I watched this just screaming to myself, 'You idiot, can't you see how much she cares for and loves you?!' It'll hit him one day if it hasn't already. By then it will be too late.
I dunno, some things are both upsetting and ok/bearable at the same time. She’s still mourning the life she imagined she’d have with him, but I don’t get the impression she truly regrets the split.
Bruh I literally shed tears for this woman. You can feel her pain through the screen...damn that was intense. O'Lord have mercy on me and never let me hurt someone like this
damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ? The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about
Such a lovely thing to say! I was expecting to read “oh god please don’t let this happen to me”, but no! I’m sure that you won’t and even if you do, you will be be extra careful with handling it, and that’s because you’re already worried of hurting the feelings of another human being!! I may not believe, but God bless you!!
She looks like she just did the divorce so she wasn't stuck with someone who no longer wanted to be married to her. Her eyes are full of pain. His demeanor is totally different.
clip012 Im so sorry :( After such a long time, its so hard they knew so much about you, events that happend bonded you, dreams built together, etc etc. The pain is not comparable to other relationships, and you will sort of look for that person in others. It will take such a long time to get used to. But I can promise, once you get over it, you are no longer affected, the pain somehow disappears, and you will find a strength you never knew. You can love again but this time, you will love deeper. Focus on your mistakes, improve them. Take the time to see things from a different perspective. Turn to Knowledge to better yourself. What is a mature person? When is it ok to be angry? If youre a believer in God, turn to Him. I did. Sometimes, my past comes back unexpectedely, randomly, but it doesnt leave me in pain. I just see how much i have changed and i know that person cannot hurt me anymore. Life has taken me in another direction. It took me a solid year and half to finally be free from suffering. I was left. I was broken. And I rebuild myself. Mostly alone. You can too. I wrote this to you, so you know you are not alone, and what youre going through you will overcome maybe not today, maybe in a year or 2. But you will and you choose who you become. You choose how the pain molds you. I wish you the best and wait for you to one day be free like many of us.
This girl cried shitless before this show started airing. I feel so much sympathy for her, who suggested this video to me? Now I i've one more soul I'm feeling sympathy on
This is why I quit being a wedding photographer after 10 years. Half my couples kept getting divorced, and I spent a lot of time with them and their stories of love. Then I’d hear their stories of falling out of love. Over time I thought my job was becoming pointless, then I slowly begin to hate it, hate the wedding days. And no couple deserves that. The last straw was when one of my cards malfunctioned and the couple wanted to sue me because I lost like 10 minutes of their precious day. Fast forward to now, they are divorced. So I guess I don’t have to feel guilty anymore. Present day… i shoot real estate, and it pays the bills! No drama with couples and their families. A much better fit for me. 😊
Just a suggestion, but maybe not keep up with the couples you photographed? Maybe just think of their wedding shoot as their happy day and leave it at that?
@@WhiteRabbitDreams yeah I was thinking the same? I have never met a wedding photographer who gets personally involved with clientele....just stay professional, right? And move on...
You were hired to take wedding photos and you lose them? Smdh. Just go back to being a McDonald's cashier. Never mind, you'll probably end up losing all the money in the cash register.
Wow! The pain in her face and eyes is so strong 😢 I feel so bad for her. This is way too soon to have done this. Her heart is still very much in love with him.
damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ?
One of the most psychologically damaging things someone can experience is being rejected from someone you care so much about. I can literally feel the pain she feels rn and it sucks.
When you really care about someone, you can understand their need to end a relationship that’s not working for them, even though it hurts. When you want someone to be with you even though it’s bad for them, that’s not caring for them, that’s selfishly wanting them.
Ikr it's awful. awful. She didn't even like him at first and he's the one that ended it 😩! He seems like a decent dude but I really feel like there marriage could have work if some adjustments were made before they divorced based off of what he shared.
@@rflo458 bcoz mostly women cheat . she looks like someone who is regretting of what she did . just to not damage her image , he might have not told about the cheating story here and also his the reason he told for divorce doesnt seem legit.
@@furyroad028 Do you have a specific article you can refer to in order to back up your point regarding women cheating more than men; I would like to read further into that. Regarding this couple, if she cheated, I doubt he would do a joint video or meet up with her. I'm sure he'd be more angry and dismissive if she had indeed do that, but at this point it's mere speculation.
Marriage isn't all about love. There are times when love will not be enough. Thats when commitment, loyalty, and the promises you made before God and witnesses come in.
I thought that too. She didn't get the opportunity to have a clean break when he turned to her when he couldn't cope and hit 'drank too much'. They both need a clean break. Tbh, I wonder if either of them can move on after what I've observed.
damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks
@@rflo458 Yea I agree. There’s so reason for them to get close again as “friends” now after being divorced and apart for an assumingely long amount of time. That’s just asking to make everything messier than it already is and unnecessary pain for the both of them.
This comment has the same vibe as "she used me as a friend and now she wont even sleep with me. this is betrayal." What do you mean by "leaves his wife heartbroken"?? No one should have to stay in a suffering relationship because the other person loves them. It's literally called emotional abuse. If she is heartbroken, she should have put more effort into the marriage. Everyone is entitled to their choices.
It does. He walked away because he didn't wanna put in the work. Then he nearly killed himself with alcohol and came back for her to pick up the pieces but didn't even care enough to love her again...
I think they BOTH still have feelings for EACH OTHER!!! OR rather, they still romantically love each other. Like it was said above, maybe the work needs to be put in.
This was really sad to watch, because unless I'm reading it wrong, she still has strong feelings for him. At least that's how I interpreted it. And he's kind of let go, and he's done with it.
damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ? The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about , ya some guys are cheaters and they have like a 100 girlfriends but its rare , girls are usually to blame , girls complain too much , stop complaining man , life is hard
As men were told not to show emotion but when we're brave enough to show them we get made fun of by society, men and women. Men are better at hiding their emotions because that's what society taught. One way men deal with their emotions is drown them in alcohol. And he moved away and drank until he moved back and needed help. I wouldn't say he didn't care.
Julier Reis Like for real, who does this. This poor woman is obviously devastated and you don’t even have a articulable reason for wanting a divorce? I really hope that’s not true and it that story was just not airing dirty laundry. But Christ, has this person ever had a single moment of introspection?
Right? Whatever happened to working through problems to find a solution? If your approach to life is to give up Everytime something is difficult, you're not going to accomplish much
Gaea Once married, you do have an obligation. You literally bind yourself to that person, and promise to stay with them no matter what. Of course there are decent reasons to divorce - abuse, infidelity, etc .. HOWEVER, marriage is not the same as dating. There is certainly an obligation to stay w/ that person.
@@gaea2580 um... you are when you get married! You take vows. It's suppose to be an everlasting promise. Till DEATH DO US PART. I mean hello, no one takes marriage seriously anymore.
Her instincts when she first met him were“no”, and she should have stuck with that intuition. Pretty wack that this dude came running to her for support, when he needed saving after dumping her.
Im not fully with you. I don’t think they should hate each other or that she should spend the rest for her life resenting him. That’s not a healthy mind set to have and I think as long as both people have moved on, yes, they can still be good friends. Sadly, in this video you can see she still clearly hasn’t moved on and at times like these I do condone complete separation. Friendship can’t work if you hide your emotions.
I wouldn't say Wasted, I've been in Relationships that didn't work out but I wouldn't say they was wasted years, We had Fun and Great Times and I truly loved some of them just because I didn't end up being with them Forever doesn't mean it was Wasted. I'm Happier Now and in Very Deep Love but My Relationships before helped me get here and I thank them for the Learning Expierience. I guess you either become Jaded or Move on and Learn from your Experiences, sometimes you have to change the vision of a "Perfect Relationship" in your head in order to truly be Happy.
What is sad is he said their jobs got in the way and they never saw each other. You dont end a marriage over jobs for Gods sake!!! You committed your lives to each other!!! You change jobs and do whatever you have to, to protect your marriage!! The problem is young people dont take marriage seriously!!
