Can a man love two women?
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Wanting a man to yourself isn't being jealous; it's being territorial. Jealousy is wanting something that isn't yours, being territorial is protecting what is.
Don't you Ever in your life talk to a man who is talking to other women..... As soon as you hear him talking to other women PACK your bags and leave.... You hear Me, I hear you, Tony
There ain't gonna b no bags to pack cos if we ain't married we ain't gonna b living in the same house and if we is married...he gon do the packing and leaving ....point blank period !
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“DON’T EVER ENTERTAIN A MAN WHOSE ENTERTAINING OTHER WOMEN”- TONY GASKINS ( POINT BLANK PERIOOOOD)!
Lol🤣🤣🤣🤣🤩
You are absolutely right
I’m glad I watched this video, I’m hurting by my husbands unfaithfulness. He’s cheating and still cheating. I can’t believe I Ioved him even when he takes off his wedding ring each time he’s cheating on me.😭😭😭😭
Don’t you ever compete with another woman! Say that Tony! Thank You & be blessed!
Sis they do compare with another. I dont like that at all....
If a man loves you rather you his girl friend, fiance or wife. Another woman shouldn't be an option. Don't entertain he selfish behavior. Love yourself. BE BLESSED 🙏🙏🙏
Ever heard of a Narcissist?! These sad, sorry creatures really think that they can afford 2 women. SMH!!
@Geneva Sanders Not "shouldn't be an option," COULDN'T BE!!!
I will NOT compete with any woman over a man PERIOD💯
Love Jones POINT BLANK PERIOOOOOOD‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
Tish Cody 😂Lmbo... yes my love we are too worthy of the BEST💯 no need to compete when we’re confident in who we are.❤️
Exactly!
EXACTLY!!
NEVER Especially when you realize YOU'RE the prize and that you have other options
Some people do not know the definition of love and will confuse it with lust.
True
Agreed
Exactly! So much so they spell it wrong..i.e LUV!!
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People literally use “love” and “sex” interchangeably in songs and poems and literature, then people wonder why they’re confused Lol
This man is the prime example of a man who is worth waiting for. We have to continue to wait in faith knowing that this type of Love is the real deal. Thanks Tony.
Agreed
Truth!!!
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Str8 truth good men out here
Tony did not get like this overnight, it was a process. As women we need to ask ourselves if we would be willing to take a mediocre man and mold him into a great man. Cuz it takes work to reach to the level Tony is at
It's sex and a soul tie that makes a man thinks he is in love with two women. He don't love either one of them.
True!
Soulties are real
If you're man truly love you it will be only you 💞
Honey Latte ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
Perioooddddd!!
Liken to, can a man serve two Master's? No, he will love one and hate the other. ✌🏾
Teasha Stewart ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
Good point!
Tony, I think this has been your best video yet! Everything you said is the absolute truth. This is exactly why I am divorced today. My ex put everyone before me, he even let his brothers disrespect me. That is when I knew that he did not love me. Ladies listen to Tony he is dropping some jewels. Be Blessed!!!
Same reason I'm divorced. 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
@@Beautifullybyg It's hard out here, but I believe that God is with us no matter what! Be Blessed!
This is exactly why I am getting divorce. It took the Holy Spirit to slap me upside my head. Now he wants me back, NO THANK YOU!!!
Yes mam... my ex did me the exact same way... never understood why he did that
@@Beautifullybyg same thing
33:35
“I will die for my wife..
now for another woman..?
Jesus died for you”😂😂😂
Let the church say Amen. 😂
I hollered😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂
Newday 2C yea for 21 years I’ve heard I die for you, now I guess he would die for a gf half his age 😏🤦🏻♀️🤷♀️🤣
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@@anyap3154 wow🥲
Raised with three brothers; getting more knowledge from this messages Tony will never know how much he is helping me. Ordering my book can’t wait what wife says. Be blessed
If he doing it to her he will do it to you...period
Amen
39:12 💀😂😂 I’m laughing but in all honesty it’s sad. We’ve gotta do better and raise our standards. Everyone’s situation is different... My last relationship and dealings w that person was NOT a smart decision on my part. I won’t sit up here and throw him under the bus because I chose to deal w him... but he “forgets” he WILL be held accountable even if he chooses not to be. Continues to live his life disregarding God and what’s right. But that situation taught me what I DO NOT want... and made me focus on loving and taking care of myself more. LOVE IS What love does. Love is not neglectful and careless either. Single until my heart gets what it deserves.
