I Guess Its Time To Move On..

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  • Опубліковано 20 гру 2024

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  • @SVOEJ
    @SVOEJ Місяць тому +172

    Damn this one hurt. Appreciate you for taking me under your wing with the UA-cam grind. Appreciate you for being a big bro to me.

    • @ZaddyChunkChunk
      @ZaddyChunkChunk  Місяць тому +42

      Of course brother, you know I got you and will always be here for you. Stay up brother

    • @LadyGlobalChic
      @LadyGlobalChic Місяць тому +3

      Be careful with these YT heavy relationship all these girls are waiting in line on these like of relationships wanting to be noticed, they are flooding your DMs etc. They are all watching and know what to look for letting you believe it’s from God etc. Everything happens for a reason so be careful what comes your way isn’t from GOD always the enemy has great plans for us all. Then you end up back to square one. You don’t have to be in a relationship to be whole work on yourself FIRST. Whatever God put together it’s destiny you was in church stepped away according to this video found LOVE so you thought on your own yet wasn’t equally YOKED…

    • @susanlanderos5232
      @susanlanderos5232 Місяць тому +6

      😢😊😊😢 Prayers for you. Break ups are never easy. But its better it happened before babies were to be involved. Just make sure you take your time. Never settle for anything new just because you miss being cuffed for so long. Make sure you're next will truly check your boxes of what you truly want in your life. The right person will present themselves and you will know why things didn't work with your ex. Stay praying for God to send you your person. The right one. But be careful

    • @rechardwimberly5808
      @rechardwimberly5808 Місяць тому +4

      Keep ya head up we've all been there, take it one day at a time 💪🏾❤️

    • @beautifulbeginning954
      @beautifulbeginning954 Місяць тому +2

      You got this ❤❤❤❤

  • @joann4733
    @joann4733 Місяць тому +62

    I rather hurt without the person in my life , then to keep hurting with them in my life. Period! Thank you Dalvin. Proverbs 17:17 a true friend.

  • @ceeeee1215
    @ceeeee1215 Місяць тому +46

    When a woman says she is unhappy....LISTEN!

  • @Awaken143
    @Awaken143 Місяць тому +60

    I could see very clearly 😂

    • @AshantiCarter-g9g
      @AshantiCarter-g9g Місяць тому +8

      😂😂😂😂

    • @actlikewho
      @actlikewho Місяць тому +17

      🎯💯🎯💯🌈

    • @actlikewho
      @actlikewho Місяць тому +12

      @@truthshallsetufree1295 You not trippin! 🎯😂

    • @AshantiCarter-g9g
      @AshantiCarter-g9g Місяць тому +18

      @@truthshallsetufree1295 🤣🤣🤣 naw we all seen that twinkle. I know a lgbtqdl when I see 1🤏🏼🤏🏼🤏🏼💯

    • @BertandErnie976
      @BertandErnie976 Місяць тому

      Oh come on now 🙄🙄🙄​@@truthshallsetufree1295

  • @4Da-Culture
    @4Da-Culture Місяць тому +10

    When a woman checks out like that… there have been many missed signs. It takes a lot for them to walk out the door. Men get comfortable. Gotta keep the spark alive. Learn from your mistakes and communicate well in your next relationship. Also, surround yourself with folks IN HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS. Iron sharpens iron.

  • @DaraR3431
    @DaraR3431 Місяць тому +36

    Praying for you EJ!! You're going to be fine...🤗❤

  • @msporsha2359
    @msporsha2359 Місяць тому +6

    Never cut your friends off once you get in a relationship because if that person decides to leave you then you gonna need your friends to talk to and vent to

  • @sandyj2062
    @sandyj2062 Місяць тому +16

    I love that you guys are going to go to church together!!❤❤❤

  • @teresamoss4591
    @teresamoss4591 Місяць тому +11

    Good open honest talk about relationships feelings and emotions. Glad you’re there for your friend Dalvin. Pray you two guys take your time getting into relationships. Church is a wonderful place to go when you’re looking for guidance please make sure you find a church that the people are all God fearing people. Visit other churches as well to find the church you can grow with… good luck, blessings. You guys are awesome, the girls will be sorry they messed up relationships with you guys… stay focused… 💝