I agree! I just got married in mid 2018 so I’m far from experienced in the marriage department, but my husband and I both hold traditional values when it comes to marriage. By that I mean we are determined to work through any problems we encounter and do everything we possibly can to resolve them before resorting to something like divorce. We got married young (I was 21 and he was 23) so we had a few people in our ears with some “young marriages don’t last” and “your generation doesn’t know how to be married” comments. And I agree, most of my generation really doesn’t know how to be married. And I’m not naive, I know things happen and people grow apart. But in my opinion the only unforgivable/unfixable problems are cheating or abusiveness. Anything outside that, at least to my husband and I, can be overcome.
Cherieka Spells That’s ridiculous of them. As you said why not just change jobs?! Even if they could not change jobs, I’m sure they could of found time somehow. Ugh.
Yeah but if you change as a person and things just are not getting any better, how can you grow? Sometimes the best thing is to end and begin again. Marriage is a contract. Love is forever.
From the beginning her nose was red. To me that was an indication that she had been crying. She seems like she didn't get the right closure. Almost like she could've asked him, "What did I do wrong?" and he probably gave her an answer like, "I just don't want to be married anymore." If this is the case, then I could see why moving on is hard for her. Not having the proper closure can be torture. He seems like the type of person that if he gets bored with someone or something he just simply moves on. This type of people are very unstable and really don't like responsibility. Not judging him but when you are getting other people's lives and feelings involved this can be a disaster. Marriage is hard work and it's not for the faint of heart. I hope these two find a healthy way to move on especially her.
Wyoming Oregon actually, this is also indicator of that he is not a good spouse. He is not a reliable person in the long run. If they had children, this attitude could be very problematic. So, the women should accept this situation and move on. On the other hand, we still don't know exactly why the man wanted to be free more. He might be suppressed a lot, and wanted his happiness again as he was single.
I won't judge him from a 5 minute video. Moreover we never know how things were. NO ONE SHOULD STAY IN AN ABUSIVE OR SUFFERING MARRIAGE. He could have cheated but he broke up 👍🏻. Moreover comments are against him from women cuz they empathise with the lady's tears n cuz they are taking this personally. However, women divorce for frivolous reasons allll the time
damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ?
This man is a fool. It was HIS idea to get married, promising to love her for life....and then he changes his mind? Because of some job stress or some BS? Be a man of your word.
She did not lose her looks. It was taken from her by the pain of rejection and neglect from the one that was supposed to spend her youth with her, not crush it.
A lot of men are weak minded... and they call women weak, people have no idea how much BS women put up with. But we are human and can only take it for so long
Dang, she does not need to be friends with him because she still loves him. And she needs to find someone more emotionally available. But all of that is easier said than done :/
They divorced because they have little time for each other? So if they got another partner each, what makes them think their job will magically take up less time of their lives?
Akmal Ahmed That's interesting. Is there a study that shows this? To me, it seems that couples who spent more time discussing about the future, their values, etc. will be less likely to divorce each other. I guess upper class couples tend to spend more time understanding each other? Or those who can plan ahead are less likely to divorce each other, regardless of class?
Lol that's not true I'm away from home a lot and things are good, well we do argue but I would never leave someone because of my job and any two people that love each other wouldn't use the whole "we don't have time for each other" excuse.
I'm sure there is a lot more to it. They weren't communicating, they weren't prioritising each other. They no longer felt Important to each other. Resentments built, they stopped trying. There is a lot not being said, clearly.
damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ? The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about , ya some guys are cheaters and they have like a 100 girlfriends but its rare , girls are usually to blame , girls complain too much , stop complaining man , life is hard . Much respect to the guy and former husband in the video, what a great couple , wtf would you break up ?
Same happened to me. He got stressed, lost his job, fell into a depression, and apparently it was my fault. He left me. I fought for it. He said there was no point. He didn't want to fight and so I let go because I am not a sales person who needs to convince the man she married to stay. People give up so easily nowadays because the honeymoon period isn't forever. It's like fighting for something precious is harder than letting go. Ladies and gentlemen, we do not need that kind of "love." Accept it, let go, move on, pray for them, and heal.
This man took a beautiful rose plant and pulled every bud and petal and left it dried a withered. He is Immature and after all this time still is and downright selfish.
So women don't have the responsibility to pick a good man to marry? Why is it that you think she's a victim? A divorce doesn't just fall out of the sky. Looking at her haircut seems very selfish to me. No consideration for your man to look good for him.
damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ? The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about , ya some guys are cheaters and they have like a 100 girlfriends but its rare , girls are usually to blame , girls complain too much , stop complaining man , life is hard
OMG, Sis. I just want to hug her. She looks so depressed and defeated. Ah, man. This is hard to watch. I pray her heart heals, she learns to love herself more and finds that love within someone else ❤
TheCommunistTurtle I have no idea what you’re talking about. I’m not saying literally no couples last, just that in our society the vows that come with marriage are not looked at with the seriousness and lifelong dedication like they were in past decades and centuries. Divorce is far too common and younger people are getting married way too quick and ditching right away when things get rough. My dad and stepmom were married for 12 years too and still got divorced. It happens a lot.
@@isrulius I'd say despite the divorce shes living up to her vows. Even after she was and is there for him in sickness and in health, rich or poorer...they might not be married but she could be there till he or she dies. Just saying g
I guess it depends on the couple. My husband and i met going on 20 years now with 5 kids. We dated for about 2 months when he asked me to marry him and we married 2months after that. We have had only 2 major fights. After the last one we promised eachother no more hurting the other. We talk it out and actually listen to eachother coming up with peaceful solutions to not cause that pain. Everyday our love just continues to grow. Every touch is like the first. I still get butterflies when i look into his eyes. I still catch him watching me walk across the room like he did when we met. We don't stay together for the kids or our family or because we think we have to. We stay because life is impossible without eachother. Some are just so quick to give up when a bump in the road comes. If you can give up that fast then there really isn't love there. If it were you would fight to the death to protect and keep that love. Love does not give up.
I love how the guy chases this girl, makes her fall in love with him, he asks her to marry him and then he divorces her.. this poor girl is clearly suffering. You don’t ask someone to be with you forever and then turn around when things get hard and ask them for a divorce. What did you think marriage was going to be like? Easy all the time? You’re both adults of course you’re never going to see each other all the time. ‘It could have easily gone the other way’ yeah, but you quit doing the work necessary to stay happy.
Heather Kavanagh when they said they hadn’t spent enough time together because of their jobs, that work was what ruined things, I just can’t imagine not changing my work life in order to save life with my husband. I think it’s why Hollywood marriages fail too, if your job gets in the way then you get rid of the job not the spouse. But i don’t know the truth of their story.
i got a question for you lady.. what if a guy finds a beautiful girl. of course they gonna act all nice in the beginning "honeymoon" they fall in love and get married...2-5 years down the line he sees her true personality which isn't good..then he realizes he doesn't want her anymore. what should he do ?
no he expected a normal housewife and not some individual chasing after their own stuff having 0 focus on their family ... but he realized this too late .. must guys don't want women who work ..most normal guys ....
They were married for 10 years he obviously knew the honey moon period was over, life just gets in the way whether its stress or a job, and sometimes marriages cant make it when times get tough... So don't only blame it on the guy...
Because that happens. When you life together for a long time but it dies slowly out and then you become roommates. Once you become roommates it's difficult to become a couple again. It's an age old story. Doesn't mean you don't love the person anymore just that the relationship love is gone.
pieprzonylogin i thought the same thing. They where married for 10 years almost and he couldn’t find a different job or try to fix it. I feel bad for her she looks in love still.
I can see that the girl is still hurting. If I were her I don't want to reminisce all the beautiful things that happened when we were still in love because it will only make me cry.
He ran instead of fighting for his marriage. His hurt caused her the current pain. They both love each other, but don’t know how to deal with whatever they’re going through. I FIRMLY believe that if one of them said “I Love You,” and he apologized, they could be on the path to reconciliation and PROBABLY married again.
He would need some counseling to find another way to handle his probs with their marriage if he wanted the relationship to work . They both need help to do that. She needs to work on self worth because right now I think she is settling for whatever crumbs she can get from him. She needs to learn that she is worth having the whole meal - the whole man. She is breaking her own heart over and over. Hopefully she will move on soon.
