Jennifer Lopez And Ben Affleck's Divorce Has Become MUCH Darker Than Anyone Expected

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  • Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's divorce has stirred up significant media attention and public speculation. Amidst professional setbacks for Lopez and their public disputes, the couple decided to sell their $60 million mansion, signaling the end of their marriage. Their contrasting lifestyles, with Lopez embracing the limelight and Affleck preferring privacy, exacerbated tensions. This difference in handling fame and privacy became a recurrent issue, influencing their relationship dynamics. As Affleck moved out to prioritize his family with Jennifer Garner, the narrative surrounding their split intensified, with public opinion divided. Some criticized Lopez for her alleged demanding nature and rapid relationship changes, suggesting a pattern of "love addiction," while others defended her dedication and sacrifices. The discourse highlights the complexities of their high-profile relationship breakdown, shaped by differing priorities and intense media scrutiny.
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  • @PurpleRoseThomas
    @PurpleRoseThomas 2 місяці тому +260

    JLo is her own enemy....She needs to grow up....I wonder who the next victim will be?

    • @shelleyabbate9824
      @shelleyabbate9824 2 місяці тому +19

      Right, she needs to learn to love herself. And stop trying to change him. Let the man be

    • @MsActor2009
      @MsActor2009 2 місяці тому +18

      A rebound back dancer 💃 That’s her pattern.

    • @lenac3587
      @lenac3587 2 місяці тому +12

      Either she dumps them or divorce them later. She dumps all of them except Ben who is not about to be dumped. Now she's on the prowl and looking for the next line up since she must have a man to feel complete

    • @naomilopez7802
      @naomilopez7802 2 місяці тому +5

      Ben started it by Emailing Jlo after her Break up with A- Rod He should have left her alone ??? He knew how her was and is and still he bothered her ??? Everyone Blames Jlo he’s the Problem?? He is THE One with the ISSUES???

    • @naomilopez7802
      @naomilopez7802 2 місяці тому +1

      Divorce already !!!! Move on Jlo and never consider Ben again ????? By Ben !!!! She will be Good without him ???

  • @caroleereno9880
    @caroleereno9880 2 місяці тому +76

    She should forget about the men she married or dated and she should really focus on her children…period!!

  • @livhemingway2224
    @livhemingway2224 2 місяці тому +98

    Hey, Jlo! how about donating $60 million to the homeless! I guarantee you'll feel sooo much better!!

    • @monklingtoneverjet2536
      @monklingtoneverjet2536 2 місяці тому +4

      that would lift her spirits, but she has lost that spirit

    • @mskfisaoli
      @mskfisaoli 2 місяці тому

      @@livhemingway2224 How about YOU start to donate something!!! Everyone does with their money WTF they pleased!!! Like homeless rather use theirs for poisoning their bodies with drugs!!! Better donate to Animal Rescues as Animal shelters are at capacity at!! Like I do!!

    • @Brooklyn1620
      @Brooklyn1620 2 місяці тому +2

      I thought this too! She never helps other less unfortunate people! Only herself and family! She is Money Hungry!!😊

    • @mskfisaoli
      @mskfisaoli 2 місяці тому

      @@sharminramroop8833 What you were the fly on the wall to know this?, grow up@ get a life!! Gossiping is horrible!!

  • @jeanwoolley7213
    @jeanwoolley7213 2 місяці тому +102

    It’s all about her

    • @jayver5269
      @jayver5269 19 днів тому

      Stop protecting the Drug & Alcoholic Ben Affleck who’s very cynical and now dating some other unknown chic related to the Kennedy’s clan. It’s always the Haters coming for JLO b/c she looks better than the current last two generations = Dysmorphia Disorder Cases✔️

  • @wendyeskelin8765
    @wendyeskelin8765 2 місяці тому +50

    He doesn't look calm to me. He looks like he's seething inside and totally checked out at the same time.

    • @mariarohmer2374
      @mariarohmer2374 2 місяці тому +6

      Yup.

    • @SandraGonzales-lb2du
      @SandraGonzales-lb2du 16 днів тому

      He's an Alcoholic who wants to drink and she's doesn't want him drinking while they are together in public because she knows the dick he becomes from drinking!!!

  • @gabrielalopetegui
    @gabrielalopetegui 2 місяці тому +78

    Can’t the woman stay single for a straight year and get to know herself?? Money is not an issue for her , so she can get a very good therapist 😂 She has so much to be grateful for! Doesn’t need to be jumping from one relationship to another 🙏♥️

    • @kathrynkrieger7644
      @kathrynkrieger7644 2 місяці тому +2

      Exactly! Instead of creating yet another flop about it, she should live it!

    • @monklingtoneverjet2536
      @monklingtoneverjet2536 2 місяці тому +4

      good advice- I think getting to know herself at 50 years of age might give her a heart attack

    • @gabrielalopetegui
      @gabrielalopetegui 2 місяці тому

      @@monklingtoneverjet2536 🤣🤣

  • @Dainty213
    @Dainty213 2 місяці тому +129

    My mom works for a company that works with tons of celebs, presidents, the wives of high profile CEOs and she’s said the worst one is JHo.

    • @Candyprincess971
      @Candyprincess971 2 місяці тому +12

      Can you elaborate ? Her accommodations demands ? The way she treats the personnel ?

    • @mariarohmer2374
      @mariarohmer2374 2 місяці тому +9

      @@Candyprincess971 Just look around. There's enough people talking about it. Apparently in every way she's a spoiled monster.

    • @reene1701
      @reene1701 2 місяці тому +2

      Please any specific details?

