers are worry filled, adults are challenging with assistance of life-changing questions. It’s the “BEST” !
Such a fantastic feeling getting into bed at the end of the day knowing my son is happy and healthy and fast asleep in his bed. My son feels like home to me ❤
Being a mama is the biggest love ❤️ I’ve ever felt. You think you know what love is beforehand, you literally have no idea the prosperousness it brings until you’re a parent. The things I cared about prior to parenthood I could care less about now. Too look outside of ourselves is too see the world through the eyes of a child. It’s magical… At the end of the day as a parent I feel very accomplished. I never debated it, always knew I was going to be a mama one day and have felt the desire in my bones prior. Out of all of the dreams I’ve ever wanted in my life she is it and I’m grateful that she’s my mini me. 💖🌷
You'd be an awesome Mom, Amelia! The sense of wonder that you have for life would be great to pass along to a child/children. I always knew that I wanted kids, but my autoimmune issues have made me quite sick on a regular basis. Thankfully, I now have two stepdaughters (whom I met at ages 5 & 7, when I was 31) - they're wonderful and so excited/inquisitive about the world. I can't imagine how hard it would have been on my health to raise babies/toddlers as a full-time parent and I'm in awe of the people who do. In terms of a "sense of accomplishment" at the end of the day, parenting has made me more organized/detail oriented (which has helped in my career path too), but it's also come with a heightened sense of responsibility and therefore anxiety/overwhelm at times - so it's more like a "feeling that I've forgotten to do something important" at the end of the day haha. Despite stress and some difficult times balancing chronic pain & parenting with my job, I'm happier in life than ever before! There are so many different ways to approach parenting, and if you end up becoming one, your excitement for life and sunny approach will be a great asset! ☀️
You had THE dream. Resistance is futile, haha. There was nothing maternal about me until I had my daughter. That skill unlocks automatically when your baby is born. Becoming a mom has made me a more assertive person with phenomenal time management skills that I've been able to bring back to my career. You realize how strong you really are.
I was NEVER a baby/kid person, but I had the same quick/tiny feeling you had and I made the decision to start my family and I am so grateful that I was that brave cuz it was life changing. I love the babies I created and they literally continue to teach me so much and just brighten my world. Will I have 5 kids?? No, I’m happy with my two. ❤😊
Being a mom was the best choice I’ve ever made in my life. It’s serious, hard at times but sooo fun! And this comes from someone who didn’t really wanna get married or have kids..
I organized my skin care like you did but took it one step further-I wallpapered the inside of the medicine cabinet so the inside is super pretty too!!
For cream blush, Ellis Faas and Chantecaille's cheek gelee are great. For a cheek palette that does it all, Tom Ford shade and illuminate contour duo is my go-to.
I can relate to everything you’re saying. I didn’t want children, I didn’t have time for them. I was always the mean cousin. I thought newborn babies were ugly little things and never wanted to hold them. And then I “accidentally” fell pregnant at the age of 36 after being happily married to my uni sweetheart for years. I’m thankful to God He blessed me with my daughter (now 7). Since having her, I LOVE newborns. They smell so beautiful, their skin is so delicate silk soft, so precious 🥰 I don’t have the words but I love them! I still don’t think I’m maternal but Im glad I have a minnie-me. We go for girly dinners and afternoon teas. Go to the theatre a lot! Please don’t rule out children or at least 1! You won’t regret it! ❤
The white thing on the brow gel is definitely foundation. I use the patrick ta one and the same thing has happened. I now try to clean up the foundation off my brows with a q-tip before applying gel
It’s sad, but as a new mom (my baby is 3 months), no, I do not feel accomplished at the end of the day. I feel relieved that we all survived, and exhausted, and unfortunately like I’m letting my baby down. That’s probably partly because I’m being too hard on myself, but also because she’s had health issues since the day we brought her home from the hospital. But yeah, just when I think I’ve got a tiny bit of a handle on things, everything changes!
I love watching these, especially when you're with your friends. I feel I haven't made the most if living in London and cooking for/hosting my friends. This is a reminder for me how lovely it is and how I should do it more often!
I feel extremely accomplished at the end of the day as a mum. There is a huge sense of self-worth that comes from helping another human. Even if it is intense.
