Scrappy is growing so much mentally. I applaud him for understanding his traumatic childhood and being man enough to do something about it, and have the opportunity to.
@@tralalaladee It broke my heart too. He has his flaws but has changed a great deal. His kids are very lucky. It’s rare as black people (especially black parents) to acknowledge the mental strain that comes with being raised in a black household 😅 he’s doing great.
I just KNOW Safaree was embarrassed as hell when he tried to show out for the cameras and ended up making himself look ridiculous. I bet he had a shiner later that day.
I don't think he was tryna show out , I think he finally opened his eyes n thought bout what they was saying n thought bout some that made him wanna skip it.
Her father is no better than Kirk, that's the point, go back and listen again that's what she's telling him and his response was what he had going on with other women and his other children has nothing to do with her, welp he should take his own advice
🤣🤣🤣🤣every time I see it I die laughing. The fact he was mad n threw the chair an hit his own self🤣🤣🤣🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️. Maybe he needed to knock some sense into his self 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Karlie really ruined that beautiful, natural look she had by doing all she did unnaturally to her face. That’s one strong demon that whispers in a lot of our ears that we’re not enough the way we are.
Spice is right. She has NO business collaborating with these washed up and untalented Love and Hip Hop z list influencers. Spice is a Grammy nominated household artist, and deserves to be treated as such.
Right. Spice has been a household name in the Caribbean for soooo long. Karlie being from the Caribbean knows this very well. So if she says ur not ready and a song isn't fit to be played, just listen.
Safari getting hit by that chair was so deserved😂😂, but i’m not sure why kirk even trying to be a spokesperson for marriage considering his MANY faults🤔.. edit- y’all in here being shooters for kirk like he paying y’all, i think him and rasheeda odd for giving ANYONE advice..it’s my opinion like be fr do we know how they act off cams?
@@londonpain45 i never said that😭..you making up scenarios bro, i think rasheeda & kirk both weird on giving relationship advice, especially the cheater in the relationship 😂
When srappy said 'Go blame that on yo mama, go blame that on yo daddy, I ain't do nothing to you!' whew child, I felt that and yet I had great parents!!
Oh plz.. Talking to yo mama, like they equal.. he a lil Bicc...No parent is perfect and some are really fucked up, but a man he s man through and through he ain't a model dad. Disrespecting his own mama is what his children will see and give it back to him 1000x.
@@Julems that type of mentality is why most mamas boys never get married. She disrespected him and the mother of HIS CHILDREN but yet he’s not allowed to express himself? That’s ignorant and who are you!
@@jennaebradshaw1308 You sound very confident in your ignorance.Expressing and disrespecting are not the same thing fool...Was he ever a man to begin with he wouldnt have been treated like.. punching and screaming, huffing and puffing get outta here fool. Y'all should stay away from public platform when y'all dis dumb
@@Julems and you should learn as a grown ass man that a public platform comments and opinions are valid. You sound like the ignorant one now don’t you 😂😂.
Erica is definitely a victim, but she's also been constantly abusive in her relationships. Bambi and Erica's sense of loyalty is emotionally stunted and very highschool. She's put out toxic energy for years, been a side chick, put her hands on partners...and is shook that she attracted someone on the same wave as her...like 🥴 Literally work for a show that exploits black pain. Seems like she loves the struggle lowkey and its giving them a check. This whole show spreads that energy but, everyone's a victim...okay. The only one I've seen truly grow is scrappy. Spice is too legit for this platform.
Yeah, I’ve always thought the same. Spice actually has talent and a career. I was low key disappointed that she even thought to do a song with Karlie…like Karlie??? Karlie Redd?? Uh uh
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 TO Scrappy for FINALLY telling his mom off! Wrong delivery but it's been going on toooooo long. She has been in ALL his relationships and now HE GROWN!!! J.S.
IT WASN'T THE WRONG DELIVERY🤷♀️, BECAUSE SHE WASN'T LISTENING NOR TAKING ACCOUNTABILITY FOR THE DAMAGE SHE'S STILL CAUSING TO THIS DAY🤦♀️🤦♀️... AS HE SAID " HE WON'T BE TAKING ANY MORE DISRESPECT FROM HER, AND NO ONE ELSE ".... JUST, BECAUSE THAT'S HIS MOTHER, DOESN'T MEAN, SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO KEEP DISRESPECTING HIS WIFE AND HIM...IJS...IT'S MOTHERS LIKE HER, THAT MAKE THEIR CHILDREN LOVE LIFE SHIT... EDIT: I'M NOT EVEN TRYING TO BE RUDE NOR DISRESPECTFUL, BECAUSE HIS TYPE OF SITUATION, PLUS OTHERS NEEDS TO STOP😩😩...IT IS " NOT OKAY NOR SHOULD WE THINK IT IS OKAY, FOR YOU'RE PARENTS/ECT, TO MENTALLY DAMAGE YOU", JUST BECAUSE THEY HAVE TIES TO YOU😩😩🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️...HOW MANY PRISONS CAN A SOUL TAKE🤔🤔??NONE 🤷♀️.THE MORE YOU TRAP YOURSELF IN A MENTAL PRISON(FROM ALL ASPECTS), THE EASIER YOU BECOME THE "TARGET ", DOORMAT, PUSHOVER, NAIVE ONE, WEAK ONE ETC ....TRUST ME, THAT WON'T GET YOU INTO ANOTHER PRISON CALLED " HEAVEN"🤣🤣🤷♀️🤷♀️...
He's been telling her for years to stay out of his business to stay out of his relationship to respect his wife eventually when you place a boundary and nobody listens to you or nobody respects said boundary you snap and that's what happened here so maybe he shouldn't have came at his mom like that but everything he said was from his heart
Scrappy is high key emotionally intelligent. People can’t look past the tough man persona he puts on but he’s real deal hurt. Mama Dee is a narcissist because she had to be. Single black mothers have to carry the entire burden of the whole family. I hope he heals from the emotional trauma that a lot of black children go through in the hood. The hood is not to be glorified. It’s scary, confusing and not a place to raise a young child. We gotta do better and protect our black children✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
**Single moms come in all shades not just black & ALL THE children need protection.... We need to stop dividing ourselves up into groups of them vs us vs y'all vs me & start seeing everyone in our own neighborhood as being apart of our community & watching each other's backs when possible. It's a mindset of all children are our own future & every single child today will be the generation making decisions tomorrow so we gotta take care of them while they're young & teach them how they should be with a caring spirit so they can make the best decisions for us all.... No matter what shade of skin tones or background they have. **The hood consists of people who are all shades tones ethnicities, religions, & backgrounds & we must protect all the children growing up in the hood & dangerous areas that are not suitable for the children but unfortunately it's just the only types of places most single moms/single income households can afford... Then those areas are not looked at fairly by outside businesses so those same children are also living in food deserts making their situation even worse since they're not the type of places you can just send your kids outside to go play with the other neighborhood kids exasserbating their own health & fitness while usually being district one schools on top of the other issues.... We just have to be able to look out for everyone else who may be in our neighborhood & when we become business owners ourselves then we need to start opening up shop in our own areas which opens up jobs in our own communities & hopefully by doing this we can do more for ourselves & each other without depending on outsiders who know nothing about where we come from...
the same way bambie want scrappy to stop running to his momma telling her stuff, she needa stop running to her friends telling them stuff because it ain’t they business either !!
I agree but I don’t think it’s just the fact that he’s telling his momma I think it’s the fact that Momma Dee taking what Scrappy saying switching it up and telling other people that’s the problem. It’s okay to confide in people to a certain extent but gta be mindful who you telling your business to
Scrappy is right “I give respect where I get respected back” our parents hate when we call them out.. people won’t understand unless you lived and went through that type of life! I use to tell off my kindergarten teachers… sh*t ain’t normal.. Been trying my hardest to break generational cycles 🙏🏼🤟🏼
When Scrappy said “I saw whores, crack pipes, and heard gunshots and I thought it was normal” it hit me hard! I’m in school for Clinical psychiatry, and when I finish school I want to most definitely cater to the Black community on childhood trauma and mental health 💯 because in our community it’s not a topic that’s not discussed enough 💯
And the way she is so sympathetic and forgiving to Kirk but not her father. She really need’s to heal. Him going off on how Kirk does her dirty shouldn’t be why she doesn’t want to talk to him.
