Every Book I DNFed in 2019

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  • @WhitneyDahlin
    @WhitneyDahlin 5 років тому +630

    Congratulations on adopting! I gave up my daughter for adoption right after I had her when I had just turned 17. It was the hardest thing I have ever had to do or will ever have to do. It was a mostly closed adoption but they send me pictures of her a few times a year and she's so happy! I got to pick out the family who wanted to adopt her myself and I know I made the right choice. She has everything she could ever want or need, she has a stable, happy home and which is far more than I could have provided her when I was 17. The world needs compassionate people like you to adopt and give a child the best life they could have! I know made the right choice and i can't handle reading anything negative happen to children either. Good luck on starting the adoption process! Any child is going to be lucky to have you for a mother

    • @merphynapier42
      @merphynapier42  5 років тому +102

      this is so sweet, thank you so much!

  • @touche5616
    @touche5616 5 років тому +184

    My dad was adopted, half of my siblings were adopted. My children will be adopted. You are a wonderful person.

    • @racheldemain1940
      @racheldemain1940 5 років тому +4

      I am adopted as is my Sister.

    • @arjenachten8273
      @arjenachten8273 4 роки тому +28

      I interpreted your comment as you saying you were going to put your biological children up for adoption and I was so confused until I thought about it for a second.

    • @firstnamelastname6016
      @firstnamelastname6016 4 роки тому +3

      My brother was adopted when I was little. It broke my heart when he ran away because I guess I loved him more than he loved me. I still want to adopt when I am older, every child deserves a loving and caring environment to grow up in.

  • @nicolekane1341
    @nicolekane1341 5 років тому +189

    Hey just an FYI you put up a picture for book 3 (A Storm of Swords) in ASOIAF instead of book 2 (Clash of Kings) :) love your videos!

    • @lutherfloyd597
      @lutherfloyd597 4 роки тому +7

      just an for your information...

    • @Dfndrofmnknd
      @Dfndrofmnknd 4 роки тому +31

      Luther Floyd the rule for proper usage of the singular indefinite article is based on the sound the following word begins with, not the letter. E.g. You'd say "an hour" despite the first letter being a consonant. So if Nicole pronounces the acronym /ɛfwaɪaɪ/ instead of saying "for your info," then her usage is correct

    • @brunobucciarati7278
      @brunobucciarati7278 4 роки тому

      @@lutherfloyd597 “an eff why eye.” Not “an for your information.”

    • @lutherfloyd597
      @lutherfloyd597 4 роки тому +1

      @@brunobucciarati7278 "F" stands for "For" not "Eff"

    • @brunobucciarati7278
      @brunobucciarati7278 4 роки тому +4

      @@lutherfloyd597 I can’t believe I have to explain this to you... when most people read FYI, they don’t read it as the individual words it stands for. They read the letters: “eff. Why. Eye.”

  • @morchario
    @morchario 5 років тому +46

    It amazes me how you can rememeber all the plots of your DNFs.
    I can't remember my name sometimes,
    and more important, the plots of my finished books! (Which is like 3 books).

  • @MaryAmongStories
    @MaryAmongStories 5 років тому +33

    couldn't agree more about Priory, and I did finish it 😅
    I'm just hoping for the day you decide to try A Song of Ice and Fire again 🙈 I get what you're saying about his writing, but my god those characters and the plot are brilliant!

    • @killer92173
      @killer92173 5 років тому +4

      Not to mention around the half way point of ASOS I'm basically flying through the book!! To me, there is so much shit that went down in that book it's almost unbelievable!!!

    • @touche5616
      @touche5616 5 років тому +1

      @@killer92173 The third and fourth books were my favorites.

    • @raouflamri1172
      @raouflamri1172 5 років тому +1

      My favorite serie ❤❤ I was expecting her to like it...it's one of the best book series ever written ! And for me it's the best

    • @giuf175
      @giuf175 5 років тому

      the quality of the books is only going down, it seems as if the more time is between books the worse the books get so that doesn't bode well for the next one if it ever gets published.

  • @TheJak121212
    @TheJak121212 5 років тому +10

    Aww I loved Far From the Tree so much. But yeah, sometimes even really good books are so emotionally draining. I am glad you eventually picked it back up.

  • @marijkecuffe5488
    @marijkecuffe5488 4 роки тому +40

    You probably weren't enjoying Storm of Swords as the second book in the ASOIAF series because it's actually the 3rd book. You missed everything in A Clash of Kings, which is actually the second book and picks up right where the first book left off.

  • @vieraiglesias4463
    @vieraiglesias4463 5 років тому +9

    I really admire you, Merphy. There are many children out there who need love and family. And you're a wonderful, loving person, any child would've been blessed to have you as their mom. Same goes to your husband too.

  • @missy0390
    @missy0390 5 років тому +26

    I didn't realize there was a controversy with Memoirs of a Geisha. It says it is a novel, so I read it as a Fiction. It was quite enjoyable. That is a very sad scenario between the author and Ms. Iwasaki.

  • @crizaashley4692
    @crizaashley4692 4 роки тому +30

    I'd say we, readers don't always DNF books when the books aren't our type. Sometimes we are just not in the mood for that particular theme. Quite a lot times I have loved re reading the books that I had DNFed 😂

    • @samanthaa.6055
      @samanthaa.6055 3 роки тому

      I DNF'ed Rage of Dragons because I was driving and the prologue was SO long in the audiobook- I just needed to stay awake! Finished it months later and loved it

  • @ivymuse
    @ivymuse 5 років тому +4

    On an unrelated note, your hair is always so on point 😍 I did finish The Husband‘s Secret and I think I quite enjoyed it but as you were talking about it I realized I had retained exactly nothing about this story 😂 Priory was on my TBR but I usually find overly long high fantasy novels with an uninspiring plot (according to the synopsis) not super appealing, it seems I made the right decision 😅

  • @LegendsWJ
    @LegendsWJ 5 років тому +67

    "A Storm of Swords" is book 3, and "A Clash of Kings" is book 2 :v The rest of the vide is aswome.