It's peaceful holding a sleeping child, but when he wakes up then it's another story 😂😂 Motherhood is so complicated. So exhausting, having no "end of the day" and no proper sleep, plus you have to live your own life as well ofcourse you can't stop working, or doing house chores etc. BUT! It's such a wonderful thing being a mom. The love, the cuddles, the newborn baby smell is amazing! No other love can compare. It's beautiful
4 Kids here…it’s the most rewarding, yet most hardest job ever. You keep wondering and hoping that you don’t mess them up….😅 it’s stressful, but the love DOES NOT COMPARE TO ANYTHING in this world!!!
In regards to feeling accomplished- I think a lot of it depends on perspective. I have 2 littles and my life is always busy but I feel a lot of fulfillment despite the challenges. The stress and overwhelm is very real and I’m trying to practice more gratitude.
I love that Rice - Tilda is the best.... Easier to cook & super good in basmati-like one-pot preps. The brilliant thing is to understand how things are now - not when your moms were moms (when you ask them, their context for being a mom is definitely a LOT more different) - so, that you could get how things are when you become a mom today, (like right now, when you want to be one) - and then decide if you then can, and should and when to be one.
I have a 1 year old boy, and my experience is that I’m so exhausted when I go to bed that my mind doesn’t even drift towards thinking I accomplished the day… rather I get a leetle bit anxious and stressed about having to do another day all over again as soon as baby wakes up. And there’s hundreds of things on my to-do list that I don’t get to do because I’m busy caring for my baby-toddler. I still love my baby and wouldn’t trade my role and situation for anything in the world!
Iconic is a great highlighter So funny children are wonderful when they get to two .. babies are beautiful and do interact with their eyes and their giggling
Answering your “how do you know you want kids” if you questioning than you’re not ready I think. It’s that simple. Among my girls there’s a full spectrum from child-free to born to be a mom. And I noticed that those who can imagine themselves as a mother don’t really question, they just take it as done deal. And I agree with you - it’s a serious commitment.
I Never wanted kids before meeting my husband and as strange as it sounds, one day we just „knew“ we were „ready“… LOL nothing prepares you but it doesn’t even matter. You’ll figure it out ❤ it’s amazing. Our baby girls will be the same ages apart as Gigi as Romy and honestly some days I’m like what have we done 😂 but it’s the best thing and the most exhausting thing at the same time. My number one tip is: you know when you know, trust your instincts ❤
I think you feel accomplished when your kid hits a milestone either developmental or at school! That's when you feel accomplished. Because you helped them get there.
When you said you did nothing when you held the baby… not true. You held and protected the future (even if it is for five minutes). That is one of the reasons why you felt something. 😊
I totally resonate with you. Throughout my 20s I felt like I didn’t have a single maternal bone in my body and then at 31(?) I just feel like a flip switched in my brain and then I started getting excited about the prospect of having babies. I struggled a lot with my reasons for wanting a child, but I realized whether or not you have a child, it can be considered a “selfish decision” and there really is no right or wrong way to think about it. You just have to be in a place where you can be present and nurturing as a parent as well as raise a good human being without passing down any generational trauma 😂 I guess it’s never going to be perfect but generally that was my thought process. 34 now and not yet pregnant but excited to hopefully have a child in the next year or two
Just wanted to say… it took me 15 years of trying, with multiple serious partners, to get pregnant. Wasn’t until I married my husband that we got pregnant almost a year to the day of meeting lol I have a son and a daughter now and I’ve never felt more complete. Hang in there, it took me forever and it’s a shitty wait but it’ll happen when it’s supposed to. I hated when people used to say that to me but truly, I wasn’t even close to being ready in hindsight. Now we have a happy, healthy home and family and I wouldn’t want it any other way. 🫶🏻
You’re thinking like that probably because you’re in a wonderful stable relationship and have a stable home now too. You’re ready for it! I have a 2.5 month old, never was around babies before. It’s amazing how much you learn so quickly. And so cool to finally see the little heels that were kicking me and the little bum that was squirming around. I don’t think anyone is ever really ready to have kids, there’s always a reason not to. You just adapt. Also your friend would have probably put the baby on the couch, floor, or somewhere else for a moment to go use the toilet if you weren’t there haha. Lots of love!