  • @nikkisplates
    @nikkisplates Місяць тому +7

    Reorganizing for women sometimes can mean she is mentally preparing! Ej just take this moment to live happily and learn yourself, love yourself and be happy ❤

  • @Jswilk830
    @Jswilk830 Місяць тому +15

    I’m Sorry EJ someone who leaves like that without being respectful enough of your relationship to walk away in such a way that hurts but doesn’t destroy the other person’s self-esteem… Dalvin you’re a good friend I can see the care & concern for your friend….You’re a good human & I love watching your videos! ❤😊

  • @Sam-ed4iq
    @Sam-ed4iq Місяць тому +10

    When a woman had everything set and organized she was gonna stay she must have found something cuz I feel like woman don’t just leave and not say anything there must have been a deal breaker BAD one too

  • @Des0460
    @Des0460 Місяць тому +33

    Awww I just love that he is so open with his feelings. It’s going to be okay Ej. I know this sound cliche but time really does heal all wounds.

    • @mrs.bohannona.k.abohannonq2871
      @mrs.bohannona.k.abohannonq2871 Місяць тому +2

      Yesssss and always remember it's on YOUR time and nobody else's 💯💯👏🏾 heal at your own pace 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

  • @MsSlick1214
    @MsSlick1214 Місяць тому +5

    Welcome home Zaddy😊 I'm glad you're back cause EJ needed someone to talk to fr fr. I could see he was so hurt and sad even though he was trying to he strong. So glad you got his back. Zaddy you are such a good friend to your buddies ❤❤🥰🥰

  • @sheliad1265
    @sheliad1265 Місяць тому +6

    Sending positive vibes to EJ🙏🏽❤️

  • @tamaraford9338
    @tamaraford9338 Місяць тому +9

    You will get through this and you have a real friend to lean on

  • @beautifulgemini3399
    @beautifulgemini3399 Місяць тому +13

    Love the video, Heartbreak💔 is heavy…sending positive vibes🤗💕

  • @kimberlyshamberger9414
    @kimberlyshamberger9414 Місяць тому +4

    EJ when door closes another door opens. Easier said than done but don’t beat down a closed door because it may be a blessing awaiting you. God makes no mistakes. My dear you don’t want someone who doesn’t want you. It’s ok that she doesn’t want you. We are not for everyone. People fall out of love or infatuation. However, You are no chopped liver!This is the time to try and focus on yourself. Work on a better happier you in this alone time. Then you will be ready mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually for the real young lady that is truly for you not just anyone out of hurt and loneliness. THE Right One❤

  • @ItsTreen
    @ItsTreen Місяць тому +19

    This too shall pass EJ. You’re young and you’ll look back on this moment as another chapter in your life that will build your strength. Keep Dalvin on your team❤

  • @mellomel7232
    @mellomel7232 Місяць тому +22

    Dalvin, you're a good friend, helper, and leader. Keep your head up EJ 🙏🏾

  • @shonr7217
    @shonr7217 Місяць тому +3

    I felt that when he said “she’s all I care about now” in response to being asked why he dont even post himself. That statement was LOUD

  • @ashleywest6707
    @ashleywest6707 Місяць тому +7

    EJ just relax, explore your options, your a handsom man, maybe it could be a good thing that you guys aren't together, but keep your head up and enjoy your life and live.. some people have their own mind and opinions.. But I believe you handled the relationship right.. More happiness is coming 😊

  • @hopephillips2063
    @hopephillips2063 Місяць тому +7

    Lmao men are in fact not hardwired that way. If that was true , cheaters wouldn't exist . Woman are hardwired that way , we love routine. Yall almost always get bored and need something new. Then im sorry for her to leave so abruptly, she was telling u 100 times over. Thats how woman are, we say it nice as long as possible. And 3 years is long enough to know if u wanna marry. You shouldnt be dating if ur not ready and prepared to aim for family and marriage. But he will figure it out

  • @mrshaynes1036
    @mrshaynes1036 Місяць тому +6

    Sending prayers to EJ

  • @christycottman
    @christycottman Місяць тому +3

    Great video, Much love and success to the both of you. Get your head up EJ, God has your back. Sending much♥️from Cali!