    • @Skabanis
      @Skabanis 5 років тому

      I think she is trying so I’ll give her credit!

    • @witchsorrowful1918
      @witchsorrowful1918 5 років тому +30

      I really don't understand how people dislike Martin's writing. His ideas are genius, and have affected the face of fantasy.

    • @arrakis7132
      @arrakis7132 5 років тому

      @@witchsorrowful1918 I know!!

    • @legionairesunny5507
      @legionairesunny5507 5 років тому +6

      @@witchsorrowful1918 Some people are turned off by the gore and sex. The books are waay better then the show but it has it moments.

    • @killer92173
      @killer92173 5 років тому +1

      @@witchsorrowful1918 I don't get it either. I LOVE his writing style, and I was flying through the first 3 books!!

  • @jillczarnyszewicz7494
    @jillczarnyszewicz7494 5 років тому +93

    I love detective fiction, but everyone recommending you Chandler and Hammet is out of their goddamn mind. That's like if someone told you they didn't like alcohol and you said: "Oh, I know! Drink this 80 proof vodka straight from the bottle! Ignore the burning sensation!"
    If you want to start and you you don't know where, start with detective stories blended with other genres. "Caves of Steel" or "The Yiddish Policeman's Union", "Crocodile on the Sandbank" or "The Name of the Rose", "The Historian" is detective fiction about vampires, "Daughter of Time" is about Richard III's historical legacy. Do NOT start with pure, unblended American hard-boiled noir. Just don't, you wont enjoy it. (And also, you don't have to read genres you don't like, it's all okay and you're doing great.)

    • @arlostein1000
      @arlostein1000 5 років тому +1

      Jill Czarnyszewicz all due respect but Chandler and Hammet are better than what you recommended. Even if someone doesn't think they'd vibe with it they are better books; better written, better characters and it explains where a lot of the tropes and conventions of noir and detective come from. Particularly Red Harvest which has a great claim on being one of the best books ever written and as tough they might be and admittedly can do the female characters a disservice (not the Thin Man, Nora is amazing) but it preps you for Elroy who has some great female characters and really intricate plots which require a more analytical reading

    • @jillczarnyszewicz7494
      @jillczarnyszewicz7494 5 років тому +15

      ​@@arlostein1000 I agree completely, but I'm talking about detective fiction for people who don't like detective fiction. And yes, of course, Hammet and Chandler are amazing and a vital part of the genre and the American canon, but recommending excellent books isn't always the same as recommending the best books for the reader at hand. "Red Harvest" is a masterpiece, "The Long Goodbye" is a kaleidoscopic meditation on masculinity and friendship in post-war America. "American Tabloid" is one of my most favourite books ever. They should all be read. But if someone doesn't like swimming, I don't push them in at the deep end just because I enjoy the pool. They'd only resent me and continue to hate swimming.

    • @arlostein1000
      @arlostein1000 5 років тому

      Jill Czarnyszewicz I disagree but understand what you mean. I'd rather push them in the deep and they learn to swim and appreciate the pool than keep them in the shallows where they might get comfortable and never leave.

    • @jillczarnyszewicz7494
      @jillczarnyszewicz7494 5 років тому +15

      @@arlostein1000 Except that's not fun. These are recreational reading suggestions for people who are already predisposed to not liking the genre, not an outline for a proposed college course. In a world where somebody only has an hour or two a day to read for pleasure, why not try to give them something they'll enjoy and grow from? (You're acting like I suggested Encyclopedia Brown and a bunch of "Cat Who" cozies instead of Umberto Eco and Michael Chabon.) Maybe they'll get to Hammett one day, maybe they won't. Maybe they'll love him, maybe they won't.
      Enthusiasms are caught, not taught.

    • @arlostein1000
      @arlostein1000 5 років тому

      Jill Czarnyszewicz I'm not being shitty with you I know what you mean I just don't think it's as effective. I think it's better for a reader to go straight to the better texts than slowly have taster versions which will affect their reading of the genre. So let's get off detective fiction for a second and use a different genre. Fantasy for example I think is a boring, infantile genre I'm never going to appreciate it by reading lighter work by Terry Brooks or Leigh Bardugo and the juvenile style of GRRM. But when I was given Mervyn Peake and his Gormenghast stuff that is much more difficult and much more grounded that gives me an appreciation of what the genre can do and what its potential is.
      And it not being fun isn't a negative to me, reading Blindness wasn't fun, reading Middlemarch isn't fun but art doesn't always have to be fun, sometimes it has to be tough so you can learn from it.

  • @ivanjozic5493
    @ivanjozic5493 5 років тому +12

    In A Song of Ice and Fire A Clash of Kings is book 2, A Storm of Swords is book 3

  • @Omega-fb9ji
    @Omega-fb9ji 5 років тому +40

    Storm of Sword is the third book in the series.

    • @killer92173
      @killer92173 5 років тому +10

      And easily the best one in the series.