    • @snowcapkitty2
      @snowcapkitty2 Місяць тому +2

      WoW that's disrespectful did your mother teach you if you don't have nothing nice to say don't say it at all

    • @snowcapkitty2
      @snowcapkitty2 Місяць тому

      I don't think your mom raised you to be respectful I don't respect people who refer to any woman as a ho I'm sure your a " sinner " just like everyone else out in the world

  • @-TheJewel-
    @-TheJewel- 2 місяці тому +28

    Seriously sharing private letters is gross for money and fame .JLo is a Fame Monster.I guess Ben didn't like being Mr Jlo number 5....is it more than Elizabeth Taylor yet?...Is it 6 , 4, 7🤐

  • @daretodream1686
    @daretodream1686 2 місяці тому +82

    I feel sorry for her but she did this to herself. You can be public and still remain private. How do u share letters written to u by your man to your co- workers? Who does that ? Even sharing with family is a no no

    • @ChristyRocha-i2h
      @ChristyRocha-i2h 2 місяці тому +2

      How do you write letters like that? Remember Ben seduced JLo with the letters!

    • @thatgirlkells5505
      @thatgirlkells5505 2 місяці тому

      That question doesn't even make any sense!!!!​@@ChristyRocha-i2h

    • @revekat2053
      @revekat2053 19 днів тому +1

      @@ChristyRocha-i2hshe should’ve known that actions speak louder than words.

  • @teresajannuzzio2408
    @teresajannuzzio2408 2 місяці тому +104

    SHE is in LOVE WITH THE FEELING! Not REAL LOVE! ITS the HIGH OF IT. When it wears off, then its OVER!

    • @revekat2053
      @revekat2053 19 днів тому +1

      I think it’s called narcissistic love bombing and discard.

  • @Lily-tl9ke
    @Lily-tl9ke 2 місяці тому +34

    She's a fame addict.

  • @maggiefigueredo8620
    @maggiefigueredo8620 2 місяці тому +85

    She should remember she’s a mother and over 50 years old, stop acting like a teenager,no wonder why her daughter is so confused!

    • @mariarohmer2374
      @mariarohmer2374 2 місяці тому

      I have nothing against being sexy after 50 or whatever age. But seriously what she does to demonstrate "sexy" is beyond necessary to feel sexy. You're right she is a mother and now a stepmother to 3 more kids! Why would you want your step kids seeing you half naked with boobs and a** out all the time? Think of their feelings, Jeezus. Her daughter seems so sweet and gentle. But her son looks miserable. He is always glued to his phone in pics. It's such a dangerous red flag. Why doesn't that bother her?

    • @gloriesoto8535
      @gloriesoto8535 2 місяці тому +2

      And he is an Angel right? Ask the other Jen… they all have many other couples. JLo is not the first one. I never see her being that upset .

    • @maggiefigueredo8620
      @maggiefigueredo8620 2 місяці тому

      @@gloriesoto8535 they’re all filth, but good gossip, that’s what they’re for, if they didn’t want the world on their business, they would keep their nastiness to themselves, just saying…

    • @mariarohmer2374
      @mariarohmer2374 2 місяці тому

      @@gloriesoto8535 Doesn't make her less stupid tho, does it?

    • @thereisnospoon3595
      @thereisnospoon3595 Місяць тому +2

      Narcissists don't change.

  • @Bigheart521
    @Bigheart521 2 місяці тому +182

    Jlo needs intense one on one Therapy.

    • @debjordan6810
      @debjordan6810 2 місяці тому +8

      Totally agree her children also suffer

    • @TheReneepruitt
      @TheReneepruitt 2 місяці тому +11

      I agree but she seems like she would keep changing counselors till she finds one who tells her what she wants to hear.

    • @vernacyrette1331
      @vernacyrette1331 2 місяці тому +1

      Leave j lo alone you haters!🎉🎉🎉

    • @himmel2436
      @himmel2436 2 місяці тому +1

      @@vernacyrette1331 latina/hispanic, huh!

    • @lenac3587
      @lenac3587 2 місяці тому +4

      She's a narcissist, she doesn't need therapy from people beneath her. Don't look her in the eye.

  • @Oliver-le1us
    @Oliver-le1us 2 місяці тому +430

    Her sharing his private letters and private life is so immature and disgusting

    • @Allison11111
      @Allison11111 2 місяці тому +37

      it was so weird esp since he wants privacy

    • @MsActor2009
      @MsActor2009 2 місяці тому +24

      Agree! She likes $$$ in on her relationships.

    • @bleuskye8124
      @bleuskye8124 2 місяці тому +33

      I love when he slams the door. 😂

    • @Griefandgroceries
      @Griefandgroceries 2 місяці тому +40

      And to think her narcissism is what propelled her to do this. She couldn’t stop herself because she just had to show everyone he loved her the most!
      She had been humiliated when he broke things off 20 years ago, and this was her chance to show everyone his mistake!
      I bet anything she began formulating her ridiculous movie/doc when she got ahold of those letters.
      And I bet Ben was horrified at the lengths she is willing to go to seek the endless attention she craves!
      But it all backfired because she overplayed her hand one last time..

    • @MareeK4346
      @MareeK4346 2 місяці тому +18

      That are both immature, it takes two

  • @susansharp112
    @susansharp112 2 місяці тому +232

    She is actually addicted to fame. She thrives on it

    • @RobinLee-kb3xj
      @RobinLee-kb3xj 2 місяці тому +10

      Yep all about herself. And have you seen they way her kids dress. You can tell they don't give a crap. They know what kind of mama they have. All glam and show, and I mean show.

    • @faireypants5466
      @faireypants5466 2 місяці тому +13

      She’s her own biggest fan.

    • @monklingtoneverjet2536
      @monklingtoneverjet2536 2 місяці тому +5

      I think it's fabulous you can say "addicted to fame" and know the destruction that can go with it instead of worshipping fame and bowing down to megalomaniacs

    • @vernacyrette1331
      @vernacyrette1331 2 місяці тому +1

      I'm her f'ing fan so fan the f' away!

    • @bryantprice3334
      @bryantprice3334 2 місяці тому +1

      She trying to make people think she right. Ain't nothing right about that. Her first husband is her husband. She made a commitment between him and God and her

  • @winkieblink7625
    @winkieblink7625 2 місяці тому +67

    Their ***Honeymoon in Paris daily walkabouts*** were nauseating! Who does that!? ….A DIVA ME ADDICT. She LOVED IT.

