How UPSC changed my life? | Failure, Depression and Success

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  • Опубліковано 27 чер 2024
  • A lot of you keep asking me in the comments section why I didn't join the civil services despite clearing the exam. So here's my story. This isn't just about the service; it's about how I panicked, completely lost it, cried, and overcame the most depressing phase of my life.
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    UPSC Civil Services Exam is one of the most prestigious exams in the country. It has three parts, the Prelims exam, the Main exam and the Personality test, which you need to clear in order to become an IAS or IPS officer. All other Group A services of the Government of India recruit people through the UPSC Civil services exam itself and because of this, there is a lot of competition in this exam. Hence, your UPSC preparation should be strategic, informed and well planned.
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  • @triptocerebrum
    @triptocerebrum 3 дні тому +58

    I remember, that I used to practice in court and in my leisure hours, I used to watch your videos to strategically plan my preparation. I am of the thought that UPSC can never be taught to anyone. It can only be guided. And if there are mentors like you, who shove the truth to your face but at the very same time give a ray of hope through hardwork, consistency and determination, i can definitely say that aspirants can be relieved. You and UPSC PREP team won our hearts again when you showed the truth as to which Upsc topper has taken which course on your platform like clear water. That was a tremendous step by your platform, adding more to your credibility. I don’t know whether i am going to fulfil my dream, but the outlook which you gave to this exam will certainly be the part and parcel of my life ever-long. Thank you so much Sir and thank you so much to complete UPSC prep team for your efforts.🙏🏻❤️

  • @tanmaytiwari3828
    @tanmaytiwari3828 3 дні тому +75

    I am a person who knows you since Studento 2.0 ❤

  • @arvind3121992
    @arvind3121992 3 дні тому +37

    Rank 1 2014 Ira singhal
    Selected in 2011,2012,2013 got irs not given job by dopt
    Filed a case in central administrative tribunal won in 2014

    • @yashuaggarwal2401
      @yashuaggarwal2401 2 дні тому

      But why ?

    • @arvind3121992
      @arvind3121992 2 дні тому +8

      @@yashuaggarwal2401 dopt said an irs has to lift a trunk weighing 10 kg which she can't because she had sclerosis.
      But there were no rules given in the physical requirements of an irs. It's waa a way to stop her from getting job as an IRS
      There are many rules regarding selection procedure and physical requirements for job by UPSC.
      Ex- if you have diabetes you might not get selected a case pending in court
      There are many cases pending in the courts we only know about a few

  • @adrijachoudhury2388
    @adrijachoudhury2388 3 дні тому +25

    I have met a few UPSC aspirants who failed and I have seen them breaking down and eventually turning into arrogant and egoistic human beings to mask their pain. That made me quite demotivated to appear for this exam.But you are really an inspiration. You fit perfect to the quote that, a true teacher is like a candle which consumes itself to light the way for others.
    Thank You.

  • @footgoblin
    @footgoblin 3 дні тому +8

    Love the poem in the title! It's very inspiring and so is your story❤

  • @priyajha2335
    @priyajha2335 3 дні тому +10

    Mjhe sun k tenson ho gyi ..h..and u have gone through it😢u r very strong person really u r an inspiration for us .😊

  • @Neha_Swami.
    @Neha_Swami. 3 дні тому +7

    Have seen many successful topper videos but your journey despite the failures, is the most inspiring one. Shayad isliye upsc nahi hua apka sir kyu ki ho jaata toh hum jaise aspirants ko sahi guidance kaise milta. God bless you abundantly sir & thank you for all your efforts for your students ❤

  • @HimanshuKhade
    @HimanshuKhade 3 дні тому +22

    Hello sir. I can totally relate with you, getting rank and recommended for service but not allocated one. Only difference being UPSC CSE vs UPSC NDA. Went through similar rough phase. But life goes on and we have to keep moving forward. More power to you and keep doing the good work. Your smile is very captivating. :)

    • @user-qe6eq4ij8j
      @user-qe6eq4ij8j 3 дні тому

      What is the reason behind it?

    • @Arun-qy6yk
      @Arun-qy6yk 3 дні тому +1

      Same brother, I too was medically out despite securing air 3 in cds 1 2023. We both can relate to the pain of having a sweet snatched right out of out hands

    • @user-qe6eq4ij8j
      @user-qe6eq4ij8j 3 дні тому

      @@Arun-qy6yk why what is the reason

  • @suryavanshiashish
    @suryavanshiashish 2 дні тому +3

    Love you sir, i had also did it with my father. After watching this video i gain "HOPE" thank you for sharing.