Rasheeda always mentions her marriage and family and businesses as a cop out to justify Kirk's actions when the means should NOT justify the actions in those cases. When u say for better or for worse it's not pertaining to "mistakes" that he's made.....which are deliberate choices actually. For better or for worse means differences of opinion, one of them losing a job, making a come up together, etc. and still working it out. Not cheating, buying whole condos without the other's knowledge, having affairs and outside children, tired of raising your kids, and so on
i’m happy the whole samantha getting jumped/snuck at the reunion situation was addressed because it was no reason that any of the boys mothers should’ve been touched for just wanting respect from their child’s step-mother.
@@jennaebradshaw1308 Samantha literally came in calm and respectful til that girl started getting hype so how does Samantha get put in as they both need to grow up lol
Erica knew what she was getting into. When they first came back on the show together it was for a money grab/storyline. He told her he didn't want kids yet neither of them were mature enough to use birth control. The second kid she purposely waited pass the legal abortion time to tell him she was pregnant They kept being careless and irresponsible. They were both wrong and now the children may suffer. Erica has a child that she provides for but admitted that she doesn't raise. She is also damaged, hurt and suffering from trauma. She should have healed and strengthened the position with he first child before having other kids. There's a possibility the kids with Safaree will suffer if they don't get it right...... Lord knows he's going through some stuff too.
@@sonyablaze9668 literally what are u talking about .. why are all y’all acting like if you weren’t in a terrible marriage like that that u wouldn’t want ur friends to stand up for u. like if u want to have friends who never stand up for u and be around the man who violated and left u and kumbaya with him then by all means, i hope ur okay with that lol
They have the same mutual friends and they’re on the same show. Erica is never not going to see Safaree. 🤦🏾♀️ If she wants to isolate herself, then she needs to leave reality tv. 🤷🏾♀️
When rasheeda said “ I shouldn’t have to invite you , you’re my dad “ I felt ts , it should never be the childs responsibility to reach out and try to form or rekindle a relationship with their parents 💯🗣️
@@Tweakerbitc98 then a conversation needs to be had but as the parent, they should just take the initiative and reach out if they really want a relationship with their child. If the child doesn’t want to have a relationship fine but I know that as a parent I would at least like to be able to say I tried
I used to like Kendra, but now she starting to act like the other ladies of the show, fighting so hard for a man that doesn’t truly respect you to the point of losing your reputation & career !
i’m GLAD scrappy is finally coming out & confronting momma dee about his trauma. in that scene, she really showed me that she’s self-centered, doesn’t even care about her own son’s feelings & just wants to control every little thing in his life. i really believe that she’s the reason why him & erica didn’t work out had she not interfered in every damn thing.
They ALL do that! It doesn't matter if it's Scrappy's Mom or Rasheeda's DAD. They were all the BEST parents EVER and the way their children remember things is wrong. They're always a saint and a martyr. It's exhausting.
I don't care what y'all say......Rasheeda daddy Harold, Henry, or whatever his name is the real G.O.A.T. He didn't lie about s**t on Kirk. Rasheeda was speechless a lil bit because she know he right. If Rasheeda say one more time they been married 20+years as a justification I'm gon scream🤦
Exactly..We see that man embarrass and cheat on her on television and I'm all the way in Jamaica😂 had a whole baby aftef he told u to get a dna test and to abort yours and was in the hot tub with one of your 'friends' and u stayed with him and that's fine but don't go around bragging about your relationship like Kirk didn't give u a couple STI scares😂😂
His opinion on THEIR marriage.. is null and void! Y'all are STILL mad at Kirk. She's over it. Literally could care less. Fuck his opinion when he hasn't even been the type of father she needed in life. Her self worth, confidence, how she feels and honors marriage and relationships period... Are all directly related to her dad being non-existent basically and then he doesn't wanna own up to it. Her marriage has NOTHING to do with the issues at hand that she's trying to converse with her dad about and he's clearly negating and denying bc he doesn't wanna accept the fact that he failed her miserably. Think about this.. had he been a better father, maybe Rasheeda wouldn't have allowed him to have multiple babies on her. Ijs! She's suffering from trauma he caused her yet refuses to even acknowledge that shit. He has no room to talk. ABSOLUTELY none. Acknowledgement and a little accountability is all she wants from her dad. Hell Kirk gave her THAT much if you gonna be real about it. With facts.. not emotions. SMH
erica is determined to see meda as a side chick that glories in ruining relationships and thats not the case, meda never stood up and pridefully announce she messes w joc, she just stated a fact when asked, erica is just projecting her anger at being cheated on and forgetting how she too has been the girl that she loudly proclaims has “no morals” the lack of self reflection and perspective from her is all a bit ludicrous
Bambi, Erica, and Sierra have been doing entirely too much when it came to Meda, Kendra, and Joc. I wish I would insert myself into a friend’s marital problems like they did. At this point, they’re more bothered by it than Kendra is.
27:44 I feel Mimi’s pain. Watching my mom go through hell with my dad just to get a dime or even help with us kids made me realize. I NEVER want to or will ever do that.
Joc is a latent homosexual… he don’t like women.. he has terrible relationships with women , wants to abuse them only .. (probably due to his mom) joc don’t want Kendra .. he wants to become desirable to others by using props , particularly people or material stuff… Kendra is a prop or thing to him to feel better about his long gone career and the fact he is getting old and has not accomplished what he had hoped for himself
I’m glad Scrappy finally stood his ground with Mama Dee. Mama Dee interfered with his relationship with Erica. Mama Dee has no boundaries when it comes to Scrappy.
@@christinajackson6309 It doesn't matter if Rich dated Erica first cause everyone has exes. Safaree married her, had kids with her and that's the difference.
Rasheedas father was not wrong at all, I understand all she wants is validation and reassurance from her father. But everything he said flew over her head and went straight to her emotions
She’ll forgive Kirk but not her father? How would she expect any father to feel about a husband repeatedly humiliating her on national tv for a decade or more?
@@jylessa_spiritgem4736 you right but I feel like she shouldn’t be that mad at her dad when she has admitted he’s been a great father , & you mad he don’t like your husband , duhhhhhh dingbat why would he ??
I'm still mad at the fact that Samantha got jumped from one of Yandy's family member. Especially when Yandy KNEW the WHOLE time who the person was. She KNEW.
@@QueenSugar72 even though it wasn't planned why lie acting like you didn't know what happened....I'm not saying snitch on yo fam but acting oblivious is what made her look guilty..
Scrappy wouldn't be acting out like that unless it's some real, deep pain. A lot of men use anger to express themselves because we are told that being vulnerable is a sign of weakness, but there comes a time in a man's life where he has to get in touch with himself and deal with the things inside of him or else it will literally destroy him. I hope he is able to get on a path of healing and maybe even be a role model to someone else who grew up like he did.
@@kennedyfknalexa lol. I think she's up on who he is. As a lawyer she has learned social and behavioral characteristics of people (to some measure). She just has codependency issues, unfortunately like a lot of high achieving BW that low vibrational and narcissistic BM target. She and other women put standards and expectations on themselves professionally and even perhaps in other interactions or relationships with family and friends, but not with their romantic and intimate partners. She can heal the codependency if she seeks deep understanding of herself from an expert coach or therapist. And, we call what you stated, where I come from, which is New York City... "Book smart and everyday stupid". 😉
@@reitum.9950 Yes I agree but at the same time you have to be in a happy place to be able to raise those children. In a happy or at least peaceful environment, at that.
Scrappy left Erica because she didn't 'take care of him' enough and she was 'too hard'. Now he's saying the same thing about Bambi? How has no one mentioned to him that his glaring mommy issues are the real core of the issue he keeps making with his partners?
I’m so glad you pointed that out because when he said it I was like you said the same thing about Erica. We never realize how deep rooted men have mommy issues to they lean on their woman to be the mom and not a wife!
@@jaylahnikolek And here I thought he was refering to lack of reciprocity. Of how she has her girl support system and him checking up on her, while he has none of that. Not from his momma not from her not from anyone.
This is so true and needs to be addressed. It honestly not to belittle him in any type of way because this is something that honestly is not his fault. You can tell he didn’t get the attention, the compassion, the mental support, guidance and hugs/kisses from his mom as an adolescent and even in adulthood he’s longing for it. So to have a woman that is strong minded, self sufficient and not co-dependent clashes with his need for someone to give him the affection that he has grown up lacking. It’s not that Erica didn’t have it in her to give to him, it’s that at that time in life Scrappy had not matured enough to identify this particular void. As for Bambi, I think she plays both sides. She uses this as a weakness against him in the form of manipulation which is easy for her since she’s the mother of his small children. I don’t dislike Bambi but, I don’t think she’s in love with Scrappy. I think she underestimated him from the start.