My ex cheated on me and after months she is back begging for forgiveness. Eventually we are talking and are now just friends and I am dating another girl right now. Dating my ex was like going through hell but she is one of the most helping people out there. I will never forget some things she did for me. She is trying to redeem herself now and I will forgive her soon I guess. I dont know why I am sharing this but seeing how these people are sharing their story to the whole world, I thought I'd share mine with a few. Have a good day everyone. :)
Is it bad that I keep myself isolated because this right here is my worst fear with love? I am scared of loving someone so much and then they leave me. This is so devastating.
I Am Happy And I Deserve It Not everyone has the same mindset. It would be boring if we did, but it is also full of uncertainty. I guess I'm just really fragile, even if I put up a tough front. :(
As a Gen Z heterosexual childless single young man myself whose never been on a single date once in my life, never once been in a romantic relationship, never been married once in my life, never had kids once at all. I find this video to be so depressing to watch but in the same time I am so relieved to be aromantic meaning I don’t desire or seek any loving romantic relationship. I am only interested in friendship period. To all my fellow human brothers and sisters around the world always remember be genuine & take care of one another.
So sad to watch. They both seem to be lovely caring people. We've been married 43 years and people change and relationships go through different phases over the years. Sometimes you have to stop and remember what drew you together in the first place. Is that still the same person inside. We all change. There were times when I honestly thought of walking away, but I'm so happy I didn't. I think staying is sometimes harder to do but it's much more rewarding. If you truly love somebody, do everything in your power to make it work. No matter what happens...forgive them and/or forgive yourself. It's the greatest gift you can give and/or receive.
You guys are funny. So money =love? People are getting engaged with $500,000 rings but then divorce 72 days later... and other never had wedding rings but are still together... mawa 😒
Yep. I don’t want a wedding ring. I don’t like jewelry. But no money?? I would never marry a man who isn’t financially stable. He doesn’t need to make more than me or even the exact same, but he has to have his finances in order.
I can tell that they both still have feelings for each other, the way he looks at her is like he realized he messed up high eyes are the windows to the soul
When you grow apart, that's when the hard work starts. It's not time to end it, it's time to mend it. This is very sad. But I thank this couple for allowing this video. I wonder why people divorce so easily. My husband and I have been married over 17yrs, and it's not all bliss, but we work hard at it, we struggle together, for better or worse..... I hope these two find their way back. They clearly still love each other.
@mrslabayen I think the reason people divorce so easily comes down to how much they want it, the marriage. I'm not married, mind you. but in my short time alive on this earth, I've come to see that the more you want something, the harder you are willing to work for it. Some people just don't want to stay married that badly, they aren't willing to put in the effort.
Being friends let's him only have the parts he wants. He turned to her when his life was falling apart.i mean really? U ended dude, but u still need her? I don't stay friends with my ex's. They dont want u head out the door. Why should they get the best part of u? Screw that.
There are divorces that I accept.. The cheating on the other, abusive relationship... Those type.. Divorces that happen because of "stress", or "no love anymore" needs a time out. That is something you can talk about and fix. Especially if you happen to have children. Your kids get affected by it as well... But who am I to say? It's your life
I totally agree, if the situation isn't toxic, it should be able to be worked out. I'm not married yet, but I have been with my best friend for 4 years and could never imagine parting ways with them over something like this. Absolutely not judging this couple because we don't know their lives, but it's true that a lot of couples just give up and divorce so easily when they could put in the work and make their relationship better. People believe too easily that the grass is greener on the other side.
That.....was.....so....damn heartbreaking. You both are amazing ppl. AND WHY AM I CRYING SO HARD FOR YOU GUYS? I WANT YOU TO LOVE EACH OTHER AGAIN!! I need tissue.
The thing is that they DO love one another. Sadly, loving someone means needing to making choices. This is one. If they kept going their relationship would become unhealthy and they would be unhappy
CC Mania we never really fall out of love per se’, one simply just stops trying to find or look at the things that make them in love in the first place. Love is a choice you make everyday and if that person you were with says they have ‘fallen out of love’ it simply means they are done choosing to love you everyday.
Happened to me after 12 years , the hard part is I loved him the same and was extremely happy in my marriage. The pain is THE worse...but life goes on, slowly but surely Im getting there, I am wayy too fine to waste on solitude.
It really breaks my heart when two people divorce but only one of them wanted it 😔 Edit: Wow thanks for all the likes y'all. I came back to this video because I remembered how deep it hit me. I'm not married and my parents are still together so I've never experienced a divorce but this video, still, makes me cry like a baby.
@@lalagirl211 You are talking about misery but you seem pretty miserable yourself what's the point on going on with life? I mean for what do you live your days for? I am not trying to be mean just want to understand your point of view.
This was difficult to watch because of how much she still clearly loves this dude. He needs to realize it's not easy finding someone who would still look at you the way she does, despite everything.
Or maybe she needs to realize that maybe he just isn’t the one for her, and instead of sobbing over him, she should find someone who is as much in love with her as she is with him. And ik it’s easier said than done, but it’ll only make it harder the more you stay stuck in the past
There's a reason behind the divorce.. that guy didn't just wake up and decided to kick her out.. y'all gonna sit here and act like she's an angel sdupid beta ferggots
Yeah exactly, If you have someone that loves you your suppose to stay and you fix what there is with each other. Thats what a true man would do.....Only reason would be he wanted to be with other women.
Yeah I got the impression that it was one of those "grass is greener on the other side" type of things for him. 'This isn't good anymore so it needs to end altogether' as opposed to 'this isn't so good anymore so it needs to change.' Sucks cause she sounds like she was blindsided by it. Many people give up easily not realizing that all relationships will ebb and flow and at times need more effort than others to be fulfilling. But as long as there's still real affection there, which it seems like there is, then it can be improved.
I literally feel her heartache. I went through this also. 😢I had 3 children and 20 years of marriage with him. He left me for his mistress. That was 23 years ago. It still hurts at times but not as bad.
damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ? The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about , ya some guys are cheaters and they have like a 100 girlfriends but its rare , girls are usually to blame , girls complain too much , stop complaining man , life is hard . Much respect to the guy and former husband in the video, what a great couple , wtf would you break up ? its cleat that she isn't in love with him but his in love with her , again its the girls fault
Seidy l.p. Yeah dude, I don’t have a lot of friends, so even if things get bad I can just move on and forget because if I don’t then I won’t find other people
She looks like she has been crying so hard before they turned the cameras on
Sally May hes like meh , and just nervous to see the women still loves him.. in his little mind thinking lets get this over with
That's very correct, woman's voice and eyes never lie
Sally May I feel bad for her. She probably told her herself to get it over with and tried to stay strong.
This breaks my heart
In her voice you can tell
The way she was holding her tears was painful to watch, this is actually heartbreaking.
Yeah
Yeah. The whole time she looked like she was about to burst into tears... Painful to watch 😢
She is already teary-eyed and red nose. I couldn’t just hold my tears watching her.
She has noone in this life, and her drunkard husband left her too
I watched this just screaming to myself, 'You idiot, can't you see how much she cares for and loves you?!'
It'll hit him one day if it hasn't already. By then it will be too late.
She sounded like she's trying to convince herself that she's ok.
💔💔💔
*But she's not*
She still loves him
I dunno, some things are both upsetting and ok/bearable at the same time. She’s still mourning the life she imagined she’d have with him, but I don’t get the impression she truly regrets the split.
Her expression and the way she talk... she wanted to burst in her emotions but want to keep them.
Bruh I literally shed tears for this woman. You can feel her pain through the screen...damn that was intense. O'Lord have mercy on me and never let me hurt someone like this
damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ?
The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about
Such a lovely thing to say! I was expecting to read “oh god please don’t let this happen to me”, but no! I’m sure that you won’t and even if you do, you will be be extra careful with handling it, and that’s because you’re already worried of hurting the feelings of another human being!! I may not believe, but God bless you!!