No! The day is never over because there is always more to do! Moms are super hero’s growing babies and being able to feed them on their own once they are born. All this on top of other duties. The day ends and then the night begins. And when the stage is over the next chapter begins with new challenges.
I never imagined myself being a mother now I’m a mom of three and to be honest it click for me once I met my husband who is a wonderful partner, but motherhood is some thing I would do again and again… such a blessing!!!!
There’s no “end of the day” with babies, just the beginning of the night shift 😂
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Yup 😂
SO TRUE 😂
You couldn’t have said it better!
Couldnt be more true 😂😂😂😂
If you ever have a little girl, her handbag collection will be INSANE!!!!! All seriousness though, you would be a fabulous Mum - your Mum and Mama Rachel are proof of this ❤
Totally agree! Your mum and mama-Rachel! ❤
aww you're the sweetest, that means so much to me 🙏🏼thank you so much ❤
You are so natural with Gemma’s baby xxx@@amelialiana
love seeing Natasha in the vlogs, she's such a vibe.
She’s so beautiful
I am not a maternal person either and I became a mum by accident and I like it. I am still not maternal and always felt bad about it but my child who is now 8 tells me often that I am the best and its just the best feeling to see her happy and that I am clearly good enough. You are a good person so If you decide to have children I am sure you will do great. Its a rewarding feeling to care for children
I got quite emotional when you spoke about feeling accomplished at the end of the day. It’s such a fantastic way of looking at things. I wish I’d been able to think about it like that at the time. I love the way you share your feelings and how you articulate them.❤
thank you 🥰
I agree! It made me hope that someday I’ll feel that way as a parent.
No 😂 you go to bed exhausted and don’t think about the bigger picture at all 😂 It takes a village! Moms love hands on friends! 😂❤
As a mum at the end of the day I feel exhausted 😩 but love it.
Also how you decide... meet the right person. So important:) because it will make parenting easier having the right partner. X
My first baby was born in May. I don’t know if I would say I feel accomplished every day, but I feel SO fulfilled. I didn’t know if I wanted kids, but I would say of the top 100 happiest moments of my life, at least 50 of them have happened in the last 3 months. Here’s the thing about having a child- it’s really easy to imagine the downsides even not having a child. Like not sleeping, being puked on, not having free time. All of that is easily imaginable. But it’s truly impossible to imagine the love you will feel for your baby until you have that baby. I honestly had no clue that love like this was possible. I have amazing family, friends, and husband that I love dearly… but this is unmatched. And no matter how hard I try, I can’t explain it, the only way to really understand is to experience it. That’s the hard part of deciding to have kids… the downsides are easy to imagine but the upsides are impossible. Sometimes I think about if I had decided not to have children and it gives me the chills honestly… I can’t imagine not having this baby now that I have her.
You would be a lovely mum Amelia, funny and cool, you have gathered enough life experience, and as for accomplishments every evening, it will be the small things, if your kid is safe, healthy and happy, but you become a parent for life, not only until they turn 20, it goes on and on, different stages, different requirements 😁 Love your spirit🥰
aww wow! 💖
Natasha is such a gorgeous woman she seems so genuine love her lifestyle so bohemian chic Gods Blessings to her ❤️
100% ❤
I was never the person who couldn’t wait to have kids, or felt rushed and like my life was incomplete without them but now that I have two, a 5 year old and 3 year old I have to say, wow, I cannot imagine not having them and their sweet souls in my life. Literally the greatest accomplishment of my life
awww that's amazing 🥰
My baby stood watching you the whole time you were holding Gemma’s baby 🥰
You have no idea Amelia how accomplished, fulfilled and purposeful you feel when you’re a mother. I couldn’t recommend it more. Like imagine how much love your mum and mamma Rachel feels… not to mention how much more in love you fall with your husband when you see them as a dad 😍😍😍
So… we will all just sit patiently for you to have a beautiful baby with Jak. No pressure, just positive vibes from afar 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Literally watching this with my 5 week old next to me. Yes I feel accomplished and like I’ve done something very important in this day and also super selfless. The peace of a sleeping baby is next level ❤
you're incredible!!
WE NEED LONGER DAYS IN YOUR LIFE AMELIA! 30 minutes is not cutting it we need to see more of you 😭💕🥰☀️
You’d be a good mom, Amelia! The baby’s so sweet and precious. You’ll fall in love 😍
Is anyone else obsessed with Natasha’s outfit?? 😮💨
I delayed being a mum. I never felt ready, but I knew I really wanted to be mum, so I went for it... and I'm so pleased I did.