  • @CarolynDeisch
    @CarolynDeisch Місяць тому +4

    That's so sad. I'm so sad for your friend. But he's so handsome. He'll get over it, but it sounds like he needs closure. He needs to talk to her one more time just to get closer. And I hope she'd be very honest. God bless him. God bless you both to find your true soulmate.❤

  • @lashongrandmaof3789
    @lashongrandmaof3789 Місяць тому +5

    Heyyyyyy Y’all I Am Here For It! Good To See You Back Dalvin 💃🏽💃🏽

  • @shonr7217
    @shonr7217 Місяць тому +19

    EJ, always remember that everything happens for a reason. When people/things are removed from your life God is making room for something better. When you take away your individuality to pursue a relationship its hard to get that back so always love yourself first. You got this gang! We all got you.

  • @kimmiemiller8118
    @kimmiemiller8118 Місяць тому +62

    He smiling a little to much when he said he single…👀someone ain’t give a damn either way

  • @dawnburge-cruz3917
    @dawnburge-cruz3917 Місяць тому +8

    if there is a guy already in the picture that guy was already there...

  • @carmenosborne5539
    @carmenosborne5539 Місяць тому +4

    Everything happens for a reason pray be still wait on God He's up to something trust Him

  • @lavonnepruitt3905
    @lavonnepruitt3905 Місяць тому +3

    Nice to you see Dalvin back at home! I commend you on beeping a big bro to EJ and helping him get through this. You have a big heart❤❤❤

  • @meseknowsbest3144
    @meseknowsbest3144 Місяць тому +1

    Heartbreak is very tough when it's fresh, but everything will be ok EJ. I know it's tough trust me, but focus on your healing and self care. After the rain always comes sunshine. It looks like you have good people in your corner. Praying for you!

  • @adeannat
    @adeannat Місяць тому

    EJ, you got this! ❤ Take all the time you need to heal, stay open minded, don’t rush into anything because finding someone new is going to be a nice feeling and you don’t want to rush into something that may not work out, take your time. ❤

  • @narkieshamanuel7750
    @narkieshamanuel7750 Місяць тому +1

    Aww I feel so bad for EJ. Praying for you EJ. U seems like a remarkable young man and heartbreaks is not something u can get over in a day or two but time will heal for sure. U are a handsome guy and u will find love again when u ready

  • @Senca77
    @Senca77 Місяць тому +12

    She just left without a forewarning? Wow that’s cold and mean…I didn’t know EJ. Damn…Just know you are an awesome person and Dalvin is awesome so you two go be young, self care and stay busy doing things to feed your soul.

    • @AshantiCarter-g9g
      @AshantiCarter-g9g Місяць тому +1

      I would’ve left too yeah he was paying for everything but he was buying 1 meal for them to split each time they ate😂😂😅

    • @haileyf-hernandez1346
      @haileyf-hernandez1346 Місяць тому +1

      No she did not leave without forewarning

    • @krissyjn
      @krissyjn Місяць тому +1

      He said there were signs

    • @Senca77
      @Senca77 Місяць тому

      @ he realized it after she left. He didn’t know at first. That’s so so crazy.

    • @yvonnehood104
      @yvonnehood104 Місяць тому

      Good Luck EJ .. believe in the heavenly Father he will send you a great girl when the time is right .Dalvin you are a good friend be there for him !!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾👍🏾💯

  • @belindacunningham7432
    @belindacunningham7432 Місяць тому +1

    If you don't let the past go, it won't let you heal
    Take time for yourself. One day at a time EJ

  • @kiaramcclain9329
    @kiaramcclain9329 Місяць тому

    Welcome back Dalvin you was truly missed ❤❤❤❤

  • @ladygreer9323
    @ladygreer9323 Місяць тому +2

    Hey Dalvin and Ej... Sorry that you are going thru this. It seems like it just wasn't meant to be. Dont punish no one else for her bad behavior.. Stay true to who you are and be You.. Enjoy fellas!! 🐞😋

  • @pattydennis2584
    @pattydennis2584 Місяць тому

    Focus on yourself! Work on you.. you will be fine.🙂

  • @jambrodie
    @jambrodie Місяць тому +1

    I’m so sorry to hear that ❤

  • @antionetteblankenship2340
    @antionetteblankenship2340 Місяць тому

    EJ don’t let no woman stress you out, you seem like a nice, good looking guy!! You got this!!