Thank you Tony🙏🏽
DAM!!! LOOKING BACK HOW STUPID I WAS AND JUST SMDH!! THIS CAN'T REACH ME AGAIN LESSONS LEARNED
Stings 2kno I was dum
I'm aware I'll do bettr
Same here I was looking so stupid
Choose me or lose me!!!
Father your daughter's in trouble please help her🤣🤣🤣
Tony.....you said a MOUTHFUL!!! Any man who has the audacity to feel as if a good woman is expendable because they’ve been dealing with women who accept less than their worth....is NOT WORTH IT!!! A man who truly loves a woman WILL NOT!!! Walk away ladies. Know your worth!!!
Takesha Feagin Agreed-You definitely have to be able to walk away.
Marisha Lewis FACTS!!! Being comfortable with your decision is growth. No matter how much you like a person. You HAVE to like yourself more.
I am glad you brought up levels to this thing. The Bible made these things clear. I pray people seek enlightenment. Don't let a man water a lawn where he does not care for. So on the phone call each woman is telling the other what each one needs to hear. Treating women liked rotated tires.
Love that comment "joining the mental health movement" Tony. I'm stealing 💛👌.
The message is something I have needed to hear. I ended a relationship that was exactly what Tony is talking about. I feel at peace and know my worth! Moving forward with the rest of my life. Happy, single and blessed. So ladies know your worth and move on down the road if your man wants two women. That doesn’t make any sense and is completely unacceptable. So don’t accept it. Any man that doesn’t want just you isn’t worthy of you, your time, most importantly your love and affections.
I found out last summer while I was pregnant with my son that my ex is in a relationship with his ex, with who he has a daughter with. He left me while finding out we weer expecting. I didnt about her, because otherwise I would leave him . He wouldnt let me go and hid my pregnancy from everybody in his family. When his ex now girlfriend heard about it. She went along with him and is now expecting a baby herself. Our children are 4 monts apart. Also I just recently found out they were already together when we were in a relationship taking holidays etc.
For me I am very angry, but I need to heal and be happy for my kids. I will never tolerante this narcissist again.
I'm so sorry sweety. May God heal you. 💛
Cathy be strong, keep pressing your way, and let that man go. Day by day it will get easier.
@@nontobekomncwabe4976 thank you, I will stay close to God. Becaus He will never leave me
@@koastalpeach4535 I hope it will❤ thank you
KoastalPeach pleas right let him go.
2 FRIES SHORT OF A HAPPY MEAL !! I CANT WITH TONY GASKINS!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
“Breaking news” 😂😂😂😂
Tony, thank you! All facts!
Patrice Jones me too! I appreciate Tony so much. So much truth with great delivery.
God bless you Tony! I appreciate hearing the beautiful truth on this beautiful morning!🙏🏻💛✨✨✨
Am I the only one in tears laughing?!??? He said, “the truck clipped you on the side!” I’m at work dying!!! 😂😂😂
Mishalay Girl, I’m over here in tears. 😂😂🤣
On the floor.
Naw, I am on the floor laughing at " You will b carried by 6" never heard it put in that terminology. 😊
On the left side! 🤣
No, I am laughing but its all true
Tony thanks for all that you do. I was dating a guy that I found out wasn't truthful with me from the get go. When he knew I was in love with him,he thought he had me, it's because of watching your videos and the fact that he realized he couldn't play me for a fool anymore that he knew I was hip to his games. Some men will play you like a fiddle. If a woman doesn't know the game, it's like she's swimming with sharks.
Tony said 😂🤣🤣🤣 saved, sanctified, and Holy Ghost filled I got to sit the the Holy Ghost down for a min and Lord I’ll be right back. I got to sit him down for a sec & pick the Holy Ghost back up 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
I will be feeling like that sometimes. 😆😆
Miss J I do too, so I know what you mean. It’s certain things that can take you there.
Its real😂😂😂
That's the best thing I heard in life
I love how you can deliver a message and make us all laugh at the same time! I tell you what, you never lie! I was listening to a conversation about how this man deals with nothing, but educated women. The man is married and the women that he sleeps with knows it. So, I was 🤔 and said,” What’s wrong with the educated women you sleep with? Are they not smart enough to know that they are just your garden tool?” I offended him by what I said🙄 Anyway, thank you and be blessed!