I would say if you have a desire to have children don't let the fear of 'maybe I'm not maternal enough, or patient enough' etc stop you. That often comes after your baby is born, your brain rewires for motherhood 💕. And yes I do feel super accomplished and also like I've achieved nothing else that day 😅. My girls are the greatest joy of my life 💕
Kids give you real perspective on life… I no longer worry about stuff that doesn’t really matter. I never knew I needed motherhood as much as this ❤
wow absolutely see that!
As someone who has decided not to have kids, I just thought about my life and my goals and ultimately decided on them not being for me. My partner agreed and that was that. It took awhile but I know it was right for me
Its amazing to hear you thinking in this track of a mother being accomplished and I hope you and others tell that to mother's as often as possible because I think a lot of mother's struggle with feeling accomplished because you spend all day and night feeding and cleaning and putting to sleep the babies, and the laundry dishes meals other kids work and husband sit unattended- and it's very easy to feel like you got 'nothing' done.
I am a mum of a 10 year old and had mine at 32. I debated whether or not I was maternal or not or even if I wanted one. But when I had my daughter I will be honest it took some time to get into my new role and new life. But as I went on I got into in and felt more confident with my new life. Now I love it and it's quite literally the best thing that ever happened to me. You might not know till you have one but I'm sure that if you do you'll be an amazing mum ❤
Amelia the flowers for Gemma are so stunning babe
"I grew a toe today, that is what I did!😎" Amelia you're killing me😂😂😂
When my twins were babies all I felt at the end of the day was exhausted but loved it all. They really brought our family so much joy.
I am the mom of a 26 yr old boy/man...when he was little, I felt that if he had a fun, interesting, meaningful day, I had accomplished something. I would leave the house a disaster and head to the beach for the day....Do I remember the messy house now? No, but I do remember the beach days with all the moms and kids, Yes! They were epic! My son and his friends still talk about their childhoods...With wonderful memories of all the adventures we had....a bit of advice for moms with young kids...Don't stress about the things that don't really matter....
If you ever have to choose between making a memory (fun day out) or making dinner/cleaning ect ....Make the memory!!!
I promise you will not regret your choice, xo
Loved the singing section, you guys are such fun, have a great week everyone 🥰😂🧡
Natasha is so iconic!🎉
My son and his wife had their first baby a beautiful girl in April , my daughter didnt want children as she is a professional & 31yrs and with her brother having a baby it has completely turned her head she gets it now and cant wait to see her every weekend and have her own baby . My granddaughter has enriched our family for us all !!Good luck , whatever you decide xxx
I did not think I was maternal at all, but I now have a 4 month old and I love it so much. I wouldn't say you ever feel fully ready, but i think you just have to get the feeling of being more excited about it than not if that makes sense? And everything else will fall into place!
The day your baby comes into the world, you will feel like a superhero! There are hard times but the good always outweighs it and that is when you will truly learn what unconditional love means ❤
Honestly Amelia, you have beautiful examples in your Mother and Grandmother. And don't underestimate the help and time they will happily give you. Priceless ❤
I am a mum to a 15 month old beautiful baby boy. Being a mum is the most hardest but rewarding and amazing thing in the world! People lie how hard it is but its so worth it you feel so accomplished that you did something so amazing with your life shaping a little person’s world! I wasn’t maternal until my sister had her 3rd baby and the i got all the baby feels! Me and my hubby just went for it and was like if it happens it happens and we never regret it as he is just the most amazing special cheeky 15 month old boy that we made. I am constantly in awe that I am a mum and everyday is a blessing whether its hard or easy. Its the best thing you will ever do in your life ❤
Rare beauty highlighters are amazing! A little goes a long way!
OMG Amelia my heart swells with love seeing you hold a baby! You going to be an amazing mother!!!
I don’t feel accomplished going to bed. Usually I think of the things I didn’t get to. I want to have a more positive outlook on the day and things i got done. Thank you for the mom encouragement.
