hey, sis! today's question is all about YOU! What's one way that you've seen yourself change since deciding to trust God/ coming into relationship with Him?! I shared 3 in this video and can't wait to hear yours!
I resonated with everything you discussed in the video to the point I feel God called you to make it at the perfect time for me. That being said, I have grown closer with God in this year and I have changed in that my emotional and mental pain from abuses I experienced in my past cannot hurt me ever again. I can have a significant traumatic memory pop up yet somehow the physical and mental reactions I previously would have had are nonexistent. The resentment and why did he choose that for me questions etc. are all completely gone. The only thing that remains is serenity in my story that God has given me as a gift and the gratitude 💖
I've realized that I'm learning to be more patient and not overthink as before and jus listen to him and have faith that when something is going to happen it will but have some patience
My confidence has been boosted since I have known and accepted my identity in Christ. He has shown me His presence in my life through my needs. From finding amazing roommates to a brand new apartment + a month free and furnishers given to me by my roommate whom I never met + being accepted to one of the best school in FL ( UM) THIS IS ALL GODS WORK! 😭🙏🏾
It’s so funny how as kids we feel so uncomfortable for being different yet as we get older learn those differences make us who we are. Really draws people to us more than we could have ever imagined as a kid.
One unexpected side effect I have received in trusting God more is the peace I feel while on my journey of growing my relationship with God. For example, I’ve been going to church by myself for the last few weeks and before that I would panic myself in trying to get my kids and husband up to go because it was the “right” thing to do but then we’d miss Sunday after Sunday for one excuse or another. When I finally decided to focus on my personal relationship with God, I’ve found going to church and getting fed has become part of my self care and I love it. I also know my kids and hubs are watching and we will attend church again as a family but for now I appreciate the time I get to have with God on my own and know my hubs and kids will only benefit from a better me💖
Love this, I used to try to get my siblings to go to church I would yell and scream and I end up going to church with minor headaches and an angry heart. Now I wake them up once and if they refuse I just go alone. It’s been awesome
This right here! I have been wanting my whole family to go to church. Yet it’s such a hassle to get everyone ready and out the door. We have missed so many Sundays. I felt like when we used to attend my husband was growing closer to God. My oldest son wants to go back so badly but I’ve just gotten used to making an excuse of not going because of My husband wanting to rest on a Sundays. I miss it myself and truly want to get back for building my relationship with Christ. Your comment just motivated me to do so the next Sunday he’s off from work.
Your videos have been so on point for my life’s circumstances that every time I open UA-cam and your video pops up the titles are always so on point to what I have been thinking about or going through that I’ve genuinely been shocked haha. God bless you! God is really working through you:)
🙌🏾🙌🏾 God is so good!! Bc like i mentioned, He just randomly dropped this one in my spirit and i ran with it! So glad it connected right on time with you sis!! 🤍🤍
Not stressing truly just loving each moment even if it hard. Taking a deep breathe calling out to him. Recognizing He is Yawheh He is the Creator. So I can rest as a tiny human.
The biggest thing I’ve realized since trusting God… is the realization that things work out BETTER and smoother when I am trusting him. My rigid planning or over compensation makes a mess more so than ease 😩
Before I used to be obessed with what people thought of me. But now, I don't have that anymore! My head and heart has become more peaceful since I told God about my problems. He's so Amazing and Good always.
Let me say this is SO TIMELY! I just finished praying this morning, and I intentionally was putting my trust in Him and surrendering to His will. I got on my laptop and told God that whatever I need to watch let it pop up (I love your videos btw :) and THIS pops up. The fact that you said it dropped in your Spirit gives me chills because this is a HUGE sign so thank you for your obedience! Much love!
Like another viewer commented…Every video you have made lately has lined up so closely with my life that I am wondering if I’m being watched. 😂 God is using you and I thank God for the anointing on your life to do what you are doing. God bless you sis!❤
This is a message I truly needed to hear! • I’ve grown up being a little bit different from my peers and I suffer severely with feelings of social anxiety, feeling awkward and weird, and constant intrusive thoughts about how people persevere me or think I’m weird. This has been especially difficult in my work place! • I have been praying and bouncing back and forth from surrendering to picking it back up! ••
The ability to enjoy being alone. Also the ability to let go of toxic people. As well as increased confidence ♡☆♡☆♡☆♡ it's amazing I just felt it start or begin to well up in my being. God is good ♡☆♡☆♡☆♡
The struggle to let go of control is real. As I walk out this journey with God, He has provided peace in the midst of difficult circumstances. Thank you so much for your transparency, it is a great encouragement to see and hear what God has done in your life.✨
One thing I can say is nuance. My walk with God has shown me how all kinds of different truths can exist at once. Definitely helps me find peace more easily as opposed to stressing over rigidity or strict ideas.
Speak Sister Friend!! Truth, my being different makes me me!!! I never said the word me before and not felt guilty about it! TODAY I SAY ME and know its not selfish or self-seeking but honoring God for who He made me! New wine skin!
