Loved this conversation ❤. And I loved that you stated that a woman can embody the same qualities as a man when it comes to protection, it’s not limited to a certain gender.
Loved this conversation and insight into how protection for/toward you actually isn’t necessarily physical. Looking forward to all the topics mentioned to be discussed 😊. Much love to you both ❤.
Awesome episode! The hardest thing for me to have learned is when to step in or not. For me if I'm in a situation that goes to physical it can make you feel disrespected like you can't handle your sh*** if they jump in front of you when it's that protective nature coming out. I've had to learn when to step in. My close friends know that I am on your six or beside you and all you need to do is give me the signal and it's go time. I've noticed that the mouthy aggressive ones generally are accompanied by others. There won't ever be 2 against 1 while I am there. I think we learn as we age when and how to pick our battles.
As always I enjoy the conversation. I learn a lot by watching you all. Something big to me in relationships is feeling protected and safe because I didn’t have it a lot has a child. I am excited for what’s to come.
Definitely enjoying the conversation I believe protection starts with intellect and how spiritually intuned you are with yourself ❤ keep up the great work looking forward to the next episode of yall dressing up 😅 I thought that comment was wild too lol
Aina: Thanks 30:00 for saying that. I used to talk to this man on his ride home & he stayed cursing out people. It was such a turn off to hear that disregard and name calling for other people.
Btw, when you're about to fight men and feel like you are "leave your body" to observe the fight as it happens, this is called depersonalization, and it's very much associated with past trauma and PTSD. Great episode as always!
I’ve been thinking I’ve been protecting my sister for years when she’s been telling me I have an attitude problem after all these years of being the bigger sister.
I’m a straight female & love listening to yall‼️ The topics are on point. 💕
Thanks for rocking with us!
I'm straight too even tho I have had a few sexual encounters with women 😊 but yes I love the content
We're two gaymen and we definitely love to listen and support em ❤️
Same. Love me some Aina. I'd go back gay for her 😅
This was a Great Topic! I emjoyed it!❤🙌✊️
"I can't protect you if you won't listen" I felt that. ❤
Loved this conversation ❤. And I loved that you stated that a woman can embody the same qualities as a man when it comes to protection, it’s not limited to a certain gender.
We appreciate you tuning in!
Loved this conversation and insight into how protection for/toward you actually isn’t necessarily physical. Looking forward to all the topics mentioned to be discussed 😊. Much love to you both ❤.
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I just love yall podcast! My girlfriend and I truly enjoy it and it gives us things to talk about too!
We appreciate yall support!
Loving the consistency. ❤
Awesome episode! The hardest thing for me to have learned is when to step in or not. For me if I'm in a situation that goes to physical it can make you feel disrespected like you can't handle your sh*** if they jump in front of you when it's that protective nature coming out. I've had to learn when to step in. My close friends know that I am on your six or beside you and all you need to do is give me the signal and it's go time. I've noticed that the mouthy aggressive ones generally are accompanied by others. There won't ever be 2 against 1 while I am there. I think we learn as we age when and how to pick our battles.
As always I enjoy the conversation. I learn a lot by watching you all. Something big to me in relationships is feeling protected and safe because I didn’t have it a lot has a child.
I am excited for what’s to come.
Thanks for sharing 🫶🏽
Nelcia’s you’re a sweetheart and you definitely give your all when it come to anybody that gets to share a piece of your light
Thank you Sarah!! ❤
Definitely enjoying the conversation I believe protection starts with intellect and how spiritually intuned you are with yourself ❤ keep up the great work looking forward to the next episode of yall dressing up 😅 I thought that comment was wild too lol
Thanks for rocking with us! 🙌🏽
I need y’all to be my mentors! Us young studs need y’all OGs
I love y’all and y’all know I’m flying if need be
I’m going alway protect y’all. Y’all too good to ppl for ppl to play with yall.
Aina: Thanks 30:00 for saying that. I used to talk to this man on his ride home & he stayed cursing out people. It was such a turn off to hear that disregard and name calling for other people.
5:34 I LOVE THIS!!! SO SWEET!!
Great conversation like always hi. Can yall talk about gifting your female best friends when do you draw the line on gifts?
Hey! We can definitely put it on the docket!!
@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast thank you
They do go back
12:21 keda your a super gentlewoman and that’s all love slim❤
Love this ✌️
Btw, when you're about to fight men and feel like you are "leave your body" to observe the fight as it happens, this is called depersonalization, and it's very much associated with past trauma and PTSD. Great episode as always!
We appreciate your knowledge and input on this!
Over protection guilty 😔 😭
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🤣🤣🤣Great pod 👍🏾
Thank you 🫶🏽
Throwing up GD is crazy 😂😂
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@ funny asf lmao.
30:55 I look and roll the shit out my eyes
Got it from my gran daddy walking on outside & opening door from inside of car 4 driver 👌
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Damn I feel you Nelcia
I’ve been thinking I’ve been protecting my sister for years when she’s been telling me I have an attitude problem after all these years of being the bigger sister.
27:49 I was like he got keda fucked up don’t play with her
This episode is what's up! Would it be ok to send yall some lesbian merch to wear on the podcast?😢
Thank you for the support!!!
31:19 facts
Lmao 8:18
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Lmao yo sister had a grand am…wtf is a grand am..we had a gold one back in the 90s…I always felt like I was cussing when I said it 😂
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