@@sinabagherisarvestani8924 It's because we don't have enough, but boys have too many.
She looks like she just did the divorce so she wasn't stuck with someone who no longer wanted to be married to her. Her eyes are full of pain. His demeanor is totally different.
Darkstroy 2099 what a jerk thing to say !!
This was a depressing video to watch, but I did LOL at this comment.
There are pain in her eyes. I was recently dumped like bad fruit after 11 years of on and off relationship. I am teary only by looking at her.
clip012 Im so sorry :( After such a long time, its so hard they knew so much about you, events that happend bonded you, dreams built together, etc etc. The pain is not comparable to other relationships, and you will sort of look for that person in others. It will take such a long time to get used to. But I can promise, once you get over it, you are no longer affected, the pain somehow disappears, and you will find a strength you never knew. You can love again but this time, you will love deeper. Focus on your mistakes, improve them. Take the time to see things from a different perspective. Turn to Knowledge to better yourself. What is a mature person? When is it ok to be angry? If youre a believer in God, turn to Him. I did. Sometimes, my past comes back unexpectedely, randomly, but it doesnt leave me in pain. I just see how much i have changed and i know that person cannot hurt me anymore. Life has taken me in another direction. It took me a solid year and half to finally be free from suffering. I was left. I was broken. And I rebuild myself. Mostly alone. You can too. I wrote this to you, so you know you are not alone, and what youre going through you will overcome maybe not today, maybe in a year or 2. But you will and you choose who you become. You choose how the pain molds you. I wish you the best and wait for you to one day be free like many of us.
Taylor K completely true and very sad. Often divorce isn’t wanted by both parties (obviously)
This girl cried shitless before this show started airing. I feel so much sympathy for her, who suggested this video to me? Now I i've one more soul I'm feeling sympathy on
Man😣
😭😭 this made me cry also
😂
@@refilwemay8138 Oh
She doesn’t seem okay
Shes clearly still in love with the guy.
@Mohamed Saad username checks out
@Mohamed Saad no one arguing you here man...what happened to you? Haha
Mohamed Saad LMFAOOOOOOOO who broke your little heart
Mohamed Saad what’s wrong with you...
Mohamed Saad What does that “fact” have to do with this relationship?
This is why I quit being a wedding photographer after 10 years. Half my couples kept getting divorced, and I spent a lot of time with them and their stories of love. Then I’d hear their stories of falling out of love. Over time I thought my job was becoming pointless, then I slowly begin to hate it, hate the wedding days. And no couple deserves that. The last straw was when one of my cards malfunctioned and the couple wanted to sue me because I lost like 10 minutes of their precious day. Fast forward to now, they are divorced. So I guess I don’t have to feel guilty anymore.
Present day… i shoot real estate, and it pays the bills! No drama with couples and their families. A much better fit for me. 😊
Emotions hormones and commitments are temporary, human ability to promise and commit itself is flawed
Just a suggestion, but maybe not keep up with the couples you photographed? Maybe just think of their wedding shoot as their happy day and leave it at that?
@@WhiteRabbitDreams yeah I was thinking the same? I have never met a wedding photographer who gets personally involved with clientele....just stay professional, right? And move on...
You were hired to take wedding photos and you lose them? Smdh. Just go back to being a McDonald's cashier. Never mind, you'll probably end up losing all the money in the cash register.
😮
You'll never know the value of someone unless you lose them. This was so meaningful.
You actually know...
You just didn't know you'll lose them.
that’s not what this vid is about though
Truth 👍
Loom Geek t
Loom Geek That doesn’t apply to my dad. He had a domestic violence incident with my mom and they don’t get along.
She was glowing before marriage. The divorce broke her so bad. I wish she could pick her beautiful self up and let him go
Yea she hasn’t aged well.
@@FransceneJK98 supermarket? all
@@FransceneJK98 at all
I totally agree.
It might just be that she misses her youthful self. She is still beautiful lady.
Wow! The pain in her face and eyes is so strong 😢 I feel so bad for her. This is way too soon to have done this. Her heart is still very much in love with him.
Kimberly Binion I know I thought she was gonna break down while looking at their wedding pictures :( my heart hurts for her
As a guy I can tell this dude is going throught complete hell, that kiss in the end isnt intentional its necessary for him. He literally cant help it.
I hope they can figure out a way to work this out. They should honestly try to fix the problems instead of give up on each other.
Mark Torrez I'm surprised he didn't get a sexual assault charge
This poor woman, you can tell she truly cares for him even still. I pray she gets the man she deserves.
Same for him.
She won’t
And he too deserves someone who has time for the relationship🥺
damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ?
It’s up to her and if she or he doesn’t want anyone else, you should respect that.
One of the most psychologically damaging things someone can experience is being rejected from someone you care so much about. I can literally feel the pain she feels rn and it sucks.
Ikr I feel like I was about to cry as she was holding back tears
It's something I've been through. I feel for her!
True.. they say rejection causes traumatic experience
When you really care about someone, you can understand their need to end a relationship that’s not working for them, even though it hurts. When you want someone to be with you even though it’s bad for them, that’s not caring for them, that’s selfishly wanting them.
Ikr it's awful. awful. She didn't even like him at first and he's the one that ended it 😩! He seems like a decent dude but I really feel like there marriage could have work if some adjustments were made before they divorced based off of what he shared.
That kiss on the cheek at the end, I felt her heart crack 💔😭
I could have never done that. It broke my heart in pain only by seeing her do that 💔
Same 🤤😭😟
@The Meek?
How did you come to that conclusion?
@@rflo458 bcoz mostly women cheat . she looks like someone who is regretting of what she did . just to not damage her image , he might have not told about the cheating story here and also his the reason he told for divorce doesnt seem legit.
@@furyroad028 Do you have a specific article you can refer to in order to back up your point regarding women cheating more than men; I would like to read further into that.
Regarding this couple, if she cheated, I doubt he would do a joint video or meet up with her. I'm sure he'd be more angry and dismissive if she had indeed do that, but at this point it's mere speculation.
She looks like she’s been through some things since the marriage.
Definitely. Shes changed so much physically from the wedding pictures to now. She looked a lot better back then. Not so much now. Hope she is ok
It’s chemo, you can tell 🥺
TheRamon81 yeah I seen that right off the bat and my heart shattered. She’s really beautiful and needs another light go fulfill her darkness.
She's probably more emotionally distraught than anything which often leads to people not taking care of themselves as good
You Too its not about not taking care of herself she look sick, she might have other preoccupation then looking good...
Marriage isn't all about love. There are times when love will not be enough. Thats when commitment, loyalty, and the promises you made before God and witnesses come in.
Thats absolutely correct
💯
I like this words..
Yes, I’ve always said this.
This comment is sorely underrated
Its was a beautiful piece but it's clear that the divorce broke her in ways we cannot see.
Grace Jibril you mean in ways WE CAN SEE. You can tell she is completely broken.
Grace Jibril true😭😭😭
Absolutely, we can see clearly. But he appears oblivious....it's horrible
shes very strong. she sees the good , she values the friendship and also said 'things will be good again. things are good'.
It did
Leaves his wife heartbroken... leans on her to get thru the divorce.. lol
That's just Cruelty
I thought that too. She didn't get the opportunity to have a clean break when he turned to her when he couldn't cope and hit 'drank too much'. They both need a clean break. Tbh, I wonder if either of them can move on after what I've observed.
damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks
@@rflo458 Yea I agree. There’s so reason for them to get close again as “friends” now after being divorced and apart for an assumingely long amount of time. That’s just asking to make everything messier than it already is and unnecessary pain for the both of them.
This comment has the same vibe as "she used me as a friend and now she wont even sleep with me. this is betrayal." What do you mean by "leaves his wife heartbroken"?? No one should have to stay in a suffering relationship because the other person loves them. It's literally called emotional abuse. If she is heartbroken, she should have put more effort into the marriage. Everyone is entitled to their choices.
She still really loves him and it shows! 😢
It does. He walked away because he didn't wanna put in the work. Then he nearly killed himself with alcohol and came back for her to pick up the pieces but didn't even care enough to love her again...