  • @wallishacoleman5013
    @wallishacoleman5013 Місяць тому +5

    U also got to be careful who u share your business with. Ppl now in days don’t care bc they want what u have behind the scenes.

  • @hollywoodtab
    @hollywoodtab Місяць тому +15

    Nah her moving out that quick? Something was up with her...

  • @sndelacour4883
    @sndelacour4883 Місяць тому +1

    You’ll be fine EJ. You are a handsome guy; there are other ladies out there that will appreciate you.

  • @shonr7217
    @shonr7217 Місяць тому +5

    Put no time on moving on. I left my ex and found my person months later. SHE proposed to ME less than a year. Love is limitless. Do you fr

  • @bernadetteblair3103
    @bernadetteblair3103 Місяць тому

    Always luv u first son , because ain't no one else will. Real talk❤

  • @sdc1116
    @sdc1116 Місяць тому

    Sending prayers your way EJ and you're a great friend Dalvin. Blessings to you both. 🙏🏾❤

  • @Elvira.FULGHAMBOYS
    @Elvira.FULGHAMBOYS Місяць тому

    Happy you are there to support your friend while he's going through this break up

  • @adeannat
    @adeannat Місяць тому +7

    Dalvin, you’re a good friend! EJ is blessed to have a supportive friend like you!! 😊

  • @darlenethomas4964
    @darlenethomas4964 Місяць тому +2

    Hey D. and E. Happy Thursday! EJ, yes, you had someone, but obviously, she wasn't the (one). Just take your time, keep GOD first. Everything will fall in to place in God's perfect timing.❤😊

  • @rochellelewis814
    @rochellelewis814 27 днів тому

    Some women don't really know what happiness is. Some are broken! It's best that he move on! God has shown him!! Be happy! Someone better will come and appreciate you!!

  • @lazarusstarks3983
    @lazarusstarks3983 Місяць тому +28

    I’m not going hold you , this video kinda zestpect 😂😂😂 ! Get your woman back and stop hanging around men

  • @stefanietrimiar9565
    @stefanietrimiar9565 Місяць тому +1

    I have to go to EJ's story.. Well, My My.. Sometimes things just happen..
    People places and things you can't go backwards.
    Only Forward's..
    Love & Grace❤

  • @airenergywithcoco4509
    @airenergywithcoco4509 Місяць тому +4

    Wow more sessions like this Dalvin

  • @christinepatterson5632
    @christinepatterson5632 Місяць тому +3

    You both should do a q&a video. No food. Drinks. Guy talk

  • @rejoicewithjeanny1234
    @rejoicewithjeanny1234 Місяць тому +1

    Hold on young man 🙏

  • @WorkhardwithaJob_Career
    @WorkhardwithaJob_Career Місяць тому +6

    It sounded like she was seeing someone else; I hate to break it to you! She was giving a reason to finally break it off. There is another man in the picture EJ. It was probably her close co-worker she was talking about in that one video. Maybe or Maybe not but yeah; you dodged a bullet.

  • @charlenemorgan4291
    @charlenemorgan4291 Місяць тому +1

    EJ God Has Better For You. Stay Strong In God. He Has You And Will Give You Strength. It’s Going To Be Alright. God Has The Best For You.. 🥰

  • @jambrodie
    @jambrodie Місяць тому

    EJ it’s going to be Alright, Blessings Be With You ❤

  • @bkmealsvegannonvegan4438
    @bkmealsvegannonvegan4438 Місяць тому +5

    He doing the I'm single video like everyone else 😂

  • @jonimeeks5011
    @jonimeeks5011 Місяць тому +9

    HEYY ZADDY CHUNK CHUNK & THE ZCC FAMILY HAPPY THANKFUL THURSDAY HAVE A BLESSED EVENING

  • @makeupwithshaq2631
    @makeupwithshaq2631 Місяць тому +10

    That’s really sad to hear, if she’s already moved on she been talking to that guy while in that relationship with you that’s what it sounds like. You deserve better EJ keep your head up if she’s already moved on it goes to show who cared more and it sounds like it was you. In the future you’ll find someone who appreciates you in every way keep healing ❤️‍🩹