    • @bonnieallen2430
      @bonnieallen2430 2 місяці тому +2

      Yes that was ridiculous. They were always out with the entourage on the honeymoon.

    • @winkieblink7625
      @winkieblink7625 2 місяці тому +1

      @@bonnieallen2430 daily…IT NEVER ENDED! He was BORED W/it all. She was in her glory.

    • @monklingtoneverjet2536
      @monklingtoneverjet2536 2 місяці тому +3

      empty lonely people maybe

  • @conishkee
    @conishkee 2 місяці тому +43

    Given her track record, it's a shame that Jlo will bring nothing but misery to ANY man. Sure, she's pretty, wears beautiful clothes, is rich, and lives a life that many can only dream of, but it's long overdue for her to reflect on and improve herself 'cause she will never have her happy-ever-after if she continues being such a miserably self-absorbed person. FACT!!

  • @teresab126
    @teresab126 2 місяці тому +91

    JLO is a Diva, and Ben didn’t like being her handmaiden. Ben knew what he was getting into, and jumped in anyway!

    • @user-ss7ht2bp3m
      @user-ss7ht2bp3m 2 місяці тому +5

      You put it perfectly

    • @NikkiGloom
      @NikkiGloom 2 місяці тому +2

      No ben couldnt stay sober, focus on himself, and her falling in love so fast again, and also he cheated with garner gambled, drank... so i think he got way more issues than jen falling in love.

    • @himmel2436
      @himmel2436 2 місяці тому +2

      failure diva, huh! her voice is not even as good as Shakira but her attitude exceedd princess of wales

    • @lenac3587
      @lenac3587 2 місяці тому +5

      It was lust, now the chemistry has subsided after 2 years. He woke up from the fever dream

    • @talcareyifill5937
      @talcareyifill5937 2 місяці тому

      Sex

  • @francine6485
    @francine6485 2 місяці тому +203

    She is not a love addict... She is a narcissist. She needs fuel.

    • @PKC2020
      @PKC2020 2 місяці тому +14

      Just like Meghan Markle

    • @jessicajimenez986
      @jessicajimenez986 2 місяці тому +11

      ​​@@PKC2020100% correct. Both of their husbands look miserable. Both mistreat their employees. Both need constant attention. The people surrounding both of them seem to be afraid to go against them in anyway.

    • @laraoneal7284
      @laraoneal7284 2 місяці тому +11

      She’s very codependent. She can’t be ALONE.

    • @NikkiGloom
      @NikkiGloom 2 місяці тому +4

      she isnt a narcissist, because her behavior doesnt even suggest one. everyone on here acts like they know a therapist please stop.... she has codependency and addiction to romance. thats all and she is rude. Nothing narcisstic about all of that. You would need to learn this behavior im afraid.

    • @PKC2020
      @PKC2020 2 місяці тому

      @@NikkiGloom She is definitely a narcissist. Meghan Markle 2.0
      Is she paying you to cover for her.
      lololol~ Jennifer Lopez Lies about her entire career. Also she was NOT riding in economy on her last flight. Already been debunked. Exactly what Meghan Markle would do but she is worse than Jennifer Lopez. A lot. Jennifer has real talent, Meghan Markle has NONE. lol~

  • @susanaruppel8103
    @susanaruppel8103 2 місяці тому +132

    He wanted to focus on his kids…….she should do the same. They both should just focus on their own blood families.

    • @mskfisaoli
      @mskfisaoli 2 місяці тому +3

      @@susanaruppel8103 WHY he didn't focus when he was married to Jennifer Garner??? Excuses!!! 🤬

    • @lenac3587
      @lenac3587 2 місяці тому +1

      Which is why she cancelled her tours to focus on family but jetoff solo to Europe instead. 'Shes not your mama' 🎶

    • @dorothysegedinac6979
      @dorothysegedinac6979 2 місяці тому

      Absolutely. THat is why two of the kids from either side have issues with identity. They crave attention from their bio parents. BOth should stop the serial dating and marrying and wait till the kids are adults.

  • @sabine3769
    @sabine3769 2 місяці тому +83

    Shes in love with herself

  • @lisas2538
    @lisas2538 2 місяці тому +9

    Who needs a 60 million dollar mansion? Even if you can afford it? It’s just stupid.

  • @luvforeverify
    @luvforeverify 2 місяці тому +148

    He should have stayed with Jennifer Garner. She is so sweet and a very good mother.

    • @mskfisaoli
      @mskfisaoli 2 місяці тому +12

      Jennifer Garner came in between Jlo and Ben back in their first romance, remind you that Jennifer Garner was in a relationship, so not so good good girl!

    • @Senoritagata-nu5te
      @Senoritagata-nu5te 2 місяці тому +3

      A real mother teresa

    • @ashton8878
      @ashton8878 2 місяці тому +5

      Doesn’t matter how good you are, there will always be a man who’s tired of your shit.

    • @d.c.104
      @d.c.104 2 місяці тому +6

      Do you even know what you're talking about???? Garner is not the person you want her to be.

    • @himmel2436
      @himmel2436 2 місяці тому

      @@mskfisaoli hahaha, you latina/hispanic always stand up for your own kind, huh! just like what you people did during AGT last yearbarking to wrong contestant just to defend the defeated gabriel hernandez. something wrong with the land where latina/latino/hispanic originated.

  • @raineontheworld7618
    @raineontheworld7618 2 місяці тому +25

    Selling his entire motorcycle collection without his permission was wrong! I would have left her immediately. She has no emotional self control.

    • @brendarambur1991
      @brendarambur1991 2 місяці тому +2

      Really? She did this without Ben knowing??? Doesn't seem that's possible if he is registered owner?!