Exactly 😭
You can love somebody but still have to walk away....
Marlissa Cunningham as a guy looking from a guy’s perspective... you’re still right 😂
I think they BOTH still have feelings for EACH OTHER!!! OR rather, they still romantically love each other. Like it was said above, maybe the work needs to be put in.
Props to them for wanting to maintain a relationship, let alone sharing it to other people.
🌵🌱🌵 Don't Look At My Name 🌵🌱🌵
roentgen6 ik
roentgen6 I
roentgen6 especially if they have kids together that’s the best thing they could have done ✅
David Suave you have a generic channel, spice it up man
This was really sad to watch, because unless I'm reading it wrong, she still has strong feelings for him. At least that's how I interpreted it. And he's kind of let go, and he's done with it.
jennifer wellman and he prolly an alcoholic
Usually thats how men are...they dont care like women do
jennifer wellman yeah I feel the same.
jennifer wellman at the 5:05 mark you can tell he cares too. Just putting up a front that he doesn’t.
183 likes in 17 minutes 🤯🤨
This is sad. Why go through this moment? She looks terribly sad.
The sad reason is all for him, she still wants him even if only a friend.
damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ?
The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about , ya some guys are cheaters and they have like a 100 girlfriends but its rare , girls are usually to blame , girls complain too much , stop complaining man , life is hard
She’s devastated and he’s fine.this is so sad.she played it off like she’s ok and he looked liked the past ten years never happened.
mikeandrita718
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Men just tend to hide emotions better....that’s all
I dont think so. He was longing to hold her it was very obvious to me that he still loves her.
True
As men were told not to show emotion but when we're brave enough to show them we get made fun of by society, men and women. Men are better at hiding their emotions because that's what society taught. One way men deal with their emotions is drown them in alcohol. And he moved away and drank until he moved back and needed help. I wouldn't say he didn't care.
He is too impulsive. Proposal came quick, then wanting a divorce. Better off without him. He’s too selfish.
Seems like it huh but they where married for ten years..
Two to make 1, 2 to break 1.
@@MaryJane-tp3qd or they were living in the same house for 10 years
Yes.. Agreed
Your comment about a total stranger is too impulsive. Whoever you're with is better off without you. You're too selfish.
i was crying two minutes in and when they hugged and he kissed her on the cheek i DONT KNOW WHAT CAME OVER ME I CRIED LIKE I WAS GETTING DIVORCED
raphaela i think he kissed her on the cheek as natural instinct
I cried too. That was hard to watch. 😢
YESSS EXACTLY ME DEAR GOD
I think they still love each other but there is more to it than
We see 😩
I feel so sorry for her. She still looks really hurt. He was a completely selfish jerk. People don't talk and try to make the things better anymore?
Julier Reis Like for real, who does this. This poor woman is obviously devastated and you don’t even have a articulable reason for wanting a divorce? I really hope that’s not true and it that story was just not airing dirty laundry. But Christ, has this person ever had a single moment of introspection?
Right? Whatever happened to working through problems to find a solution? If your approach to life is to give up Everytime something is difficult, you're not going to accomplish much
@@shinraholdings7281 No one is obligated to stay in a relationship, no matter what the reason may be
Gaea Once married, you do have an obligation. You literally bind yourself to that person, and promise to stay with them no matter what. Of course there are decent reasons to divorce - abuse, infidelity, etc .. HOWEVER, marriage is not the same as dating. There is certainly an obligation to stay w/ that person.
@@gaea2580 um... you are when you get married! You take vows. It's suppose to be an everlasting promise. Till DEATH DO US PART. I mean hello, no one takes marriage seriously anymore.
Her instincts when she first met him were“no”, and she should have stuck with that intuition. Pretty wack that this dude came running to her for support, when he needed saving after dumping her.
Very astute observation
Thats right. So right.
I can relate. Those end up always being the most toxic relationships too. Your intuition is never wrong!
So basically he didn’t even try to make it work. So rather than get another job that could save the marriage settle for a divorce. Mmmmmm lame.
Lame for real....
He basically said he just didn't want to try anymore in the marriage. also he proposed at a concert when he was drunk like bruhhh 🤦♂️🤦♂️😫
Indeed.
To be fair she doesn't deserve him
Ikr it’s not that hard to get another job with different hours
Her hands are shaking this is hard to watch
-PhoenixFireFangirl - dude stfu
Shes in love with him still, its heart breaking
his hands were shaking too aww
She looked like she cried alot right before filming..sad.
@@bluecube6803 Yes, and nobody pitys you. Sad.
A couple can't be friends, those feelings never vanishes.
That's not always the case, my parents got a divorce, and they're 100% fine being friends.
@@euphoria2166 that's what you think
@@3vilah3ad that's what you think
Just A UA-camr that's what you think
@@pursuitsoflife.6119 some couple can be friends whether you believe it or not that's true
You shouldn't be friends with the person who broke your heart and wasted 10 years of your life.
Exactly! They don’t deserve to have your friendship
Exactly!!!
exactly- be glad
Im not fully with you. I don’t think they should hate each other or that she should spend the rest for her life resenting him. That’s not a healthy mind set to have and I think as long as both people have moved on, yes, they can still be good friends. Sadly, in this video you can see she still clearly hasn’t moved on and at times like these I do condone complete separation. Friendship can’t work if you hide your emotions.
I wouldn't say Wasted, I've been in Relationships that didn't work out but I wouldn't say they was wasted years, We had Fun and Great Times and I truly loved some of them just because I didn't end up being with them Forever doesn't mean it was Wasted.
I'm Happier Now and in Very Deep Love but My Relationships before helped me get here and I thank them for the Learning Expierience.
I guess you either become Jaded or Move on and Learn from your Experiences, sometimes you have to change the vision of a "Perfect Relationship" in your head in order to truly be Happy.
I hope they find closure and that they heal from these wounds. She looks so heartbroken, you could almost feel her :(
'I got frustrated, but not with her.' 'The marriage was good, but...'
Teddy 97 😰
Alex Gaillar
Game of throne taught you about "but" already
lame excuses smh
@@theelolicious9302 Absolutely
What is sad is he said their jobs got in the way and they never saw each other. You dont end a marriage over jobs for Gods sake!!! You committed your lives to each other!!! You change jobs and do whatever you have to, to protect your marriage!! The problem is young people dont take marriage seriously!!
I Absolutely agree!!! Marriage is for the vigilant! It's not for wayward people! It's not easy...like anything else its work! Alot of work!!
dirty harry hmmm very true
I agree! I just got married in mid 2018 so I’m far from experienced in the marriage department, but my husband and I both hold traditional values when it comes to marriage. By that I mean we are determined to work through any problems we encounter and do everything we possibly can to resolve them before resorting to something like divorce. We got married young (I was 21 and he was 23) so we had a few people in our ears with some “young marriages don’t last” and “your generation doesn’t know how to be married” comments. And I agree, most of my generation really doesn’t know how to be married. And I’m not naive, I know things happen and people grow apart. But in my opinion the only unforgivable/unfixable problems are cheating or abusiveness. Anything outside that, at least to my husband and I, can be overcome.
Cherieka Spells
That’s ridiculous of them. As you said why not just change jobs?! Even if they could not change jobs, I’m sure they could of found time somehow. Ugh.
Yeah but if you change as a person and things just are not getting any better, how can you grow? Sometimes the best thing is to end and begin again. Marriage is a contract. Love is forever.
From the beginning her nose was red. To me that was an indication that she had been crying. She seems like she didn't get the right closure. Almost like she could've asked him, "What did I do wrong?" and he probably gave her an answer like, "I just don't want to be married anymore." If this is the case, then I could see why moving on is hard for her. Not having the proper closure can be torture. He seems like the type of person that if he gets bored with someone or something he just simply moves on. This type of people are very unstable and really don't like responsibility. Not judging him but when you are getting other people's lives and feelings involved this can be a disaster. Marriage is hard work and it's not for the faint of heart. I hope these two find a healthy way to move on especially her.