  • @deathbyduckie
    @deathbyduckie 4 роки тому +6

    I came back through your videos to see what you thought of The Priory of the Orange Tree because I knew you'd read it. I'm now disappointed 😂. I read it this month and it was my first 5 star of the year. I absolutely loved it and was so gutted when I found out it was a stand alone. I loved everything you hated and didn't find it boring at all. Looking back, I think the reason I didn't pick it up earlier was because you said you hated it but the cover swayed me in the end.

    • @beatalks
      @beatalks 4 роки тому +2

      Samantha Shannon is writing something else in the same world at the moment!

    • @deathbyduckie
      @deathbyduckie 4 роки тому

      @@beatalks I know!! I'm so excited.

    • @desireeskumachan
      @desireeskumachan 4 роки тому

      I DNF’ed The Priory of the Orange Tree very early on (too early even imo), but may I know why you loved the book? I’m still intrigued by the book but the first few chapters felt difficult for me to read so I need some baiting to push through LOL

    • @deathbyduckie
      @deathbyduckie 4 роки тому

      @@desireeskumachan I loved the world and the characters. It is pretty slow at the beginning but once you get into it, it's an interesting story. Also, all the characters are connected eventually even though they don't know each other or live miles apart. I remember not loving it at first.

  • @CozyReaderKelly
    @CozyReaderKelly 5 років тому +4

    I just enjoyed listening to you trying to recall the synopsis for each of these 😂

  • @leiselclayton5772
    @leiselclayton5772 5 років тому +3

    Also, thanks for your review of The Priory of the Orange Tree. It makes me glad, that even though I love the cover art, I was able to buy it for Kindle for $3 on Cyber Monday. I won’t feel nearly as bad giving up on it if I don’t end up liking it.

    • @touche5616
      @touche5616 5 років тому +1

      I bought it then too. Let's see if it lives up to the hype!

  • @TheWinglessHawk
    @TheWinglessHawk 5 років тому +29

    I picked up mazerunner after watching the first movie. For me, it was easy to follow and sometimes even too childish in a post apocalyptic scenario, but it entertained me fairly well.

    • @Archonsx
      @Archonsx 5 років тому +3

      The next 2 movies are rly bad tho

    • @touche5616
      @touche5616 5 років тому +1

      @@Archonsx yes

    • @TwstdPrtzl
      @TwstdPrtzl 5 років тому +1

      I watched the movies and was going to read the books but it was just too similar to Lord of the Flies

  • @timetravelingpenguin
    @timetravelingpenguin 5 років тому +19

    Good luck with your adoption process! You and your husband are doing a wonderful thing ❤️

  • @morganecachia6501
    @morganecachia6501 5 років тому +1

    Not newish at all , I’ve seen all your dnf’s videos this year but still watching the entirety of this one 😂 love you merphy I wish you a good day !

  • @stevensymonds7165
    @stevensymonds7165 5 років тому +89

    Would you ever read His Dark Materials?

    • @racheldemain1940
      @racheldemain1940 5 років тому +11

      I Love those books! Got them all. Prefer these to the Harry Potter books!

    • @yanamariarassy3359
      @yanamariarassy3359 4 роки тому +6

      A truly magnificent series

    • @samchau3476
      @samchau3476 4 роки тому +1

      Can someone who finished the whole series tell me if the entire series is like 4/4.5 stars worthy or is it just book 1 that's good? I've seen the reviews and they go on to mostly criticize everything after book 1.

  • @LenaWolschaap
    @LenaWolschaap 5 років тому +40

    I almost DNFed the second song of ice and fire book as well, but I'm really glad I pushed through because the third book really makes it worthwile. In my opinion, the second book is the slowest book of the series, but it does get better!

    • @touche5616
      @touche5616 5 років тому +5

      Third book was my favorite

    • @noelnovels6511
      @noelnovels6511 5 років тому +2

      LenaWolschaap ASOS is the best one in the series in my opinion

    • @Sealwithwificonnection
      @Sealwithwificonnection 5 років тому +7

      It's so weird to me because ACOK is one of my favorites in the series. Very close second to ASOS, actually. Everything that happened in the last third of the book was fantastic imo

    • @arrakis7132
      @arrakis7132 5 років тому

      @@Sealwithwificonnection ya the politics and magic..and how the characters deal with the things in book 1 and is perfect...

    • @killer92173
      @killer92173 5 років тому +7

      My favorite parts of book 2 is Tyrion trying to clean up the mess of the previous book, and I really like his character ark and scheming. While I do feel like it does drag in some places like some POVs are better than others, but I really like the last 3rd of the book, and the climax was epic!!

  • @strdseraph2765
    @strdseraph2765 5 років тому +57

    I didn't know there was a controversy about Memoirs of a Geisha but it's one of my favorite books and the movie adaption is beautiful. Personally I don't let anything outside of the actual book influence my opinion of it.

    • @paradisiak
      @paradisiak 5 років тому +16

      K L Moser I think it’s important to not support authors who exploit people for money, but that’s just my opinion

    • @beatalks
      @beatalks 4 роки тому +2

      I didn’t know this either! I love the book but can definitely see the very problematic elements of the way Golden went about it.

  • @Yondi1000
    @Yondi1000 5 років тому +2

    A couple people mentioned this already, but A Clash of Kings is actually the second book in the song of ice and fire series. You were reading a storm of swords, which is the third book.

  • @callie5180
    @callie5180 5 років тому +5

    I always seperate the art and the artist, so when books have massive controversies i don't mind too much. Both memoirs are interesting in their own right, though I understand your stance on not wanting to touch them.

  • @harricartney
    @harricartney 5 років тому +3

    Cool been waiting for this list for a while
    Love your channel 😋✌️

  • @mattdeancole
    @mattdeancole 5 років тому +33

    A storm of Swords is the best novel in A the Song of Ice and Fire series to date.