I mean did y’all not watch the scene with him and momma dee???? He starting his healing process and with that his marriage will become stronger it’s just going to take time.
@@alcoholicbunny2649 I sure hope so for him and his family's sake. I hope its not hood healing either. He needs real therapy, counseling, and support. He grew up in a literal whorehose for goodness sake.
The fact that Rasheed is disrespecting her dad for wanting to protect her against kirk is crazy. I get she wants him to mind his business and support her staying in that toxic relationship but come on. That’s crazy
Why does Rasheeda think that she is better than her parents? “You two didn’t even last a year.” Ok, and you’re in a 2 decade marriage that started off with grooming and hasn’t grown into anything better than what her parents relationship were. Weird🤨
Rasheeda’s Dad is hilarious . I’m sorry . I can see how her parents didn’t make it neither one of them give a eff. I think it’s honorable of him to have a problem with Kirk . Rasheeda is still his baby .
I agree these are 40 something yr old women.. they look stupid. How does Bambi know if Safari see his children or not...like hush, and mind your business and Mi Mi hush u went through what you went through, because you chose to stay!!
No one going to talk about how great of a friend shekinah is. Stood up for Erica and was saying some real shit other than cursing him out. She handled it maturely and REAL ASF 💯💯💯
The blind leading the blind ( Erica , Bambi , Sierra , Rasheeda ) . They all take each other’s word not realizing their significant others have a side to tell as well . Bambi grabbing Scrap and putting her finger in his face triggered tf outta me .
@@kennedyfknalexa yea and that tantrum almost cost him a concussion. Maybe if it was harder it would have knocked some kind of sense in him. He is heartless af and I'm starting to think now he was using Erica as a storyline and that's why he didn't want anymore kids with her.
@@fatwp6345 bruh she basically said her dad was there for her but some stuff she noticed when she was an adult ain’t sit right. Like her dad said so many mfs can’t say they had a dad and he was that to her someone who took care of her who was THERE IN HER LIFE she disrespectful asf, I feel like she only accepts kirks behavior because her dad was a player
Swear🥴🥴 and she's always super gangsta in the confessional but never about that life in person ; unless security is there to back her up. Cracks me tf up 🤣
I’m proud of scrappy for standing up for himself and saying no to the perpetuation of generational curses. It’s unfortunate that his mom refuses to take responsibility for the hurt and pain he’s suffering but it’s ok scrap. You’re on the right path to healing. God got you.
Bs yall seem to forget both samantha and her mom tried to jump yandy more than once then she wants to whine that she got beat up the double standard is ridiculous
I don't think I will ever feel sorry for her. She ruined her body for what? Everything she is getting is karma. Lying, cheating and mistreating people who love you will always come back to hit you in your behind. Rich ending up with her is fuckery coming full circle. Karli Redd is desperate as hell.
Damnnn scarppy, I proud of him. Sometimes it's hard to put your foot down to your parents but I'm glad he did, he's finally letting go of childhood trauma.
Rasheeda trying to get defensive because her father was telling her the same she been seeing online shows that she just doesn’t want to accept the truth that Kirk is not the one for her. Her daddy trying to tell her when a man does those kinds of things to you he clearly does not love you an ounce! Real love doesn’t do that to you. She need to find a real man.
@@sammy9679 nah facts and although Kirk is a terrible husband that was not the time for her dad to start going on a tangent about him bc how you gonna talk about another man when you can’t even acknowledge your own wrongdoings maybe if she had freedom in her first relationship with a man (her father) maybe she will be able to find freedom in her now relationship with her husband
The way Bambi talk to Scrappy like she a dude is cringe. 🥴 Men need a soft spoken woman not calling him “bruh” or running in his face like she about to “put them paws on him” 🤭🙄
What was the point of Meda in this season? How can she say she’s not the side chick when she’s sleeping with a married man? Life would be so much simpler if these men just stopped cheating.
First and foremost, self love is so important. Karlie looks like a completely different person. To feel the need to replace every part of your body is just wild to me. Love the skin you’re in and eliminate those that make you question your worth.
These the type of mothers that wasted their youth sluttin or some other b.s. and now that they're older they know that know they will never attract a man to love them because of their toxic ways. he may come to hit it here and there until he's bored but never stick around bc he senses the b.s. and so her son is the only man in her life that will love her and these type of mothers will try to jeopardize her son and his relationships so he will never leave her side because she knows that once she leaves she will be alone. Her son is her lover and Deep down she's miserable and well, misery loves company. She doesn't want to see him happy bc she isn't she doesn't want to him see him being happy in love bc she isnt happy in love She knows she's full of ish in the inside and that why know man is foolish enough to commit but will never admit it outwardly and will play victim especially when you call them out on their b.s. and yet she refuses to take any accountability.
@@_JaneDoe000 Plus, rasheeda had money 💰 since she was 17 years old. Her dad don't know that type of money. His struggle is something she could never understand. She could never understand not feeling good enough to face your relatives, all because you aren't in the right State of mind or financial situation. She will never understand because she didn't struggle for decades like he did. They will never see eye to eye unless she experiences what he has
@@nicoleraheem1195 but that’s not Rasheeda’s problem. I’m really sick and tired of these adults not exercising foresight before having these dang kids. And then get angry when those same kids call them out on their shitty parenting. Food for thought: have kids when you’re emotionally, financially and spiritually ready to handle the responsibility.
@@thatbeaatcch9884 If your friends are putting their fingers in your face and standing over you the way she was, you need to set some healthy boundaries. My friends talk to me with respect even when we don't agree.
@@thatbeaatcch9884 girl no any of my friends get in my face like she wanna fight , she getting hit off rip, she mad cause shekina spoke facts and she got her karma you did all the messing with married men and cheating on ppl just to end up just like them but you saying meda has no morals 😂😂😂 and you do ?
Finally getting to see scrappy stand up for himself with momma dee is so good for the soul he is an insanely respectful son considering the bs shes put him through in his life
Scrappy is growing so much mentally. I applaud him for understanding his traumatic childhood and being man enough to do something about it, and have the opportunity to.
Isn’t he just sooo sexy by becoming such a mature man!!!
Absolutely👏💯, I was hoping someone made a comment about it. Gotta give credit where its due.
This right here 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
For real it was one of the saddest things I had to watch. That was a fully televised breakdown
@@tralalaladee It broke my heart too. He has his flaws but has changed a great deal. His kids are very lucky. It’s rare as black people (especially black parents) to acknowledge the mental strain that comes with being raised in a black household 😅 he’s doing great.
When scrappy was yelling at momma dee and almost said “I’m the kid” that broke me… so much unresolved trauma.
Yeah
Karli needs to stop with the plastic surgery ugh I said it
Right, I felt that in my soul😢
@@Taliyahthomas6446 you putting that under this comment is sending me LMFAOOO
@@Taliyahthomas6446 OMG, somebody needed to say it. I'm totally confused isn't plastic surgery supposed to improve/enhance. She looks worse🙄.
Momma Dee is a prime example as to why we stop talking to our parents y’all don’t wanna own up to anything they do to hurt us!
Right!! Mama Dee will own up to what she's done..Nooooooo accountability will she take..
She is just like Tommie's mom refusing to take accountability and just downright playing the victim.
@@BeastQueen365then the same people who always using the “but that your family though” bs
Parents are too OLD to not take accountability
Period they don’t
How Erica decided to lay down with Safaree, I will never understand. He's so goofy , he legit hit himself with a chair 💀
Lol I still don’t get how Nicki was with him for so long
😂😂😂
Erica doesn’t have much choice, she’s trashy
Because she can’t get a Hispanic man and she knows black men are desperate for nonblack women. 😂 perfect
He fine and I heard the penis good in most cases a dude could be less if he got money and still get beautiful women..
I just KNOW Safaree was embarrassed as hell when he tried to show out for the cameras and ended up making himself look ridiculous. I bet he had a shiner later that day.
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣 That would have been my final reason💀
I don't think he was tryna show out , I think he finally opened his eyes n thought bout what they was saying n thought bout some that made him wanna skip it.
I’m cryinggggg bc he followed through 😂
Gurll 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
The fact that rasheeda doesn’t understand why her father doesn’t like Kirk is mind boggling. Counseling…she needs counseling.