Wyoming Oregon actually, this is also indicator of that he is not a good spouse. He is not a reliable person in the long run. If they had children, this attitude could be very problematic. So, the women should accept this situation and move on.
On the other hand, we still don't know exactly why the man wanted to be free more. He might be suppressed a lot, and wanted his happiness again as he was single.
It didn’t need to end. He gave up too fast
Yep. And he is a raging drunk.
@@AR-pv6fvI understood the entire story in 3 minutes.
Yeah that's not how things work.
I won't judge him from a 5 minute video. Moreover we never know how things were. NO ONE SHOULD STAY IN AN ABUSIVE OR SUFFERING MARRIAGE. He could have cheated but he broke up 👍🏻.
Moreover comments are against him from women cuz they empathise with the lady's tears n cuz they are taking this personally. However, women divorce for frivolous reasons allll the time
damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ?
@@sinabagherisarvestani8924 why are you posting comments everywhere like a bot
This man is a fool.
It was HIS idea to get married, promising to love her for life....and then he changes his mind? Because of some job stress or some BS?
Be a man of your word.
Yes. Lost out on a good woman. Because they became like roommates? That often happens and then you come together and love them harder.
She did not lose her looks. It was taken from her by the pain of rejection and neglect from the one that was supposed to spend her youth with her, not crush it.
He’s disgusting. He abandoned his wife and became a drunk in New Orleans and he still leaned on her? Ugh
Pat Uskert true
A lot of men are weak minded... and they call women weak, people have no idea how much BS women put up with. But we are human and can only take it for so long
Dang, she does not need to be friends with him because she still loves him. And she needs to find someone more emotionally available. But all of that is easier said than done :/
I think it start with healing journey, honestly childhood wounds are a huge reason behaind a lot of our wonded stories.
More emotionally available is clingy & women hate clingy guys who can't give space
They divorced because they have little time for each other? So if they got another partner each, what makes them think their job will magically take up less time of their lives?
TheBlackMexican90 Makes sense. Life is messy.
Akmal Ahmed That's interesting. Is there a study that shows this? To me, it seems that couples who spent more time discussing about the future, their values, etc. will be less likely to divorce each other. I guess upper class couples tend to spend more time understanding each other? Or those who can plan ahead are less likely to divorce each other, regardless of class?
Akmal Ahmed I think it's more about healthy conflict resolution. The skills to do that, actually.
It seems they gave up instead of working on it.
Lol that's not true I'm away from home a lot and things are good, well we do argue but I would never leave someone because of my job and any two people that love each other wouldn't use the whole "we don't have time for each other" excuse.
Having such flimsy reasons to end a marriage, I feel sorry for the society
Society finished long ago.
The "adults" of today have no savings and are divorced.
I'm sure there is a lot more to it. They weren't communicating, they weren't prioritising each other. They no longer felt Important to each other. Resentments built, they stopped trying. There is a lot not being said, clearly.
damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ?
The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about , ya some guys are cheaters and they have like a 100 girlfriends but its rare , girls are usually to blame , girls complain too much , stop complaining man , life is hard . Much respect to the guy and former husband in the video, what a great couple , wtf would you break up ?
@@sinabagherisarvestani8924 Girls have too much rights ??? Wtf 🤦🏼♀️
@@sinabagherisarvestani8924
Elaborate on what you mean by too many rights?
With marriage,you have to make an effort to fall in love with the same person over and over again
Cecilia Jongte very true. and it's worth it :-)
Very accurate, even in just relationships. Effort is everything
True. It’s constant work and maintenance
Awww she's definitely been crying 💔💔💔 I hate the fact that people divorce for a rough patch. Marriage comes with ups and downs
Same happened to me. He got stressed, lost his job, fell into a depression, and apparently it was my fault. He left me. I fought for it. He said there was no point. He didn't want to fight and so I let go because I am not a sales person who needs to convince the man she married to stay. People give up so easily nowadays because the honeymoon period isn't forever. It's like fighting for something precious is harder than letting go. Ladies and gentlemen, we do not need that kind of "love." Accept it, let go, move on, pray for them, and heal.
His loss
Vanessa Palomino your comment touch my heart !
Vanessa Palomino
Very true.
Sad to hear. I pray you guys can both find healing and resitituition
@@onelifetolive8253 No.
This man took a beautiful rose plant and pulled every bud and petal and left it dried a withered. He is Immature and after all this time still is and downright selfish.
Withered but beautiful. She still has so much love to give but it's been barricaded by a fortress of pain.
So women don't have the responsibility to pick a good man to marry? Why is it that you think she's a victim? A divorce doesn't just fall out of the sky. Looking at her haircut seems very selfish to me. No consideration for your man to look good for him.
And you got ALL of that within 3 mins of his screen time
Way to be biased
@@disgustinghandsome1282 smh
damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ?
The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about , ya some guys are cheaters and they have like a 100 girlfriends but its rare , girls are usually to blame , girls complain too much , stop complaining man , life is hard
3:23 his joke was kinda in a bad timing especially he was the person who wanted a divorce
Ikr? So heartless smh
He shows absolutely no emotion. I thought he was serious
Ikr? She even looked visibly broken 🥺 I felt so bad, I'm glad they were able to have a good conversation after all
Ikr.... yikes
cold blooded sheesh
Not once did this man compliment her or say something nice, he took her glow and turned her beauty into sorrow. It’s cruel. She clearly loves him 😢
She seems so torn apart, because it’s so fresh and a lot of time hasn’t passed ...
OMG, Sis. I just want to hug her. She looks so depressed and defeated. Ah, man. This is hard to watch. I pray her heart heals, she learns to love herself more and finds that love within someone else ❤
She wasn't interested in him in the first place.... Then he won her heart.. Then he left her...
A tale as old as time
So many emotions, makes me wanna curl myself up under a rock and stay there for a few days
Bunny God lol that's me in the morning
Bunny God Ik this isn't related to anything but your profile pic is me
Bunny God yeah except you need to go to school
Sims Freeplay lol I was gonna say that
Riya Sharma BAHAHA SAME
Marriage means nothing anymore
... my parents were married for more than 12 years and they were not divorced lol u think my parents hate each other? Lol.
TheCommunistTurtle I have no idea what you’re talking about. I’m not saying literally no couples last, just that in our society the vows that come with marriage are not looked at with the seriousness and lifelong dedication like they were in past decades and centuries. Divorce is far too common and younger people are getting married way too quick and ditching right away when things get rough. My dad and stepmom were married for 12 years too and still got divorced. It happens a lot.
Troyus Maximus I agree it’s just living with someone till you start to slowly fade away from each other
@@isrulius I'd say despite the divorce shes living up to her vows. Even after she was and is there for him in sickness and in health, rich or poorer...they might not be married but she could be there till he or she dies. Just saying g
I guess it depends on the couple. My husband and i met going on 20 years now with 5 kids. We dated for about 2 months when he asked me to marry him and we married 2months after that. We have had only 2 major fights. After the last one we promised eachother no more hurting the other. We talk it out and actually listen to eachother coming up with peaceful solutions to not cause that pain. Everyday our love just continues to grow. Every touch is like the first. I still get butterflies when i look into his eyes. I still catch him watching me walk across the room like he did when we met. We don't stay together for the kids or our family or because we think we have to. We stay because life is impossible without eachother. Some are just so quick to give up when a bump in the road comes. If you can give up that fast then there really isn't love there. If it were you would fight to the death to protect and keep that love. Love does not give up.
I love how the guy chases this girl, makes her fall in love with him, he asks her to marry him and then he divorces her.. this poor girl is clearly suffering.
You don’t ask someone to be with you forever and then turn around when things get hard and ask them for a divorce. What did you think marriage was going to be like? Easy all the time? You’re both adults of course you’re never going to see each other all the time.
‘It could have easily gone the other way’ yeah, but you quit doing the work necessary to stay happy.
Heather Kavanagh.... bingo. This made me so angry. She needs a much, much better man.
