I used to teach special ed and learned that people are not “lazy.” Ask a teen who has been labeled lazy if they want to play basketball or go to an amusement park and they are happy to move. This fellow seems depressed. I think he needs to aim at a meaningful personal goal like changing jobs, finding a friend group with similar interests, etc.
Truly lazy people rarely recognize they are lazy. I noticed the fidget tool. There is a good chance that he is overwhelmed, anxious, and shut down. That doesn't make it ok, but it does deserve some empathy.
It got out of control a loooong time ago. If they are at work on different shifts, and rarely see each other there is no reason for it to be messy. Thank goodness they don't have children. There is still so much work to be done, especially that mold issue
I can't even imagine if they had a child together if they can't even clean up after themselves. Looks like they both just left dishes, laundry, and junk where they last sat. I make it a point to immediately take the wrapper or trash I have in my hand and put it into the trash. Why put it down on the counter and have to handle it again later since that is double work?
The mold on the ceiling in the kitchen is because there seems to be no ventilation in the kitchen. This is especially problematic because they have a gas stove and boiler in the same room. The kitchen may be illegal and this rental may have other issues too. They literally might be depressed because they don't have oxygen
He’s almost proud of it. Seems like rebellion but why. Everyone has a reason for their behavior. The mess is a result of a deeper issue, he needs to recognize it isn’t just that he’s lazy.
This isn't even a hoarding situation. It's literally just people too lazy to clean.
Agree sheer laziness at its fullest
Just because someone lives in a messy house doesn’t mean they’re a hoarder
But there is mold everywhere... The kitchen ceiling is covered in mold! 😲😲
I have to wonder if the off-gassing from the mold is causing mood problems for these two. Very common.🤔
Even after the clean up the mold was still on all the ceilings and that's a health hazard.
The dont ventilate!!
How can they live in all this dirt? Mold and trash everywhere. I would be throwing up every second 😭😭
Part of cooking is hygiene. He's not a cook's bootlace.
Looks like the beginning of hoarding..
I used to teach special ed and learned that people are not “lazy.” Ask a teen who has been labeled lazy if they want to play basketball or go to an amusement park and they are happy to move. This fellow seems depressed. I think he needs to aim at a meaningful personal goal like changing jobs, finding a friend group with similar interests, etc.
Pfft what a dazzling analysis from Dr Nana Almostpsychiatrist.Stop making excuses for obvious slobs.
Very True! Also, it could be caused (or worsened) by the mold on the ceiling.
Also maybe some dregree of undiagnosed neurodivergency @@missnaomi613
Truly lazy people rarely recognize they are lazy. I noticed the fidget tool. There is a good chance that he is overwhelmed, anxious, and shut down. That doesn't make it ok, but it does deserve some empathy.
It got out of control a loooong time ago. If they are at work on different shifts, and rarely see each other there is no reason for it to be messy. Thank goodness they don't have children. There is still so much work to be done, especially that mold issue
I can't even imagine if they had a child together if they can't even clean up after themselves. Looks like they both just left dishes, laundry, and junk where they last sat. I make it a point to immediately take the wrapper or trash I have in my hand and put it into the trash. Why put it down on the counter and have to handle it again later since that is double work?
The mold...yes, the mold!!
The new wife is a cleaner? So clean!
He doesn't look like security guard either. No wonder the country is in such a state if that's the best they can do for security.
@ ... Probably a night watchman for a vacant building.
@therose5783 vacant lot more like it.
I can’t speak for the young wife, but perhaps Seth’s mum did everything for him whilst living at home and he now expects his wife to do the same?
Why are all trash bags so Hard to open up fast???
The mold on the ceiling in the kitchen is because there seems to be no ventilation in the kitchen. This is especially problematic because they have a gas stove and boiler in the same room. The kitchen may be illegal and this rental may have other issues too. They literally might be depressed because they don't have oxygen
There is a window and a door leading outside in the kitchen. So no ventilation issue.
He needs to start to do it with his wife, to keep motivation 😊
He should get a cleaner 😂😂😂
Where the heck is the wife, who is a supposed "cleaner"?
Hiding? Ashamed? Lazy?
Nah, maybe she is the same, but not used to deal with someone else's mess.
If she cleans for her job why can't she do it at home
Sometimes you just can’t read the comments.
Just lazy and need to fix their mold problem.
OK,,,, HE'S UNORGANIZED AND LAZY?? BLEEP, BLEEP, BLEEP.......
Uninspiring person. Disrespects himself and everyone else.
He’s almost proud of it. Seems like rebellion but why. Everyone has a reason for their behavior. The mess is a result of a deeper issue, he needs to recognize it isn’t just that he’s lazy.
I got sick just watching this video. 🤮 So I give it up before two minutes.
The anime bikini girl pillow! Lol
Where is his wife? She didn't appear on camera.
That's nasty. If she's a cleaner, what in the world is she doing?
That whitesnake shirt doesn't fit