As someone who is externally very laid-back and "type B", someone called me out on being a control freak and since then I've found so much spiritual freedom. Look deeper, folks. Don't settle for what the world thinks freedom looks like.
the Lord has been leading me through a season of just resting and trusting in Him and i was reading my bible earlier today and this part stood out to me; “So he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: ‘Not by might nor by power, but by my Spirit,’ says the Lord Almighty.” Zechariah 4:6 NIV i love this soooo much because He’s reminding me that great things will happen in my life not due to my hustle but due to His sovereignty 🙌🏼🙌🏼 amen
One of the most beautiful blessings from trusting God more is I actually waste less time! I have ADHD so stress tends to get the best of me, but trusting God to guide me actually helps be remain calm and I waste less time stressing and have more time doing what God called me to to in that day
Definitely a release in anxiety. Trusting God has encouraged me to let go, and to fully surrender to his will especially during this particular season of my life.
The number of comments saying you are speaking directly to their situation 😄 definitely relatable 😄 especially about God caring about everything you need. I recently had dismissed something that had bothered me years ago as mundane and literally the same week I thought about it, God brought about an opportunity to 'fix it'. God really does have a way of making things come together so beautifully, especially when we stop trying to limit him with our ideas of what things ought to be. Really enjoyed this video 🙏🏾
Amen!!! Thank you sister Melody! I have the problem of being a people pleaser (all my life). It’s hard to remove that which is part of one’s nature. I feel sometimes it is better not to be around others (outside of family) because I will feel the need to go out of my way to please them and try to make things better (I know I can’t). I’m staying in prayer asking our Lord and Savior to show the way…Let Go and Let God!!!!!!!!! Blessings to all🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
Your videos lately have definitely spoke to my heart. I would say since truly trusting God, I have been very calm and at peace. What used to bother me and stress me out, does not anymore. I have no thoughts or feelings about anyone, meaning I hold no unforgiveness in my heart for anyone.
This is absolute facts, not only has my “resoluteness” has gone up but people are inadvertently taking me more seriously, I can’t put my finger on it but I notice that when I speak, people act quickly and pleasantly.
I needed thisss. Thanks Melody, God richly bless you. I'm currently challenging myself to want all of God, not for the benefits but to love Him truly. And I've realized my future- exams, university, job etc- i used to be anxious about, I'm not even thinking about them at all. I thought i just didn't care about them anymore 😂, but i see rather, i trust God more. I tell myself "Everything is on schedule, we are going according to God's plan" Alsooo, I'm more excited to share my personal experiences and messages of Christ with others- something i was shy doing initially.
I'm not completely changed but when I think about how much I used to worry, I've grown so much! I remind myself that God has things under control and that all things are working for my good. It helps a lot.
love this!! it's definitely something that happens gradually and sometimes we have to fight to remind our minds (and emotions lol) that He's sovereign & got it allll under control. thank you for sharing sis!
Yes, yes & yes! I definitely relate to the freedom & confidence found in Christ! & it’s so crazy because, I never knew I was missing this peace. One thing I also noticed, is how much my self esteem has shifted in a positive way. I am learning to genuinely love my flaws! Knowing Jesus Christ is the true definition of “self love”, because we begin to see ourselves the way the Lord designed us! Not by worldly standards, but by the divine & holy standards of our King. We are each uniquely beautiful. God is so good! ❤️
Oh my Gracious! I too was a ppl pleaser! I wanted everyone I encountered to be comfortable, friendly, likable & relaxed but NOPE! Their discontent was thrust my way that I doubted myself & tried even harder, go way out of my way & at times cried because their bitterness was overwhelming but GOD! THE BEST FRIEND EVER! I cried as HE cradled me & I felt the yoke of pleasing ppl BREAK & NOW I AM FREE TO PLEASE GOD! #1 Side effect - FREEDOM! An AWESOME Sigh of relief! Keep teaching Lil Sis, THANK YOU for your OBEDIENCE❤🙏🏾GOD BLESS YOU & YOUR FAMILY!
I teared up the first time I listened to this video and I was driving… getting home I listened again.. everything about your insecurities are all about me..I plan plan plan everything about my life..but I am learning to trust God more and God is using you in my life, never heard or seen your video but God orchestrated this.. You popped up when God was telling me to get closer and boom … I saw your video about Daniel fast and from there…God took over. Keep doing what you doing.. lots of love from London ❤
I've noticed that God gives me peace I don't think I've ever felt before. In moments before where I used to freak out and allow anger, worry or anxiety to fuel overreaction--which were the perfect windows of opportunity for the enemy to come against me--now God overcomes my mind (that's exactly how it feels!) with a peace that I know does not come from me. He loves like a loving, generous Father but with supernatural gifts that God alone can give. Literally living Romans 12:2. Thank you Jesus
I can’t believe I’m going thru the same thing as we currently speaking. I stop being a people pleaser and start getting closer to god. What a wonderful feeling especially since my validation comes from him. Love this video
I have more peace in myself and am learning that it is okay not to be in control of everything. Still needs some work, as I am a worrier. But I am learning and growing everyday, and trusting in him. Thank you for this video! It was right on time! ❤️
I've found myself enjoying solitude..... I have always been a social butterfly, and really couldn't see myself spending an entire day alone. Not being around people made me feel abandoned or unloved. But recently I have found my alone time to be comforting and giving me so much peace. I have been spending much time listening to worship songs, watching sermons or just some series on Netflix, and it feels so much okay. Learning to enjoy my own company and being in the company of the Holy Spirit. ❤️❤️
Look, I’m only on #1 and this is so affirming of the freedom that I’m experiencing in the Lord in this season of life! It’s honestly everything to let go of what I call “shape-shifting”, trust the Lord, and live unburdened! Praise God!