    • @raineontheworld7618
      @raineontheworld7618 2 місяці тому +1

      @@brendarambur1991that’s what I heard on UA-cam and a couple of other sources. She seems shady so who knows how she allegedly did it.

    • @cyndimorgan9792
      @cyndimorgan9792 2 місяці тому

      She sold his motorcycles?

    • @consciousnessrenaissance7804
      @consciousnessrenaissance7804 2 місяці тому +1

      He should’ve sold her ring collection 😅😅😅

    • @raineontheworld7618
      @raineontheworld7618 2 місяці тому +1

      @@consciousnessrenaissance7804 haha. She would have busted an artery!

  • @photomaker4502
    @photomaker4502 2 місяці тому +35

    Jlo crossed that boundary in her pathetic movie about herself when she shared one of the most intimate thing between her and Affleck. And that was all the love letters he kept, and she shared it with her employees, talking about it like it was comedy. I’d be pissed and lose trust in her. She’s a selfish person. Hope she grows up someday.

    • @mariarohmer2374
      @mariarohmer2374 2 місяці тому +3

      You are so right, this was sicko and selfish. First of all so not cool for his kids and ex wife to have this out. Also, how she can't be happy with the truth alone that these letters exist. Which would be enough for most people. No, she has to make sure the whole world knows cuz her ego demands it. She is pathetic. A child.

  • @Elayzee
    @Elayzee 2 місяці тому +108

    Jennifer FLOPez FLOPS again with her marriage she kept shoving in our faces as if we actually cared about "Bennifer".

    • @teriheilman717
      @teriheilman717 2 місяці тому +10

      Sooo true!

    • @vernacyrette1331
      @vernacyrette1331 2 місяці тому +1

      Benifer jenifer so 🌾 what saith the russian

    • @Griefandgroceries
      @Griefandgroceries 2 місяці тому +3

      You’re so right! She has always loved preening and peacocking for an audience. I’ve long noticed she thrives on envy.
      This appears to be her narc fuel-envy by the masses!

  • @Lily-tl9ke
    @Lily-tl9ke 2 місяці тому +10

    She just seems exhausting to be with.

  • @cynthiatoro2615
    @cynthiatoro2615 2 місяці тому +231

    They both need God

  • @UrielFirelyte
    @UrielFirelyte 2 місяці тому +30

    A Dark Spirit is upon Ben, it’s eating his soul slowly…!!! No matter where he goes or what is given to him that others don’t have… will not matter. He needs Urgent Spiritual Soul Cleansing & Healing! Ben Can be Saved! I pray to GOD in the Name of Jesus Christ for his Rebirth.✨🙏🏻🕯️💗⚖️🌞💫

    • @thesholovepodcast
      @thesholovepodcast 2 місяці тому +3

      I AGREE!

    • @lacroixbeverage8883
      @lacroixbeverage8883 2 місяці тому

      It's the dark spirit that inhabits JLOs vagina! It has now taken him captive and his soul is tied to her forever until he gets the curse removed! Should make for a good move script instead of JLOs dumb movie! This is me now....hahaha

  • @sassypatty2666
    @sassypatty2666 2 місяці тому +61

    JLo talented? That’s a new one!

  • @teresajannuzzio2408
    @teresajannuzzio2408 2 місяці тому +37

    What is she SHOWING HER KIDS. HER DAUGHTER!

    • @johannarivera4856
      @johannarivera4856 2 місяці тому +4

      Those kids are already confused!!!!!🫤

    • @angelasmith257
      @angelasmith257 2 місяці тому +2

      @@johannarivera4856yup …her daughter thinks she her son 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @lenac3587
      @lenac3587 2 місяці тому

      ​@@johannarivera4856One autistic, one gender neutral. Poor kids. She's busy making money and dating men, she has no time for them

    • @IsabelGomez-b8s
      @IsabelGomez-b8s 2 місяці тому

      Obviously not very pleasant or stable life for her kids... be happy with your kids & professional life. Stop seeking acceptance from men... love yourself!
      Stop looking for the perfect married life😮😢

  • @sophfores430
    @sophfores430 2 місяці тому +68

    No one is to blame.
    I hope Ben continues on with his sobriety.
    I respect his priority towards being a dad and having a respectful relationship with Jen G.
    I hope JLo address’s her own behavior and takes the time to know herself aside from being in the limelight. I think she appears happy in Italy because she is used to this habit after breaking up.

    • @mairim4578
      @mairim4578 2 місяці тому +11

      Not wife material.

    • @mskfisaoli
      @mskfisaoli 2 місяці тому

      @@sophfores430 where was his priority when married to JG??? And JG is not too respectful!!!

    • @himmel2436
      @himmel2436 2 місяці тому +2

      @@mskfisaoli another latina/hispanic huh!

    • @mskfisaoli
      @mskfisaoli 2 місяці тому

      ​@@himmel2436 Extremely proud! Successful, happy, delicious!! Not plain! Whitey 😅

    • @MSOkraMan
      @MSOkraMan 2 місяці тому

      ​@@mskfisaoliLatino is just another 87% European white person.
      Take a dna test and find out Ms. Vanilla white girl with 90% white ancestors.
      Your self hate is showing.

  • @demitriagrado1625
    @demitriagrado1625 2 місяці тому +141

    Jennifer looks like she has aged and lost weight

    • @laureneharrington6110
      @laureneharrington6110 2 місяці тому +18

      So does Ben.

    • @mskfisaoli
      @mskfisaoli 2 місяці тому +16

      God! I wish to age like her!! She is stunning ❤❤❤❤

    • @judithryle2113
      @judithryle2113 2 місяці тому +6

      How many houses has this woman bought

    • @judithryle2113
      @judithryle2113 2 місяці тому

      @@laureneharrington6110I get tired of seeing her boobs hanging out of her dresses

    • @judithryle2113
      @judithryle2113 2 місяці тому +6

      I hate that low cut white dress she wears

  • @sewsewsewist785
    @sewsewsewist785 2 місяці тому +22

    Ben Affleck didn't seem to mind JLo's celebrity status when she was on his arm at HIS movie premiers.