She needs some esteem she is beautiful though
Her father is no better than Kirk, that's the point, go back and listen again that's what she's telling him and his response was what he had going on with other women and his other children has nothing to do with her, welp he should take his own advice
Men can be hypocritical
@@daniellej7914 facts
Her father don’t be playing ok ❤️😂
Safari hitting himself on the head with the chair will never not be funny. He's so corny.
Corndog, cornball, cornmeal dumpling corny
@@queennubian2573 🌽 Cornflakes frfr
@@queennubian2573 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣every time I see it I die laughing. The fact he was mad n threw the chair an hit his own self🤣🤣🤣🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️. Maybe he needed to knock some sense into his self 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
@@NinaSimone3 cornstarch fr 🤥
Karlie really ruined that beautiful, natural look she had by doing all she did unnaturally to her face.
That’s one strong demon that whispers in a lot of our ears that we’re not enough the way we are.
No demon social media has no power without people
she and kim z look just alike now
Shit crazy….to risk your life to look different then the way God made you, unless it was medically necessary
Preach girl!
Agreed ❤
Spice is right. She has NO business collaborating with these washed up and untalented Love and Hip Hop z list influencers. Spice is a Grammy nominated household artist, and deserves to be treated as such.
Right. Spice has been a household name in the Caribbean for soooo long. Karlie being from the Caribbean knows this very well. So if she says ur not ready and a song isn't fit to be played, just listen.
She is a Grammy winner to me, hope they don't give it to another white random group again 😒😒
@@liqua95 and Europe! Spice is international. I grew up on her and Vybz lol
Exactly .... 😂😂🤣🤣🤣
True but the song with Karlie went to number 2 on the afrobeats charts and some other chart.
Safari getting hit by that chair was so deserved😂😂, but i’m not sure why kirk even trying to be a spokesperson for marriage considering his MANY faults🤔..
edit- y’all in here being shooters for kirk like he paying y’all, i think him and rasheeda odd for giving ANYONE advice..it’s my opinion like be fr do we know how they act off cams?
😩😂
@@londonpain45 the same wife he cheated on multiple times & had a baby on her !
@@londonpain45 i never said that😭..you making up scenarios bro, i think rasheeda & kirk both weird on giving relationship advice, especially the cheater in the relationship 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
LOL SPOKESPERSON!!!! NOT THAT 🤣
Lol the fact that Karlie tried to make herself cry was hilarious
Her face looks hilarious all the time 🤣🤣🤣🤣she looks like a 🤡
Getting ready for her next role
So annoying
With all that surgery it makes it harder 😭😭😭😭😭
@@essencemartin4539 right she looks horrible
When srappy said 'Go blame that on yo mama, go blame that on yo daddy, I ain't do nothing to you!' whew child, I felt that and yet I had great parents!!
Facts !!! But now that I’m older and have a child I can see where some trauma got to us so I totally get it
And so glad you had both parents I would love to have a mom and dad but don’t ;/ but mama Dee is what she is poor scrappy
Same
I love that Scrappy finally stood up to his mom. Good for him.
@@barbarabam8155 That's your business, she has disrespected and controlled him for a long time. She deserves it
@@barbarabam8155 did u even hear him say that she has disrespected him over and over again .. like he told her he respects whoever respects him period
@@barbarabam8155 f her.
@@avacadocap9591 yes
Momma Dee is too old for this show
Safaree getting hit back by the chair took Me out 😭😭
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That chair said take this dumb ass
I DIED😂😂
Almost took him out too
Perfect. He is so ridiculous, I don't know how anyone could take him serious.
We are finally seeing how much of a narcissist mama dee really is . I’m glad scrappy is not having it anymore . She can not take accountability.
Oh plz.. Talking to yo mama, like they equal.. he a lil Bicc...No parent is perfect and some are really fucked up, but a man he s man through and through he ain't a model dad. Disrespecting his own mama is what his children will see and give it back to him 1000x.
Exactly
@@Julems that type of mentality is why most mamas boys never get married. She disrespected him and the mother of HIS CHILDREN but yet he’s not allowed to express himself? That’s ignorant and who are you!
@@jennaebradshaw1308 You sound very confident in your ignorance.Expressing and disrespecting are not the same thing fool...Was he ever a man to begin with he wouldnt have been treated like.. punching and screaming, huffing and puffing get outta here fool. Y'all should stay away from public platform when y'all dis dumb
@@Julems and you should learn as a grown ass man that a public platform comments and opinions are valid. You sound like the ignorant one now don’t you 😂😂.
Erica is definitely a victim, but she's also been constantly abusive in her relationships. Bambi and Erica's sense of loyalty is emotionally stunted and very highschool. She's put out toxic energy for years, been a side chick, put her hands on partners...and is shook that she attracted someone on the same wave as her...like 🥴 Literally work for a show that exploits black pain. Seems like she loves the struggle lowkey and its giving them a check. This whole show spreads that energy but, everyone's a victim...okay. The only one I've seen truly grow is scrappy. Spice is too legit for this platform.
Agreed💯
Slow mothafucking clap im giving you…..CAUSE…..EXACTLY ❤😂
Yeah, I’ve always thought the same. Spice actually has talent and a career. I was low key disappointed that she even thought to do a song with Karlie…like Karlie??? Karlie Redd?? Uh uh
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 TO Scrappy for FINALLY telling his mom off! Wrong delivery but it's been going on toooooo long. She has been in ALL his relationships and now HE GROWN!!! J.S.
IT WASN'T THE WRONG DELIVERY🤷♀️, BECAUSE SHE WASN'T LISTENING NOR TAKING ACCOUNTABILITY FOR THE DAMAGE SHE'S STILL CAUSING TO THIS DAY🤦♀️🤦♀️... AS HE SAID " HE WON'T BE TAKING ANY MORE DISRESPECT FROM HER, AND NO ONE ELSE ".... JUST, BECAUSE THAT'S HIS MOTHER, DOESN'T MEAN, SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO KEEP DISRESPECTING HIS WIFE AND HIM...IJS...IT'S MOTHERS LIKE HER, THAT MAKE THEIR CHILDREN LOVE LIFE SHIT... EDIT: I'M NOT EVEN TRYING TO BE RUDE NOR DISRESPECTFUL, BECAUSE HIS TYPE OF SITUATION, PLUS OTHERS NEEDS TO STOP😩😩...IT IS " NOT OKAY NOR SHOULD WE THINK IT IS OKAY, FOR YOU'RE PARENTS/ECT, TO MENTALLY DAMAGE YOU", JUST BECAUSE THEY HAVE TIES TO YOU😩😩🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️...HOW MANY PRISONS CAN A SOUL TAKE🤔🤔??NONE 🤷♀️.THE MORE YOU TRAP YOURSELF IN A MENTAL PRISON(FROM ALL ASPECTS), THE EASIER YOU BECOME THE "TARGET ", DOORMAT, PUSHOVER, NAIVE ONE, WEAK ONE ETC ....TRUST ME, THAT WON'T GET YOU INTO ANOTHER PRISON CALLED " HEAVEN"🤣🤣🤷♀️🤷♀️...
yesss
He's been telling her for years to stay out of his business to stay out of his relationship to respect his wife eventually when you place a boundary and nobody listens to you or nobody respects said boundary you snap and that's what happened here so maybe he shouldn't have came at his mom like that but everything he said was from his heart
Ya'll forgetting Scrappy tells Momma Dee their business. Yes she shouldn't be involved like she is but Scrappy keeps telling her their business..JS
Yesss In that moment he actually broke free .
Scrappy is high key emotionally intelligent. People can’t look past the tough man persona he puts on but he’s real deal hurt. Mama Dee is a narcissist because she had to be. Single black mothers have to carry the entire burden of the whole family. I hope he heals from the emotional trauma that a lot of black children go through in the hood. The hood is not to be glorified. It’s scary, confusing and not a place to raise a young child. We gotta do better and protect our black children✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
**Single moms come in all shades not just black & ALL THE children need protection.... We need to stop dividing ourselves up into groups of them vs us vs y'all vs me & start seeing everyone in our own neighborhood as being apart of our community & watching each other's backs when possible. It's a mindset of all children are our own future & every single child today will be the generation making decisions tomorrow so we gotta take care of them while they're young & teach them how they should be with a caring spirit so they can make the best decisions for us all.... No matter what shade of skin tones or background they have.