  • @AkhtarjiEdu
    @AkhtarjiEdu День тому +1

    Openly speaking.
    You had a very hard time even though you were keep going and today you are assisting many aspirants.
    May God bless you and gives you strength.
    More power to you sir

  • @Justhuman5563
    @Justhuman5563 День тому +1

    You are a winner ❤❤ After all you have gone through you are still continuing .

  • @supriyapaul6052
    @supriyapaul6052 3 дні тому +1

    Thank uh so much sir for sharing this with us 😊
    It will help me to be strong enough 👊🏿

  • @Paragrapher
    @Paragrapher 3 дні тому +9

    Rigrously following your videos sir ❤

  • @Biju-tv9gi
    @Biju-tv9gi 2 дні тому +2

    Thank you for narrating your entire story, it takes a lot of courage to put it out there. I’ve come across many UA-cam channels guiding students but your channel is different. Keep sharing and also Sir kindly make a video on what should be our approach while preparing specifically for state services.

  • @tej7545
    @tej7545 3 дні тому +2

    i wanted to hear this :) thank you sir

  • @balamurugank5777
    @balamurugank5777 День тому +2

    U r such an inspiration sir❤✨✨✨

  • @abhinavsharma7162
    @abhinavsharma7162 День тому +1

    Really needed your story recap sir🙌

  • @nancyyadav3768
    @nancyyadav3768 День тому +1

    Abhijeet sir stands tall after rising from ashes! I remember how one shorts video of you just 7-8 days before prelims’24 changed my perspective about end tak jhagarna for your cse dream. And I did fight till 4:30 pm that day.

  • @Shivaniileen
    @Shivaniileen 3 дні тому +2

    this was very much needed to me at the moment sir... lots of 🧡

  • @shlokamsrivastava6782
    @shlokamsrivastava6782 2 дні тому +2

    Nice of you Abhijeet that you quoted Dylan Thomas. Loved your story. I'm going through a kind of 'depression' (not clinical) right know. It's takes such courage to come out and pour your thoughts. I see somewhat of myself in you. Keep going. You have done well in life. Your startup has helped many including me. Took the course prelims 360 for this year prelims. All the best and hopefully I am also able to achieve something good. ♥️

  • @princesspriyahari
    @princesspriyahari 2 дні тому +1

    Great quote sir..2022 made me the same point in my life to now ..regained myself and yes it's wat life is..🙏

  • @escobarnaga3245
    @escobarnaga3245 3 дні тому +14

    I thought my struggle was tough. Mine is nothing comparing to yours. You are such a lion sir 🔥🔥🔥 Such an inspiration 🙏🙏🙏

    • @yashi5698
      @yashi5698 2 дні тому

      What a line true 💟💟

  • @othevyao
    @othevyao 2 дні тому +1

    More power to you bhaiya ❤
    You are a saviour to many 🙌

  • @ravin6650
    @ravin6650 3 дні тому

    More power to you!

  • @vinayak4778
    @vinayak4778 2 дні тому +2

    Belive me bro you are one of greatest prodcaster I ever seen , Thank you for all this❤

  • @jeevankotagiri9617
    @jeevankotagiri9617 День тому +1

    Only true aspirants can relate to him❤

  • @akshay3432
    @akshay3432 2 дні тому +3

    I am in the CSE cycle since 3 years and following you since studento 2.0,
    I have seen you showing up
    Making videos and I used to wonder how can anyone be so disciplined
    Fast forward to 2024, Now I realise that that’s what this exam make you disciplined and Perseverant
    Sir you are inspiration for me
    Your subscriber since studento 2.0

  • @Prachi_Yadav1401
    @Prachi_Yadav1401 2 дні тому +1

    More power to you Sir❤

  • @AnjaliSaini-dt6ky
    @AnjaliSaini-dt6ky 2 дні тому

    Thank you so much sir for sharing your story 😊👍🏻🙏🏻😀

  • @khwaish.789
    @khwaish.789 День тому +2

    Hats off to you sir 🫡 u r a super Hero

  • @pratibhasah6698
    @pratibhasah6698 День тому

    Great lesson thank you so much

  • @deepakkumarpati1146
    @deepakkumarpati1146 3 дні тому

    This really gives me hope❤

  • @AB034TX
    @AB034TX 2 дні тому +1

    Have been following you on twitter since you were at 1000 odd followers. All the best.

  • @somyaprasad6828
    @somyaprasad6828 2 дні тому +1

    Sir 🙏 you are a ✨honest hard working students really look up to you, thankyou for being you!