    • @ChristyRocha-i2h
      @ChristyRocha-i2h 2 місяці тому +4

      As long as it’s about him!

    • @angelasmith257
      @angelasmith257 2 місяці тому +2

      @@ChristyRocha-i2hthey r both LEOS and too much alike to make it work…

  • @whiteroses47
    @whiteroses47 2 місяці тому +16

    Jennifer is driven, and maybe that'll change as she gets older, but I think she should remain single as well as Ben. They're both famous people, but Ben likes privacy, and I can understand where he's coming from, but didn't he know what he was getting into. Jennifer is career first, and everything else is secondary, apparently. But I think the media should just give them a break and leave them alone.

  • @alexiwray9839
    @alexiwray9839 2 місяці тому +53

    If Dolly Parton can protect her marriage for 50 years. Why cant J keep her ego a side for real love.

    • @tashawnabell
      @tashawnabell 2 місяці тому +11

      Not the same caliber people. J lo calls the media to film her. Dolly gives back to the world.

    • @Babygerl309
      @Babygerl309 2 місяці тому

      Dolly has been married for 4p years? Wow u see the difference?

    • @Candyprincess971
      @Candyprincess971 2 місяці тому +4

      Dolly is a sweetheart Jlo isn’t

    • @thatgirlkells5505
      @thatgirlkells5505 2 місяці тому +1

      Dolly Parton is a true singer,song writer. That occupys Dolly's time. Jennifer Lopez has no true talent. She is an industry plant. She also appears to be a Classic Narcissist. She needs constant attention. Its like air to her. Nothing else matters!!!!

    • @NBayat-fy2ck
      @NBayat-fy2ck 2 місяці тому +1

      Because dolly is normal the other is a promiscuous Narcissist. A world of difference.

  • @srvsrv8584
    @srvsrv8584 2 місяці тому +49

    The only one he hasn't broken up with is Matt Damon 🙄

    • @jeb691
      @jeb691 2 місяці тому +3

      you're so right

    • @SandraPerez-ck8xr
      @SandraPerez-ck8xr 2 місяці тому +2

      Probably because he is married to a good woman. Ben likes married women. Both Jennifer’s were married when he met them. Then all of a sudden Jennifer G. Gets divorce. All three adults in this triangle are f up.

  • @spacecoastaesthetics6990
    @spacecoastaesthetics6990 2 місяці тому +42

    Incompatible Attachment styles. She's anxious he's avoidant. Commonly attracted and get into a destructive cycle. They both need to work on themselves.

  • @Shai8212
    @Shai8212 2 місяці тому +17

    All the money in the world the nice houses the nice clothes the nice vacations and they still mad 🙄

  • @FootSoldier4Christ
    @FootSoldier4Christ 2 місяці тому +13

    I think the way Marc Anthony treated her, how she put him and being a mom before her career to the point of losing her sense of self, caused her to want her and her creative endeavors to be put first. She put them before Ben to the extent Ben wasn't getting his needs met. Upon watching clips of her documentary, it was clear that everything was all about her. She disrespected Ben and ran roughshod over his need for privacy, including showing people she was working with the very personal book he made her of all their private communications. She seems demanding, insecure, controlling and self-centered. There was more than basic incompatibility at work; there was disrespect and disregard for Ben's needs. I was no fan of Ben and I liked JLo, but she showed the world a very, very selfish side to her, while Ben seemed to be trying hard to accommodate her.

  • @mairim4578
    @mairim4578 2 місяці тому +33

    She is not going to be young forever,I would have chosen marriage instead of failing carreir.

    • @sharondiaz137
      @sharondiaz137 2 місяці тому +5

      She is not young now she is 55 years old

    • @vernacyrette1331
      @vernacyrette1331 2 місяці тому

      55 to 65 and beyond is senior citizen is entering that this year!🎉😂🎉😂🎉😂🎉😮🎉 2024 ! Wow ! She is an elder coming soon!🎉😂🎉 respect your elders! 🎉😂🎉😮🎉

    • @KT-fm7dt
      @KT-fm7dt 2 місяці тому

      @@vernacyrette1331 No it’s not! Senior Citizen starts at 65.

    • @vernacyrette1331
      @vernacyrette1331 2 місяці тому

      @@KT-fm7dt I know what I'm talking about so keep your shit to yourself! PLEASE AND GOOD DAY! DONT SPOIL MINE! TROLL!

    • @KT-fm7dt
      @KT-fm7dt 2 місяці тому

      @@vernacyrette1331 Google is your friend.

  • @marymcnellis5311
    @marymcnellis5311 2 місяці тому +21

    She is getting what she deserves. She is all about her,no one else.

  • @Lipstick81
    @Lipstick81 2 місяці тому +17

    You know better then that ? Sorry Jennifer you put it out there , people will have their opinions .

  • @marytorres2565
    @marytorres2565 2 місяці тому +31

    He knew bout her fame before he went after her

  • @evelynmelian-glick436
    @evelynmelian-glick436 2 місяці тому +9

    Please address JLo’s weight loss. Ozempic?! Well she should gain that weight back because she looks much older. On their marriage…. I’m sorry for the kids. Wish them both well.

  • @ginawoods9127
    @ginawoods9127 2 місяці тому +10

    We’ve known all along. Ben never looked older and miserable.

  • @sofiatoader4294
    @sofiatoader4294 2 місяці тому +6

    They should talk about their differences before getting married !

    • @allisonquerze7941
      @allisonquerze7941 2 місяці тому

      There should not have been a marriage due to some of their key differences. He smokes cigarettes, and she does not like someone who smokes cigarettes. He prefers to live a peaceful and very private life, and she has a chaotic and very public life. Then there is the astrological standpoint of both of them being a Leo and the conflict of who is going to be the boss. This dynamic will serve as a constant struggle during their relationship.