I could have watched this for 2 hours! This is the BEST video you have ever done and that's saying a lot! I love how down to earth you are and how you tell it like it is, but it's your delivery that separates you from anyone else. I don't know if you intend for your videos to be funny, but the message is that much more impactful because your delivery is hilarious. I mean tears running down my face hilarious. I watch every video from beginning to end and they just keep getting better and better. Ladies, this man makes thousands of dollars for the knowledge he is dropping on us for FREE. Recognize and appreciate this public service.
Breaking news 😂😂😂😂 I’m over here dying. Thank youuuuuu Tony from Los Angeles. You done hit me straight between the eyes! I’m binge watching all your videos. Thanks for helping a sistah
He's so insightful and funny at the same time 😂😂😂
I had a guy tell me he was in love with me while entertaining another woman. I figured a man couldn't love two women at the same time because if he loved either one, there would be no room for three! Well said Tony, When a man truly loves you, he wont hurt you intentionally. 🙌🏽
Entertaining them in what way?
That requires maturity, self control, self discipline. When a man cheats it has nothing to do with his wife, or dificiencys in his relationship at home. He is damaged from the environment he was raised in or what he saw or sees his peers do. It is not to excuse this behavior at all. He is not grounded and he has to grow up or keep it moving.
A real man who knows the importance of being a real man will not stray , because his knows deep within his roll of protecting and being in love means .
Tony has explained it perfectly.
God bless you Tony
That was a beautiful way in which you Tony explained the difference between love and in love. "I would give my life but not take a life."
I should not be laughing as much as I am watching this. You are a comedian low key. 😭😂😂 Great advice as always!
Sooo many gems and truth in this video! Thanks 🙏🏾
I just love Tony.. he so point blank and thee periot.He said you need to join a mental health movement.. you NEED therapy.. you are lost. 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Having been isolated most of my life for various reasons, your videos are gold to me. Thank you Tony.
Lawd after this I need about four hugs 😐
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Nikky Shamz Thank you Babe
@@nikkyshamz2696you are so pretty girl, your makeup is on fleek 😍😍😍
*dooo doo doo do do* BREAKING NEWS!! “he does not love you” yoooooooo 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😫😫😫
Breaking news Cortana virus is real
Cynthia Bailey needs to watch this video. This might bless her.
I love the fact that you're a man that walk in the light of God's love, faith, and righteousness! Only under the light of the Word of God we can see clearly what is the truth about healthy relationships. I praise the Lord for you, wife, and children! Thank you very much for sharing your advise with us because is light to continue growing and seeking to live a life with the right values, integrity, and purity. May the Lord continue blessing your life brother! I 😇👏👏👏🤩🤩🙏🙏🙏👍👍
👀🍿 Straight up LMN movie! The women arguing about him. It's a TG, Grant Hill, Boris Kodjoe, Denzel, Russell Wilson, Russell Westbrook, Lance Gross, John Legend, Papoose etc, etc out here for y'all ladies! Don't be a side dish sis be the main course! Be blessed! 💫
I love what you just said " Be the main Dish ". Made me just want to shout 😂. Yes , I want to be the main dish !!! I'm turning off right now feeling good .🌹. Thanks for sharing :)
@@candidaherron6130 okay! Welcome Queen! I know that's right! The main & only! Have a great weekend! 🙏🏾🥰
In other words the answer to if a man can love two women is No bc he is only concerned with trying to fill the gaps/voids within himself - not giving any care or concern (nice words) abt anyone's feelings/needs but his own.
This is a good lesson that you’re teaching. You made this plain and simple. If nobody understood this meat...they’re just a slapped fool. This knowledge comes from God.
Listen… I am so glad Tony is available to be used as a vessel to correct the daughters of God. Lord knows we need it🤦🏾♀️
My weekly dose of Tony!!! “When you are in love, it takes up the entire heart.” Teach Tony Teach!
He loves you like he loves his favorite pair of socks, If he is sleeping with another woman.. Tony speaks the truth on that one!
You hearrr meee😂 love it..keep em coming!
Preach Tony,I hope women are listening to this advice. So many women are selling their self short over a man. God be with us.