I'm going through this now.....trying to work on not controlling everything. It has been a struggle, but the more I'm building my relationship with God, I'm getting better. It is something I'm very conscious of now and learning to trust, not stress, and turn situations over to God. Thanks for sharing. I truly needed this! 💛🙏🏾
Similar to one of your points, one way I’ve seen myself change is through my confidence in God (what I like to call Godfidence) and how it’s lead me to be more comfortable being myself and talking about God with others. Through trusting God, I also never thought my taste in music would change, but it’s done a complete 360! I realize that I have to be careful what I consume. Even though I used to think listening to certain music was innocent because I wasn’t specifically doing what they said in the songs, I realized the music was still planting seeds and influencing behaviors that didn’t reflect the woman of God I was created to be.
I love your videos, and this one was EXACTLY what I needed to hear right now. When you stated #2, that God provides in EVERY SEASON...I could feel it in my spirit so sincerely -- my whole body shook! That was a HUGEEEE AMEN! Thank you for this amazing video and all of your other inspiring content...I am enjoying growing closer to God with you!
Super encouraged by this.❤️. Thank you Mel.💕. I'm I'm unlearning and relearning all three at the moment. For me I think another side effect is how God is extremely patient and compassionate towards me even when I lack those traits. He wants me to demonstrate them to others even when it's not always convenient for me. Truly loving and forgiving others.... Yeah those are my thoughts 🤗💕💕
I would definitely say that I didn’t expect to grow in grace towards myself. As I’ve trusted God I’ve come to realize how much I have to remind myself to keep things in God’s hands. And instead of beating myself up about the fact that I failed at trusting God, I’ve found that I’ve acknowledged my weakness and also turned it over to God because His power is made perfect in my weakness (2 Cor. 12:9).
Jesus is so lovely and always always so on time! I have been contemplating the changes in my own self and life since really concentrating on deepening my intimacy with Christ and can relate to all of your points so much, thanks for the vid :) I've found when in the Word, He says that he came to set captives free it wasn't just physical bondage but from the emotional an mental captivity of people-pleasing tendencies, insecure/anxious attachments and overall anxiety, truly happy He has bought my freedom many times over :)
I’ve had to learn too trust him in everything . I had surgery in 2021 and the physician has not released me to go back to work at all . I had to really learn that Jehovah Jireh is definitely my provider. Stay Blessed
God changed me in an almighty way. I can now speak in tongues and it is a great gift of the Holy Spirit. It strengthens me in my faith. I am still unsure to do it in front of people. But for now it enriches me in my prayer life. It now takes no effort to avoid sin. I love God and my tongue and body confessed it. May the Lord bless you Melody and all my siblings in Christ
I feel like since I gave up worrying, so much about how things weren't going to work out. God has given me peace to just trust how he will make them work out. Thank you for posting this video because I feel like we all struggle with confidence and just knowing how amazing we are. Have a blessed day everyone!!! 🙏
Hellooooooo! What I've experienced lately is peace Peace that I dont find in watching a series or a movie or being around people I love but genuine peace and love from God!!!! I'd rather be with Him than anywhere else 🥰
Thank you for sharing sis.As someone who struggles with social anxiety,I feel so much hope.I see glimpses in me of the Lord changing me and I can't wait to walk in even more freedom.
I could relate to this so much and it almost brought me to tears thinking about how He really has provided for me in each season in ways that I couldn't have imagined. He is soooo good!
The baby besties part was so wholesome and adorable!! ❤️ Thank you so much this word was right on time for me! Touched my spirit!! Thank you ❤️❤️ this really 100% pin pointed my concerns thanks for reminding me that I’m not alone in this journey to Christ! Much love 🙏🏾❤️
Another beautiful message! Thank you so much Melody! The reward and experiencing freedom when you trust God. I was a certified worry wart too. I’m doing much better than what I used to do. 🙏🏾👋🏾💐
Trusting God is something I literally still struggle with even though I’ve been a Christian all my life. I’ve learned to trust him in different departments of my life such as finances. That was a hurdle we went through earlier on so now I completely trust him when it comes to my finances, that he’s always going to take care of me by providing. But in other areas of my life where I thought that I still had some control or I think I still have some control to this day, I’ve been learning to give over to him. Like decisions that I have to make that don’t necessarily regard finances. Because sometimes we think that God is not involved in every aspect of our lives but he is. So I’m learning to come to him about every section of my life.
Definitely peace of mind. Not trusting God, as u said, causes worry and stress and sometimes even impatience 😭 (e.g. when desperately wanting something that God hasn't planned for u (and trying to work it out yourself) - may sounds very specific but I went through something like that recently) the peace that comes from trusting and obeying is honestly so wonderful and makes me so happy 😊 Also this was great timing bc yesterday I just surrendered something to God that has been with me for years 😭 so thank you!!
Also, since coming into a relationship with God I have experienced myself becoming more patient and loving with others and reacting in a God-like way rather than being petty 😭 its been a journey but ive made progress thanks to my Heavenly Father. I'm so pleased with how I've become a completely different person! THANK YOU LORD 😊💕💕!!