  • @AshutoshKumar-ym6ey
    @AshutoshKumar-ym6ey День тому

    Bhaisahab aansu hi aa gaye ❤

  • @radhikathakkar678
    @radhikathakkar678 2 дні тому +6

    Cried throughout the video. Maybe I needed to hear this to let go off my emotions. Have been trying to clear UPSC since five years but nahi ho raha hai. I put in so much effort but still something always goes wrong and it’s so frustrating and painful. This year my GS went well but I am failing CSAT by just one mark! Now 2025 is my last attempt and I am already very nervous and afraid to even start the preparation!

    • @flipkartsupport5064
      @flipkartsupport5064 День тому

      Radhika thakkar will be the name in holy pdf mark my words

    • @radhikathakkar678
      @radhikathakkar678 19 годин тому

      @@flipkartsupport5064 thank you, literally dreaming of that!

    • @TheAnalyst-ib9rr
      @TheAnalyst-ib9rr 4 години тому

      I don't want to discourage you but please do hedge your bets. I hope you do have back up options.

  • @ayushhhhh690
    @ayushhhhh690 3 дні тому

    Sir u r really a true gem❤️🙏🏻

  • @gauribansal6708
    @gauribansal6708 2 дні тому

    Great Sir..!!

  • @khushiroy1511
    @khushiroy1511 3 дні тому

    More power to uhh sir 🥺🥺💜🙏

  • @Ojfacts
    @Ojfacts 12 годин тому

    Salute sir❤

  • @shashankdas4237
    @shashankdas4237 3 дні тому +7

    I have no one who can console me like this if something like this happens to me.

  • @AnilKumar-rd3bs
    @AnilKumar-rd3bs 3 дні тому +3

    Love from Jammu ❤

  • @iankitmani
    @iankitmani 2 дні тому +1

    That Poem by Dylan Thomas so powerful. It was quoted in interstellar movie also.. more power to you sir.

  • @aspirants6137
    @aspirants6137 День тому +1

    Same situation happened with my professor the case name is - union of India vs vimlok tiwari. But as always upsc wins and sir didn't got service while he cleared exam

  • @anweshpriyadarshisahu6047
    @anweshpriyadarshisahu6047 3 дні тому +4

    Love from odisha ❤

  • @UPSCFIRST2024
    @UPSCFIRST2024 22 години тому +1

    Sir I am from TN,Kindly do all videos in English as it will reach more Aspirants throughout the Country🙇‍♂️

  • @MANISHKUMAR-ck3rc
    @MANISHKUMAR-ck3rc 3 дні тому +7

    You didn't mention studento UA-cam channel devendra rath channel in which your first interview he has taken , people comment on that video positively that give you confidence and from there you decide to came from to josh talk expose yourself to you tube completely

  • @paraschaudhary4269
    @paraschaudhary4269 3 дні тому +3

    The last quote 🔥

  • @theoriginalvideos258
    @theoriginalvideos258 День тому +1

    Love you sir

  • @swarajkiran3360
    @swarajkiran3360 2 дні тому +4

    har na manne ke liye jo strength chahiye vo sabke paas nhi hoti..i cried alot,even every day but stand up for my self because mai haar nhi maan sakti.again i'm fighting, let's see kya hota hai 😢

    • @swarajkiran3360
      @swarajkiran3360 2 дні тому

      I'm still in race sir.. dreams me bhi yhi dikhta hai ki sab aage nikl gye or mai sirf lagi hu,kb tk hoga pta nhi but....but I can't give up

  • @avulabharath5361
    @avulabharath5361 3 дні тому +1

    Big fan sir

  • @Mithlesh.
    @Mithlesh. 2 дні тому +3

    Thumbnail badhiya choose kiye ho sir. Similar face hai abhilash ka.

  • @danishanthal8975
    @danishanthal8975 2 дні тому +2

    When a" pagan" said "god "what is the most transcendental fulfilling thing in this palpable world 🌎 .God politely said : it's by lifting others ,nudging them to do what they are capable of achieving and amplifying their happiness. A piece of poetry for all. please!
    When things go wrong (and they some- times will), when the road you're traveling seems all uphill, rest just a little & don't get bitter! Remember never, never be a quitter.
    When funds are low & debts are high & you want to cry but you have to sigh.
    When cares are pressing you down a bit, rest if must but just don't quit!
    Remember that clouds of worry & clouds of doubt are just little rainbows turned inside out!