  • @sunamethyst283
    @sunamethyst283 2 місяці тому +7

    Ben looks so stressed out

  • @lindalamb7512
    @lindalamb7512 2 місяці тому +77

    Ben is no prize either

    • @user-ev3rb7js4l
      @user-ev3rb7js4l 2 місяці тому +1

      👍

    • @monklingtoneverjet2536
      @monklingtoneverjet2536 2 місяці тому +1

      yes, lets face it, though he seems a lot more fun to be around

    • @SandraPerez-ck8xr
      @SandraPerez-ck8xr 2 місяці тому +1

      Ben spend all the time he was married to JG drunk, cheating and gambling now that his kids are almost all grown up he wants to be a good father. Never too late to be a father but children need their parents when they are little the most.

    • @raineontheworld7618
      @raineontheworld7618 2 місяці тому

      He reminds me of a caveman. She reminds me of a man. So aggressive and beastly. No wonder they didn’t kill each other.

    • @CMare-pt7ei
      @CMare-pt7ei 2 місяці тому

      Yep

  • @hannitta9able
    @hannitta9able 2 місяці тому +23

    Sounds like a narcissistic personality

  • @juliebrown2227
    @juliebrown2227 2 місяці тому +8

    With a partner with substance abuse / anger issues a marriage is doomed from the start.

  • @sleepyhollow3197
    @sleepyhollow3197 2 місяці тому +16

    My friend said..That the argument on the red carpet he wanted to go straight to the party and get a drink before her..she said no to wait..that’s why they were arguing he didn’t want to or was tired of the press

  • @juliepietruszka5089
    @juliepietruszka5089 2 місяці тому +45

    She sounds like a narcissist. She just bounces to one supply after the other. Once they are turned off my her narcissistic personality she moves on to the next until the new supply signers it out. Its sad bc this just means she only gets self worth from attention of men. Thats sad

    • @NikkiGloom
      @NikkiGloom 2 місяці тому

      She falls in love and he is an addict and gambler and a cheater. whatever.

  • @PollyAlice2000
    @PollyAlice2000 2 місяці тому +7

    Please. He is not exactly a prize.

  • @lynetterodriguez855
    @lynetterodriguez855 2 місяці тому +9

    She should’ve never put that coffee table book with all your pictures & letters, “I Knew it.”

  • @carolynlabauve4445
    @carolynlabauve4445 2 місяці тому +4

    NO!!! You can work it out if you want it to work! People need to stay out of their business! Ben and Jen “Let’s WIN” AGAIN! I will Always Pray for your Happiness! Be Blessed

  • @millielehigh9936
    @millielehigh9936 2 місяці тому +49

    The way he closes the car door cracks me up. I hope he finds someone that is good for him.

    • @user-ss7ht2bp3m
      @user-ss7ht2bp3m 2 місяці тому +5

      Agreed, he’s suffering deep. She shallow and lives to be seen

    • @marychiquita123
      @marychiquita123 2 місяці тому +2

      He was angry at the Paparazzis, not at her!!

    • @monklingtoneverjet2536
      @monklingtoneverjet2536 2 місяці тому +2

      yes what a brilliant door slam- so flamboyant and hilarious

    • @maryanncarine2075
      @maryanncarine2075 2 місяці тому +1

      @@monklingtoneverjet2536 It's the "I've had it" slam

    • @user-yp9ot7rm6w
      @user-yp9ot7rm6w 2 місяці тому +1

      Could not agree more

  • @RaisingKittens
    @RaisingKittens 2 місяці тому +15

    Doomed when she made the movie about their never dying love. Just like tattooing someone name on your body 😬

    • @lacroixbeverage8883
      @lacroixbeverage8883 2 місяці тому +3

      YES!!!!!! well said! And they did tattoo their names on each other! So double curse! Marriage was double doomed!

    • @RaisingKittens
      @RaisingKittens 2 місяці тому +1

      @@lacroixbeverage8883 Haha😂

  • @yivette7988
    @yivette7988 2 місяці тому +31

    "Love addict" that is new I thought it was narcissism a trait they both have one is simply an alcoholic.

  • @lillyrose3545
    @lillyrose3545 2 місяці тому +5

    She is an egomaniac with an inferiority complex. She DEFINITELY is a love addict, and it can ruin a person as much as any other addiction. It just sounds a little sweeter because it’s “love” and fluffy and sweet. Just like when people hear someone has a s e x addiction and people joke and say “Who isn’t?”.
    She used this to restart her relevance and Ben was probably mortified about her recent bombs, and it would be hell to deal with her tantrums as a result of those failures. Ben wants a private life and she is a narc that feeds off of the attention.
    I heard she is already back to Alex Rodriquez. She was at the courthouse yesterday filing.
    4th divorce

    • @Griefandgroceries
      @Griefandgroceries 2 місяці тому +4

      4th divorce is just insane. I bet she is freaking out. Then there’s the Diddy stuff to deal with. Karma sure came for her. If she had been nice and kind to ppl, she’d have more support.

  • @debravertucci6220
    @debravertucci6220 2 місяці тому +4

    Too bad JEN chose social media over her ";love" for Ben!!!

  • @susanasalinas8797
    @susanasalinas8797 2 місяці тому +14

    Topping of the cake for their divorce is probably because of her exposure with p diddy

  • @angeladebatin4714
    @angeladebatin4714 2 місяці тому +4

    I hope JL is not going to be the reason Ben starts drinking again !!!

  • @Starfish2145
    @Starfish2145 2 місяці тому +6

    He’s an alcoholic and she’s addicted to fame and herself. Bad combination.

  • @enzicons7760
    @enzicons7760 2 місяці тому +3

    As a wife JLo is only protective of Ben A so that he will not go back to his old bad habits which definitely may ruin anyone in a marriage relationship. I agree that Ben should stop associating with old friends who she feels have no value over marriage like their own. JLO will not go back to Ben if she didn't love him.. In marriage it takes two to tango. So this couple should really do marriage counselling first. Each one must give up something for the sake of their marriage. Your are not getting any younger, you need each other. This is a big challenge for you. pls don't be selfish to see you own feelings. that is not love.