Whewww Jesus knew I needed to hear this video!! Thank you soo much for listening to spirit’s nudge 🙏🏾 An unexpected side effect for me is that God will lead you to the dark spaces you are unfamiliar with but will bring you out of them stronger and sharper before ❤
The more I listen to things that uplift my spirit, like your page and others like it, music with purpose, the more I feel closer to God I am more forgiving, speaking up more without overthinking what others may view or see me as because I know who I am in Christ; I'm also, willing to walk my faith walk and distance myself from toxic relationships: platonic and romantic. I am finding more of myself, and I love to see it and praying a different set of prayers.
As I’ve grown in Christ, my confidence definitely has increased! Like soooo much. The things I used to be insecure about, I now love and embrace. Even mentally I’m more sure of myself but more sure of him. I too was never an openly social person but honey! Now I make it my business to talk to strangers and make sure they smile in conversation with me 😆
Hi Melody! Thank you so much making this video-it is right on time and so relatable! It’s a challenge for me daily thinking about how I am perceived, what I think about myself and how people feel about me; I am very much a people pleaser. I am encouraged hearing how God has freed you from this because it lets me know He can do it for me too! Thank you again, you’re such a blessing!
Wow, glory to God, I feel the Lord talked to me through this video. God is good. God has use you in so many ways to talk to my life as we have similarities in our testimony, it’s impressive how He puts the right person, at the right time, with the right message in the middle of the storm. I live in Orlando, Florida and I will love to meet you personally and share this chaotic but beautiful path that The Lord is doing in our lives ❤️🙏🏻. God bless you.
I really needed this today thank you. I am working on surrounding and sucking at it pretty bad right now I keep setting something down on the alter and running back and grabbing it. God spoke to me in so many ways during this message thank you and God bless.
Thank you Melody, your videos have been a blessing. I'm also experiencing the same this season. God has truly been amazing and I'm so grateful 🙏 He has provided for me in unexpected ways and He is with me in this new city I just moved to. He is helping me navigate this season with assurance. I thank Him dearly.
Wow this has really spoken to my spirit I feel free and more confident finally letting go of people pleasing and focusing on my God 💗Thankyou sm Love you sis
While I still find myself fighting btw my new and old self, I would say that confidence has happened! I now say I walk by faith & not by sight. Ever since, my goals has been coming into fruition (did I say that right?). I’m more comfortable w myself, all of me including my flaws. I am not that shy when I have to talk to people. My boundaries are set. I just do much freedom in not controlling what I CANT control. Etc…
I found you a month ago and every video has been so helpful. More than I can even explain. These topics have been providing confirmation for my situation and my walk. Thank you for sharing! 💕
Needed to watch this great timing especially during this season it kept popping up recommendation since isolation in 2020 I am not open to anyone I get nervous this ref encouraging to know that it won’t alway be like this it can change trusting God always lower my anxiety and worry
hey, sis! today's question is all about YOU! What's one way that you've seen yourself change since deciding to trust God/ coming into relationship with Him?!
I shared 3 in this video and can't wait to hear yours!
I resonated with everything you discussed in the video to the point I feel God called you to make it at the perfect time for me. That being said, I have grown closer with God in this year and I have changed in that my emotional and mental pain from abuses I experienced in my past cannot hurt me ever again. I can have a significant traumatic memory pop up yet somehow the physical and mental reactions I previously would have had are nonexistent. The resentment and why did he choose that for me questions etc. are all completely gone. The only thing that remains is serenity in my story that God has given me as a gift and the gratitude 💖
I've realized that I'm learning to be more patient and not overthink as before and jus listen to him and have faith that when something is going to happen it will but have some patience
I don’t stress about things anymore, and I am learning to cultivate His peace.
Amen to this. Sometimes it can get very stressful, but we have to know that God is in control.
stoicism ❤
My confidence has been boosted since I have known and accepted my identity in Christ. He has shown me His presence in my life through my needs. From finding amazing roommates to a brand new apartment + a month free and furnishers given to me by my roommate whom I never met + being accepted to one of the best school in FL ( UM) THIS IS ALL GODS WORK! 😭🙏🏾
Please congrats 😭😭😭❤ miracle after miracle
what a testimony, sis!! God is GOOD.
Amen, God is really good ❤
Amen 🙏🏾 !
God BLESS
It’s so funny how as kids we feel so uncomfortable for being different yet as we get older learn those differences make us who we are. Really draws people to us more than we could have ever imagined as a kid.
THISSS!! yes, so so true.
One unexpected side effect I have received in trusting God more is the peace I feel while on my journey of growing my relationship with God. For example, I’ve been going to church by myself for the last few weeks and before that I would panic myself in trying to get my kids and husband up to go because it was the “right” thing to do but then we’d miss Sunday after Sunday for one excuse or another. When I finally decided to focus on my personal relationship with God, I’ve found going to church and getting fed has become part of my self care and I love it. I also know my kids and hubs are watching and we will attend church again as a family but for now I appreciate the time I get to have with God on my own and know my hubs and kids will only benefit from a better me💖
Love this, I used to try to get my siblings to go to church I would yell and scream and I end up going to church with minor headaches and an angry heart. Now I wake them up once and if they refuse I just go alone. It’s been awesome
I pray that your family will see the goodness of God, and will follow you to church❤.