**The hood consists of people who are all shades tones ethnicities, religions, & backgrounds & we must protect all the children growing up in the hood & dangerous areas that are not suitable for the children but unfortunately it's just the only types of places most single moms/single income households can afford... Then those areas are not looked at fairly by outside businesses so those same children are also living in food deserts making their situation even worse since they're not the type of places you can just send your kids outside to go play with the other neighborhood kids exasserbating their own health & fitness while usually being district one schools on top of the other issues.... We just have to be able to look out for everyone else who may be in our neighborhood & when we become business owners ourselves then we need to start opening up shop in our own areas which opens up jobs in our own communities & hopefully by doing this we can do more for ourselves & each other without depending on outsiders who know nothing about where we come from...
she didn’t NEED to be a narcissist
@@delucastudios3097 to survive she did. People are products of their environment. Sociopaths are created, psychopaths are born.
Spot on❤
She’s HAD to be a narcissist? How? Having to be strong is very different than having to be a narcissist. No one HAS to be a narcissist.
The way Safaree flung that chair and it went absolutely nowhere...except against his own head 😭 STOP ✋️
😭😭
He’s a crybaby cancer.
That was the good LORD !!!
😂😂😂the best thing
WILD 😝
The way Safaree threw the chair and hit his own self I died laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I pissed myself laughing especially when he tried to gaslight on why we threw the chair beyond hilarious.😂
😂
the same way bambie want scrappy to stop running to his momma telling her stuff, she needa stop running to her friends telling them stuff because it ain’t they business either !!
Say it again!!! I will tell a stranger (a therapist) my business about my relationship before I will tell friends and family.
Fact !!!! These women need to STOP talking so much.
Exactly. She lame as hell. But I luh dem kids 😍
They came to her every time. Messed up many events off what mama dee messiness
I agree but I don’t think it’s just the fact that he’s telling his momma I think it’s the fact that Momma Dee taking what Scrappy saying switching it up and telling other people that’s the problem. It’s okay to confide in people to a certain extent but gta be mindful who you telling your business to
Karlee “crying” with her face not moving is sending me 😂😂😂
Literally 😂😂😂😂
For real I’m like girl 😂😂
man i was waiting for this omg i was on the fucking floor 😂😂😂😂😂
I dont understand why she would get surgery its not like she was getting wriinkles or anything.
Spice was right and I’m like what’s Karlee sign a cancer cause the fake deep emotions on cue 😂
Scrappy’s character development has been beautiful from beginning to now! So much growth.
Definitely grew ALOT THATS RESPECT FR ‼️💯
That’s what happens when you do the work
I knew he had it in him, it just took so time and refinement, he always cracked me up, the fact he never choked out his mom did it for me😅
This needs to updates now the new season is out
@@PhDDimeKBwhy does it need an update? This statement still stands.
Scrappy is right “I give respect where I get respected back” our parents hate when we call them out.. people won’t understand unless you lived and went through that type of life! I use to tell off my kindergarten teachers… sh*t ain’t normal.. Been trying my hardest to break generational cycles 🙏🏼🤟🏼
Facts 💯.
When Scrappy said “I saw whores, crack pipes, and heard gunshots and I thought it was normal” it hit me hard! I’m in school for Clinical psychiatry, and when I finish school I want to most definitely cater to the Black community on childhood trauma and mental health 💯 because in our community it’s not a topic that’s not discussed enough 💯
Things happen all the time i grew up poor environment
@@oholm09 facts💯
Don’t stop chasing that dream we need you out here !
I grew up seeing so much violence I think it gave me PTSD
@@teebee4749 I’m so sorry to hear that sweetheart, I pray that you get the healing or some type of coping mechanisms to deal with that 💯♥️
Karlie used Spice and was dead wrong for trying to push her to be ready knowing damn well she didn’t give her permission to play the song.
She ain’t used her, she was too damn excited and couldn’t just chill and wait. She ain’t think it was a big deal to play it.
@@emayan06 but if it’s a partnership you both have to be on the same page.
@@jennaebradshaw1308 I agree. Karlie be doing too much sometimes fr.
Exactly Karlie just so fcking desperate for Spice to pat her on the back like girl you are too old
Yes that wasn't right at all, she let her excitement ruin the night. If Spice never does a song w/her she'll know why.
That Meda situation got out of control because EVERYBODY OUTSIDE OF THE SITUATION involved themselves in the situation.
Exactly
I also feel like she wanted to make it known and didn't realize how big it was going to become..
Ain’t no father going to like a man that mishandles and mistreats his daughter
Ong!
Unless he's ah suckah
Facts 💯💯
Scrappy face when Safaree hit himself with that chair will forever be funny😂
😂😂
His facial expressions fuckin kill me 😂😂😂😂😂
Well, now we know why Rasheed won't leave kirk. She has daddy issues.
YUP!
And that's why everyone calls her a clown 🤡 and sometimes she dresses like 1 too
And the way she is so sympathetic and forgiving to Kirk but not her father. She really need’s to heal. Him going off on how Kirk does her dirty shouldn’t be why she doesn’t want to talk to him.
Right like girl why would your dad like Kirk like bffr
Rasheeda always mentions her marriage and family and businesses as a cop out to justify Kirk's actions when the means should NOT justify the actions in those cases. When u say for better or for worse it's not pertaining to "mistakes" that he's made.....which are deliberate choices actually. For better or for worse means differences of opinion, one of them losing a job, making a come up together, etc. and still working it out. Not cheating, buying whole condos without the other's knowledge, having affairs and outside children, tired of raising your kids, and so on
i’m happy the whole samantha getting jumped/snuck at the reunion situation was addressed because it was no reason that any of the boys mothers should’ve been touched for just wanting respect from their child’s step-mother.
They both need to grow up!
Facts! Seems like Yandy still won't take accountability though. Like she says she's sorry or whatever but she knows she doesn't mean that shit
Yancy was still on some bs. YANDY STOOD UP TO FIGHT! SHE STARTED IT AND STILL NOT ADMITTING HER PART
@@jennaebradshaw1308 Samantha literally came in calm and respectful til that girl started getting hype so how does Samantha get put in as they both need to grow up lol
@@shawnhall9792 even before this whole sit down before this season they both were acting very immature.
i applaud the women who tried standing up to safaree and make him understand how he’s hurting erica. so much respect to them!
Erica knew what she was getting into. When they first came back on the show together it was for a money grab/storyline.
He told her he didn't want kids yet neither of them were mature enough to use birth control. The second kid she purposely waited pass the legal abortion time to tell him she was pregnant They kept being careless and irresponsible.
They were both wrong and now the children may suffer. Erica has a child that she provides for but admitted that she doesn't raise. She is also damaged, hurt and suffering from trauma. She should have healed and strengthened the position with he first child before having other kids. There's a possibility the kids with Safaree will suffer if they don't get it right...... Lord knows he's going through some stuff too.
No those women need to mind the business that pays them and know the entire truth and not just go by what Erica tells them.
It ain’t none of they business, they probably want him
@@sonyablaze9668 literally what are u talking about .. why are all y’all acting like if you weren’t in a terrible marriage like that that u wouldn’t want ur friends to stand up for u. like if u want to have friends who never stand up for u and be around the man who violated and left u and kumbaya with him then by all means, i hope ur okay with that lol
They have the same mutual friends and they’re on the same show. Erica is never not going to see Safaree. 🤦🏾♀️ If she wants to isolate herself, then she needs to leave reality tv. 🤷🏾♀️
Why does Saferee care that Rich is flirting with Erica when he stepped out on her during their marriage publicly and embarrassed her
Ego thing
Dudes like him can’t stand seeing the woman they had control over no longer on their knees for him
Ego
B/c Richie is supposed to be his friend
@@kaykay-slay1227 ... but erica was rich's ex first, and safaree and rich were friends while rich and erica were together. that's hypocrisy 😭
When rasheeda said “ I shouldn’t have to invite you , you’re my dad “ I felt ts , it should never be the childs responsibility to reach out and try to form or rekindle a relationship with their parents 💯🗣️
yes!!!!!!!
I feel like they should. Im sure she invited her mom or involved her. Same way she should have invited her dad
But what about when the child and parent dont have a good relationship and the parent feels as though their kid doesnt wanna see em?