  • @anicealien
    @anicealien 5 років тому +40

    "Two kingdoms, dragons, feuds . . . It was really boring."

    • @bigpun60
      @bigpun60 5 років тому +7

      Right 😂 I thought it was amazing

    • @supershinigami1
      @supershinigami1 5 років тому +2

      well you gotta like it apparently. A lot of people did me included.

    • @frikintrash5360
      @frikintrash5360 5 років тому +3

      It’s weird seeing a lot of people say it’s boring because I loved it, but I can see why the writing style might put people off.

    • @letsgoasuka
      @letsgoasuka 5 років тому +2

      @@bigpun60 Me too! I've got 20 pages left and I don't want to finish it because then it'll be over... I love the author's writing style! 😂

  • @joyclendening9908
    @joyclendening9908 5 років тому +58

    Memoirs of a Geisha is such a good book though. I understand the controversy puts you off but I read it like it was fiction, it's easier to enjoy that way.

    • @desireeskumachan
      @desireeskumachan 4 роки тому

      Totally. I approached that book with a mindset treating it as historical fiction (more fictional), and understanding that since it was written by a white guy it definitely is NOT a definitive guide or insight into geisha/maiko culture.

    • @sensen1080
      @sensen1080 4 роки тому

      Memoirs of a Geisha is 100% a fictional story. I just wrote a big comment about this on this video that goes into more detail, but Memoirs is not at all about the real former geiko, Mineko Iwasaki.

  • @harricartney
    @harricartney 5 років тому +44

    Merphy I've got a book recommendation for you
    it's called the hunting party and it's about a group of friends at a remote hunting lodge in Scotland, but one of them has been murdered.
    It's set in the present and three days before the murder happens. It switches perspectives through all the friends and the owners of the lodge. It is written by Lucy Foley and I think you will love it.
    It is a bit like Agatha Christie but a bit edgier

    • @carynschmidt5061
      @carynschmidt5061 5 років тому +6

      That actually sounds amazing

    • @darlingcrafting
      @darlingcrafting 5 років тому +2

      That sounds really interesting! Putting that on my to read list. (:

  • @laurafinocchiarostudios
    @laurafinocchiarostudios 5 років тому +1

    My husband and I are in the middle of our adoption process and I finally picked up and finished Far From the Tree yesterday. SO MANY EMOTIONS! Especially since we are adopting older children from the foster system. But yes, I agree it was worth it. Easy 5 stars for me. If you have any other favorite adoption related book recommendations I’d love to hear them! either fiction or nonfiction (religious or secular) 💖

  • @DavidDecero
    @DavidDecero 5 років тому +7

    Definitely voting for Red Sister. It feels kind of long for being the first book in the series, but it's worth it.

  • @richardmontes4589
    @richardmontes4589 5 років тому

    I think this is a really good video to do because it's interesting to hear you reflect on the past dnf's

  • @skullfullofbooks7398
    @skullfullofbooks7398 5 років тому

    New to the channel, don't know why this is the first one I want to watch, but it is a good gauge of whether we like the same books or dislike the same things in books.

  • @tulekahju
    @tulekahju 5 років тому +5

    I'm going to have to pick up Far from the Tree ... adoption/foster families strike true to my heart given my history. I rarely read contemporary but the concept simply tugs at my heartstrings to not give it a go one day... hopefully I wont become an emotional wreck when/if I do, LoL.

  • @Micahlee_19
    @Micahlee_19 5 років тому +10

    I loved Priory it was one of my top reads of the year!

    • @GrayOlson
      @GrayOlson 5 років тому +3

      Same here. It had its issues, but on the whole, I absolutely adore(d) it.

    • @letsgoasuka
      @letsgoasuka 5 років тому

      Me too!

    • @beatalks
      @beatalks 4 роки тому

      I could NOT get on with Priory - I finished it but didn’t like it much at all, though I love the Bone Season series.

  • @kunai9390
    @kunai9390 4 роки тому

    Havent watched your video yet but I saw red sister in the thumbnail... Im a little over half way through grey sister and Im really enjoying it! Hope you give it a 2nd shot! 😊

  • @dudleyreads4582
    @dudleyreads4582 5 років тому +1

    Hi, been watching for a while, really enjoy the channel. I have a suggestion for a mystery/murder series you may like. It's the Kate Shugak series by Dana Stabenow. Stabenow is a native Alaskan and her protagonist. Kate Shugak is Aleut. The first book picks up 18 months after she left the Anchorage DA's office where she was in investigator and left after to a horrific event. She returns to her family's homestead in what is called the "Park". Kate becomes a private investigator to supplement her subsistence living, so this a mystery/detective series. However, it's the world Stabenow builds that is the heart of the book. The "Park" is a fictional place, akin to Denali National park. It is inhabited with both non-natives (park rats) as well as native Americans from various tribes. Stabenow populates her books with these marvelous, colorful characters. She weaves in the culture of the Aleut, the problems and politics of the region along with the social issues such as alcoholism Kate is a great character, a 5' tall tornado that everyone in the Park knows not to tangle with. A lot of what goes into fantasy world-building is present here and the Park and the Alaskan wilderness are characters in the books. Oh, and yeah, Kate has a half-wolf named Mutt.

  • @courtneylinn3465
    @courtneylinn3465 4 роки тому

    I think I heard you say that Storm of Swords was the second GOT book. It’s the third, which I am sure someone already told you. I hope you gave Clash of Kings a shot and went back to Storm of Swords. Anyhoo, new to the channel, but I love how passionate you are for books, and while I might not always agree, it’s great to have another person in the trenches!! Thanks for posting!