Tonnnnyyyyyyy preachhhhhhhhhh you HEAR 👂 ME😂
You always speak the truth! Very much needed thank you!!
Alright now Tony! Say it Say it Say it!
Tony, these men have to LOVE THEMELVES FIRST before they can love any woman.
Wow! Tony I needed to hear this year's ago. I will never play the fool again. I think God for you and thanks for sharing your video's with the world.
My 51 year old friend told me, patient's is a waiting man game. If he want u, he will wait until he get's you. You're always on point, thanks for your wisdom. God bless u and your family.
Stay! Humble !! Like you are!! Keep on track with God Mr. Gaskins ..Stay in prayer👋..coming from a woman that love god!! Remember to give god the time he has given..you" Tony stay 7 Step in front of thee enemy!! Thank You".. doing a Great! Work💼📖.
Be Blessed👑
I found out my man has been cheating on me . I kicked him out so he went to live with her it’s been 2 weeks .my spirt is done with him . Something inside is making me wait. After hearing this . I’m so good I put 8yrs of nothing . Iam NOT going back thank you so much tony I felt like you was speaking to me .
Lol, I hear you Tony! Every man should hear this not just women! If two women know about each other and that one man, they will continue to wonder why they can’t be a Queen to a worthy man. Women need to stop lowering their standards and be Demeanored by men that mean them no good. It’s not that much love in the world to be going through all the drama and heartache and stress! Life’s too short as I’ve said before, I would preferred to love and take care of me first! Keep up the good work. 🙏🏽❤️
Tony you are anointed in the blood I swear your message touches me so much! Thank you!
Every time I think I have seen the best video you've made, You TOP it with another one. I don't understand why "Women" get angry with you, when you are imparting such valuable information. I think we as women just don't want to admit that we can love a man that Much and we can be that desperate, lonely and afraid to be alone that we allow a man to treat us so badly. Sometimes we actually make him our God and love him more than we love God, we might not say it out of our mouths but we Show it with our actions. If we love a man more than God, we definitely don't love ourselves. I have been there!!! Told myself, I was staying for the children, I was afraid to try and raise them alone, I was already doing it anyway!!! DUH!!😂 I was in 10th grade when I met him, according to Me I'd met the man of my dreams, met at a relatives high school graduation party, and he was trying to holler at me and another girl he was dating was at the party too. Two and a half years later, which was 6 months after I graduated high school, we were married,..AND THERE WAS NO SEX UNTIL WE WERE MARRIED,SMH. I WASN'T having it, but I can only speak for myself. There was so Much turmoil in the marriage, I wouldn't have a book if I wrote it all down. When I met him as a teenager, I was already broken, dysfunction was all around me, being so young I didn't realize that I was jumping out of the frying pan and into the Fire. It's been decades ago and sometimes I am STILL angry. I use to think I was just mad with him, but I have come to realize since listening to you Mr. Gaskins, that my ex was doing what men do, and I've been hurting for so long because I am mad at ME. I DIDN'T KNOW MY WORTH. I HAVE LEARNED THAT WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US BY HOW WE "ALLOW" THEM TO TO TREAT YOU. 😉😊... Thanks for the platform Tony and for telling some of us things we don't know, and for some the things we already know and don't want to because the truth can hurt. BE AND STAY BLESSED. 😊🙏
Thanks for the honest truth. God bless you. Gratitude.
Thank you Tony. Your information is so helpful. 🙏🏽💕❤
choosing a man who willingly and openly cheat, is like having a choice between a million dollar house and a $500 dollar apartment. There is a set of peace and luxury, minus drama, minus stress that comes with feeling your number one....💞💙💚💛❤
Thankyou Tony!...This was a great one!💣
Once again you always keeping it 💯!!! And whew chile there's some upset, mad straight up angry about this!! And they two fries short of a happy meal 😂🤣😂🤣 I tell you I'm going to have to leave these videos for the car bcz I sound slap crazy laughing like there's no end. You be blessed Tony Gaskins. This was so on point. Yes sir..
Rhonda TB Yes, he does keep real & giving us all the game.
You are REAL In everything you speak ON! GOD BLESS YOU Mr. Gaskins.