Heather Kavanagh when they said they hadn’t spent enough time together because of their jobs, that work was what ruined things, I just can’t imagine not changing my work life in order to save life with my husband. I think it’s why Hollywood marriages fail too, if your job gets in the way then you get rid of the job not the spouse. But i don’t know the truth of their story.
i got a question for you lady.. what if a guy finds a beautiful girl. of course they gonna act all nice in the beginning "honeymoon" they fall in love and get married...2-5 years down the line he sees her true personality which isn't good..then he realizes he doesn't want her anymore. what should he do ?
I agree
same thing happened to me
It's so hard going from being so close to someone for a long time to becoming complete strangers.
He expected the honeymoon period to last forever. He is not one to get married.
epictreasure over thirty years later still married, honeymoon does not last but mutual respect and love do.
Al Wa 😁. It helps to realize that relationships should not be treated as disposable. Happens way too often!
no he expected a normal housewife and not some individual chasing after their own stuff having 0 focus on their family ... but he realized this too late .. must guys don't want women who work ..most normal guys ....
Mr. Jasaw. Please don't kill anyone with your irrational rage against women. There are enough nutjobs in this world.
They were married for 10 years he obviously knew the honey moon period was over, life just gets in the way whether its stress or a job, and sometimes marriages cant make it when times get tough... So don't only blame it on the guy...
He divorced her, bc he had a lot of work and he didn't feel like they were a "married couple"? what the hell?
pieprzonylogin I don't think they are being completely open about the reasons
ethan intellekt same
Because that happens. When you life together for a long time but it dies slowly out and then you become roommates. Once you become roommates it's difficult to become a couple again. It's an age old story.
Doesn't mean you don't love the person anymore just that the relationship love is gone.
pieprzonylogin why did you married then like
pieprzonylogin i thought the same thing. They where married for 10 years almost and he couldn’t find a different job or try to fix it. I feel bad for her she looks in love still.
I can see that the girl is still hurting. If I were her I don't want to reminisce all the beautiful things that happened when we were still in love because it will only make me cry.
I'm not crying.. shut up!!
Top 10 Archive lol
hi
Me either!
Top 10 Archive I'm not crying you're crying!!!!!
I'm totally crying. No shame.
I hate it how he called her a terrible person
omg, the pian in her eyes. It's too relatable for meee
Usually girls will cut their hair once they go through something traumatic in their lives. I think this is one of those cases.
Phil Coulson weird because I dye my hair whenever I go through something hard
Hair is a form of expression. Not only girls do it
ur mom Jesus Christ. It’s obviously more drastic for a woman because guys typically have short hair anyways. Why is that hard to understand.
I wonder why I do it all the time and feel one coming soon ! ✂
omg yes. this is true for me
Oh my gosh, she's torn apart and wearing her broken pieces on her pretty face. 😥.
Girl, you are not ready to be friends... I'm so sorry.
I think she's the one that's truly heart broken over the divorce. This has made me so sad.
He ran instead of fighting for his marriage. His hurt caused her the current pain. They both love each other, but don’t know how to deal with whatever they’re going through. I FIRMLY believe that if one of them said “I Love You,” and he apologized, they could be on the path to reconciliation and PROBABLY married again.
he is a coward
He would need some counseling to find another way to handle his probs with their marriage if he wanted the relationship to work . They both need help to do that. She needs to work on self worth because right now I think she is settling for whatever crumbs she can get from him. She needs to learn that she is worth having the whole meal - the whole man. She is breaking her own heart over and over. Hopefully she will move on soon.
TheJw1358 you don't know what went on in the 10 years they were married, don't judge with a short video.
Mutah finally someone who shows common sense...
My ex cheated on me and after months she is back begging for forgiveness. Eventually we are talking and are now just friends and I am dating another girl right now. Dating my ex was like going through hell but she is one of the most helping people out there. I will never forget some things she did for me. She is trying to redeem herself now and I will forgive her soon I guess. I dont know why I am sharing this but seeing how these people are sharing their story to the whole world, I thought I'd share mine with a few. Have a good day everyone. :)
Infinite Curiosity Takes courage to forgive props to you!
Forgive but never forget, behavior patterns are usually pretty set. If they cheat once they will cheat again. Good luck to you.
TAKE CARE MAN(:
Aenwyn she is never going to cheat because we will never date again, I am not into her anymore, I am dating another girl now,
Rule 1: Don’t cheat
Is it bad that I keep myself isolated because this right here is my worst fear with love? I am scared of loving someone so much and then they leave me. This is so devastating.
But u gotta take risk ; talk it out with ur husband
I Am Happy And I Deserve It Not everyone has the same mindset. It would be boring if we did, but it is also full of uncertainty. I guess I'm just really fragile, even if I put up a tough front. :(
just go get some Mexican food, you'll be fine
Sean Yes, pretty much. A taco will never cheat on me. Some carne asada will never make me cry. Lol
Real Mexican Food Shouldn't Give You Diarrhea me too
Very courageous for both of them to agree to do this being so vulnerable before the camera. Hope they find peace and happiness in their lives.
They both sure look a lot better with hair though
Lol... yeah, and that's the biggest problem right.
😂
jorchin dat torch My thoughts exactly
Real talk
Well she definitely looks better with more hair. He looks fine without it to be honest, in fact sexier
As a Gen Z heterosexual childless single young man myself whose never been on a single date once in my life, never once been in a romantic relationship, never been married once in my life, never had kids once at all. I find this video to be so depressing to watch but in the same time I am so relieved to be aromantic meaning I don’t desire or seek any loving romantic relationship. I am only interested in friendship period. To all my fellow human brothers and sisters around the world always remember be genuine & take care of one another.
So sad to watch. They both seem to be lovely caring people. We've been married 43 years and people change and relationships go through different phases over the years. Sometimes you have to stop and remember what drew you together in the first place. Is that still the same person inside. We all change. There were times when I honestly thought of walking away, but I'm so happy I didn't. I think staying is sometimes harder to do but it's much more rewarding. If you truly love somebody, do everything in your power to make it work. No matter what happens...forgive them and/or forgive yourself. It's the greatest gift you can give and/or receive.
"I have no ring, no money"
....aight, imma head out.
You guys are funny. So money =love? People are getting engaged with $500,000 rings but then divorce 72 days later... and other never had wedding rings but are still together... mawa 😒
😂😂😂😂
actually proven fact : wealthier couples are more likely to get divorced then an average income couple.
Boy bye lol dusty man
Yep. I don’t want a wedding ring. I don’t like jewelry. But no money?? I would never marry a man who isn’t financially stable. He doesn’t need to make more than me or even the exact same, but he has to have his finances in order.
Now I want someone to love me
Family loves you☺
I lub u
I can love you
I love you.
Itsmadz The one and only on the right time
She doesn't look pretty stable 😔
she looks..Tired :c and sad
she looks like an alcoholic or drug user
She's upset you idiot
she's upset cuz she isn't consuming
She is extremely stable and lovely. I know her well.
I can tell that they both still have feelings for each other, the way he looks at her is like he realized he messed up high eyes are the windows to the soul
You make time for the people you love. Remember that.
Michele Bowers Amen
Amen
Michele Bowers
True but the woman was just selfiish.
I feel sorry for this kind man
that's why it's not enough to be with a loving person, anyone can love but not everyone can be committed and loyal.
Now I want them to get back together.
When you grow apart, that's when the hard work starts. It's not time to end it, it's time to mend it. This is very sad. But I thank this couple for allowing this video. I wonder why people divorce so easily. My husband and I have been married over 17yrs, and it's not all bliss, but we work hard at it, we struggle together, for better or worse..... I hope these two find their way back. They clearly still love each other.
How do you deal with time management with each other if you work all day? How could you make it work?
He is talking, or you?
mrslabayen I love that you said you struggle together. That's what you do when you are married. You overcome everything together!
Angela whats your reason for divorce?
@mrslabayen I think the reason people divorce so easily comes down to how much they want it, the marriage. I'm not married, mind you. but in my short time alive on this earth, I've come to see that the more you want something, the harder you are willing to work for it. Some people just don't want to stay married that badly, they aren't willing to put in the effort.
Can I give her a hug? ❤️
I’m not a colourful girl I love darkness I feel like giving her a hug too!