  • @jonathancooper4914
    @jonathancooper4914 2 роки тому

    They’re gonna love your library and wealth of knowledge on books.

  • @shcheerchic1011
    @shcheerchic1011 5 років тому +3

    Have you read the magicians trilogy yet? I think you might like it

  • @leiselclayton5772
    @leiselclayton5772 5 років тому +1

    I totally get how the book you were reading about adoption could have been way too much emotion. I’m adopted, and I’ve had a lot of trouble with infertility and miscarriages. I had to DNF The Light Between Oceans because there came a point in the book where I knew that someone’s Mama heart was going to be broken, and I just couldn’t. From what the ladies at my book club said, there doesn’t seem to be a good emotional payoff in the end, either, so I have no desire to ever finish the book.

  • @anwitisingh5085
    @anwitisingh5085 5 років тому +9

    I'm so glad you didn't waste time on The Husband's Secret. I absolutely hated every single page but I also have this thing where I cannot leave a book half-finished. It's so full of cliches, absolutely hated the portrayal of female characters. And SO MANY STEREOTYPES! I remember, as soon I finished, I wanted to burn the book but sadly it was on my Kindle. And, spoiler alert and TW-
    I absolutely loathed how they turned a violent attempt to murder by a psycho, jealous boy into something forgivable by the epilogue. He attacked her with the intent to kill, she dies as well, but voila! She doesn't die because of the attack itself but Due to a genetic disease that she has and it worsened the effects of the attack. The epilogue was so apologetic in nature! hey! Please don't hate on this man who tried to kill a girl. She would have died anyway. He was just an innocent, jealous, stalking creep. I have literally never felt the rage I felt while reading this book, and I have read some pretty shitty books.
    The rage was enough to make me comment on UA-cam, something I never do.
    In case it wasn't clear enough, this book was my worse decision of 2019. I HATED IT.

  • @dg9531
    @dg9531 5 років тому +16

    The only book you dnf'd that I have any interest in is Red Sister.

  • @jessi4894
    @jessi4894 5 років тому +3

    About ASOIAF, George and that series are insanely popular, but that writing style isn't for everyone. I'm curious about what exactly you didn't like about it. To me, George's style reminded me a lot of Robert Jordan's style, but with less drag, less repetition and tons of action. I love series that have thick, dense, almost excruciatingly detailed writing.

    • @MrJordwalk
      @MrJordwalk 5 років тому +2

      "I love series that have thick, dense, almost excruciatingly detailed writing"
      THEN YOU. WOULD. LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE STEVEN ERIKSON'S "THE MALAZAN BOOK OF THE FALLEN".

  • @annitendo
    @annitendo 5 років тому +2

    Regarding detective stories, have you tried Truly Devious?

  • @JesseOnYoutube
    @JesseOnYoutube 5 років тому

    I was so sad when you said Far From the Tree and then you explained why and it totally made sense. i can't wait to read it. i've dreamed of adopting a teenager for many many years. I'm hoping to be able to adopt or foster a teen within the next six years. Also i pushed through with Priory and let me tell you, you didn't miss a thing. lmao

    • @merphynapier42
      @merphynapier42  5 років тому

      That is beautiful Jesse! I hope you get to adopt a teen one day, and knowing that, I think you'd fall in love with one of the characters in this book

  • @fulcrumthebrave5715
    @fulcrumthebrave5715 5 років тому

    I also DNF'd A Storm of Swords. Currently trying to restart the series but not really finding the motivation. Especially because it looks like GRRM might not get to complete the book series. I've already been waiting for another series (the KingKiller Chronicles) that might never see its end so I'm really slow to pick up ASoS again.

  • @whitneymouse
    @whitneymouse 5 років тому +3

    Omg, when you were talking about Lifelike’s slang mess and brought up Maze Runner! I had the SAME reaction! I finished Lifelike because I was reading it for a class, but it was AWFUL! One of my least favorites ever.
    Same with Priory of the Orange Tree. I didn’t get as far as you did, but it was boring and I wasn’t about to commit to 800 pages if I was bored.
    Edit: Memoirs of a Geisha used to be my favorite book. It’s still a good book. I honestly don’t think enough of the events of the book can be true for either of them to be completely 100% right. I understand if you are uncomfortable with it because of the controversy, but the story is enjoyable if you pick it back up. Thanks for all your hard work!

  • @federicojimenez2065
    @federicojimenez2065 5 років тому +27

    I implore you to continue giving a song of Ice and fire a try. You say you love worldbuilding, and I honestly cannot think of a series I have read that has a world that feels as alive as George R R Martin’s creation

    • @frantictoast3741
      @frantictoast3741 4 роки тому +5

      Lord of the Rings doesn't hold a candle to the way George crafted his world. Martin's world building feels alive and lived in while Tolkien's feels like a tedious history book.

    • @Koooles
      @Koooles 3 роки тому +2

      @@frantictoast3741 Yeah when people put Tolkien first above everything I feel like they take the human element out of reading. As you said, it is great, but it also is... Like a history book, dense with information and quite "dry". For me the enjoyment and quality of writing doesn't come from how much words and backgrounds you can put to your world, but more from how believable it is and how immersed you are. In a way I find reading Tolkien writing a lot like... Bible. For each it's taste ofc.

  • @Bellatrixstrange09
    @Bellatrixstrange09 5 років тому +1

    I loved loved loved Far From the Tree by Robin Benway. I’m really glad you finished it.