Sadly, my spouse saw me fall in a room full of people, he didn't come to me, or even asked me if I was hurt. We were at his brother's wedding, we were both part of the wedding party. My story is too long to go into, but I'm soooooo showing him how well I am. I'm the one not showing concern, or anything else towards him. I waited for the right time and filed for divorce. I'm doing fine, and he's paying the full bill (s).
I was ticked off to say the least. It's like I was actually going through hell with him, and she was talking about me doing what I needed to do to keep him so to speak. People need to really think before they speak. This guy was one of the worst things that could ever happen to me.
I love love this video... so much facts in here 💎💎💎I was laughing so hard the ppl around me turn their heads and stared......🤣🤣🤣
You are right it’s a different ❤️For different People
Yess tony thank you for this message ❤️🎁💯
I am lovin' these videos! So healing! I am getting ready for REAL Love! Thank you, Tony!!
That's crazy I'm not dealing with a man cheating on me. No way!!!!
When a man is in love with you will he have his wife’s back over even his momma????
There you go Tony Gaskins, go ahead and tell it like it is men will touch you. Even like you said they touching there family members. So true. Be encouraged Tony Gaskins and God bless you and continue to give you the grace and strength to speak for God.
When you find out you're the 2nd woman and that it's ok for you to walk away so he doesn't get caught by the other woman, its pain unimaginable.
Been there. Must agree that pain is excruciating.
Been there.. so I told her everything before walking away.
Genuine Love is a choice ❤️ because your significant other will have flaws / imperfections and u still remain in that relationship and be the best man and woman.
U both can be walking and people may say how comes, why, what happened etc that made u to choose that individual . Guess what it was your choice
Great video my brother, I was dating a man in America for 3 years and in January he told me he move in with a new lady. am in the uk, I was here in the uk planning a wedding and for us to be together. I feel cheated and abandoned but I will be ok... I feel like a fool ... thank you very much you video help me a lot ... please keep them coming 😇🙏
⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️ Breaking news: He does NOT love you.⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️
Time for some self love and real love. Real men exist.
Cheaters don't know what real love means. They are satisfied operating in drama. This is all they know and will go to their grave as such.
I’m Crying you are so right when you have a Genuine ❤️
A BLESSING TO LISTEN TO THIS!!!
Talk about it Mr. Gaskin
To thine oneself be true... Mr. Gaskins. This right here was the SHIFT I needed to propel me to my next level. This is, I agree, the best word video I have listened to. Thank you.
Thank you for the insight
Tony I love the words God have given you. The ladies need to hear and recieve. Thank you
Thank you. U helped me today a lot to get back in the right mind set after dating a great man for 5 months... reliable, pursuing me, night and day, driving 100 km to see me or eat lunch...now it turnes out he is married with 2 kids. He loves none of us...not even himself
Hes going to be swimming in something other then water 😂😂🤣
Can you please comment on this behaviour: at home the man seems to be perfect dad, perfect husband, yet outside he flirts and cheats. I really cannot understand this, yet I see a lot of such cases, that truly disgust me.
Duplicity attitude.
I love that you always say the truthful thing, Tony!!! Thank you for everything you do and for changing women's lives!!! Where have you been 10 yesrs ago..lol☺️ God bless you and you loved ones💗💞
Many years ago he, myself, and the other lady went out Valentine's day.
However, he was sick as a dog the whole time because instead of bickering, I got along with her, we exchanged information about his doggish ways and lies, then I changed my number and never saw him or her again.
I got a free meal, and all the information I needed to walk away and not ever look back.
TG keeps it so real
Preach it Tony Gaskins ! ! !
Tony Gaskins all facts,but mannnnn the way u break stuff down have me hollering. Smh men are something else.
Aman Brother, You Preaching ...
This video hit home! Tony stated: Don’t ever in your life talk to a man who is talking to other women. Tony stated, put your track shoes on and run 🏃♀️ for your life! I had to watch this three times... especially at the end.. he was addressing the man, who entertains multiple women, the Sorry No good 😐 Man.
May the Lord protect and bless you my bro!🙏🏾
Wowwwww. Some diamont truth. Thank you, Tony 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤
Thank you for words of wisdom. I will not be second to no woman. Ibwould whether be alone ,sad erc. with God on my side than with a man that thinks he can love two women. He don't love himself. Be Blessed Tony Gaskins.
This was powerful and funny. Blessings to you Tony!!
🤣🤣🤣 I love your blatant honesty and explanations !