This right here! I have been wanting my whole family to go to church. Yet it’s such a hassle to get everyone ready and out the door. We have missed so many Sundays. I felt like when we used to attend my husband was growing closer to God. My oldest son wants to go back so badly but I’ve just gotten used to making an excuse of not going because of My husband wanting to rest on a Sundays. I miss it myself and truly want to get back for building my relationship with Christ. Your comment just motivated me to do so the next Sunday he’s off from work.
Your videos have been so on point for my life’s circumstances that every time I open UA-cam and your video pops up the titles are always so on point to what I have been thinking about or going through that I’ve genuinely been shocked haha. God bless you! God is really working through you:)
🙌🏾🙌🏾 God is so good!! Bc like i mentioned, He just randomly dropped this one in my spirit and i ran with it! So glad it connected right on time with you sis!! 🤍🤍
Same!!! It’s amazing!
Gotta agree with you. Every vid, I feel is my life. Thanks Melody.
Not stressing truly just loving each moment even if it hard. Taking a deep breathe calling out to him. Recognizing He is Yawheh He is the Creator. So I can rest as a tiny human.
The biggest thing I’ve realized since trusting God… is the realization that things work out BETTER and smoother when I am trusting him. My rigid planning or over compensation makes a mess more so than ease 😩
Before I used to be obessed with what people thought of me. But now, I don't have that anymore! My head and heart has become more peaceful since I told God about my problems. He's so Amazing and Good always.
Let me say this is SO TIMELY! I just finished praying this morning, and I intentionally was putting my trust in Him and surrendering to His will. I got on my laptop and told God that whatever I need to watch let it pop up (I love your videos btw :) and THIS pops up. The fact that you said it dropped in your Spirit gives me chills because this is a HUGE sign so thank you for your obedience! Much love!
I can totally relate to that confidence boost😭😭😭😭..... it’s the best thing in the world 😇
TRULY!!
Like another viewer commented…Every video you have made lately has lined up so closely with my life that I am wondering if I’m being watched. 😂 God is using you and I thank God for the anointing on your life to do what you are doing. God bless you sis!❤
LOL! I always say - God be knowin'!! haha i love that they are lining up with you, sis!!
This is a message I truly needed to hear!
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I’ve grown up being a little bit different from my peers and I suffer severely with feelings of social anxiety, feeling awkward and weird, and constant intrusive thoughts about how people persevere me or think I’m weird. This has been especially difficult in my work place!
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I have been praying and bouncing back and forth from surrendering to picking it back up!
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I'm still a work in progress when it comes to trusting God, but from the time I accepted Jesus, I started to enjoy solitude. 💕
The ability to enjoy being alone. Also the ability to let go of toxic people. As well as increased confidence ♡☆♡☆♡☆♡ it's amazing I just felt it start or begin to well up in my being. God is good ♡☆♡☆♡☆♡
The struggle to let go of control is real. As I walk out this journey with God, He has provided peace in the midst of difficult circumstances. Thank you so much for your transparency, it is a great encouragement to see and hear what God has done in your life.✨
One thing I can say is nuance. My walk with God has shown me how all kinds of different truths can exist at once. Definitely helps me find peace more easily as opposed to stressing over rigidity or strict ideas.
Speak Sister Friend!! Truth, my being different makes me me!!! I never said the word me before and not felt guilty about it! TODAY I SAY ME and know its not selfish or self-seeking but honoring God for who He made me! New wine skin!
This is EXACTLY what I’m starting to experience. I couldn’t explain how God made me a better person but he did!
won't He do it!!
As someone who is externally very laid-back and "type B", someone called me out on being a control freak and since then I've found so much spiritual freedom. Look deeper, folks. Don't settle for what the world thinks freedom looks like.
the Lord has been leading me through a season of just resting and trusting in Him and i was reading my bible earlier today and this part stood out to me;
“So he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: ‘Not by might nor by power, but by my Spirit,’ says the Lord Almighty.”
Zechariah 4:6 NIV
i love this soooo much because He’s reminding me that great things will happen in my life not due to my hustle but due to His sovereignty 🙌🏼🙌🏼 amen
Amen!!!
Amen!!! That’s a good word!
Praise God!
Amén! I realized this too
One of the most beautiful blessings from trusting God more is I actually waste less time! I have ADHD so stress tends to get the best of me, but trusting God to guide me actually helps be remain calm and I waste less time stressing and have more time doing what God called me to to in that day
phew this is so good. I love that the Lord shows up so tangibly for you this way. He's so good.
Definitely a release in anxiety. Trusting God has encouraged me to let go, and to fully surrender to his will especially during this particular season of my life.
The number of comments saying you are speaking directly to their situation 😄 definitely relatable 😄 especially about God caring about everything you need. I recently had dismissed something that had bothered me years ago as mundane and literally the same week I thought about it, God brought about an opportunity to 'fix it'. God really does have a way of making things come together so beautifully, especially when we stop trying to limit him with our ideas of what things ought to be. Really enjoyed this video 🙏🏾
Amen!!! Thank you sister Melody! I have the problem of being a people pleaser (all my life). It’s hard to remove that which is part of one’s nature. I feel sometimes it is better not to be around others (outside of family) because I will feel the need to go out of my way to please them and try to make things better (I know I can’t). I’m staying in prayer asking our Lord and Savior to show the way…Let Go and Let God!!!!!!!!! Blessings to all🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
Your videos lately have definitely spoke to my heart. I would say since truly trusting God, I have been very calm and at peace. What used to bother me and stress me out, does not anymore. I have no thoughts or feelings about anyone, meaning I hold no unforgiveness in my heart for anyone.