  • @WILSSSSOOOONNNNNNN
    @WILSSSSOOOONNNNNNN 5 років тому +4

    Do you have a review of The Magicians by Lev Grossman? I was looking through your videos and couldn’t find any thing.

  • @alyssanielsen8521
    @alyssanielsen8521 5 років тому

    I understand your feelings about Kasie West because the last three or four I just haven't enjoyed as much as the first ones. I also get the feeling of wondering if it's you, because I definitely have had a lot of life changes and it just makes it hard for me to figure out if I still like it.
    The last one she released reminded me a lot of the beginning characters, so maybe try that one.

  • @BruceRF
    @BruceRF 4 роки тому

    I'd send ya my books if only to have them ripped apart. It might be fun. My second book went out last October. Since then, I've been dying to re-edit my first book, as I see all my mistakes. And as I write my third book, I see the mistakes of the second. I guess it'll haunt me forever.

  • @callmeaftercoffee
    @callmeaftercoffee 5 років тому +2

    Oh boy. Clash of Kings is definitely a rough one to get through 🙈. Took me 2 years the first time... And like 6 months on the reread 😂.

    • @Archonsx
      @Archonsx 5 років тому +1

      how do u read a book in 2 years😂

    • @callmeaftercoffee
      @callmeaftercoffee 5 років тому

      Archons 😂🙈 I literally read the first half or so in 2013... And then didn't pick it up again until 2015 and I just started where I left off. I have a pretty good memory?
      Once I read all 5 though, they really blended together (which is why I'm rereading them all now ☺️).

  • @kateworkman921
    @kateworkman921 4 роки тому

    Honestly, I hope you go back at some point and give Mr. Mercedes another chance. I'm not big on the "detective" type stories, either, but Mr. Mercedes was terrific, as are the other two books in the trilogy, Finders Keepers and End of Watch. I've only just begun to delve into Stephen King, and I've only read five of his so far, but Mr. Mercedes is my favorite right now by a pretty wide margin.

  • @alxandra74
    @alxandra74 5 років тому

    I'm really interested in Far from the Tree now! Are you and your husband reading The Connected Child? Karyn Purvis?

  • @manaalsidd
    @manaalsidd 5 років тому +12

    Far From The Tree was amazing. A five star read for me.

    • @Kalli315
      @Kalli315 5 років тому +1

      Manaal Siddiqui same :)

  • @breanna4625
    @breanna4625 5 років тому

    Have you tried Odd Thomas by Dean Koontz? It's sort of a detective mystery novel but it has supernatural and thriller elements. I've only read the first one so far but I really enjoyed it and I thought you might as well!

  • @MerrilyKristin
    @MerrilyKristin 5 років тому

    I've had the same experience with Kasie West :-/ I realllllly hated Fame, Fate and First Kiss- it's definitely one of the worst books I read this year. Sadly, I didn't love her summer release, Maybe This Time, either. I think I might be done trying her new releases but I still love some of her backlist.

  • @TheNeurodivergentReader
    @TheNeurodivergentReader 5 років тому

    Have you ever read the Illuminae Files(Illuminae, Gemina and Obsidio)? You may like it.

  • @jazzey19921
    @jazzey19921 5 років тому +6

    I feel sad you dnfed Red sister. You missed the great friendships they've developed in the last 2 books 😔

  • @M_aryAnne
    @M_aryAnne 5 років тому

    Love your vids❤️
    I find it interesting the you have a hard time with Martins writing for ASOIAF but loved The First Law. I find Abercrombie’s writing difficult and getting through the series is difficult for me. But I blew through ASOIAF! Haha I think watching the TV show first is probably why I found it easier lol

  • @artwriter76
    @artwriter76 5 років тому +1

    There's a book on the top middle shelf over your right shoulder, second book from the left. What book is that?

  • @WhitneyDahlin
    @WhitneyDahlin 5 років тому +2

    19:00 I don't think you should let controversy EVER stop you from reading a book. Memoirs of a Geisha really is a good book and I think you would really like it if you gave it a chance. As long as you get the book from a library he won't be getting money anyway if that's your issue with reading the book. People read Hitler's book Mein Kampf in history and literature classes all the time and that has to be the most evil book that was ever written. Just because something is controversial doesn't mean it should never be read.

    • @merphynapier42
      @merphynapier42  5 років тому +5

      My intention isn't to say a controversial book shouldn't be read. My thoughts on it are just that if I do end up loving a story that wrongfully ruined a person's life, I don't want to promote it. So I'd rather just focus on other things. I encourage anyone to pick up any book they want, I just made the choice not to spend my time on this one.

  • @catherinegreer854
    @catherinegreer854 5 років тому

    Heard you mention Gone Girl. I haven't read that one. But I read Sharp Objects and was so good! The HBO show was really good too.🙂

  • @jakobjohnson984
    @jakobjohnson984 4 роки тому +2

    Fucking thank you, The Big Sleep was assigned from a college course I'm taking and I just absolutely hate it.

  • @Alithia451
    @Alithia451 5 років тому +5

    I almost gave up on Nevernight.

  • @Luvcatz88
    @Luvcatz88 5 років тому +6

    You're really missing out with Memoirs of a Geisha :( yeah, the controversy sucks but ignoring that, it's such a beautiful love story and I usually hate love stories. The movie also has controversy cuz they used Chinese actors but its SO well shot and beautiful and it's my favorite movie along with the music score

  • @nicholasbeeson4999
    @nicholasbeeson4999 5 років тому +2

    Do you have statistics on how often you DNF books?