  • @AmanKumar-lg8hf
    @AmanKumar-lg8hf 2 дні тому

    Bravo 🎉

  • @ritambharaswami2108
    @ritambharaswami2108 3 дні тому

    As a aspirant we can feel ur pain

  • @sanatanShishya1521
    @sanatanShishya1521 3 дні тому +1

    I can understand each and every word feeling beside this conversation, and I request you to never think again in life regarding your failures only remember lesson learned.
    Or Jab Khud Krishna ji ne aapko Guru Dron banane k liye chuna ho.. toh arjun na banne ka dukh na kriye sir.
    Aapko wo guru banana chahte the, or aaj aap wo succesfull bann gye.
    Jo aaj hajaaro arjun bana rhe h is desh k liye.
    Please ONE REQUEST TO YOU -> My inner voice says please anyone who ask kripa to Krishna ji to read and understand Bhagwat Gita. They will know what is life and it's purpose first.
    Jai shree RadheKrishna🙏

  • @ZealLogs
    @ZealLogs 3 дні тому +16

    Sometimes I feel that why not take upsc as a journey rather destination with ease ✨️

  • @krishanSharma.69.69f
    @krishanSharma.69.69f 3 дні тому +11

    I cried when I saw the actual footage of him crying.

  • @gjcreations9536
    @gjcreations9536 2 дні тому

    Some times keep going ... It is very pain full word

  • @RahulS-ux6kf
    @RahulS-ux6kf 5 годин тому

    A terrible king could be a genius king-maker 😊

  • @chaitralimule5553
    @chaitralimule5553 2 дні тому

    Thank you for truth and great insight. I also said to my parents, why you don't enrolled me in CBSE board? You choose state Board and I failed in exam. The thing is so childish and don't matter much. Being the girl, Atleast I was enrolled in the school. Is most important.
    Thank you.

  • @sassqt
    @sassqt 2 дні тому

    You’re truly an inspiration, I’m proud of you. 🤍 God bless you!

  • @yogalakshmi2765
    @yogalakshmi2765 3 дні тому +4

    I joined your mains advance course....few days before .....while watching your video unknowingly tears were in my eyes though I don't know Hindi ....
    May you be resilient even more in the upcoming days
    Thank you for sharing such a heart wrenching experience of yours !
    When you said about your conversation with your father....I too broke down....
    I know this too shall pass !

    • @Browney0007
      @Browney0007 3 дні тому

      Can u tell me about the course is it good or not. I'm planning to join this course. It'll be really helpful.

    • @yogalakshmi2765
      @yogalakshmi2765 2 дні тому

      @@Browney0007 so far ..good ...nothing to complain about it ....teachers are experienced ones ! ...

  • @AbhishekMishra-pc4cb
    @AbhishekMishra-pc4cb 3 дні тому +1

    I was the one who saw your tweet and retweeted it right then....

  • @Rancho835
    @Rancho835 2 дні тому +2

    Sir for the last 1.5 years i am also in the same state mentally...whole day i watch youtube and do nothing...i don't feel the motivation to do anything...please make a elaborate session on how to overcome this...

  • @BikeLoverNo1
    @BikeLoverNo1 23 години тому +1

    Sir please do videos in English as videos will reach more Aspirants.I am also an Aspirant just gave my first attempt now and waiting for results.

  • @SujeetKumar-sj6ip
    @SujeetKumar-sj6ip 3 дні тому

    thanks

  • @richasharmasharma1210
    @richasharmasharma1210 2 дні тому +1

    Sir how can I get a guidance of your

  • @couragecowardly3741
    @couragecowardly3741 2 дні тому

    Sir , What is difference between
    INDIAN EXPRESS ---UPSC SPECIAL Subscription
    &
    Indian Express All Access Only
    Subscription of Newsportal ?

  • @abhayjha2390
    @abhayjha2390 3 дні тому +2

    I know already

  • @r...3549
    @r...3549 3 дні тому +1

    Love from Bihar 🫶❣️

  • @ankurpurkait5521
    @ankurpurkait5521 3 дні тому +3

    what is the actual reason for not selection?

  • @directedbyRudy
    @directedbyRudy 2 дні тому

    hey abhijeet i just got into 1st year and my attempt is in 2027 i joined ksg coaching still things are not clear is there any map to follow

  • @savvysimi
    @savvysimi 2 дні тому

    I can relate to you

  • @adityachandrasekharan1356
    @adityachandrasekharan1356 2 дні тому

    Does the general category have 3 or 6 attempts? When I search in google, it shows 6 attempts but most people I've heard from say 3

  • @ummehabiba8677
    @ummehabiba8677 2 дні тому +2

    What is the significance of the most valued article (21) of the constitution when the petitionor is not getting justice at right time..this shows that fundamental rights are mostly in document and in reality of very less use

  • @debarghamandal3018
    @debarghamandal3018 2 дні тому

    I am pursuing b.pharm from normal college still preparing for upsc with gut in a hope of working in narcotics vigilance, if not cleared will fly Europe to pursue career in pharmacovigilance💯

  • @NakaashThoshith
    @NakaashThoshith 16 годин тому

    Sir I am facing the same problem.. Is salary of Group C state government employee is considered as income for Non-Creamy layer.. Please address my issue sir..