You hit the nail on everything 😭 this is all I am experiencing righ now. God is too good! May God bless you for your obedience sharing this word.
🙌🏾🤍🤍 thank you sis!! Glad I’m in good company enjoying these unexpected blessings!!
This is absolute facts, not only has my “resoluteness” has gone up but people are inadvertently taking me more seriously, I can’t put my finger on it but I notice that when I speak, people act quickly and pleasantly.
Consistency he proves that he is the Same yesterday, today, and tomorrow 🤸🏾♀️he is always faithful and will come through every time 😊
I needed thisss. Thanks Melody, God richly bless you.
I'm currently challenging myself to want all of God, not for the benefits but to love Him truly. And I've realized my future- exams, university, job etc- i used to be anxious about, I'm not even thinking about them at all. I thought i just didn't care about them anymore 😂, but i see rather, i trust God more. I tell myself "Everything is on schedule, we are going according to God's plan"
Alsooo, I'm more excited to share my personal experiences and messages of Christ with others- something i was shy doing initially.
I've felt an inexplainable peace in the loss of my job and finding joy in the search to work for myself.
I'm not completely changed but when I think about how much I used to worry, I've grown so much! I remind myself that God has things under control and that all things are working for my good. It helps a lot.
love this!! it's definitely something that happens gradually and sometimes we have to fight to remind our minds (and emotions lol) that He's sovereign & got it allll under control. thank you for sharing sis!
every time I try to control something I spiral out of control, get angry, start using coping mechanisms and isolate. this is my new life
Yes, yes & yes! I definitely relate to the freedom & confidence found in Christ! & it’s so crazy because, I never knew I was missing this peace. One thing I also noticed, is how much my self esteem has shifted in a positive way. I am learning to genuinely love my flaws!
Knowing Jesus Christ is the true definition of “self love”, because we begin to see ourselves the way the Lord designed us! Not by worldly standards, but by the divine & holy standards of our King. We are each uniquely beautiful. God is so good! ❤️
Oh my Gracious! I too was a ppl pleaser! I wanted everyone I encountered to be comfortable, friendly, likable & relaxed but NOPE! Their discontent was thrust my way that I doubted myself & tried even harder, go way out of my way & at times cried because their bitterness was overwhelming but GOD! THE BEST FRIEND EVER! I cried as HE cradled me & I felt the yoke of pleasing ppl BREAK & NOW I AM FREE TO PLEASE GOD! #1 Side effect - FREEDOM! An AWESOME Sigh of relief! Keep teaching Lil Sis, THANK YOU for your OBEDIENCE❤🙏🏾GOD BLESS YOU & YOUR FAMILY!
I completely relate, I am constantly in awe of how God is working in my life, I’m different now that I surrender to the Lord on a daily basis.
I teared up the first time I listened to this video and I was driving… getting home I listened again.. everything about your insecurities are all about me..I plan plan plan everything about my life..but I am learning to trust God more and God is using you in my life, never heard or seen your video but God orchestrated this.. You popped up when God was telling me to get closer and boom … I saw your video about Daniel fast and from there…God took over. Keep doing what you doing.. lots of love from London ❤
I've noticed that God gives me peace I don't think I've ever felt before. In moments before where I used to freak out and allow anger, worry or anxiety to fuel overreaction--which were the perfect windows of opportunity for the enemy to come against me--now God overcomes my mind (that's exactly how it feels!) with a peace that I know does not come from me. He loves like a loving, generous Father but with supernatural gifts that God alone can give. Literally living Romans 12:2. Thank you Jesus
I can’t believe I’m going thru the same thing as we currently speaking. I stop being a people pleaser and start getting closer to god. What a wonderful feeling especially since my validation comes from him. Love this video
I have more peace in myself and am learning that it is okay not to be in control of everything. Still needs some work, as I am a worrier. But I am learning and growing everyday, and trusting in him. Thank you for this video! It was right on time! ❤️
Thank so much Melody, I too also am finding beauty in imperfection. I am trusting God more even through tough seasons and I truly love it 🙌🏼
I've found myself enjoying solitude..... I have always been a social butterfly, and really couldn't see myself spending an entire day alone. Not being around people made me feel abandoned or unloved. But recently I have found my alone time to be comforting and giving me so much peace. I have been spending much time listening to worship songs, watching sermons or just some series on Netflix, and it feels so much okay. Learning to enjoy my own company and being in the company of the Holy Spirit. ❤️❤️
Look, I’m only on #1 and this is so affirming of the freedom that I’m experiencing in the Lord in this season of life! It’s honestly everything to let go of what I call “shape-shifting”, trust the Lord, and live unburdened! Praise God!
yesss, sis!! all of this. beyond grateful for the freedom that comes from a relationship with Him!
Love the last one, I’m learning to embrace the imperfections because I know that’s when I get to see God work.