  • @marthaenriquez7811
    @marthaenriquez7811 Місяць тому +2

    Happy Thursday Dalvin and EJ

  • @Gemini1973_
    @Gemini1973_ Місяць тому +1

    Just 🧡 you and EJ's friendship🎉

  • @chabrellernone7273
    @chabrellernone7273 Місяць тому +3

    What's up everyone good luck on your new journey y'all will meet up Again ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Happy Thursday😁😁😁😁😁 AMEN 🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @ChloeYoung-rq8ni
    @ChloeYoung-rq8ni Місяць тому +1

    One thing we know is that having a roommate helps him out a lot 😮😅

  • @patriciagreen9877
    @patriciagreen9877 Місяць тому

    God bless praying for you all. 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @oursflife
    @oursflife Місяць тому +1

    SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR BREAK UP EJ. THEY ARE TOUGH TO GO THROUGH. FROM (MISTER AND MRS LADY) AND NO, ALL WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME WHEN YOU SPOKE ABOUT A CERTAIN ISSUE. JUST LIKE ALL MEN ARE NOT THE SAME. BUT KEEP YOUR HEAD UP

  • @rondeleach593
    @rondeleach593 Місяць тому +5

    This was a great conversation Dalvin is a great friend. Glad to hear you are feeling better EJ hope you and your roommate continue to push forward. Can’t wait to see y’all grind 💯🔥💪🏾🖤🙏🏾

  • @AllDayFinesse
    @AllDayFinesse Місяць тому +10

    Please do not put your next relationship on YT. It’s gonna be a train wreck.

  • @Senca77
    @Senca77 Місяць тому +12

    Way to go Dalvin! You are a great friend… he needs a friend right now. 🎉

  • @susanlanderos5232
    @susanlanderos5232 Місяць тому +20

    😮😮😮😮 Dalvin Stop it...dude why not edit out the asking him to clean cilantro out his teeth. We couldn't even see it. Omg. You do stuff that's cringe. Then the Tea channels dawg you. STOP THINK DO BETTER. OMGOODNESS!! Brother dont need to lock in to no man. It's ok to be friends but dude you sound like you want him single for wrong reasons.😢✌💙🙏🏼

    • @MosesRail
      @MosesRail Місяць тому +13

      They're messing around

    • @actlikewho
      @actlikewho Місяць тому +5

      @@MosesRail 🎯🌈🎯💯

    • @reginamarnae5126
      @reginamarnae5126 27 днів тому

      What’s wrong with him telling the man he has something in his teeth?? Wouldn’t you want someone to tell you??

    • @actlikewho
      @actlikewho 27 днів тому +1

      @@reginamarnae5126 Either you're lying to yourself or new to the scene..Its more than that! Lol🥴

  • @DaraR3431
    @DaraR3431 Місяць тому +4

    Heyyyyy Dalvin!!!

  • @pauladunn956
    @pauladunn956 Місяць тому

    You will be alright.❤

  • @Julie-to4sk
    @Julie-to4sk Місяць тому +6

    Sounds like she was seeing someone else way before she left you .

    • @DalvinsUnofficialSecurity
      @DalvinsUnofficialSecurity Місяць тому

      You not a super hero with mind reading. EJ literally said this in the video. Acting like you figured some shit out. Lmao

  • @BGoode55
    @BGoode55 Місяць тому +5

    Dalvin...lmk if you hv better luck with guys than girls? In relationships. Not my business I'm just curious

  • @kristy4892
    @kristy4892 Місяць тому +5

    Dalvin, your heart is so pure and it shows. I love that you guys are gonna go to church together. Prayers for EJ’s broken heart. ❤️

    • @ZaddyChunkChunk
      @ZaddyChunkChunk  Місяць тому

      @@kristy4892 always looking out for my people

  • @renadavis3945
    @renadavis3945 Місяць тому +2

    Don't discourage him from going to church
    Jesus is his help and his hope Jesus saves 🙏

  • @MosesRail
    @MosesRail Місяць тому +35

    I know what it is she left you because she knows you're gay and you are messing around with dalvin.. it's time for both of y'all to come out! I guarantee she's going to come out with a video in due time.