  • @stallgastgivargarden1224
    @stallgastgivargarden1224 4 роки тому

    I'm a bit late here but if you want some very unconventional detective story with a truly unique (if a little sarcastic) MC you might wanna try Paul Tremblay's "The Little Sleep". Mark's a narcoleptic whose episodes makes his every day seem like halfway between the diaries of an amnesiac and a drug-fuelled psychotic episode, but with a solid story attached to it.

  • @703jay4
    @703jay4 5 років тому +9

    Woah mr.mercedes is amazing

    • @touche5616
      @touche5616 5 років тому +1

      I liked Finders Keepers the best, but liked the whole trilogy.

    • @snowrs1
      @snowrs1 5 років тому

      Yeah I wonder how far she got in. Also it is a shame as the other two books get very much more Kingish.

  • @DebateDeliberate
    @DebateDeliberate 5 років тому +4

    Huh? The Big Sleep was recommended to win you over? I love crime & detective fiction. That would not be in any of my suggestions.

  • @YTLawnGnome
    @YTLawnGnome 5 років тому +25

    Yea Priory was like the it thing for 5 seconds and now no one talks about that book anymore.

    • @supershinigami1
      @supershinigami1 5 років тому +7

      I'm reading it right now and it's really good actually.

    • @tappkalina
      @tappkalina 5 років тому +7

      I'm reading it now too and I'm enjoying it.

    • @touche5616
      @touche5616 5 років тому

      Just bought it.

    • @bigpun60
      @bigpun60 5 років тому +2

      Same bought it not to while ago and it’s amazing almost done tho breaks my heart

    • @joecourtney8552
      @joecourtney8552 5 років тому

      I got it in a $2 kindle deal but dono when I’ll get to it.

  • @grubfilms9043
    @grubfilms9043 3 роки тому

    A Clash of Kings is book 2 of A Song of Ice and Fire, Storm of Swords is book 3. Not sure if you missed Clash of Kings or just made a mistake in the vid

  • @dylandavis2737
    @dylandavis2737 5 років тому +2

    oh my god, I'm so glad someone else said it, I tried to read a song of ice and fire too and hated it the writing style was so flawed going into far to much detail about frankly inconsequential things, meandering on already fully fleshed out parts while seeming dismissive of the actual story,

  • @TomorrowWeLive
    @TomorrowWeLive 5 років тому +4

    I looked up the Priory of the Orange Tree and it has a 4.1 star average on Goodreads. Wat.

    • @letsgoasuka
      @letsgoasuka 5 років тому +1

      Because the book is actually quite good! Well, I really enjoyed it anyway 😂 I didn't get what she meant by saying the metaphors were weird and long? I thought the descriptors and metaphors were mostly well thought out and/or pretty. Oh well xD

    • @TomorrowWeLive
      @TomorrowWeLive 5 років тому

      @@letsgoasuka guess it just shows how subjective literary taste is 🤷

  • @andu1478
    @andu1478 5 років тому +2

    Did she start the a song of ice and fire series with the 3rd or did she read the first 2?

  • @janayhiatt2816
    @janayhiatt2816 4 роки тому

    The ultimate detective books are by Agatha Christie. I love all the Hercule Poirot books I've read so far. Some that everyone seem to love are "murder on the orient Express" and "and then there were none" (that's not a Poirot book, however).

  • @supershinigami1
    @supershinigami1 5 років тому

    Kind of sad that you didn't likw Priory because I actually liked it. It was amazing from start to finish. I guess it's one of those books whose popularity is really controverial.
    (Also, try the ASoIaF series some more)

  • @jimsbooksreadingandstuff
    @jimsbooksreadingandstuff 2 роки тому

    I should DNF more, I struggled through the Master and Margarita because so many people had told me it was brilliant but it didn't work for me. I did DNF George R R Martin's A Storm of Swords, although it wasn't really an active decision I just got distracted by other shorter books and went back to it less and less frequently until I just stopped picking it up, his books are just so long.

  • @kasalwemusonda6325
    @kasalwemusonda6325 3 роки тому

    Hey i cant find your review of a game of thrones

  • @ajregister5974
    @ajregister5974 5 років тому +5

    Oh my gosh!! Letters to the Lost by Brigid Kemmerer? I haven’t heard anyone else talk about it but I loved it so much!

  • @AllisonJones1875
    @AllisonJones1875 5 років тому +14

    This video was posted three minutes ago and there are no comments..... huh

  • @alexthiebaut2195
    @alexthiebaut2195 2 роки тому

    21:30 actually the female characters in Raymond Chandler's books and this one in particular are very deep. The two sisters here are very complex (as is revealed towards the end). If you felt the women were badly written it's because it's a first person novel where the lead character does not understand women. There's a lot happening behind the scenes or in front of Marlow that he doesn't understand.

  • @duttawsome7819
    @duttawsome7819 5 років тому +1

    One of the main reasons they did not find out about the lies in Red Sister was because they were 9-12 years old.

  • @LizabethTucker
    @LizabethTucker 4 роки тому

    Didn't you like Isaac Asimov's I ROBOT series? You might want to try his mysteries, perhaps his Black Widowers series, most of which were short stories.

  • @scoobydoo_forever
    @scoobydoo_forever 4 роки тому +1

    I stopped reading memoirs of a geisha for the same reason plus I don't like reading about sex and it seemed like it was going to go more intense and I decided it wasn't going to be something good for me to read.