I’m wayyyyy more forgiving now 🙌🏾❤️
ooh this one!! this is good.
He’s worked out a situation better than I ever could ❤
One side effect I noticed, is a sharp clarity on many things, I was confused about before. 🙌🏽
I’ve found out that I don’t need anyone to validate who I am, or if I’m good enough. I love God! I’m enough for him!
Aligning people like yourself that vibrates on the same path as me. Walking with God
I'm going through this now.....trying to work on not controlling everything. It has been a struggle, but the more I'm building my relationship with God, I'm getting better. It is something I'm very conscious of now and learning to trust, not stress, and turn situations over to God. Thanks for sharing. I truly needed this! 💛🙏🏾
Similar to one of your points, one way I’ve seen myself change is through my confidence in God (what I like to call Godfidence) and how it’s lead me to be more comfortable being myself and talking about God with others.
Through trusting God, I also never thought my taste in music would change, but it’s done a complete 360! I realize that I have to be careful what I consume. Even though I used to think listening to certain music was innocent because I wasn’t specifically doing what they said in the songs, I realized the music was still planting seeds and influencing behaviors that didn’t reflect the woman of God I was created to be.
I love your videos, and this one was EXACTLY what I needed to hear right now. When you stated #2, that God provides in EVERY SEASON...I could feel it in my spirit so sincerely -- my whole body shook! That was a HUGEEEE AMEN! Thank you for this amazing video and all of your other inspiring content...I am enjoying growing closer to God with you!
My confidence has truly gave me a superpower on self Love and not caring about wat others think of me. ❤
Super encouraged by this.❤️. Thank you Mel.💕. I'm I'm unlearning and relearning all three at the moment. For me I think another side effect is how God is extremely patient and compassionate towards me even when I lack those traits. He wants me to demonstrate them to others even when it's not always convenient for me. Truly loving and forgiving others.... Yeah those are my thoughts 🤗💕💕
I would definitely say that I didn’t expect to grow in grace towards myself. As I’ve trusted God I’ve come to realize how much I have to remind myself to keep things in God’s hands. And instead of beating myself up about the fact that I failed at trusting God, I’ve found that I’ve acknowledged my weakness and also turned it over to God because His power is made perfect in my weakness (2 Cor. 12:9).
Jesus is so lovely and always always so on time! I have been contemplating the changes in my own self and life since really concentrating on deepening my intimacy with Christ and can relate to all of your points so much, thanks for the vid :) I've found when in the Word, He says that he came to set captives free it wasn't just physical bondage but from the emotional an mental captivity of people-pleasing tendencies, insecure/anxious attachments and overall anxiety, truly happy He has bought my freedom many times over :)
It's similar to your third point: I have been able to handle unexpected changes with less worry
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What grace😊. Trusting Gods definitely key
I have peace in my heart and mind and I don’t stress about things as much
This sounds like me too. I say I have more peace not worrying about things and embracing his joy that he gives.
Felt this 1,000% Praise the lord 🙌 I am so happy for you!!!
I’ve had to learn too trust him in everything . I had surgery in 2021 and the physician has not released me to go back to work at all . I had to really learn that Jehovah Jireh is definitely my provider. Stay Blessed
God changed me in an almighty way. I can now speak in tongues and it is a great gift of the Holy Spirit. It strengthens me in my faith. I am still unsure to do it in front of people. But for now it enriches me in my prayer life.
It now takes no effort to avoid sin. I love God and my tongue and body confessed it.
May the Lord bless you Melody and all my siblings in Christ
Gods blessings are upon you dear sister🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@vanessadobbins6885 Thank you, Jesus loves you 🙏🏽
I feel like since I gave up worrying, so much about how things weren't going to work out. God has given me peace to just trust how he will make them work out. Thank you for posting this video because I feel like we all struggle with confidence and just knowing how amazing we are. Have a blessed day everyone!!! 🙏
loooove this!!
Hellooooooo! What I've experienced lately is peace
Peace that I dont find in watching a series or a movie or being around people I love but genuine peace and love from God!!!! I'd rather be with Him than anywhere else 🥰
Thank you for sharing sis.As someone who struggles with social anxiety,I feel so much hope.I see glimpses in me of the Lord changing me and I can't wait to walk in even more freedom.
I could relate to this so much and it almost brought me to tears thinking about how He really has provided for me in each season in ways that I couldn't have imagined. He is soooo good!
The baby besties part was so wholesome and adorable!! ❤️ Thank you so much this word was right on time for me! Touched my spirit!! Thank you ❤️❤️ this really 100% pin pointed my concerns thanks for reminding me that I’m not alone in this journey to Christ! Much love 🙏🏾❤️
I am also currently drowning in that social anxiety , this is speaking to me
This is just confirmation for me to trust God more ESPECIALLY concerning my confidence. Thank you for obeying God and posting this video ❤️
Another beautiful message! Thank you so much Melody! The reward and experiencing freedom when you trust God. I was a certified worry wart too. I’m doing much better than what I used to do. 🙏🏾👋🏾💐
Trusting God is something I literally still struggle with even though I’ve been a Christian all my life. I’ve learned to trust him in different departments of my life such as finances. That was a hurdle we went through earlier on so now I completely trust him when it comes to my finances, that he’s always going to take care of me by providing. But in other areas of my life where I thought that I still had some control or I think I still have some control to this day, I’ve been learning to give over to him. Like decisions that I have to make that don’t necessarily regard finances. Because sometimes we think that God is not involved in every aspect of our lives but he is. So I’m learning to come to him about every section of my life.