  • @leilareggie1826
    @leilareggie1826 2 місяці тому +5

    Her Diva Complex rules her life.

  • @blueyedenigma5010
    @blueyedenigma5010 2 місяці тому +3

    JoLow is addicted to attention, period. So are demons. She needs deliverance.

  • @divineorder22
    @divineorder22 2 місяці тому +4

    JLO deserves much better.

  • @diannehartnett9044
    @diannehartnett9044 2 місяці тому +7

    Sad! I feel for her children!

  • @mkedmusa9416
    @mkedmusa9416 2 місяці тому +12

    I keep forgetting that the Diddy situation is not good at this time! He is booking up due to that being the so called final straw which is not good! She would need her husband more than ever!

    • @monklingtoneverjet2536
      @monklingtoneverjet2536 2 місяці тому +1

      yes is this a deflection from what they are about to reveal about her and peediddle?

  • @Alone-in-a-dessert
    @Alone-in-a-dessert 2 місяці тому +3

    JLO definitely needs to grow up and just concentrate on her children. They are at an age that they need guidance, not, being the children’s friend. BE A MOM JLO! Let it go and focus on them. I do not blame Ben. He has always been family first. He didn’t like all the media then and it looks like he feels the same way now. I wouldn’t like it either. She has gone through so many break ups that involve children that I’m sure all the other children just simply don’t understand. JLO, get your ish together. You do not need to find someone right away. Do some reflection and search internally. You have a long trail of kids that are being hurt as well. You ARE NOT A VICTIM. But, the children really are. Give it a rest and get yourself and your children some therapy.

  • @barbaracurtice6002
    @barbaracurtice6002 2 місяці тому +6

    He acts very immature

  • @melpark9689
    @melpark9689 2 місяці тому +12

    Can't keep a man!!

    • @SandraPerez-ck8xr
      @SandraPerez-ck8xr 2 місяці тому

      She picks toxic men? Doesn’t know how to pick a good man.

  • @NatalieWidawski
    @NatalieWidawski 2 місяці тому +3

    I told my daughter all of this from the start. Two years ago. She said I was crazy. He even looked miserable on their European honeymoon. And then left her alone in Europe then also. In Italy. People say that the wedding in Savannah. She sang to him. IT seemed like kareokee…. It was doomed. She’s the poster child for “I can’t be alone”. Not healthy. And with all of her success. Sadly per professionals, she’s addicted to love. And very insecure. I’m not a therapist. If I went to medical school. That’s where I would have been my focused. But it’s probably Jennifer Lopez’s insecurity that drove her to extreme fame. Her dad was always at work. (I read this). And her mom was into herself and always the life of the party. A narcissist!! Kicked her out for dropping out of college. She didn’t feel loved. What mother does that. Jalo was also a middle child. I’m a fan. I love Jalo. Nat grew up watching her movies. Playing her records. Jlo should stay single. And concentrate on her kids. While they are still somewhat young. Her daughter seems very sweet. But seems to be on the same page as Gloria Estefan’s daughter, Cher’s daughter. They are all crying for attention apparantly. She should maybe adopt another child …. Sit back and enjoy her success. She can’t take her money with her. When we are gone. The tombstone never reads. There lays the richest woman! I keep saying enough ! She’s pushing 60. I personally retired at 50! I have no regrets. My daughter thrived when I stopped working. I gave up traveling. And I did what I felt was important. Ok. And I read she wants Alex back. He said he’s happy. He’s a smart man. And he dodged a bullet. Ok. Just some food for thought !

  • @user-nm6td9wb7t
    @user-nm6td9wb7t 2 місяці тому +1

    This woman is so in love with herself. So there is no room for anyone.

  • @christinamellow9824
    @christinamellow9824 2 місяці тому +6

    She's a has been and has been with everybody and anybody.😂😂😂😂😂😂TEAM BEN!!!!

    • @monklingtoneverjet2536
      @monklingtoneverjet2536 2 місяці тому

      oooh nasty! she 's Jenny from the block to Jenny with her head on the block lol

  • @mimiaquariusharris6244
    @mimiaquariusharris6244 2 місяці тому +3

    When Meghan McCain who is not liked by anyone say JLO wasn’t nice says a lot.

  • @sharonholt4687
    @sharonholt4687 2 місяці тому +3

    Jlo needs to spend some time alone. It's ok to have friends to talk to. However, relationships should be a no no at this time.

  • @RealMuzik4
    @RealMuzik4 2 місяці тому +3

    JLo needs to stay single and go to therapy and love her twins.

  • @dubyabalthazar4598
    @dubyabalthazar4598 2 місяці тому +9

    I never saw how they ever got together... it just always seemed like a weird match to me. But their marriage breakup makes me sad... i hope they can make it work somehow. Relationships are very very hard n never easy, especially with addiction is invovled-it wilk never be easy.

    • @worldsbesttarot
      @worldsbesttarot 2 місяці тому +1

      First of all Ben Affleck is Ivy League second JLo is a Latina that's very in the hood bad bad match

  • @ednareid5315
    @ednareid5315 2 місяці тому +4

    If you don’t resolve the issues you had the first time around , they will definitely pop up again the second time around. He was NEVER comfortable with all the attention and she lives for it!!!

  • @ShellyBomb
    @ShellyBomb 2 місяці тому +1

    💔 ~ So extraordinarily sad; they both had an opportunity to rebuild the second time around, but instead primarily Jennifer Lopez - seemed uninterested in building the foundation of her marriage & bringing their blended family together. For whatever reasons (beyond her narcissistic behavior) she wanted to only LIVE in the glare of the paparazzi spotlight!!! 💔

  • @lindacormier4613
    @lindacormier4613 2 місяці тому +4

    And all the kids she has damaged, along the way. Especially A ROD. I FEEL SO SORRY FOR JLO KIDS. THEY ARE GOING TO BE SO FKED UP.