@@Tweakerbitc98 then a conversation needs to be had but as the parent, they should just take the initiative and reach out if they really want a relationship with their child. If the child doesn’t want to have a relationship fine but I know that as a parent I would at least like to be able to say I tried
@@Tee313___ you said that in a pretty good way and i agree with what you said
Rasheedas father spoke facts and you can tell the look on her she got mad because she still with him.
Exactly 💯
Facts
Facts
And the mother just sitting there looking 👀
Yep! She looked like a clown “so what he had a baby on me.”
Safari knew the moment that chair hit him in the head, that he’s going to forever be reminded of it 😅
I used to like Kendra, but now she starting to act like the other ladies of the show, fighting so hard for a man that doesn’t truly respect you to the point of losing your reputation & career !
i’m GLAD scrappy is finally coming out & confronting momma dee about his trauma. in that scene, she really showed me that she’s self-centered, doesn’t even care about her own son’s feelings & just wants to control every little thing in his life. i really believe that she’s the reason why him & erica didn’t work out had she not interfered in every damn thing.
That’s alot of mothers my mother is the same dam way wants to control everything & anything i do it’s sickening….
@@StillAlive-t8e you gotta step up and get out of that situation. mother or not, you deserve to live, find peace and be happy with your life.
They ALL do that! It doesn't matter if it's Scrappy's Mom or Rasheeda's DAD. They were all the BEST parents EVER and the way their children remember things is wrong. They're always a saint and a martyr. It's exhausting.
Mama Dee is in LaLa Land All by herself 🤣🤣🤣
@@NinaSimone3 no she’s not, she’s there with as Rashida’s father, my mother and every other toxic parent
I don't care what y'all say......Rasheeda daddy Harold, Henry, or whatever his name is the real G.O.A.T. He didn't lie about s**t on Kirk. Rasheeda was speechless a lil bit because she know he right. If Rasheeda say one more time they been married 20+years as a justification I'm gon scream🤦
Same!! When she mentioned the 20 years I got irritated. I hate when people bring up how long their relationship is like it means something.
Exactly..We see that man embarrass and cheat on her on television and I'm all the way in Jamaica😂 had a whole baby aftef he told u to get a dna test and to abort yours and was in the hot tub with one of your 'friends' and u stayed with him and that's fine but don't go around bragging about your relationship like Kirk didn't give u a couple STI scares😂😂
@@beauty-kg6be HIV too…of her cervix is still healthy I’ll be shocked.
His opinion on THEIR marriage.. is null and void! Y'all are STILL mad at Kirk. She's over it. Literally could care less. Fuck his opinion when he hasn't even been the type of father she needed in life. Her self worth, confidence, how she feels and honors marriage and relationships period... Are all directly related to her dad being non-existent basically and then he doesn't wanna own up to it. Her marriage has NOTHING to do with the issues at hand that she's trying to converse with her dad about and he's clearly negating and denying bc he doesn't wanna accept the fact that he failed her miserably. Think about this.. had he been a better father, maybe Rasheeda wouldn't have allowed him to have multiple babies on her. Ijs! She's suffering from trauma he caused her yet refuses to even acknowledge that shit. He has no room to talk. ABSOLUTELY none. Acknowledgement and a little accountability is all she wants from her dad. Hell Kirk gave her THAT much if you gonna be real about it. With facts.. not emotions. SMH
He's the goat tho. A damn deadbeat who even in his old age can't say that he messed up. SMH this generation man. Y'all are truly jacked up.
Mendeeecees killing meeeee "Rich whachu doin? you made that man hit himself with a chair"
Lmaooooo
erica is determined to see meda as a side chick that glories in ruining relationships and thats not the case, meda never stood up and pridefully announce she messes w joc, she just stated a fact when asked, erica is just projecting her anger at being cheated on and forgetting how she too has been the girl that she loudly proclaims has “no morals” the lack of self reflection and perspective from her is all a bit ludicrous
Thank you!!! I'm tired of the "poor Erica" comments. She's a disgusting person. Loud, ghetto and wrong.
Her, Kendra, Mimi etc lol erica following after her
Yeah she see Meda as the side chick she was to DJ Envy and his wife …
what goes around comes around for sure
Its funny that erica says meda has no morals but where was hers when she was sleeping with DJ envy.. a married man
Bambi, Erica, and Sierra have been doing entirely too much when it came to Meda, Kendra, and Joc. I wish I would insert myself into a friend’s marital problems like they did. At this point, they’re more bothered by it than Kendra is.
Looking like fools after finding out Kendra knew about the baby’s and Meda beforehand 🤣 Then Mimi getting triggered off a lie from Erica as well. Smh.
Exactly what you said
And Kendra ain't really bothered because she knew what was up the whole time. Make it make sense to me 🤦
You said it perfectly
Erica and Bambi must have forgot that they were both sidechicks too 😂
When Rasheeda dragged her dad about being a present father, her mom couldn’t even disagree with her. Look at her face 😂😂😂
😂😂😂
@@Coco-chrispy Yet she continued to defend a man that treated her like trash and had a whole baby with another woman on her!
Her face had me weak 😂
27:44 I feel Mimi’s pain. Watching my mom go through hell with my dad just to get a dime or even help with us kids made me realize. I NEVER want to or will ever do that.
Kendra is about to lose her entire career & mind over this man 🫣
🤔
Nope. She's putting on for t.v. She knew all of this. There's nothing to it. She has no other story line.
Exactly I thought lawyer are supposed to be smart. But common sense is lacking....what did u expect from a man like joc..🤦🏾♀️
Joc is a latent homosexual… he don’t like women.. he has terrible relationships with women , wants to abuse them only .. (probably due to his mom) joc don’t want Kendra .. he wants to become desirable to others by using props , particularly people or material stuff… Kendra is a prop or thing to him to feel better about his long gone career and the fact he is getting old and has not accomplished what he had hoped for himself
Prey for the collective, girl! It’s really weird out here. 😂
We need Rasheed dad on the cast full time please he is hilarious 😂
Frfr. He'd be checking the whole cast. He would shut all their asses down down.
😂😂😂 absolutely agree 👏
He had me in tears laughing, he reminded me of my father and Uncles.
For real for real he speaks his mind and so funny with it 😂🤣 🤣😅😅
Girl! IKR. 😂🤣 He's a funny grouchy man and reminds me of Sanford & Son! Redd Foxx Jr😂😂😂
I’m glad Scrappy finally stood his ground with Mama Dee. Mama Dee interfered with his relationship with Erica. Mama Dee has no boundaries when it comes to Scrappy.
She wants to control his life, I kinda think she thinks she is his woman smh. Black single moms have to change this dynamic with their sons!
THREE BABIES AND SHE LOOKS LIKE A SUPERMODEL! Bambi's snapback is the shiznit!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Wish that was was me
It's called surgery sweetie... oh and being part horse helps also.
@@LilBlue30 stop hating, jelly roll.
😂😂😂😂😂@@LilBlue30
@bcook4212 Hating ? I've never known anybody to find Bambi attractive. She's like a big long horse/giraffe. Probably trans too.
Scrappy is aging like fine wine 😍🤤
Ain't He Though? 😍😍
Honestlyyyyy
Right?!!!!😍
RIGHHHTTT mentally and physically, like damn 😍😍😍😍
Beautifully 😍
Safaree must’ve forgot that Rich was dating Érica before him they rushed their marriage and had kids that doesn’t mean anything it was rushed.
Like, does he not realize that was Rich’s ex first? Rich really doesn’t have to explain anything to him.
@@christinajackson6309 It doesn't matter if Rich dated Erica first cause everyone has exes. Safaree married her, had kids with her and that's the difference.
Mimi look better and better the older she get!
SHE'S LIVING HER BEST LIFE AMD NOT INVOLVED IN THIS DRAMA😂😂
She started dating that wnba player and then her life got better and she looks better. Lool😂
@@onlylb or she got her face and body done 😂😂
@@Aubknowball17 And? They ALL did🤣☠️
@@mysteriadarden4092 yeah tryna to keep up with the younger crowd and looking goofy
Yandy is such a FRAUD SHE SET THAT WHOLE THING 😂😂😂
When Sam called her a liar her husband was 🤐🤐🤐
…..cause He knows 🤥🤥🤡🤡
Yep
She definitely throw the bricks and hides her hand everytime!!! PEOPLE ACT LIKE THEY CAN'T SEE IT
Exactly 😂😂😂
*Safaree hitting himself with the chair after that WEIRD ASS dramatic throw is HILARIOUS*
When I tell you my stomach was hurting 😭😭😭
@@bambinakekeI literally squealed I was laughing that hard 🤣🤣🤣
Yandy still just comes across as fake, petty & immature to me.