    • @AshantiCarter-g9g
      @AshantiCarter-g9g Місяць тому +13

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 facts . The way he smiles and dalvin when he’s talking says it all😂

    • @antionetteblankenship2340
      @antionetteblankenship2340 Місяць тому +3

      You are out of order and be 🤐

    • @actlikewho
      @actlikewho Місяць тому +5

      ​@@AshantiCarter-g9g💯🌈💯🌈🎯

    • @Lelethatsme
      @Lelethatsme Місяць тому +3

      Ignorance is Bliss! Do better!

    • @DeceivingDishes7577
      @DeceivingDishes7577 Місяць тому +1

      Wow! SMH I hope u heal.

  • @azziegalloway7547
    @azziegalloway7547 Місяць тому +1

    Darwin tell your homeboy the friends interup because usually they want him will disrupt at all causes he sounds like a good guy if she's that light headed that's her fault they are putting a bug in her ear let him go about his business she will see or hear don'fall for the mess let her see the light and that faithful friend or family but don't rush to jump back into the relationship she showed you her do you sir not to quick to jump back God bless you all.

  • @tonijefferson685
    @tonijefferson685 Місяць тому +1

    What's up ZCC Family 😍

  • @moblessed
    @moblessed Місяць тому

    HEY DALVIN ❤. GREAT VIDEO THANK YOU FOR SHARING BE BLESSED.

  • @Beverly-wk1hj
    @Beverly-wk1hj Місяць тому +1

    Hey dalvin glad to see you back happy taco Tuesday enjoy your night🤎

  • @chantaearmstrong9227
    @chantaearmstrong9227 Місяць тому +6

    Awwww, EJ, don't know you, but keep your head up. Dalvin, you're awesome

  • @sharondathomas6313
    @sharondathomas6313 Місяць тому

    He lost himself. Self love and healing is your portion

  • @maggied2021
    @maggied2021 Місяць тому

    Peace and healing 🎉🎉

  • @cookingwuniquejae5115
    @cookingwuniquejae5115 Місяць тому

    Hey Dalvin and EJ peace and blessings too u both

  • @bernadinejones6318
    @bernadinejones6318 Місяць тому

    Oh there were too many signs. What goes around comes around. What was done to you it will come back to her. So don’t take her back.because she may try. Glad you over it.

  • @bamachic3084
    @bamachic3084 Місяць тому

    Those tacos look good and so does Ej 😍

  • @dellanixon7657
    @dellanixon7657 Місяць тому +1

    Dalvin the Food is not going to 🏃 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @Heather-s8t
    @Heather-s8t Місяць тому +2

    Awesome content

  • @melissabrowne5533
    @melissabrowne5533 Місяць тому +2

    What is the name of this spot you got the tacos from?

  • @latranquilagr28
    @latranquilagr28 Місяць тому +1

    We women say the same thing dating is trash I'm not looking to date since losing my husband however I'm young enough that I do eventually want a mate, my husband was my person so I'm taking my time

  • @natashajsworldovercomers266
    @natashajsworldovercomers266 Місяць тому +2

    Hey y’all…. The food looks good and what’s going on omg 😮

  • @Nickyloveslove
    @Nickyloveslove Місяць тому

    I'm Praying for total healing 🎉

  • @christinepatterson5632
    @christinepatterson5632 Місяць тому +4

    But when the signs were there, did you ask? Did you talk?

  • @deborahcooper4184
    @deborahcooper4184 Місяць тому +4

    Hi Zaddy and EJ

  • @michellejackson3352
    @michellejackson3352 Місяць тому +4

    Hey EJ...I'm glad to see that you are hanging out with the homie...I feel like you are in a better place since you and Nina broke up...May God continue to bless you and give you strength as you move forward....keep your head up...Hey Zaddy Chunk Chunk✌️🙏

  • @latoyajibodu5498
    @latoyajibodu5498 Місяць тому +2

    Hey Dalvin ❤❤❤❤❤ and EJ ❤❤❤❤