And he needs his wife back too
Being friends let's him only have the parts he wants. He turned to her when his life was falling apart.i mean really? U ended dude, but u still need her? I don't stay friends with my ex's. They dont want u head out the door. Why should they get the best part of u? Screw that.
heres why im afraid to fall in love with someone :")
There are divorces that I accept.. The cheating on the other, abusive relationship... Those type.. Divorces that happen because of "stress", or "no love anymore" needs a time out. That is something you can talk about and fix. Especially if you happen to have children. Your kids get affected by it as well... But who am I to say? It's your life
I totally agree, if the situation isn't toxic, it should be able to be worked out. I'm not married yet, but I have been with my best friend for 4 years and could never imagine parting ways with them over something like this. Absolutely not judging this couple because we don't know their lives, but it's true that a lot of couples just give up and divorce so easily when they could put in the work and make their relationship better. People believe too easily that the grass is greener on the other side.
Laicy Bing Couldn't agree more!!!! 👌🏼
I agree x
I do agree with you.
Charlotte Tomlinson don’t bother arguing with these people. They are too arrogant to even see the truth...
WHY?! GIRL, PLEASE NO. This "friends" situation will further break your heart. No no no. 🤧 She looks already drained, and he is a taker.
Hello my lady 🌹
This was so painful to watch and one of very few videos I’ve watched in my life to make me cry. She deserved so much more from this guy.
It’s not like they forced them to do this these people wanted to maintain a friendship and allowed their experience to be public
Mya Joelle
buzzfeed did this very tactfully too. They were not looking for drama and dirt👍🏽respect
They got paid for this 🙄😂
That.....was.....so....damn heartbreaking. You both are amazing ppl. AND WHY AM I CRYING SO HARD FOR YOU GUYS? I WANT YOU TO LOVE EACH OTHER AGAIN!! I need tissue.
Jackie Marcucci me toooo😭
The thing is that they DO love one another. Sadly, loving someone means needing to making choices. This is one. If they kept going their relationship would become unhealthy and they would be unhappy
Fox McFog you're absolutely right. I just wished it worked out. But... that's just the way it is. At least they're supportive of each other.
Rabiya Afreen 😭😭
Jackie Marcucci here you go girl 🤧🤧🤧
Awwe she can't even look at him...
@Happy Panda gotta be some high quality marijuana
I am terrified of being with someone for so long only to have them fall out of love with me...
CC Mania we never really fall out of love per se’, one simply just stops trying to find or look at the things that make them in love in the first place. Love is a choice you make everyday and if that person you were with says they have ‘fallen out of love’ it simply means they are done choosing to love you everyday.
Karen Alejandro Exactly, love is a choice, not a feeling.
Laurel Matson man , yes
Happened to me after 12 years , the hard part is I loved him the same and was extremely happy in my marriage. The pain is THE worse...but life goes on, slowly but surely Im getting there, I am wayy too fine to waste on solitude.
Omg me too I am crying
OK I'm heading home to hug my wife
That's the best comment on here
Good luck
mikaku please cherish her 😭
🤧👏👏
Yes!
She looks so defeated 😔
Ramona Ramdin-Mercedes 😞😞😞😞
'cause she was the one inlove :(
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
This lady is still clearly in love with him... you can see it in the way she looks at him
He teary also. I wonder...
True
You can see how she's Suffering!! Not a good idea!! Make NEW friends!
@@lise-annedore8935 I wonder too. I think it's about re-establishing a connection, but the connection never really left.
That’s how it is sometimes:( you’re soulmates but living together just doesn’t work.
It really breaks my heart when two people divorce but only one of them wanted it 😔
Edit: Wow thanks for all the likes y'all. I came back to this video because I remembered how deep it hit me. I'm not married and my parents are still together so I've never experienced a divorce but this video, still, makes me cry like a baby.
Jessica Leon
Thats why i nvr ever will marry someone
Kids is okay but kids can make you miserable too
😔😔😔
I Am Happy And I Deserve It loool, what a funny way to put it
@@lalagirl211
This is why I'm planning on *never* having kids or getting married. That's my decision.
I'm OK with dying alone lmao
@@lalagirl211 You are talking about misery but you seem pretty miserable yourself what's the point on going on with life? I mean for what do you live your days for? I am not trying to be mean just want to understand your point of view.
This was difficult to watch because of how much she still clearly loves this dude. He needs to realize it's not easy finding someone who would still look at you the way she does, despite everything.
Or maybe she needs to realize that maybe he just isn’t the one for her, and instead of sobbing over him, she should find someone who is as much in love with her as she is with him. And ik it’s easier said than done, but it’ll only make it harder the more you stay stuck in the past
Pretty sure if the divorce was initiated by the woman, people would still be blaming the man
There's a reason behind the divorce.. that guy didn't just wake up and decided to kick her out.. y'all gonna sit here and act like she's an angel sdupid beta ferggots
@@torrellallen3165 he needs to realise what he said and she needs to realise what you said
he doesn't need to look at his life through the lens of YOUR opinion. he doesn't need to realize anything. it's HIS LIFE.
So he left her because they were going through a rough patch?? People don't take their wedding vows seriously
Literally. Don't get married if you're not willing to work through a rough patch.
I think there were strong feelings, but there was a lack of commitment that's essential in marriage. Idk. It's really sad to me.
I know American people don't
Yes. Let's make assumptions on their whole life together
@@ShatteredHawk : Thank you! I can't believe how judgmental people are about something so difficult, intimate, and common to boot!
It seems like she never wanted the divorce but he was ok with it . That is real painful
Yeah exactly, If you have someone that loves you your suppose to stay and you fix what there is with each other. Thats what a true man would do.....Only reason would be he wanted to be with other women.
Onion Face I noticed that too actually
Though it’s sad to say, she probably is better off without him
maybe he was just nervous?
Or maybe we don't knowing anything about their 10 year marriage based on a 4 minute video???
Yeah I got the impression that it was one of those "grass is greener on the other side" type of things for him.
'This isn't good anymore so it needs to end altogether' as opposed to 'this isn't so good anymore so it needs to change.'
Sucks cause she sounds like she was blindsided by it.
Many people give up easily not realizing that all relationships will ebb and flow and at times need more effort than others to be fulfilling.
But as long as there's still real affection there, which it seems like there is, then it can be improved.
She is clearly devastated by the breakdown of her marriage...poor thing
denyse mcalister I know poor girl 😭
This experiment was just torture for her :'(
Heartbreaking to see the emotional pain she was feeling show through her every move and expression. 😢
its seemed like he had to chase her, and he grew on her over time. then once they were married her love kept growing and his diminish SAD :(
homemovies1961 she probably became more demanding because she wasn't truly attracted to him. That's what
I literally feel her heartache. I went through this also. 😢I had 3 children and 20 years of marriage with him. He left me for his mistress. That was 23 years ago. It still hurts at times but not as bad.
damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ?
The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about , ya some guys are cheaters and they have like a 100 girlfriends but its rare , girls are usually to blame , girls complain too much , stop complaining man , life is hard . Much respect to the guy and former husband in the video, what a great couple , wtf would you break up ? its cleat that she isn't in love with him but his in love with her , again its the girls fault
I’m sorry that happened to you.
He’ll leave the mistress too.
That lady. I can tell shes tearing inside and my heart just broke.
Ikr
The dude as well
So damn hard to watch this
Shabby Dawson Are you related to Shane?
Yes I felt that too :(
I feel so bad for her... she seems so broken and still in love... sad
I agree
I know I went through same thing you can see the hurt in her face
Ameenah Habibi why just her?
Ameenah Habibi Don't make it about just her, he's clearly heartbroken too. Just cuz she's a woman she gets the special treatment, huh?
Suran Michonne i guess they think boys dont feel anything.
She said I don’t have a lot of people, I don’t wanna lose this 😭😭😭😭
Seidy l.p. Yeah dude, I don’t have a lot of friends, so even if things get bad I can just move on and forget because if I don’t then I won’t find other people
I know right! I want to volunteer to be her friend. 😭
Jessica K i dont have either
Jessica K lol
Seidy l.p. same