💯 Agree with you
Facts
She is,
Samantha spoke facts when she said yandy be lying
I agree all the way. When juju came out with her book and she made it about herself
That's because she is.
Rasheedas father was not wrong at all, I understand all she wants is validation and reassurance from her father. But everything he said flew over her head and went straight to her emotions
She’ll forgive Kirk but not her father? How would she expect any father to feel about a husband repeatedly humiliating her on national tv for a decade or more?
That's two completely different situations. The two can't even be compared. Please stop it.
@@jylessa_spiritgem4736 you right but I feel like she shouldn’t be that mad at her dad when she has admitted he’s been a great father , & you mad he don’t like your husband , duhhhhhh dingbat why would he ??
Logic over feelings 💯
@@destinianderson4125 exactly
The way Mendercees handled that situation is how real grown men do things
Best thing Rasheeda said "stop telling your mama everything". I had to learn that too, mamas CAN and WILL tell your business.
I'm still mad at the fact that Samantha got jumped from one of Yandy's family member. Especially when Yandy KNEW the WHOLE time who the person was. She KNEW.
Yup yandy was wrong even though it wasn't her...that wasn't right..
And I'm sooooo glad mendecee corrected them...
i mean yandy ain’t kno she was gon snatch her up😭 they said it wasn’t planned
@@snobunnij3400 don't believe that for a minute
@@QueenSugar72 even though it wasn't planned why lie acting like you didn't know what happened....I'm not saying snitch on yo fam but acting oblivious is what made her look guilty..
Samantha had a right to be angry, Yandy really needs to take ownership and accountability.
Scrappy wouldn't be acting out like that unless it's some real, deep pain. A lot of men use anger to express themselves because we are told that being vulnerable is a sign of weakness, but there comes a time in a man's life where he has to get in touch with himself and deal with the things inside of him or else it will literally destroy him. I hope he is able to get on a path of healing and maybe even be a role model to someone else who grew up like he did.
📚🧠🚫 Kendra is smart enough to become a lawyer. But not enough to NOT marry Joc.
Bambi needa mind her business bitch mad mixy
She prolly booksmart but lacks common sense 😩
I bet she’s a shit lawyer 😂 just cause Damn.. why she letting that dry ass man do this to her?
@@kennedyfknalexa 🙌 Big Facts..
@@kennedyfknalexa lol. I think she's up on who he is. As a lawyer she has learned social and behavioral characteristics of people (to some measure). She just has codependency issues, unfortunately like a lot of high achieving BW that low vibrational and narcissistic BM target. She and other women put standards and expectations on themselves professionally and even perhaps in other interactions or relationships with family and friends, but not with their romantic and intimate partners. She can heal the codependency if she seeks deep understanding of herself from an expert coach or therapist. And, we call what you stated, where I come from, which is New York City... "Book smart and everyday stupid". 😉
I’m sorry but staying with someone because y’all have children is not worth it. Sanity and peace is more important
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I agree. Coparenting would be much healthier.
Once kids are involved, its no longer about YOU. Marriage is duty, not about your happiness.
@@reitum.9950 Yes I agree but at the same time you have to be in a happy place to be able to raise those children. In a happy or at least peaceful environment, at that.
@@neliasanca Let's encourage therapy instead. Let's stop breaking up homes and families. Ish happens, we can fix it if we try. Not give up.
What shekinah said was all facts. That is how 99% of women feel when we go through something. That battle is real
Where u get your nrs from? 99%? 🤣🤣
That scene with scrappy and momma dee makes me tear up😢 the hurt in his voice gets me every time.
Scrappy left Erica because she didn't 'take care of him' enough and she was 'too hard'. Now he's saying the same thing about Bambi? How has no one mentioned to him that his glaring mommy issues are the real core of the issue he keeps making with his partners?
I’m so glad you pointed that out because when he said it I was like you said the same thing about Erica. We never realize how deep rooted men have mommy issues to they lean on their woman to be the mom and not a wife!
@@jaylahnikolek And here I thought he was refering to lack of reciprocity. Of how she has her girl support system and him checking up on her, while he has none of that. Not from his momma not from her not from anyone.
This is so true and needs to be addressed. It honestly not to belittle him in any type of way because this is something that honestly is not his fault. You can tell he didn’t get the attention, the compassion, the mental support, guidance and hugs/kisses from his mom as an adolescent and even in adulthood he’s longing for it. So to have a woman that is strong minded, self sufficient and not co-dependent clashes with his need for someone to give him the affection that he has grown up lacking. It’s not that Erica didn’t have it in her to give to him, it’s that at that time in life Scrappy had not matured enough to identify this particular void.
As for Bambi, I think she plays both sides. She uses this as a weakness against him in the form of manipulation which is easy for her since she’s the mother of his small children. I don’t dislike Bambi but, I don’t think she’s in love with Scrappy. I think she underestimated him from the start.
I mean did y’all not watch the scene with him and momma dee???? He starting his healing process and with that his marriage will become stronger it’s just going to take time.
@@alcoholicbunny2649 I sure hope so for him and his family's sake. I hope its not hood healing either. He needs real therapy, counseling, and support. He grew up in a literal whorehose for goodness sake.
The fact that Rasheed is disrespecting her dad for wanting to protect her against kirk is crazy. I get she wants him to mind his business and support her staying in that toxic relationship but come on. That’s crazy
he not backing down either. maybe , helping her get out of that cycle is going to be the very thing he does as a father for his daughter.
Right!! Rasheeda is so slow when it comes to Kirk
Some people stay in toxic relationships because low self esteem and self love
Rasheeda has real problem not her fault her mommy is not so honest too rasheeda gotta give her pop some slack
Kirk is her husband she know his not perfect but that’s her safe spot so maybe both are mess up together
Why does Rasheeda think that she is better than her parents? “You two didn’t even last a year.” Ok, and you’re in a 2 decade marriage that started off with grooming and hasn’t grown into anything better than what her parents relationship were. Weird🤨
Mannnn..u nailed my exact thoughts!!
Like deadass she's acting like her husband doesn't cheat and have kids on her everyday 🙄 she shouldn't be talking about anyone's marriage
Rasheeda’s Dad is hilarious . I’m sorry . I can see how her parents didn’t make it neither one of them give a eff. I think it’s honorable of him to have a problem with Kirk . Rasheeda is still his baby .
Rasheeda’s dad read her for filth 😂
Her & Kirk filthy ass & she couldn’t take it 🤣😂
And did 😂
She got really pissed when he told the truth about her terrible husband. He's a trash bag really
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He is so funny. We need more of him. At the end he said see ya Rasheeda lol
Erica and Bambi need to mind their business especially with their jacked up situations
EXACTLY!!!!
Thank you 💯
Bambi need to sit down she think she all dat and Erica thinks they the real stars when they man be doing them in
I agree these are 40 something yr old women.. they look stupid. How does Bambi know if Safari see his children or not...like hush, and mind your business and Mi Mi hush u went through what you went through, because you chose to stay!!
No one going to talk about how great of a friend shekinah is. Stood up for Erica and was saying some real shit other than cursing him out. She handled it maturely and REAL ASF 💯💯💯
No she needs to stay out of it, that is not her place to be in
I’m sorry the “you do” really triggered Erica had me dying 😂😂😂
The blind leading the blind ( Erica , Bambi , Sierra , Rasheeda ) . They all take each other’s word not realizing their significant others have a side to tell as well . Bambi grabbing Scrap and putting her finger in his face triggered tf outta me .
Damn Safaree jus almost took his own damn head off his shoulders. That hit was so satisfying it should have been harder.
He threw a tantrum and I was rolling. You too old Safaree.
@@kennedyfknalexa yea and that tantrum almost cost him a concussion. Maybe if it was harder it would have knocked some kind of sense in him. He is heartless af and I'm starting to think now he was using Erica as a storyline and that's why he didn't want anymore kids with her.
@@ChristinaMills8438 yes he is so corny to me, look at how he let Nicki Minaj treat him.
@@kennedyfknalexa yep and he faker than my nose ring.
@@ChristinaMills8438 LMAOOOO!! OK!
Rasheeda treats her Dad the way Kirk treats her. The disrespect is real !
And how did her dad treat her?
@@fatwp6345 Thank you. Glad somebody said it.