I think you will be a lovely mum x
“The lack of communication” lmao 😂. I feel the same way 😢
I think most moms go to bed feeling like they’re failures. It’s never ending so you don’t feel accomplished. Like ever. I raised my son by myself after a divorce. I worked 2 jobs and finished my degrees. I cried a lot. Thank God for my parents.
It’s completely okay to not want kids. It’s completely okay to want kids. It’s completely okay to not know if you want children or not. I love my son and he’s almost 22 now. I never wanted children but I’m happy he’s mine. It’s brave to be open about things. Women bully women all the time. Have a great week!
Motherhood is the best, you will love it and feel so accomplished beyond words 💝
I have three kids, I homeschool. It is 110% the most fulfilling thing. I did that. I had three kids. I’m helping them with their education. I did that. Nothing in this world compares.
Hey! I have 3 kids and homeschool too! ❤
@@Whoevenknows2000 yaaaaaayyyyyy I love it!!!!!! 😍😍😍😍
As a mom of two (3 and almost 6), I have to say you probably feel exhausted at the end of the day. BUT, at the same time its the greatest feeling. I felt so lucky, when I gave birth to my children and I suddenly felt instant love to a new person. Its a strange feeling.
Now they’re older and sometimes they fight and I get annoyed at them for not listening, but a minute late they sot together and cuddle. Or they will come running towards you when you pick them up at school. To me, its one of the greatest feelings of all.
I was on the fence the whole time. But I have always loved kids. Having the right partner is important. My son is the best kid in the world and I’m thankful for him everyday.
Kids are a life long commitment. But, it’s the best job I have ever done. Being a mom, never stops. Babies are a 24 hour , toddlers allow a little independence, teenagers are worry filled, adults are challenging with assistance of life-changing questions. It’s the “BEST” !
Such a fantastic feeling getting into bed at the end of the day knowing my son is happy and healthy and fast asleep in his bed. My son feels like home to me ❤
Being a mama is the biggest love ❤️ I’ve ever felt. You think you know what love is beforehand, you literally have no idea the prosperousness it brings until you’re a parent. The things I cared about prior to parenthood I could care less about now. Too look outside of ourselves is too see the world through the eyes of a child. It’s magical…
At the end of the day as a parent I feel very accomplished. I never debated it, always knew I was going to be a mama one day and have felt the desire in my bones prior. Out of all of the dreams I’ve ever wanted in my life she is it and I’m grateful that she’s my mini me.
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Amelia look so much better without makeup,her skin looks fresh and breathing without the makeup
Yhh she'd look much cuter with more fresh lighter makeup
Oh Ameliayou re so ready, you and Jak will make beautiful babies ❤❤❤❤
You'd be an awesome Mom, Amelia! The sense of wonder that you have for life would be great to pass along to a child/children. I always knew that I wanted kids, but my autoimmune issues have made me quite sick on a regular basis. Thankfully, I now have two stepdaughters (whom I met at ages 5 & 7, when I was 31) - they're wonderful and so excited/inquisitive about the world. I can't imagine how hard it would have been on my health to raise babies/toddlers as a full-time parent and I'm in awe of the people who do. In terms of a "sense of accomplishment" at the end of the day, parenting has made me more organized/detail oriented (which has helped in my career path too), but it's also come with a heightened sense of responsibility and therefore anxiety/overwhelm at times - so it's more like a "feeling that I've forgotten to do something important" at the end of the day haha. Despite stress and some difficult times balancing chronic pain & parenting with my job, I'm happier in life than ever before! There are so many different ways to approach parenting, and if you end up becoming one, your excitement for life and sunny approach will be a great asset! ☀️
You are already a crazy hard working lady…you will kill it at being a mom ❤
You looked so natural with baby Romi! You would make a great mum!! ❤❤
You feel it. It's a strong, loving feeling, inspite of time.
Merit beauty has a great highlighter. It’s super natural but very glowy!!
You had THE dream. Resistance is futile, haha.
There was nothing maternal about me until I had my daughter. That skill unlocks automatically when your baby is born. Becoming a mom has made me a more assertive person with phenomenal time management skills that I've been able to bring back to my career. You realize how strong you really are.
I was NEVER a baby/kid person, but I had the same quick/tiny feeling you had and I made the decision to start my family and I am so grateful that I was that brave cuz it was life changing. I love the babies I created and they literally continue to teach me so much and just brighten my world. Will I have 5 kids?? No, I’m happy with my two. ❤😊
Being a mom was the best choice I’ve ever made in my life. It’s serious, hard at times but sooo fun! And this comes from someone who didn’t really wanna get married or have kids..