Definitely peace of mind. Not trusting God, as u said, causes worry and stress and sometimes even impatience 😭 (e.g. when desperately wanting something that God hasn't planned for u (and trying to work it out yourself) - may sounds very specific but I went through something like that recently) the peace that comes from trusting and obeying is honestly so wonderful and makes me so happy 😊
Also this was great timing bc yesterday I just surrendered something to God that has been with me for years 😭 so thank you!!
Also, since coming into a relationship with God I have experienced myself becoming more patient and loving with others and reacting in a God-like way rather than being petty 😭 its been a journey but ive made progress thanks to my Heavenly Father. I'm so pleased with how I've become a completely different person! THANK YOU LORD 😊💕💕!!
Whewww Jesus knew I needed to hear this video!! Thank you soo much for listening to spirit’s nudge 🙏🏾
An unexpected side effect for me is that God will lead you to the dark spaces you are unfamiliar with but will bring you out of them stronger and sharper before ❤
The more I listen to things that uplift my spirit, like your page and others like it, music with purpose, the more I feel closer to God I am more forgiving, speaking up more without overthinking what others may view or see me as because I know who I am in Christ; I'm also, willing to walk my faith walk and distance myself from toxic relationships: platonic and romantic.
I am finding more of myself, and I love to see it and praying a different set of prayers.
As I’ve grown in Christ, my confidence definitely has increased! Like soooo much. The things I used to be insecure about, I now love and embrace. Even mentally I’m more sure of myself but more sure of him. I too was never an openly social person but honey! Now I make it my business to talk to strangers and make sure they smile in conversation with me 😆
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@@MelodyAlisa thank you!!! I figured that wasnt u
for me is feeling freedom and peace in the areas I've trusted God
this!! yes, couldn't agree more.
Hi Melody! Thank you so much making this video-it is right on time and so relatable! It’s a challenge for me daily thinking about how I am perceived, what I think about myself and how people feel about me; I am very much a people pleaser. I am encouraged hearing how God has freed you from this because it lets me know He can do it for me too! Thank you again, you’re such a blessing!
Wow, glory to God, I feel the Lord talked to me through this video. God is good. God has use you in so many ways to talk to my life as we have similarities in our testimony, it’s impressive how He puts the right person, at the right time, with the right message in the middle of the storm. I live in Orlando, Florida and I will love to meet you personally and share this chaotic but beautiful path that The Lord is doing in our lives ❤️🙏🏻. God bless you.
Totally get this! I’m even more out going, confident and social. Not that I wasn’t before but it’s different 😊
Peace. An unexplainable peace. Regardless of what may come, I know that God is in control.
Absolutely encouraging to keep on trusting God’s plans for my life.❤ I’m letting go of what I have no control of.
I really needed this today thank you. I am working on surrounding and sucking at it pretty bad right now I keep setting something down on the alter and running back and grabbing it. God spoke to me in so many ways during this message thank you and God bless.
Really nice side effects! I need that
Your video has brought me to tears. The Peace of God truly surpasses all understanding. I need that.. thanks for inspiring.
Thank you Melody, your videos have been a blessing. I'm also experiencing the same this season. God has truly been amazing and I'm so grateful 🙏 He has provided for me in unexpected ways and He is with me in this new city I just moved to. He is helping me navigate this season with assurance. I thank Him dearly.
A lot of what you said and still learning the other.
Wow this has really spoken to my spirit
I feel free and more confident finally letting go of people pleasing and focusing on my God
💗Thankyou sm
Love you sis
While I still find myself fighting btw my new and old self, I would say that confidence has happened! I now say I walk by faith & not by sight. Ever since, my goals has been coming into fruition (did I say that right?). I’m more comfortable w myself, all of me including my flaws. I am not that shy when I have to talk to people. My boundaries are set. I just do much freedom in not controlling what I CANT control. Etc…
I found you a month ago and every video has been so helpful. More than I can even explain. These topics have been providing confirmation for my situation and my walk. Thank you for sharing! 💕
i thank the lord for this video! i am learning to trust god and myself in this season! thank you melody, may god bless you.
Thank you Melody, I can definitely relate to being more confident and the freedom from people pleasing!
This was very helpfulll! I love when you go with the flow & I really need freedom from control and not picking back up what I trust God with!!
Thank you for this video. I can so relate to being so controlling over situation and be worried. But I am learning to trust God.
Haven’t even finished this video and it is speaking to me so much! You have been a blessing on my new journey Melody thank you and God bless you!💕
Wonderful revelation, I never sat down and thought about this.
Thank you for your transparency💐♥️. For me trusting in the Lord has given birth to peace that surpasses all understanding.
love this :')
What a beautiful video! Thank you for doing this ❤️🕊️ I needed this today!!!
I love this video and I m not even done watching it yet. lol. You are so pretty!
aww thank you sis!
Needed to watch this great timing especially during this season it kept popping up recommendation since isolation in 2020 I am not open to anyone I get nervous this ref encouraging to know that it won’t alway be like this it can change trusting God always lower my anxiety and worry