  • @eleanorjones26407
    @eleanorjones26407 5 років тому

    Did you read the bone season by Samantha Shannon... or anyone else? Did you find the two books similar in the writing style? I read the bone season a few years ago and i'm just curious

  • @mandythislovelypath3740
    @mandythislovelypath3740 5 років тому

    A detective one you might try is Louise Penny's Inspector Gamache series.

  • @TitoTimTravels
    @TitoTimTravels 5 років тому +1

    How do you remember so many details about your DNFs? I DNF very few books, but generally I find them so bad that I purge them from my mind (or never connected enough to remember anything anyway). The only memorable DNF was Stephen King's Talisman. It was by far the worst book I ever tried to read. I got it back in 1985, and forced my way through about 120 painful pages. I finally had to put it down and end my misery. The writing style never connected with me (if the rambling had a style). I never cared about a single character in it. It was so bad I never picked up another King book. The synopsis reads like something I would love, but the book itself was painfully, and memorably, bad. Any other DNF... I can barely remember the title. 😎

  • @macdavidson3814
    @macdavidson3814 5 років тому +39

    You keep putting a storm of swords in the thumbnail. It’s clash of kings you DNF’d.

    • @Beast80001
      @Beast80001 5 років тому +3

      clash of kings was probably my least favorite of the series to be honest. Although the last few chapters were amazing.

    • @andu1478
      @andu1478 5 років тому +10

      @@Beast80001 the point is she doesnt even know what book she read

    • @JillyMae89
      @JillyMae89 5 років тому +1

      Does it really matter? Jeez

    • @macdavidson3814
      @macdavidson3814 5 років тому +4

      JillyMae89 it matters because the point is to tell others what she thought of the book and she didn’t even read the book she’s saying she didn’t enjoy.

    • @JillyMae89
      @JillyMae89 5 років тому +2

      You knew what she meant 🙄 my god.

  • @readingwithstaci9001
    @readingwithstaci9001 5 років тому

    I ended up DNF-ing A Christmas Carol. It's a SUPER short book, only 100 pages, and I was excited to read it this Christmas... and I went until page 50 before I put it down, I was just miserable reading it.

  • @jayscheer5529
    @jayscheer5529 5 років тому

    I like how you go into details of books. Like the general story line some main characters of the book. What one eho would read it can expect from the book. EVEN on books that you DNF! For me that places you on a plane above soooo many other book reviewers. Its not spoiling a book if you tell us something about whats in it. Rant over. Lol

  • @TheAceFireFox
    @TheAceFireFox 5 років тому

    I read The Elites by Natasha Ngan and I didn't pick up Girls of Paper and Fire mostly because of how disappointing The Elites was. It was a great idea with a good premise but I feel like Ngan just can't quite deliver, in my opinion. Her world building just isn't that great and I feel like some things just aren't explained properly

  • @wtk6069
    @wtk6069 5 років тому +1

    I have read and like The Big Sleep as a clever puzzle to solve, but I much prefer the film version. It's a rare case of the movie adaptation being better than the novel because the 1946 screenplay was co-written by William Faulkner (the eventual Nobel Laureate) and Leigh Brackett (probably the best female genre-fiction writer of the golden age of pulp). Adapting alternating chapters of the novel, they certainly breathed more life into the characters (though having Bogart and Bacall probably helped in that regard, too).

    • @ammalyrical5646
      @ammalyrical5646 5 років тому

      Golden age sounds so weird to me. Here in The Netherlands, that's an actual part of our history (1568-1648 A.D.) where we flourished in trading and had a chunk of very rich people. Just a little bit of info.
      So what kind of golden age do you mean? I genuine haven't heard of many others I could link this comment to.

    • @wtk6069
      @wtk6069 5 років тому +1

      @@ammalyrical5646Sorry, I left out a prepositional phrase there. The Golden Age of Pulp. I will edit.

    • @ammalyrical5646
      @ammalyrical5646 5 років тому

      @@wtk6069 aah. That makes it make more sense.

  • @asgrimurhartmannsson
    @asgrimurhartmannsson 5 років тому +1

    I thought I'd read something by Chandler, then realized I'd just seen some of the movies.
    And was confusing him with Dashiel Hammett & Mickey Spillane. They're good, BTW.

  • @AndYouWillBeWithMe
    @AndYouWillBeWithMe 5 років тому +16

    girl of paper and fire sounds like the plot of a very elaborate p*rn :/

    • @hellothere2464
      @hellothere2464 5 років тому +3

      AndYouWillBeWithMe it’s mainly about how terrible sexual assault is and how so many women are ignored even though they go through these terrible experience. I finished this book and while I didn’t like it as much as everyone else did, the best part was how the “demon king” was never painted to be a good person at all, and it also featured a relationship between two women (the main character and another Paper girl) which isn’t seen as much in YA books

  • @TalibHOB
    @TalibHOB 5 років тому +9

    The excessive use of rape and death as a shock element is one of the reason people quit on ' A song of ice and fire ' and yes for certain people it can be really disturbing

    • @thiccpazuzu2573
      @thiccpazuzu2573 5 років тому +2

      Yeah, let's make the book more happy!!! because a medieval inspired story about the corruption of power and about the effects of war on the population should make us all feel happy!!! xoxoxox

    • @TalibHOB
      @TalibHOB 5 років тому +4

      @@thiccpazuzu2573 I didn't mean that Martin should make the book more happy or it is badly written I was just stating a fact that some people quit on this series due to this reason. Personally I love A song of ice and fire (because I love dark content) but for many it's disturbing. As far as the dark content is concerned I love reading history and Martin's books are nowhere as terrifying as reality was. For instance why don't you read about qadsiya. Let me tell you again I like the series but facts doesn't change on the basis of my likings