@@fatwp6345 better than Kirk? 😂
@@Pixixi that's not exactly good by any standard lol
@@fatwp6345 bruh she basically said her dad was there for her but some stuff she noticed when she was an adult ain’t sit right. Like her dad said so many mfs can’t say they had a dad and he was that to her someone who took care of her who was THERE IN HER LIFE she disrespectful asf, I feel like she only accepts kirks behavior because her dad was a player
It's how the chair fought back at Safaree for me. Joker was like, "nah, not today playa" LOLOLOLOLOL
Yandy be lying 😂 she can’t handle it when ppl calls her out
Swear🥴🥴 and she's always super gangsta in the confessional but never about that life in person ; unless security is there to back her up. Cracks me tf up 🤣
I guess that’s why she’s married
She is a LIAR LIKE FRFR
Facts
Still team yandy black love is real don't hate appreciate
In Samantha's defense, Yandy is a liar! ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 💯JUST SAYIN ‼️💯
I’m proud of scrappy for standing up for himself and saying no to the perpetuation of generational curses. It’s unfortunate that his mom refuses to take responsibility for the hurt and pain he’s suffering but it’s ok scrap. You’re on the right path to healing. God got you.
Deep deep hurt....Scrappy grew up in a whole different kind of chaos. I hope he gets help💔
The chair hitting Safaree after he threw it was a perfect example of "what you give is what you get" 😂
But yandy is a liar she lied when it happened. Then now her and her ppl are trying to downplay Samantha's feelings. Samantha deserves that apology
Yandy was shocked when it happened herself
Yandy didn’t know her sister was going too get active
@@LalaaNicholeI think they played the audio Yandy did know but acted like she didn’t when JuJu asked but she should still get her sister to apologize
Bs yall seem to forget both samantha and her mom tried to jump yandy more than once then she wants to whine that she got beat up the double standard is ridiculous
@@xxKeyy_- no she really didn’t know
Erica is extremely mean spirited it's so hard to feel bad for her
She finally met her match
Facts. Karma whipping her azz!
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I don't think I will ever feel sorry for her. She ruined her body for what? Everything she is getting is karma. Lying, cheating and mistreating people who love you will always come back to hit you in your behind. Rich ending up with her is fuckery coming full circle. Karli Redd is desperate as hell.
Really, no clue about those ppl but thought he was the asshole.
Rasheeda dad is the whole mood 😂😂
Yesss 😂
lmao reminding me of someone i uno dad......me lol
He didnt so nothing LOL!!
He's a ole fool!! Refuses to learn..
He had me rolling! 🤣 "OK I'll meet with the MF! "
Damnnn scarppy, I proud of him. Sometimes it's hard to put your foot down to your parents but I'm glad he did, he's finally letting go of childhood trauma.
Not Erica Mena saying someone doesn’t have morals like we don’t know her history of dealing with a married man herself smh lol
Omg I know. She’s such a hypocrite
@@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 they always love it till it’s their husband
Safari is Erica's karma
Right her and Bambi that's why they are getting their karma.
Right. These thots
Rasheeda trying to get defensive because her father was telling her the same she been seeing online shows that she just doesn’t want to accept the truth that Kirk is not the one for her. Her daddy trying to tell her when a man does those kinds of things to you he clearly does not love you an ounce! Real love doesn’t do that to you. She need to find a real man.
It also doesn’t help that Rasheeda was groomed by Kirk.
@@aneshaelizabeth people want to forget that! And he isolates her… there’s never a time where rasheeda and Kirk aren’t alone
That who situ is a mess bc her daddy issues are probably the reason she goes running back to him
@@sammy9679 nah facts and although Kirk is a terrible husband that was not the time for her dad to start going on a tangent about him bc how you gonna talk about another man when you can’t even acknowledge your own wrongdoings maybe if she had freedom in her first relationship with a man (her father) maybe she will be able to find freedom in her now relationship with her husband
She sees the 22yrs as a goal ,sad sad sad.
Bambi really be up in people business this season.
She’s turning into the new Mama Dee.
Cause she ain't got none of her own. She need to more focus into that so called clothing store house of shimmer.. I guess it's a lil dull
@@keishatowns9600 no u didn't 😂😂😂
@@Msboochie2 😂😂😂😂
The way Bambi talk to Scrappy like she a dude is cringe. 🥴 Men need a soft spoken woman not calling him “bruh” or running in his face like she about to “put them paws on him” 🤭🙄
What was the point of Meda in this season? How can she say she’s not the side chick when she’s sleeping with a married man?
Life would be so much simpler if these men just stopped cheating.
Bambi doesn't mind her business that's why her life is stagnant
Bambi needs to really mind her own business.
You Right!
@@zizostimela9055 right babes
That part
@@MsQueenpoppen Scrappy should have stayed with Erica.
Rasheeeeddaaaaaa.. I know you did not just give advice about Scrappy telling his business to the mama when yo mama ALWAYS in yours. Chiiiiiillleeee 😂
First and foremost, self love is so important. Karlie looks like a completely different person. To feel the need to replace every part of your body is just wild to me. Love the skin you’re in and eliminate those that make you question your worth.
EVERYTIME SOMEONE GET TO TELLING SAFARI THE REAL HE GET IN HIS FEELINGS AND START WALKING AWAY OR THROWING STUFF AROUND❤
Cuz he's a child in a grown man's body
Rasheeda was mad her daddy was right. Kirk stepped out a few times and she don’t want him to say nothing about it.
Toxic Narcissistic Mothers Are As Detrimental As Absentee Fathers. I Feel For Scrappy Because I Know What That Feels Like!
SAME!
So true and then can handle it when they get called out
Me as well😢
These the type of mothers that wasted their youth sluttin or some other b.s. and now that they're older they know that know they will never attract a man to love them because of their toxic ways. he may come to hit it here and there until he's bored but never stick around bc he senses the b.s. and so her son is the only man in her life that will love her and these type of mothers will try to jeopardize her son and his relationships so he will never leave her side because she knows that once she leaves she will be alone. Her son is her lover and Deep down she's miserable and well, misery loves company. She doesn't want to see him happy bc she isn't she doesn't want to him see him being happy in love bc she isnt happy in love She knows she's full of ish in the inside and that why know man is foolish enough to commit but will never admit it outwardly and will play victim especially when you call them out on their b.s. and yet she refuses to take any accountability.
Rasheedas dad is a rock and Kirk is the hard place. All these toxic men around her
Rasheeda dad spitting facts!
@@_JaneDoe000 Yeah. Rasheeda is an unreasonable and pretentious person. She treated Jasmin the same way as she treats her dad
@@_JaneDoe000 Plus, rasheeda had money 💰 since she was 17 years old. Her dad don't know that type of money. His struggle is something she could never understand. She could never understand not feeling good enough to face your relatives, all because you aren't in the right State of mind or financial situation. She will never understand because she didn't struggle for decades like he did. They will never see eye to eye unless she experiences what he has
@@_JaneDoe000 he was 💀
@@nicoleraheem1195 but that’s not Rasheeda’s problem. I’m really sick and tired of these adults not exercising foresight before having these dang kids. And then get angry when those same kids call them out on their shitty parenting. Food for thought: have kids when you’re emotionally, financially and spiritually ready to handle the responsibility.
safaree almost knocked himself out 🤣🤣🤣 this me when im tryna make a dramatic exit and the door wont open 🤣
Safaree hitting himself with the chair is sending me 😭😭😭
So Erica perfect?
I don't feel bad for Erica. Look how she even talks to her friends. Imagine marrying someone like that 😬
Bruh, if your friends can’t argue with you… you ain’t a real friend… real friends go through shit. It’s all love at the end and people are human
@@thatbeaatcch9884 If your friends are putting their fingers in your face and standing over you the way she was, you need to set some healthy boundaries. My friends talk to me with respect even when we don't agree.
If my friends would put their fingers in my face fuck that we fighting period
Right. Not at all.
@@thatbeaatcch9884 girl no any of my friends get in my face like she wanna fight , she getting hit off rip, she mad cause shekina spoke facts and she got her karma you did all the messing with married men and cheating on ppl just to end up just like them but you saying meda has no morals 😂😂😂 and you do ?
Finally getting to see scrappy stand up for himself with momma dee is so good for the soul he is an insanely respectful son considering the bs shes put him through in his life
That ninja Safaree had to go on a Tylenol run after that chair tantrum. Lmao 🤣🤣🤣