  • @Basma_ILyas_Raees.
    @Basma_ILyas_Raees. 2 дні тому

    THANK YOU FOR NOT GIVING UP♥

  • @parvinbegumaaraa2289
    @parvinbegumaaraa2289 2 дні тому

    Sir please provide english subtitle

  • @AnilKumar-rd3bs
    @AnilKumar-rd3bs 3 дні тому +2

    I knw ur story 2.0

  • @IasKhushal
    @IasKhushal 2 дні тому

    Sir aap shashank sajwan sir k bhai ho... ❤

  • @statebankindia2245
    @statebankindia2245 3 дні тому +1

    Me think , what police would do , if they get to know about my crimes. Mau be i should abscond. Or become a fugitive

  • @utfchvouhvhgvjhgv
    @utfchvouhvhgvjhgv 2 дні тому +1

    Kyun nahi mili thi service?

  • @Learntamilwithme
    @Learntamilwithme 23 години тому +1

    😮Sir I highly recommend to speak mostly in English as this will reach more aspirants.I hope you will do in future videos sir🙏 Kindly reply Sir

  • @Trividhsingh07
    @Trividhsingh07 9 годин тому

    Sir I couldn’t clear pt I worked hard😣

  • @Ar_hat
    @Ar_hat 3 дні тому +1

    I am following you since past 3 year but now in delhi can't find upscprep office

  • @kuldeep__singh2
    @kuldeep__singh2 День тому

    Why did u drop out from iim c and fms ?

  • @sonalisingh9617
    @sonalisingh9617 2 дні тому +1

    Hello sir ,I am sonali singh ,i am also upsc aspirant and I give my3rd attempt in this year. ,last 2attempt not clear prelims and in this attempt result is not coming out ,and I am not sure about of clearing prelims or not ,paper are going good but I don't know🤷 what happened ,if I clear prelims ,can you and your team guide me for mains, because I have no personal guidence initially ,I think that's what I am not selected ,but I have one problem again I am not effort fee in present time ,if you have any policy of mentor scholarship please contact with me 🙂😌

    • @beast.motivation776
      @beast.motivation776 День тому

      Just start to find mentors ...online and start again with dedication...do well in answering...

  • @jananielango
    @jananielango 3 дні тому

    Eng subtitles pls😢

  • @kratisrivastava3336
    @kratisrivastava3336 2 дні тому

    Hello sir? Is it possible to get direct in contact. This was my last attempt and after checking my marks I am going through a deep dark place not knowing what to do next

    • @kratisrivastava3336
      @kratisrivastava3336 2 дні тому

      I thought I was the only one going through this phase but more I realise it may be story of 99% of the candidates more sad it gets, indeed to keep going when going through hell is the hardest. Really wish to be able to speak to you sir as none of my friends or family can get what it feels like and I don't know what else to do, you page is really source of motivation, inspiration, authenticity. Absolutely ! Hope you can help 🙏 Regards

    • @pessimist6366
      @pessimist6366 17 годин тому

      ​@@kratisrivastava3336Best of luck for your life ahead buddy! UPSC or no UPSC, life must go on!

  • @user-dostiBaniRaheBus
    @user-dostiBaniRaheBus 3 дні тому

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @donatellameenee9895
    @donatellameenee9895 18 годин тому

    Sir qualify hone pe bhi kyun nhi hua selection? Aisa kyun hua

  • @besan_ka_halwa
    @besan_ka_halwa 2 дні тому

    but still mujhe samaj ni aaya, rank ke baad service kyu ni mila? koi please samajha sakta kya

  • @akashbrahma1290
    @akashbrahma1290 День тому

    Sir aapne UPSC se consult nahi kia

  • @Ankit0505.
    @Ankit0505. 3 дні тому +3

    detail story bataiye sir ,, kuch samajh nahi aaya itne short mai

  • @ShrishtiMeena-qm7vw
    @ShrishtiMeena-qm7vw 2 дні тому

    still not telling what actually happened

  • @mdshahbaj31398
    @mdshahbaj31398 День тому

    I can't understand the reason sir

  • @Abcd-vd8eb
    @Abcd-vd8eb 2 дні тому

    🥹

  • @datulkumar1081
    @datulkumar1081 2 дні тому

    Apke sath father thee hamare sath to father ka death hogya,,support hi cutgyi