I organized my skin care like you did but took it one step further-I wallpapered the inside of the medicine cabinet so the inside is super pretty too!!
For cream blush, Ellis Faas and Chantecaille's cheek gelee are great. For a cheek palette that does it all, Tom Ford shade and illuminate contour duo is my go-to.
omg you're the best!
@@amelialiana 🖤
I can relate to everything you’re saying. I didn’t want children, I didn’t have time for them. I was always the mean cousin. I thought newborn babies were ugly little things and never wanted to hold them. And then I “accidentally” fell pregnant at the age of 36 after being happily married to my uni sweetheart for years. I’m thankful to God He blessed me with my daughter (now 7). Since having her, I LOVE newborns. They smell so beautiful, their skin is so delicate silk soft, so precious 🥰 I don’t have the words but I love them! I still don’t think I’m maternal but Im glad I have a minnie-me. We go for girly dinners and afternoon teas. Go to the theatre a lot! Please don’t rule out children or at least 1! You won’t regret it! ❤
The white thing on the brow gel is definitely foundation. I use the patrick ta one and the same thing has happened. I now try to clean up the foundation off my brows with a q-tip before applying gel
It’s sad, but as a new mom (my baby is 3 months), no, I do not feel accomplished at the end of the day. I feel relieved that we all survived, and exhausted, and unfortunately like I’m letting my baby down. That’s probably partly because I’m being too hard on myself, but also because she’s had health issues since the day we brought her home from the hospital. But yeah, just when I think I’ve got a tiny bit of a handle on things, everything changes!
I love watching these, especially when you're with your friends. I feel I haven't made the most if living in London and cooking for/hosting my friends. This is a reminder for me how lovely it is and how I should do it more often!
I feel extremely accomplished at the end of the day as a mum. There is a huge sense of self-worth that comes from helping another human. Even if it is intense.
yes absolutely xx
The Air Supply singalong made my night. :o)
Sculpted by Aimee - liquid lights is a beautiful cream highlighter ❤
“Oh to come out the womb with a nose like this” 😩😂 haha I love you
It's peaceful holding a sleeping child, but when he wakes up then it's another story 😂😂
Motherhood is so complicated. So exhausting, having no "end of the day" and no proper sleep, plus you have to live your own life as well ofcourse you can't stop working, or doing house chores etc. BUT! It's such a wonderful thing being a mom. The love, the cuddles, the newborn baby smell is amazing! No other love can compare. It's beautiful
I was smiling throughout this so nice
Vieve Skin Dew is the besttttt natural highlight you’ll ever use girl!! 💗
thanks babe x
4 Kids here…it’s the most rewarding, yet most hardest job ever. You keep wondering and hoping that you don’t mess them up….😅 it’s stressful, but the love DOES NOT COMPARE TO ANYTHING in this world!!!
Go Amelia for helping all women around the world acknowledge their amazingness! "Like I grew a TOE today!"
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In regards to feeling accomplished- I think a lot of it depends on perspective. I have 2 littles and my life is always busy but I feel a lot of fulfillment despite the challenges. The stress and overwhelm is very real and I’m trying to practice more gratitude.
Amelia you need to share your playlists! Seems like you are always playing the most fun music 🩷
You’re already a wonderful Mum to little Dukie, so you’d be fab with your own baby ❤xx
I love that Rice - Tilda is the best.... Easier to cook & super good in basmati-like one-pot preps. The brilliant thing is to understand how things are now - not when your moms were moms (when you ask them, their context for being a mom is definitely a LOT more different) - so, that you could get how things are when you become a mom today, (like right now, when you want to be one) - and then decide if you then can, and should and when to be one.
sometimes the idea of having kids only emerges when we’re with someone who we can really share that journey with
The Vieve highlighter is gorgeous!! xx
You are the best - please watch this after you have a child. It is an absolute whirlwind, but the best thing ever. ❤
Lisa Eldridge highlighter and VB highlighter are similar (I think better in performance) and the packaging is not as messy and leaky as CT.
Omg thank you!!
I’ve never felt so proud of my hard work as I do for my kids.
yass queen!!