  • @margaitagonzalez1370
    @margaitagonzalez1370 2 місяці тому +3

    This woman has a lot of issues. When is she's gonna learn to let people be that's the reason why Ben left she doesn't let him be. I wish her the best of luck.🙏

  • @morganwhite2176
    @morganwhite2176 2 місяці тому +1

    Him being an ‘addict’ as this man is saying is NOT the reason for divorce. It is so obvious what happened and can be seen in ‘’the greatest loves story’’ which Jen released about them. Ben says he feels uncomfortable with her showing all his love letters to her, and says he does not approve of her level of flaunting. It is just crystal clear in that documentary that she is on her own building up this idea of a marriage whilst he is wanting out. Addict isn’t the problem here. She just needed to slow down, look at her husband and take in what he wanted to. She didn’t so here we go again. Divorce.

  • @JuliaCRocha
    @JuliaCRocha 2 місяці тому +3

    Ahh, it's none of our business!! That's their life! We have our own lives to live!

  • @focusonsuccess
    @focusonsuccess 2 місяці тому +6

    Jlo is a GREAT PERSON . Ben is so jealous of her. That is his issue NOT hers, just like all the haters, blaming her. STOP BEING SO IMMATURE!

    • @Sdurand497
      @Sdurand497 2 місяці тому

      Hmmm married 4 times on divorce 4 , who is the common denominator.
      I keep seeing her hop up on my feed I had enough ! She is leaking photos about herself , for attention nauseating !

    • @focusonsuccess
      @focusonsuccess 2 місяці тому

      @@Sdurand497 then STOP READING THEM!

    • @Sdurand497
      @Sdurand497 2 місяці тому

      @@focusonsuccess The fact that you think JLo is a great person for dragging her innocent children across the country from stepfather to the next proves you are just as narcissistic, mean spirited, money hungry, delusional, vain , self absorbed as she is, the general public shared their experiences which you JLo fans says was false , well divorce #4 confirms it. Stop worshipping celebrities and worship God !
      Scripture: Mark 8:33
      “What profits a man to gain the whole world yet to lose his soul “

    • @consciousnessrenaissance7804
      @consciousnessrenaissance7804 2 місяці тому

      She is her worst enemy, she always puts other artists down and steal everyone else’s work

  • @jillh7403
    @jillh7403 2 місяці тому +7

    You forgot Casper.

  • @lisamcgill664
    @lisamcgill664 2 місяці тому +16

    Sometimes things just fizz out

    • @mjeff4106
      @mjeff4106 2 місяці тому

      It's certainly not love if it simply fizzled out.

  • @kathryngilbert5952
    @kathryngilbert5952 2 місяці тому +1

    She was never ever over Ben

  • @kimshuster7084
    @kimshuster7084 2 місяці тому +11

    He is sick of her wouldn’t you be.

  • @jenfs2188
    @jenfs2188 2 місяці тому +7

    Large weight loss on seniors ages one.

  • @lizzetterivera2324
    @lizzetterivera2324 2 місяці тому +1

    JLO is Obsessed with this man!!! He cancelled their wedding 20+ Years ago!!! And still she was the one wanting to s call his attention back again! What is wrong with her? maybe bc he’s the only one who’s not truly into her? or “ drooling” for her like everybody else’s? I’m almost sure that’s what her obsession is all about!!!

  • @Just_Peachy8777
    @Just_Peachy8777 2 місяці тому +4

    That photo of her with Diddy was no help in the matter.

  • @joanjenny2555
    @joanjenny2555 2 місяці тому +2

    J ello needs for there to be action and attention all the time. She has been a performer for a long time. I do not see her as an artist but she has learned the trades and puts on a show. I imagine she will return to Vegas. Her children need stability and quiet growth. Privacy and free of stress. I believe this couple is worlds apart in their own real needs to grow. Let go. Peace to the World.

    • @Griefandgroceries
      @Griefandgroceries 2 місяці тому

      I think she’s moved into Cruise Ship entertainment at this point! 🚢

  • @b.m.f2153
    @b.m.f2153 2 місяці тому +6

    When I saw the P Diddy and Jlo Cucaracha nightclub story ,I told my husband they are SO getting divorced. No way in Hell he wants that tsunami on his front door. The rest of this stuff is just a Big ass Red Herring😂

    • @Griefandgroceries
      @Griefandgroceries 2 місяці тому +2

      Me too! I bet his first wife had a fit regarding her children being around that element!
      JLo traded dirty for fame and it’s looking like she’s about to be outed for this 👀

  • @ROYAL_REBEL
    @ROYAL_REBEL 2 місяці тому +9

    She's nearly 60, and is still in love with being in the spotlight. She has to get a man who loves the spotlight just as much as she does.

    • @Manfromparadise
      @Manfromparadise 2 місяці тому +1

      She’s not yet 55- that’s not nearly 60

    • @ROYAL_REBEL
      @ROYAL_REBEL 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Manfromparadise She’ll be 55 in a month. So yes, she's nearly 60

  • @Dargyful
    @Dargyful 2 місяці тому +3

    People are so much harsher to women and that is a fact. It always was, it is and always will be. Stay strong JLo , you’ve done great

  • @dollyalexandratorres2031
    @dollyalexandratorres2031 2 місяці тому +10

    Learn bout female classic narcisists...please, control, no connection to anyone including..children, sex addict,not love addict...plese!!!

  • @user-xn9yr6ix9e
    @user-xn9yr6ix9e 2 місяці тому +15

    Ben should have never went back with her she’s a problem

    • @mskfisaoli
      @mskfisaoli 2 місяці тому +2

      @@user-xn9yr6ix9e Wrong! Jlo shouldn't have give him another chance!!!

    • @JohnD.Padilla
      @JohnD.Padilla 2 місяці тому +1

      But Ben has a lot of problems of hus own.