I have a 1 year old boy, and my experience is that I’m so exhausted when I go to bed that my mind doesn’t even drift towards thinking I accomplished the day… rather I get a leetle bit anxious and stressed about having to do another day all over again as soon as baby wakes up. And there’s hundreds of things on my to-do list that I don’t get to do because I’m busy caring for my baby-toddler. I still love my baby and wouldn’t trade my role and situation for anything in the world!
Iconic is a great highlighter
So funny children are wonderful when they get to two .. babies are beautiful and do interact with their eyes and their giggling
Answering your “how do you know you want kids” if you questioning than you’re not ready I think. It’s that simple. Among my girls there’s a full spectrum from child-free to born to be a mom. And I noticed that those who can imagine themselves as a mother don’t really question, they just take it as done deal. And I agree with you - it’s a serious commitment.
I Never wanted kids before meeting my husband and as strange as it sounds, one day we just „knew“ we were „ready“… LOL nothing prepares you but it doesn’t even matter. You’ll figure it out ❤ it’s amazing. Our baby girls will be the same ages apart as Gigi as Romy and honestly some days I’m like what have we done 😂 but it’s the best thing and the most exhausting thing at the same time. My number one tip is: you know when you know, trust your instincts ❤
I think you feel accomplished when your kid hits a milestone either developmental or at school! That's when you feel accomplished. Because you helped them get there.
When you said you did nothing when you held the baby… not true. You held and protected the future (even if it is for five minutes). That is one of the reasons why you felt something. 😊
Amelia, you should seriously try the Glowlust by Auric (Samantha Ravndahl’s brand), it is just simply magic!
thanks so much!
Currently 30 weeks pregnant and still don’t know if I’m ready 😂
Try Benefit Watt‘s up! Cream highlighter - oldie but goldie! Supernatural but very shiny 😊
Mum of three kiddos. It’s hard but worth it ❤
Lol not the baby sleeping and ur screaming 😂
Vieve highlighter is amazing give it a try x
With the highlighters RMS one is excellent, looks like proper juicy skin - I was about to suggest it before you said you’re considering it!
I totally resonate with you. Throughout my 20s I felt like I didn’t have a single maternal bone in my body and then at 31(?) I just feel like a flip switched in my brain and then I started getting excited about the prospect of having babies.
I struggled a lot with my reasons for wanting a child, but I realized whether or not you have a child, it can be considered a “selfish decision” and there really is no right or wrong way to think about it. You just have to be in a place where you can be present and nurturing as a parent as well as raise a good human being without passing down any generational trauma 😂 I guess it’s never going to be perfect but generally that was my thought process. 34 now and not yet pregnant but excited to hopefully have a child in the next year or two
Just wanted to say… it took me 15 years of trying, with multiple serious partners, to get pregnant. Wasn’t until I married my husband that we got pregnant almost a year to the day of meeting lol I have a son and a daughter now and I’ve never felt more complete. Hang in there, it took me forever and it’s a shitty wait but it’ll happen when it’s supposed to. I hated when people used to say that to me but truly, I wasn’t even close to being ready in hindsight. Now we have a happy, healthy home and family and I wouldn’t want it any other way. 🫶🏻
You and jak will make amazing parents
“I grew a toe today” that’s what you say to your partner when they say they took out the trash or unloaded the dishwasher😂
You’re thinking like that probably because you’re in a wonderful stable relationship and have a stable home now too. You’re ready for it!
I have a 2.5 month old, never was around babies before. It’s amazing how much you learn so quickly. And so cool to finally see the little heels that were kicking me and the little bum that was squirming around. I don’t think anyone is ever really ready to have kids, there’s always a reason not to. You just adapt.
Also your friend would have probably put the baby on the couch, floor, or somewhere else for a moment to go use the toilet if you weren’t there haha.
Lots of love!
No! The day is never over because there is always more to do! Moms are super hero’s growing babies and being able to feed them on their own once they are born. All this on top of other duties. The day ends and then the night begins. And when the stage is over the next chapter begins with new challenges.
I never imagined myself being a mother now I’m a mom of three and to be honest it click for me once I met my husband who is a wonderful partner, but motherhood is some thing I would do again and again… such a blessing!!!!
The rare beauty liquid highlighter is really nice.